How to catch a cheating husband

How to catch a cheating husband #infidelity

Cheating is something that most of us have experienced.  The sad truth is, sometimes men cheat. Not all men cheat, but it does happen. It’s a painful experience, especially when you’re married. It can do more damage on different levels because you have a family that can be torn apart. If you suspect your husband is cheating on you, but you don’t know for sure then, check out these five tips to help catch him.

How to catch a cheating husband? Follow these steps ….

Following him:

 
   

Literally, hop in your car and follow him! I know this sounds a bit crazy and stalkerish, but it’s one great way to find out where he is spending the most time. He may say he’s at work 9-5 or that he has to pick up some extra shifts, but you’ll never know until you see for yourself.

Maybe, he’s with another woman but claims he has some business outside of time when in reality, he’s with his mistress. You will see what he does basis, daily and you will notice little different things like where he spends his time most and the people he is around the most.

Also, any new faces you have never seen or heard of before. Following him will give you peace of mind, and you will determine if you can trust him or not based on where he is at and how long he is there.

Looking through his personal belongings:

There will be a day when you will go through his stuff. This means his clothing to see if there’s another woman’s perfume on there. His car to see any used condoms laying around in the front or back seat. His bank account to see where he has been spending the most money and where he has been lately, like a hotel or Airbnb, for a few days to a week.

This is a vital part of your job to catch him cheating on you because this will help you track him down, and you can find out if he has a secret bank account by looking through his bank files. This may come off as an invasion of privacy, but it is necessary to do this. You will see everything with your own eyes, and you can put the pieces together.

Questioning his actions:

Ask a million questions, do not be afraid or let him gaslight you to think you’re the problem or you’re insecure. If you have valid reasons to be suspicious and you have a gut feeling about him cheating, then do not go against your own intuition. Instead, follow it and see where it leads you to. The way to catch him in a lie by questioning his actions is to ask him the same question you did last week.

For example, you can say, why did you come home so late tonight? And he replied he was to work extra shifts. But then you ask the same question a week later, and he gives a different response, then he is hiding something from you, and you need to continue to question him little by little to add these pieces to the puzzle. The only key here to do this right is to catch him off guard relaxing, then you slowly lead to the question, and all you have to do is pretend like you didn’t remember what was his last excuse in order to catch him. This is a sign of sneakiness, and you have to investigate this like you’re a detective without coming off like you’re trying to find something out. You have to ask minor questions like the example I gave to add to the puzzle, to catch him in lies, and to not come off too strongly, or else it will be too obvious.

His looks:

Has your husband started to wear cologne more often? Has he started to dress better than usual, and this excludes special occasions? Your husband is not looking nice for you. He is doing this to attract other women in his life.

I am not saying he has to dress down, but if he is dressing more flashy or better than usual to go buy a gallon of milk, then this is something to keep in mind. And why is he wearing cologne more often than usual, even on days you two are not going out or when he has to go to work. There is nothing wrong with your husband wanting to look good, but there is a fine line between looking presentable and looking overly dressed to go to the store or somewhere basic. Just keep an eye on this minor but crucial detail to determine whether or not if he is cheating on you.

Paying attention to how he treats you and how he touches you:

Has he been more distant lately and more cold towards you? This can be a clear sign that he is seeing someone else. If you’re used to your husband treating you more romantically, and lately he hasn’t, or maybe he’s been more distant from you, pulling away every time you want comfort, sex, or attention. Then he is definitely seeing someone else. He may only speak to this individual or is already intimate with this person. Is your husband taking private calls? Deleting his text and browser history? Or how about having multiple social media accounts and email?

These are all signs that add to the big picture that your husband is cheating on you. He has all of this private information from you so he can entertain the other woman. Not only this but if your husband hasn’t been very sexual with you lately or sweet to you, then this definitely means he is seeing someone else. As a woman, you know if your man is acting differently towards you. He might become easily frustrated with you, withdraw from sex, not spent that much time with you anymore, or he doesn’t speak to you as much anymore. Please know that these are clear signs he is hiding something from you, and it’s a clear indicator of cheating.

Do all men cheat? No. But infidelity is widespread.  It can affect your mental and physical health Current studies of American couples indicate that 20 to 40% of heterosexual married men and 20 to 25% of heterosexual married women will also have an extramarital affair during their lifetime.

According to experts, one of the most common causes of infidelity is a sense of emotional disconnection from your partner. Research suggests that around one-third of men and one-quarter of women might get involved in extradyadic sexual relationships at the minimum once in their lifetime. Another scientific study says that 70% of all Americans get involved in some kind of affair during their marital life.

In the end, if you find out your husband is cheating, then you can always report him on our men suck list of bad boyfriends!

How to catch a cheating husband #infidelity

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