For years and years and years and years, people have said, “once a cheater, always a cheater“, and yet it’s a lesson women still haven’t seemed to learn.
This is not about gurges or having some personal issues, but it is about the fact that this is like an addiction that takes a long time and a hard effort to get rid of. This all depends if the cheater trying not to cheat anymore.
A study by the Institute of Family Studies shows that 44% of their samples have sex other than their partners during their present relationship. Many more such studies show that people show a tendency to cheat if the chances of getting caught reduce. With data supporting that our society is in that dilemma that they cheat with the confidence that they never get caught, it is quite difficult to get along with a healthy relationship.
There are several questions you might ask yourself:
- Why Cheaters Never Change?
- Why You Must Never Be With A Cheater?
- Reasons Why Cheaters Are Damage Beyond Repair?
This guide might save you from a toxic cheater because we will explain what it is to be with a cheater and how they behave.
Why Cheaters Never Change?
I have a male friend who is the perfect example. He’s a great friend but a horrible boyfriend, which is why I would never date him in a million years.
Just after I first met him, he started dating a beautiful blonde. She looked like a real-life barbie doll. She was sweet as could be. Within the first month of their relationship, he cheated on her with a stripper. Why? Did she do something wrong? No, of course not. He cheated on her because he could, and that was just who he was.
A year into their relationship, he meets a girl at work and leaves the pretty blonde for the new girl. They get serious, or so she thought. A year later, he meets someone new – again while he’s still with the previous girlfriend. So he leaves the girl he met at work for this new girl.
This new girl is a few years older than him, but as he put it, she’s so mature. She was a waitress at a strip club. That relationship didn’t work out because one night, while at a sports bar, he met a bartender who was half his age.
Guess what happened? He cheated on her too. He cheated on her just a week into their relationship.
This story isn’t unusual. That’s the thing about guys who are cheaters. Cheaters always cheat. That’s a part of who they are.
Why You Must Never Be With A Cheater?
It’s not about you or even your relationship – it’s just who they are. A leopard can’t change his spots. He is what he is and a cheater is what he is – a cheater.
My grandmother used to say, “If a cheat says he won’t cheat on you, what he means is, next time, he’ll work harder so you won’t catch him doing it.”
So before you get to caught up in dating a guy, ask yourself this … are you dating a cheater?
If a guy has cheated before he met you, he’s going to cheat after you.
Once a cheater, always a cheater!
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So do yourself a favor – don’t get serious about a guy who will only break your heart. They aren’t easy to find, but there are guys out there who don’t have this personality flaw. Hold out until you find him. He’s out there … waiting for you. Don’t give up until you find him.
For some reason, women tend to think that a man will change for them because they are really in love and that all the times before now were just because he wasn’t with the right woman (you). It’s this weird delusion all women have about the men in our lives.
There is something fundamentally wrong with the kind of man who cheats. He’s damaged beyond repair. No matter what you think, you can’t fix him. Even if he loves you with all of his heart, he will still cheat on you. Why? Because somewhere along the way, he learned something that just isn’t right about love and relationships.
Reasons Why Cheaters Are Damage Beyond Repair?
Cheating is the most hurtful and disrespectful thing you could do to someone you claim to love. Yet the kind of guy who cheats will do it repeatedly. You aren’t ever going to change him. It’s just the kind of guy that he is.
Cheating is a choice, it’s not something you “accidentally” do. You make a conscious decision to cheat, and nothing you can ever do will change the person who does it. All the relationship counseling in the world won’t change him, either. It’s not that he doesn’t love you or want to spend the rest of his life with you – he may very well see you as his dream girl.
But a cheater will still cheat on you.
It isn’t your fault. There is nothing you did that will make him cheat or stay faithful. It’s not about you or even your relationship, it’s about him.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Don’t Settle For A Cheater When You Can Have The Prince Of Your Dreams
Most of the people that I have been with and what they experienced with cheaters is nothing but suffering. Sufferings for love, care, and emotions that you desire from your relationship. As mentioned and discussed above, you cannot change some things that take years to embed in someone’s soul. Cheating is a choice, not an accident because accidents don’t happen occasionally.
If you are sacrificing your whole life with a cheating creep by accepting it as your faith, then you are destroying a heck of your life for something that you will regret for the rest of your life. Life might have better options for you, you can find the man of your dream who loves and care for you more than anything in the world.
Accepting that sin as your faith is not what you desire for yourself, so get rid of them and get going with your life, and you will certainly find something that you love.