Cheating is something that most of us have experienced. The sad truth is sometimes men cheat. Not all men cheat, but it does happen. It’s a painful experience, especially when you’re married. It can do more damage on different levels because you have a family that can be torn apart. If you suspect your husband is cheating on you, but you don’t know for sure, then check out these five tips to help catch him.
How to catch a cheating husband? Follow these steps ….
#1 Follow him:
And yes, I mean literally, hop in your car and follow him! I know this sounds a bit crazy and stalkerish, but it’s one great way to find out where he spends his time. He may say he’s at work or the gym, but the only way to know for sure is to see for yourself.
Some have suggested that if you are an iPhone user, you secretly stash an apple Airtag on him or maybe in his car. But remember that their Airtag has a limited range if you want precision tracking.
I’ve never personally done this, but a few women have reported doing this method with great success.
An Apple AirTag is a tiny tracking device that you can put somewhere discretely. What makes the AirTag a nice option is that it’s affordable. You can pair it with your iPhone, and the tag itself only costs you about $30. You can get it from the apple store or Amazon.
The AirTag can post its location to your Find My app through nearby iPhones. The AirTag sends out a Bluetooth signal that’s captured by any nearby IOS device that happens to be within range, and then that location is reported to you through the Find My app on your phone. This happens all without anyone knowing that it happened. If he isn’t near his phone, set the AirTag to lost mode, and it will send you notifications when it gets updated with a location.
#2 Looking through his personal belongings:
It can be as simple as checking out his clothing before doing laundry to see if there’s another woman’s perfume on there or actually going through his car to see if there are any condom wrappers lying around.
If you have separate bank accounts, you can check out his transactions to see where he’s spending his money. If you start seeing charges for hotels or Airbnb, you know you have a problem.
#3 Question Him:
I have never known this method to work because why would a cheater be honest about his behavior? But some experts suggest that the straightforward method is the way to go.
If you do decide this is the method for you then ask a million questions, do not be afraid or let him gaslight you to think you’re the problem or you’re insecure. If you have valid reasons to be suspicious and you have a gut feeling about him cheating, then do not go against your own intuition.
#4 How does he look?
The next thing isn’t as much something you have to do as something you should pay attention to, which is his looks. Has he started to wear cologne more often? Has he started to dress better than usual? Does he suddenly start to care about what underwear he wears? Men cheating will often dress to impress their mistress.
#5 Paying attention to how he treats you and how he touches you:
Next, I want you to pay attention to how he treats you and even how he touches you. Has he been more distant lately? While this isn’t a gotcha moment, it can be a sign that something is wrong and he might be seeing someone else. If he goes from being romantic to super distant, then you have to ask yourself, why?
On the other side of the scale, if he suddenly starts bringing home flowers or jewelry when he hasn’t been known to do that in the past, that could be the sign that he has a guilty conscience. If a person suddenly changes their consistent pattern of behavior, from one way or another, you need to find out why.
It’s never fun to think that the person you care about might be cheating, but if you don’t find out for sure one way or another, those negative feelings will fester and end up causing even more problems in your relationship.
In a perfect world, you’d just be able to ask a guy, hey are you cheating on me? And he would tell you the truth, but we all know that just isn’t how it works.
Do all men cheat? No. But there are studies that suggest that up to 40% of men cheat on their spouses, and the most common reason is a sense of emotional disconnection.
According to experts, one of the most common causes of infidelity is a sense of emotional disconnection from your partner. Research suggests that around one-third of men and one-quarter of women might get involved in extradyadic sexual relationships at the minimum once in their lifetime. Another scientific study says that 70% of all Americans get involved in some kind of affair during their marital life.
If you find out your significant other isn’t cheating, that’s great news.
But you had that feeling in the first place, so that means there is something in your relationship you need to work on; so if you find out he’s been faithful, you need to step up and try and fix what is making you feel that way in the first place.
In the end, if you find out your man is cheating on you, then you can always add him to our bad boyfriend database!