Okay girls, today we are going to talk about something not so fun …. your ex-boyfriend. I know. Who wants to talk about the douche bag, right? Well, here in lies the problem. See … some girls can’t stop talking about their ex-boyfriend even if it’s been weeks or months. And even worse, they do it publicly on social media.
Totally embarrassing, right?
I know a girl who broke up with her boyfriend probably about six months ago. In that time, she’s already been in two new relationships. The second one, she’s even living with the guy already – yet you know what she’s still doing? Talking about her ex-boyfriend on Twitter and Facebook.
Even if it’s negative, we aren’t stupid. We all get that you can’t get over him. Because if you were over him, you would not still be talking about him all this time later.
No matter what negative thing you have to say about your ex-boyfriend, you are the one who looks stupid because you are the one still talking about him.
So let me say this again …. Stop talking about your Ex-Boyfriend on Social Media.
Sometimes it’s best to leave the past behind you. While it’s true having an honest conversation about past relationships with your therapist is perfectly healthy, that doesn’t mean you should be obsessing about your ex online.
Forget that it makes you look bad.
It also makes you feel bad. It’s bad for your mental health. If you truly want to be happy, it’s time to move on with your life.
- You deserve to be happy.
- You deserve a better life.
But the only way you are ever going to get that is to put the past behind you.