We all have that jerk of an ex-boyfriend we want to report, and luckily you now have a place to do just that. This is your very own bad boyfriend database, or as we like to call it, the ex-boyfriend list!
The Ex-Boyfriend List, or the bad boyfriend database, the place where you can report your ex-boyfriend for cheating on you or just being a jerk. The truth of the matter is, we’ve all had a bad breakup – okay, maybe a few of them in our lives, but that isn’t what this is about.
Wondering what we are, all you need to know about us is that we are out here for girls who have gone through the worst at the hands of a man who didn’t appreciate them enough. Since our website is all about supporting strong women who have had lousy ex’s, we have a small surprise for all you women out there. A little snippet: It’s all about girls supporting girls.
What is the Ex-Boyfriend List?
The Ex-Boyfriend List is also popularly known as a database designed for an evil Ex. This place is for all you women out there who were happily in love with a guy who didn’t put enough and exploited you in ways you didn’t realize you could ever be used for.
From ditching you to making you feel terrible about a small task, cheating and making you feel as if you’re not enough, and even going as far as verbally and physically abusing you. You should know you are all strong individuals for having gone through all that you did. This site and its purpose don’t lie in the fact that we all have had a few bad breakups or seen someone in our lives have them. It’s beyond that.
Now that you’re finally out of the horrible mess and out of the relationship with your ex, you probably see him walk down the streets with another girl on his arm, and that doesn’t stop you from wondering if he treats that new girl the same way he treated you? Is he being overly sweet but hiding something behind his facade? Is he showing her the same patterns he showed you?
This database is for you because through this process that we have built, you can reveal the truth about him and save lives, and since we spoke about how we are all about supporting women, this is an excellent start to this initiative—wondering how it works? Well, read further to find out more regarding this exciting initiative.
Purpose of the Ex-Boyfriend List:
This initiative is solely out there to help all those girlfriends who you have personally seen suffering, or for girls, you do not wish to suffer at the hands of someone you know is capable enough, so revenge or making worthy and good men feel bad isn’t why we have taken this initiative. We’re all about a respectful man treating his women how they deserve to be treated, but this list is out there serving those who are not doing what they are supposed to.
So, if you are someone who’s planning to post about a guy with whom they had a bad experience? Here’s you do it? But remember to follow up the given rules below:
Rules regarding posting about an Ex:
- No personal information is allowed! Personal information may include anything and everything related to the guy’s private phone number, address and work details, and even family details.
- No false information is allowed unless you want your account removed. Talk about what your ex-boyfriend did to you but don’t make up lies. Come on, you are better than that.
- Tell your story and give out respectful and limited details, keeping in mind that you give enough to raise red flags for the person reading it.
- I repeat: DO NOT POST HIS PHONE NUMBER, EMAIL, OR HOME ADDRESS. Give his name, city, and state where he lives, and nothing more.
The Ex-Boyfriends list and its reach:
Are you someone who’s out and talking to a new guy and feel a bit doubtful? This Ex-Boyfriend List is the answer to your worries, questions, and queries. Worried that the guy you’re talking to at work ticks all the right boxes and wants to find out the real secrets.
You’re at the right place because through our database, you can search him up, and find out about him, and if there’s nothing, then you’re one of the lucky ones! But if you do end up finding anything related to him, you know your doubts were correct. Help is served, and this is how we do it, anonymously yet ideally.
Share Your Story With Us!
Let us help you relieve the mountain load of stress you have been feeling, and what better way than to help someone who’s probably with the same guy that is a reason for your trauma.
Feel better today and fill up that database; let’s help each other and empower and let these men know we aren’t going to be letting them railroad us. Get posting!
We’ve not gotten hundreds of entries on our ex-boyfriend list, so to help you keep up with all the names, I’ve made the list searchable. Just click the search button above, and you can search for an ex-boyfriend by name. If you want to add your ex-boyfriend to our list, just comment below and tell us all about him.
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Chuck from Harrisburg, Pa
This little creep likes to be put in panties and my bra and then is very submissive but is so scared of anyone finding out he totally blocks me. A coward loser.
Robert Kirkland Harris from Brooklyn NY, Durham NC
Covert narcissist, drug addict, goes by mark and lies cheats steals, sleep’s with iv drug addict, prostitutes, beats women
Jack Holler from Las Vegas, NV
First I want others to know I’m not vindictive. This is because he shouldn’t do this to another female.Second I will get right to it. While together he was on dating sites. Not just hook up sites. Dating sites to meet a partner. Ones like “conscious singles.”If that wasn’t enough he lied about it. Also he had a fling with a girl from somewhere. She sent him photos of herself in sexy cloths. I was devastated.
Demetrius Sager from Los Angeles, CA
MARRIED SERIAL CHEATER!!! Demetrius Sager is around 37 years old and supposedly lives in West Hollywood. I met him last summer when he bartended at my friend’s party where he got my number. He claimed to be single not only to me but to the party hosts before I even arrived as well. We texted for a few months and were luckily never intimate but the texts got to be EXTREMELY sexual and then I used facial recognition software and found out he is married. His wife is very sick on top of that. I told his wife and so did my friend whose party he bartended at. She told his boss who is her friend about it as well. He has been blacklisted on sex worker background check sites and bragged about flirting and being intimate with married women at his other job (redacted but a historic famous hotel in LA). He shares details about his wife (flight attendant, etc) in the past tense like “used to date someone who did this” etc. Manipulative love bombing washed up former actor himbo with bad grammar and some freaky kinks who can only feed his narcissism by lying to women now. This piece of shit has done this to other women as well- last night I went to another party my friend had and the girl who bartended it and works for his former boss told me about how he did this exact same thing to another girl- the party host for a different group. There is SO much more tea I can share but yeah, this guy needs to go down! I would love to share some stories with others since I know there have been more!
Justin Goodman from Ferndale Washington
Justin is a predator and sociopath.
He knowingly manipulates women. He deceived multiple women in the past year stating their relationships were monogamous. He did not disclose he had been exposed to an STI to these women, and got one partner pregnant. He still continues his appalling behavior.
When confronted about his degrading behavior he showed no remorse.
Dr Wai Chang from Hamilton, New Zealand
He is a total jerk and he bites back at you. Beware of assholes like him.
WAI CHANG from MALAYSIA
DO NOT TRUST THIS PERSON. HE IS A FRAUDSTER, A TRAITOR, A CHEATER, A FAKE AND A BIG FAT LIAR!!!
Blas Rivera from Chicago IL
Basically my ex-boyfriend, was constantly accusing me of cheating, and I didn’t cheat on him. He was hitting me and slapping me around constantly. And recently punched a stranger in the face because he thought I was cheating when I wasn’t..He made sad and depressed and he cheated on me with a young girl with black hair named Cameron.
Michael Bless from Roscoe, Illinois
Went through his phone found he’d been taking nude pictures to send to men. Also found out he was cheating on me with multiple women.He made me believe we were exclusive for 2 years while telling everyone else different . He has anger issues not only attacked me but his mom multiple times.
Harris Patrick Hylton Jr from Loganville, GA
Ladies, please beware of Harris Patrick Hylton Jr. You will likely meet him online because he doesn’t have the confidence to approach or engage with a woman in person. He uses the Hinge dating app to hunt for his prey. Harris Patrick Hylton Jr will try to lure you in by claiming that he is a laid back, self assured guy who is all about peace & positivity. There is a lot of false bravado with this man. He is all talk, no action & extremely delusional and manipulative.
Only believe half of what he tells you. He will claim to be straightforward but he is not. He tells half truths so fact check everything. He is likely unhealed & figuring out his life when he meets you and likely got out of a relationship very recently.
Harris Patrick Hylton Jr hops from one woman to the next looking for anybody to save him from himself. He has bad blood with all of his exes. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM. He is chaotic, immature, weak willed, lacks ambition, extremely selfish, self centered and very deceitful.
He’s gotten 2 women pregnant in February 2023 & April 2024. He will refuse to use condoms & will guilt trip you if you are the type to enjoy sex with condoms.
He has a battery charge from a domestic violence incident (recently expunged) that he takes no accountability for. He takes no accountability for ANYTHING. He is a perpetual victim & will make you out to be the bad guy in his mind & will try to convince others of this as well.
He talks badly about all of his exes & spreads their business around. He is obsessed with one of his exes & cannot watch a tv show or movie without scoffing at the tv if a character reminds him of her.
Nothing he has is a result of his own hard work. From his house, to his car, to his job. All the basic material necessities a man needs have been given to him by someone else. FACT CHECK LADIES!!
Avoid him if you can. If you’re desperate & can’t resist the temptation make sure you PROTECT YOUR WOMB.
He will say all the right things to reel you in & keep you around but I can assure you his words are empty. He uses women for pleasure & presence only. You will mean nothing to him. He is cold blooded & takes pride in being heartless.
He also doesn’t have any money & is very cheap. He is looking for a roommate with benefits at most. He is NOT husband or father material. He is way too selfish & immature to assume either of those roles. View him as nothing more than a long term hookup & you’ll do just fine.
Robert Weeks from Freeport Kansas
This mental mess of a cluster tart will really take you for a mentally draining, manipulative education, thieving ride! He is one of the most manipulative people i have ever met. He will treat you oh so right in the beginning. Like a queen! Only to butter you up to take whatever he wants! He doesn’t ask neither! He just does, says an takes whatever he feels! He has a sense of entitlement that is unheard of! He then will block all communication with you. He is a childish baby that also at times has temper problems. He is insecure like nobody I’ve ever met! He feels boundaries do not apply to him! He is a “his way or the highway” guy! He has a sex addiction! Constant sexual acts or else! An if things don’t go his way he will give you the silent treatment! One of his go to’s is “I told you” when he really didn’t or he will tell you how things went an it really didn’t go as he says! So keep tabs ladies on this mental mess of a man. He will give his own justification on everything he takes an does to you! Your opinion an or say so has no bearing on him!
Joseph Lauderbaugh from Sparks, NV
Covert narcissist. Manipulated me into a secret physical only situationship for 6 months and then a gaslighting, neglect & triangulation filled relationship for a few more months at which point he moved in his on and off FWB from accross the country without telling her that he & I were dating or living together. Serial cheater through multiple relationships, at least once with the previously mentioned FWB. Blocked by multiple women on several dating sites for “mixed signals” by his own admission and has been previously known to use aliases on dating sites per the FWB’s recollection of how they met. After months of isolation, emotional neglect, gaslighting and DARVO, he discouraged me using self help books to cope and instead encouraged me to take his medication which led to unaliving ideation. Run.
Junius Mosby from Brunswick, Georgia
He pretended to break a picture frame and sent me to the store to get a new one. Only to have some chick come to the house to sleep with him while I was at the store. Also have caught him multiple times with prostitutes. Lies about literally everything.
TJ Edwards from Huntsville, AL
This dude dated my goddaughter and–as it turns out–half the metro area. With his nice smile and high charisma, he really knows how to make a sale and work a room. He’s skilled at hiding functional alcoholism, porn addiction, pathological lying, and a total lack of conscience.
At least at first.
He likes two kinds of women: The vain, brassy, model wannabes… and the shy, gentle, damaged-goods types. He flaunts and then cheats on the first type. The second type he targets and abuses in every way possible–physically, verbally, emotionally, sexually… and then throws out weird bible quotes to justify misogyny.
(He’s got a lot of poor-me talk about his ex-wife leaving him just a couple months after the wedding. But as it turns out, she had more than a few good reasons.)
I’m not posting here out of pettiness, but out of protectiveness. So many women have already fallen prey–and lately he’s been trending younger. As often as he’s deserved a DUI, I can only imagine it’ll take him killing someone else to stop him.
Yes, someone else. (Look up: Alonda Veniszee drowning. Read the news articles carefully. I sure wish we had known to do that.)
If you found this too late to save yourself, please make sure you get tested for STDs. Repeatedly.
I’m so sorry.
Curtis Anderson from Virginia
He started out as a good guy, seemed really interested in what I liked. We hung out everyday. So we lived together & it went down hill quick.
The man is a slop, lazy, nasty, and stinks.
He legit smells like poop. I dont know what he was doing at first but I definitely didn’t see or notice it.
He can’t stay awake & loves to play the victim when you want to talk about stuff or just ignore you.
He’s horrible with kids & over obsessive over thing & hordes. Plus hes a mamas boy straight still on the nip.
In his mind if it’s not about him it’s not important. So your needs or wants will never be met.
He only ever wants to eat out & will blame you for him being broke. I’m a eat at home & go out to do stuff person but he wants to eat out 3+ times a day and is ALWAYS hungry and is gross when he eats (mouth open, stuffing his mouth, and smacking)
Daniel Willingham from oklahoma, connecticut
This is a pathological liar, a drug addict, and a sociopath. He lied and cheated on me for years. he uses all the manipulation tactics in the book. he blames everyone around him for his problems, including getting fired for failing drug tests. he steals from his places of employment, he rips off anyone and everyone he can, and he pretends to be a good person, but he is not. beware!!! he will sleep with multiple
women and tell you ur the only one, and he doesn’t wear condoms bc he can’t keep
it hard anymore. he’s an engineer, but he can’t keep a job bc of his personality disorders and his drug addiction, so he tends to work
for his drug dealers, or he’ll solicit online and make money that way… dating apps, craigslist… male or female, if they’ll get him
his next fix, he’ll indulge himself.
he’s a sick sad pathetic excuse for a man, a dad (he uses his special needs daughter to garner sympathy and trust, but in reality he ignores her the majority of the time and barely does the minimum for her), a friend, and a human being.
William Mathew Filiatrault from Surrey, BC, Canada
Physically abusive!!!!! As of righting this, he lives in Northern Ontario. He has Anti-Social Personality Disorder (which is usually linked to Sociopathy; which i do believe he has). He will seem great for the first little while, but slowly overtime he will start getting verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive. He is also abusive to animals (I wont go into detail here, but he has killed a dog on purpose before). He is very good at getting sympathy and playing the victim, and he can talk himself out of almost anything. He has had substance abuse issues in the past. STAY AWAY FROM HIM, I’M BEGGING YOU!
Jonathan Boyd, Northern Ireland, Belfast. He went viral for beating up his girlfriend at the time Jade. He broke her jaw, teeth and ribs. It was realised in the comments that Jonathan Boyd has beaten numerous women over the years. Many are now finally pursuing him to stop him from doing it again!
Chad from Everett, WA
He’s abusive and I don’t mean just emotionally. He physically harmed me on numerous occasions. I have scars to prove it. On one particular occasions he tried to end my life. He said that I was going to be on the morning news. He’s a truck driver. Tall ginger with a heavy set build.
Heliò Macedo Dos Santos from Potomac Maryland
Emotional cheater. He had a bunch of screenshots of inappropriate photos of his female friends on his computer that they did not consent to him having. He follows a bunch of woman on social media (insta baddies and OF models) and i’m not sure if he’s aware his twitter likes are public… He also would film me during sex without my consent and I would only find out afterwards. He has a thing for white woman which he seems afraid to admit, all his female friends are white woman whom he admitted he was only friends with because he finds them attractive. Some of them are only his friends because they stayed friends with him out of pity after they rejected him. Spoiled daddies money rich kid who likes to pretend he didn’t grow up with a silver spoon in his mouth. He basically cosplays poverty and refuses to acknowledge his privilege. It’s giving male feminist who gets no bitches basically, so he ends up overdoing it with the liberal and progressivism. Professional gaslighter, lacks basic empathy and objectifies woman.
Bill Fetherolf
This 65+ year old is nothing but a con artist who manipulates women. He is a pathological liar and if you call him out he will gaslight and try to turn it on you. He gets happiness out of lying and manipulating women. He uses social media and other apps to target women and ensure they don’t see anything he’s doing. He hides anyone he dates and ensures that they never get introduced to anyone he knows. When you catch him he lies about everything. He has to take drugs to get his dick to work. He sends you pics of his penis after knowing him for one day. He’s forever cheating with multiple women and doesn’t think he’ll get caught. When he does it’s because you’re snooping or stalking him and he never addresses that he’s doing anything wrong and continues to do it. Classic deflection tactic. Doesn’t apologize or admit anything and if he’s not getting his way or sees a shinier object he will drop you in a heartbeat. He presents himself as someone he’s not on social media and in reality he’s miserable and codependent on others to survive. No impulse control and no respect for women. Beware of this wolf in sheep’s clothing and if you find yourself unable to resist his initial charms just walk away because unless you’re going to sit in silence he’s going to turn on you the second he knows you’re onto him. First he stops texting and calling. Then emotionally alienates you. Then he just ignores you in exchange for someone else on his phone that he’s probably slept with before and is trying to go back to. Please be aware of this man and just avoid him at all costs.
Tomas Hernandez from Wake Forest, NC
Don’t let him fool you, he will tell you he wants kids with you, knock you up, cheat on you and keep manipulating you. He may not have a dad bod, but he sure is a deadbeat. Leaving behind STDs and hair. Thats all you will ever get from him. He will owe you money before it’s all said and done with. Watch out ladies, he works for uber eats, dont let him slide in that door or you are done for.
Amine Bouayad from France, Algeria, California, and Florida
Physical, sexual and mental abuse for 4 years, controlling, stalking and demeaning. Isolation, anger, spying.
Blake Thompson from Franklin County, Missouri
Liar. Cheater. Manipulative.
Constant finger pointing and false accusations. Refusal to admit when wrong and takes no responsibility for his actions therefore never apologizes. Paranoid, delusions of superiority.
He is man therefore he does not bend.
Unappreciative.
Will use all of this to make you the enemy while he pursues your friends and sisters.
Edgar Omar Guerrero from El Paso, TX
Scammer, hacker, spying, have sex with multiple woman’s, he like mens
Ezzat Alhareh from Los Angeles, CA
Ezzat Alhareh (real name Ahmad) is an abuser. In every sense. He tortured me for 2 years physically, verbally, mentally, emotionally, financially, and sexually. Stalking, controlling behavior, lying, cheating, false imprisonment, coercion, name calling, physical intimidation, cycle of violence—love bombing, rising tension, physical abuse, repeat. If I had stayed, I have no doubt I would’ve died. STAY AWAY AT ALL COSTS.
Was he married per chance when you guys started dating? Might know the guy
Matt Matthew D Strauss from Denver CO
55 yrs old. This guy is a compulsive closet alcoholic both on and off the job, unknown to me, he drove drunk many times dangerously with me and children in his vehicle. He stalked me, he is a habitual harasser, he has been through the legal system for harassment with multiple woman. His maturity level is a middle school boy, has an explosive temper, is abusive to woman.
Scott C Webb from Georgia, Fort Collins, Denver, Colorado
I dated Scott. He is insecure, controlling, abuses woman, habitually crosses boundaries, and coworkers that are woman, he does not like children, he lies compulsively, he has no close friends, he’s is over 55 years old has never had a girlfriend for longer than a 6 months. He is abusive in words, putdowns and in his actions, shows no remorse for horrible actions, lacks compassion or empathy. Threatened me when I went on a vacation with my girlfriends without him. He is habitual about requesting people lie for him, including coworkers. He does not have the ability to care about others, he speaks about woman negatively, dislikes and is strongly prejudiced against women.
Steve Pfingst from Salisbury, MA
Seems like the kindest, most ethical, loyal human being on the planet. My friends and family loved him. We were together for two years. Turns out he had been cheating on me for six months with a waitress at work. His ability to do so and show no signs of guilt makes me think he might be some kind of sociopath. Stay away.
Timothy Francis Williams from Manitoba
Warning !
The lies and getting cheated on, I endured and overlooked because I didn’t want to believe that the person I uprooted my life for was not an honest person. We were engaged Feb ’21 and ended that summer. I will never again overlook someone’s 5’4 height, *sshole attitude and jealous insecurities. It was a big red flag in regards to “Little Man Syndrome”. Credit to the one time when caught his momentary truth of reason was because he “needs the attention” and has an actual sex addiction that requires therapeutic sessions for in which were not completed while we were together.
If you do not believe/Look at his track record. He hurts girls/women because he hurts somewhere within his wounded unhealed self. He also hates his mother but won’t admit it. Watch how he treats her as well.
~”Waste of Skin”
Angelo manuele from Phoenix az
Angelo abuses children and women. Originally from southington ct moved to az with dying wife. Remarried and divorced. Leaves children unattended and to fend for themselves. Thinks he’s a big shot flying his plane. Has no money. He wine and dines women and then after a short time his true colors emerge. Has 5 kids. Will make women get abortions.
On match.com saying he’s widowed but he’s divorced. Not Christian but quotes the Bible daily.
Evil, evil guy. Stay away before he hurts you.
Benjamin William Riley from New Plymouth New Zealand
He has avoidant attachment and narcissistic traits. If you have something to offer him (status, connections) he will make you feel like the most special person in the world. He is incapable of emotional connection. He will lead you on and tell any lie to keep you. Once he doesn’t need you anymore he will discard you. Once you aren’t special he is cruel and mean.
John from Roseville, California
Serial cheater struggling with addiction.
Giuseppe from Seregno
É rimasto a casa mia per un anno, ha vissuto sulle mie spalle e non ha MAI contribuito economicamente, nonostante abbia uno stipendio, adducendo scuse su richieste di soldi da parte della sua famiglia d’origine.
Ian Grant Armstrong from San Francisco, CA
Tiny penis, very big ego.
This guy can be manipulative and prone to gaslighting. If he’s dating another trust fund baby w/no real job (like him), maybe he’d be more respectful.
Elijah Hernandez from Elijah Hernandez
Early 40s.
Has two phones, which is kind of sketch, considering he presents himself as single and only has a simple 9-5, paper-pusher job.
Says he wants a relationship but is a liar. First date takes place in a bar, close to his house and he will ask you to go home with him afterwards! He will continue sleeping around and looking to sleep around some more, after getting what he wants from you and under the pretenses of wanting a relationship. What a slap in the face to find out a guy you think you’re in a relationship with is still whoring around and still talking to other women!
Makes disrepectful and sexist comments about your body. The guy has a small member and is unkempt with all that facial hair, so to think, the audacity!
Like most losers, also has a fixation with p*rn.
Robert Knowles from Los Angeles, CA
This guy specifically said he was single. He seemed like a nice guy but I noticed that he wasn’t very attentive to me and ended things. He didn’t seem bothered at all, so I did some research using his number and email. I found a wedding registry website, with a gift list and everything! What a shock! As it turns out, he’s married to Suzanne Cotsakos, the wanna be actress and daughter of Christos M Cotsakos (some rich immigrant dude, who did all the accomplishing, so his American kids can pretend to have jobs as adults).
In my short time knowing him, I discovered that Robert Knowles regularly goes on sugar baby websites, which are known by women ‘in the industry’ as a place where escort clients go when they get blacklisted from seeing a reputable professional in that line of work. These are websites where johns prey on very young, vulnerable and financially underpriviledge women. The going rate for “companionship” or sex on these sugar daddy sites that Robert Knowles frequents is akin to street rates but the girls are much cleaner and are usually more educated. Can’t someone married into a family as wealthy as the Cotsakos at least pay appropriately, the sad women on these sites? The whole thing is disgusting.
Robert Knowles makes the entire Cotsakos family look bad!
Zach Obrien from Los Angeles, CA/Santa Barbara, CA/Eugene, Oregon
Just some trust fund kid who tries to pick up strippers in clubs across CA, mostly LA and Santa Barbara. Even though he has a kid at home, he still tries to screw you without protection. Probably a cheater and has a few different girls he’s peddling at the same time. No real job, so gotta keep busy somehow, I guess. Went viral on Stefan Molyneux for the piece, The Dangers of Dating a Supermodel. In the video, Stefan tries to show this guy what a player he is. Super hypergamous. Chases after super successful p*rn stars and super models off cover magazines who need help from parents to pay their mortgage and have kids from multiple baby daddies. Took me a full year to get over this dude, even though we knew each other a relatively short while. I was incredibly kind to him and all he did was block me, after he got what he wanted from me.
Keith Jansen from Albuquerque, NM/Houston, TX
The dude loves to feel sorry for himself about his failed marriage. He neglected his ex, so she cheated on him as a way to exit the relationship.
Like many men on dating apps, he will probably lie to you about deleting his apps. He will tell you he loves you in the first or second week of talking to you.
One day you get some photos from him, which he sent to you at the very beginning of talking to you and you ask him why is he sending them to you again. He’ll tell you it’s his phone acting up. The guy is pretty materialistic (lives in an overpriced apartment and drives a porsche), so it’s difficult to believe that he has a malfunctioning iphone. The more believable story would be that he’s talking and seeing someone behind your back and the photos he sent to you were really meant to be sent to his new interest.
When you have a fight, he’ll call you “too crazy for a relationship” to cover up why he’s really pulling away.
He stonewalls. He deflects. He screams at you.
He threatens you to stay away and he threatens you with the police. Not because you deserve those threats but because he knows you are a stripper and escort and the police love harassing marginalized people. You speak with some professionals about this matter and they say that threatening you like that, in order to instill fear, is psychological intimidation common in domestic violence situations.
Eight months later, he repeatedly contacts you. Via email. Via text. And would not stop until a response is received. Once he gets his response and wastes your entire day to text you, he still refuses to meet up. Not sure if the dude is in a relationship and looking to waste your time for validation but that’s what he does is waste your time. It also seemed that he was texting for entertainment, while getting drunk. Not sure if this jerk has a drinking problem on top of not-treating-women well problem.
Daniel Chadbourne from San Francisco, CA
Never actually dated this guy because I knew he was married at the time. However, we worked together and I thought we were good friends. Little did I know that he was just looking to cheat on his wife.
He lured me to his house once and provided drinks. As an inexperienced drinker, I drank too much and knew I wouldn’t be able to go anywhere afterwards. He then made ‘the move’ to get me into the bedroom and I didn’t think I could resist due to being overly intoxicated on the whiskey he’d given me and so, I did ask him to use a condom. He knowingly didn’t and claimed that it fell off. The next morning, I woke up and with the smell of semen in the air, I felt sick to my stomach.
I disclosed this to a roommate, who had contacted him and called him out on his unacceptable behavior. His wife responded with protective threats. Little did she know, that he would call her fat and disgusting to me, despite her bearing three of his children.
It looks like the guy divorced the wife he cheated on and talked badly about, despite all she’d done for him and has since conned someone else into marrying him. But what a horrible person!
James Steadman Plummer from Albuquerque, NM
This guy is a real gem, I really wish someone would have warned me.
If he knocks you up, he’ll let you pay 100% for your own abortion because he really belives in women’s rights and gender equality and therefore something like that is the woman’s responsibility, kind of like pulling the entire weight of the relationship with him.
God forbid, you get sick. You get diagnosed with a severe illness, you start on meds which make you gain 60 pounds on a 5 foot 6 frame,
you start sleeping 18 hours a day and you lose your job. You are no longer useful or fun to him, so he will dump you. Why? Because he’s a real good guy.
If you tell him confidential information about yoursel, rest assured, he will tell his entire family and all his friends too! He does not care about respecting your privacy or your safety.
He has an uncanny talent for making you feel like shit anytime he does anything nice for you, like buying you a $3 coffee. Any little “kind” thing he does for you-you know, normal things people in relationships do for one another-he’ll throw it back at your face as a way to invoke guilt and feel indebted to him. While his privileged ass is already living off mom and dad, he may also manipulate you into regularly paying for him via your credit card.
He seems to enjoy talking to people, women especially, like they are an ill-behaved dog or a child. Dude started verbally snapping and screaming at me very early on, until literally the very end.
As a child, he had a history of bullying other children, with zero consequence. People DO NOT change. He’s still a bully.
He’ll escalate arguments, so that he has an excuse to go cheat on you. The washed-up 40 year old especiallly likes cheating on you with “girls,” “still in school.” Classy, lol.
Like many perpetually single men, he has an unhealthy relationship with porn. He will ask you to do degrading things in the bedroom.
Speaking of porn, like porn and like many white American men and American-American men (read: uncultured, the-world-revolves-around-me mentality, hick), he fetishizes ethnic and non-white women.
He will lie to you about deleting his dating profiles. He’ll just pay to upgrade and browse incognito. A man of real integrity!
If you dump him (because he’s a real nice guy) or get dumped by him (again, because he’s a real nice guy) and happen to leave things at his house that you want back, he won’t be able to find them. Not because they are hard to find but because like in many areas of his life, he is simply too lazy and inconsiderate to accommodate a request if there is no or little benefit to him.
If you refuse to give him his stupid keys back, he’ll have his mommy call and threaten to file a false police report on you. As if enlisting his mom in mortgage fraud isn’t enough, he also apparently uses her for domestic violence via psychological threats, too. Again, a real nice guy.
He talks the Champagne Socialist talk about helping people and being kind but behind closed doors and looks down on the indigent clients he represents as a public defender, he says derogatory things about the looks of women half his age, he calls the family of his friends “a bunch of hicks” and he looks down on people who work really hard without mommy and daddy forking over heaps of cash his way and still have less than him.
Josue Emanuel Ortiz from San Antonio, TX
Just your ordinary PIG, with herpes 2 from all his whoring around. He’ll court and pursue you, until he gets what he wants and then he drops you. Then, he’ll blame you for his bad behavior because he’s real mature like that. As a matter of fact, the exact terminology is, “I’m not responsible for your feelings.” He’s very kind like that, yes.
Also, he has a big problem with frequenting strip clubs and places of prostitution in third world countries because he’s just frugal like that, though some may call it exploitative. He likes gawking and laughing at and putting down the poor women trying to make a living in those places. He tries so hard to act Mexican but when he looks down at other people in third world countries, he ends up looking like a rich, entitled, selfish American-you know ath-hole, the kind that gives all of America a bad name around the world.
Despite making a nice six figure salary, he likes to laugh at not paying his extremely reasonable co-pays. Like, it’s a power trip for him to laugh at not paying $45 co-pay for a medical service.
Jeremy from McPherson, KS
Liar LIAR LIAR!
This guy can’t even tell the truth about what time it is. He will tell you whatever you want to hear and not a single word is true. He will look you in the eye and tell you you’re crazy for questioning him at the same time he is actively cheating on you. He is the exact guy that makes you think he is great, upstanding, emotional, “been hurt”, will do anything for you, loves his family. Beware! HE IS NONE OF THOSE THINGS. He will drain you emotionally and financially. He plays the victim while scheming behind your back. He also has a preference for barely legal girls. He is a predator and will think nothing of using anyone from his own mother to the checker at the grocery. He is disgusting and dangerous. He is violent and entitled. Save yourself from this giant bag of ducks and take a hard pass immediately. He is just gross.
Justin Kinnel from Westminster, CA
This man is dangerous and abusive. When we were together he was verbally, physically, sexually, and financially abusing me. He was also abusive towards my cat, and would put mine and my dogs life in danger with his extremely reckless driving. He almost took my life on multiple occasions and I am not the first partner he treated this way. I had to get a restraining order when I left him. We met at a Daft Punk cover night at a club, and he plays the role of perfect gentleman and love bombs you until you feel vulnerable enough to open up. Then he slowly weaponizes your trauma against you, slowly begins alienating you from friends, and becomes more and more controlling until he’s wore you down. He wraps it under the guise of wanting to help you and knowing what’s best for you. Do not fall for his tricks of coming off as an enlightened empath. Once he has you trapped, the abuse will begin.
Dale E. Hunt from Pulaski Virginia & North Carolina
He lies about EVERYTHING!! He doesn’t know how to be a boyfriend or how to treat a woman and he has NO respect.
He will basically force you into a relationship and once he gets you and doesn’t have to chase you anymore, he loses interest and starts making things up and telling lies to avoid you. Its almost like he tries to get you to break up with him so he wont be the bad guy (but boy is he!) He’s nicknamed DECEITFUL DALE.
He’s gross, has a teeny peeny, and he snores SO loud it’s disgusting. He is a narcissist, a manipulator and will gas light the F out of you to the point you believe you are the problem! He’s lazy, has NO aspirations in life, won’t keep a job, lies, lies, and lies some more (I can’t stress that enough), and bounces from house to house mooching people dry! He is the definition of a loser and a sorry excuse of a “man”!
Most of what he told me about his past sounded so fantastical I decided to do a deep dive and found proof that he lied about all of it! FACT CHECK everything he says because most likely none of it is true! It’s ridiculous. I’ve never in my life met someone who lies as much as he does. He will tear you apart emotionally and quite literally make you question your sanity. He blames everything on a ‘brain injury’, which im not convinced even exists…It’s just an excuse for bad and unacceptable behavior. He will never stop telling lies, and if you let him in he will cause nothing but harm.
Oh and get this….HE HAS NEVER BEEN A MARINE OR A POLICE OFFICER!!!
Michael Drummond from St George’s, Telford
This guy likes to tell you he loves you but stays on dating sites regardless while stringing you along. He likes to strangle girls. He likes to sleep with other girls while making out your the only one for him. He likes to splash cash on you, he doesn’t have his own home claims to be an amazing business man but he’s just a little boy who hasn’t grown up into a man yet. Avoid. Lives in Telford UK and is on Hinge.
Angelo Manuele from Phoenix, AZ
Angelo is a liar and cheater. He abuses children and women.
He’s a psychopath and narcissist. He moves really fast to wine and dine women, take them on plane rides and get married quick before she truly sees what he’s all about. He has false info on dating websites, like match.com stating he’s a widow instead of divorced. He leaves his children, without phone and alone to fend for themselves while he goes out to get laid.
Angelo talks about religion and godly this and that but is not Christian. He hates people including his own family. Doesn’t even talk to or see his sons, siblings and granddaughter.
He’s a piece of sh*t!
Run, I wish someone warned me.
Curtis Sharp from BC, Canada
Does not understand consent. Manipulates others in order to meet his own needs. Never takes genuine personal responsibility for anything. Constantly romanticizes the past and is rarely content with the present.
Thomas Rodgers from BC, Canada
If you encounter him, run. He is abusive – verbally, emotionally, and physically. He is a bully who uses narcissistic tactics to control. He is a scammer and uses others for money. He is writing a book where he needs to do “research” and the topic is about child SA and p*dophile subject matter. He is not safe and already has a guilty assault charge on his criminal record.
Jeremy Hassol from New York, NY
Jeremy is an ex model, very charming man. I knew him from a young age. Basically, I was duped.
He came to me asking me to be in a committed relationship with him, after I had made it abundantly clear that monogamy and honesty were two nonnegotiables for me. I did not force him into a relationship. I asked him only to treat me with respect and be honest with me.
I learned, after 4 years of being together minus two breakups lasting 2-3 months each, after we had at least 10 months consistently of what felt like a truly committed relationship with discussion of marriage, children, etc, that he was sleeping with multiple different women, going on cocaine binges, sleeping with s3x workers, ex-girlfriends and was lying to me for the entire 4 years.
I learned that during the first year of our relationship, was having s3x with his ex-girlfriend while I was at my father’s bedside being present for him while he was actively dying. While I watched my father suffocate to death, my supposedly committed boyfriend, was having a s3x fest with his ex-gf.
He is not a good person. I have come to realize he likely has anti-social personality disorder. He completely lacks compassion. He is not capable of truly caring for someone else.
He wasted years 37-41 of my life, pretending to love me, pretending to be committed, knowing I wanted an actual committed (for me monogamous) relationship and a baby. We were long distance a couple of times. I moved for work across the county after one of our breakups and he continued to pursue me across the country, again spouting bs, and I stupidly got back together with him. While he was telling me he loved me and was committed, wanted to build a life together, the entire time he was having UNPROTECTED s3x with 10+ who even knows how many women, several of whom were s3x workers.
We spoke every day for hours. He was my best friend in the entire world. And the whole time he was living a totally separate life that I could sense and he gaslit me and made me feel crazy for what I now know were accurate gut instincts
He is a liar. He doesn’t care about others. He clearly has a s3x addiction. He claimed he was extremely sad when I found all of this, but 13 months later has yet to make any real apology, amends, or made any attempt to just tell me the truth and take responsibility for so deeply betraying and hurting me.
I learned the truth in March 2023 when left his computer open at my apartment and before he went to sleep. I opened imessage and found years and years of his texts. It was horrifying. I realize this is an invasion of privacy. But I am glad I did it. I suspected something because one week before, he was showing me something on his phone and a video of him jerking off popped up and he tried to hide it, but I saw it. I knew he had not sent it me, so I asked who he had sent it to and he said to someone on the internet like a porn site thing. Which to me was heartbreaking and felt like cheating because it was an online interaction with another woman. Ans, I also could tell he wasn’t telling the whole truth. So that’s why when given the opportunity, i looked at who he really was by reading his texts. I don’t know the person I saw in those texts. He was so gross.
He is s really bad guy. Stay away. There is so much more than that, but truly. The guy is a sociopath and does not respect women. He seemed to really know and love me and care about me. No one does that to someone they care about. I of course had a role to play by ignoring red flags. The s3x was great and all that oxytocin made me stupid. I wish I had walked away as soon as he first lied about something small instead of ignoring it.
Jeremy is extremely unstable. I knew him in my early 20s and he physically abused me, hid knives under the pillow, and even played with himself at brunch in front of me. He ordered food and knew I didn’t have money and didn’t let me order anything. He thrives on power and control over women. My mom eventually called him and said that if he contacts me again she will call the police on him. I don’t think Jeremy can be fixed without many years of intervention. I do think he is ill, but he’s also a bad person. It was very confusing for me too. I just want to say I truly understand you and what you went through. I want you to know this had nothing to do with you, or your worth, just like it didn’t for me. He targets the strongest women, and the best-looking ones. <3
John J Jordan from West Seneca NY
Has a pure anger issue against my 8 yr old grandson. Called him a little a-hole. He thinks only his son is perfect. At the same time he neglects his own son by over feeding and not seeking treatment for sinus and speech issues. Helicopter watching and controlling of all people around him. OCD personality. Very strong Anger issues shown in conflicts within multiple family relationships
Cory Waycaster from Elkhart, IN, USA
Cory is a master at covert manipulation. From his falsely laid out dating profile to his inability to genuinely have empathy for others (especially women). He resorted to gaslighting me after getting physically violent towards me. He lives with his parents in the basement and refuses to work a “9-5” or any kind of job that requires effort to earn consistent income. He is a cis-Caucasian male and openly displays misogynistic and racist sentiments towards his partners once you’ve gotten close enough. He refuses to make any effort in any relationship if it requires him to leave his dungeon- to the point where his mother turned to me to carry out tasks that he would never do within/outside the home. I can’t even explain the amount of emotional abuse he exerted within the duration of our “relationship”, but let’s just say afterwards these key words were felt by me: Depressed ,Used, Angry, Dehumanized, Worthless, Empty, Unloved…
The person I was before the relationship and the person I was after the relationship was completely different. I didn’t recognize myself ; and didn’t recognize that I didn’t recognize myself until the aftermath.. I am not a certified psychologist but I can bet everything on the fact that I believe Cory is a sociopath and covert narcissist. I’ve heard the saying that covert narcissistic abuse is death by a thousand cuts-per Dr. Ramani’s words. But I believe they are death by carbon monoxide.
Austin Leskow from Lexington, KY, orginally from West Palm Beach, FL
I was with him for 8 months. He spent the entire 8 months pining over his ex wife, making multiple Facebook accounts to try to talk with her even after she asked him to stop contacting her. He also had a nude photo of her when she was still in high school. He also spent his time trying to find someone to cheat on me with. He was posting in local subreddits and making multiple dating app accounts. He also had some very sketchy search history on reddit, ranging from high school pu**y to chicks with d*cks and docking. These things should have been major red flags, but he had made me feel so worthless during our time together. He consistently called me fat and ugly, and then would be mad at me because I would cry. He refused to do anything intimate with me, and even when so far as to offer me up to his friends. The final straw was when his roommate brought a girl home from tinder and let her move in with them. Everything seemed to be fine until I came out of his bedroom and found them cuddled up in the living room, kissing and touching. This girl had literally just turned 18. He is so beyond manipulative, and is a master at gaslighting people. Beware of him. He is bad news.
Justin from Lincoln Park, Michigan.
He is a catfish and a liar. He used super edited pictures when we initially met on bumble. He claimed to be a musician and had a lot of pictures taken in a music studio. Turns out he was a SoundCloud guy writing terrible music from his bedroom. When we went on our first few dates, all of them were terrible. He lied about a million things. He was the person in the photos but was not well put together, he reeked like cigarettes, was missing his front teeth, and was living in a disgusting trailer with his grandmother while in his late 30s that he had never moved out of. For as long as we went out, he could never hold an intelligent conversation and it seemed like he was high out of his mind the entire time. This man is a catfish, a liar, and astoundingly stupid. He also pressured me into having s3x with him when I did not want to. The only thing he can hold a conversation about is his painfully average penis. Do not waste your time going out with him. He is what I like to call a hobosexual as well.
Lugardo Chávez from Chico, California
Is a narcissistic scammer. I had been in love with him but he dumped me and didn’t speak to me for two years. He was living with his parents and had the world’s worst job, but he had a job offer in Chico so I offered to let him live with me so he could get started. I footed most of the bills, supported him financially and emotionally after he got canned, and encouraged him to keep applying for the job he wanted, which he finally got. took him with me to Hawaii and New Orleans and a ton of other places, also on my dime, because I wanted him to be able to go. Hell, I paid for both of us to go to Detroit for his cousins wedding, and he did nothing but chastise me for perceived slights, and aside from the wedding, I was on my own the whole trip.
Huge red flags, but he said he loved me and I believed him. Passive aggressive to the nth degree, wouldn’t ever resolve a problem. One time I didn’t want his cousin to come by after work (after 11pm) because I was sick and tired, and after that, he never invited anyone to the house again and denied it was the reason. I asked for help cleaning the bathroom ceiling because it was grungy and I couldn’t reach, and he started taking cold showers and denied it was the reason. Right before he left, I asked him during a fight to tell the truth about why he wouldn’t help me with this little thing that took literally 3 minutes a few times a year, and he said it “wasn’t his mess” because he took cold showers. At least at the end he stopped gaslighting me for 30 seconds.
I never asked him for help with much either – like a 3 minute assist was typical. I took care of the yard myself (his allergies) and I cooked and I paid a housekeeper – he literally had hardly anything to do and generally wouldn’t help when asked no matter how small.
His pathological selfishness didn’t end there. He lived like a frat boy, high every day from morning until bed, drunk several nights a week, and out sometimes every single night of the week partying and going to shows. When I asked him to attend a work party with me, he refused because he had yet another show he wanted to attend … despite that he had been out for the previous 7 nights and I literally asked for one thing, one evening.
When our s3x life essentially ended, and I tried to talk to him about making it a priority over the drugs and late nights, he asked me, “what are you, depraved?” Literally never had a man shame me over my sexuality before, let alone for wanting to have s3x with him.
He videotaped me without my consent when we were arguing (I was crying and yelling) and told me the day he moved out, so somewhere out there are videos of me at my worst, most upset moments.
Then he moved out and ghosted me. I said I at least deserved some closure, but he didn’t think he owed me anything after all that and refused to respond. Plus a week after the breakup his creepy married uncle contacted me and tried to hook up. This dude and his family are creeps, steer way clear unless you want to be completely f-ed over too.
Phil Femoyer jr from Easton, PA- formerly NJ
Another ex girlfriend had already listed him below from 6/2023 and I felt compelled to list him again with updates and confirmation that yes this man is a pathological liar and plays the ‘good guy’ victim role while gaslighting you and lie to you straight in the face. He is a forty-something year old man-baby with stunted emotional development and will probably be alone forever. Actually, I feel pity for him more than anything. But if you’re in the Easton PA area – keep a lookout for this loser.
Phil Femoyer Jr. is a covert narcissist who thinks he’s smarter than everyone — but is actually reckless, impulsive, and tells on himself through his mindless babbling and thoughtless actions. Phil has admittedly opened up to me before about cheating in multiple exes from prior relationships before I dated him — which these alone were obvious huge red flags. When discussed further, he justified his reasons for the cheating occurrences and then complained about each ex being “abusive” to him as if he was this poor, misunderstood victim. Also discovered during the second part of the relationship that he was already seeing another woman already for 9 months which allegedly overlapped at the same time as him and I in the beginning (who knows who else he was probably seeing or trying to see). I found out through the other woman directly after she found me online and had she not have reached out I probably would’ve never had known. He also exhibits severe anger management issues which came out slowly over time, but became quite frequent and obvious and a normal part of his baseline towards the end, right before I finally broke up with him once and for all for good this time. The anger seemed impulsive and uncontrollable, almost like his mask was just slipping off and he knew he couldn’t hide his true self anymore. I wonder had I continued to stay if it could have continued escalating. He would also get extremely angry at very relatively minor things that come up in relationships, for example him flying into rage when you are calmly and respectfully asking him what time he came home the night before, or asking any sort of question about what he wanted for the future (again, this was slight in the beginning but over time turned into overt anger and narcissistic rage) and then after his blow up, he would then blame me for “ruining his peace” and “being too emotional”. He was clearly trying to hide his true motives from being exposed, but again, isn’t even good at lying. You’d think for how often he’s been caught in lies over the years that he’d become a bit more skilled but he gives himself away quite easily if you are willing to look at the red flags and remain honest to yourself. Unfortunately, his patterns are to aim for women who have been in abusive relationships prior, or women going through a vulnerable period in their life or one struggling with some sort of issues in hopes of looking like her savior while mentally bringing her down behind the scenes (you can put the pieces of his patterns together easily while he’s complaining about his exes – again he gives himself away and isn’t even as smart as he thinks). If you do come in contact with him, trust your gut, listen to your intuition and don’t second guess yourself whatever you do. When you confront him in the beginning he will lie to you while staring you in the eye and you’ll find out later your suspicions were actually right on point. He used to live in New Jersey but recently moved to Easton PA. Stay vigilant of him on the dating scene as he’s constantly on those apps looking for a new source of validation and better yet, stay away completely if you can.
Adam Opas from Long Island, New York
I met Adam through an ex-mutual friend on Discord after I was invited into their group of friends, which consisted of their best friend, another couple, Adam and I. Besides the few people who would join sometimes. Me and him hit it off, I was head over heels and too in love to see any signs that anything was wrong. Adam would have me fly up about once a month to go see him, our relationship lasted 7 months, and through those 7 months they were some of the worst of my life. I mean this man stayed with me through my toughest hours, surgery and the like. He would do something, and always apologize but never made any efforts to fix anything. He was messy and unkempt and it’s like he kept it that way so I would continue to do those things for him. He would never let me say no, especially in situations where I wanted to and I had to either deflect or somehow wiggle my way out of basically being forced. I went over to his friends house one day, our mutual friend, because I trusted the guy and wanted to just hang out (not leaving them out despite our relations). It was the worst choice of my life, bad things happened and when push came to shove, I really thought Adam took my side. At the end of our seven months when we were having a rough patch and I came back up. He told me I was costing him too much, that I really didn’t know our mutual friend like I thought I did, and he didn’t believe me about what happened. I “needed a reality check”. He wanted me to leave and not even call my mother and tell her anything. He got very pissed off and left when I did, and I felt unsafe from what had happened that day let alone having to live with the guilt for 3 months from what their friend did. So he blocked me immediately before even knowing I was leaving, when he left. I was belittled, made fun of, and got some of the nastiest messages from their friends after that. I was so heartbroken after that, and while I never wanted to run anyones name in the mud, I really hope no other girl gets SA’d and used like I did from these two men. You deserve better, remember there IS always better out there waiting for you. We do not deserve guys who act like little boys, we need *men*.
Salvatore Abbatiello from Westbury, NY
Sal is a narcissist, a pathological liar, and possibly has mental health issues. He latches on to smart women who own homes and have their head on straight. He lies about his past, plays on emotions and makes you feel like he was a victim in his past relationship. I wound up giving more and more of myself because I believe all of his lies. Next thing you know he moves in, doesn’t pay rent, or any bills because I believe he’s trying to get on his feet. I loan him money to start a business. We buy a boat together. Fast forward after 7 years of mental abuse, I finally break up with him and he tries to take me for everything. Attempts to come after my house, threatens to sue me, refuses to sell the boat. Blacklists me with all of the boat brokers and the marina. Find out he never paid the summer docking fees for the boat (since he wasn’t paying rent he was supposed to pay the docking fees). Come to find out he’s done the exact same thing to at least 2 women before me. He has next to no reportable income (runs a cash business). He hides his money from the IRS. And now, he currently has a new “victim” in his life who he is preying on. He free loaded off of me for over 7 years and used me to buy a boat as he couldn’t get a loan in his own name. He is now trying to take the boat from me – even though I paid the down payment and am 1/2 owner. During our relationship he did awful things to me – walked out multiple times and didn’t come home for days. Left me in Key West. Left me on Fire Island with my dog (had to take a ferry home). Has screamed at me and humiliated me in public and in front of friends (at restaurants, bars, and a variety of other places). He pretends to be a family man – but in fact he only cares about himself. He not only abandoned my kids – but then tried to take my house away from them. He is a fake, a phony and a fraud – so women beware. There is not one word of truth that comes out of his mouth. He lies about the small things and the big things – but he does it all while being charming. He uses his charm to suck women in. If you meet him or he wants to date you run away. Trust me. While it took me some time to actually do it, breaking up with him was the best thing I’ve ever done. I’m not regretful and my only purpose here is to warn his future victims – do not get involved with him and definitely recognize the red flags as there were plenty that I ignored because of his charm. You will be in for a very expensive and very hurtful journey.
Anthony Ross from Jacksonville FL
Anthony is a pathological liar and cheater. Found out that he was s3xually involved with at least 10 other women while we were dating. He does not use protection with any of us. He doesn’t take care of any of the 6 kids he has. He is a walking red flag!
Ben Wolfe from Vermont
I learned about narcissism after we broke up and I discussed his behavior with my therapists and counselors. He engaged in the classic narcissistic relationship behavior patterns:
It started with love bombing, in which he gushed over how much he adored me and how devoted he was. Not knowing the pattern at the time, I believed him, and I gave him my heart like I thought he was giving me his.
Then there was the future faking, in which he told me he wanted to move to where I lived so he could be with me (we lived hundred of miles apart). I never asked him to do this and never would have asked, but he came up with the idea and stated repeatedly that he wanted to move for me. Then later when I brought it up he gaslighted me on the whole issue, acting like he’d never said or thought such a thing. He seemed offended that I thought that moving was on the table for him, and said that instead he wanted me to move for him.
Then came the devaluation and discard.
I couldn’t understand how someone who loved me as much as he had claimed to could treat me that way. And that’s just it: someone who loved me that much wouldn’t. He had never loved me and it became clear.
During our brief time together there was also nonconsensual sexual contact. At the time I was very religious and wanted to save sex for marriage. He said he wanted the same. But he pushed and broke my boundaries. He physically forced me to do something I’d never done before and wanted to save for my husband. Then walked away without even looking me in the eye. If he had, he would have seen how unhappy I was. Not that he would have cared.
I consoled myself with the thought that he was going to be my husband. He said that was what he wanted. He was lying.
He lied a lot. And not just white lies… nor only the major lies like “I love you.” He also told silly, pointless lies on more than one occasion as if just for the kicks of seeing what he could get me to believe.
And of course, he projected his own character flaws, such as lying, onto me. We had an argument about something and he said he thought I was lying about a thing. I insisted I wasn’t, but then he said that even if I wasn’t, he was still right to assume I was lying! What a mind-f***. And that was typical with him. Lots of mental/emotional abuse and gaslighting. Everything was always about him. My feelings were nonexistent or irrelevant and stupid.
He pretended to be humble but his faux self-deprecation was a manipulation tactic to demand endless emotional catering.
He also disrespected my finances and expected me to pay for a lot of things that I shouldn’t have.
If you come across this guy, please, PLEASE proceed with caution. He initially presents himself as the kind of wholesome, spiritual, thoughtful, down-to-earth man that many women dream of. But it’s fake and it may just scar you for life like it did me. I truly would give almost anything to have never known him.
Damiano Fusca from Hermosa Beach, California
Damian is so sweet and so charming, he says all the right things even agreeing to be exclusive with you. After more than six months I caught him with another woman at his place when he had said he was at work. Awful! Come to find out he juggles several women at once telling them all the same sweet lies. He admitted to me he has no emotions. It’s all about s3x for him, of course. DO NOT fall for his bullshit! He is a really good player..be warned!!
I met Damian on a dating app. He messaged me and seemed genuine then asked to exchange numbers so we did. We talked for a bit and before long he was asking me to come to Hermosa Beach for a date. This was 2023 right before Easter so when we made a date after the holiday. The night before he text me that he had to cancel due to traveling to Pittsburgh. He would call and text me while away then when he returned asked to see me soon so we set another dated for May 10th. On that same day right around 12:30pm he asked to cancel, his brother wanted to watch the Lakers game with him so I said fine. I was discouraged now but he kept pursuing me so we met on May 12th, 2023.
He was so sweet, charming and generously giving compliments. I fell for it. After a few more dates we were together on his bed and agreed to be exclusive. That was on June 2nd, 2023. He moves extremely QUICK!
After months, every so often he’d have to cancel plans with me due to being depressed or just saying tomorrow would be a better day and promising to make it up to me. Sometimes he’d have weird excuses like working on a Sunday out of the blue all of a sudden, working in the film industry I gave him the benefit the doubt.
Then this last weekend he said he was going to work with his brother on his show (his brother’s a comedian) that Saturday and agreed to have me over his place after 6pm Sunday evening (April 7, 2024) I looked up his brother and he had been in Cincinnati since Friday doing his shows until Monday. Damian was LYING!!!
It’s an hour drive for me to get to Hermosa so I got on the freeway to arrive at his house around 6:08pm. I text him my eta 20 minutes after driving. He immediately calls me and says he’s working and so sorry but he won’t be home till really late. I’m so upset and crying, I already know he’s lying. A few minutes later he text me “are you ok? I’m sorry”. I say no and I’m still in route to his place. He, again, immediately calls me and confesses he has someone else with him who’s been there all weekend. I told him I’m coming over, better get rid of her.
Once I’m there with him the questions and talking is on. Eventually he admits to having multiple parters he juggles throughout the week and doesn’t plan to stop.
He looks for women to charm then manipulates and lies to get s3x and will keep lying and stringing them along to keep them available for him to have s3x with whenever he wants it.
He also said to me he has no emotions, that he’s “a piece of shit”. I believe him now and wish I would have never fallen for him. The hurt is tremendous!!!!
Dale Hunt from Pittsboro, North Carolina
He said he was a Dominant, if you’re into that lifestyle. He’s as manipulative and as narcissistic as they come. He tried to keep me as a side chick while he moved to North Carolina from Radford, Virginia. He does nothing but lie about nearly everything while telling you the sweetest things. Be careful, he’s insane. (Also has an extensive criminal record.) Stay Safe, Stay Aware.
Someone name Kristina listed this guy also
Antonio (AJ) Russo from Seven Valleys, PA
We were dating, talking about marriage, and told each other constantly how much we were in love and never wanted to lose one another. Things were GREAT. We wrote each other notes and letters, he sent me flowers, and I made him a basket of his favorite things. It was everything to me and he made it seem like it was everything to him. Then, he just GHOSTED me. Mind you, I was his girlfriend, not just a fling he was talking to. I was his screen saver on his phone and had met his friends and even some family (that one only through the phone). The very last time we talked, we were on the phone and he told me how much he loved me and was excited to see me for our date later that week. We went to bed and then woke up to never hear from him again. Texted him from another number and he responded right away. I don’t know what I did or what went wrong. Everyone I talked to just said he was psychotic and even gave off psycho vibes that I had just been oblivious to. I’m writing this because I’m mad but part of me still hopes he has a happy and healthy life. Just be warned, if you end up dating him next, he has a history of love-bombing and leaving without a word.
Scott Ross from Fortuna, CA USA
Scott is a narcissistic predator. I had to get a restraining order against him because he tried to kill me. He is absolutely a sociopath. He doesn’t really care who he hurts as long as he gets what he wants. He is truly the worst person I’ve ever met in my life. The first three things that he ever said to me, were all lies. He’s an alcoholic and a drug addict. He is also an IV drug addict. He’s also a compulsive gambler. He mentally and physically abused me. He’s tried to kill me several times. He cheated on me so many times. He hooks up with people from craigslist. Male or female. He doesn’t care. As long as he gets his supply. Several times when he was very angry at me, he would tell me I sucked other girls’ pu**y juice off of his d*ck. He’d swear (on the souls of his children) he wasn’t cheating on me, then get angry at me and send me videos of him having s3x with the girls he had cheated on me with. Twice he left me for another female and proceeded to rub it in my face and send me pictures of her naked saying “this is my new girlfriend. She is awesome. She treats me like a king. She listens to me when I talk.” He gave me an STD. Upon getting treated for the STD. And because he was cheating with men and women, I was told I needed a hepatitis B shot. 12 days after I had the hepatitis B shot I had something happened to my heart. And it threw me into lupus. Now I am chronically ill. I caught him on craigslist so many times. He posted almost daily looking for threesomes with bisexual males, and females, females who would trade s3x for drugs, and gay men. He is also very much interested in having s3x with transves*ites. He called me ugly fat old every single day for three years. And this list barely scratches the surface. He is a monster. If you meet this man, I recommend you run as fast as you can in the opposite direction. Everything that I have said is absolutely true.
Bobby Goff from Caldwell, ID.
Bobby was my BF and then fiancé for over a year. I found out he was full of lies, deceit, and cheated on me the entire time non-stop. Unfortunately, it took a year to find all this out. I had my suspicions but needed factual and physical evidence to back up my “gut feelings”. How I found out: I went to his house planning on staying five nights there. His ailing mom lives with him and she was excited about my stay. When I got there, he had been drinking prior and passed out on his bed. His cellphone was unlocked with an active text string that had naughty pictures displayed. So naturally, I took his phone and started going through his text messages. Come to find out, he’s been meeting up with different women at hotels, sneaking women in and out of his house, going to their houses, and meeting up with different women after work to sleep with them. There were 18 women (I stopped looking at that point) he was actively s3xting, and the majority he was sleeping with. I’m so happy I found all this out before I married him, moved him into my home, or co-signed on a new truck with him. I definitely dodged a few huge bullets. Ladies in this area, PLEASE BEWARE, he’ll love-bomb and breadcrumb you. He’s narcissistic and a severe serial cheater who’ll sweet-talk you and doesn’t care who he hurts physically or emotionally.
Kenneth Andre Goolsby (Kenny) from Cleveland, Ohio
Andre (as I knew him) has extremely manipulative and controlling tendencies. We were engaged for 2 years, in a relationship for 3 total and we tried to work things out for an additional year. In that last year, I told him 4-5 months before I finally fully ended everything that if he was seeing other people, I needed to know and we would need to use protection. He agreed. 4-5 months later I ask him point blank if he’s seeing other people, he told me it wasn’t my business. I then asked him if he was having s3x with other people, again, his response was that isn’t my business. I broke up with him on the spot and have never been happier. Don’t let him fool you- he has a lot of baggage and he won’t accept any accountability for any of it. His ex is always to blame. And he doesn’t know why he has such bad luck with women. I was engaged to him and dreaded the thought of marrying him. So glad I left- he caused a lot of trauma and was incredibly toxic in his approach to relationship building.
Justin Smith from Vancouver, BC
Justin Smith lives in Vancouver, BC, Canada and is 45 years old. He has been married a total of 3 times, and is a habitual cheater. I learned this hard way by dating him and he of course cheated on me. It wasn’t until after our relationship ended that I learned of his cheating past.
I know he uses tinder and bumble, so if you are in Vancouver and see a 45 year old named Justin, approx 6’2″ tall and 190 pounds, just be aware you could be talking to a cheater, plus really a man who has been married 3 times, probably isn’t the type of guy you really want to be with.
Chris Fogel from Foresthill, California Sacramento, California
I posted in the ex boyfriend list awhile ago. Everything was true, but I’ve come to realize Christopher Fogel was in a very dark place. Doesn’t excuse his behavior, nor have I received an apology. He does deserve a chance to be a better man. I believe he can be. I’ve been in the same spot almost 10 yrs before. I was angry, vengeful, lost in a bottle, letting my conscience rip me apart. I was toxic to myself and to my loved ones. Thankfully, I’m doing much better now. I’ve been forgiven
, I’ve been giving a second chance and am working to not be that person ever again. Christopher Fogel should have that chance as well. We all make mistakes, we all have dark times. Chris Fogel was in his. I wish our relationship was different but it had to happen. It made both of us face reality. A vail has been lifted in my life and I’m in a much happier place. More independent, I’m very aware of who I give my love and time to. He had to put in the work too. Now he’s clean, sober, working full time, no longer homeless and working on himself. I still have moments of anger but I’m working on them, I have forgiven him. Used the experience to become a better partner for my future relationships. I owe him an apology for publicly posting about our relationship and its turmoils. I’m sorry. Good luck to everyone and thanks for reading this.
Stuart Paynter from North Carolina
This guy is an extremely rich litigator with his own Law firm in his state. Comes from a very privileged wealthy background, ivy league schools background paid by his grandfather. He goes on random dates lying about his marital status and his dating intentions when he is away on vacation. He is a typical male liar both by profession and personality. He is extremely irritable and entitled as a result of his privileges. He won’t care about your concerns or feelings one bit. And he will ghost you the moment he is does the deed once and or if you just tell him the truth. Can’t tell for sure but likely may be carrying a strain of hpv associated with cervical cancer. Rich tall white guy yea but don’t be fooled.
Joseph Benvenist from San Francisco CA
This guy is a compulsive liar who has very poor self control. Throws temper tantrums. He will lie about anything to get his way. He is deeply insecure and hates himself. Extremely needy. His profile on dating app says he is 7 yrs younger and several inches taller than he is. He is very irritable and angry and should not be trusted. His finances are bad, hardly works, will take x10 more than he gives. His nice and civil appearance is fake , don’t fall for it. He pretends to be many things he is not- super arrogant annoying cant stop talking about his IQ which the very need to talk about it should tell you to run for the hills. Bad lover, ick. Bad personal hygiene. Spare yourself. He says “sorry” at times but don’t fall for it, he doesn’t mean it- he won’t change.
John J. Gerding from Tampa, FL
I have never seen a more classical example of a malignant narcissist in my life. He is physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive. He is a pathological liar that has no issue lying to get what he wants. I had to flee the house I furnished and a lot of my belongings in one day to escape him after four years of threats to ruin my life, and finally, bringing a gun into the house when he wasn’t legally allowed to have one. He is an attorney now, but he fabricated a resume to get into law school and had a felony conviction. I escaped him 5 years ago and am still undergoing treatment from PTSD. Nothing is EVER his fault. He pretends to be a dumb stoner (also an alcoholic and a coke addict at the time) but he is the most terrifying person I’ve ever met. He put his hands on me more than once and convinced me I had done something wrong. He is a misogynist looking for a strong woman to break. He didn’t break me, I got out and I know what he is, but I don’t know any other woman to suffer him ever again. If I’d know this site existed I would have posted sooner.
William M Parsley from San Antonio, Tx
William (from Arkansas with a masters and phd just to further identify him) is a serial cheater. Everything about him is a carefully constructed ruse to seem like an emotionally mature and great guy. He isn’t. He has no respect for women and cheated on me the entire 3 months we were dating. Despite asking me to be his girlfriend, and frequently calling himself my boyfriend, we never went out on a date. He’d disappear for hours and hours with no response or comment on why he was unresponsive. His friend Skilar is his cover, so if he’s hanging out with Skilar, beware. After one particularly absent weekend, he invited me over to spend the day at his place. He slept the whole time, after kicking out his friend (Brian) who was still there, and the next day I asked what his plans were. “Nothing today but I’ve got plans with Skilar tonight.” At this point I was done giving him time and space to back up his words with actions, so when his phone went off and he said it was his mother I knew that looking over at him (his back to me on his couch, cuz he was guess what, napping after just waking up) I wouldn’t like what I saw. And I didn’t. His plans that night were with a girl named Fabi. After he fell asleep, I checked his phone. Didn’t go all the way through it, this was a new experience and I was freaking out), but sure enough, any girl he texted was either someone he was seeing or was trying to. Telling them he hasn’t been in a relationship in over a year, things gotta go slow, he’s looking for something real, etc. he told me he loved me, that I was special, etc but now that the blinders are off I can see him for what he is: a narcissist with a cheating problem. Knowing what I know, it’s not much of a stretch to say he was cheating the entire time (I’ve done nothing but go over every time he disappeared or said or did something questionable- like sending me a reel of Scotty Doesn’t Know from eurotrip, because “it’s a good song”). He’s a narcissist, he love bombs, breadcrumbs, gaslights and manipulates women so he can sleep with whomever he wants to whenever. I feel like such an idiot, this man was definitely laughing about it behind my back with his friends. He’ll tell you he has some trauma that makes him super weird about his privacy and not showing up unexpectedly at his place even to surprise him. He’s 37 years old so there’s no growing or changing from that. Good luck out there girls.
Michael Sullivan from Picton, Ontario Canada
So my ex’s name is Mike Sullivan. He literally eats feces. I am not just saying that to be petty, but he actually eats poop. I was only dating him for 2 months and I had no idea about this. After looking on his phone, there were videos of himself eating it. I almost gagged when I was watching one.
I asked him about it and he kept saying it was not him and he said that the bathroom that the videos are filmed in weren’t his bathroom and persisted that it can’t be him, completely denying the fact that it very clearly was him in the videos, and being oblivious to the fact that these types of videos are even on his phone to begin with.
I just basically kept saying “So whose bathroom is it then Michael?” and he said “I don’t know, not mine”.
I scrolled through his phone some more and there was a video that showed him in the exact same shirt that he wore 2 days prior. The video starts with him taking his shirt off and then eating feces from the toilet.
So long story short, he ended up admitting it was him in the videos, saying that he was posting them online to make extra money in the “adult market”.
The fact is that he is a liar and kept something as serious as this from me. Everyone might have their kinks but someone who eats shit is not something I am prepared to deal with. It doesn’t make sense that someone is going to post it for the “adult market” if they don’t already enjoy that type of thing. It is clearly his fetish and he wanted to keep it from me.
Gregory Miller from Canton, Michigan
He had been divorced for about 2 years. He still had/has pics of his ex wife on social media and his phone. From day 1, he’d assure me that he’s moved on from her. Months into our relationship, I find out that his ex is still on his phone plan and hadn’t paid her portion in months. I tell my ex that I’m not comfortable with the pictures and sharing the phone plan. He states I’m insecure and that I need to trust him. We compromise with the pics, to take them off of social media and put them on a flash drive. He stated he also contacted his ex about the phone plan. A week goes by, and nothing is done. I bring it to his attention again. He states that he changed his mind and that I’m insecure. I told him he needs to choose between her or me. He said he’d think about it, then ghosted me for 24 hours. Then I received a text from him saying due to his lack of letting go of the past and my insecurities, he felt there was no need to continue our relationship. He also added, “I had a lot of fun with you. Sorry it didn’t work out.” Throughout our relationship, he said he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. The next day, he texted me asking for the s3x toys he gifted me for Valentine’s Day. I threw all his stuff out my front door, including every single thing that reminded me of him. I’ve also deleted all pics of him and blocked him on everything. Women, beware of this man. He’s a sweet talker and claims to be a Christian. He will make you feel vulnerable and hurt.
Thomas Gilliford from Denver, Colorado
Found Tom on Groupon offering massage, back in 2014/2015. Went to him for a few sessions, always borderline flirty, but nothing happened. Reconnected with him years later when we matched on a dating site and dated for a few months. Lots of red flags, like he always had strange times he could meet up, didn’t like to be seen shirtless with the light on. Turns out he’s engaged and has a kid and would only meet up with me when his fiancé was out of town for work. I was super upset but looking back it all makes sense… he definitely has a serial cheater kind of vibe.
Nicholas Scott Berger from Leesburg Florida
Narcissist, energy vampire, possibly soulless, plays victim but no YOU will be victimized. Weapons grade manipulations, emotional black hole. Lies, steals, destroys. Will only take and give almost nothing back once he’s got you mind messed up with gaslighting, denying truth, blame shifting. Biblically he is a Mocker, a Scorner often driving others to anger and rage. Attempts to get women in compromising situations if he can easily do so and then condemns her. Sitting with this man may lead to your demonic possession.
The love of God is not in him. Protect your energy or you will get drained fast. Don’t believe future faking. He is attuned to your feelings but only has feelings of hatred to devalue you. He always has more supply lined up in case you don’t feed his ego well enough. Don’t believe you’re his sunshine or that he wants someone to grow with. He’s not a real boy but he’s 43 and lives with his parents with his teenage son. He needs a woman to make his material and lusty day. If you don’t enable his antics or accept that he’s perfect and you need to change. Good Luck!
Watch how he treats people in the world. That will be YOU the moment you are devalued.
Qies Hadeed from Allentown, PA
This is a man who is still a little boy concerned with reputation and not character. He will lie cheat and tell you what you want to hear use a woman till he is tired and moves on. He lives his life by wearing different masks showing certain parts to certain to people but never the truth. He is concerned with his name brand cloths, his appearance of how wonderful he is on the outside, he loves his social media photos and videos of all his travels but will try to hide you in his secret life not post pictures of the two of you by telling you lies which somehow you’ll believe.
He has many addictions such as gambling, online shopping to feel better about his image spending thousands weekly on high end brands and even addicted to s3x. He has cheated with his coworkers, he has many online dating profiles flirts and shares explicit photos. He has no friends no real hobbies and his only concern is to travel, document it share it online get as much attention as possible and feed his ego. This is a Narcissist who will charm you to your face but behind your back to his family and others will tell a different story.
Brent Bennett from Chenango county New York
If you want to be used, manipulated, lied to, forced into submission, discredited, degraded, made to feel worthless, useless, and filthy… He’s the man. You will be cheated on, and put into a rotation alot. You will be gaslit and bread crumbed then stonewalled. He studies psychology to manipulate people to get what he wants in life, mainly women. It’s easier for him to get women to keep the rose colored glasses on than it is men. Men can sense his ways much easier. So he is exceptionally careful dropping the mask around men.
If you want to see some of the darkness, get him plastered with liquor. You’ll see sh-t you’ve never seen before.
Run.
Just run and never ever look back.
Cody Hall from Lincoln Nebraska
Lives in Texas. Stationed in the Army.
I was with Cody for 4 years. Two of which we were married. When I met Cody he told me he loved me after two weeks and pressured me into telling him I loved him. We were on deployment. He had a 8 month old daughter at home. And he told me he wasn’t with her mom. That she was cheating on him and how terrible she was. He made me feel bad for him. Throughout our relationship I never talked to his ex and got the full story. I provided for Cody financially and emotionally. He was cold faced and showed me no emotions. I cried so many tears over him and rationalized the red flags. He is not in his daughter’s life as he should be, nor does he want to pay child support. I am the one the bought clothes and toys for his daughter. He hid his alcohol problem from me. Hes addicted to p0rn. He never posted about me on social media and hid me from his family for 2 years…
I dropped Cody off for the army. And I went on deployment. He confessed to cheating on me 2 days before I came home. Then while saying he was sorry, he entered another relationship. He told her I was cheating on him and that we were legally separated… He broke me. I found out because she told me. Cody is narcissistic, has no emotional connection, and is selfish. He prays on women who want to be loved and who care. He has never been alone for 10 years. Before his baby mama he was divorced. I made peace with her and discovered that they were still together when he met me. Be careful. Check his phone. Watch his actions. And do not believe his words. He needs to do a lot of work on himself. He has not paid me any of the money he owes me. Do not give him money. He will use you. His middle name is Alan. He is currently 30.
Wesley N from Bellevue
He cheated on me for a childhood friend that came out of no where. He has been having red flags that I ignored. He never visited me when I had surgery and lied about being too busy. He often gives other people attention over me. And when we were together he always seemed absent. He claims he actually cares a lot but really he only cares about himself. He says his pet peeve is when his partner doesn’t have enough drive go make a better life for himself but really he has no patience and decided to cheat. He claims he wanted to break up for awhile but was too much of a coward to break up. This man will only date you out of convenience and will never truly love you. Do not waste your time on him like I did. I gave him so much of my love and he knew how much I loved him. He is very charismatic but do not fall for it.
Shawn Hutchins from Epping NH
He is married living with his wife. He was arrested and jailed in 2008 for raping multiple woman. He is cheating on his poor wife everyday. He is mean and very rough and demeaning. Be warned woman Shawn Hutchins is scary and does not know what NO means.
Omar Quintero from San Diego, CA
After dating Omar for over a year he asked to borrow money. I lent him $2500, which he promised to pay back but never did. After we broke up, we stayed friends. I hired him to redo the floors in my house. He promised to give me a good deal using his contractor discount. He asked me to pay for the materials and promised to pay me back the $2,500 he owed me by not charging for his labor.
After a while, he ghosted me without doing any of the work or giving me the supplies I supposedly paid for.
It’s been over 2 years and he still hasn’t paid me back.
Meanwhile, he was lying and telling people I was pregnant with his child. (I wasn’t).
After telling friends about him taking my $ and disappearing I learned he took thousands of dollars from another single mom. I think he preys on single moms and takes their money. He’s a narcissist who lies to manipulate others. Watch out!! Don’t give him any money or your heart.
He is a contractor and artist in San Diego.
Will Baez-Santiago from Georgia
Did not care about giving me herpies! Denied still being married and let me pick up tab for everything. Lied to me and tried to sleep with my best friend.
Matt Archer from Gaithersburg, MD
He is a pathological liar and will never apologize. He is obsessed with staying young so he lies about his age on all dating apps. He will never commit. He always has several woman he is chatting with and sending nudes. Stay away from this guy. He is on several meds that make his behavior extreme and scary. Run
Clay Griffin from Cairo, GA
Girl, stay away from him. At first, he’s going to come across as nice and put together. Then he’s going to tell you that all of his exes are crazy. Google him is all I have to say! He is mentally and physically abusive. He will call you 500 times per day, and he needs to know where you are at all times. He has real problems. You’ve been warned.
Nicholas Johnson from Scottville, Michigan
Nick and I dated for 6 months, the first 3 were the best I have ever experienced…and then I had a first class seat at the sh-t show. He was filled with rage, took it out on strangers, animals, etc. It was like watching a child have a sissy fit when things did not go their way. Did not respect my feelings, pressured me to move in ASAP, verbally abusive, demeaning, manipulative. And the negative qualities continue…under average manhood, failed to give me an orgasm, ED, and wet the bed for 3 months.
And rightfully so, I did what would eat away at him. Moved everything out of his place while he was out of town. I never said a damn word, he walked in and all my shit was gone. I do intend my post to warn others however, I walked away as a better, stronger woman. So, thank you Nick Johnson for making me smarter so in the future, I will avoid insecure douchebags like you. And I soundly sleep at night, knowing you will self sabotage anything good in your life. So if any ladies run into this half of a man on dating sites, just remember he can’t perform and will piss the bed every weekend.
Justin Dean Smith from Desoto, TX
I met him as he was dating a girlfriend of mine. I noticed his rage immediately when he would call or react towards her aggressively. I hated him initially because of that particular flaw. A few months later we become friends then started to explore something more. He is devilishly handsome and has a nice build to top it off. He is aggressive with his flirting and can make you swoon from across the room with that one look he has. I fell for it and things were amazing the first couple months. Then he ghosted me for a couple months. I ran into him again at a mutual friend’s and we hit it off yet again. For the next year and a half I was stuck in the cycle of being lovebombed then completely broken down by his verbal and (at times) physical abuse tactics. Me being a divorcee of 20 years I was naive to all of this manipulation. I stayed in a state of shock most of the time and feigned for the good times yet again. I would find where he would reach out to both male and females for ego-boosting conversations or sexual favors. He would also manipulate other women for financial gain as well as for housing. He also stole my underwear and negligees all the time so he could oil himself up, watch p0rn, and wear them while he took pictures and pleasured himself. He had no car, no drivers license, no high school diploma or college degree, no job or current job history, no home, no goals for his future and he had a drug and porn addiction. He was an absolute nightmare disguised as a night and shining prince with the chiseled face of a Greek God. He eventually discarded me after I maintained his phone/ food benefits while he was in jail for 4 months. He made sure to give me a novel long text and final-end review on my looks, s3xual abilities, and my overall character. All of which were lacking in his eyes of course as to why he moved onto another innocent victim. My life has plummeted since we started dating and every bit of “love” that he showed turned out to be completely fake. I’m left broken, confused, and mentally disturbed. Ladies, do not be fooled by Justin’s good looks and charm as that’s all he has to offer that is actually pleasing to anyone.
Bryan Yaworski from Marengo, Illinois
Bryan Miles Yaworski From… Flint Michigan, Rochester Minnesota, Marengo Illinois, Ocala Florida. We want people to know to STAY AWAY!!! Bryan Yaworski is dangerous! He is from Illinois, Florida but all of America should be warned, He moves a lot of woman in his home, because of the relationships he blows up. He gets so delusional and unhinged after falling in love that he is terrifying despite his small build. He can be very charming and charismatic at first, and the woman that have been with him are fine as long as it is casual but as soon as he catches feelings a switch flips and he becomes a controlling narcissistic Monster. Please be careful! I’m terrified he is going to kill a woman one of these days. He gets completely irrational and stuck in his own delusional reality. Don’t get sucked in by his seemingly cool lifestyle it is all a mask he wears to hide his black pit of a soul. Please don’t fall for it. He will manipulate and control you. Police are always escorting woman out of his home. Bryan’s own mother with gaslight. Ps. If you are unlucky enough to have known him like this all of his exes have been in contact with each other and shared our horror stories about him. It’s pretty therapeutic so reach out if you think it would help, unfortunately we all know where you have been.
Paul from Kalamazoo, Michigan
He’s a cheating, closeted man who isn’t smart. He was amazing in the bedroom most of the time, but he’s a narcissistic sociopath!
The moment you start suspecting he’s cheating and even get proof, he’ll act like you’re crazy-even with proof. When I broke up with him he stalked me, my family members (called my mom), contacted my ex husband, etc. I had to remove my social media.
He’s a bald headed, white guy who had an Italian dad. He’s got a black beard and grooms himself well. If you’re looking for a good one night stand-he’s your guy! If you want substance, honesty, stability; run…as fast as you can!
Paul’s idea of a good conversation is talking about how he starts problems with his coworkers. If you’re really lucky, he’ll tell you time and again about “his” glory days; aka drunken younger days.
He doesn’t enjoy being with confident women and he even thinks that he chooses broken women because he can help them. Of course his idea of helping a woman involves him sucking on the privates of men, when he’s not busy manipulating you and getting wasted!
From Detroit, Michigan. He lost a wife to cancer but he treated her horribly up until the moment she passed.
Every single time he talks, it’s like your brain cells die from how boring he truly is.
Good luck and hope this helps another woman.
Dennis Hult from Moberly MO
He started off amazingly he was charming, caring, supportive everything u would want to have in a boyfriend except 1 small problem….he was married….he did eventually leave his wife and we began our 7 year relationship. Starting out like a dream come true he was there for me when I needed him, he would do little things to help make my day easier. After a few years it all started to change, slowly at 1st, he became moody more frequently, he stopped doing the sweet gestures he had done before, he would change plans frequently. I questioned him about it asking if everything was OK or if I could help him somehow. He blew it off blaming work, stress over seeing his kids, family issues. But as time went on it got worse instead of better. In the last few years he would intentionally start petty arguments with me, he became critical of things about me he claimed to have loved, he would randomly be “needed” in his home town to help a dying family friend, he rarely invited me to go anywhere with him, and I barely got to meet his friends. Fast forward to a month ago he doesn’t have a car so he asked if I would take him to his friends house so he could do a tattoo for them and he would find a ride home later. I dropped him off he gave me a kiss, said he loved me and would see me later that night. I haven’t seen him since, he has responded to 2 messages I sent (one from a fake number just to see if he would answer if he thought it wasn’t me, I have found out he has lied to his friends and stolen money from them. I also find out he has been lying to me about several random things throughout the years along with some fairly important things he should have told me about. I have been told he is strung out and messing around with his female drug dealer (a girl who he had previously lied to me about saying she was dating one of his friends which she apparently never was). He left all his belongings at my house including his “beloved” dog ignoring messages asking about her food and care even. He has blown off seeing his kids and lied to them about even why he hasn’t seen them going as far as to say I had said they couldn’t be at my house for various reasons. I literally supported him the last 3 years we were together and because of me his kids were able to have Christmas presents the last 5 years. It is the complete disregard to anyone’s feelings but his own and his cowardly choice of a relationship exit strategy that I want to warn ladies about. He will seem like everything u are looking for and slowly will become someone u don’t even recognize. He will use u for whatever he needs from u and will discard u without a second thought all the while portraying u as the bad guy. Beware ladies I wish I would have had a list like this 7 years ago before I basically wasted almost 10 years of my life for nothing.
Jose Lugo from Staten Island, NY
He is a narcissist and a liar. He will love bomb you and then slowly destroy you and take over little by little. He is a cheater in several relationships at one time, always talking to other girls and strippers while we were married. I finally left him due to violence towards me.
Stefan L. from Williston, North Dakota
Currently lives in Williston, ND but is from Michigan. Previously lived other places for military training. Narcissistic, manipulative, avoidant. (Admitted verbally to me to having narcissistic tendencies, that his attachment style was avoidant, and said he believes he has bipolar disorder). Verbally, emotionally, psychologically abusive. One minute was extremely loving and kind and love bombing me, the next was cold, heartless, rude, and acted like a completely different person. Lied a lot. Love bombed a lot. Pulled away a lot. Ignored me over Christmas without warning to hang out at a friend’s. Met a girl while there and then had sex with her a few weeks later just days after breaking up with me. Kissed a girl on new years eve just days after another time he had broken up with me. Broke up with me the day I found out someone very important to me had passed away. He has a lot of unhealed trauma and my empathy took over and I kept taking him back every time he would break up with me and pull away, as he would text and call a few days later and apologize and say how much he loved me and missed me and how much better he was going to do for himself and for me. He would falsely accuse me of all kinds of things – cheating, monkey branching, manipulating him, having an only fans account, talking to other men, etc. I wasn’t doing any of that. He was extremely manipulative himself and knew exactly what to say to make me fall under his spell. Will tell you everything you want to hear, to get you to come back, then discard you when he’s had enough, then he’ll come back a few days later to do it all over again. Never meant what he said. I never knew what mood he was going to be in. The littlest things could trigger him. I never knew what to even say to him out of fear he would get upset. Please stay away from him. He has severe trauma from Special Forces training, from his childhood, from high school sports, etc. that he has not healed. Claims to be actively working on healing which is another reason I stayed and kept taking him back, but that was a lie as well. Won’t take medication. Won’t see a therapist. Won’t go to the doctor. It was one of the most bizarre experiences. Falsely accused me of saying horrible things to him that I never said. And was extremely adamant that I said them, that he heard me say them. Almost like he was hearing voices or something. Told me that he’s had a dark entity around him for the last 10 years and it tells him all the time all these bad things to do but he’s learned to not act on those bad thoughts. Believes there’s a curse on his family. When I visited him the one and only time, which was our first time meeting in person, his apartment was a pigsty and he still had his ex’s clothes all over his bedroom (even though he told me they had broken up 10 months earlier). Even had a suitcase full of her clothes on the floor of his closet. Her bra on his bedroom floor. Her thong in the bathroom cupboard. Her prescriptions medication in his kitchen drawer still. Weirdest experience ever. Please stay away from him. He will use you to make himself feel good, then discard you like a piece of trash. Told me not to make noise during s3x because it made me a wh0re and men who want a wife don’t want a wh0re for a wife. Seemed extremely misogynistic and told me how much worse men have it than women. Seems quite paranoid. Lots of toxic masculinity present. He is hurting so deeply inside himself and needs to heal a lot before he becomes a safe person to be around or to give your heart to. He doesn’t love himself, and so he doesn’t know how to love anyone else, either. Hurt people hurt other people, and he is hurting immensely inside but refuses to help himself in the ways he needs to. So please be careful.
Anthony Michael Shepard from From St. Louis, Currently in Portland, OR
Anthony and I met on Tinder. We dated for nearly a year before he ended things by inviting me on a coffee date, which he explicitly said was just a date and nothing serious. I get to the coffee shop and sit down expecting a typical date, only to be surprised by him telling me he wants to break up because he “just realized he doesn’t find me physically attractive.” I asked him what he found unattractive, and he said “Nothing in particular, just not attracted.” This was insulting and surprising because when we first met, he said he was mainly looking for a FWB. He would make sexual comments, feel on me, kiss me, all the things to suggest physical attraction. He was the one who asked me to be his partner and officialize our relationship. All this had me believe he was actually interested in me. Additionally, I’m not ugly, I’m fairly conventionally attractive, and in all honesty, was the cute one out of the two of us. One sign I ignored was that when having sex, he would have trouble staying hard, but he would say it was antidepressants or he had a lot on his mind. At the time, I thought they weren’t lies, but that he was actually dealing with issues with medication because I have dealt with that before myself. Turns out he was just a deceptive attention-seeking asshole who, in his own words, “only liked the emotional and intellectual intimacy and time spent together.” ONLY?! I don’t know about others, but for me, those things are some of the most important parts. The physical will change over the years no matter how hard you try. This to me showed his priorities, this man is not looking for a relationship, he is looking for sex fantasies at the expense of substance. More so, he is willing to lead others on and play with their emotions until he’s done with them. I couldn’t handle my emotions at the time of the break-up and being in a public space was making everything worse, I told him that and he said he was willing to meet later to discuss so I could have time to digest things. I said I would need this and that we should end the conversation because I would just be yelling at him if I stayed. I messaged him the next day to ask when he was free to meet next, as I wanted closure on the situation. He replied saying that he refused to meet up because of how I “handled my anger.” Further stating that he felt like he was being belittled and disrespected because I called what he did “disgusting.” I was fairly calm considering things, but I did say that what he did is rude and disgusting cause it is. I asked if we could do a phone call at least. He refused and then proceeded to block me. Anthony Michael Shepard is a selfish, deceitful, a-hole, who uses people with no regard for the consequences of his actions nor the hurt he causes others. He hides behind this nice, shy, nerdy facade, but underneath, he’s no better than your typical f-boy.
Jose Lopez from Rancho Cucamonga California
First off he is a liar! He loves to tell you how as a Leo he is strong, there for you etc, etc., but he’s all in for himself. If you don’t live up to what he wants he makes you pay in emotional and coldness. He is totally self centered. He says he’s a great lover but he sucks. He has such a short temper and will embarress you with his mouth. He thinks because he drives flashy cars and makes $$ as a firefighter you should be impressed and he uses that to suck you in all the while telling you that you are the only ONE HE IS SEEING and he is A LIAR AND A CHEAT. He has multiple women all who don’t know about each other, quick to propose to suck you in and act like he wants to spend $$ on you but it dries up very fast!!
I have caught him so many times my tears are dried up from all the times he broke me. PLEASE LADIES TRUST ME this 40 something has been fireman is not worth it. He will break you heart and piss you off with the way he treats you like crap.
Carl Anderton the 3rd from Delmar, Maryland
During this relationship, he seemed normal, until I found out he stalks his exes. Multiple girls had messaged me asking if I could make him stop. That was too much for me so I broke up with him. He threatened to rape my stepsister (she has down syndrome btw). This happened 10 years ago and he STILL harasses me. I have blocked dozens of his social media profiles and he continues to make more. About five years ago he tried to get me fired from my job at the time by pretending to be an upset customer and he filed complaints to my boss. Now he’s harassing me (and my fiance), saying he has “proof” that I cheated on my fiance.
I have gathered multiple screenshots and pictures of proof that he won’t leave me alone so I can get a restraining order. But I want other women to know so they can stay away from this guy. I think he’s about 26-27 years old now.
Santos Martinez from Santos Martinez
Santos Martinez from Big Springs, TX who now lives in Cibolo, TX is using dating apps tinder, match to find and defraud his victims. He was pretending to want a relationship, then got me to start paying for things. However, he was messing around and has an std. Once you get infected and confront him, he will leave you infected and with all your medical bills. He was messing around with his ex and hooking up with other women. He will target women in Cibolo, San Antonio, Lubbock, TX, the guy moves around. He will use and abuse you, stay away from this guy and if you have been his victim report him to the police so this romance scammer can get caught.
Edward “Ross Corristan” from Jacksonville Florida
The form asks what I want people to know. I want people to know to STAY AWAY!!! Ross Corristan is dangerous! He is from Fl but all of America should be warned, he moves a lot because of the relationships he blows up. He gets so delusional and unhinged after falling in love that he is terrifying despite his small build. He can be very charming and charismatic at first, and the woman that have been with him are fine as long as it is casual but as soon as he catches feelings a switch flips and he becomes a controlling narcissistic Monster. Please be careful! I’m terrified he is going to kill a woman one of these days. He gets completely irrational and stuck in his own delusional reality. Don’t gets sucked in by his seemingly cool lifestyle it is all a mask he wears to hide his black pit of a soul. Please don’t fall for it. He will manipulate and control you.
Be safe and good luck. Ps. If you are unlucky enough to have known him like this all of his exes have been in contact with each other and shared our horror stories about him. It’s pretty therapeutic so reach out if you think it would help, unfortunately we all know where you have been.
Julian Kozerski from Salt Lake City
This man has cheated in every single relationship he’s ever been in. He cheated with a complete stranger while I was home taking care of his sick daughter. I only learned after that he had cheated on his ex-wife while she was going through radiation treatment for her cancer, and used his child as an alibi.
Marc leblanc from Regina sk canada
Very very dangerous ladies ! Dated him for 4 years up until 2 days ago. Mental abuse so bad that I feel like I’m never going to be the same . Then I found out after all this abuse he has been cheating on me for 2 year with a girl from Manitoba. Her and I talk and she ran too . I should have ran earlier but he groomed me here are some messages he sent me and her messages to me. He was engaged to me but telling her he loved her. He was planning on bring her to Regina to live . I’m supposed to marry this man. Then he screen shot a personal message between us a while back to use it against me . Who does that to someone.when he got busted for cheating on me and then realized he lost control he went to the police twice to get a restraining order but had not worked . I’m mentally beat just hurt
I’m seriously crushed how can someone be so mean , he called me dumb stupid bad mom , no one wants me . He would say shut up or get out. Made me drive home Xmas Eve to be alone as a punishment so I spent Xmas Eve alone and Christmas Day alone then emailed me to say Merry Christmas I love you . He would block me on social media and cell as a punishment but would email lol tells me cheating is disgusting but he was lieing the whole time . When you react to the abuse he would flip it and play victim. He made me out to look crazy but he was actually the one.
I have been in recovery for 9 years and he used my past and threw it In my face when he got mad . You don’t do that you support the person you are engaged to
I have tons of messages I can share with you as well as emails and then the other woman’s as well . He will mentally destroy you so bad
John Wang from Caldwell, New Jersey
Don’t even think of eating anything he thinks is unhealthy. The first thing he did before we even made it official is slap my face to stop me from eating a cupcake…yes a singular cupcake. He laughed and called it a “shock slap” he was very proud since it worked. He had thrown the amount of money he spends on our trips, gifts and food in my face. He loves to play double standard; what he can do like touching parts of your body are completely off limits for you to do to him. He will question the reason you’re putting makeup on. He’ll say that all your “700 creams and lotion don’t seem to be helping your face”. He swears that he can see your privates no matter what kind of pants you’re wearing and that makes you a hussy, he’ll flip out if you don’t post him on social media and change your status to taken even though he won’t do the same all because he has little to no friends/followers. When I told him that everyone on my friends lists knows him and that I hardly ever post pictures and when it was a picture of just me fully clothed that meant that I was trying to advertise myself as single according to him. He called my very dead and out of date Instagram a ho-ish Instagram because I didn’t have him name or photos in it..my account is private and I haven’t posted in like 7 years now. He will give you early red flags like saying if he doesn’t want to be in a relationship he’ll start doing thing to get you so upset you’ll break up with him, I don’t think there’s too much I need to say on that one. He told me that he thought about cheating on me but he didn’t so he deserved an atta boy for literally doing the bare minimum as a bf. When I tried to save our relationship from ending by doing any and everything be wanted he was cold, belittling and would use crazy tactics such as keeping me up at weird hours of the night to fight. He went through every single message, from family to my friends to even my nail tech. He accused me of sleeping with just about everyone…even my own family. I had told him of one guy that was abusive in my past and he threw that in my face and said that I called all the guys I’ve been with abusive, and that I’ll do the same to him. He demanded that I tell him every single person I’ve spoken to during the entire 5 years of our relationship. He took the opportunity of me being vulnerable enough to be intimate with him one last time to take an STD test in hopes of it coming back that I had cheated. When the test was clean and he couldn’t find evidence of me cheating he only go angrier as there was nothing to feed his delusions.
If you talk to John from Caldwell in New Jersey he will make himself seem like a woe is me, soft boy that had his heart broken by some manipulative, lying, gaslighting cheater (all the things he called me to my face and behind my back). The real reason we broke up if because he saw old messages between my and an old collegue/guy friend that he didn’t like and accused me of cheating, he saw that me and one of my longest high school guy friends who he was ‘okay’ with had called and FaceTimed me a few times and when I couldn’t remember every exact convo he thought I was cheating. He went down that belief so hard he thought I would go back home to NY to cheat on him, I never cheated on this guy but he didn’t belive a word I said.
So please be careful when you start seeing John Wang from Caldwell, NJ he’s very good at coming of like a nice, smart, mature guy but he really is insecure, controlling and very immature. Also ask why you never go to his house and he only meets you halfway or spends the night at your place/hotels. He lives with a weird guy that will absolutely make you uncomfortable and when you bring it up John will laugh in your face.
Keegan Vandermeer from Denver Colorado
We started out pretty simple, just friends with benefits. It went well for a while sleepovers here and there things like that hanging out and I didn’t really notice it in the beginning for what it was or what I think it was, but he would start fights with me by saying, or twisting what I had said, and then blamed me for starting the fight, and then would punish me by giving me like the silent treatment, and make me therefore react in a panic anxious mode, and then he would blame me for that as well after I reacted, and I didn’t quite catch on until the end of our relationship. Things would go up and down, but he would always start a fight with me, then blame me for it then punish me for it, and it really took a toll on me, especially when he would leave state to travel to do competitions. He would always start a fight with me while he was gone to just get a rise out of me and then use my reaction against me. He’s a total mindfuck, then at the end of the relationship when I guess he feared he had enough of me and was ready to move onto the next bitch. He said he couldn’t handle me anymore and that I was too much to endure when I was reacting to his reactions and then panicking and then he would blame me for my own reactions for him starting to fight if you can follow along. He’s a horrible lying on Reasonable human being and I wish I never met him but if you get with him he’s going to fucking manipulate you he’s going to try to make you feel like you’re crazy all above you’re gonna be the blame for everything and he will not listen to a single word syllable. Nothing that you have to say he literally has not Processed or absorbed anything I’ve tried to tell him to get to listen to me I even try to put a little presentation together for us to heal our inner or childhood wounds together and he just does not listen for shit. Does it care about anybody but he put me through so much emotional distress and then try to blame it all on me now you got me messed up Kid he’s a piece of shit don’t fuck with Keegan, Vandermere and Denver Colorado.
Jayson Rodriguez from Fort Mill, SC
The crap list for Jayson goes on and on. While we lived together, he started ignoring my calls around his ex (who he has two tattoos of, lied about removing over the years, and never has). I went to my parents for awhile one night he ignored me for her, then came back to a changed door lock. He changed the locks to an apartment we lived in I was paying half for. I banged on the door, and moved out the next day. As I was moving out, he stole my White Water Center sticker from my car. When I left, he owed me $900 for helping with an old tax bill. He never paid me. I accepted him working on my car periodically, while still occasionally sleeping together, because he totally refused to repay anything.
When I refused to get back with him while he continued to lie: lying about being on dating sites (as he was telling me he wanted to get back together), lying about going over his exes, lying about not being able to afford to repay me, lying about places he went, lying about never removing the tattoos, lying about going to church – he then somehow blamed me for all of it. Saying he didn’t have a chance to keep his word, after two years…..
Then would randomly block me – literally to go over his exes – then unblocked me.
He came over one night, promising the world, doing a little what he promised, then left in the middle of the night as I was asleep.
The cycle of him doing tiny things then disappearing, blaming me, lying to me, continued, until I left for months. Then one day said he could work on my car – only to find out he slept with me, and another person later that day.
There are so many other shitty things I could say. Like how he got upset at me because I didn’t like him talking to his ex on instagram, promised to fix my heater (fall season), then kept delaying and literally laughed at me when I told him I was cold in the morning. This guy is a total piece of shit. I could say even more.
If you’d like your crap stolen, to be cheated on, lied to, literally left in the cold – and potentially get an STD (he gave me BV), then by all means, carry on with this 46 year old guy piece of shit. Then lies so bad you feel sorry for him and want to believe there’s no way he could be that low – he is. And lower.
Ralph burke from bronx ny
Oh man where to start with this guy! Well loser! I was with ralph Burke for a long time until he broke my heart and played me for a fool. he has so many women! He thinks he is better then everyone but he’s not he’s a low down dirty shame. He wears glasses has a big egghead and is crazy and very sneaky! And his mom ruled his world. He was just mama’s boy. Heartless! He has no care for anyone in this world just himself why cause his a corrections officer at rikers island! Please. His mom made him get that job. He is a narcissist man. He will make you feel sorry for him but its all behind his mask! He has very low self esteem and his breath is not the greatest! But still thinks he’s better then everyone. He has multiple women I mean multiple! He comes off as a man you will always want but ladies trust me he is not that man you think! If you know better you will do better! Stay away from him. He lives in the Bronx. And he cares about his animals more then he will you. Now he don’t talk to his mama cause of what he did to her! But you can find his mama in the Bronx and ask her yourself who he is! Ladies please stay away from this man. He’s only with you to make himself feel superior! He’s not a man with true feelings because he’s so insecure! Don’t stay with this crazy sneaky man! Leave while you Can trust and believe. He hurts women’s feelings he plays you like a kid who out grows a toy. His sex is not great either! And his breath is just as bad as his sex! And remember he’s a sneaky narcissist man who preys on women cause of his low self esteem. His friends are hoes too! They all look down on women just want what’s in between the legs. That cookie. But Ralph burke is trash. A liar and a whore! Had to bring this man up. Even though we dated a long time ago and was still on and off he played me and he will do that to you! Ralph burke from the Bronx wack virgo man! Stay away. Never look back keep moving from him. smelly breath!
Kenneth Schlueter from Fulton, Tx
He’s actually not my ex boyfriend. He’s my soon to be ex husband.
If you look up liar or cheater his picture will be there. He’s been physically emotionally and mentally abusive to me, if he’s not cheating you better make sure he’s still alive and breathing. He’s a thief, and has some odd undeserved power trip going on. He thinks he’s God. You answer to him but he damn sure doesn’t answer to anyone. He’s downright cruel. 14 years of my life- down the drain.
Eric scarbrough from Tucson AZ
When met him he had 2 kids that he had custody of and a good job. He was amazing, or so I thought. 3 months after we moved in together he “started” having money issues. When asked why he revealed that he actually has 4 kids. He slowly stopped going to work and lost his job. From then on I picked up most if not all of the financial burden. His children, especially his daughter were complete sociopaths and he was a covert narcissist. His children could do no wrong while my children were denied food and decency while I was at work. He would tell my children that because they had a father that they visited they could just eat there. He gave me an STD. I noticed it on his genitals and he told me he didn’t tell me because he didn’t want to give it to me. When I got it 3 weeks later he told me I gave it to him. Gaslighter to the extreme. Would say the shittiest thing and when called on it 30 seconds later would deny ever saying it and would call me crazy. Had a fun habit of waking up at 4:30am going into the bathroom and would start ranting and talking mad shit about me and my kids and would do it loudly to make sure it would wake me up. Was very jealous. I couldn’t go out with my friends without him and if I did would get a barrage of hateful texts. He hated my parents of course. Even though my mom would bend over backwards to help take care of his kids, buy them school supplies, uniforms, clothes, pick them up and drop them off. Never once got a thank you from him or the daughter. I became very ill at the end of the relationship. He of course wasn’t working and I could no longer work, my parents paid our rent and expenses for 9 months which only myself paid back. He would get on my phone banking app while I was sleeping and use it like it was his own.
I finally got away but the damage has been done to my children and my emotional state. My children have forgiven me, but I can’t forgive myself for allowing him to worm his way into my life any psyche. I don’t believe I will ever be in another relationship. I will never trust myself to be able to find a nice person again. Plus he have me and STD that will never go away and I would never put another person’s health at risk.
Narcissistic, gaslighting, STD having leech.
Sean Gilbert Langley from Fredericksburg, VA
Liar, Cheater, narcissist, abuser. He cheated on his pregnant girlfriend multiple times. Left her in the hospital with their second son who is in the Nicu..to go hook up with a prostitute. he has several DV cases and has several DUI cases. Doesn’t use protection also hook up with guys. Very dangerous. He will come off as the victim. That his exes are crazy and out to get him. But if you have talked to anybody that has dated him, it’s all the same. He lies, and he cheats. Only has been abusive with his wife and baby momma. Yes, he is currently still married. But will say he’s divorced and she won’t give him a divorce. Which is also a lie. Is behind over $17,000 in child support.
Anthony J Graves from New York, NY
Anthony is a habitual liar and cheater. He cares about his immediate family which is nice, but he is never able to see a bigger picture or follow through with things, leaving his romantic relationships to fall to the waste side. He has cheated in every relationship he has been in, and started our relationship the same way. He is afraid of commitment, shallow, only cares about material things, and is incapable of loving another woman other than his mother. Lastly, his mother treats him like her boyfriend. Their dynamic and codependency is unhealthy. He goes through vicious cycles, so please beware!
Colby James Pearce from Plymouth,Wisconsin-USA
This is incredibly difficult to write, but I am putting this out there in case someone else is put in this position. It took going to therapy to realize that I had been abused in more than one way, I hope by putting this out there that others can avoid him and learn the signs. Not all abuse ends in bruises.
This poor excuse for a man:
• Sabotaged my position at a place I used to work because he was jealous of the position that I held at that company and was jealous of the male manager I worked with. I lost my position at that company because of it.
• Screamed at me for getting a tarot card reading, in front of 2 other witnesses repeatedly demanding I tell him what was said about our relationship in that card reading.
• Took my sister’s pictures, without her consent, and tried to pass them off to someone else who did not have access to them.
• Would harass male friends if they hung out with me without his consent.
• Only allowed me to do things he deemed “alright” in his eyes. If I did anything that was not okay with me doing, he would harass me. ( On one particular evening, I got harassed for going to a concert in another state. I was supposed to meet up with my uncle and go to the concert with him.)
• Became extremely jealous of any male friends that I did see or talk to that weren’t his friends.
• Used me for my credit, then did not allow me to pay 2 bills when they became past due. Which affected my credit score. Financial Abuse.
• tried to rape me on at least 2 occasions (4th degree sexual assault) while I slept. I woke up on more than one occasion to him assaulting me when I refused his advances earlier in the day. For this to stop, he told me that I had to agree to have sex with him going forward.
Kim Rosenberg from Jacksonville, FL
Kim Rosenberg is a woman, and my ex-wife. I hope it’s ok that I use this platform to warn others about her. While Kim was married to me (I’m also a woman) for almost seven years, she could easily now be dating men. While the gender she’s dating may change, her tactics will not. Kim is the definition of a covert narcissist, and she’s very hard to spot. I didn’t put 2×2 together until the very end of our marriage, and by then the damage was already done. Because I was the bread winner and we’re no longer together, Kim is desperate for a new main supply to pay the bills. Her desperation will put her covert narcissistic qualities on full display, making it next to impossible for the person she sets her sights on to escape unscathed. Education is the key to keeping yourself safe. Start with understanding the very important differences between an overt and covert narcissist. Overt narcissists are easier to spot and what most of us think of when we hear the word. Covert narcissists are much more subversive, they’re wolves in sheep’s clothing.
Kim in relationships wants love and admiration but struggles to accept it long-term. Her ‘love bombing’ early in relationships transitions to a constant trial where you’re expected to prove your love in a situation where proof is disallowed and invalidated. She’s got no empathy, she’s entitled, she gaslights – all with the goal of avoiding any kind of accountability. She’s unable to communicate her needs and mirrors you in the love bombing stage to cover up her lack of self awareness. She moves fast, and once she’s hooked you the devaluation slowly starts. Hindsight is 20/20, but I noticed a change in her on our honeymoon. Kim looks for successful people with the heart of a pleaser. She’s also got an identical twin sister that enables her every move. You as her partner will be a third class citizen by the time all is said and done. She’ll say one thing to your face but her actions will tell a completely different story. When Kim Rosenberg tells you who she is – please believe her. She’s a liar, a cheater, a manipulator and an entitled user. All she cares about is getting validation and supply, which could come from anyone. She treats strangers better than her partner. There’s no loyalty, no awareness of how her actions cause a reaction. In fact, she loves a reaction because it allows her to continue her role as a victim. Please watch out!!
David Phillip from Marietta / Chattanooga
Beware is narcissistic and plays gaslighting games. Also plays mind games with women. Have no respect for any at all women. This also includes his best friend that finds women for him or each other. Both play games with these women making them feel small or weak minded. Just using them to get some kitty. Always trying to find a way to have a threesome. Which also may lead to them taking videos without parental consent. Plays gentlemen, showing hospitality, offering drinks specially alcohol to only get you drunk then takes advantage of you. He’s had relations with over 50 plus women including does not using protection. Keeps previous videos/pictures from past relations. Women, please watch for this man. Do not become a Victim.
Joe M Hayes from Oakland, CA
My 54-year-old boyfriend of 20 years cheated with his 26-year-old research intern Amy Gong Liu of Alameda, CA. After a year of sneaking around and taking midnight hikes, 8-hour runs around the neighborhood, etc., he told me and his 3 kids he was in love with Amy, they wanted to be together, and it had become too difficult to keep secret, but the last thing either of them wanted was to break up our family. He never said a thing through 6 months/25+ hours of couples therapy, said our relationship was medium, not super close but not full of conflict and strife that we needed to split up. He told Amy we were in an open relationship and he could verify that for her.
He took my kids to Alameda Beach with her and to her home. When a neighboor by chance ran into them, he introduced her as his new co-worker who just moved to town and he was showing her around to the cool local spots.
I kicked him out of the house the day after he confessed and he was surprised. He thought he could keep living here and we would work it out. He put his stuff in a storage unit and went to live in schmoopie junior’s mom and dad’s Barbie townhouse for a few months until he could afford to sublet a room with a bunch of roommates. He is still shocked at my reaction. He thinks he can explain.
Kyle Bomgardner from Sedona Arizona
Hung out a few times hooked up once (omg he has a small d1ck like literally the size of a bic lighter) came back on my lunch break and caught him wearing one of my matching bra and panty sets (other bras and panties were on my bed he had been trying them on) and literally taking my sexiest dresses out of my closet to try them on. He had taken pics of himself in a few of my sets, some videos of him playing with my vibrator like he was a girl, and a videos of him sucking and then sitting and riding my d1ldo. He had BBC and Sph and Sissy training porn videos all over his phone history. Between his tiny d1ck and Being able to wear my clothes it’s no wonder he is a sissy.
Travis Joel Allen from Baldwin, Florida
Travis and I dated for ten years. In those ten years Travis was emotional abusive, you cheated on me several times and always made me feel worthless. Travis puts on a good show as though he’s the perfect boyfriend then when we get behind closed doors the real hom began coming out
Javier Antonio Perez from San Antonio, TX
Ladies this guy is married, he goes around lying to women claiming that he is single. Not true, he is married and will then start stalking and threatening you when you reject him. He is Puerto Rican and not afraid to hurt you. Do not trust any drink this guy gives you. I got really sick and dazed after he brought me a drink from the bar.
Lanton Young from California
I didn’t have any panic attacks or anxiety issues for ten full years before my relationship with this man. Things would be great between us for weeks at a time, then out of the blue, he would start these big arguments. He would want to break up, stating each time that he “wanted to see what else was out there” because he’s “never been in a relationship that lasted more than a few months.” I never understood why he would suddenly be saying these (and many more) mean things when I was putting all my energy into trying to help him feel more comfortable and relaxed. He forced me to quit three different jobs because he would find something about it which would bother him to his core. But, he was always bothered about something. His boss (no matter which job) would always be out to get him. He would complain about every customer or job location. He would complain about not being fit, but would refuse to go with me to walk around the block. During our first year together, he told me he wanted to marry me soon, and have a child or two in about five years. Four years in, and a year after I had my IUD removed for him, he still hadn’t proposed (because he “wanted to do it properly”) and says he still won’t be ready for kids for another five years. (I used the IUD to relieve my Dysmenorrhea symptoms, but that didn’t matter to him.) When I was working as a gig driver, he told me that I had to be home by 5:00pm everyday, so that I was there when he got home (even though his job would regularly keep him out three or four hours later, sometimes more.) He would go out to party with his friends from work, sometimes without even telling me until he came home. (I would think the job ran long.) He would make up accusations about me cheating when (looking back) I’m pretty sure he was cheating with his coworker. All he does is complain, sit around playing video games, and fall asleep during s3x and blow jobs. And, he wastes tons of money on concerts which he would rather go to with his friends. He is filled with anger and envy towards his little brother. He hated everyone in his family except his grandfather, but refused to go to his funeral because he didn’t want to deal with his (admittedly) horrible grandmother. The worst part is that he intentionally shot his father in the leg while they were at a gun range when he was a child. He admitted to me that he wanted his dad dead, so he aimed at him and pulled the trigger. And, his father did almost die.
Jeremy from Albany NY
Originally from Albany, NY
Residing in St. Pete Beach, Fl
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Abusive, Alcoholic, narcissist gaslighter
Will wine and dine you to get in bed
Gets abusive when drinking
David Smith from Saint Augustine Florida
David was great lazy but sweet until I found out he was letting other men have their way with him in our house I came home to find him being f-ed in the a55 on a dog leash and sucking another man I took pictures and videos for evidence before they noticed the men fled and David left with nothing
Also to know if it’s him he’s got a small tool
Anthony Michael Shepard from From St. Louis, Currently in Portland, OR
Anthony and I met on Tinder. We dated for nearly a year before he ended things by inviting me on a coffee date, which he explicitly said was just a date and nothing serious. I get to the coffee shop and sit down expecting a typical date, only to be surprised by him telling me he wants to break up because he “just realized he doesn’t find me physically attractive.” I asked him what he found unattractive, and he said “Nothing in particular, just not attracted.” This was insulting and surprising because when we first met, he said he was mainly looking for a FWB. He would make sexual comments, feel on me, kiss me, all the things to suggest physical attraction. He was the one who asked me to be his partner and officialize our relationship. All this had me believe he was actually interested in me. Additionally, I’m not ugly, I’m fairly conventionally attractive, and in all honesty, was the cute one out of the two of us. One sign I ignored was that when having sex, he would have trouble staying hard, but he would say it was antidepressants or he had a lot on his mind. At the time, I thought they weren’t lies, but that he was actually dealing with issues with medication because I have dealt with that before myself. Turns out he was just a deceptive attention-seeking asshole who, in his own words, “only liked the emotional and intellectual intimacy and time spent together.” ONLY?! I don’t know about others, but for me, those things are some of the most important parts. The physical will change over the years no matter how hard you try. This to me showed his priorities, this man is not looking for a relationship, he is looking for s3x fantasies at the expense of substance. More so, he is willing to lead others on and play with their emotions until he’s done with them. I couldn’t handle my emotions at the time of the break-up and being in a public space was making everything worse, I told him that and he said he was willing to meet later to discuss so I could have time to digest things. I said I would need this and that we should end the conversation because I would just be yelling at him if I stayed. I messaged him the next day to ask when he was free to meet next, as I wanted closure on the situation. He replied saying that he refused to meet up because of how I “handled my anger.” Further stating that he felt like he was being belittled and disrespected because I called what he did “disgusting.” I was fairly calm considering things, but I did say that what he did is rude and disgusting cause it is. I asked if we could do a phone call at least. He refused and then proceeded to block me. Anthony Michael Shepard is a selfish, deceitful, a-hole, who uses people with no regard for the consequences of his actions nor the hurt he causes others. He hides behind this nice, shy, nerdy facade, but underneath, he’s no better than your typical f*k-boy.
Ronald Torgersen from WindGap PA
Gaslight to the max. He did everything right and perfect in the beginning. He had my picture as a Screensaver on his phone. Printed pictures of us and put them all over the house, hard working, would really listen to my opinion, asked me to move in right away. Seemed perfect. Until I saw his drugs, meth. Xanax. Weed. Started drinking at noon. Sometimes sooner and wouldn’t even come to bed some nights. Gambling problem. If I tried to bring up the drugs and drinking he’d tell me it’s my fault and he doesn’t do drugs and he failed a drug test and I have found it in the house now 4 times in a year. He started being abusive. Dumping beer on me, he shoved me into the ac unit, into a night stand and bruised my rib and I could barely walk and sit and stand up, it took 4 weeks to heal if not longer. He’s destroyed my things numerous times and tell me it’s my fault and I make him do it. He’s destroyed our home multiple times, he can’t even get all the holes in the wall fixed before he smashes 3 more in the other wall. He screams so loud and freaks out and breaks and throws anything in his way. It’s scarey. He caused 1600$ worth of damages to an airbnb we stayed at together on a vacation, which turned out to not be a vacation at all. He can’t get hard because of the drugs and ED. To any girl out there. He’s a wolf in sheep’s clothing and an abuser; everything he does will be your fault.
James Eide from San Francisco, CA
He shoots up meth and im pretty sure is borderline psychotic maybe psyczophrenic?
He seems normal at first and like he has it together but run away as fast as you can.
Ruben Guerrero from Appleton, WI
This guy goes by Gabriel now and uses that or Ruby Tuesday. He is on every dating site there is while he was living with me rent free. He cheated on me with multiple women and gave me HPV, BV, herpes, and now Chlamydia. He is a true sociopath per my therapist. He put me down in every way but doesn’t pay his child support nor call or send his kid anything. His own daughter said he wanted to sleep with her. He tried to sleep with my son’s 18 year old gf. He demands s3x whenever he wants but does not care about if the woman receives pleasure. He has stood me up on 2 birthdays and countless other occasions he said we should do to bring us closer. Latest is he got a job and is using a different name, then he wanted a referral bonus from me so I got hired and found out his alias. He bought me flowers just to tell me his “new” name is on his vest and then called in the days I had to work and now switched his schedule. He is abusive verbally, financially, and emotionally. He NEVER apologizes and doesn’t ever think he is wrong. He tells me I’m dirty and smelly. He picks on how fast and hard I work but all he’s done is made a dent in my couch.
Andre Clarke from Bronx, New York -Jamaican
I was with this male for almost 10 years, friends first for 15 years. We have two children together. During those 10 years, he proceeded to live a double life that I was unaware of and was battling with his own personal demons. The last two years of our relationship became volatile. Physical abuse became more prevalent and frequent. Gaslighting and mental abuse became more recognizable. In the last year of our relationship in 2021, I found out that he was sleeping with both men and woman. The worst part and most heartbreaking was I found out in the summer of that year that he was abusing our children and suffers from pediphilia. I was able to get full custody of my babies, an order of protection as well as for him to not receive visitation. My concern is for the woman and children that he will be around before he is actually prosecuted. Please be careful and aware. Believe and listen to your children no matter how young they are. I made the mistake of trying to keep my family together, but ignoring all the red flags over the years because I was so convinced that I was in love and whole heartedly trusted and believed in this person. Please be safe and keep your babies safer.
Kris Isherwood from Toronto, Canada
Talk’s to ex’s while still living with a partner and uses them as easy rebounds. Don’t trust kris.
Richard Bedell from San Antonio
Richard is a pathological liar and a s3x addict amongst other addictions. He actively engages with s3x with h00kers and pr0stitutes, while lying to you saying he has a low s3x drive. He engages with unsafe s3x with woman and men, has s3x openly in parks & frequently drives around exposing his genitals or staging in parking lots exposing himself. He’s a cheater, a liar, he lives a double life, he’s a stalker. Stay away from him. He’s toxic and nothing short of pure evil.
Kody from Colorado
He’s got signs of a narcissistic personality that I should’ve recognized, but didn’t until our relationship was over. I didn’t realize how toxic it had become and how much of myself I had lost.
He was low-level controlling, always telling me “you should____” Ex: you should get your nails done, you should put more blonde in your hair (he told me this one SO many times that I finally caved, even tho I didn’t want to), you should curl your hair, you should wear these types of clothes, you should start a small business in XYZ, you should buy that, you should get a different job, you should move. Like an idiot I did almost all of what he told me to do because I was so eager to please. And he ate it all up. But if I set boundaries on what I wasn’t comfortable with or was hurtful to me, I could tell he was frustrated and irritated. He’s a salesman and is good at it—he’ll treat you like a client that he’s pushing to do things/buy things. NOT HOW A WOMAN SHOULD BE TREATED IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.
He’s OBSESSED with image and looking good, and with money and “making it big.” He was antsy and dissatisfied with everything, it seemed. Even with a solid job he wasn’t satisfied. Even with a solid salary he wasn’t satisfied. Even with a solid girlfriend whom he loved and she loved him, he wasn’t satisfied.
If you don’t match up on every single thing, he will eventually find issue with that. He’s also got a temper he tries to hide. In fact, if he’s reading this somehow, he’s probably getting really angry that I wrote this, instead of being self-aware enough to work on himself and his issues.
And the worst part?? If he would’ve communicated to me what was going on, I would’ve worked with him on ANYTHING. But he didn’t communicate. AT ALL. Big red flag in a relationship. And I wish I could’ve called him out on all his bull.
He may try to hide his issues but the truth always comes out.
Fred Hoess from Colorado and New Jersey
Fred Hoess #fredhoess , a talented enduro motorcycle rac-
er is and was seeing multiple women he met and meets primarily on Tinder and simultaneously (typically on the second date) proposes
love, marriage, future plans with the women, continues on Tinder, would see and or talk with the women on the same days, use the women’s homes, their bodies, and their time and money for his benefit. It wasn’t until a third woman showed up late one night while he was with one of the women that his criminal behavior came to light with at least these three. His ability to manipulate, betray and humiliate women is criminal. He primarily travels around NJ, CO and the Rocky Mountain region. You’ve been warned ladies.
William Anderson Jr (sometimes Hatton) from Portland – Sweet Home, OR
I was madly in love with this man. He seemed decent and kind. My kids loved him, and his family accepted us. Turns out he’s a meth addict. He is very good at hiding it and keeps a normal sleep schedule. I took him back after I found his pipe on the condition he stay clean. He couldn’t. I bought drug tests on Amazon and asked him to pee for me days later when he was exhibiting symptoms of being high. He did pee after he packed up to leave, and all 3 came back positive for meth. It’s probably why his dick barely worked too.
Erik Humphrey from Niagara Falls, NY
He is a liar and a cheat. When you first meet him, he comes off as genuine and caring but it is all a hoax to lure you in. He will cheat on you mercilessly and then gaslight you into thinking it’s your fault. He cares about no one but himself. He has a decent job but will find ways for you to do things for him.
mac cepeda from san antonio texas
he has raped and abused, physically and emotionally over 4 people. he has an assault charge that happened 11/6/23
Douglas O’brien from Cornwall, uk
Was with him from too young an age, I had just turned 15 and he was 17, he kept me on a hook for 4 years, only turning up when he’d heard I was dating someone, then when he was 21, he decided he was ready to be with me, moved me to liverpool for his last year of uni.
Then we moved back to Cornwall together, I stayed with him for 5 years, when I wanted to leave, he threatened to hurt himself, kept me there with these threats for years, when I did finally leave him, he did everything he could to financially ruined me, stalked me for 2 years, broke into my room, did weird stuff to my dirty laundry, took personal things, when through my bin, only stopped when I caught him doing it on a secret motion camera in my room. He very carefully moved me away from everyone, isolated me, took away my identity over years, broke me down, made me feel guilty for wanting to go to uni, for wanting a job, made me feel like anything I did without him was a betrayal.
He claims to love animals but when he noticed I was trying to get out of his hold, such as getting a job, repairing relationships with friends and family, daring to stay over at my dad’s house, he was ‘so worried about me’, that he forgot to feed or give water to our rabbits for 3 days, and one died due to GI stasis even after I rushed her to the vets as soon as I got home, I was heartbroken, and he just blamed me for leaving him, because he ‘couldn’t function without me’. That was when I actually saw how he controlled me, and punished me for things I did that he couldn’t control, that was the day I stood up to him and told him he was dead to me.
He broke me down mentally so that he could control me, took control of my life, would drive me to places so that I had to be picked up by him, kept detailed logs of all my purchases, even things he bought me.
After dating other people he would still force his way back into my life, secretly becoming friends with my boyfriend, hounding me telling me he would wait until I was done with all these other ‘nobodies’, and he’d still be waiting for me. 2 years after we broke up I would still see him following me, it was only when I got footage of him stalking me that he agreed to stop.
He hides behind the calmest mask I’ve ever seen, always friendly, never shouts or gets angry, never lets the mask slip, he chipped away at me for years until I didn’t even realise I had nothing left until I spent a whole year sat on the sofa, everyday, miserable, waiting for him to get home from work, so I was allowed to go out, so I was allowed to use ‘our laptop’, so I could speak to someone.
He made me feel like I wasn’t a feminist because I wanted to lose the weight I’d gained from this and go to the gym, he told me he liked me chubby, and the only reason I would want to loose weight is to get pretty and find someone else.
If you want to date this psychopath, set yourself some serious boundaries and pay attention. He gets you in the details you don’t even notice.
He took 7 years of my life, and even to this day, he still sends letters telling me he will die knowing that the only person he will ever love is me, that he’ll die knowing he owns the memories of me being his, and that he’ll always be waiting for me to go back, because he is the only person who could ever love me for who I really am.
Ethan Landeros from Boerne Texas
Want a guy who chooses an abusive family over you?
Looking for someone who repeatedly lies to your face about loving you?
How about a partner who only believes you when his friends/family confirm what they did to you?
Check out Ethan! He says he brags about you, but tells people you’re a homicidal maniac behind your back.
He won’t admit anything bad he says about you.
He can lie 7 times in 3 minutes.
He lets his sibling put his hands on a woman for leaving their house.
He even has a parent who puts her hands on you after you told her about people touching you for no good reason.
He’s a lying coward and a spoiled brat.
He allows his friends to disrespect you and your home.
One day maybe I’ll find someone willing to hear the whole looong story, but until then:
If you want months of your life wasted and you want to be publicly humiliated in front of at least 9 people, Ethan Landeros is the person for you.
Chris Fogel from Foresthill, Ca
Chris Fogel lied, cheated, physically attacked me and Several of my friends. He lied about his entire life, family, jobs, exes and finances. He was a raging alcoholic, homeless, grandiose narcissist. He cheated on me with many different women. One of which was my close friend. He mirrored me and pretended to be chivalrous. I caught him lying often, hurting my dog and cheating with his ex while we were together. After the break-up I found out I was pregnant. I had an abortion.
He used that to try to get sympathy sex from his ex. He tortured me, calling professing his love then calling later telling me to stop talking to him. He would never leave text or voicemails of his insults and screaming. He told people it was me and that I was crazy. He wasn’t all wrong. It drove me crazy, I’m in therapy now, trying to work on my trauma. He went to rehab which is good. But be careful, he is always the victim or hero. He will lie and cheat. He has one every ex. He got a dui one night after choking me in front of my friends at a dinner party and being told to leave. He attacked me without hesitation. Didn’t care who saw. He hides secret profiles on dating sites. He also takes everything about him on the internet down. He is not a good person. Be careful please. I wish I could warn every woman about him, it makes me sad that he will have future victims. Save yourself money in therapy and avoid him.
Ronald Jay Greynolds from Boynton Beach Florida
He’s married and has no intentions of getting divorced. He told me in 2016 that he was separated from his wife and he was getting a divorce. It’s been 7.5 years now and I have had enough. I moved out of a house that we shared to get away from him and his gaslighting, manipulation tactics. I never wanted to be in a relationship with a married man, and the only way to make him finally come out and say that he was never getting divorced was for me to walk away. We haven’t spoke since. He’s a lying, manipulating abuser. Don’t fall for his fake love talk, he just wants to use you for whatever he can get from you without any commitments.
Ricarion Nelson aka B. Nelson from Kansas City, MO and Mount Ayr, Iowa
He was a liar from the jump. He will feed you this whole sob story about how he raised his self because parents were in jail for drugs and he was signed on a record deal… all lies… his mom raised him his whole life… he will then talk about how he is afraid to be in a relationship bc his ex hurt him so bad by getting prego by his cousin… lies once again… he is a narcissist and a cheater to the core… 3 years in I found out about all the girls he was cheating on me with… from day one… and while i was pregnant with his first child.. he will use you for anything he can get… nothing is ever his fault and he is always the victim in every situation. His mom completely takes care of him. She pays all his bills, buys his food, his car, etc. He is a sweet, smooth talker… one of the best ive ever met…
Mark Marley from Warsaw, IN
He dates many women at the same time and does not tell them the truth. He manipulates women to stay in relationships with him through threats. He does not want them to see other people even when they find out he does.
He is in the swinger world and has profiles on sdc and sls. He is active on Tinder.
Ruben Guerrero from Appleton, WI
Philanderer, serial cheater, has relationships with multiple women at the same time. He has multiple dates with women in one night and he is spreading HPV.
Luke lazar from Massachusetts
He killed my pet squirrel
Raj Sardessai from Houston, TX
He is an alcoholic with a third DUI (this one a felony) charge pending, and he is currently suing a strip club for damages after he was in bar fight. Bar fights are common occurrences in his life. He has a previous felony in TN for manufacturing narcotics. He is a pathological liar and will gaslight anyone that begins to understand the depths of his depravity so that he can continue to defend his need to drink.
Ronald Jay Greynolds from Boynton Beach Florida
Originally from Boynton Beach, but residing in Asheville NC with his wife. He claims that she is his ex-wife but they are still legally married and after wasting 7 years of my life waiting for him to file for divorce, I pressed the issue, and he informed me that he had no intention of getting divorced. He mislead his intentions to have a relationship with me for 7 years, and manipulated me by never following through on his promises to finalize his divorce. I moved 900 miles away to see what he did, and as expected he returned to live with her, still claiming that there’s no relationship between the two of them, but they are now living together again. Just as I suspected, keeping her as a backup plan.
Ladies beware, he’s a blue eyed libra devil, funny and fun to be with, but his intentions are not honorable. He’s not honest about his situation and will gaslight you the entire time. I trust actions, not words, there’s no accountability, or remorse for his actions. He is not what he portrayed from the onset of this story. I endured mental anguish over the 7 years, and I’m finally free. I’m here to expose him for what he really is, before he finds another woman to torture with his toxic behavior.
Frank Stankevicius from Massachusetts
Gave sad story about how all his ex’s were crazy and his ex-fiancé cheated on him and he lost his house, etc. Cheated with his ex-girlfriend (she confirms knowing him since she was 16!). Cheated when she was 20 and he was 53- gross. Has no consistent social media presence because he has no solid job history- goes from job to job and home to home (sometimes friend’s couches). He lies and cheats and will scam you that he’s a ‘nice guy down on his luck’ at the moment. Nope.
Jacob Thompson from Palm Beach, FL
Narcissist and eager to circle. Only values his own time and does not care about you or anything about you. Inconsiderate, rude, and manipulative. Stay away!
James Milstead from United States
James grew up in a disfunctional and abusive family which has affected him severely. He has narcissistic tendencies, but more importantly, the complex trauma he experienced affects all his relationships, both romantic and family. He doesn’t want to explore his trauma or heal and he will divert all problems as being your fault. His favorite phrase is, “You get what you give” which gives him permission to treat you poorly if you have any hint of attitude, frustration, disappointment, or anger in your voice. His anxiety, BPD, lack of motivation and inability to maintain a regular job are all red flags, so beware. I dated him for 3.5 years, and was older than he…so this is not a revenge warning. This is a woman to woman warning because you will suffer for loving him. His other favorite saying is, “I don’t give a f-k” and that will include you at some point. He is not fixable, and will not compromise…and wants to be mothered, which is why he likes older women.
Antoine William Rohlehr-Batts from Resides in Oakland CA, from Miami Florida
Antoine W. Rohlehr is a corporate salesman narcissist and will be whatever you need to earn your trust. He is not attractive …he’s short and awkward ( I thought he was safe, I was very wrong) but he’s a brown noser, plays off your weaknesses. Predator. I gave him a chance cuz I thought he was a nice guy! Worst decision ever! He buys his way in and uses hard times to his advantage like when my dad died and my wrist broke. He made me feel guilty for needing help. He wants to earn your trust so he can use you for social status/climbing to make himself look better. ( I helped him get a promotion etc) Why? Because he is deeply flawed and he knows it. He is totally addicted to p0rn of very young Japanese women and girls ( non-consensual rape p*** on a train…. apparently that’s a thing in Japan) and that’s all he cares about. I turned him in to Oakland PD but they haven’t picked him up yet. He will put you down, bread crumb you, gaslighting you in your darkest times like when my father passed away. I gained weight he blamed everything on me. Meanwhile he ran up my electric bill with his p0rn addiction, cost me $7,000 ruining the plumbing in my bathroom due to his negligence, told me he was going to help me with lots of stuff never did any of it. I was grieving and confused after my dad’s death, and when I started to feel better I realized how badly he screwed me over and his truth came out!!! He’s not a good guy, he’s a disgusting demon. Just because he’s unattractive and seems nice does not mean he’s better than a hot guy. Just go for a hot guy! I think these guys who are nerds in high school have anger issues with women.
Paul Bisio from Easton, PA
This physician & LtColonel Air Force veteran has been scamming women for years. He always has several simultaneous girlfriends who are promised a monogamous relationship. He is a predator who deliberately defrauds women from the very beginning of his relationships. Most never saw any red flags because he’s been perfecting his con for 30+ years. He prays on single, divorced women (and their children) and has no conscience about the damage he causes. His family is complicit and they assist in further deceiving unsuspecting women. Disgusting that he is a doctor and a high-ranking military officer. He uses those positions to create a false sense of trust.
Ian B. Mahoney from Chicago, IL
He’s a liar and serial cheater. He cheated the entire time he was married, during both of his marriages, and he cheated while his wife stood by him during his bout with cancer. He’s disrespectful, he always checks out other women and will make comments if he thinks they hot, then he’ll say stuff like, “you should dress like that”. He’s cheap, expects perfection, nails always have to be done, waxed, etc, but never offers to pay. He was cheating on his wife and his girlfriend, and left for a rich, young, unattractive hump- backed housewife. He puts out that he’s such a nice guy, but he’s a snake. He’s a selfish, self absorbed narcissist, who never thinks of anyone but himself. And now you can add gold digger to the list of unappealing traits.
Gabriel Angel Salcedo Olivo from Santa Ana, CA, USA
Is a blackmailer and abuser
(Jack) Anthony Holland from Idaho, Utah, Colorado
Have been stalked and harassed by this ex for YEARS. At first I thought his delusions were harmless and I blocked him after rebuffing his advances. But he recently found me again and sent me a s3xually explicit and violent message. He moves a lot and changes phone numbers often so it will be difficult to know where he is coming from.
Beware ladies!
Caleb Leonhardt from Lincolnton, NC
On the first date he loaded his whole life story on me and dropped that he was suicidal before me. Keep in mind that we had only met for one day. By the second date he said he was falling in love with me. He had literally only seen me two times. It only took a few months and he was already talking about marriage. ( I ignored the red flags because I was desperate and lonely) But we had to call off the marriage due to his manipulation, critical spirit, lack of motivation, lack of ambition, and just plain cluelessness. He was very wet behind the ears meaning he was pretty immature. He didn’t know how much things cost. He is very cheap and lives in a trailer. He expects his future wife to live super cheap and be a stay at home mom. However, he only wants one kid because he doesn’t want to have to move. By the way, he collects hundreds of little action figures, toys, stuffed animals and dolls. Keep in mind that he is in his late twenties. He spends all his money off of these things and porn. But he will criticize you over buying “too much food” , keep in mind I only spend about $150 on groceries for the whole month. He will criticize you over breathing too hard for real. God forbid I forget something at his house. Everything was a problem for him. My dad called him a narcissist because he acts like he can do no wrong and the other person is always the problem. He used a lot of gas lighting when we fought. He claimed he had trouble finding a girl in the past because they would block him “for no reason” after the first date haha. Honey, there was a reason, you are creepy.
Keenan Jonathan Harris or Ramirez or Mello from Long Beach, CA and Las Vegas, NV
This guy played me for a fool spent all my gambling and I gave him a home, car, money for his kids and he’s tried to ghost me, he left me said his mom was sick but went to Belgium to beg her to take him when he used me all up. He ghosted telling me he was gonna break up with her. He cheated at work met her there and they went to extended stay. He told me some stupid lie about we his coworkers called him a hoe. He mastered playing the part like he loves you
He’ll play on ur situation and you’ll think he’s ur soul mate but he is just weasels his way to ur funds and depletes it not giving no f*cks about what’s gonna happen to u with no more money. After 3+yes and 100,000 later I figure him out and called him on it and he said sorry and resumed normal program like nothing at all. Still expects me to take and pick him up from work. It’s unbelievable how he can have set with someone he doesn’t like. I feel sorry for a weak-minded girl and he likes them Young says I’m the first older woman he’s been with.
Neilbert Jardeleza from Lexington Kentucky US
We met at work. We work in Healthcare about four years ago. I thought he was absolutely amazing. I could’ve swore he was The. I had just literally met the best man ever and I knew he had just split up with his child’s mother and he was a really ugly break up he he acted like it was amicable, but I could see and I was reading text messages that he you know didn’t know that between those two and he was really kind of nasty with her but I didn’t know if maybe she enticed it.
As time goes on nothing things seem to be going very nicely. He’s very sweet, very attentive. Seems like he cared a lot. It seems like he was very into me well after so many months, I think about six months we moved in together, and we were working together same Hospital And things just started getting weird like females like just being overly friendly with females, and it just seemed very off to me, but I didn’t want to be accusatory or ruining my relationship that seemed like it was the best one ever right, right . I end up getting some emails like to my Facebook messages and it was from girls that he had worked with prior and then currently and they were informing me that he was going to work telling them that he did not have a living girlfriend that he was single and I was just a roommate so that was the first one and then of course I brought this up it was I was devastated he denied it. He said they were liars and they wanted to be with him and they were you know just trying to start stuff all fast-forward a year after that and I start seeing these weird phone numbers on our phone bill and I looked it up and it comes back to a girls name that I knew that Also had worked with us a while back at the hospital and comes find out he was having a fling with her. He says they never were intimate. They were just buddy they were just friends yada yada yada he was lonely I was ignoring him you know that kind of stuff so of course I forgave him because I loved him and he was amazing and I wanted to believe him because you know he was amazing, right so fast forward years later by now we have had so many issues with cheating lying gaslighting so many things and it just becomes very hard and it’s very complicated and I am not the type of person to you know be nasty towards anyone especially in a break up I try to make it as you know, clean and amicable as possible Well this guy literally has been spending thousands of dollars online paying camgirl to masturbate to . He’s been starting to come home but he gets off at 7 o’clock in the morning very late. He should be home at like nine. He’s been coming home at one or two every day for months and I don’t like questioning people or being in peoples business, so I try to not but becomes the point where it starts to hurt your feelings because you know somethings not right because I also work in the same field and I know when we get off of work you know so then he starts tying his phone to him like he has that phone everywhere he goes and then when he does leave it out, he’ll leave it out purposely and leave the phone open like thinking I’m gonna go through it, but he has these little codes he sticks in his phone that I learned a long time ago, and it like reroutes. All of his information is iPhone, so long story short he is a habitual cheater. I mean it so it makes my stomach hurt right now just thinking about it I’m not even just a camgirl like girls he works with and he doesn’t speak any specific type. He likes white girls, Asian girls, African-American girls, I mean, thin thick I mean he does not discriminate And these girls always lie for him. I don’t know what he says about the girl he seen, but he has got these girls. They will not write on him at all. Some of them have gotten belligerently crazy with me when I’ve asked them questions like calling me names and putting me down I’m guessing those names and stuff came from him. He is really good at manipulating and coming off has been very , very mellow mellow he seems very mellow and nonconfrontational and tell you really get to know him. He can be very nasty with his words with his actions and just comes to the point where I don’t even know if he ever really even cared about me at all because he’s so I just know the better word for it evil no cares that you know about my feelings or anything he makes when I bring up things that are you know going on that are not you know respectful with you you know his actions with our relationship. He gets very condescending towards me. He makes fun of me he he know he banters, and he belittles me about the issues like the things and then he and then he turns around and he projects to me. He rejects onto me what he has been doing And I get to the point where I feel like I have to defend myself so then instead of it becoming a whole issue of trying to get to the bottom of why are you doing this? It becomes a why I’m defending myself at that point so he’ll reroute the whole, you know scenario in general so then the most recent are you we got into, and I just like I found out about the thousands of thousands of dollars worth of camgirl that he’s been paying for to masturbate to for whatever reason which is crazy me whatever anyway but he told me that I need to learn to get some self-confidence , and not worry about why he’s lying to me and treating me like shit I was just floored I mean I literally just was I was just like wow what the f-k sorry for my language and that’s when I decided that it’s too much. I’m a beautiful girl. I’m a good girl. I’m a nice girl. I have a nasty attitude at times but it’s not on the daily. It’s only when provoked really is. He wasn’t an amazing guy on paper. He seems like the most intelligent awesome sweet caring, good looking very charismatic man and he is a he’s the devil Thing is his kids mother tried to tell me in the beginning and I didn’t listen his ex-girlfriend before his kids mother even tried to contact me and let me know that he was not a very nice person when it gets you into the relationship and I didn’t wanna believe it. I thought they were all lying and being jealous, and they were not. They were being truthful, and I felt for it and I got , I got you know I kinda got what I I kinda got what I signed for suppose I would just put this out there that you know although those two females were nice enough to try to inform me and you know look out it just I had that time thought that they were maybe just trying to scare me away because they wanted him back. He still amazing that was not the case. Literally they were just trying to be decent females and let me know and I’m really wish I would’ve headed their warning. so I am putting this out there in hopes that it will be right across-the-board by somebody because I’m sure there is somebody out there for this man that maybe will be a good I don’t know whatever but then again I’m mean I hope there is, but I don’t know because he seems like he’s very he has very grand thoughts of himself. He’s manipulative The I mean very good at manipulating. I really didn’t think I could handle it. I really didn’t think that I was going to come out of this unscathed and or maybe we were gonna deliver a happily ever after, and I can assure you I have been through many hard relationships, but this he got me good I’m I feel like a complete fool. He has been lying to me this whole time and it sucks but the end of the day I can’t change it I am just trying to help somebody else out in the future tread carefully girls please.
James Anthony Yates aka Jay from Jessup Pa
He ruined my life. He emotionally and physically abused me for 9 years. I finally woke up was manipulated into thinking that it was out of love. Currently have a restraining order in New York on him. I’ve had 3 protection from abuse orders on him in Pa. There’s video of him being a pervert around a minor. He has new girlfriend, Teresa Balak, who I already informed her about his abuse. From her profile she seems to be MR, if so he’s using her. He cheated and was abusing my one dog he had been smoking meth with. He says he changed I don’t see any. Prayers for the new girlfriend.
Chris Wright from Gastonia, NC
Chris and I started dating a few months ago. It was a very strong connection right away. He was always very sweet and attentive. There were times in the relationship that I thought he maybe not telling me the truth about his career, financial means and living situation but he always had an excuse about something that came up or why something happened. A few months into the relationship we planned to spend a weekend in Asheville. He sent me all the information including the confirmation. We were traveling separate due to coming from different places. We talked that morning, he sent good morning text. Everything seemed good. I got to the hotel and he had not checked in yet. I called him and he said he overselpt amd would call me in a minute. I got a horrible feeling in my stomach. I got on the hotel website and put in the confirmation number and our reservation had been canceled. I sent it to him and asked what happened. He didnt reply. I sent another text and my message turned green. He had blocked me. I was devastated and angry. I looked up his ex wife and called her. We talked for about an hour and she confirmed that almost everything he told me was a lie. He was not an attorney, he lived with his parents and even how their marriage had ended. She was very kind. Of course I didnt want to believe it so I reached out to his mother. She read my text and did not respond. I really don’t think this is the first time he had done this. I know it was fast but we told each other we loved each other, talked about moving in together and meeting my kids. I am still so hurt by this bc I thought it was real. He blocked me in everything and although I never want to speak to him part of me wants closure but not from him. What he did was beyond cruel
Derra from Oregon LC
Derra wears diapers cause he has fetish/lifestyle of abdl adult baby diaper lover and he wets and messes his diapers just like a real baby and honestly the little baby deserves to be in diapers and single forever with that uncircumcised 3inch nub he has it belongs in diapers. Just want to let other women know so they don’t fall for this baby sized peepee and dirty diaper wearing baby. He also loves I mean loves to hump his dirty diapers to make himself orgasm inside of his dirty diaper. I broke up with Him cause I found a real man instead of having to change diapers and watch my bf I can now be a grown woman with my grown man husband I met while with Derra and Derra tasted my man several times too cause o cheated on that diaper boy lol
Frederick Henry Paulette from Medway, Massachusetts
Fred Paulette is a diagnosed borderline personality disorder, schizophrenic. He is a pathological liar who can morph himself into several different personalities. He exhibits whichever persona will benefit him the most in whichever company he finds himself. He is a cheater and has multiple women, none of who know about the other. He has never been faithful to anyone in his life. He has exhibited signs of violence towards animals and a destructive personality when he thinks no one is watching. He has multiple cameras inside and outside of his house as well as speakers recording every move when he is not there. He will go for days of not speaking as a punishment or scream and yell, pretending to hit you but just stopping at your face. He will humiliate you in public or get up and leave you to go pick up another woman or drugs. He will bad mouth you to his friends and family leaving you wondering why no one likes you. He will use your money and your time. After some time, even years, wasted of your life, he will convince you that nobody else will care for you, that you’re fat and ugly and stupid and that you are guilty of everything he has done. If I can prevent this from happening to someone else this will be worth it. If you are in a relationship with a psychopath, narcissist, borderline personality such as this, grab your stuff and run. No contact and never look back. Cheers.
Adam C Riley from Bryan, Texas
He is a smooth talker and targets single moms or anyone for that matter, but a ton of single moms. I was with him for 3 years and found out he has several other GF’s and a wife. All of us girls found out about each other, so he will be looking for fresh meat.
He is on dating sites and also uses Instagram, Snapchat and Facebook to connect with any women that will accept him.
Then he starts messaging you and is really aggressive about meeting up. Calls everyone baby or babe and will say he loves you the first week you talk.
He was actually living partly with me, his wife and another girlfriend on top of seeing and sleeping with whoever else he can.
He was driving my car for months, his wife’s as well and gets money and stuff from us all.
He hardly makes any money, is sn alcoholic (loves tequila) and has a dui he got in May if 2023. You can google his name and you will see his arrest picture. He got the dui in my car while going to see and have s3x with another girl.
He’s a user, master manipulator and very good at making you feel like you are the most beautiful woman on earth.
he never uses protection and for the first time in my life, i had to go get tested for std’s.
He has been sleeping with me, his wife and 3 other women at the same time. Possibly more.
On top of all
this, he tells the women he is with kids that he loves them
and wants to adopt them.
So he is hurting kids too.
He has felonies and always has women covering his bills.
he has 3 kids he doesnt hardly see ever. will drink and driver with kids in the car.
he uses other names, christopher riley, and adam jameson.
hes 6 ft 3, brown eyes and hair. loves the dallas stars and the UT longhorns.
he complete garbage and feel sorry for his next victims.
also, hes been married, 3 times.
hes lived in bryan, houston, waco and fort worth
Steve Soetekouw from Tasmania
He is a leech and a flake.
He has had kids, but doesn’t want to pay for them, either groceries or utilities or anything.
He says that he is too sick to work but he can stay up till 2am on his computer.
He says that he might “die” so needs to be near his kids, but wanted me to wash, cook, wake him up for appointments, and on that, he gets up at between 9-10am.
He is just a flake. He talks BIG but does nothing.
Luke
2023
I have had many relationships. Each one has destroyed me so far. But this one has torn apart my healing phase.
His name is Luke, although some of his social media pages have a different name. We are not really a couple, what exists between us is more of a “situationship”. I messaged him and kept our conversations going as he said “he wasn’t the type to think of many questions”. I accepted that, we exchanged our numbers and continued writing.
He was on vacation for a while. During this time and the two days after his return, the world was perfect. We wrote a lot, exchanged pictures with each other and stayed up all night.
But then, from one day to the next, everything changed. He stayed out until 2,3,4 o’clock. He got drunk, met with girlfriends because he supposedly didn’t get along with men that well, and ignored me for 15 hours!
His excuse was “he wouldn’t touch his cell phone when he was doing something with friends because it was disrespectful”. Rarely did I get any information where he was. In the beginning he still sent me pictures, but that also stopped.
He promised to be there for me in my hardest times because I have a mental problem. But as soon as I asked him for help, he didn’t know what to say.
He told me about the women who approached him and about all the influencers he found pretty.
In between, he kept giving me hope. He complimented me and built me up, but days later it was all forgotten and I have a feeling we won’t last much longer.
He gave my psyche another hard blow and destroyed my heart another piece with it.
Thomas Stark from Nassau Bay Texas
This man is a cheater a liar and worst of all a thief. He will sweet talk his way into your heart and then your house and steal anything he can to get money. He will try to convince you that you misplaced things or accuse you of having another man around that steals. Very bad man with drug and temper problems. Stay away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thomas is a thief. He will sweet talk his way into your heart and house with big green eyes and steal everything in sight. He will help you look for things that are missing. He will make up scenarios to explain away missing valuables. And then act upset and rejected when you don’t let him distract you with affection. Charges are pending now that I’ve found my thing in multiple local pawn shops under his name. STAY AWAY!!!
he is stealing from me too. he must work fast bc he’s only been out for 2 months.
WHO ARE YOU? When did you meet him?
David A. Ramirez from CA and/or NV
He uses aliases like at work where he sorts lots of packages, he goes by “D” and he uses different phone numbers/texting apps as well. He’s on the registered s3x offender list as David Ramirez from Manteca and is in his mid 30’s. He has 2 kids and his daughter won’t see or talk to him. Likes independent, older women so he can be taken care of financially. He doesn’t even own his own car. He’s a serial cheater and liar. While he was with me he planned a party in So. Lake Tahoe with his co-workers making sure the ratio of women to men was 3 to 1. I’ll upload a pic of the paper I found in his car. He’s also what we call a Monkey because he doesn’t let go of one branch (woman) until he has a grip on the next. He’s a BIG narcissist who garners sympathy by playing the victim when he’s not playing the hero. None of it’s real. All the places he takes you are places he’s taken all his previous gf’s. He talks real big about future plans, but is unreliable when it matters. He has a gambling problem. He will not clean up after himself or help clean anything even after I had surgery. He’s an exhibitionist. He will record you without your permission. He’s a creeper who follows girls and women around stores and secretly records them. He has a Secure File in his phone. It’s alleged that he then uploads those vids to p0rn sites. I’ll call the police on him if I ever see him again and his baby mama won’t allow him to even live in the same state (NV). Contact me for details and if you’re an ex, let’s talk.
Greg Perovich from Lansing , IL
He also uses the Alia’s “ John” This man is a master manipulator- pathological liar- he has had multiple marriages & dates while married telling sob stories of how he has been a victim to his “wife” although he has had 3! And is still married to 1 of them. Asks woman to marry him while he is still married. Abuses women in every aspect of the definition- then tries to twist, deflect, gaslight & destroy you when he gets bored, tired or doesn’t get his way. 2 small examples of his abusive cruelties is that I had just got home from having cancer surgery- I had drains & was weak , couldn’t bathe myself. He was in the spare bedroom when I literally hobbled over to him & asked if he could help me bathe. He looked me dead in the face & said “ I’m busy cleaning the closet “ – I almost tore my drains out as a slipped trying to clean myself 15 days later the drains days later I got the drains removed & was very sick- I asked him to please go get a covid test- he said “ NO- I’m not taken 14 days off of work for you” I had covid for 30 days! I was too afraid to go to the hospital I thought I’d be intubated & die. I decided it’d be better to die in my own bed & was treated at home.!It was the most painful flu I ever had & am truly blessed to be alive!! The list of abuse & cruelties goes on is long and verifiable!
Run from this man or any man that doesn’t make you, your health, your wants, needs , or desires as important as his own! Men like him do not respect women!
I learned the hard way! I’m not a dumb or normally gullible! This man has over 30 years of manipulative behavior & is extremely good at it. All he wants is a scapegoat, whipping board, surrogate mother & security blanket. There is no passion, emotion bonding or empathy- you will simply be a nameless faceless toy in his collection- and he will try to drain you of everything-including your dignity!
Albert Klas from Utah
He’ll say he’s not married but he is. Not legally but he’s been in a serious committed relationship for 8 years. He’ll never leave her for you, you’ll only get crumbs. He’ll pursue you and sweet talk you but he won’t take you anywhere, won’t join you for a meal but if he does he won’t eat like a normal guy, won’t plan ahead, won’t commit to any future plans. He’ll disappear with no explanation and will get irritated if you question him. He controls everything – when you see him and what you do which is a lot of walks. When he decides he’s in the mood he turns on the charm and is very sweet but it doesn’t last. If he decides he wants intimacy it will have an expiration time, he won’t stay the night. It has to be spontaneous, not planned ahead of time. He’ll change his mind about you over and over again, backing off with no explanation or discussion. He hates real conversation and will avoid it at all costs. Everything has to stay at a surface level, anything more will scare him off. Trying to have a real relationship with him is a constant stress, always feeling off center, not knowing what to expect. Hot and cold, he loves you one day, the next he says you have to take a break. Save yourself the heartache, don’t even try with this guy.
Jack Burrows from Suffolk Uk
A lying cheating scum pretty much. Super manipulative to the point you believe anything he says when it’s all crap. He started seeing someone else behind my back so called it quits with me then continued to turn up at my door every three weeks to say he regretted his choice he loved and missed me wanted a family with me ect ect … eventually contacted this other girl about it and he had some nasty stuff to say about the both of us… he made out I lied about our miscarried he called me a fat slag and only wanted a shag cos I’d easily open my legs for him. And the story goes on. He truly is a piece of work!
Michael V from Killeen Texas
He’s a smooth talker who can easily manipulate you into a relationship and then he’ll be hot and cold making you feel insecure about his friends and coworkers at first but then say that he only wants you. He’ll do this until he has you feeling like you have confidence and let him have whatever he wants. He’ll say everything he does is for his son but never takes any steps to provide for his son and will say he’s working late when he’s out for drinks with his coworkers, one of which he’s likely sleeping with. As of the day this is written 9/9/23, he does not have his own car nor his own apartment.
Barrett James West Duffy from Lebanon, Oregon
I knew this man for several years before moving from Oregon. He was friendly back then. But over the past 7 years, Barret has contacted me every once in while, we chat for three days, and then he ignores me after that. I have no idea why he keeps doing this but I’m not letting him do it to me again. I kept hoping he might just be a regular friend but friends don’t gaslight like that. He’s not a good person anymore.
Chris McGuire from Little Rock, Arkansas
Chris McGuire- This was a sad and wild ride. I met Chris in spring of 2017. He was incredibly sweet in the beginning, but I was in in a vulnerable position (shouldn’t have even been in a relationship to begin with) and I allowed him to rush us. Within a week of meeting he asked me to move in with him, and within a few months we were engaged. By that time things had become a little traditional and I took care of things at our apartment while he worked. As it happens with some narcissists, after several months things began to turn abusive. Chris had severe anger fits which he claimed later he couldn’t remember.. If we argued even about little things, it would turn violent on his end. When I tried to leave him, he would tell me that nobody else would ever want me so I should just stay, He also threatened many times to lie and have me arrested for the fight. After two years of this, I finally found the strength to leave for good. Chris was NEVER this way to his friends and I doubt they would even believe he is like this behind closed doors. Please be careful with Chris. I have other experiences with him I am not listing here because it’s too painful. After the very final painful event, our loss, he never checked on me after to see if I was ok. He’s not a good person. He also bad-mouthed his ex-wife on a regular basis.
Kevin Johnson from Drain, Oregon and Williams, Arizona
Kevin Johnson- We lived in two different states through some (but not all) of our relationship. We were together about two years. I was in my home state trying to save up to move to be with him in Oregon, when he suddenly upped and moved to Arizona without discussing it with me. Once he moved there, an ex-girlfriend of his visited and they began to see each other behind my back. When I found out and confronted Kevin, he gave the usual BS excuse and said it was nothing. But he continued to see her and started gaslighting me. I figured once we moved in together things would settle down, though while I was working to move Kevin did absolutely nothing to help us as a couple, such as looking at places for us to live. I finally drove the 1200 miles to be with him in AZ. We had a ridiculous argument right after I arrived, he left me at a motel and never took my calls again no matter how much I tried to apologize. I had no choice but to travel those 1200 miles back to my home state with a broken heart. I do believe Kevin is this way at least in part because of how he was raised. Women do not have a voice and their feelings are disregarded. I believed him and blamed myself for the breakup for years. I’m glad I know now I was very wrong and really dodged his bullet. You might consider avoiding this guy if you ever run into him.
Keith Stephen Grace from Grandville, MI
I am simply going to paste the letter I sent him as it details the assault so I don’t have to be triggered writing it all out again:
I want you to know the damage you caused. How bad the depression gets on the days when I relive the things you did to me through intrusive thoughts. How devastated I am that I was abused and r*ped in my first s3xual relationship by someone I trusted. That if I think about being involved in s3x now I become nauseous and frightened. That I have even thrown up from thinking about it. That I now have a deep fear of men and their motivations. That I now look at heterosexual couples sometimes and wonder how any woman could subject herself to being with a man.
I want you to know how I want love and a relationship but am so terrified of being abused physically and s3xually again that any time someone shows interest (male or female) I retreat. That having sex again for the first time (if I ever do) is going to be a frightening and painful experience for me. That I now view it with dread. That it has become something I have to overcome before it can ever be something I enjoy.
I want you to know how I struggle everyday with my s3xual identity as a result of your actions. How I go back and forth between wondering if I’m gay, asexual, or bisexual.
I want you to understand that you are responsible for your actions. That it was your job to control yourself and respect my boundaries and not my job to constantly fight against you for a sense of respect and safety.
I want you to realize that pushing the boundaries of someone who is suffering from trauma to see how much you can get away with is abusive and predatory. That fetishizing my childhood r*pe (which makes you a ped0phile) and trying to sneak r*pe play into us having s3x after finding out about the s3xual assault is one of the sickest things you could have done.
I want you to understand that continuing to touch my breasts when I told you to stop and physically removed your hands is a s3xual assault (so is grabbing my rear in the parking lot of Taco Bell).
I want you to understand that trying to coerce me into giving you nude pics by becoming angry and yelling at me while I repeatedly told you no is abusive.
I want you to understand that slapping me in the middle of s3x without discussion or permission is assault, and that continuing to have s3x with me after I told you no in response to you asking me if I liked being slapped with my voice breaking and choking back tears in distress is r*pe. I want you to know how I literally felt something inside me give out when you forced that kiss on me and kept going. How I disassociated during the assault. I want you to know how I kept repeating ‘you’re okay, you survived it’ to myself in my head after it was over but could not put words to what had happened or how I truly felt about it because I couldn’t fully process the attack due to shock.
I want you to understand that becoming aggressive and yelling at me to get me to submit, yelling again to get me in the bedroom, and again to get me out of my clothes is s3xual coercion and r*pe. I want you to understand that the fact you did not ask permission to penetrate me when you were told you had to specifically ask permission for it puts your actions even more firmly in the category of r*pe.
I want you to know how helpless, frightened, and violated I felt both of the times you r*ped me.
I want you to understand that not being able to process an attack after it happens is the most common reaction to being attacked by a loved one. That shock and denial can keep you silent with confusion. That being heavily medicated with two emotional processing disorders (PTSD and autism- both officially diagnosed by this point) on top of that makes it near impossible to figure out what is happening emotionally or what to call it. And that none of that makes what you did to me my fault because nothing you did to me was under my control. You chose to do these things to me. You chose to put me in these harmful, damaging, and triggering situations without discussing these things beforehand. You chose to not follow the rules of consent. You chose to push boundaries. You chose to fetishize my childhood trauma. You chose to slap me. You chose to hurt me. You chose to coerce me. You chose to r*pe me.
This is on you. Your actions are your responsibility. And honestly I’m not sure how you live with yourself. You knew how vulnerable I was and how much I was already suffering. I will never understand why you made the choice to treat me this way. I never wanted to be treated this way and I certainly never stated that I wanted to be treated this way. I did not ask for it, I did not agree to it, and I did not deserve it.
I wonder sometimes if you have other victims. I wonder if those women you said think you’re a creep, those women you deemed “crazy girlfriends” are other victims of yours. If they should be calling you an abuser or r*pist rather than a creep. I’m sure I’m not the only one you’ve harmed. There are probably other women out there but for various reasons they never spoke up or reported.
I’m sure you’ll go through your life continuing to lie about what happened. You’ll keep telling people I was just looking for attention or that I’m crazy or that it was BDSM (something I once again never agreed to or asked for) or some other made up story to preserve this façade of innocence you’re projecting to the world. But your lies can’t change the truth of what happened. You abused me and you r*ped me. You are an abuser and a r*pist and there is nothing you can ever do to change that fact.
Andrew R from Stevens point
Serial manipulator, serial cheater and teen Predator..please becareful he is a Covert narcissist and puts on a really good show of a nice kind guy who’s very charismatic but he is the predication of evil.
Jerame Joseph Jolley AKA TRIPLE J from Henderson Nevada
My ex-boyfriend Mr Jeremy should win the award for scumbag , loser, sneakiest piece of s*** of the year. Or the century. I’m not even going to call him a man he’s a boy he’s a child he’s 43 years old still lives with his 91-year-old grandmother who supports him and is 42-year-old brother and daughter. If you ask about him many people will tell you that he’s a nice guy everybody knows him. He sleeps around and always has. With just about anybody and everybody matter of fact he had s3x with his now deceased ex girlfriends mother and stepfather. He has cameras all around his grandmother’s house including one in the bedroom which is constantly recording every move I make or anyone makes for that matter. Everyday he play this little game if he was in the mood or if he had talked to a girl prior to coming home he would run straight to the bedroom rewind the tape see if I did anything that makes him feel like I was being suspicious or sneaky and then he would then cause a fight and take off to whichever whomever whatever girl or w**** he would go and hang out with it I stuck around for 5 years. He cheated on me numerous times numerous times I even went to so far as to let him have a side chick as long as he come home to me what do you think he did he didn’t come home to me he come home when the girl wouldn’t please him so he come straight to me ask me for a b****** asked me to f*** and then I was a piece of s*** after that. There were times he had to go to work and he’d end up going to whichever girl for the moment’s house and call me he had the audacity to call me at 4:00 in the morning to pick him up from whatever side piece he was with that night and then start a fight with me choke me out strangle me hit me in the head because he did wrong he would take that out on me this guy is 100% loser no matter what comes out of his mouth it’s a lie maybe not to other people but if you’re his girlfriend forget about it you’re scum to him beware you have been warned
Michael Jones from Fort Wayne Indiana
Rarely worked, lived off my income and under my roof. Exaggerates “construction talent” and blamed all errors in business on his brother Adam. Lies about being separated from his wife Andrea and wanting to divorce her. Treats Andrea so poorly and talks badly about her. Lost jobs shortly after getting hired, because he would frequently call in “sick” and employers saw overstated experience & knowledge and VERY poor work ethic. Never paid rent, for food, dates, or anything and had a fit when I told him to sell his broken down Jeep for $5k to pay me for a fraction of what he owed me and what I spent on him. Frequently depressed and emotionally manipulative, often trying to get you depressed and encourage you to commit suicide. Always on phone (seriously major addiction to it) and secretive about what he was doing & extraordinarily possessive of phone. Irrationally jealous and breaks your phones and resorts to physical violence, often restraining and choking you then taking or breaking your possessions. Held me hostage in several vehicles, not stopping and making me urinate in car, purposely driving erratically to hurt me. Stole my car and had to involve police to get it back. VERY insecure, cried, took off with my car and threw fit when his “manliness” was threatened by other men. Total Beta not an ounce of Alpha in his blood. Best years of his life are still high school. My memory of him still makes me physically ill.
Carlos Salazar from Seattle
TEXTBOOK NARCISSIST!!! Run for your life!!! He will lovebomb you then discard you in the cruelest way! Malignant narcissist!!!
Kenny (Kenneth) Lynch from Ringwood NJ
This man has very serious mental problems which he hides behind his charm. He is a liar and a cheat. He is extremely cheap. He has Obsessive Compulsive Personality disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
He has a long term girlfriend named Karen who lives in Suffern NY that he claims he isn’t having s3x with. He will gladly have s3x with you while seeing her behind your back. Kenny is too much of a coward to tell Karen the he is having s3xual and romantic relationships with other women.
Do yourself a favor and stay away from this creep. He is a mean, nasty, and disgusting human being.
Chris McGuire, Little Rock, Arkansas- This was a sad and wild ride. I met Chris in spring of 2017. He was incredibly sweet in the beginning, but I was in in a vulnerable position (shouldn’t have even been in a relationship to begin with) and I allowed him to rush us. Within a week of meeting he asked me to move in with him, and within a few months we were engaged. By that time things had become a little traditional and I took care of things at our apartment while he worked. As it happens with some narcissists, after several months things began to turn abusive. Chris had severe anger fits which he claimed later he couldn’t remember.. If we argued even about little things, it would turn violent on his end. He was mentally, physically, and emotionally abusive. When I tried to leave he would tell me that nobody else would ever want me so I give up on leaving. After two years of this, I finally found the courage to leave for good. Chris was NEVER this way to his friends and I doubt they would even believe he is like this behind closed doors. Please be careful with Chris. I have other experiences with him I am not listing here because it’s too painful. After the very final painful event, our loss, he never checked on me after to see if I am ok. He’s not a good person.
Kevin Johnson- Drain, Oregon and Williams, Arizona
– We lived in two different states through some (but not all) of our relationship. We were together about two years. I was in my home state trying to save up to move to be with him in Oregon, when he suddenly upped and moved to Arizona without discussing it with me. Once he moved there, an ex-girlfriend of his visited and they began to see each other behind my back. When I found out and confronted Kevin, he gave the usual BS excuse and said it was nothing. But he continued to see her and started gaslighting me. I figured once we moved in together things would settle down, though while I was working to move Kevin did absolutely nothing to help us as a couple, such as looking at places for us to live. I finally drove the 1200 miles to be with him in AZ. We had a ridiculous argument right after I arrived, he left me at a motel and never took my calls again no matter how much I tried to apologize. I had no choice but to travel those 1200 miles back to my home state with a broken heart. I do believe Kevin is this way at least in part because of how he was raised. Women do not have a voice and their feelings are disregarded. I believed him and blamed myself for the breakup for years. I’m glad I know now I was very wrong and really dodged his bullet. You might consider avoiding this guy if you ever run into him.
Richard Miguel Guerra from Miami Fl
He will turn into a chameleon just so he can be your ideal partner. Then his true self comes out. He’s a cheater a narcissist he will make u believe you’re crazy! When he gets on his drinking benders he will abandon you if you’re out on a date or out of state. He is the master at ghosting you for days and blame u for not reaching out. He will destroy your self-esteem and sanity.
David Jonathan Michael from Fort Lauderdale, FL. (Born in Louisiana. Grew up in Washington)
David is a charming narcissist who has the ability to wear different masks and be whatever his victim wants him to be. I sadly wasted 8 months with this A-hole. He initiated everything, from the start cute little dates, to asking me to be his girlfriend, to ask me to move in with him, and asking me to eventually marry him. He left out the big details: how he is a pathological liar, master manipulator, gaslighter, CHEATER, and emotionally abusive. He jumps from girl to girl: because he’s addicted to the honeymoon phase in the beginning of the relationship. As soon as problems come up- mainly because he’s getting caught doing shady and hurtful stuff- he is already looking for another girl to date and f-k, because he lacks the ability to be faithful and loyal. He is addicted to meth too, so ontop of his s3x addiction and p0rn addiction: he gets horrible paranoia and grand delusions that he believes are real. Anytime I left the house or his side, I had to make sure I had evidence of everything I was doing because he would come up with crazy stuff and push and accuse you of doing wrong when he is really just telling on himself but he claims he doesn’t do anything wrong and the world is against him
He will take a strong independent woman and strip her of everything. And once that girl is dependent on him, he will kick the girl out of his life and leave her broken, confused, and contemplating EVERYTHING.
If you meet this man, run away. Don’t fall for his charm and tricks again, he is just out to hurt you, and continuously feed his ego.
Because I wasn’t here
Erik Nordland from Portland, OR
This guy would treat me great then flip flop and treat me horrible. I tried to break up with him, but he would not let me with great excuses and apologies. Then he would be mad at me and cues me of trying to break up with him all the time, making it out to be a bad thing about me. He vilified me to his friends after gaslighting me and getting me to a place where I was embarrassingly reactive. He made me sound like a horrible person to his friends to the point where they wanted nothing to do with me and he made sure that I knew it. Tried to ignore it and he told me there was nothing he could do about the situation. He would lie about little things for no reason and insult me out of nowhere, and then say that he felt like he was walking on eggshells around me when I would try to tell him that the way he spoke to me on a regular basis was not OK. Then eventually, he broke up with me and made it all out to be my fault. I know this was abuse because I am still left feeling very confused. I know what gaslighting is exactly what happened. I also feel very used like he used me to prop up his own fragile ego and I’m still processing all of this abuse and trying to make sense of it. It’s strange because he seems like a good guy on one hand but then downright hateful, insidious, and callus mean-spirited on the other very Jackle and Hyde. It felt very much like he needed to complete control of me and the relationship in the situation for it to be good. He really vilified me and threw me under the bus demonize mean vilified mean it made me out to be the bad guy the crazy ex girlfriend, right?
Marcus Pickering from Illinois
He’s a gigantic man child. We initially dated, I thought he was the best thing I’ve ever had. What I realized was I settled for some reason.
I would work at 6am and he’d keep the lights on loud noise and be yelling until sometimes 3/4/5am whatever him and his thug friends wanted to do since they didn’t have real jobs anyway. He would just sleep until he got up for work. Leaves trash everywhere and doesn’t pick up for weeks on end. When you try to clean it he yells at you, when you try to help he will complain at you. He will want you to take care of his every need. Hes ‘not’ going to get a license and drive. He’s ‘not’ going to grow up and be responsible financially to pay bills just blow it all on his whatever he wants first.
He will not do any basic hygiene, (bathing, teeth brushing etc) for weeks on end. He ll lie to anyone anytime to play sides to get whatever he wants.
He ll take advantage of anything you have, take/keep anything of yours he believes he can keep or is owed. He took advantage of my care of him and had me help him with bills, food, taking him to help him get medicine, taking advantage of anything I have/own, and know.
He ll shower you with all the love and affection and care that drowns you in it at the beginning and then just start to cut you out and tell you you’re all he wants and needs. How much he loves you, then block you from everything after isolating you, once he gets you isolated away from your friends and family.
He made a new social media, messaged me long after cutting me off under the guise of apologizing for what he did, wanting to know how I am, messaging hinting at him wanting either my attention or to get back together, “doing great I’m on my own(but pics you sent are you and your hood friend in his van) but not doing great( sounds homeless, got a dog but i gotta give away) but doing great cause….,” and lashed out at me when I told him how what he did was wrong.
I hope no one else has to deal with his mental breakdowns, lying, manipulations, excuses and just horrible attitude/hygine.
Kevin Vance from North Carolina
Started off seeing him, he definitely escalated feelings. ‘Knowing the entire time he was moving’-supposedly as well.
Promised dates, going out, trips. Talked to me about going out and treating me. Led me on about his intentions talking to me how much he talks about me to family, friends, etc. How important I am to him and how much he cares. But really cause? He ignores you for other women, on his phone constantly, talks about them in your presence, has girls come to visit him, talks about all the things he cares about you for but only wants to try to get you into bed with him. Even breaking up with him all he could do was keep trying to grab into my body and asking if he can stay. ‘Crying’ about how he’s going to miss you too, but has already moved on.
Tried to say he was good to me.
Like girls stay away from this one he’s definitely toxic and will do what he wants in his “self journey-finding himself” to do whatever he wants and give you poor excuses.
Joshua Johnson from North Carolina
He was controlling, verbally/mentally manipulative, if something doesn’t go his way it’s never his fault always something/someone else.
He would accuse me of cheating on him, being a wh-re.
The worst experience was him screaming this at me while trying to simultaneously pull on my steering wheel while driving.
He’s made different social media accounts to stalk me or try to talk to me after blocking him.
He’s a gigantic man child and good luck to anyone who encounters him.
Cole Minter from Jacksonville State, Alabama
Cole Minter is just a stupid loser. He is lazy and prefers to lay around all day rather than go out with me when I want. Furthermore, after months of dating and leading me on, he told me that he was a “sissy” and that he actually liked to dress as a woman and be with a man! He will lie to you and break your heart. He is clumsy, has no sense of direction, has a small penis, and dresses like a girl for other men!
Expose him to others! I have shown every woman the pics and videos of my ex dress up
Chris Julian Medina from Sunland park/El Paso
Emotionally, mentally and physically abusive. Stalks, harasses, physically damaged my property on multiple occasions when he was upset. He restrained me by my pregnant belly multiple times when I was carrying his child. He has now kicked my door down twice trying to get to his daughter because he lost all custody of her because of all the stuff he’s done. He thinks there’s nothing wrong with his actions. He told me at the beginning of our relationship that I would never get rid of him, he wasn’t joking! Please don’t get involved with him or he will do the same to you, the last five years of my life have been hell!!! It’s been draining to say the least, I’ve lost hair, weight and my sense of self. No one should ever have to go through this much sh-t from the person that claims to love them!!! I have no choice but to move from my home in order to get peace, I will have my address sealed so he cannot find us again. Please don’t let this happen to you you deserve better!!!
Stefan from Maryland
He was by far the worst boy I’ve ever met in my life. I want to warn other girls who may encounter him. He emotionally abused me for 6 months. That is domestic abuse. He lied to me everyday. He took advantage of me. He discarded me when he got what he wanted. He is a sick person. I pray for the safety of the girls he interacts with. I pray for the female friends he has who don’t know what’s coming. I pray for his family. I have done so much healing and I’m so proud of myself for overcoming the trauma and manipulation he put me through.
This sounds exactly like my experience. Except he wasn’t from Maryland. Wish I knew if we were talking about the same Stefan or not. The experience you had sounds exactly like mine.
Stephen David Horton Jr. from Scurry, TX
He is a narcissistic @$$ to the EXTREME He lies to all females, goes to bed with any female, has sex w/ one and while she’s still in his bed, goes and gets his ex and brings her home WITH OUT A WORD OF WARNING & hadnt even said a word about wanting the one in his bed to leave. He doesn’t care if any female has any satisfaction or enjoys any s3xual activity as long as he does. and if he doesnt get what he wants when and how. there is hell to blame and it’s all your fault. He is so obsessed with his lower anatomy’s size it’s absurd. Has no couth or consideration to the hurt and heartbreak he causes women to go thru. has been known to f-k more than 1 girl in less than 2 hours with no shower in between and no protection either. needs ego strokes constantly. and is a male chauvanistic pig unlike no other. all women are b-tches. and I hope that the b-tch he’s with right now enjoys how I taste on his d-ck because he didn’t shower today after we f-ed this morning, prior to picking his ex gf up. YES IT’S CRUDELY GROSS AND YES I SURE DID TAKE IT TO THAT LEVEL.
A LEVEL I SHOULDVE TAKEN IT TOO LONG BEFORE NOW.
#SORRY,NOTSORRY
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#EVERYSINGLEWORD #UNAPOLOGETIC#UDESERVEWORSE
#REVENGEISADISHBESTSERVEDCOLD”
#URNOT”BROKEN”UR T-O-X-I-C A-F!!!!
Rant Over for now
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Adam Max Trefonides from MA US
Cheater, stealther, non payer of debt. Not a trustworthy person. If I had known what this person was like I would not have dated this person at all. I regret that. Waste of my life, my time and caused damages from mental & emotional stress and harm, health, financial and trust in people and men in general. Self absorbed egotistical high opinion of self and not bothered in the slightest if the problems from his decisions end up in another persons life. Never apologized or tried to make up for it in any way.
Christopher G. Fogel from Placer County, Eldorado County, Sacramento County. California
He’s a grandiose narcissist, alcoholic, lying, cheating, hobosexual. We met it was a one night stand, we ran into each other again and eventually ended up dating. He constantly talks about how great a worker he is, yet he doesn’t have a job. He talks about chivalry and how he’s showing women its not dead. However, he physically attacked me, cheated, lied, and didn’t listen when I took back consent. He is a text book narcissist. He tells half truths about his past, his jobs, everything. He will lie straight to your face while you’re holding the evidence. He is a very bad person that will mirror you. I fell in love. I didn’t know about narcissist and the trauma bond. I’m in therapy because of him. I’ve met 2 of his exes, he did the same behavior to them as well.
So many red flags I didn’t see. He says he doesn’t have social media, he’s lying. Hes on dating sites too. It’s getting close to the cold season so he’s probably on the prowl looking for his next victim to live with. He will cheat, over and over. He sleeps with anyone. He doesn’t shower or brush regularly, I had to make a rule. He’s got a suspended license and a current dui charge. He choked me one night at a dinner party then drove drunk after. Getting the dui. When he tells you anything ask many questions. You’ll notice he will get vague and put his head down, stop talking. Every story makes him the hero, or victim. He’s never the problem. He talks about his exs nicely until drunk because he knows it’s a red flag. He has no friends longer then 6mths. He’s been 86d from most bars in my area. I’m the craziest ex because I exposed his lies. Now he’s playing the victim, he’s actually an abusive drunk, he destroys women then moves on to the next.
I’m completely changed after dating him. Therapy is helping but it’s taking so long. The withdrawal is no joke, I’m going through hell. I don’t want anyone to ever have to feel this way, or go through what I did. The more I learn about narcissist the more I see I have a type. Save yourself from paying for a therapist, don’t date Christopher fogel in the placer county, Eldorado County, Sacramento area. He will lie, he will cheat, he will hurt you. You won’t find any info on him on the intro because he makes sure to erase anything and everything. He cheated on his ex wife and some other stuff, the divorce is sealed. He’s has horrible spending habits, works for weird older men but never can keep the job. He’s very aggressive when drunk, gets mean when he’s discarding you. When I spoke about reporting the s3xual coherence he called me 9 times calling me a cop calling rat. I have text of him admitting what he did. He pretended to turn himself in to the cops about it. He literally made a whole scenario up about fight cops and getting kicked out of the police station. I got pregnant and had to have an abortion. He used my abortion to try and get sympathy s3x from his ex. When she told me I lost it. I couldn’t believe someone would do that. He will do anything to get women. Protect yourself and your heart. Christopher Fogel is a very mean and abusive man. Beware of Christopher fogel in california.
I’m sorry he hurt you. Chris fogel is rehab now, playing a victim. He blames the last ex for his abusive behavior. Like a narcissist he’s trying to get sympathy for his problems and actions. Anyone that believes it is not very intelligent. He’s made victims in Northern California for the 7 yrs. Now that one ex publicly exposed Chris Fogel he’s covering his tracks. Don’t be fooled, rehab doesn’t change the violent attacks, the sexual assault or the evil, horrible trauma he’s inflicted. Narcissist do not change. They just get better at hiding. Chris Fogel’s got flying monkeys and enablers in Foresthill,CA. As long as they’re covering for him and paying to help him hide, he will be hurting other women.
Daaunte Embry from Indianapolis, Indiana
He has lied,cheated on me out here sleeping wit me raw and out here sleeping wit females he’s cheating with raw too! He has abused me almost breaking fingers on right hand and has abused other females he’s been with plus he busted my bedroom door and sliced a 500 dollar purse with a knife .As well steals and this stuff this was our second time together he don’t the same thing the first time we was together 3 yrs cheated on me wit over 35 females never using protection on none the females just doin them all raw and even then he was abusive to me punching me in face while driving and done other stuff to me as well other females to being abusive
Eddie lang from Stanwood wa.
This man is a s3x addict alcoholic and lies so badly He is not to be trusted for any reason and he is homosexual in the closet with his work buddy willy
Paul Pontii from Kingston, Ontario, Canada
Paul Pontii is a classic psych0path. He will answer your ad off of social media platforms, appearing to give you what you ask for. He comes across as charismatic, reliable, calm and easygoing at first. He is a manipulator that uses mind control to get you to submit to his will. He claims to be a Dom in the Domination and Submission world. He does not respect women, is verbally abusive, and loves to humiliate you with his words, and tear down women. He does not respect women.
It is almost impossible to get him to carry out a decent coversation with you, although he is very intelligent. He is emotionally unavailable, and I have reason to believe he has had childhood trauma.
He has admitted to dating at least three women at a time when he was younger.
He is a s3x addict, who wants you to indulge and be present every night while he masturbat3s online or on the phone, and gets angry if you are not available until the middle of the morning. He has had s3x with many people in different scenarios.
He is evasive, and I have reason to believe that he is working with others. Beware! For women that want to find a good Dom in the Domination and Submission K1nk world, beware of him. He is a Master Manipulator, and dangerous! He asked me questions about who I socialize with, and I got the impression he was trying to isolate me. He is very jealous, and egomaniacal. Please protect your emotions, and even better, don’t get involved with him.
Tang Zhe Chong (Kevin) from Born in Zhe Jiang, China. Canadian citizen from Toronto but lives around the world
Travels around the world and sleeps with girls, pretending he’s looking for a serious relationship, then cheats on you. Takes nudes of them and stores it in his phone as souvenirs. Don’t believe a word he says!
Goes by Zhe, his lifelong dream is to be a business school professor. No moral compass. Has undergone multiple cosmetic procedures including limb lengthening surgery and hair transplantation. Tattoos on left arm of a bear in the forest and right arm with Koi fish and flowers. Anchor tattoo on chest. Currently working in Singapore as a research assistant.
Robert Jarrett aka Trevon Moore from Savannah, Georgia
Met him on Moco Space in 2015, during that time he was living in Atlanta, GA; told me he was divorced because I do not date or talk to men that are married or separated. He lied to me after the 3-year breakup in 2018. Years later, I wanted to rekindle and reached out to him in 2021, this time I was with him for 2 years (still called him Trevon or Trey because that’s the name I knew him by, but his legal name is Robert Hearns Jarrett Jr. named after his father) Mother’s obituary is public record (Angela Woods Jarrett). I had caught him in the same lie again about being married because I video-called his phone and his wife answered my phone; he had told his wife that he didn’t have a fiancée and that he didn’t know what I was talking about. I want to warn any woman who comes across this man; he is sick and well-goes to dialysis for Polycystic kidney disease (PKD) and just transferred back to Jacksonville, Florida for work. If anyone comes across this man on any social media, he claims to be in the lifestyle of a dominant (Humble King). He will tell you that his name is Trevon Moore, but it is not his birth name; he’s using a false name and pretense to get over on women and used them while all the while still married to his wife-his real legal and birth name is Robert Jarrett, he would get to know every single thing about you, make proclamations of love to you, and propose to you. But knowingly he can’t marry you because he’s already married (he doesn’t deny this, nor does he show you proof that he’s divorced after asking) If you ask questions about his family, he will tell you he doesn’t get along with any of them. This is true because I tried and failed to really find out who I had been involved with for the past 2 years, ladies please be aware of this person-he is living a terrible lie under a false name.
Khalid Williams from Newmarket, Ontario, Canada
The absolute worst partner I have ever had. 4 years of toxicity, physical and emotional abuse, manipulation, gaslighting, and violence. He will die thinking he did nothing wrong. Run. Fast.
Donny L. Pugh, Jr. from Port Orchard, WA
This guy comes on way too strong from the very beginning and he won’t leave you alone. He has deep seated mommy problems that he talks about constantly. He is a True Malevolent Narcissist. He held me hostage in my car with my dog and raged at me about how I was flirting with a 21 year old kid. I am 55 years old and would never go after somebody young enough to be my grandkid. He was texting my son’s 21 year old girlfriend negative things about me that aren’t true and threatened to get me fired. He is currently threatening and stalking me. Stay away from this guy. He is crazy and his skills in bedroom are lacking. Yikes!!
Kai H. from Indiana
My ex had a very destructive bipolar like attitude. If something didn’t go his way it was always your fault. He would name call you and attempt to control your every move. He believed that women were all weak, stupid and basically s1utty.
He would make accusations that I was a premadonna, stupid, s1utty and more. He never once showed any compassion regarding my life and told me that my career was worthless (even though I’m more educated than he is). He will never remember your birthday nor buy you anything. He’s a big whiny man-child who honestly acts like a 5 year old who just got sent to the corner. He pursued me for months and then threw a hissy fit when I got a new man.
Willie cox from Danville Illinois
My ex is a player. He likes to be on dozens of dating sites under different names including our sons name. So sometimes it’s Devante, Isaiah, Treyvon and I’m sure there is more but basically this lack of a man will move in with you , use you for any money you have so basically a freeloader who doesn’t buy clothes or diapers for his kids and busy out on streets in a car he has no license to drive. Lady’s beware you will go from a stable household to debt where all you do is work while he is out seeing other women and gambling.
Stephen Goldberg from Richmond, Virginia/Washington, DC
Stephen Goldberg from Richmond, Virginia, but now working in the Arlington and Washington, DC area, is a domestic abuser and a cheater. He works in IT/tech support and comes off as a nice enough guy, but he is a prolific lair, cheater, and violent abuser.
He sent at least one ex to the hospital. Stephen Goldberg deserves to be in jail. Stay far away from him or you could end up unconscious on your apartment floor.
Christopher Luna from Austin, TX
He’s actually my ex-husband. He was controlling throughout our 7-year marriage. After I gave birth to our son (on my ex’s birthday), he insisted that I work at just 7 weeks after the birth. I had an emergency C-section and was still in pain and limping. He didn’t care. When I was sleep-deprived and asked for a babysitter, he said no. Then he insulted me. Then he made a deal with me that I would work for 2 more years, and then I could stay home with our son. When I completed the 2 years, he said we couldn’t afford it. The last straw was Christmas, when I wanted to invite a few friends over for a holiday party, and he said no. What kind of partner says no to a party with friends at Christmas? I was upset, and I told him I wanted a divorce. But I didn’t file. I reached out to my therapist. After the holidays, he filed for divorce, and he lied about my mental health to get custody. He kept my son away from me for 5 months. My son wants to live with me, but my ex insisted on 50/50 custody. And his biggest priority was getting more money from the sale of our house, plus the tax break. My lawyer told me to settle because court was risky and unpredictable. So he gets to lie and manipulate things, and my son and I pay the price. He blamed me for him filing for divorce. I apologized for hurting him, but it’s been 7 months, and he still blames me for everything.
Jordan Ackerman from Carlsbad, CA
He abandoned me pregnant and said to have an abortion 9yrs ago. Since then he avoids following through on his agreed visitation, rarely seeing our child. Him and his family are wealthy but he pays bare minimum child support and his ex business partner revealed to me that he hides money in shell accounts and LLcs and uses his sisters name to help do that to avoid proper child support amount. Our child needed back to school clothes and ge bought her 5 items from the MEND section, all hideous and large and when I asked him to help more then that he proceeded to call her overweight and blame me for the way he thinks she looks to him and told me to take her to a THRIFT store and buy her a wardrobe with $50 all while ge drives expensive cars and lives my the ocean and in Palm Springs. He talked this way about a 9yr old little girl amd I have the texts to prove it. He’s by my definition a deadbeat dad and her grandparents could care less.
Steven Hernandez from St. Albans, Vt
He is a narcissist.
Be destroys women by making them believe he’s a wonderful guy.
He wears a particular uniform once a month…
He is physically abusive.
He uses what little power he believes he has to literally smear your name, create drama, literally screws every single woman he can find.
He’ll say that his exes are crazy, want him, are obsessed with him — none of that is true.
He’s cruel and has extreme anger issues.
He will destroy your life.
toni from Las Vegas
He cheated on me with a group of guys! He became a sissy and met with men and sold his body behind my back! He dresses like a girl and always wore my clothes for these meetings! He deserves this!
Same with Kyle
Same with Kyle Bomgardner in Sedona AZ all the sissy batch men need to be exposed. They want to try and be women force them to be!
Brent Bennett from Central New York State
This sick man in his late 40s is extremely abusive. He is a narcissistic sociopath that has no boundaries. He will do the utmost on your head, and leave you in the dust. Any age range from 18 to 60. He moved in the sub house and s3x s1av3 he found for us, thinking I’d be all for it, and I destroyed his AND HER fantasy. They’re actively hunting for another woman and the NEPA is also being hunted… My old hometown area. He uses methamphetamines to drug you, and increase your s3x drive to get you to do what he wants. I have screenshots of when he was manipulating me to make a profile to hunt down a woman so we could “r*pe her and throw her in the snow”. These two tried a plan to convince me to go to his house, unknowing she was already moved in, so we could finally meet. I tried warning her of what he was trying to do behind my back, and she never answered. Because… She was in on it. It was also done to other women who have contacted me about it. This man is also studying psychology to open a business where he can “help” WOMEN ONLY. It’s so he can have his harem he as always wanted… I am putting word out everywhere to warn women of these predators. He is extremely skilled at lying, and manipulating. BE CAREFUL LADIES!!! ALL AGES AND SIZES!!!
Richard Diliberto from Satellite Beach Florida
He completely took advantage of me and my family for 6 years we have a child together that is 3 years old. He has another child that is 16. He never took care of or was there for in her life even when I stepped in I took care of her. He caused me and his daughters and my daughter that he’s been around since she was born so much distress from constantly deserting her more than one occasion he destroyed our family my father my children he depleted us emotionally physically and financially. I’ve given him everything he has a buisness he claims he built but me and my father purchased everything for him to just maintain a buisness. Please Beware of this man and his evil intentions he is physically and mentally abusive and will never change. He tried to hit my 74 year old father with a chair. He has done everything to try to separate the sisters that lived together their whole lives and is trying to harm their mother by trying to put her in jail he is the worst man I’ve ever met in my life and I’m not supposed to have hate or anger towards anyone I truly try to be humble but God and karma will come his way. He is a user and abuser and cannot take care of himself his mother bought him new equipment he can’t do anything for himself he’s out for himself and will selfishly take advantage of the next woman he comes across because he loves no one he is a addict and has used drugs while the mother supported the kids. He is one to completely look the other way. I wish I did but I can’t say that because I love my daughter so much but boy I wish I never met this man.please God
Victor Li from San Francisco/Houston/New York
I met Victor on Hinge in SF. When we met, he was a perfect gentleman, extremely charismatic. We went on a couple dates and then he had a family emergency and he never messaged me again. I recently saw a TikTok exposing him as a serial cheater that had girls in several different states. After contact some girls, it was revealed that he is a serial cheater and a pathological liar.
Seb Meier from Venezuela
This guy is a total narcissist CRAZY dont date him he is abusive and siko!!
Josiah Cone from Altoona PA
This guy is a total f-boy. He texted me for two days all day all night and then basically came on so strong almost to the point where he was really aggressive. He asked me to the movies and then said he couldnt afford it, only to go to the bar that night to probably pick up more girls. BEWARE LADIES
Josh Salas from New York, Brooklyn
This guy, who’s name Josh Salas is a Latin American guy. When we first met at 2017 he was really kind, gentle, romantic. He was cheated on 2 times before and I would never think he will do smth same to me, because he knows the pain of it. Long time about 2 years I couldn’t understand why his exes cheated on him if he is so amazing? But then O started notice, that several times when we already came back home he started to tel me about girls who were flirting with him. And instead of show attention to me to let them know we are together, he, I’m pretty sure just flirted with them back. I understand it only rn. I already gave a birth for our baby when I was only 23 and he was 30. First year he was good to us even tho we already the whole year lived in different countries, because he was making docs for me to come back in USA to be as official marriage couple. We planned future together. While I’m in my country he used to get for me a lot of gifts and for our baby and they are still there in NYC. Then, in 2 years after we started date, one thing happened, that always changed my mi f about him. While I was alone taking are about our baby in my country, I saw in his live Instagram how he talks in a camera to several girls who showed them naked butts. After that I didn’t wanna be with him, but only because we have a baby I decided to give him a chance just for a baby. When he found out that I saw this live he was telling sorry bunch of times and he was supposly really sorry. At least it looked like that. Then in a half of the year, 1 of January he telling me that we are actually not together already 2!!!! years!!!! When just yesterday he was telling me how much he loves me!!! In 3 months he blocked me in all social medias. The in 3 more months he blocked me in what’s app and FaceTime. Our the only place where he and baby used to talk. He dissapear for 2 weeks while I stayed alone with baby on my hands don’t know what to do next. Then he called me only in 3 weeks after disappearing from a fake phone l. That’s how we are talking still already the whole year. I do t want talk to him, but I try make everything that baby got at least some connection with him. The other days I found out, that he started have a new gf exactly same period, when he dissapear for 3 weeks and started talk to us from a fake phone. I just saw on her Instagram pics, that he started give away all those new gifts that he got for me while I’m in my country and didn’t have a cnahce to get them in person. He also made for her exactly same necklace just with her name. Looks like he is trying to make her a copy of me. But to be honest she is not even a half version of me. Not good at all.
He is those type of guy that can also talk to other girls same time when he is in relationships. Don’t trust him. He lies very good. You will never believe his puppy eyes. Trust me. He also makes music (that is really horrible) and Troy g to be on social medias those person who is not really him. He is very very broke boy. Not a man at all. He never keeps his words. Joshuaflyboy is the worst ever person I met in my life. That’s his name everywhere if you are interested.
BANE MOSLEY from JACKSONVILLE/MIDDLEBURG Fl
This man is a total parasite. He’s an institutionalized narcissistic egomaniac, sociopath, and psychopath been in prison more than he’s been out and that’s where he should be Society is not safe with this form of a human body walking around but it’s actually the devil running around..his whole life getting by on his looks fortunately Karma kicked in is last bid took a major hit on his looks. I knew he was a devil when when I first met him I rode a four-year bid with him treated him like a king got whatever he wanted spent $10,000 only to find out so I took care of his other drug addicted girlfriend which mind you I’m not a junkie took care of her 2 year stay in county ,and took care of one of his other little girlfriend’s probation ..and I have no idea who else I helped take care of ..He got to work release got the $300 phone he insisted he had to have and got his $2,000 worth of clothing when he got to work release and had no problem at all just brushing me off .. but him not being in my life is definitely a blessing I’m too much of a grown woman for a f-boy .he wants women that he can run game on All he knows how to do is sell meth and he’s not even good at that because he can’t stay out of prison long enough to sell it. He is the most vile person that I’ve ever come across. I cannot imagine spending 4 years of my life every single day with someone talking to them multiple multiple multiple times a day catering to them and then just so easily like I was never anything to him at all whatsoever, and without one conscious thought set my soul on I’m fire let me dead in the eyes as I’m burning and dying and laughing at the same time that’s him what he does he gets off on that. They are called cons for a reason. He’s also known to throw hands .. luckily I dodge that bullet too but I don’t think that either one of us would have survived the first fight ..tell me one time it was his way or my way .He prefers unattractive drug addicted women who will put up with him because they need his dope but that was not me I was his first non-junkie girlfriend. Now the thought of being called his anything just literally makes my stomach turn. This man does not have one good redeeming quality about his self at all everything about him is scam see what I can get out of you . He likes to see how big of a clown I can make out of you and then toss you aside.. he’s also currently in the middle of an investigation of the worst kind if you can only imagine. Crossing my fingers that he has to pay for what he did to many women.Told I wasn’t going to be happy until he was that where he belongs which is behind bars or no longer breathing my air which means that he passed away from natural causes… beware ladies if you run across the scumbag run
Nick Sweeney from Baton Rouge, Louisiana USA
This is an abridged story of an ex from a few years ago. I’ve been wanting a way to warn other women to stay away from this boy. I’ve finally found somewhere where I can do so. Please be advised, if you are triggered by DA/DV and name calling, don’t read on.
I met Nick sweeney during a very dark time in my life. He’s from baton rouge, Louisiana.
My heart was broken due to believing that I was unwanted and amounted to nothing. I was convinced i was no longer good at my job and was just utterly broken. In rolls Nick who eased the pain I felt in my heart.
That is until I did something he didn’t like. It didn’t matter what it was. It didn’t matter what I said. I was always wrong and always a “stupid b1tch” or a “c*nt”. It started out because I was worried about him staying over for WEEKS at a time (my roommates didn’t like him). If I told him no, he would verbally abuse me until I gave him what he wanted. My roommates would leave the entire time he was there and wouldn’t come back until he was gone.
He would throw things at me, snatch things out of my hand and break them, throw entire pots of food on the floor, scream at me, verbally and mentally abused me, and even demonstrate how he’d like to bash my head in with a wooden cooking utensil.
I stayed because he made me feel something other than the pain I was feeling. Eventually, one pain was traded for another. I began to wake up every single day with a painful knot in my stomach. As soon as I opened my eyes, I dreaded the day. I was losing myself in this vicious and abusive relationship. I was anxious and on edge all the time.
The final straw was when he put his hands on me for the first time. He went from 0-100. The argument was over him forcing me to go to sleep for the night. It was 9pm and I wanted time by myself. He wasn’t having it. He flipped out. Pushed me to the ground, kept me from leaving my house, ripped my shirt off of me, stole my wallet and keys. When I tried to make a mad dash for the back door, he grabbed my dogs leash, hooked it around my neck, yanked me back, and tried to choke me out. I was eventually able to escape with my dog, But not before he punched me in the face as I got into my car. He was a hair too slow afterwards. I was able to lock my doors and keep him from dragging me out of my car. I have a strong feeling if I wouldn’t have gotten away, he would have used his gun on me that night. Later that night when we were safely at my friend’s house, we found that he had hit my dog on the head with something so hard that she had a wound on it.
He stayed at my apartment for over a week. In that time, he took a knife to my walls and sliced all the way down the hall, punched huge holes in the walls, wrote a long nasty letter on the wall in front of the door so everyone could see “what a horrible girlfriend I was”. There was trash everywhere and he stole many dumb things just to spite me. (like a cast iron pan that I bought) he squeezed and entire bottle of lube on the carpet because “if lube is needed, the woman is failing. She should never need lube”
If you’re friends with him, stay away. He will use you and throw you away. Countless friends of his put him up in their homes only for him to literally destroy things, such as a bathroom sink, in their house and refuse to fix what he broke.
He is abusive towards all women. Even knows he doesn’t know. If a woman slights him in any way, she’s a “f-ing b1tch” and he will threaten to kill her. He threatened to throw rocks at the rental managers car, beat her up, and kill her for towing his car that was illegally parked.
Please, stay away from him. You cannot fix him. Don’t fall into his trap of making you feel worthless. You deserve better than that.
P.s. if you have animals, he will abuse them. He had a dog he picked up from some friends and that same day he punched the dog repeatedly to “show her where her place was”. We had given them bones from the butcher once and failed to realize that too much bone would give the dogs explosive diarrhea. They couldn’t control it. He stomped on his dog multiple times and she was screaming. It was horrible. Nick Sweeney is a horrible, awful sorry excuse for a human being. When you see him, run away. Don’t walk. And don’t look back.
Sabbir Rahman from United Kingdom
Verbally abusive and once threw a plastic bottle in my direction.
He also was communicating with other girls when in a relationship with me.
We broke up 2014.
Sean Gilbert Langley from Warrenton, VA
He has been charged with domestic violence against his pregnant girlfriend. He is an alcoholic. He is addicted to meth. He is a cheater, a liar. He is a narcissist. He hides all of this very well. He keeps the mask on. But if you are around him long enough, it will fall off and you’ll see. He says he only abuses the ones he really loves. He will have s3x with anyone male or female. He rarely uses a condom unless he is forced by the other person. He has STDs. Does not disclose that. He has four children that he currently only supports 2 of them. And he was forced by the court to support the two. Pretty sure he’s on his next victim to get her pregnant so he has somewhere to live. He will trap you by getting you pregnant. He will use you and take everything from you financially. He’s very good at this he’s been doing it fir over 20yrs. He is 44 years old. He likes to either go for a really young women in their 20s that are naïve and don’t know. Or he goes for single mom’s. Just trying to see if someone from the heartache. And not to get an STD from him. He is very abusive. Most of It is public record so you can Google him. He blames it on his exes. He says they’re crazy. But it’s all lies. He is a bartender, so he picks up a lot of people there. In the beginning, he will love bomb you. Future fake. Tell you everything that you want to hear. Make promises. But it’s all lies. Please be careful if you encounter him.
David Zingaro from Richmond Virginia
David Zingaro is an abuser and a rapist. In our (too-long) relationship, he raped me repeatedly and convinced me and himself it was okay through a barrage of emotional abuse, gaslighting, and manipulation. He was emotionally and physically abusive throughout our entire relationship. He repeatedly raped me throughout our relationship and gaslit me when I tried to bring up the brutality of the encounters after the fact. He would claim to “not remember” the assaults. Avoid at all costs–he is severely troubled and extremely abusive. Afterwards, I attempted to confront him and he claimed I was “crazy” and lumped me in with other so called “crazy” ex girlfriends. Avoid at all costs. He is a rapist, an abuser, and a narcissist.
Taylor Waidhofer from Houston, TX
Taylor Waidhofer was verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive. He does drugs a lot, I think, because I didn’t find out until later in our relationship. I still think that he’s a good guy, but be careful if you start dating him.
Dean Delserro from Wharton NJ
This man is the worst type of malignant narcissist.
He appears to be the “perfect” guy. (Professional job, nice car, divorced and spends time as a dad with his kids.) He will treat you like a true gentleman for months maybe even years. But then slowly it comes out he’s been with multiple other women (usually on business trips he refuses to allow you to join him on); starts to devalue you; major attempts to control you and if you push back he used gaslighting, manipulation and lies to try and shut your voice down. He is the ultimate wolf in sheep’s clothing. He studies gun laws like they’re the Bible, owns several of them and has been known to round aboutly threaten women with them. He will steal money from you, video tape you without your knowledge or consent while having s3x with him (there are cameras all over his home including I discovered the bedroom) then use that footage as leverage against you if you reveal him. He’s cool, calm and collected in demeanor to a point he could be equated with a sociopath. He can lie straight faced to anyone about anything. He’s always looking for the angle to deceive a person. Do not be fooled by his showcase of flowers, attention to heartfelt details or his lavish weekends away. He does the same routine w every woman and as soon as he no longer has power or control in the relationship he discards you without another thought or word he’s just done w you and moves on to the next woman. He’s been through two wives and has no conscience.
Michael James Pierce from Tustin, CA.
Mike Pierce is a dog. He is great at being fake because he has 2 faces. It’s called multiple personality disorder. He is a narcissist and he said it himself that his goal was to get me so upset that I’d be pulling my own hair out. That’s what he did to his baby’s mom & ex wife. He beat me up several times. I always had bruises when we were together.
He compares all women to each other so I was basically no different than her in his eyes. Even though I never did any of the messed up things she did or what any of his exes did, but I still had to pay for all their mistakes. He doesn’t have the brain capacity to differentiate his past girlfriends from his all new girlfriend who never did any thing to hurt him. He did his best to break me. He started fights on purpose to get me mad so I would say something mean to him and he used that as a reason to disappear for 2 days and not answer his phone and call me a psycho for showing up to look for him since he was no where to be found. That’s if he would even open the door. He was the worst person I’ve ever dealt with in my life. I’ve been in so much trouble and nearly landed a few cases over him pretending to be a victim. I am the victim in reality but I don’t like people looking at me like that so I wouldn’t say anything. I just dealt with it on my own in silence. I was so embarrassed to tell anyone the things he would do to me. I felt stupid for letting him get away with it. I just loved him so much. I didn’t understand exactly all the games he was playing because of all the manipulation and games and blaming me for stuff I never did. He used that as a tactic to break me down and steal my confidence gas lighting me to the point of confusion.. I was unaware of what a true narcissist really was. He is a monster! After him takes recovery time and getting help to be pulled out of the mind f-ing. He would tell me im the worst things on the planet but it was always him. I honestly feel sorry for anyone who tries to love him. He went back to his ex because her handicapped husband mysteriously died out of no where. That was her second husband who died. When my ex was married to her, she tried to kill him with rat poison in his food more then once. She fed their baby the same lasagna with the rat poison in it. She cheated on him the day they got married and stayed cheating with that same man throughout their entire marriage. She cheated on her last husband who just died too. He was fresh in the morgue, with no date set to be buried and they were already f-ing in her dead husbands bed. No respect no shame. I actually helped her clean her house for his funeral because she was ACTING LIKE SHE WAS SO UPSET! They are both dirty scandalous liars! God sees everything. He knows what’s in our hearts & he can read our souls. I loved that man and he did me so wrong and to add to it he continues to talk crap on me calling me fat, degrading me, saying evil stuff about my body. He is a horrible person. Mike Pierce has a long disgusting criminal background with almost half of his life being in prison. He wanted me to have nothing by the time he left me. He tried to ruin my family relationships and he messed up both of my cars. Now I have no car and he’s happy about that. I hope and pray that anyone who is interested in him in any way does a background report on him. Especially if you have children please run the other way. He will suck your soul dry. He also has one deceased wife. Her name was Karen. He has a child with her that he never raised. He has a tattoo on his arm that’s says REST IN PISS KAREN. God help me – I’m sorry for writing that but it’s true. It has a picture of a man pissing on a grave. His ex wife was sober the entire time they were apart. She is no longer sober and she was a drug counselor. Over him she is on drugs, drinking and she lost her career. She is being robbed of her life as well. I wonder which one will suck the other ones soul dry first… At least if they stay together he can’t do this to any other unsuspecting innocent women. Oh wait … He is a cheater so yes he will just do it under the radar like he did to me. Any women who f-s another women’s man is stupid if she thinks he won’t be f-ing other women when he is with her. A cheater is a cheater. You either cheat or you don’t. There is no in between. It is ingrained in us from childhood. Some were raised right and some were raised to be trash raised by trash. People don’t change . It’s rare if they change but they usually don’t. He was the cheapest loser I have ever been with and he is clueless about how to treat a women. Don’t be fooled this guy’s can’t be trusted.
Alan bush from Ocean beach California
I was seeing him for a while, asked him several times if he was seeing anyone. He invited me over to his his one night. He said his roommate wasn’t home. As I left in the morning I found a bra in his room. I guess the roommate shares his bed. Later to find out on line that he had a wife and a child. I asked him about it and it was lie after lie.
Made sense to why when he would spend the night with me to why he always had an excuse to why he has to leave ealry in the morning 5-6 am .
I threatened to tell his partner but never did.
He’s a complete narcissist he’ll never take blame for his constant lies.
John C from Orange County, CA
Every single word that comes out of his mouth is a lie. Every action that he does is a lie. The true him won’t come out until the very end. And everything he says from the moment he meets you is going to be a lie. He’s a narcissistic mean person who is cruel evil and enjoys hurting his girl. He honestly gets pleasure out of using his words to rip you to shreds you will leave the relationship feeling worthless empty and alone.
Johno from United Kingdom
Seemed a nice guy at the beginning but unfortunately very toxic, rude and spoiled a-hole.
Cheat and the biggest backstabber. He started to see someone else while I was abroad looking after my mum who passed from cancer.
He claimed that we were on the “same level ” without even asking me what my feelings were and he claimed that we were only friends. He kept repeating that I should start someone else just after my mum passed.
I stuck with him despite he treated me like a doormat. I looked after him when he had his back surgery and he couldn’t walk his German shepherd dog for months. I cooked every single day and cleaned his house. I stayed with him on good and bad days. And he left me when my world was falling apart.
Other red flags:
– always belittled me – my thoughts and my boundaries
– embarrassed me in front of his parents and friends
– never were happy with how I looked or what I wore
– diminishing my opinion, my work, my hobbies, and my contribution to the household.
I understand he is not good for me, and I have to thank the universe I am not with him but the betrayal will hurt me for a long time.
Brandyn Simmons from Chicago, IL
This man is a serial cheater, compulsive liar and hates to be challenged when caught in a lie. He uses charm and his good looks to manipulate and smooth talk those around him so that he gets what he wants. He has a steady supply of girlfriends and with that comes gaslighting, manipulation, lies, hot/cold emotions and someone who is always busy and wont have serious conversations unless it is to his benefit. You will be swept off your feet and will feel like he is “the one”. He uses his position to gain the trust of others as you would never believe that someone in his career would do the things that he does. He has several girlfriends scattered around all who make sure his ego is fed and he is entertained. He is highly emotionally manipulative and you will often feel crazy or made to feel irrational. Your emotions will be a problem for him. The truth is that you never really know where he is, who he is with or what he is doing because he has a good story to go with it. You won’t even realize it. He will talk about vulnerability and boundaries but that is for his benefit to feed you what you need to hear. He is a narcissist and will use anyone to get what he wants. You will be the love of his life if he thinks or knows you have money or connections that he can get to by being with you. This is a man who is a scammer and can manipulate most which is why it’s so hard to believe. It is shocking that he has not been caught is a scam. I think he has but there is a “victim” story to go with it. He will tell you his ex’s are crazy and for that reason you need to block people on social media. The truth is that he doesn’t want to get caught in a lie and for this reason has several accounts. He uses social media to his benefit. He is not the person he wants everyone to believe he is and will only be around as long as you are entertaining him and feeding his ego. Ladies – this is not a man anyone should be in a relationship with or having s3x unless you are ok with being one of many. I wish I had written this earlier but was motivated after seeing him in a picture with another women who is not his girlfriend. The reason I know is that his current girlfriend and I have mutual friends.
Stefan from Baltimore MD
I dated him for half a year. He loved bombed me for the first month or so. I really liked him and he acted so sweet to me. But it was just a manipulation tactic. He emotionally abused me for the entire 6 months. He lied to me, used me, neglected me. Those 6 months were torture. He treated me like shit under the guise that he had undiagnosed depression and mental illness. While he probably does have severe mental issues, that’s not an excuse to manipulate me. Please be careful if you meet this boy. He is a threat. His entire family apologized to me for what he had done. I have taken steps since leaving that relationship to protect myself from this person.
This sounds exactly like my experience, except the Stefan I knew wasn’t from Maryland. But the love bombing, the 6 months relationship, the emotional abuse, manipulation, undiagnosed mental illness is all the same as my experience. Wish I knew if it was the same guy.
Timothy Grant Gray from Timothy Grant Gray
He is a deadbeat dad. Our daughter is 15 and he only recently asked to be in her life after going and having three more kids with different women. I let him into her life and after a few months he stopped paying child support and ghosted not just me but our innocent daughter. He ran off to North Carolina with his grandma smh he turned 36 today but ran away from his first born to be with his grandma lol. He is a horrible man who uses women and obviously doesn’t have a heart if he can destroy his own child.
Julio Jaramillo Cortes from Belton ,Texas Bell Co.
He hides His drug addiction and alcohol usages , he loves to lie about being single because of his ex’s but He still talks to them all takes them out has s3x with them ..when I first met him he sounded like he was abused by his ex’s and he spoke badly about them until one day I was at work and one of Those ex’s text me to see who I was on Facebook then I called him then he told me she was nobody but then minutes later that very same woman screen shot his messages to her saying I was a crazy woman a nobody that she didn’t have to question anything because he loved her .but then when I get off work he texts and calls me mad and tells me that woman was a nobody and I didn’t need to be jealous of her because she was crazy … And he wanted me to go straight home to be with him and not worry about her .but days later when we were together on our day off that same woman calls him around the time I used his phone and I answer in front of him and put her on speaker then she’s saying out loud papi where are u why haven’t u called me are you going to meet up with me are you going to send me money , I was like what the heck , hell no .. the girl heard me I talk to her then she says she’s been with him for yrs and I was like he is my boyfriend for 2 yrs . Then he looks at me and says to me and her while she is on phone and says both of y’all are crazy I get mad about to leave when I grab his phone then I just look into it more I see more women half naked conversation on Facebook messenger and money being involved I was like this pervert lying so I slap him on check for lying and punch him another time for cheating on me and them like that he gets up from floor and says laughing wow I deserve that and laughs at me calling me crazy constantly as I cry and walk off his phone was in my hands more woman appear popping up on his messanger to meet up to make love and have s3x with him I got grossed out it left me super hurt heart broken for months yrs past and often he tries looking for me saying I love you I want is you only but He still the same messing with more woman and even more Ex’s one called me months ago and says she’s been with him 20 yrs I’m like oh my and nobody wants to put a stop to him ..now this ex boyfriend is from Guanajuato Mexico He lies he is not one to trust , the drugs he does is just uncalled for too before these women popped up I was wondering why he would grabbing me hard and cursing at me it’s because out of his pocket earlier that same day out came out a small plastic with white powder in it I’m told it could of been cocaine not sure because I don’t do drugs never have never will ….so I hope this can save another girl looking for saving because I really didn’t think there are men like this still in the world stay safe sad to say I am out of this relationship but still broken by the whole bad experience of it
Lyle Benson from Littleton
Lyle Benson was great in the bedroom. Wild fun, dominate, and oh so skilled with his mouth but he was a terrible boyfriend. Refused to settle down and was always going off to Japan where I know he had a bunch of little fan girls just waiting for him to come back.
Jim Data from Nevada city California
I dated this man for almost 2 years.
When his rage and accusations started I left him, only to take him back, many times.
He will love bomb you, and after a few months the rage and accusations will start.
It is scary.
He abuses his dog, so I’m sure he will do the same to a woman.
Don’t be fooled by his charm at first. That is just to get you where he wants you.
He will abuse you mentally, as he did me.
Luckily I escaped before the physical abuse started. His ex girlfriend was abused also.
John Milne from Norwell, MA
John was an actual insane person.
He was the king of gaslighting. He knew how to lie about everything. I was not allowed at his house because his “family is weird”. I was not allowed to go to his hockey games because “you don’t want to come”. Turns out he was cheating on me the whole time (with his ex) and his ex lived with him and his family had no clue who I was.
John also did not know boundaries when it came to what was being done intimately. I had to basically scream at him to stop at what he was doing and he just found it funny and when I broke up he said “I didn’t realize it bothered you.” Even when I had expressed that it was awful and uncomfortable.
John also is nowhere near a gentleman. He expected me to pay A LOT of the time. I can understand 50/50, but it was not that.
Before you think I am crazy and that I was the other woman, I had contacted the ex and talked with her at extent and she told me a lot of this info as well.
Derrick Martel from West Paris, Maine
Derrick and I matched on several dating apps, met locally and started a relationship. About 4 months in I found out he was s3xting my “best friend” and roughly four other girls (that I saw myself), he also had one of his female friends over about 2 months into our relationship and cheated on me with her. That same night he came to my house- STILL STINKING!!! I dismissed it as he must have just had a fish sandwich from McDonald’s on to way over, no joke.. I saw the message where she had thanked him when I found the other s3xt messages! He also lied to me on the first date about his drinking habits, relationship status, and other illegal substance use. Ladies, it only got worse from there. He is controlling and hot headed, changing women like underwear.
Kenyatta Mack from San Antonio, Texas
He is a covert narcissist, who is great at using his childhood trauma to manipulate women. He targets successful, easing going and empathetic women. He starts with love bombing that eventually turned into a pattern of criticism, blaming and belittling me followed by telling me how much he cared for me. Used terms like “we” but when I started to pay close attention they only thing he did was for his benefit, anything else he did for me was very superficial. I was the only one in he relationship making sacrifices for the relationship. Made lots of promises about marriage, settling down and buying/building a home with no real action other than words….lots of gaslighting when bringing up concerns. He has toxic relationships all within his family and frequently has had investigations at different work locations due to the environment he created. He always talked about how loyal he was, how he wasn’t going anywhere and didn’t club, hangout, etc. But I Did not know for years but eventually found out he had a “narcissistic harem” which is having several women to feed his narcissistic supply. To avoid years of emotional abuse from being criticized, devalued, manipulated and lied to stay far away from him. Narcissists DO NOT change because they never see themselves as the problem, have no accountability because they lack empathy.
Dave Ankenbauer from Colorado
Dave Ankenbauer uses everyone in his life. First of all he cheated on me. I should have known he could not be trusted, he has 2 ex-wives after all. So here are all of his red flags that I figured out after we broke up:
1. Love bomber (he was so intensely into me up until he cheated, he would do this thing in which he would interrupt whatever I was doing, stand as closely as possible to me, and demand that I look him in the eyes while he said, “It’s so important to me that you know that I am ALL IN.”).
2. No real friends (all of his relationships are transactional, outside of his mother (and me), everyone he has a relationship with has been a former client of his. These people are in his life so he can get something from them like money, a cheap place to live, validation, and in my case s3x and companionship.
3. He is very judgmental of others yet seems to have no capacity for self-reflection
4. He drinks way too much
5. He is totally enmeshed with his mother
6. He is very co-dependent
7. His entire identity is wrapped up in being a “good man” who likes to be helpful. However, he cheated, he lied, he was manipulative, he used me to help him get out of a depression, to build up his ego, to help him get over his erectile disfunction and p0rn addiction.
There is are so many more red flags, but these are the most important ones.
Sam Edmunds from North Carolina
Thought I had the guy off my dreams only to come home and find him completely dressed as a s1utty girl. Everything from makeup to wig and high heels, he looked like a woman completely, to top it off he was watching sissy hypno p0rn on the computer . What a jerk!
Richard Travis Hartman from USA
He is on the run for some reason. Just packed up his stuff, took a lot of her stuff too; and left his kid behind. Assumption is he’s in CO or OK, but he could be anywhere in the US by now.
He’s an abuser. He’s a narcissist. He has been accused multiple times of m0lesting his wife’s niece when she was younger, which I now believe he did.
I don’t know what lies he’s telling everyone now, but he is not to be trusted. Hopefully, this will save a female or many from his abuse.
5’6″/50s/hazel eyes/salt n pepper hair (black)
Jonathan Melioli from Defiance Ohio
What i thought was my happy ever after, was actually my doom to certain mentality death. I fell in love fast as a young girl who has been through too much too explain, and abandonment issues like no other i was immediately wrapped around his finger, which he knew. He wanted me to get rid of all of my guy friends because “his mom had been such a cheater” he was paranoid about anyone else, i couldn’t have possible been more naïve and did exactly that. it declined from there, i couldn’t have female friends either, he didn’t like my family, let alone his own. even though they were more than good to him, and he got everything he ever wanted, other than a vacation. he talked crap about me with his friends, i misscarried his baby and the whole time i was losing it he was at home playing his game saying there was nothing he could do to help. told me he didn’t want to deal with the emotional or physical pain i was in from losing the baby because it was his birthday. there was more trauma unfolding at the time on top and i got sent to a mental hospital to save my life, when i came home he was immediately telling me how depressed he was so i of course, dropped my mental health once again to save his. i also struggle with severe ptsd which comes with anxiety and depression and when he would bully me into panic attacks he would mock me, tell me he didn’t even understand why i was crying, or that my crying was embarrassing and unnecessary, he also would turn the music up in the car so he didn’t have to hear me cry. he would pick until i couldn’t take it anymore and i’d lose it so he could play the victim. he put his hands on me, and i told him i would never be back. he accused me of cheating everywhere i went come to find out the whole two years he was cheating on me with his ex, they got together right after we broke up. worst 2 years of my life. 8 months free and still healing myself, most inconsiderate, selfish, and incredible liar i’ve ever met. i was also the only one who would get a job, ladies. never settle for a man who can’t even pay his own phone bill. xoxo
Aaron Conrad from Harrison AR
Rap1st. Disgusting human. Doesn’t know how to keep his hands off of a female. Dangerous. Threatened me with a knife.
Matthew Eversole from Vallejo, California
This man will seem like the man of your DREAMS when you first meet him. He is very charming and charismatic. Everything seems to click and he is very romantic. I definitely fell for the confidence that I thought he had and how he seemed to be absolutely smitten. I didn’t know about love bombing before him but I definitely do now. After a few months he will start to have random moments where he lashes out at you aggressively but he blames it on whatever stressors he has going on in his life at the time. He will start to question your relationships with friends, coworkers and family to the point that you start to rethink the importance of them over your relationship with him.
I eventually was isolated from everyone I loved and financially dependent on him and then the physical abuse started. He was also sober when we met but he relapsed several times during our relationship. Being under the influence is never an excuse for this behavior. Even when I would leave or call the cops, the abusers definitely have a way to romanticize everything to win you back. The cycle of abuse is insane.
This went on for 5 years and I had three more kids with him as well. By the time I was able to leave I was a broken version of myself and it took me forever to rebuild myself. I know that so many people may think “I would never be fooled into this” and that is fine but no one, and I mean NO ONE thought I would fall victim to domestic violence. I was a strong woman both emotionally and physically but that’s what they go for. They don’t want someone who is weak and pliable they want to break down the strong ones because it gives them a sense of power. I wanted to add him to this list because no one would even think that he was like this when they meet him. I didn’t know that I was the 11th woman on record that he has abused. I knew he had some legal issues in the past but I didn’t know he went to prison for beating his ex girlfriend.
I don’t want anyone else to fall for what I did and end up where I ended up. I am now 4 years out of the relationship and it’s taken a ton of therapy as well as time but I’m a lot better. I’m engaged and happy, even though I now have to co-parent with Matthew. He is sober again and is a good father however the abuse he dishes out to women is not likely to stop. I hope that whoever meets him comes to find this list and reads this before they get too involved with him. If you are, RUN and cut off all contact. Good luck
Samuel Morris from Louisville, KY
samuel morris abused me physically, emotionally, and verbally throughout our two and a half year long relationship. he spent the first few months love bombing me, buying expensive clothes for me, spending hundreds of dollars to visit me in college, etc. however, about a month or so in, i got a concussion that caused me some memory issues. he proceeded to use these memory issues against me, gaslighting me into believing that i was saying things i never would’ve said, that the friends i had were mistreating me, that i needed to drop out of school since i couldn’t remember anything anymore. i told him about how i had been assaulted by one of my coworkers friends and he used that information to assault her and convince me that she was lying when she filed a police report. when i was assaulted while we were together he told me i was a cheater and a wh0re, all while he was telling everyone we had a “don’t-ask-don’t-tell open relationship” so he could cheat on me with high schoolers. i finally realized i needed to get out once he beat me after he had a night out and got into a physical fight with our neighbors. once i was out, he continued to harass me at my work or by having packages delivered to the old apartment. my neighbors also noticed that he was checking out the old apartment to see if i lived there still over a year after the split. stay safe and stay away from him!
Michael Gray from Arkansas
He was extremely emotionally and financially abusive. He rap3d and s3xually assaulted me multiple times because he “couldn’t help it” then threatened to off himself when I broke up with him. We were in a relationship for 11 months and when i tried to break up with him the first time at 9 months, he manipulated me into staying.
James Phelps IV from Martinsburg WV
Doesnt wipe his butt because “theres too much hair also it is gay”. Once he screamed at his gf in a parking lot for 2 hours because she asked to eat that day. Sent his ex a 1400 word essay three years after they broke up on new years, threatening her and sent it to all her friends that he found attractive. Dates minors while being 30.
Kevin Martinez from Flushing, NY
This man is 24 years old as of 2023 and he predates on girls as young as 16. If you frequent popular anime related conventions and recreational arcades please be careful for this man, he is a s3xual predator.
Matthew Zink from Cumberland, MD
Matthew Zink is a narcissistic controlling asshole and he’s also a rap1st. He’s currently in jail in Allegany County, MD for numerous charges. When I tried to have him charged for rap1ng me nothing was done. He’s rap3d two other ex girlfriends, one of whom he had falsely charged with child abuse. The only time he was honest about rap1ng me was when my fiancé called him out on it. He’s a monster and doesn’t deserve anything good. The day I left him it took five cops, two of which detained him, so I could get out safely. He does not deserve anything good.
Michael Impallaria from Denver Colorado
Huge emotional flood at the beginning of the relationship and then he will become verbally furious at anything deemed wrong. He is litigious, and verbally cruel. He made me cry hundreds of times and tore my confidence to shreds. I’m ADHD and anytime Id forget something or get lost he’d get furious and tell me how I’m an inconvenience and shouldn’t be allowed to do anything unsupervised. This was all while I was employed and supporting him not working. He would kick me out of his place at 2am at any kind of disagreement as a means of control through fear. Will bring up having a dead mom as an excuse everytime. 3 years together is my experience.
Timothy Dustin Reeves from Corona/Eastvale, California
Timothy Dustin Reeves (goes by Dustin or Atomsky online) is 34 years old, he likes to lie about his age (says he’s about 24 years old) because he does seek after girls who are barely 18, and has even talked to minors. I know because I was one of them, I have reported to the police but they didn’t do anything with the case. He’s in every single way abusive while having mommy and daddy pay for everything. Understandable why he beats women because he’ll never be a man. He is known to go to bars in the Corona/Eastvale/Riverside area and has drugged people’s drinks before. Again all of this had been reported yet nothing has been done, he is currently with someone who’s 14 years younger than him, as she just graduated from high school about less than 2 ago. I just want to warn people about this behavior because I dealt with it for 2 years, and will never do it again. Please be safe out there.
Joshua Cobos from SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA
A tale as old as time. First came the love bombing, then came the abuse. Abused me s3xually, physically, emotionally. Physically assaulted me in public, bashing my head against a car window then threatened su1c1de if I left. Isolated me from friends and family. Cheated on me with multiple people then proceeded to s3xually assault me without protection. Rap3d me (“I love when you say no”) several times. Respected no boundaries. Physical abuse/su1c1de were constant threats.
He has spent time in Southern CA, Massachusetts, San Francisco, Austin. A photographer.
Giancarlo Rendon from Born in Colombia, Currently resides in Philadelphia PA
He is a narcissist psychopath who I was seeing since 2019. We broke up summer 2022 and he spent the last year trying to get back together… all while having a girlfriend. He is a serial cheater and has cheated on all of his exes who he now deems “crazy” and “insane”. He also stole my cat. Avoid this man he is a very jealous and sad individual. He will blame you for everything he feels is wrong with your life and drive you to insanity. He is emotionally abusive and manipulative.
Chase Jeffrey “CJ” White from Tustin, CA
Google him and find he rap3d someone in a public park in 2013! You wouldn’t suspect it since the guy is like 100 lbs soaking wet. The coward had someone else hold his victim while he committed his crime. He appears very charming and sweet, don’t be fooled.
Ian “Jack” Kenney from Richmond Virginia / Maryland
He’s a narcissistic abuser. It started with affection and tending to my former wounds, and slowly became about controlling me, reforming me into his ideal partner. He eased into it by making “jokes” that were intended to put me down, but it got far worse. It was largely verbal abuse, and he made it seem like I was the problem. If I did anything out of turn, or hung out with my friends, he would punish me. Then came s3xual and physical violence. He later told me, actually, that he was trying to brainwash me, to break me down and rebuild me to his perfection. Absolute sociopath. If I hadn’t already been a survivor, who knows if I would’ve gotten out. Little does he know I cheated on him before I left. A-hole.
He’s a narcissistic abuser. He’s manipulative, hateful, fat-shaming, and will tear you down. He’s the kind that wants to take a strong woman with vulnerabilities and break her down so he can rebuild her in his image. He’s such a sociopath he literally told me his plan for me, like it’s totally normal to brainwash your partner. He’s gone unchecked and has hurt people after me who reached out to me since I was the first experiment. He will treat you special, buy you expensive things, act supportive, and slowly the digs and the “jokes” are cutting, made to screw with your self esteem. He will use anything to control you. Hand out punishments if you’re out of line. By the time you realize what’s happened, you’re in deep and think it’s still love and think “well maybe if I change myself, it can go back to the way it used to be” SPOILER that was all an act and you need to RUN from this man or anyone who acts like f-ing Jonah Hill
Will Heron from Newmarket Ontario
He lied constantly about family members dying and about people hurting him in order to coerce women to sleep with him. He takes advantage of emotional vulnerability and will abuse you emotionally and s3xually. That’s what he did to me. Save yourself the trouble, please!!!!
Joshua Herrington from Wichita, Kansas
He molested me and then tried to gaslight me that he didn’t and played victim when I left.
Triston Fairchild from Omaha, NE (Papillon)
Avoid this man at all costs. He has some serious physical and emotional abuse problems. If you’re interested in him, cut it off or you’ll waste your time with a manipulative, selfish, lying, disrespectful, and violent scum bag. He will hurt you in more ways than 1 and gaslight you into thinking it’s your fault.
Jeffrey Edens from Tigard Oregon USA
He will tell you he needs a particular favor in order for him to be s3xually active and that if you do this thing he’ll give you all he can. What he doesn’t tell you is he lies. He’ll give a million reasons for not doing anything you ask of him and if for any reason you can’t do his thing or it’s not how he wants it, he’ll treat you badly and like you’re worthless. It’s a real head trip. He starts off as a prince and ends as the prince of darkness.
Ryan Farnsworth from Enfield, NH
He is a F boy through and through. You will be in a situationship and not the only woman despite what he says. Enter at your own risk!
Adith Uttam from Rishikesh, UK, India – Singapore
This person is a narcissistic psychopath, has a criminal background.
All this person talked about was getting his d!ck s*cked and has no education or any means of personal growth. Selling drugs in India and going from broken relationship to broken relationship. Shaming, lying, scheming, plotting, blaming and has huge trust issues. Reported history of conflictive brake-ups, demeaning psychological and psychical abuse towards women.
Kevin Rahill from Northern California
It’s always the ones who tell you how honest they are that are lying. This one comes on all sugar and sweetness to reel you in. He moves fast. He practically moves you in as soon as you are seeing each other. You may misinterpret this as him being so in love with you that he wants you around all the time. What is actually happening is that he wants to cut you off from everyone outside the home and control you completely. You won’t have one private phone call and you aren’t allowed to correspond even with the friends you have in common. He will make it difficult for you to work while telling you he doesn’t care if you don’t work at all. Pretty soon you will give up because he makes it too hard. He will verbally, emotionally and financially abuse you relentlessly. One day a week he will be affectionate and loving and be the boyfriend you thought you had, and when you wake up the next day you will find that it was all a lie. He’s hateful again. He will make it look like true love on social media but he doesn’t care. He cares far more about what strangers care about than what his partner cares about. His image is EVERYTHING. As confirmed by a therapist he is a paranoid covert narcissist. This means he will never break up with you. He will torture you until you leave. He can never be the bad guy. He will tell you that every woman before you cheated on him and treated him poorly. You will feel sorry for him and work hard to prove that you are different. You are not different. All the girlfriends before you were good women too. They were victimized also. He tries hard to drive you out of your mind with lies and aggression and gaslighting. He wants you to doubt your reality and feel like whatever you do, you are not good enough. I stayed around for over 2 years. The damage has been extensive. I do not recommend. Don’t ignore the red flags over those blue eyes. There is nothing behind them but hate and evil.
Herbert Edward Lester from Vallejo, CA
Beware of this one. Aside from being the standard liar and cheat, once you are done with him and break up he will go full assault mode on all social media to smear your name with lies. Doesn’t matter what kind of person you are, he will try to destroy your relationships, your career, alienate clients, terrify your children, etc. He is pure evil. Please don’t get tangled up in that mess. He’s not worth it. He can’t keep a job either, so double not worth it.
Brian Strong from Rochester, NY
Well known cheater despite being married. Was told they are more like roommates , he trashes his wife but found out he has two kids with her. Then, because we live in small city, I discover he has multiple women on the side. He will lie to anyone. Ladies be warned!
Alex Garrick from Trussville, AL
Serial cheater and pathological liar. He not only cheated on me, but at least 2 other women. One of them being his ex-wife. My experience with him introduced me to the concept of “Fake Love”. I didn’t realize this was the case during our relationship but when things became clear, I quickly found out that this was exactly what we had. This is a very long read, but if you are entertaining this man, please learn from my mistakes and save yourself the trauma. I don’t want anyone to have to go through what I went through with him.
I should have paid attention to the red flags. The first day we met in person, he said he loved me. It was weird. I assumed it was because he was lonely and hadn’t had any female companionship since his divorce earlier in the year. Then there was the constant, non-stop bashing of his ex-wife. He made this poor woman sound like the spawn of Satan. He obsessed over her. He talked about her so much it felt like she was a part of our relationship and didn’t know it. I ended up looking her up online and what I found was not a crazy ex, but another victim of his lies and cheating.
His story about what caused his divorce would always change. It went from the wife completely changing after they were married to him “only” sending dirty texts to another girl. He tried to make the ex-wife sound unreasonable for blowing up over it. Later on when our relationship was practically over, he was drinking and lost track of his lies. He slipped up and told me he had s3x with this other girl a few days after he was married and his wife saw the messages on his phone and that’s when she became upset. Knowing what he had done, he still had no problem making it seem like he had no hand in destroying their marriage.
Alex was very belligerent towards me. We are both into nerd culture and would play card games together. I was super brand new to one game in particular and he offered to teach me. Instead of being patient he would get frustrated with me and become condescending when I didn’t make a play fast enough. It was so hurtful I wanted to quit learning the game altogether.
After reflection, I can see that he never truly cared for me. I had surgery and needed someone to take me to the hospital and stay there with me. During that time, I had a friend offer to take me, but he insisted on doing it. After the procedure, I was in the room and coming out of the anesthesia. He asked if it was ok if he left to go hang out with his friends. It was like he couldn’t get out of there fast enough. The next day he drove me home. Per the doctor, I was supposed to have someone help me out because I wasn’t able to move around on my own that good. What did he do? He brought me home, waited until my meds kicked in and left me to fend for myself. His “I will be there to take care of you” quickly turned into “can’t you order your food and stuff online?”. Boyfriend of the year.
A few months later I became pregnant with his child. I was happy because I thought for many years that I was infertile. Well, it ended in a miscarriage early on. I was devastated but also in a lot of physical pain while the miscarriage was taking place because the surgery site was not fully healed. Where was he? At home sending text messages to me about how scared he was that he might be sick. Zero consideration for what I was going through.
Fast forward two more months. D-Day. I wake up in the middle of the night and see 20+ missed calls on my phone and 6 or 7 voicemails. Naturally I’m thinking the worst, so I call him right back. He was drunk and stumbled over his words but finally admitted to making out with someone at his friends’ party that night. I was crushed and tried to get off the phone immediately. He must’ve realized what he said because he started crying and having a panic attack and saying how he didn’t want to lose me. He swore up and down that nothing else happened. Well, that was a lie.
His story kept changing. The one constant was that he blamed the girl at the party for starting everything. I decided to do some digging. I created a fake profile on a website he was using to “meet friends” and had that account reach out to him. He took the bait. I would text him from my phone and then have the fake profile text him from a different phone at the same time to throw him off. He lied to the fake profile about being a writer (he never had a job the entire time we dated) and even brought up how awful his ex-wife was to him during the divorce.
To catch him at his own game I pretended that this fake profile was having an affair and was confiding in him. It took a few days, but he opened up and admitted that there was a girl at a party that he ended up cheating with. I had the fake profile press him a bit and he did say that yes, they had s3x. All the while he was still telling me they had only kissed. I ended up finding the girl he cheated on me with and she came clean. She told me that they were drunk, and mutually flirting back and forth. He told her everything would be ok if they had s3x and that he would tell me and I’d be cool with it. He lied to get in her pants and then tried to throw her under the bus. I was grateful for her telling me the truth but she’s not innocent. She knew we were together, yet she still agreed to sleep with him and used being drunk as an excuse. When I confronted him, he suddenly became the victim and had the audacity to tell me that it was hard to tell me he cheated and that we could reconcile later that year but I’d have to learn to trust him again. No accountability whatsoever.
Avoid this man at all costs. He will lie to you, treat you poorly, put everything else above you and waste years of your life. Then turn around and tell the next victim that you are to blame. He is not worth it.
Jason creighbaum from Indiana
Jason was my pen pal while he was in prison after he got out he moved to my area we had 2 kids when I was 7 months pregnant with our youngest my house was raided and I found out he had warrants after he missed our child’s birth and I supported him thru 17 months in prison things were OK except he always needed money after about 4 months from him getting out I recieved a text that said sorry I got my boss pregnant and we r moving he never sent another text or came home to get his stuff it’s been 7 years he doesn’t pay child support or have any contact with our children
James Woo from Rockville, MD
Do not believe a word this person says! He lied about dating/being engaged/married!!!! I feel bad for his poor wife and kids…. NOT TO BE TRUSTED!!
Jason Chad Graham from Los Lunas New Mexico
Jason is a serial abuser , cheater , liar , alcoholic and Narcissist! Beware all!!! He’s been married and divorced 3x. He will love bomb you and tell you what he thinks you want to hear , take anything he can from you and once he has you where he wants you the true personality will appear! He is angry! And a truly hates women I believe. After a very physically, emotionally and mentally abusive marriage we divorced. He broke my femur 3 years after our divorce! Unfortunately we have a 7 year old son together so going no contact is not possible at this time. Again please beware!!! And steer clear of him!!!
Jim Data from Nevada city California
I dated Jim for 2 years.
He has terrible rage and accuses you of horrible things. He has signs of narcissistic traits.
He has made up stories, and tries to get me to admit it.
He shows violent tendencies.
Francisco Josue Alvarado Araujo from Fort Worth, Texas
I really had on my rose-colored glasses with this walking red flag. At first, I thought he was really sweet. But that was just love bombing and I didn’t pick up on it. I was in lala land but, in reality, he’s very unstable.
I discovered this man-child cheated on me throughout our entire 3 year relationship using dating and hook up apps. When confronted with receipts, he started gaslighting and stonewalling.
He was never able to have difficult conversations. He was avoidant and never had anything to say. It was like he wouldn’t allow himself to be vulnerable or he didn’t know how.
His close friends, including his roommate are also cheaters. I suppose this is another experience that they can bond over, as they have a mutual understanding and a similar view on cheating, which enables them to openly discuss it without judgment.
It was all very toxic all around.
Alex Peter from Arlington, VA
This guy plays so many mind games! I think he’s undiagnosed bipolar. He tried to kick me out of our apartment on a weekly basis! He would threaten to call the cops! He ended things and then sued me for my engagement ring back! *He promised me I could keep the ring if anything happened, because he knows I have no money! I’m on disability and had zero money for a lawyer! I had to legally tell him to leave me alone and block him from all contact! Do not play his games!
Chris Johnson from Leesburg, VA
This guy will hide the fact you’re dating. He will not publicly recognize you in any social media network that you’re together. In fact, he will block you from all his social media accounts! Chris is the biggest scammer I ever met! He currently owes me $15k and has not made any effort to pay me back and it’s been years! Do not date nor give any money to this piece of scum!! I’m on disability and need every cent I can get! He has depleted all my savings! A truly horrible person! He should be in jail!
Niall Dunseith from Leesburg, VA
I dated this guy for about 3.5 years. We lived together, talked about marriage and kids. We even talked about engagement rings. What does this guy do? Cheats on me with our next door neighbor!! You should also be warned that he has addiction issues with drugs, alcohol, gambling, video games, p0rn, etc!
Michael Evangelis from Morris Plains/ Hopatcong, New Jersey
Michael is an abusive and manipulative person. He cheated on me for the 9 years we were together, and when I called him out on his cheating and toxic behavior he abused me. He chases women who he thinks are lesser than him, and he can control easily. He tends to go after women younger than him (he is 34) and will make them feel like he is some Prince Charming. This worked the first year or so, and then I started to notice he has addictions to gambling, drugs, and s3x. He gr00med me into playing out his f3tishes and when I stopped giving in he became very verbally abusive and toxic. He would say I am a woman and need to know my place next to a man, and that I can have control in the bedroom but he is the leader otherwise. He picks up women calling them angels and princesses, but all to conceal who he really is. A controlling, manipulative, addicted person that has no friends. If you have friends he will keep criticizing them, and find ways to push them away. He would say horrible things about all my family and friends because he didn’t want them encouraging me to leave him. I really hope every women finds this before dating him so they can see the red flags that I missed for so long. When women don’t give him what he wants he threatens them, which he did to me, and countless other women whom I learned all about when I found out he was cheating on me the whole time. He travels for work and that is when he cheats. He will say he is busy with a coworker but is really with a new woman every time. Please be careful around this man.
Eric Gonzalez from Tucson AZ
Stalker and harasses women. Has had multiple women file for protective orders. Comes off sweet, quiet. Liar, covert narcissist. Run!
Francisco Josue Alvarado Araujo from Westworth Village, Texas
Red flags
– Emotionally Immature
-Emotionally Unavailable
-Lovebombs
-Gaslights
-Stonewalls
-Cheater
-Jealousy
-FOMO (fear of missing out)
I really had on my rose colored glasses with this walking red flag. At first I thought he was really sweet. A cute and cuddly fuzzy little mouse. In reality he’s just unstable.
I discovered this man child cheated on me throughout our entire 3 year relationship using dating and hook up apps.
Anthony Quarless (Stickz Greenz) from Atlanta, GA
Stickz Greenz (Anthony Quarless) is a self-admitted sociopath who lies and manipulates to get what he wants. I was dealing with him for a year and a half and, multiple times he did incredibly hurtful things and, when I called him on it, he would make excuses and justify his behavior. He will not take responsibility for his actions unless you convince him to do so.
Over a year into dealing with him, he gave me herpes, took 11 days to come talk to me, and when he did he looked me dead in my eyes and said “at first I was upset cuz I really thought I gave u this but then I realized u had it this whole time and tried to make me think I gave it to u. But it’s ok, I forgive u, there’s no animosity, no love lost, everyone makes mistakes….” I was livid. I then spent the next day sending him screenshots of conversations with a doctor and parts of articles to convince him he did, in fact, give this to me.
After things ended between us he proceeded to gaslight me, claiming that various things he did and said over the previous year and a half never happened. He’s so good at gaslighting and manipulating that I times I found myself actually questioning my own reality.
He wears colorful suits everyday, his hair is always dyed a different color, and he has a grill in his mouth. If you see him walking around Atlanta he may seem like someone you’d want to get to know but my advice is to stay verrrry far away!
ps- He’s in the music industry so he has access to a lot of younger and impressionable women who fall for his charm only to be used and discarded when he no longer has a use for people.
Spencer M. Bowles from Denver, CO
I would like to start off by saying anyone can change and I truly believe that, but personally there was a limit to what I could put up with in a partner. Spencer is a sales guy, so naturally he was a smooth talker and knew how to have a good time. However, when the going got tough he would shutdown, ignore problems, and had an extremely narcissistic attitude. The first red flag was when I found out he had gotten a previous girlfriend pregnant and essentially guilt-tripped her into getting an abortion then dumped her stuff off at her friend’s and cut off all communication blaming everything on her, I mean it takes two to tango… As far as my story goes, towards the end of our relationship I was involved in an accident requiring a couple surgeries, but he was unable to care for me as a partner might with checking in, potentially helping out with doctor visits, or with the cooking and cleaning. The second flag was that he had difficulties caring for himself and his responsibilities too. From the beginning, whether that be from his ADHD or was his normal state of living he struggled with addiction, work, adult living, and finances until I entered the picture. He is a second born privileged child and it shows through with his self-absorbed and self-centered ways. Although he seemed to have a close relationship with family and friends, he would lie easily to them and put forward an idealistic image of himself and his life. He has a sweet natured husky malamute dog that he spoils and shows affection to in front of others. However, if he had a bad day there was the tendency to take it out on the dog physically, unable to control his anger. While with him, although he didn’t try to get physical with me, I was worried for my physical safety on several accounts. When the mental abuse/assault/threats became too much to the point of entering into a difficult depression, on top of my physical healing journey, I had to call it quits to focus on my own healing away from him. He didn’t know how to communicate, work through disagreements, or be in a long-term relationship (our relationship of one year being the longest relationship he had been in) and although he was ready to propose with his grandmother’s diamond custom ring specially made and had asked for my father’s permission, I was not to the point of where I could see myself agreeing to marriage with him before calling it quits. I would like to warn other women of Spencer in that he is a shmoozer and will say many things that you may want to believe will come true, but to remember that actions speak louder than words and to not trust a narcissist. I understand that there are two sides to a story and I’m not perfect, as I have had my faults too when I had disassociated after my traumatic accident, but wanted to share my truth and to inform other women who may have hesitancies about Spencer.
Dalton Linkus from Nashville, TN or Dacono, CO
Narcissistic personality disorder, abusive, manipulative, now verging on stalker.
I wanted to just forget about Dalton and move on with my life but, despite being very clear with him that I wanted no contact (multiple times, on multiple platforms) he still will not leave me alone. This is beyond his extending an olive branch after leaving the relationship, it is outright manipulative behavior bordering on stalking. Other women should be warned about this, it’s gone too far.
A few years back, Dalton and I had an unofficial relationship. He wanted more, I didn’t, but he kept pursuing. At first, he put me on a high pedestal. He made me feel amazing. But as I started to go out in the world, grow in my own achievements, and come into myself, he felt threatened. He started tearing me down. He started trying to isolate me from my friends, saying they didn’t get me, that I was only friends with them because they shared one thing in common with me (where we lived, how we were raised, their religion, etc.) He said they were bad influences and that they were “weird” because they were different than him. He then went after my family – saying it was kinda pathetic and abnormal that they napped (yes, he really said that) and then he would talk up how amazing his parents must be because they “… didn’t need naps like toddlers.”
Pretty soon, he was coming after my body. When I would go hiking, running, etc. without him, he would act amazed that I had completed the hike because “[I wasn’t] in good shape” or that my hiking partners weren’t. But when I was with him, he would act amazed that I could keep up with his workouts and would compliment my dedication.
At one point, when I mentioned I wanted to do a race with some girlfriends to qualify for a prominent race where I live, he said, and I quote, “if you were ever going to be a good runner, you would know by now” (His implication was that because I had been casually running for two years that, if I had some natural excellence, that I would know by that point.) Examples of this go on and on and on and stem from him being unable to compete professionally in motocross. He washed out, would say that riding his bicycle was way better anyway, but continued to revolve his personality, user names, posts, etc. off his old life in motocross.
At several points along the way, I would get fed up with his negative, hostile comments about me, my family, and my friends, and I would lash out at him. At those moments, he would start to cry, type out looooong text messages about sorry he was and how he just wasn’t raised like I was, and was still learning. He would beg for another chance. And I would give it to him.
Throughout our relationship, he continued to have an extremely high, unearned opinion of himself. How amazing he was at motocross (his parents literally own a dirt bike track and had a big one built in their backyard for him), how amazing he was at school (he didn’t really have to work, mom and dad paid for most of his undergrad and he had their credit card to buy whatever he wanted). Just ask him, his sister used their parents credit card to buy skis, backpacking gear, etc. and he would do the same). How amazing he was for getting hired at his job when so many others gave up (He got to live with his very well-off parents and had easy work connections so no responsibilities and plenty of cash, while many others don’t have those privileges). He would often post his rides on Strava, saying things like, “Not my best time, spent the whole night hanging over a toilet.” But… he would never mention being sick to me despite sharing most every other detail of his life.
He would also endlessly fish for compliments, saying, “One of my ex girlfriends said she wasn’t with me because I was good looking, just because I was so nice. She said I was actually ugly and it’s really messed with me since then.”
Then, every time he would be in front of the camera, he would show off, smile, then look at the picture and beam about how great-looking he thought he was. It was really unhealthy and alarming.
He would also manipulate me into constantly affirming him in other ways. He would nag me to take his picture, take a video of him doing some banal “trick”, and when I would say I didn’t feel like having my phone out all the time, he would make guilt-trip me into it, saying things like, “I just think it’s a really awesome, nice thing for people to do. People like to know they’re loved and appreciated, and taking their picture lets them know that.” And if I didn’t send him the pictures fast enough, didn’t post the pictures he took of me, and so on, you would think it was like I clubbed a baby seal by his tantrum.
Dalton is also extremely critical of people he looks down on. He has extremely low opinions of stay-at-home moms, for example. I told him that my mom was a SAHM and he cuttingly asked, “does she even have any friends? I would never let my wife not work.” He also had grossly low opinions of Christians, people who were home schooled (never mind that statistically, home schooled people have better mental health and grades than their peers) and people who don’t devote their lives to working out. Any time I would say I was too busy to run/hit the gym because I was working, needed to work on my car, had a doctor appt, etc., he would say, “You make time for what’s important to you. I guess working out just isn’t.”
He would steeply criticize me for having a glass of wine or beer with dinner, saying, “I just don’t really like to drink. I like just water, it’s healthiest.” Then he would go out with his buddies on the weekend and get very drunk.
Be aware that he also is incredibly conceited about his decisions in life and attempts to minimize the good decisions others make by any means possible.
Once, I got a great review on a work project and he asked if I waned to go celebrate and fill him in on all the details of the feedback. All throughout drinks, he would ask about my review, then quickly change the subject to the new bike he was buying. He implied my review was not as big a deal as his bike. I laughed it off, thinking he was just trying to be funny. Then he did the exact same thing after I bought a new-to-me car: he shaved his beard. When he came out to see my car, he “surprised” me with the shave and shrugged at my car, saying, “Sorry I one-upped you with my mustache.” I was very proud of the car and excited to get it and he literally did not care. I told him my friends were all excited, that it was a great deal, and my mom was glad I was in something safer than my last car and he said, “My car was the best deal though. Here you are, driving around in this shiny new thing, and I’m just over here in my Saturn, zooming around, not caring what anyone things of my car.” I wrote his words down in my phone because I realized this relationship wasn’t going to go on and I wanted to remember why the next time he cried about it.
About his car though, his dad bought him a newer pickup of his choosing… for getting good grades. So, yes, maybe his car was cheaper than mine, but he also had a shiny newer pickup all bought and paid for by his parents.
I could give endless examples of his narcissism, verbal and emotional abuse, but I want to close by discussing his stalker-like behavior.
Multiple times, I tried to close the doors on the relationship civilly. Each time, he would flip out, cry, and say “no, I’m not done with you yet.” In retrospect, that’s horrifying. Eventually, I just stopped responding and would hide FB, Insta, and Strava updates from him and wouldn’t text him much.
After I made it clear I didn’t want to continue into any serious relationship and that I wanted my space, he ended it. He told me under no uncertain terms that I was not to contact him unless it was an emergency. I agreed!
Pretty soon though, he was sending me random Snapchats, then he would text me sad breakup songs, then long messages about how I had broke his heart. I repeatedly told him to stop contacting me. I blocked him on Snapchat after telling him I was done and wanted nothing to do with him (weird, a little space and being back around GOOD people made me realize how horrible he was), so he blocked me on Facebook and Instagram. I blocked him on everything else I possibly could except phone number, since he had mostly left me alone there, I figured he wouldn’t send something I could show a judge.
Then he would find other ways to text me or contact me, like from his email. I went on another round of blocking and thought I got it through to him. Then, on my birthday this year, he text me. I blocked him there, too. Then, recently, his name popped up in my suggested friends list on Facebook. He had unblocked me and was no doubt stalking my Facebook page.
I truly do not know, but earlier this year, someone put a rose in a box with my name on it and left it in my parent’s mailbox (he knows where my parents live). I am very concerned it was him. He doesn’t know where I live now and I won’t ever let him.
If you read this this far, you have been warned. He is narcissistic, conceited, selfish, manipulative, and arrogant. Now, he is borderline frighteningly bordering on being a stalker.
Trust me, just don’t go anywhere near him.
John Stone Duluth, Minnesota
I met John Stone in Sept 2021 at a job we both worked at. With his long dreadlocks and bright blue eyes, he stuck out. He had a very observant, cutting sense of humor. He was smart and interesting. By October we’d started going on dates.
I soon learned from him of his past – he’d had a long marriage which ended poorly. The ex-wife had kicked him out of the Renn Faire where they’d worked as a couple for twenty years. She claimed he was abusive and that she was afraid of him. Security had to escort him out. He said it was just her being dramatic and trying to get people to hate him. I should have paid more attention, but I didn’t.
Another point of note: he’d spent the last three years of their marriage cheating on his wife with his female “best friend”. He blamed the affair on his ex-wife because they were no longer in love with each other. He was clearly still in love with the affair partner, he referred to her as a “girlfriend” and took no accountability for his part in destroying his marriage. It was all the ex-wife’s fault.
He also boasted of a married Japanese woman he’d dated (back in his twenties) without the husband’s knowledge. He had a bad habit of bragging about his exes in front of me, it was pretty sick. And then he’d laugh when I got jealous and say I was just being hormonal and crazy. I feel like when you’re forty-seven, the s3xual exploits you engaged in back in your twenties are not really interesting to anyone except maybe you. But it spoke of a lack of integrity. Nothing of those girls was private.
And apparently he dated a fourteen-year-old child when he was twenty-two (yuck!) but it wasn’t his fault because she’d lied about her age, and she’d threatened bodily harm to anyone who threatened to reveal her age to him. There was also a rumor that he’d gotten 86’ed from a bar because he’d pushed one of his ex-girlfriends off the bar’s balcony while they were dating. But that was just a rumor, he said, another vindictive ex spreading lies, what can you do about it. Nothing was ever his fault.
He had done c0caine in his youth, enough that he had such a high tolerance in his late forties. Every time a big music festival came around I worried and worried that he would try c0caine again and overdose (there is a lot more Fentanyl now than there was when he was in his 20s, so hard drugs are a risk in this city). He never did, but I always felt small and boring compared to the women of his past, all beautiful Renn Faire types who did c0caine and were firedancers and were accomplished artists. He told me so much about his exes. It was hard to trust him.
He had trouble hanging onto employment. He lost one job because he called the supervisor the c-word. He lost another after repeatedly sneaking beer home from work (not his fault, though, it was his coworker’s fault for ratting him out). He lost yet another job (his third in less than two years) after crashing the company vehicle.
Because he lost most of his friends in the divorce, he had to find new friends, people who didn’t know about his past. Of course the most logical thing was for him to befriend homeless m3thheads and alcoholics. Two of them began storing their belongings in his yard. This was about the time when he lost his second job. Imagine staying at your boyfriend’s house and his m3th-using friends show up on his doorstep looking for something they’d left in his yard or house. We had no privacy.
He kept Narcan in his house and drug needles for his friends, saying it was his way of making sure they could use safely. Which I can understand, but at the same time, who wants to stay at a man’s house knowing there might be drug needles on the floor, or in the couch. His house was very messy. Towards the end I became worried – suppose I dumped him and he became depressed and turned to m3th or her0in – so that guilt compelled me to stay longer than I should have.
I think the worst part was when something he did made me jealous. I approached him with it (not the best thing to do, I realize in retrospect) and he made me do something s3xual that at the time I very much did not want to do. Because he was angry with me. He was over a foot taller than I was, and had experience with martial arts, had beaten people up in his past, had spoken to me in the past (while drunk, but still) that he wanted to beat me. It was evident that he wanted me to feel scared and ashamed as punishment for being jealous, and I had to do the s3xual thing, so I did.
His bitterness over his ex-wife and their divorce was a continued problem. I remember him speaking about how he’d like to tie a rope around her and drag her through a swamp with his car. I thought it was just him blowing off steam, but at some point those sorts of thoughts are no longer okay. He should have been seeking professional help.
There was another time when he said, if he had a gun and there was no way that he’d get caught, there were “several people” who he’d love to shoot and kill. I felt like, for a long time I was safe from his rage, but now that it’s over I might not be safe anymore.
I honestly don’t know if I will ever be able to date another person again. I feel afraid.
Geordan Broeckx from Canada
At first he’s very loving , outgoing, friendly ect, really is controlling, unsupportive, selfish , lazy unless it benefits himself. Judgemental and has a setting mindset of how a gf should act/dress.. but gets obsessed with online girls, usually someone he has known like this str1pper he used to go to school with he’s been stalking for 2 years . He has no boundaries or respect dosnt take accountability. He has looked at photos from most of my family members see if the have nudes gets secretive and knows more about network computering then he leads on to hide his life. If it gets to the point of him getting away with disrespecting you he’ll test the waters . He’s called me names , makes me feel stupid and walking on eggshells.. led to SA and rumors spread. Words never match behavior, very confusing.
German Cardelle from United States
Burton Cardelle Aka GERMAN Cardelle is illegitimately married for artist visa reasons, among also has a fake ID and Social by Alex Alonso to work under the table picking up plates: has been unhinged multiple occasions to where his ex had to get a restraining order against him. He further more calls her up to tell her how many people he’s f-ed in a week. She paid for his p3nis enlargement, helped him get on his feet and help him get a car. He claims to be gods gift to woman now and belittling them while giving his band high fives about it. This guy is GRODIE!!!! She has to get a restraining order on him, he broke into her house and terrorized her for over 20 hours.
Ross Corristan from Jacksonville, Florida, USA
BEWARE!!!!! This person is DANGEROUS. There is something very, VERY wrong with him, in all likelihood some sort of personality disorder.
He is charming and disarming at the start. Very charismatic. And he gives up his own red flags early on… DON’T BE FOOLED. There is an intense rage boiling there, under the surface, and a deep seated hatred of women.
His three most recent girlfriends all feared for their own safety for months (and years) after their relationships with him began to disintegrate.
He is EXTREMELY controlling and unstable. He is prone to stalking the object of his obsession and skilled at manipulating her close friends and family members into siding with him (or at least attempting to).
He has (and will) used threats of suicide to attempt to control women close to him. He owns guns, and keeps one loaded in his truck.
Curious to hear your story, second mention of him.
Ahmed Gadalla from Miami
Dealing with him for almost 3 years. Experienced everything from mental to physical abuse, he was arrested in Miami, for domestic violence, bc he has money, he hide this info from Google, he is still married for the green card and has a kid in Virginia. Lies about everything starting from what he does for work to his name. Very manipulative, pure narcissist. Never knows what he wants , scared of any responsibility, we were together for more than two years and still he was telling me I’m not his gf bc he likes to talk to multiple girls at the same time, has weird preferences in s3x. Won’t go to details in here. Moral of the story he will
Suck all of you energy and will leave like you never existed and will keep coming back when he is bored or dump by other girls, pretends to be the sweetest guy alive but don’t get fooled. Hates animals also! Very selfish and only cares how he feels and what he needs. Every story he says is how he doesn’t want problems but they just find him and he is just an angel, as I said lies everywhere. So disgusting that he even used his sons name on dating web site! Has a lot of money but will count every cent he spends on you. On the top of everything is sick all over, every day there is something new coming out, doctors non stop and will expect you to nurse him 24/7 but won’t do nothing in return. If you are looking for one night stand even that won’t work bc his P won’t even get hard but he will still try. If you are looking for pathetic lier and cheater you know his name! Most important when you look at him the most angelic face ever! Don’t get fooled he is a devil! Used to have a great body, still uses old pics to get girls attention. Reality is very different!
Alvin Niere from Harlem, New York
Alvin is in his mid-30s and lives with his sister and sister-in-law in Harlem, NY. What a great start, right ladies? LOL! Anyways, he is an absolute scumbag….. I have never witnessed such a pathetic loser in all my days of dating and interacting with men. Alvin is a certified p0rn addict and the brain damage he’s suffered as a result of his addiction becomes very apparent upon socializing with him in any capacity. He’s subbed to many OF accounts and follows a plethora of SWers on all social media, as his addiction cannot be contained and he even goes as far as to joke about it (since when did being a single, middle-aged man who can’t keep a woman happy nor have fulfilling long term relationships and uses p0rn0graphy to cope with that hard truth something to be proud of?!) The new-age male-feminist act only goes as far as supporting women feeling good about sleeping around with random people ’cause… shocker… he’s hoping to be one of those random people! I know that isn’t revolutionary or unique. He isn’t the first and he wont be the last guy to lie and try to convince women he actually respects them. But just to reiterate: he does NOT care about you and he only cares about getting his d1ck wet (no matter WHAT he says). Stay far farrrr away from this one, girls. Anyone, and I mean ANYONE, can do better than this.
Karl Nicholson from Dixon CA
Liar and cheater. Great in bed but nothing but trouble.
Phil Femoyer Jr from Bayonne, NJ
Phil Femoyer from Bayonne, NJ pretends like he’s a nice guy but he is actually a pathological liar and a serial cheater. He is super manipulative and will gaslight you when you start questioning any inconsistencies in his many stories. He speaks to a therapist once a week to supposedly work on himself, but that is just a coverup because he uses that time to complain about other things in his life, not to better himself. Phil is extremely selfish and will never change because he doesn’t think he has any issues. He uses any therapy lingo he’s picked up as a way to fool you into thinking he is emotionally intelligent, but he has severe avoidant issues that he refuses to address. He’s also a hypocrite because he would constantly criticize his friend for not treating his gf well yet he was repeatedly cheating on me behind my back. He also would criticize his father (who shares the same name) for being a lying scumbag, but turns out he’s exactly like his dad. He was emotionally cheating on me for 3 months with his ex girlfriend (she had no idea I existed) and then physically cheated with her 4 days after my cat died while I was grieving…what a wonderful guy, right?! His ex girlfriend lives in another state so he didn’t physically cheat sooner with her, but I’m almost positive he cheated on me with other women throughout our almost 9 month relationship. If you encounter Phil, you should do yourself a favor and not believe his “nice guy” act because it’s super fake just like he is.
Yes – this is another ex gf that can concur story that the story about sounds about right with this man. He is a forty-something y/o emotional man-baby who will die a lonely man, sadly for him.
Also, update: he has moved to Easton, PA. He will lie to you through the skin of his teeth with eye contact.
Sean King from Huntington, NY
OMG! RUN! Where do I begin… Selfish, condescending, treats all woman like trash. Oh, and did I mention he is a silent stalker! Has been watching me for a while now. Actually re-matched on Tinder w/ me and I think just to see where I am. He texted me to say he wanted to come over for s3x! WTF! I sent back a laugh emoji and that pissed him off (don’t worry, I’m sure he moved on to the next victim). Very secretive regarding family etc. Like he is a child afraid to present his girlfriend to his parents. Oh, and when I say selfish – only interested in his own pleasure. If you haven’t had intimate relations yet, let me save you the trouble. All of his extremities are a bit on the small side (nose, ears, hands, and well you know. He’s Irish if you get my drift.
Elliam hedges – Doctor from Tasmania
– Will love bomb before showing his true colors
– Serial cheater
– Always dating multiple women at once without their knowledge
– Zero empathy
– Compulsive liar
Erick AcostaHuber from North Augusta, South Carolina
Please be careful of this individual. I met this man back in August of 2022. We began dating exclusively in September of 2022. I found out in November of 2022 that he was seeing other women. In December of 2022 I found out that he was married. He lied to me during this time, telling me that he was a single father. He had me convinced that he was never married and that the mother of his child was overly dramatic, borderline crazy and would not leave him alone. He also told me and my family that he was serious about our relationship and wanted to marry me. He has continued to contact me even after I broke up with him. He is still married and is still dating other women in the area although he has a wife and child in his home country. He will try to avoid protection during intimacy and tell you anything he thinks will make you trust him. I only found out this information because he was unaware that I had friends who work at the same company that he does. Without my friends I may have never known the truth about this man. He portrays himself as shy, kind, caring and concerned. He uses his foreigner status as a way to hide behind lies and his family here in the states will not be honest with you regarding his relationship status. They are willing to lie on his behalf.
Kyle Humphreys from Indianapolis, IN
This is on behalf of a friend of mine, so I have no specific details. Kyle Humphreys of Indianapolis maliciously dated one of my best friends, married her quickly, and then moved her away from her support group (from PA to Indianapolis where he lives now). As soon as they moved away the verbal abuse started to the point my friend wanted to end her life and he did not care. He is single now and trying to find another victim to charm into being his mom. Doesn’t do a damn thing around the house. My friend is not the fun person she was before him and I’m angry because I had no idea he was like this. Avoid at all cost, he seems genuinely nice on the outside, but will try to rope you into marriage and children to trap you.
Paul Schmidt from Florida, Wisconsin, California, Oregon
Clinically a pathological liar, narcissist, and alcoholic.
History of physical, financial, and emotional abuse (restraining order and prior arrests).
Anger issues. Big time.
Very savvy and convincing, but will catfish you. He has no money and gets fired from all of his jobs because of his alcoholism.
RUN.
Thomas Dame from Oklahoma
We was in a relationship for 6 years until he met the little girl that lived across the street (she was like 2 years younger than us but I still refer to her as “little girl”) he became distant and then started accusing me of cheating and didn’t like the fact that I was working all the time. I went to go see him at his house and when I went in found him and her together. He’s a straight cheater and a dog. He also likes to pop up in others dm’s even though he’s married now.
Alex Harris from Redditch, UK
Compulsive Liar; relationships, finances, education, experiences, activities.
He continues to lie that he’s won competitive competitions, that he is an expert in martial arts, that he has done a physics, mathematics, and electronics degree (final education is 16 years at school), tells people he is rich (I get his bank statements and he’s in debt), and blames every ex he has had for the break ups with weird excuses or long made up stories.
Got fired 2 weeks into relationship as no showed work, gaslight was my fault as I’d caused lack of sleep so told me I owed him. Faked bank account shots of 5k savings and 140k of due monies for inheritance, so allowed to move in with me thinking would get new job. Said my nagging to get a job caused him depression and this is why he refused to do housework and spent all our money on food.
Lied about university degree, job history and qualifications and had me make a fake CV to apply for roles. Was jobless for 18 months. Pretended to go job centre.
He stopped seeing his family, and would only meet them behind my back when I was at work. He told them I didn’t let him see them anymore (to make me seem abusive) when I kept trying to ask him to make effort and arrange days out with them.
When he got a job, lied he got paid monthly instead of weekly and lied he earnt £12.50 more per hour than he did. When he couldn’t pay rent, faked phone calls for bank fraud and this is when I found out he had lied the 18 months of the relationship about EVERYTHING. No savings, no house sale, no education, earnt minimum wage, pretended to try get work.
It took me from October to March to get him to agree we were over as he kept pretending we werent and forcing us to continue. After he refused to move out my home and I couldn’t legally kick out. Continued to be naked, touched me without consent. Told me my family members were dying and berated me (i had to begin recording him as evidence of threats of violence).
He would go to friends houses claiming I was hitting him, leaving house for ‘safety’ when I wasn’t even in the area and was visiting my own friends, to try create narrative I emotionally and physically abused him.
8 months after break up, he still refused to leave. He posted my nudes to Fab Swingers, advertising us as available for s3x and tried to offer me out with my personal information. He showed my nudes round his workplace and actively encouraged the men to try have s3x with me. It took my new boyfriend staying over, an eviction notice, contacting his family and threat of legal action for revenge p0rn for him to leave.
1 year + after break up he still tells people we are together and says we moved into a 3 bed house with a child. but says we are in an open relationship and that’s why I’m seen with my new boyfriend.
He still attends my public workplace (gym) and has lied to other girls about his nationality, achievements and education to try convince them to sleep with him. Hasn’t learnt his lesson. Which is why I am making this post.
Joe Foley from Alexandria, VA
Joe Foley, Joseph P Foley, Joseph Paul Foley, from Old Forge New York currently in Alexandria, Virginia.
Joe is a serial cheater and pathological liar. He carries on multiple relationships with women who each believe they are in an exclusive relationship with him while he simultaneously has casual hook ups. Joe does not use protection and has given several women STDs.
Joe uses his military service and seemingly strong and stable character to lull his victims into a false sense of security.
Run from this so called man.
Michael Robert Snider from Lakeland Florida
Mike is a great actor and lier. He claims to be a Cattle Rancher, a Traveling Superintendent, a Construction Contractor, a great dog trainer and a former Marine special forces officer who served in Iran. Mike is actually a multiple felon who has served time in several states.
He displays narcissistic behavior and is often controlling and abusive. He has stolen money, jewelry and other items from multiple women. He uses women then proceeds to walk away on to his next victim.
He has left many victims broke, in debt and in some cases homeless.
He will cheat on the woman he’s currently using with one to two other women at the same time.
He claims to have a daughter who died, when in fact he abandoned her as a baby and never supported her.
Nothing, absolutely nothing that comes out of his mouth is true.
He is 6’3 300 pounds, bald with a goatee and multiple tattoos, excluding 2 foreign words on his neck, wicked evil multiple heads on his back, fallen angel and forgive yourself on each biceps, a clock with a woman’s eye and broken chains on his forearm and others on his thigh and calf.
He wears glasses while he’s driving.
He recently married a woman and proceeded to break her down and then abandoned her leaving her homeless. It has since been revealed that he has married multiple women and then disappears.
Jimmy Peluso from Jacksonville, Fl
Jimmy is a womanizer, narcissist, admitted he thinks he’s a sociopath, and overal scumbag. He told me he slept with two married women! He drove drunk to my house 3 times in the first week we were dating. We didn’t date for long but his charm made me swoon. But when we went on dates he’d constantly be checking out other women and commenting on how “hot” they were (on TV or elsewhere). He is honestly incapable of romantic love, in my opinion. He can’t connect to anyone and he treats them like garbage, actually, he looks at women like prey. Just waiting for the next one to sleep with. His top two when he looks for someone is “it has to be a challenge” and “great s3x”. So literally nothing about personality or who the woman is. Don’t date him. He will belittle and ridicule you. It’s the Jimmy show. If Jimmy doesn’t want to do it, it won’t happen. Be prepared for broken promises, being forgotten, and Jimmy always being more important than anything else. I believe he gets off on and boosts his ego by picking up attractive women and then carelessly discarding them. I will say, as a general human and friend he’s good, he just treats women like absolute trash.
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Brennan Towe from Virginia Beach
Brennan is a habitual liar and suffers from narcissistic personality disorder. He is infamous for dating multiple women at the same time everywhere in the US. He will love bomb you and make you think you are the only women he is dating. Please date with cautious. He is also still intimate with his former Morehouse College roommate.
Eli dionne from Nelson canada
Eli is violent. he attacked me on a date. later I found out he has done it to other girls and even went to court for it. watch out.
Thomas R. Butler from Lancaster Virginia
Lies about the number of children he has. If says 3 he really means 9 that’s right 9. From ages 25 to 7 or younger maybe He’ll love Bomb for years, which can easily be confused for consistency. Run as far and as fast as possible from this man. He’s the devil. You’ll think you’ve found Mr, right You’ll think now this is how xyz should have treated me all along it is his mask. The moment he leaves your side he takes it off flips it over, and is on to the next nest thing. Don’t let the fancy cars, and house fool you. This man is as unstable as they come. Ladies never second guess yourself, you know when something is off but you just can put your finger on it. He’ll break you and your heart and leave you there, causing me to have a nervous breakdown so badly I didn’t know the date or time. I d blank out looking toward the sun too long, literally, shocking the sh*t out of me. I’d birth his child, just days before catching him with another woman. He answered the door and pretend he didn’t know me. Jesus himself may have tried to warn me and I would have told him he was a liar. You’ve been warned, save yourself the hurt and pain. He doesn’t care about anything or anyone but himself, he’s a serial cheater. /// Lies more lie and lies some more. This man has 9 children with 9 different women. He lies and tells you he has just 3. These children range from ages 25 to 3 years. Don’t be fooled by the multiple cars and the lavish house he’s unstable as they come. He’ll love bombs for years which can be easily confused for consistency. He moves from woman to woman telling the sob story of how he’s tired of being tricked. Is a single father etc. He caused me a mental breakdown, where I was unable to recall the date or time. He literally shocked the life out of me. Believing all his lies, planning a wedding, and just days after I birth his 10 lbs son. Caught him with another woman, and he pretended to not know who I was. You’ll slowly feel yourself becoming insecure desperate not to become, what he told you was initially so off-putting about his exes. He’ll do everything in his power to lower your esteem eventually you are only happy when he is into you and sad when he isn’t. You’ve been warned, don’t be naive thinking your different, he doesn’t care about anything of anyone except himself. It doesn’t matter what you look like, what u own or don’t own your career or address, he’s just looking to feel grandiose momentarily.
Thierry ¨Marc¨ Mazenc from France/Mexico/China
Be careful, he travels to find his new victims. He trapped me into a fake love story to then abuse me emotionally and physically. He was extremely violent, kicked me, punched me, hit me several times ¨by mistake¨.
He also had s3x with other woman when we were in a relationship, he broke my heart when I found out.
He lies about his age to find much younger women on dating apps, latinas or asian, don’t fall into his trap.
Michael robert Gonzalez from River edge, NJ
Stay away!!!!!! Liar, cheater, alcoholic, drug addict. Evil in every way you could imagine!!! He’s not worth anything. Loser. Dead beat dad of 4. Probation forever. Always arrested. And he never leaves.
Derek Sanders from Salem, Ohio / St Pete, FL
He cheated on me but claimed it wasn’t “cheating” because it was only once…and then he had the audacity to ask me to still watch his dog for him before I never speak to him again because he has zero other friends in his life and I was helping him out even though we had already broken up. He also owed me money and when I asked him to pay me he wanted to deduct the cost of the flight cancelation fee because he had to cancel his flight home because he didn’t have a dog sitter…as if I am supposed to lose money out of my pocket because he f-ed me over and he is a loser with no friends?
Stephen Allen from Lewistown, pa
This man is the worst. He always has multiple relationships going on at the same time. I’ve been on to him for years but keep getting dragged into his life by new women. Just last night yet another girl called me crying because she found out about 2 other ongoing relationships he’s in. Everything out of his mouth is a lie. I am posting this so that hopefully it will save some new girls from going down the same road. My advice… do not even start because he is a smooth talker. He will have you convinced that you are the love of his life. He will tell you how he can’t stand men who cheat, while he’s already dating at least 2 others. You’ve been warned!
Gavin Nicholau from Morgan Hill, CA
Serial cheater and liar. Physically scarred me for life by engaging in cutt1ng during s3x without prior consent. Stalked me after we broke up, spread insane lies about me (like telling people my family were high up in an outlaw biker gang and had put a hit out on him), and told people he’d like to have me k1lled. Mirrors your values and beliefs to disguise himself as a good person all while intentionally deceiving and misleading you. Lies about who he is, where he’s from, and what experiences he has. Poor little rich boy.
Danny Iniguez from Champaign, IL
Warning: he is sexually unsafe and cannot control his anger. Be careful if you join his gym, he will try to entice you into what sounds like an appealing open/poly relationship, but only he is allowed to have multiple partners.
• He did not ask for my consent to be gagged or choked during s3x.
• He did not notify me or others that he gave us chlamydia.
• He verbally abuses his gym staff, humiliates them, and has high employee attrition.
• Admitted that a girl who used to attend his gym accused him of s3xual harassment.
• Refuses to believe that you’re telling the truth and constantly questions your loyalty.
His life story is sad, but he uses it as a lure. Please be careful.
Austin Kirby from Spokane, WA
Really sweet introvert turned super controlling narcissist. Accused me of cheating on him every day. Beware this guy, he’s paranoid and has a sharp, mean tongue when he’s angry. Lives with his parents, not worth the trouble.
Reece Pickering from Annan, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK
Reece has too many unresolved anger issues as well as a history of violence and domestic disputes against even his own parents. He speaks horribly of every woman in his life as well and treats them like trash, please don’t add urself to that list, u probably think u can fix him but u can’t. Not to mention that he has a very severe addiction to p0rn, and has no drive for anything in life. Trust me, just leave as soon as u can, don’t let him weaponize suislide or his mental health, he’ll be fine, he’ll start talking to a new girl in no time.
i also forgot to mention he’s incredibly non self-aware AT ALL and has a plethora of undiagnosed mental health issues, and a tendency to lovebomb. he can be very controlling and hypocritical as well, he’ll expect devout loyalty and kindness from you, but won’t reciprocate. If I were to armchair diagnose him, I’d say he shows signs of BPD and autism as he has extreme attachment and anger issues, paranoia, and lacks insight into other people’s needs which results in a one-sided relationship of always catering to him but him blowing up when you expect anything from him.
Kevin Guzman from Toms River/Jackson New Jersey
Kevin was fired from his job for stealing, he sold his prescription med, falsified his drug tests by collecting and presented ma friend’s urine and cheated Then he abandoned his girlfriend and she was pregnant. He left her. He never acknowledged the baby and left her with all of the medical expenses
Jonathan (Jon) Oakley from Halstead Essex, Bedford Bedfordshire
This man is probably the biggest liar ever, He is a fantasist who is leading a very cruel double life, getting himself as much s3x as possible from woman.
He is predatory and appears in your life from nowhere.
He approached me and i had never met him before and within moments he began his well rehearsed routine of love bombing, He sweep me off me feet with flattery and claimed to be a professional racing driver for a well known global racing team, he then claimed to be a motorsport design engineer with a successful business, the lies went on…. International super car rental company, the Stig from the BBC show Top Gear. He even wrote stories to back all this up on the internet. The speed at which he operated gave me no time to stop and think about anything, as the next amazing brag and the overwhelming promises and the next huge show of affection quickly followed. Of course this was all just a wicked plan to get me into bed as soon as possible because once you have time to analyse the ridiculous achievements, things start to add up. only they didn’t because a quick google revealed that there are stories which make it seem plausible, this is the extent of the intent he goes to in the plan to get s3x from you. When i googled him (which obviously i did as he comes across as one in a million and you are excited to see this) I discovered that he was married with 4 children! When I confronted him, surprise surprise he denied it and i never heard from him again. When I met my current partner, we were chatting and this vile predator came up in conversation and straight away he spotted that these boasts could not be possible and a quick investigation found that all the stories to back his bullsh*t up have been written by him and only appear on forums and low level websites where content can easily be uploaded. He has gotten away with this for so long because he only appears in someone’s life long enough to get his quick s3x and then you find out he is married, he makes a clean break and you dont look into the fact that you have been targeted by a s3xual con man, if it wasnt for my boyfriend i never would have found this out, so i am posting this to warn as many woman as i can to stay well clear of this scum bag. I am also hoping that any previous victim may read this too (and there of loads of us) because he doesn’t deserve for them to think they met a great guy who just happened to be a married cheat, they met a s3xual predator who targeted them, lied them into bed and abused their trust. He is a bankrupt nobody who has achieved nothing in life for himself.
Josh from Wroclaw
He is a jerk who will cheat on you.
Joseph “Joey” Taylor from Waycross, GA
Has a rap sheet a mile long that he lies about, has fathered at last count 5 children with 4 women the last 2 are 4 months apart. He is a grifter and only interested in what he can scam from women. He stole almost 2K from me.
He uses burner phones and prepaid cards that is clue number one. He is trash plain and simple. Will consume any drug he can get his hands on and cannot even hold a minimum wage job.
Raymond Thatcher from Ticondiroga NY
He is a compulsive masturbat0r addicted to p0rn0graphy. Google Swampdonkey09. He lovebombs women starves them/ gaslights and projects his behavior onto his victims. Textbook narcissist. He spends hours “edging” online to young women in jeans and because of this obsession has had multiple bankruptcies. He takes no accountability for his emotional abusive tendencies and he hides behind a position of power in his community. He admitted he has taken life insurance out on prior girlfriends and they don’t know. He is literally obsessed with his pen15 and needs constant reassurance of its size being its average maybe. He doesn’t care about pleasing but expects it always.
Michael Vincett from Mount Holly Springs, PA
Michael is the epitome of a narcissist. He has multiple substance abuse issues. He’s a psych0path. Look it up. He fits it to a T. He is selfish. He is not loyal whatsoever. He cheats. He likes to use Snapchat and his long list of phone contacts to start that up. He has so many Sara’s in his contacts that he had to start saving them attached to the state or bar he met them at. He gaslights. He breadcrumbs. He lies and manipulates and tells complete stories. He’s good at what he does. He had me hooked for a year and a half before I finally got enough solid proof to finally be done with his f boy ahh. If you meet him, I would run in the other direction if I were you. Save yourself.
Reece Thomas from Savannah, GA
Dated this guy from few years. Works as a DJ at the str1p club and he cheated on my with multiple of the dancers who knew we were together, knew of him cheating on me, and some of them had no clue i existed. He’s not financially stable and would prefer to spend money on video games and DJ equipment to make music that isn’t very up to par. He’d play video games and restart it if he messed up or got “killed”, tells you a lot about how he is in life. Likes to cover issues up by buying you things and stays far away from hard conversations that create growth within a relationship. Doesn’t have much ambition expect for smoking and making music he never finishes. Had issues with control and lies a lot to make himself look good. Needs to go to the dentist as he has periodontal disease, active gingivitis, chronic bad breath, and severely bleeding gums. He doesn’t get along with his mother and talks bad about her, in which shows he has no respect for woman and a superior complex. Just steer clear, he’s 30+ and doesn’t brush his teeth and doesn’t have a solid future for any sort of commitment. Manipulative and rude.
Kevin T Scott from Phoenix
I dated this man for 7years, he was living a double life on me..
We lived together and his wife/3rd party once she reached me told me that had been together for 16th,
He’s a womanizer later she told me and I confirmed he bamboozles older women into s3x & eventually their money, he’s fluid in his sexuality as well, I’m embarrassed to say it but I thought other women should know & be careful of this predator . His an alcoholic, addictions like gambling & unfortunately s3xual too (any gender) I’ve been in counseling for 1yr as the shock really damages my life, my children’s. He needs to be exposed..
Ex NFL player, narcissistic individual. Ladies please do the homework. God bless
Jason Collins from Daytona Beach, Florida
My ex was a good guy, at least I thought. We had been together for 5 years, And everything was great, he was attentive, caring, loving, protective, and the s3x was great. Well one night, I got home late from work and he was in bed asleep. As normal I crawled into bed and snuggled up to him and felt something very odd, press into me. I reach down and felt metal encasing his bits. I shot up and turned a light on and saw what looked like a metal cage, padlocked onto his bits. I woke him and up and was freaking out. Turns out he visited a D0minatrix that locked it on him, and she had the keys to it. There was no way it was coming off without the keys. I left, and never looked back. A few months back we ran into each other and I had to ask, and he was still locked up 2 years later. I don’t understand why he felt the need to go to a D0minatrix when he had k1nky fun at home, but whatever the reason is, I couldn’t continue with him. He emailed me asking if the D0minatrix could send me the keys, and him and I talk, but I refused. He told me that she won’t give him the keys back because he lied to her about being single, but then told her about me after I left him. Regardless there is 1 ex boyfriend running around Daytona locked in a chastity cage, and cannot get out of it.
Jeremy Hansen from Antioch, IL
He’s a pathological liar and cannot be trusted. He lies about everything, OFs, cheating, money and past relationships. He has literally slept with his entire town and friend group. Absolutely has 0 morals and is complete hillbilly trash. He will sleep with anything that walks and is the scum of the earth.
Benjamin Dugas from New England area, U.S.
Met him in a group of friends and we hung out a couple of times on what I guess were like “dates”. Beware- he turned out to be a huge creep. I stopped being interested when my friends and I noticed he was messaging us separately asking to hang all the time and saying very weird things on Facebook— he was pushy and got way too close/doesn’t respect body space when talking to women. He seeks out multiple women at once but will lie when asked about it though (thinks we don’t talk to each other!). There is something very disturbing about this guy – while out with him he was staring at other women’s bodies and seems perverse. He latches on and won’t take cues to stop messaging. He gives off stalker/p3rv3rt vibes. He also had poor hygiene and bad breath. Run.
Curtis Pevehouse from Ardmore, Oklahoma.
Curtis abused me physically and emotionally for about a year. He is a choker, which makes him the most dangerous type of domestic violence perpetrators. I no longer care one way or the other about him, but I always wished someone would have warned me and now that I came across this site, perhaps I can protect another. Watch out for love bombing- he’s the perfect boyfriend for the first few months, but that Curtis will leave as soon as you’re emeshed and you will not see him again. Serial dater, cheater, and married multiple times. I’ve spoken with one of his exes that came after me and he appears to use the same M.O. for each woman. If you MUST date him, take it really slow and don’t agree to everything he suggests. Be careful. This isn’t just a bad boyfriend, this is one who almost killed me. DV choking is no joke.
Cody champion from Weatherford, tx.
He is a liar, extremely manipulative and emotionally abusive. Cheats like it’s second nature to him, and doesn’t care at all about how his behaviors harm other people. Untrustworthy, deceitful, selfish, uncaring, buffoon!
Skyler Briggs from Winnipeg Canada.
He is manipulative. He pretended to care about me the whole time we were together and then dumped me right after I fell in love with him and he had also gotten me pregnant (and it was SA) he is now messaging me 4-5 times a week on random accounts on every platform I have saying I know you love me and you need me, trying to gaslight me into doing it with him. He is unloyal a liar and he is a sociopath, and I don’t mean that to be dramatic that is what he is. He has no emotion at all. He lusts and finds it entertaining to hurt women. He also threatened to hit me many many times when we were together and caused me to flinch many times because I was terrified. All throughout this his roomate and roomates girlfriend sat there and watched the whole thing never trying to help me once.
Kevin Thomas Guzman from Toms River and/or Jackson, NJ
abandoned a woman when she was pregnant and left her with all of the costs associated with it. He is 50 years old and was fired last year for stealing from his job. He was selling his prescription meds and cheats on every girlfriend he has ever had. He will charm you and research you and figure out the person you want. He will become that person and use you and then cheat on you the whole time.
Noah J Barton from Acushnet/fairhaven MA.
Manipulative and compulsive liar. he takes advantage of intoxicated and underage women and has a pattern of s3xua1 deviance. aka total psycho r****t
Stefan from Baltimore MD.
Stefan is a narcissist and nihilist. He is actually insane. He pretends to be a nice misunderstood guy but once you get to know him, run. He is manipulative and depressive. He drags the people around him down. He neglects those around him and disrespects them. Save yourself the trouble and don’t go on a date with this fool. He insults himself to make you feel bad for him. It’s all a play.
I commented on your other post about Stefan. Again, this sounds exactly like my experience. Narcissist, manipulative, disrespect. I just can’t tell if it’s the same Stefan as you because the one I knew wasn’t from Maryland, and I’m unsure if he ever lived there or not.
Tom Stirk from Melbourne, Australia.
Tom Stirk lead me on for almost a year. He took advantage of me and took me on dates and kept mentioning he wanted commitment and a relationship only for him to abruptly end things because he wasn’t ready for anything serious and didn’t have time to date anyone and wanted to be alone and even owned up to playing me along. He did this to me 3 times and whenever we weren’t together, I found him on tinder saying that he was after a relationship. The guy is extremely narcissistic and will always talk about his problems and traumatic past but won’t even give you the time of day to talk about your life. He is a grown ass man and still a mummas boy. He is a heavy drug user and is mentally unstable and doesn’t know what he wants. To any girls out there that unfortunately cross paths with him, my advice would be to RUN!!! Don’t waste your time on this f-boy! He will only waste your time and make you feel like you’re not good enough! The guy also has HPV and denied giving it to me and lied about getting tested for it and has potentially infected so many women with this disease! AVOID!
Alex Merwin from Ontario, Canada.
I know this from years ago, but Alex cheated on me, or well on his actual girlfriend and now wife. He slept with at least two other women as well.
Jaime Villanueva from Lynn, MA.
We reconnected on OKCupid a few years after college. This dude is UNWELL. He has serious issues with boundaries, as in you need to say, “NO!” at least three times for him to get it.
He has issues with self control, he is a raging alcoholic, and he is delusional. On our second date, he randomly burst into tears in the middle of a bar, screaming, “My mom is a millionaire!” (she’s not lol). He then proceeded to tell me he was in love with me (bro, relax) and told me I couldn’t see other people…on the second date.
Needless to say, I hightailed it out of that situation and urge anyone who knows him to do the same.
Alex Burmeister from Redding, CT.
Lying, cheating, manipulative narcissist. He has anger issues, substance abuse issues, and is a compulsive liar. He will steal from you (he stole from me) and he is incapable of being faithful (he cheated multiple times with multiple partners, putting me at risk). STEAR CLEAR!!!
Marcus Brown from Maricopa, AZ. This man is detrimental to any female’s mental health. He fed me lies…so many lies, manipulated me, depleted me of everything emotionally, and in the end gaslighted me and then blamed me for the break up. He was very mean, cold, emotionless. In the entirety of our relationship he was emotionally chaotic, berated me on several things from my communication style, how I dressed, and repeatedly falsified his intentions of what he actually wanted from me. Ladies, save yourself and run away!
Drew moore from Jonesboro, Arkansas.
Drew is a loser. Who is a junkie and uses women. He has nothing but d1ck to offer and he has herpes so watch out!!! He got me pregnant than blocked me!!!! He’s a loser ladies
Jeffrey Steven Knowles from San Clemente, CA.
1. Lies about his past… said his wife cheated on hiim then I found out he cheated on her for 2 years before they got a divorce. He would cheat on hiis lunches and have s3x in his car with a married woman named Kristi.
2. Keeps his phone very private, aalways accused me of cheating. now that we are not together I see all of his instagram comments on exes and other women of wanting to “motorboat them”
3. Everytime we had a fight he would immediately get on a dating app. one time we had a therapy appointmnet at 6pm, at 5 when I told him I would meet him there and he respoinded I love you, he also send me a voice memo of him flirting with anither women he met on a dating app on accident.
4. I always had to beg him for s3x he was never in the mood, howver he was constantly telling me how he used to have regular hook ups when he was single.
Scott Hardina from Scottsdale & Prescott, Arizona.
Scott Hardina is a 47 yr old trust fund baby, he was in an accident in his 20s and got a settlement. He has a hobby job to keep his mommy off his back. All the nice things, car, house, he didnt work for a day in his life. Which would be fine if he were humble and not a lazy piece of shit. He’s a spoiled brat. Mom pays all his bills, dad does his yardwork and he can’t make a decision without having hours of conversations with mommy first. He did so many drugs in his teenagers that it fried his brain. He uses that as an excuse for being forgetful. He dates women half his age. When he was 20 he dated a 14-year-old for 10 years. The one after that was 15 years younger than him. He finds the young ones so he can be in control and feel smart. Smart women are intimidating to him so he finds ways to make you feel small and stupid.
I’m only two years younger than him. We went to high school together, he Facebook messaged me and I foolishly replied. We dated for five years. Multiple break ups throughout the years. He pretended to be somebody he’s not. But he found me shortly after my divorce and my daughter going away to college so I was vulnerable and naïve.
He’s Secretive, shady and untrustworthy. Anytime he’s confronted about these things he’d gaslight me,makes you feel like you’re crazy. Just to find out your gut instinct was right. He had our relationship from all social media sites. When asked he lied and said I’m being crazy. He was having secret conversations with young girls on all platforms.
He uses women to clean, take care of the dogs and the house. He’s only interested in the relationship when it’s convenient for him Then if he feels like you’re getting too close he pushes you away and then yo-yo’s you back. He’s emotionally abusive and manipulative. Five years of my life wasted on a manchild but I bent over backwards for him because I saw the good in him sometimes I made excuses for him
and now all I have to show for it is cervical cancer. He gave me 2 strains of high risk HPV that progressed in pre-cancerous within a year and cancer in 4 yrs. Annual Pap before we started dating was clear, 1 yr later, fresh new case HPV. So either cheated on me or had it right before we started dating.
He got the dogs I got the medical bills.
Anybody find his name on here RUN! don’t let the first 3-6 months of charm fool you. Everything he pretends to like and do is a lie. because he finds out what you’re into and pretends those are his interests also. Within six months he will tell you he does not like any of these things, he will never socialize with your family or friends, he will never go on vacation unless it’s with his parents. Yep all our vacations his mom was there and she planned them. Mommy is the only woman he loves and respects, she controls him. He’s already married to her. Their relationship is beyond unhealthy, boundaries crossed.
And I’m pretty sure he and his buddy may still be selling drugs, like in their high school days. the amount of cash stashed is suspicious, and I think he drugged me one New Year’s Eve.
Stay away ladies!! Especially the young 20 year olds that he likes.
Nicholas Mis from Encinitas, CA.
Manipulative, narcissistic, mentally and physically abusive.
Met on hinge. Dated for 6 months but it was pure hell. I worked my butt off to be with him but he kept manipulating and gaslighting me. Told me I have issues, I’m nuts, crazy, a c*nt among other things. I’d bring up how I feel and he got mad at me and made it my problem. I needed to go to the hospital one day and he said “I’m at the gym then I’m going to the store then I’ll come and take you.” His mental abuse turned to physical abuse.
He used to pick up woman at the beach and at gyms so beware. I’m sure he’ll be back to doing that again now that I broke up with him.
Hes not worth it ladies.
Rahman “Ray” Adedoyin from Chicago/Algonquin IL.
Only his needs are important and nothing is his fault. Always broke, he refuses to work because he doesn’t want to pay child support to his son’s mother. Perpetually “down on his luck” but this is due to laziness. Uses people so he will borrow your things and destroy them, will not offer to replace. Abusive to people, children and animals. Every personal problem is a social media post, so if you’re dating him your business will be made known to all his friends.
Micah Joseph Barwick from Austin, TX USA.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Ten years ago he cheated on his wife and left her for me (Karma is paying me a visit). Five years ago, he dumped me and then came crawling back begging me to marry him – stupid me, I did.
Well, here we are, same pattern, he is cheating again but this time tried to blame the relationship’s failure all on me. In these past weeks, he used me several times for s3x, told me he loved me while saying lies about me to his friends and family. I filed for divorce and told him to leave. He’s a broken boy with mommy abandonment issues that I thought I could fix. Save yourself the trouble and heartbreak – run!!!!
Shaun Edward Wallace from NC, MO, GA.
Cheating husband with a hidden side for transgender men.
Jeremy Cutbirth from Spring, Texas.
Beware of JEREMY CUTBIRTH from SPRING, TEXAS. I am writing this to spare other women the hurt that he caused me and continues to cause women. When you meet him, you will wonder where he’s been all your life. He says he wants to travel the world with you, he wants to grow old with you, and he will buy you whatever you need. Your phone cracks? He will make an appointment with at&t and go pick up your new iPhone. He seems too good to be true, because he is. I woke up one morning and he was having s3x with me ana11y. He was just finishing when I woke up. I felt so gross and like a rag doll and was scared. I confronted him about it about 30 minutes later and he was shocked and duped that I knew. His response was, “Next time I’ll just jack off to p0rn.” That’s the last time I saw jeremy. Bottom line is he seems like such a nice guy and he’s really not. There’s so many other things I could mention, but this person truly does not know what love is.
M from Indiana.
Dated X for over a year.
he would say I am not beautiful because of how I look and controls how I dressed, the make up I ware, sets rules I needed to follow on how I need to act as a person, he said a physiologics says everything is my fault for what happens and goes wrong in the relationship and he refused for us to see physiologics together. He used to tell me when I should cook and clean, I was not allowed to listen to my own music and my own shows, he says I wrong about everything and he says he has fur more knowledge than me about everything in the world.
He says he is against feminist.
When I was assertive towards him or when I changed my mind he would blocked my phone number.
Threatened to block me if I call him or message him to many times.
He blames me for everything, says he did not ask me to be empathic and to help him, says its not my problem.
When I told him, he makes me upset when I was emotional and emtionaly stress he would say I am too sensitive and told me not to be too dramatic.
Starts agurments out of the blue, conutines agurment for days. He leaves the house and call a girlfriend he has been trying to get with.
He says he is looking for girl who can give finicical status and full time residency.
Justin Juho Yun from San Antonio or Houston Texas.
Justin has a 3 year old who he doesn’t want anything to do with. He is also narcissistic and will love bomb you in the beginning before he gets super abusive and controlling. He doesn’t care about the girl he’s with, only his gaming business. He had a protective order for being abusive to his kid and baby momma. He also has genital herpes and has purposely given it to girls, also chlmadyia. Stay safe ladies in Texas
Fraser Stead from Southwest of England.
Been with this man for 10 years 2 kids, I saw some red flags in the beginning but didn’t think anything of it, how quickly we dated, love bombing, after a week asked me out, then the belittling me in front of friends etc cutting me off from male friends the lies, list went on I found out pieces that he was cheating nudes, emails etc I’d raise it with him and he would react in abuse physically aswell as emotionally he’d say they mean nothing but be cold and distant making out I’m the reason he’s unhappy and never apologise for what I’ve found out. The second one I found out and threw him out because I couldn’t take it anymore didn’t know what he was truly up to ignored me for months but still controlled me due to finances of the house I met someone and he came back pleading he was trying to find himself he realised I’m his soul mate, love bombed me, made me feel bad because he never slept or done anything with these women it was only me for 9 years, when I said no raised what he’s done to me and how he’s treated me he done the normal threatening to end his life superficial cuts and this man knows the body, he wants to become a dr knows too many facts and has an answer for everything. I took him back because I thought he needed help even though I should have learned he has done this in the past to reel not only me back in but others to feel sorry for him think he needs help he will carry this on for weeks/ months until he can say he’s a changed man and he’s ‘sorry’. I’ve found out the last 5/6 years he’s been in full blown relationships with other women promising them after a week they will be his wife, have a family together, grow etc only because he was messaging me saying why is my mum saying I’ve tried kissing you and he was next to her, I’d outline we literally slept together today and he responded with when, prove it. I know the audacity I sent screenshots picture of him half naked because I knew deep down he was with another woman, he had been sleeping with me staying at the house promising we was going to make this work and little did I know he was forcing this girl to be with him, staying at hers ignoring me making up lies not only to me to this other woman also, we contacted eachother, shared the details we was both speechless to say the least, he then started the disappearing act texts that makes no sense for us to worry and ignore everything he’s done we didn’t give in I shared with his friends, mother and work, to prove I wasn’t going crazy I wasn’t a psych0 this man had literally ruined me for his own gain along with other women. She sent me a recording of him going there to declare his love it was sickening because it was the same lines same tactics but she knew the truth, he then was making me feel sorry for him to the point I said do not come to the flat I have a friend over he came in wielding a knife assuming it was male and the information I got out of him was just shocking, he made a post it note video to the other woman saying let me protect you can you be my wife I meant every word etc just so she would talk to him! Saying he will travel with her and FaceTime is there for a reason in disrespect to our young children. Last November I found dating apps, s3x worker sites fake only fan accounts, telegram, messages from pr0stitut3s while he was claiming to go gym, I asked him how many other women how many pr0stitiut3s he said he’s never touched one but said he wanted to see their menus and catfished one. The police officer listening to this recording stopped it looked at me and said please get tested he was meeting up with these women still paying for their services and then catfishing them. I felt sick! He would then come home love bomb me sleep with me and spout lies. He’s put trackers in my car, he joked about cameras in the house but it got me to the point I was going through every room to find something because I couldn’t trust him, he took my phone December after manipulating me all of it was research purposes because he wanted us to do only fans I am not confident and don’t feel comfortable doing it and he would spout something to make me feel even worse for not doing it. I gave him my phone because he didn’t trust I wasn’t being loyal to him little did I know he was going through my phone and deleting all evidence I found of him cheating on me, the tracker the lot. Gave me a pre engagement ring christmas saying he’s devoted to me I’m his and I didn’t know he was pursuing this other woman. Police are involved and it’s sickening because he’s been messaging her saying how can we fix us and so on and messaging me at the same time the same thing. I don’t want another woman falling for this and getting sucked in to abuse it’s frightening and sick at what he’s been doing so please don’t fall for him ignore him because he’s clever until he gets caught and then uses the ending his life to get out of owning up to it. Stay safe
George Joseph McQuade from Los Angeles / formerly Indiana.
He’s just lonely because -although he’s working (military) and earns a lot more than he should, he is homeless since all his “crazy exGFs” throw him out after he lives off them, and chooses to live in his car until he finds another woman to move in on. L.A. girls don’t want a homeless guy. He partakes in a LOT of toxic behaviors that I WON’T have in my life i.e., loves stripp3rs, has a p0rn addiction, is the creepy old guy on IG and FB (hes 46 in 2023) following a LOT of naked girls his sons age, “ALL my ex-girlfriends have BPD”; is extremely superficial, loves women with lots of plastic surgery (although he himself is not attractive, skinny everywhere but fat belly), he’s got what appears to be Aspergers syndrome/BPD/avoidant attachment disorder/again -p0rn addiction/dirty old man/possibly somewhere on the NPD spectrum too because although he is too cheap to lovebomb or buy gifts, he WILL mirror you (pretend to be everything you want), text all day and eat up as much of your time as possible and when his mask starts slipping, he will just ghost. He’s extremely unhealthy mentally, he has women friends but he is a major misogynist. This guy hates women. He fanboys any toxic content creators that take an anti-women stance. He’s an extremely pervy dirty old man incel, dreaming of being a fkboy. It’s really depressing.
Fernando Velasquez arenas from Terryvile CT.
Cold and selfish
Adam Meyers from Melbourne, Australia.
Adam is a manipulative narcissist. I have learned that throughout our entire relationship, he remained on dating apps, and was seeing other women, despite us being ‘exclusive’. He lied, he gaslit, and he manipulated me endlessly. I am completely broken. He always called his exes ‘crazy’ and ‘psycho’ which I should have noticed as the first warning, but he knows how to charm. My fellow Melbourne girls, please avoid this man for your own wellbeing. He is taekwondo obsessed, if that helps.
Michael Evangelis from Hopatcong and Bayonne, New Jersey.
Michael Evangelis, also goes by Alexander and Nick to trap women. We were together for years, and were having relationship issues because he didn’t seem to think that communicating and figuring out things together was necessary. We even went to therapy multiple times. Each time he would make a promise infant of the therapist, and then break it the next day saying he is a man and will do what he wants. Then I found out that while he was traveling for work (which was during most of our relationship) he was picking up multiple women on apps and the gym. He was also doing this when he would come back home to New Jersey. He would tell me that he is busy with work or managing his property. But instead he was going on dates and having s3x with other women. He would lie to them that he is single, lie about his name (saying it’s Nick or Alexander), his intentions, and then get them to sleep with him in investment property. When our relationship was really struggling he would argue about s3x, and be abusive emotionally and physically. But the truth is he was mad that he was sleeping with other women, yet I was saying no. He is a manipulative psychopathic man who has gone to an abusers support group without any success. When I stopped seeing him, he put a tracker on my car and left me cryptic voicemails about he knows where I am and that I better not be with any other man. He believed that I belonged to him, while he continued to cheat and be abusive. He has done therapy and his therapist had told him to get help, go to s3x addict group. But he continues to deny he has any issue. Michael Evangelis does not respect women. He only wants to use them to make himself feel good about his own self. He will say his name is Alexander or Nick, and that he is from Denville, Parisppany, or Bayonne (various towns in NJ). He only knows how to lie. I found folders of videos and pictures he took of all these women like he is proud of his actions.
Adam McClanahan from Maryville, TN.
He was the most selfish person I ever met. He only cared about his wants and needs. I would tell him that I didn’t want to be intimate with him sometimes and he would kind of force me to and try to shame me into doing it. No woman should ever have to deal with him. Plus I genuinely always thought he was gay. I caught him checking out multiple men all the time, so I think he was just in the closet and that’s why he treated me and other women he has dated so bad. Protect yourself ladies. Stay away from this man.
Leonard Harvey Schreck from Red Lion, PA.
This man spent 6 years verbally abusing me and calling me names and accusing me of things that were not real. Calling me a cheater and every name under the sun. He broke into my home and threatened to murd3r me and blame it on his friend. He attacked my 10 year old child that was only trying to protect his mom.
I took polygraph tests proving everything Leonard accused me of was just lies. Leonard took a test proving everything he told me about other women he was seeing behind my back was lies and that he was the one cheating and not me.
He spent until Feb. Of 2023 in a form of s3xual relationship with me while running around at bars ignoring me and pretending that there was no other women when really there was.
He slandered my name all the way from Nebraska to Baltimore.
His pick up line is ( my ex cheated on me ) it’s all lies, no one ever cheated on him.
He spent years going behind my back slandering my name to other women as a form of getting attention from them.
He failed his polygraph and refused to be honest about it after spending years lying about me for attention.
When ever I confronted him about lying or when he got caught lying year after year about where he is, who he’s with and run around disappearing for hours, days, instead of being an honest man, he chose to call me names and make excuses about why he’s the only one that doesn’t have to answer for what he’s done after verbally abusing women and slandering their names for years just to get attention from other women.
He loves calling women wh0r3s when he’s the only one that ran around acting like one.
Rick Little from Minneapolis/ Fargo.
Player history: This guy is married and is a constant cheater- she has no idea either! He pretends he single and they are going thru a few issues. ALL LIES! He is nice when you meet him/ chat with but when he’s done he’s gone and he really is just using you! He will pay for videos and chats. You can find him at any strip club, massage parlor, and expects a happy ending. He is a frequent “STG” and “escort affairs” user so he pays for *women*! He’s got a dirty d**K! Beware of the DRD!
Bennett Locke from Braintree, MA.
Ben is not what he appears. He is physically, emotionally, and psychologically abusive. The two assault arrests he has pertaining to his abuse on me are just the tip of the iceberg. He threatened to p0is0n my friend’s dog several times, threatened to k1ll me (sent me pics of him holding a hand gun) and threatened to hire someone to k1ll me based on the contacts he met in jail. He psychologically abused me by saying the most ugly things about my body, send me nudes of the girls he was cheating with and told me to k1ll myself already (I have BPD and suffer from these kinds of thoughts) Ben is scary. He puts on a great act and love bombs at the start. Do not fall for it. He’s a pathological liar and cheater. He has no conscience or remorse. He will ruin your life then walk away, gaslighting you and he will not give a single F about the damage he has caused. He is a dangerous predator. RUN!!!
Todd Spangler from Gloucester, VA.
Over the course of 6 years together after consoling him through a rough divorce where she cheated on him, yet, he cheated on her. Swore he could never betray me. In our last month together he met someone new and continued the relationship with me. Through calculated manipulation he withdrew emotionally leaving me no choice but to walk away. Fast forward one month and he updated his Facebook profile of a photo of him and her. I waited 5 years to post a photo of us on social media once his divorce finalized. He knows her for merely two months and is displaying her for the world to see. I walked away assuming we drifted too far apart when all the while he sabotaged the relationship so that I would walk away and he would appear the good guy. The pain is indescribable seeing the photo of them and then hearing they met in January when I ended things in February tore my already broken heart even further. Obviously he’s a coward who is afraid to be alone so he must find someone new before leaving his current relationship respectively. I truly believed he was a genuine person and now he doesn’t even acknowledge me to allow proper closure in order for me to heal and move on.
Kunal Mehta from Sydney, Parramatta, Australia.
He is a polygamist. Smooth player. Alcoholic.
He connects with women on dating and matrimonial sites under the pretext of wanting to marry.
He never uses tinder because as per him he doesn’t want women who have casual relationships with other men.
He will introduce women to his friends over video calls to show-off to them.
He’ll use words like “I’ll keep you like a queen” “i want to love you”
I have spoken to two other women he was with along with me and that’s when I ended it.
Kenneth aka Rome aka Kenoe Robinson from Omaha Nebraska.
I have never meet a devil in real life until this boy. Once he has you thinking he is “different than other guys” he tells you this horrible sad stories about family struggles, even used his daughters mental health to get money from women. All the while he is bragging to his friends that this is his “game” to women so he doesn’t have to work. He keeps multiple girls around for s3x and money. Literally walking red flag, no job, no place to stay, busted car but because he is quiet and pretends to be sweet he gets away with it. He is a horrible person.
Paul Thomas Taylor from San Jose, CA.
I write this hoping to save some poor fool from falling for this con man.
Paul and I dated for 5 years, 4 of which he was abusive emotionally, physically and financially.
This “man”, presents an image of extreme success but he only gets anything by taking it from others. He used my information to take a loan out on a vehicle (through online service Carvana) that he then damaged extensively and accrued an amount over $2,000 of fines/penalties, parking and toll violations on.
Paul also racked up $10,000 in credit card charges on my account. He also skipped out on $8,000 he agreed to pay when I purchased furniture for our apartment on my credit card.
This man will gaslight you, lie to you, cheat on you. He will spin you a story of how much he has been victimized, from a history of vicious ex girlfriends, to lies about abuses he suffered as a child (both physically and s3xua11y), to lies about where he grew up, the nature of his adoption and relationship (or lack there of) with his family.
The only real thing I ever knew about him was his veteran status. He did serve and was wounded while on deployment.
He will excuse his mistreatment of you because he “is in pain”.
He will excuse his alcoholism and substance abuse because these substances, (he is particularly fond of c0caine, but will use whatever he can get) is the only thing that works for his chronic pain.
Please protect yourself from this person. If he’s at all in your life, remove him. Cut him off and burn that access shut.
Jonathan H. Morgan from Savannah GA.
We were together for 5 years, and 6 years ago that I wasn’t the only girl he was with. I was meant to be the at home girlfriend that gave him his children and took care of the houses because he has many. I spent the 1st 2 years of our relationship busting my butt and creating a really cool Inn in the Sterling district of Savannah Georgia. The part of that history I did not know was the inn supplied him with cool people that he can make jokes too and hot girls that he can F. I won’t tell you the name of the Inn but it’s in starland arch district please note that Jonathan has genital herpes and does not tell. He told me after 6 months of being together. He was seeing lots of guests behind my back and then eventually he started dating his Chinese manager and left me for her and then she left him because she wanted a baby. Note when he left me I was pregnant and then I had a miscarriage. It all started because of he said that he would not be in a relationship if the s3x ever stopped more then a few weeks. He knew I had trauma before we met and he was insisted that he helped me with that, pretty much all he really did was make me relive on my trauma and tell me to get over it. But I was also working hard to try to get the Inn open Because he didn’t know how to hire employees and the people helping really didn’t care if we open On the open day of March 2020. Yes yes he has a lot of money he has a lot of cars and a lot of houses but that’s not why I loved him so much I loved his crazy goofy personality how we worked on things together and how we just enjoyed each other. But it seems the only reason he was attracted to me was because of the s3x. He was having s3x with guests while I was in the house cleaning. You never told me that after 2 years we were gonna be in a somewhat polite relationship. Where he gets to go and screw all the girls he wants but I can’t screw anyone but him. His absence has avoided his just disrespected not caring about who I was or supporting me and any of my decisions or life. He would tell everyone that I didn’t love myself but I did I was just being emotionally abused ocean lamb views to where I could figure out anything because he had confused me so much telling me he loves me but yet just respecting me. He said he couldn’t trust me and he resented me but I never rejected him from s3x he thought I did and that stuck with him when I was just talking about my trauma and how I don’t like to be forced. He got mad because I didn’t pursue him for s3x but I never did in the beginning so why are you expecting me to do something I didn’t do. He would get mad at me just talking about work such as Hey what color do you want this door with turn into a huge argument. I told him I didn’t want to keep cleaning rooms for a living because I barely made poverty level in the state of Georgia. He told me I shouldn’t try to get more money because he pays for the houses he pays for my living and everything else though he honestly didn’t. The business paid for the houses we lived in and it paid for all the utilitperiod am I food in the things I liked I bought myself because I didn’t see it ethically right to have a business purchase something for me personally especially when it’s a business account. So I paid for all my stuff with my amazingly little paychecks can you tell me I shouldn’t worry because I’m dating a millionaire. He is a millionaire and assets only he got it because of his parents they’re not rich but they have great credit and can’ cosign. He is a very good smooth talker and he will say anything he has to say to a female to get them to have s3x with him. You will not be his only you will only be his toy. As in the letter he wrote me he has 18 years left to screw everything he wants, and he doesn’t want to miss out. My therapist and some of his friends call him in narcissist, but I was the only one that would ever stay into his face. But if you do meet him flirt with him boost his ego you might get a nice trip to the island house that I used to live at where you can see dolphins absolutely beautiful swimming in the pool, Take a dip in the hot tub that I rebuilt and enjoy the beautiful wildlife he held he might even make you dinner. He’ll talk dirty to you maybe put on some p0rn or show that’s very suggestive don’t do it, Just use him like he uses every other girl. He flatters and boosters he goes to get what he wants but I’m letting you know what he wants and how you can take advantage for yourself. Maybe if everybody starts treating him the way he does to others maybe he’ll see what kind of a crappy person he really is.
And it’s interesting because he told me about his exes I wonder if I’m used to demand s3x from him and how he hated it so I tried not to do that to him because that’s not my personality. The Times I did want to have s3x he kept telling me he wasn’t having outbreak to actually have s3x with him, because he never talked to me and that was the fault of everything and hes not communicating with me and he said it was really hard to even talk to me because I have Asperger And that my I autism prevents me from understanding any In the portable at communicating, I’m sorry but I’m straightforward honest and Blunt. He liked it before and then all of a sudden he didn’t like it I don’t know who hes talking to or where he gets these ideas from but hes not the man that I fell in love with so many years ago.
I don’t think I could ever trust him again because he is just as worse as the one before named Jeff Dickey who was not a marine who was never in the military and used his kids to get what he wants and get sympathy and free food cigarettes and all that other BS. That guy will take your money and use your car and use you up until you have nothing and I’ll try to trap you by having a kid with you. That’s what you tried to do and then I had surgery in which had to stop my periods as then that’s when the physical views happened. Jonathan knew of my trauma with this guy and promise you would never do the same things but yet he ended Up doing the exact same things minus breaking my arm.
I ultimately had to leave the state to get away from him and to heal.
Brett Burns from Missouri.
Brett is psychologically abusive. I would not be posting about him if he weren’t. His behavior screams narcissistic personality disorder. He doesn’t take accountability for his actions, has a long, colorful history with the law, and every story he tells me always ends up being someone else’s fault. He dismissed my feelings and my needs, accused me of cheating nonstop with basically everyone I spoke to even though I offered him my phone to show I had nothing to hide, he blew up over the smallest things (groceries, housework, etc.), belittled me and everyone around him, would call and text multiple times throughout the day to ask where I was and who I was with, he lied constantly, violated my boundaries and told me they were ridiculous, shamed me for not shaving as often as he thought I should, shamed me for having ambitions and goals that didn’t revolve around him, and was generally an angry, unreasonable person. When we first met he was super sweet, took me on shopping sprees, gassed me up, told me I was the woman of his dreams, his “Angel”, and that he wanted to provide for me and take care of me, aka, he lovebombed me. I didn’t recognize this for what it was because no man had made me feel so special before. That all changed when I got pregnant with his child. He became disrespectful, constantly told me I didn’t care about him or the child because I was continuing to work. He has caused issues for me at work with others as a result. He told me if we can’t be together he’s moving to a different state. He has also told me he has no intention of supporting me financially throughout the pregnancy. When I told him I wanted to look for a different, less stressful job he got angry with me because he wants me to be his personal assistant and said he wants me to do what he wants and work for the “family business” which really just means work for him with zero autonomy or freedom. He didn’t respect the fact that parenthood would be completely changing my life while he didn’t plan on sacrificing or changing anything once the child arrives. He got angry when I went to see my friends and family out of state even though he was invited and chose not to come. He also got angry when I did anything social without him even though he was almost always invited. He has said that he isn’t even sure the baby is his several times. He didn’t understand why I feel so exhausted from the pregnancy all the time and questioned why I go to bed so early when I finally moved my stuff out of his place. He would get angry when I didn’t want to stay up late with him; he got angry when I wasn’t in the mood to have s3x with him. He offered no emotional support and never intended to be involved with child rearing beyond financially and that support exists ONLY if we would have stayed together and do things the way he wants them to be done. At first he told me he would help me get health insurance. I am a 1099 contractor and am pretty healthy, so I didn’t need it until I got pregnant. Now he says he will only help me if we are a couple. He makes plenty of money so there’s no reason for him not to support his child. I have never posted anything on this site and honestly didn’t know it existed until today. Hopefully this is the only review I will ever feel compelled to write on an ex. Avoid this man at all costs. You will regret it if you don’t. He did the same thing to his last girlfriend and doesn’t see a problem with his behavior. I am now trying to figure out how to make ends meet and move back home to Oklahoma closer to my family and close friends as I have no support system in this state and am facing the reality of being a single mom and giving birth alone to my very first child. For more information on this man, please reach out via email at egtenny@gmail.com or Facebook messenger via the link in my profile. Be careful out there.
Chad Spencer from Ohio.
I met him off meetme. It was OK in the beginning. He moved in quickly. I met his mom quickly. We got a place together rather fast and that’s when the DV started. He dumped me off his $5 couch. Took my phone to refrain from calling for help. Blocked the only exit door. Dragged me off the bed. Destroyed my dresser. He shoved me so hard I ended up collapsing to the floor. I fell pregnant during that time. (I moved out) He has been inconsistent in her life, always getting in DV relationships. He has called me horrible names in public in front of our daughter including preventing me from taking her out of the situation so shes not a witness. He likes to have another person on the phone while arguing/video record arguements. He SA’d me last year. I also watched him physically abuse his son last year. He uses, abuses, lies and cheats. Which is what all of our arguments were mainly over. This is over the course of several years.
He has also held me down to the floor before during an argument leaving bruises on my wrists. Me having to spit in his face for him to release me.
Muhammad Saif Islam from Hollywood, Florida.
Saif is originally from Bangladesh and he now lives in Hollywood, Florida. He is a brown man obsessed with white women. He is self-hating and uses any opportunity to separate himself from his heritage – claiming to be another ethnicity and wearing colored contacts to appear mixed race. Saif made it abundantly clear he wanted white-passing children during a discussion we had about marriage and kids. Saif stated he would want to adopt little white “goddesses” of his own to achieve this desire. I don’t think I need to go any further… It was over and done that very moment. Disgusting.
Gregory Eng from Miami, Florida.
Greg Eng is originally from New York but is currently living in Miami, Florida. He is an alcoholic and makes for a rather embarrassing and pushy companion while going out. Greg will take photos and videos of you without your permission (and refuse to delete them). He is an unhappy, self-conscious man who will take out his insecurities on you in various ways. Greg argues over semantics/pragmatics in order to make himself feel intellectually superior than you but lacks the ability to hold himself to the same standards. He will future fake with you early on in an attempt to persuade you to accept his faults with promises of taking care of you, paying your rent, moving you in, going on an international trip together, etc. Do not fall for it.
Jeff Choi from Torrance, California.
Jeff is from South Korea and lived in NYC before moving. He resides in Torrance, California. Jeff plays the role of a tortured, misunderstood victim with a troubled past and an unlucky streak with women in order for you to let your guard down and pity him. Pay close attention to the things he says and how he responds to certain topics. He will parrot your needs and desires as his own as a way to manipulate you and create a false sense of connection/mutual understanding.
Jeff will strategically say and do what someone you’d think genuinely cares about you would say and do just to turn around and treat you poorly after he’s successfully lead you to believe him and his lies. Jeff virtual signals, acts morally superior, and acknowledges all the ways in which people take advantage of others/hurt one another as if he would never think to perform such monstrosities himself… as he proceeds to prey upon, be disingenuous to, and consciously harm others.
Please note, he will use metal illness as an excuse for any and all wrongdoings. Be aware this is a fully grown adult man, very much capable of self control, discipline, and the ability to be a decent human being. He knew what he was going to do before he did it and he will keep his true intentions from you until he is finished. Jeff has absolutely zero integrity.
Just incase this particular Jeff is somehow confused or mistaken for another with a similar name, I wanted to provide some additional information to set him apart – this Jeff Choi prides himself in having traveled through various parts of Europe (especially his stay in southern Germany). He will also mention his trip to Japan if he has the chance to. I am sure he won’t forget to include that he performed various forms of labor during his travels in exchange for a place to stay in an effort to appear humble/relatable; however, if you are unfortunate enough to get swept up in this man’s mess, you’ll come to find out this is just yet another way he will try to support the convoluted façade he’s desperately trying to make you believe. Stay safe ladies.
Myong Choi from LA/Torrance, California.
Myong lives in the LA/Torrance area in California. He expects s3x but he doesn’t shower properly or take care of himself/think of his appearance. His P has a medical issue that he refuses to seek help for. Myong is also not skilled in anything having to do with intimacy (that involves a partner, as I’m sure he has consumed and pleasured himself enough while watching decades worth of p0rn that he has *self pleasure* mastered). Our interactions were some of the worst s3xua1 experiences of my life.
David Tan from Irvine, California, USA.
David Tan is originally from Texas and is currently living in Irvine, California. He will act as though he holds the same values and views as you do on all things pertaining to life and human interaction/relationships (platonic and romantic); meanwhile, he is putting on heirs to take advantage of you. David blames his “conservative upbringing” for his poor social development and inadequacies instead of taking responsibility and working on himself as a middle aged man. He lacks many of the qualities that make for a good partner (and a good person in general) and he will argue and debate you to death on your standards – hoping you will lower them rather than him putting in the effort to meet them. He will twist the truth/blatantly lie when confronted about the contradictions of his words vs actions or when his overall hypocrisy is pointed out, ultimately gaslighting you into oblivion if it means he can still seem decent and you end up looking over dramatic and critical. David falls back on plans and promises regularly, leaving his word to be valued at less than zero, and will rationalize it with mental gymnastics until your ears bleed. When retelling events, he purposefully leaves out the parts that make him look bad in order to sway others opinions on situations and avoid taking accountability. He will infuriate you with his weaponized incompetence and refusal to be thoughtful, consideration, etc. while expecting those things from you on top of an uninterrupted routine of s3x and acceptance of his god awful display of what he considers to be genuine interest and care for you. He is not worth anyone’s time.
Jay Dathaeus Lee from West Palm Beach, Florida, USA.
riginally from South Korea, raised in NYC, Jay Dathaeus Lee is now residing in West Palm Beach, FL. He is a washed up former athlete with major narcissistic traits and a slew of other psychological issues. Jay lied (and continues to lie) about his age, claiming to be 10-15 years his junior, as if anyone would realistically believe that to be true. His house is a hoarders paradise, although he views this somewhat of an accomplishment and claims his disorganization and living in squalor serves as evidence that he is full of ideas and is a genius.
Jay considers himself to a great guy/”renaissance man” yet he was nothing short of a condescending, highly disrespectful lowlife throughout our time together. He has a grandiose sense of self-importance and is caught up in a multitude of hilariously improvable delusions that involve him becoming a world famous billionaire (excuse me… TRILLIONAIRE!) for all to envy and desire. Jay s3xua11y assaulted me repeatedly without remorse and exhibited bizarre sexual behavior that indicates extreme mental illness. Jay is also attracted to minors and uses “you look 10/12/14/16” as a compliment. If you are dating/any female you know is getting “trained” by him, I suggest you cease any and all communication before you end up needing to contact authorities or seek therapy as a result of interacting with him.
Brett Selby from Ontario, Canada.
Brett Selby is a highly troubled individual. He views women as beneath him and uses most of them for “practice” as he lacks the social skills necessary to already have a well-rounded personality with likable traits. He feels as though his way of shaping himself to be a good future boyfriend/husband by wasting women’s time is admirable due to the fact that he isn’t sleeping with them. Meanwhile, in his free time, him and his buddies admit to grooming women online and attempting to harvest nud3 photos and put them into compromising situations for their amusement. If you know of this person, run.
Mohamed (Simo) Bayhammou from DC area/Morocco.
This is a married man who is playing at being in a bad relationship and trying to get out. He acts all charming and sweet then he gets pushy and get the conversation going about how you make him hot. He is a liar and cheater. Do not trust him. Never spoke one true word.
Jerome Avate from Northampton, Pa.
This boy is a true master manipulator. I was warned about him from a psychic but didn’t listen. He is sweet and very good looking, he has almost a dumb cute thing going on that makes you want to help him. That’s all part of the ploy. He made me feel bad about wanting to hang out during the week and claimed he was tired then depressed.. what he was was h0rny and gross. He used the FEELD app and was sleeping with NUMEROUS women at the same time as I. He got me pregnant and had me a get an ab0rti0n. After that he treated me like damaged goods. I was so low and depressed and he was bringing so many girls into our bed that I got two different bacterial infections. I found c0nd0m wrappers two days before my birthday. So I wrote on his wall with sharpie and killed his pot plants he’s growing. Then took him back. I didn’t get anything for Christmas or my birthday because he told me I didn’t deserve anything. I bled for almost 3 months straight from the ab0rti0n because it didn’t work and ended in a horrible m1scarr1age. He made me sit in the ER all day by myself and when I got to his house after, I found 3 used c0nd0ms. He convinced me of his innocence so many times and even threw some tears into the mix. I have a four year old who adored him and his dog and it breaks my heart he chose to come and be around her and I knowing what he did. Worst part is he has a type; brunettes with a kid. I’m not sure why the kid thing is part of it but it is. He is also strung out on drugs and I think some type of painkiller, based on what I found in my room once. Jerome will tell you anything you want to hear. Everything out of his mouth was a lie. In his ceiling I found some of my clothes and tons of other girls clothes. Along with that was a box of used c0nd0ms, wrappers, and the boxes they came in. He lives in his parents basement and has never cleaned once. There are three dirty cages from a bearded dragon he had that didn’t take care of and they are all sitting around filled with poop. It’s so gross! His parents know what’s he’s up to and don’t say anything. His mom gave me $100 for Xmas bc I think she felt bad. I was so low when all this was going on I considered giving up custody of my daughter and *offing myself*. I was recommended to see a psychiatrist and am on a stronger dose of anti anxiety meds. I have so many trust issues I can’t breath and leaving the house is not something I like doing. I’m scared to see him out because I want to impose pain on him but I never will. I spoke to one of his wh0r3s and the poor thing thought she was like his girlfriend. Yet she knew about me so I’m sorry but she is a wh0r3. Please stay away from this man child. He is good at what he does. Like really good. Stay strong ladies and steer clear of Jerome aka Jay Avate.
Dwayne Gordon from Philadelphia, PA/Jamaica.
He’s a chronic mooch and liar. He will constantly be “looking for a job” while making small requests for money to women, older men, etc. He always has a “hardship” or crisis that needs paying for. He’ll spend the money on himself and justify it. He’s a perma f boy and is constantly with his baby momma while dating other women too (he’s been with her off and on for 13 years but tells other women she’s a problem so they don’t find out he’s been with her too).
He doesn’t use c0nd0ms. He’s constantly letting others know how generous he is and that he’s a good person while he’s lying to their face.
Haiwen Dai from Middleton, WI.
Emotionally abusive. Does not respect boundaries. Threatens revenge p0rn to maintain control. Cheater. Liar. Addict. Stay safe and stay away!
Marvin Christiansen from Davenport Iowa.
I had been single for almost 3 years, I did not date or hook up with anyone because I got burned in my last relationship and I was done with men forever. Well here come Marvin into my work, he met someone there to pick up a cup he had purchased. Then he kept coming back. I never had any interest in him at all, I thought to myself..shit I have another fan. I am a bartender. Marvin does not drink or do drugs. I explained to him that I was not looking for anything. Well push come to shove I fell for it..I believed him when he said he be with me through the good and the bad and that I will get tired of him being around. So we never fought we did our thing and I thought we were happy…I finally found the guy for me…in the beginning I kept telling myself and a couple girlfriends of mine…this is to good to be true and they laughed at me because he is such a nice person and he still is something is off. As we approach our 1 year anniversary things change in him. All he does is lay in bed and play on his phone. No good morning no good night no how was work honey when u get home. He layed in bed for days at a time with the phone in his hand. Well one night I came across his Twitter account so I look and see he likes 109 pictures of naked women and when I asked he said he must of got hacked and I asked him to talk with me about it he refused and continued to ignore me, so I did the same. Saturday evening he gets ready to go to a potluck which i was invited also but he didn’t ask if I still wanted to go. Before he leaves he breaks up with me. I shrug it off and he comes back before midnight and went to the spare bedroom and I went and asked him why did he come back to my house since he dumped me and then he gets up and starts packing his stuff…at this point I’m angry and I ask him to please leave until I have cooled off. Because I didn’t want him to leave and he ignored me and I felt as if I would have done something I would have regretted the rest of my life because I’m not hurting the man I’m madly in love with! He left his phone but did leave and he told me to go through it. Well my dumb ass did. I found nothing until I checked the history in his Google Chrome that he forgot to clear. He has looked up p0rn three times before he went on to pick out my valentine’s day flowers to put in a vase that he had blown himself. He came back the next morning and gathered more of his things and I asked him several times to please talk to me and explain why he was moving his stuff out. I wasn’t upset about p0rn or naked pictures hell I even told him..I will watch and look with you but he refused to talk. He came back the next day again while I was at work and got more stuff then left stuff and said he be back later to get. Then he ignored me for 7 days. Maybe one or two text but not to check on me or to apologize. Well today he sent me a message on Facebook telling me he needs to fix himself for the next person..not for us to be together but for the next girl. There are some more things that he had not told me but I’m not throwing that out. I’m telling the story exactly how it happened. My children even told him..mom is not mad and you are blowing this way out of proportion. My heart is broken into millions of pieces and he runs over nothing. He is selfish and only cares about his happiness. He had so much good around him but he was to busy on his phone to even notice!
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Marvin is a retired army vet, he blows glass at a glass shop and makes pieces to donation for good causes. He is the best man I’ve ever been with. He and I met at my work. I am a bartender and he doesn’t drink but came in to meet someone a friend. Well I had spoken with him and I was not interested at all. I thought damn I have another fan because he kept coming back and kept asking about going to lunch or dinner. After so many times asking I agreed, I explained to Marvin that I was almost 3 years out of a bad relationship and that I was not into hooking up or anything of the sort. He kept on me and I caved and we started to date. Then we had s3x then I fell for him hard and he said he did too! I thought this is to good to be true…well I was right! Marvin and I never fought but as time went on he moved in and he doesn’t have a job at this point, he did in the beginning. I knew the situation so I had no problems taking care of him because hell we gonna be together forever. As time went on Marvin would just lay in bed for days at a time, only come out to eat or use restroom and right back to the bedroom to get on his phone. As soon as he woke, he gets his phone and lays in bed all day on his phone…i didn’t care. He eventuality stopped messaging me while I was at work. I’d get home trash is full sink full of dishes and lights all out. He did do dishes once in awhile. He made sure he was fed and he made sure his laundry was done and he made sure to keep himself on that phone. He never communicated with me anymore the s3x went to nothing. Well one night I as looking through Twitter and found a profile of his, so I look and all his likes are naked women. I honestly don’t care but I wanted to ask him what is up with that. Is this the reason why your not making love to me anymore? Well he said go through my phone, my Twitter was hacked, I said no I don’t want to. I just wanna talk to ya about and he said I’m not doing this with you and went back to the bedroom and I stayed on the couch he continued to ignore me all the next day. We were to attend a potluck together but he never asked me if I were going and before he left he told me it was over and he left. Well he came back just before midnight and went to the spare bedroom and I got up and asked him why he came back to my house after he had dumped me and he said because my things are here. I told him nobody gonna take your things. Then he started to pack his clothes and I got very angry and asked him to talk to me that I didn’t understand why is was blowing this out of proportion and he continued to ignore me so i asked him to leave because my blood was boiling at this point and I didn’t want to react and do something stupid so I put a chair in front of the door so he couldn’t come back in. Well he left his phone and he had given me permission to go through it, it was clean but he forgot to clear Google chrome well I found he like to watch p0rn too. I do not care about that either but why keep something like that from me. He still won’t admit about the p0rn or the pictures and I told him heck I’ll look at it with you…I got ignored and he moved more things out and the more he ignored me the more mad I get and again I asked him to leave before I lost it, had to lock him out again. Then he came back next day while I was at work to get some more stuff, and still no communication from him. He has ignored me for 7 days now and I am so heartbroken from this, I just wanted to talk. Well he messaged me and claims he has to fix himself so he can be good for the next one. I said what about me, I knew you didn’t have the funds to help pays bills at my house so I let it slide, I told you I will forever be by your side. Money doesn’t mean shit to me. He mentioned he was unhappy, I thought we were great. He used me and he knows it. I am an open honest person and he told me he’d never hurt me and be there through good and bad and all he did was lay in my bed and play on his phone. But if anyone he knows calls for something he is up out of that bed doing for them. I’m understanding why he has been married three times and has many many many ex girlfriends. I don’t know if he was booking up or talking or paying women online. I will probably never know and I don’t know if I would want to. I opened up to the man and he tore my heart out and he promised not to. He isn’t very s3xua1 he claims he has pain when he *releases*, so If I were lucky I got laid once a month and he made me feel like we were making love. He also has not been paying any of his bills at his home, he is in foreclosure and I had to find this out from someone else. He has many secrets many many secrets and he is selfish. He was not like this in the beginning. He freaking fooled me and I’m angry because I believed him. He is a great father a great friend but a lousy boyfriend. So if ya date this guy be prepared to be treated like a Queen for a few months or til he gets comfortable. Then bam it’s all about that cell phone. And the p0rn he was looking up was stepmom loves stepsons *genitalia*. And when I went to the p0rn page he watches it was a porn with a stepbrother and stepsister playing their fantasies…I about puked because not even a month ago he got back from his moms because his stepdad was sick in hospital and he was spending time with his stepsister and that freaked me the hell out. Not sure what is going on in the man’s head but that’s sick stuff to be fantasizing about. That is some morbid stuff in my eyes. He is a 50 year old player. This man doesn’t want love he wants to be taken care of by someone else. He doesn’t spend money on you he spends your money. I have handed him money several times and he never paid me back. But the one time I borrowed money he wanted it back right away. It’s his way or no way, he will run if there is any chance of an argument and make it your fault. Remember we had two fights the almost a year we were together and he dumped me the 1st fight also and he came back but did the same thing when we didn’t have an argument until he started moving his things out.
I know that his last girlfriend left him because on their weekend to be alone and only them he left while she was sleeping due to an accident a friend was in and by time he got home she was gone. He doesn’t make his girl a priority, he put me on back burner and I assume he did that with the last girlfriend also. He is so happy to have you in the beginning and then he stops giving a crap. I have no proof if he messaged or FaceTimed or paid girls, but he is broke a week after his SSI check comes in. He is also addicted to a game called Kiss Of War. His cellphone is his #1 priority and that is sad. I could go in and on but I think you get the point.
Todd Dogie from Duson, Louisiana.
He is a charmer at first, only to get you where he wants you. Then he is a compulsive liar, narcissist, controlling egotistical cheater. He lies and says he was with less than 10 women in his 54 years of life not mentioning cheating on his wife when they were married and me for sure that I know of. He will cut off all contract with your friends and family and make you most vulnerable then destroy your world. I had my suspicions at first but could never prove anything until one day I received a text message from the other woman saying she wouldn’t have had s3x with him if she knew about me. He of course denied and lied. I believe her and in no way blame her. Women beware Todd Dogie is your worst nightmare. Don’t believe me? Go ahead and find out for yourself. Please share your story afterwards.
Richard Bedell from San Antonio Texas.
Richard is a covert narcissist, & I don’t say this due to a mere opinion. I have a strong background in psychology & do not give diagnoses without overwhelming support. He is in constant need for validation, & seeks it out on video s3x chat sites, social media & hook up sites. Practicing safe s3x is strongly advised since there have been recent incidents. He is extremely hypersensitive and misunderstands everything you do. Telling him how you feel is a perceived attack & he will go into a Narcisstic Rage. He will leave you stranded, with no money- there are no limits to how he will punish. He is unable to love unconditionally – all connections are superficial & you are merely a pawn in his game. The relationship suits his needs only, he will straight up tell you he doesn’t care about your feelings, he’s too proud to apologize & will not & he will always have someone else he can jump ship to if he thinks you’re mad & will treat you as if you are yesterdays garbage. Save yourself the chaos, confusion, & toxicity that is Rich Clinton.
Justin Morey from San Diego, CA.
Oh, where to start? Justin is a liar, a cheater, manipulator, possibly a narcissist (I’m not a mental health professional and not qualified to give him a diagnosis of that, but he displays every quality of one), and will gaslight the heck out of you. He has a repeating pattern of telling a woman he feels a strong connection with them, wants to make it exclusive, etc, but what you don’t realize is that he’s telling this to a handful of other women. He always has a few “female friends” on the side that he’s keeping in his back pocket. You’ll conveniently never meet them and they have no clue you exist but he makes it a point to tell you everything g about them so it feels like they know about you. ie his friend Carmen, who he cheated on me with, supposedly knew about me and then knew that I thought their friendship was inappropriate given that Justin cheated with her. His story never passed the smell test. He will introduce you to his mother, though. If you’re really lucky, he’ll tell you he loves you and that he’s only told 3 other girlfriends that in the past. I spent a year with this monster. He was sent to Australia for work for 6 weeks and immediately got onto Hinge and Bumble “to meet friends.” Meanwhile, he was meeting women and hooking up with them ASAP. He never intended to not cheat while there. When confronted, Justin will always use your words against you, make you feel crazy, and somehow tried to make you be the reason for conflict. For the sake of not getting too lengthy, I’ll briefly mention the inappropriate relationship he had with a 21 y/o. Justin is a 42 year old man. She was equally culpable but the entire time he kept making me out to be crazy. He’s a terrible terrible person.
Stas Edel from California.
Stas, also known as Stanislav, is a malignant narcissist. He is extremely charming, charismatic, and seems like an educated, intelligent, handsome, tall, strong, understanding, empathetic, amazing catch….but it’s all a facade.
He likes to prowl Tinder. That’s where I found him in 2016. He moves from woman to woman once the truth about him is exposed. He is a pathological liar and a cheater.
He stopped having s3x with me at all a year into our relationship, would reject me every time I initiated, promised it wasn’t me and it was him – meanwhile he was cheating on me. He cheated on me at least 5 times that I am personally aware of, starting a mere 3 months into our 6 year relationship. He recorded most of the incidents and kept them on an external hard-drive. When I confronted him about the cheating, he denied it at first, until I told him I had found video evidence of it. Then he finally admitted to ONE incident of cheating. He continued to lie about the rest.
He has deeply disturbing k1nks, including *feces play*, *urine play*, cross-dressing, getting fully naked on solo hiking trips to Mojave and *self pleasuring*. He would put his GoPro in our toilet and record himself defacating. He made music video edits with the videos of himself cheating on me for his own personal enjoyment. He posted videos of himself *self pleasuring* to a porn site with hashtags including but not limited to: “first gay”, “amateur gay”, “gay c0ck”, “best gay”, “gay man”.
He used me financially. I paid for the majority of our rent, his $2,000 mountain bike, and his $10,000 dental work. His host dad reached out a year into our relationship and asked me to start paying for his student loans (!!!!) which were $850 a month. He never paid me back for any of it.
He grabbed my phone out of my hands and threw it when we were sitting in his car together waiting for our take-out food to be ready. He took my 10 bags of chips out of our pantry and threw them on the ground while screaming I owned too many bags of chips. He is extremely controlling and would try to control the food I bought and would keep in our kitchen, despite knowing I had a history of anorexia. He rap3d me, saying that it was ok if it hurt and he was too close to stop.
He left California to go to Ukraine, his home country, for around 2.5 years, promising that we’d still be together when he returned, only to dump me one day after coming back home. He refused to talk about it or give me any closure. He moved out and I never saw him again, except when he returned once to collect his green card which he had mailed to my house. He ghosted me for months, then reappeared only to breadcrumb me for an entire year.
He refused to go to the hospital when one of our cats was dying a month after breaking up with me.
I found out he had confided to a friend of his that he had never really loved me. He proceeded to have a year long “situationship” with this same friend that he had been friends with for 6 years. He told her that she was the first person he had real feelings for in over 7 years. He told her he loved her twice. Then he dumped her without a second thought and blocked her on everything after he found some fresh supply.
I found out he told another friend of his that we were married but had split. We were never married. His lies NEVER END. What I know and described here is just barely scratching the surface.
STAY AWAY. HE WILL DESTROY YOUR LIFE.
Gabriel J Conn from Burns, Or.
Compulsive liar, IV meth addict, thief.
Mateo L from Tampa FL.
By far the most emotionally abusive narcissist I have ever met. I am not a weak minded person by any means, but he played my kindness to his advantage and found ways to manipulate me even after I was free.
He starts off so sweet, romantic, interesting, fun, and deeply caring, but it’s just to get you hooked and doing whatever it takes to be worthy in his eyes of recieving his affection. He’s a master of lovebombing and has owned the habit as if it’s not horribly abusive. His only form of showing “love” is through s3x, is hooked on fulfilling reddit fed fantasies, and has a stable of new s3xua1 partners at his disposal. He even spoke s3xua11y about his friends, usually just if he desired them s3xua11y or not. You ARE immediately replacable to him. He practices very unsafe s3x with many partners (g0ory h0le ads, grindr meets, even Nebraska s3x workers and erotic massage parlors), and lies about being safe or maybe just has no idea how to actually be safe.
If you ever attempt to talk to him about the emotional abuse, lies, secrets, or unhealthy behavior patterns, he will gaslight you, become enraged, and will even go as far as s3lf harm (ex. slamming his head into a wall and punching himself in the face multiple times to the point of causing lacerations, swelling, and 2 black eyes) to make you feel bad or guilty so you drop it. I hid the kitchen kniv3s when he would get in this s3lf harming mode, and locked my dog and I in the bedroom or even evacuated the house the last time.
He needs ALL of your time and attention and it still won’t be enough. Any time spent away from him, he will accuse you of cheating or wanting to speak with others no matter how much you do to prove yourself faithful to him. He will go through your phone any chance he gets, and is a master at hiding things he doesn’t want you to see on his (s3x videos/pictures of other people he’s been with and his stable mostly). He hates your friends and family, and will ISOLATE you from everyone so all you have is him, then leave you once you have no one. I barely spoke to my own family for over a year because he would blow up if I connected with anyone but him. He watches your snapchat score daily, and if it changes but you arent snapping him enough to explain the score change he will lose it and demand to see your snap histories or erase the app. He talked very poorly about me to his friends and family, despite me financially supporting him for months including paying for him to live in airbnbs, giving in to fulfill his s3xua1 fantasies no matter how uncomfortable I was, mommying him constantly, offering to support his family (grandmother and siblings), taking him on multiple vacations, taking accountability for his behaviors that I now understand as abuse, being accepting of his request for an open relationship (only open for him to see others), and showing him compassion, kindness, and forgiveness no matter what he did to me. He said many times how he hated how forgiving I was, and how he wished I would punish him? Once he felt his life was going great (finances improving, new motorcycle, moved in with friends) he’d break up me for a day or two, then get back with me when his life wasn’t the same without me. I know now he was just wanting to sleep with others he didn’t want to tell me about. He broke up with me several times through Facebook or text, always randomly and always blocking me after. He even broke up with me while he was on a date with a co worker that he had lied to me about seeing. He claimed a few times to be going out to dinner with a group of co workers after his shift, but it was really just her. Funny thing about the dates, I always paid for our dates and outings with his family, even when he started making more than me financially.
He has a serious drug problem and thinks he’s some kind of special guru. He needs drugs to be happy in most situations, even during s3x he normalized taking v1agra, thc edibles, alcohol and energy drinks all at once, or GHB. He will try to push you to take drugs you don’t want to take, and will belittle you for not caving. He got me taking drugs I had been hapily sober from for over 8 years (MDMA) and made me try GHB; I hated it. He really got angry with me for being nervous about taking a drug I didn’t even want to try, and physically put the syringe in my mouth. He had a serious issue with k3tam1n3 but doesn’t own it because he doesn’t think he uses it frequently enough to be considered a problem. When injecting himself he didn’t even use sterile technique despite me begging him to as someone with a medical professional background.
He blames his abusive behaviors on you, his parents, something he found on reddit, mental illness, if you’re talking too much or too little during the conversation, whether or not you’ve sent enough nud3s lately, and honestly anything he can think of. He will not take responsibility for anything, especially hurting your feelings because to him you deserved it and he will make it known.
He loves the visible destruction and chaos he creates. He smiles when you cry, and laughs when your obviously breaking right in front of him, and I’m not even being dramatic. I have been vomiting from shock, grief, and crying so hard I can’t breathe, and he acted as though he enjoyed every minute of it. He is a user and will drain you until you have no one and nothing left. He will make you question who you are and what your worth is as an individual. He made me question my sanity, aspirations, beauty, and sense of self throughout the entire relationship and months into recovering since the breakup.
He made me go to the ab0rti0n clinic alone when we got pregnant, even though I wanted to talk about options, and left me home alone during a very emotionally and physically painful induced m1scarr1age. He was supposedly doing drugs and gaming with his friends, but to be honest I have no idea where he was or what he was doing. I didn’t hear from him for days afterward, not until I was done bleeding. A year later he impr3gnated me again, this time after yelling during s3x that he was going to put a baby in me, then randomly broke up with me over Facebook 2 days later and blocked me on everything. Less than a week later he reached out over Discord and told me he had already been with multiple men since leaving me. I assumed he had been with others the moment he was out of my sight at this point, and I really didn’t care. I was done. For some reason it took me being responsible for a newly forming life to see the abuse and erase him from my life. I blocked him, and when he found out he was furious. He called my mom and told her about the pregnancy, in which she made me call him to talk because he put on a show of a concerned potential future father. He yelled at me to get an aborti0n or he would hire a PI and take custody of my child, then some weeks later acted sweet and asked me to move in with him and his grandmother. I declined and told him he would not be in our lives. I’ve since gotten an email wishing me the best, and dismissing himself from my life, our lives, for good, despite me already telling him we were done; he needed one last little grasp for control. I wouldn’t ever want my child looking up to a monster that treats people like used socks.
I know I wasn’t perfect and never will be, but I didn’t deserve ANY of that, nobody does. I feel dumb (and very much like a simp!) for having put up with all of his abuse for as long as I did, all to feel any semblance of love that I felt early on. I feel weak and foolish for giving all of myself to someone that didn’t seem to care about me at all, as well as giving in to the pressure to use drugs for him and fulfill his fantasies both s3xua11y and financially. These feelings seem to be a common when recovering from abusive relationships after reading some recovery material. He made me someone I don’t even know and never want to meet again.
Please save yourself the heart and head ache of dealing with this man. Until he gets serious help, which I truly hope he gets, he is a dangerous person to involve yourself with. I only thought to find somewhere, anywhere, to warn people about him after watching a documentary on Billy Milligan because his behaviors were so shockingly similar, as was the cold, empty stare he had in most of the pictures and videos of him. Mateo may be very charming and even sweet when he wants to be, but his inner self is absolutely terrifying and can very easily be described as having many traits of narcissistic psych0pathy.
If you see this, Mateo, I really hope you get help. I hope you can learn to be happy without trampling all over people.
Cody from NC.
I was with him for nearly three years before he dumped me. He started drifting towards the end, but he always had excuses for being suddenly busy… cut to the next time I see him, and he is in a serious looking relationship with someone he met around the time he started distancing himself.
In addition to this, he pressured and guilt-tripped me into doing things that I didn’t want to do. At the time, I thought this was normal. But considering all of the manipulation, things were not at all consensual. I apologized to him after he violated me because he would feel guilty.
He is a very good liar. I had always witnessed him lying to others but never thought he would lie like that to me. Even now, I still don’t know if any of our time together was real at all. If he thought there was the slightest chance of me leaving him, he would break into hysterics, so I stayed with him because I couldn’t hurt him, especially given his alleged past relationship trauma. He had no such qualms about destroying me emotionally. He can put on a very good act, but he does not care about anyone other than himself.
Francesco Iadevaia from Rome.
He is a narcissistic, entitled, arrogant, somewhat racist, and womanizing man. He dates several women at the same time and cheats on them. Run from him!!!
Francesco Temperini from Rome.
He is a narcissist, manipulator, cheater, womanizer and a liar. We had a relationship for about one year. He would say that “one day we will move in together”, he would say “half my heart is yours and half is my mother’s”, “you are the person I have loved most in the world”, “I thank you every day for having found you”. And, meanwhile, he cheated on me with several other women, abandoned me on important dates and weekends, always gave me lying excuses to go to parties, and didn’t help me in any moment when I needed him. He treated me badly, humiliated me, was rude, crude, constantly badmouthed my Italian, and constantly put me down, clearly treating me as if I were inferior. He would humiliate me in front of his friends, looking at me with a very disgusted face. On one trip with him, I got food poisoning and he had no patience with me, always criticizing me and saying that I was “complaining too much”. He is a crazy narcissist who would look in the mirror and say “gee, if I go out on the street looking beautiful like this I will be chased by everybody”.
When I finally managed to break up, he lied saying he tried to kill himself and sending me several “romantic” emails saying he loved me. I felt sorry for him, believed him, and came back. But then he soon went back to treating me badly and humiliating me. So I asked him “was it true that you tried to k1ll yourself?” and he said that it was an exaggeration on his part. He is completely crazy, a liar and a womanizer. I met him on Tinder and he is certainly still on all these dating apps. Run away from him!!!
Carl Reiter from Sequim, Washington.
Carl Reiter is a delusional monster. He’ll grill you and think you’re dumb enough to believe anything he says after you have seen what he does, who he really is. He pretends to be this caring open loving guy. But he’s just looking for drugs, so he can give it to you or some other unsuspecting soul. He had a butt buddy living with him for awhile. Young enough to be his son, basically the same age as his daughter. The hired man was supposedly for construction jobs, because that’s where Carl usually finds a man willing to take it and give it the way he wants it.
Carl Reiter aka Carl Smith is a cheater and a liar who is the opposite of everything he pretends to be. Just ask around, he has made quite a name for himself in Sequim for being criminal.
Daniel Flisek from Panama City, FL.
Biggest nightmare of my life. Love bombing, gaslighting, manipulation, and emotionally unavailable. We were engaged and I called off the wedding and moved far away to escape. He also had an emotionally inc3stu0us relationship with his mom. He would guilt me into staying with him everytime I tried to break up with him. Made his ex seem like an awful person, but he was actually the problem in all of his relationships. There’s a lot of emotional issues to unpack and it’s never his fault. He doesn’t take responsibility for anything and does the bare minimum. Don’t be fooled by the ‘poor me’ victim mentality. I truly believe he’s a covert narcissist and so is his mother. The therapy he attends is just a charade. He plays the therapist like a fiddle for sympathy. I wish I had listened to my instincts at the beginning and ran. I ended up getting sucked into one of the most traumatic relationships ever.
Joe Rocco from Pittsburgh Pa.
Stay far away from this nutcase Joe Rocco. Has cheated on every single girl he was ever with and also has had *intimate* encounters with other men. He is a pathological liar with severe bipolar that he refuses to treat. He has addictions to gambling and alcohol. He is a freeloader and a big mooch that uses women and gay men to support his sorry self. He is also impotent from mental problems and alcohol. Should you ever encounter this scumbag and world class loser RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!
Robby Harrison from Modesto, CA.
The short version: Robby has a history of cheating on girls, lying and manipulating to keep girls around, using his mental health to manipulate me into staying involved, and claiming to be in love with someone while actively screwing around with other women. He only cares about himself.
The long version:
Robby seemed like a good guy at first, we connected so well and he said all the right things to make me feel like we had a real future together. But dating him was like constant whiplash, for the first 3 weeks or so things seemed great, until a girl sent me a DM to let me know that she had been involved with Robby for over 6 months and that I was actually the other woman. She had sent me screenshots of him begging for her to stay together with him, telling her he loves her and they belong together and looking back now, it seems he was doing the same thing to her that he would later do to me.
He was able to manipulate me and talk his way out of that one and convinced me to give him another chance because things were over with the other woman and he wanted to get away from their “toxic relationship”.
Things felt great again for a couple months and I realized I was really falling for this guy, we were constantly together and on the phone with each other and I met some of his friends and his mom, things felt like they were headed in the right direction. Then about 4 months in he started to ghost me randomly for days at a time, and then come back and apologize, just to disappear on me again after we saw each other.
I started to distance myself when he would reach out and that’s when he really started fighting to win me back, he told me he loved me and that I was the one for him and he wanted a future and a family with me, I gave him another chance just for him to ghost me again. He then reached out to me a month later on my birthday, begging to take me out, telling me he messed up and he has commitment issues but that I was “the one” and to please give him another chance and I was considering it… So I was shocked and very hurt when I saw he posted videos of him on a date with another girl on his instagram story the very next day. I called him out on that and he had every excuse in the book “I’m not dating her” “she’s my friend’s sister” “it’s not a big deal” “I only want you”. I let it slide again, and we met up a couple weeks later. We went through a very unhealthy cycle for about 4 months after that, me giving him another chance, him ghosting after we meet up and then him coming back profusely apologizing, giving every excuse and telling me we belong together and I’m “the one”.
When I wouldn’t agree right away to come see him after his ghosting periods he would start telling me about his bad mental health and alluding to su*cide by saying things like “everyone would be better off without me” as a manipulation tactic to get me to come over to see him and comfort him. This happened many many times and his mental health was a big reason I kept caving and coming back.
After the last time I saw him, just a little over a week before valentine’s day, he ghosted again. I decided to do some digging this time and found the instagram of the girl he had posted 4 months prior, she had a picture of the two of them together on her story for valentine’s day. He had told me the last time he saw me that he was only with her for like 2 weeks before he broke things off when in reality they were still seeing each other. I was the other woman, yet again. His behavior is a pattern and it’s very concerning, I feel very bad for any girl who becomes his next target because I’m sure his behavior will not change any time soon.
Rich senoski from Meriden, ct.
Rich is an alcoholic, he is mentally and physically abusive. He cheats and lies as a norm. He has herpes and wont tell you
Pete Martinez from Cranford, NJ.
He is an abusive narcissist, and he will be the perfect man until he has you… Then his true colors show.
Beware and run screaming!
Greg Taylor from Clifton Park New York. Absolute psycho, heroin and coke addict. will destroy your life, controlling, monitors mail location and extremely jealous.
Stetson G from Texas. Met him while he was travelling in Australia for work. I had my suspicions but he assured me there was no girl back home. In July of 2022 I came to visit to him for a couple weeks on my annual leave. I felt like I got swept up in a whirlwind, meeting his family, going on a short family getaway, meeting all of his closest friends. After returning back to Australia he told me he wanted to complete the K1 – fiance visa and he had bought a ring. October 2022 he visited Australia and met my family, finalised the visa and was ready to submit. November came around and shortly after he went home, a family friend came to stay. He filmed her and made fun of her, saying he “couldn’t wait for her to leave” and “was sick of entertaining her”.
December 2022 I was ghosted, January I found out that he’s now dating the “family friend” and she’s moving in with him. I reached out to one of his Ex’s, she told me he had unmedicated Bipolar and had cheated on her with the same “family friend”. It turns out I was the other girl for her too, (they had been living with each other for 2years).
Alex De Grood from Atascocita, Texas. Alex. This man cheated and had sex with someone while I was having a miscarriage. He also sold all of my things to the pawn shop, and I was barely alive through a very difficult pregnancy that ended in miscarriage at five months. He also took my child’s toys that he got for Christmas to the pawn shop as well. This is all while I was in the hospital for months WITH HIS CHILD. He never even came to check on me, and couldn’t even afford a slush from sonic during HAPPY HOUR. That’s the day I knew I had to move out because he couldn’t take care of me when there was something terribly wrong with the baby, even at six weeks pregnant. He is honestly a terrible human being.
Paul michael codman from Liphook, Hampshire, uk. Ahh where to start. The man is a self confessed pick up artist. He not only prays on innocent women, but chooses single mothers as they are apparently easier to use….. uses their kids to get close to the woman. “Love bombs” the children with gifts in order to seal his place. He has had a failed vasectomy which he had ended up impregnating at least 2 poor women now (he won’t tell you this until he has impregnated you). He then won’t support with the abortion and will go off fishing…..
This vile creature has online s3x with his ex’s and keeps people on the back burner
He will lie and pretend he wants to marry you. After 4 months he will have a tantrum and then admit he doesn’t want to, never will etc. At aged nearly 50, his longest relationship ship is 4 years…. And he has had a HUGE amount of girlfriends. Embarrassing really. Serial steroid taker, when he can’t get hold of it he withdraws and looks like hell. This man is sexist and racist and even once with my kids in his car pretended to machine gun down people wearing Muslim clothing.
Avoid at ALL costs
Michael Speck from Lutz, FL. Ladies, if you meet Michael Speck, 45, block immediately and run away. I only went out with him a couple of times while separated from my husband, we never did anything intimate. I ended it because after a nice dinner, we both went to our separate places. He texted me that a Ferrari was sitting in his driveway with keys in it, so i figured he was entertained and i went to sleep. Throughout the night, he texted me vile and threatening texts because i did not respond, again i was sleeping. I ended it at that moment and told him that i was not up for a toxic relationship. The man will not leave me alone a year later, even after I’ve asked him repeatedly to do so. He claims he’s got more money than brains, tons of properties and investments, a yacht, a plane, etc. I think he is actually going broke, though. He has a substance abuse problem with mar1juana and alcoh0l. His texts range from bragging, to insulting me, to saying he loves and misses me, he wants to know what happened to us. He also says he has many women that want him, so I’ve told him to go after one of them, because I am not interested. I decided to stop responding/defending myself against his accusations, but he will not stop texting. I’m trying to see if there is a legal way to get him to stop since changing phone numbers is such a hassle. I don’t want any other ladies to be tormented by this toxic man.
Tony Salvaggio from Ilion, NY.
Covert narcissist. Uses women, as most narcs do.
The first month is great, after that the abuse starts. One weird thing is he acts like he doesn’t know how to have s3x yet he will be 62 soon.
Ladies don’t fall for this abusive jerk.
Walter Maultsby from Fort worth Texas. We met via tinder. He’s a electrician with IBEW. Comes off as a gentleman but isn’t. He made lots of promises to pay things off when he used my credit cards to the tune of $31k in less than 2 years. He’s caused financial distress to his 2nd ex wife as well, she doesn’t feel it’s worth warning the next woman assuming they won’t listen but I wish someone had warned me (i was #3)!
Adam Russell from Beaver dam. Servere drunk who put a loaded gun to my head when wasted.
Blake geiger from Oshkosh wi. He is a bad drunk. He is very verbally abusive and if you get knocked up by him he will leave you and talk down on you. He is narcissistic in every way. He barley takes care of his own child. She stated that he tried to *end* her once.
Only 4 months with him and i needed therapy from his abuse. He wants Nothing to do with the son I gave birth to because he was a boy
He also called my current child *r-slur*
His friends do Crack often
Jason Erick Ahlgren from Belmont, CA USA moved to Redding CA USA. He is an abusive meth addict. He plays quiet and cool always listening to things you say you want and then gets them for you. then he turns into a narcissistic women b3at3r. his past girlfriends confirmed. One night after enduring this ongoing isolation, mind control and another b3ating he walked out slammed the door but left his phone. He had a paid subscription to Grindr A GAY DATING SITE. HE ALWAYS WAS A FEMININE AND WHEN I SAID SOMETHING HE HIT ME SO Stay away from this piece of garbage
MajorRick from Minneapolis MN. We had a NSA relationship. It was a lot of sexting and he wanted pics and videos. However, he’s married and she doesn’t know. He had my pics and mailed them back to me and all my neighbors? I feel he was getting possessive. I don’t know why he did this, but I can tell you he has many different names, numbers, social media accounts and loves Snap. He is a low life dog. Stay away from this guy. Hopefully he gets caught and no one else experiences this life changing experience! What a complete jerk!
Guy Sacco from Melbourne, Australia. Went to a private party and exchanged Instagrams with a couple of girls just to find out we’ve been dating the same person for the last 6 months! He even invited one of us to his family for Christmas and got us girls the same gift! We can only imagine how many others there are. He has admitted to using and rotating girls except for his “main girl”. Warning: he’s very manipulative and plays the victim card . Love bombs in the beginning wanting to talk and see you everyday then backs off and creeps in when it suits him. I don’t know where he finds the time for all these girls. Does not give the play boy vibe and seems very quiet and innocent. He also has mental problem that I’m not equipped to diagnose but he’s aware of it . It isn’t bipolar but he overthinks then makes an erratic life changing decision out of no where randomly then changes his mind. It’s exhausting behavior and he’s emotionally immature once things don’t go his way.
Sam/Samuel from Virginia Beach/Chesapeake, Virginia. Lying, cheating manipulator who has used women for everything from money, to assurance as he builds his ‘persian’ empire. He swindles people quick than a used ‘car salesman’ and there are several other women (I have receipts) who have been made victim by him. Run, don’t walk away! The love bombing starts and ends just as fast. He will tell you he loves you and he is ready to be engaged and married with in months (4). He is a verbal/physical abuser and has a court record for exactly this. Don’t let the used luxury fool you because this man is the epitome of a fool!
Julius Tribble from costa mesa CA. he is liar, cheater goes around using and hurting good women. he is narcissist stay away from him or you will get caught in his web of bs. he plays the victim claiming his ex wife cheated on him many years, so he will played cheat on you and lie, he is one big pile of bs and lies stay away.
this is comments from other women on other website he has done this to at least 5 women that i know of but am sure they are plenty more..
June 8, 2019 at 8:24 AM
Julius recently struck again.
A friend dated this man, he became blackout drunk, locked her in her hotel room, and she had to physically fight her way out.
PLEASE AVOID THIS MAN.
Nic Frachon from Phoenix, AZ. Nic Frachon is a master manipulator, cheater, s3x addicted predator and p3rv3rt. He will do all the right things, go above and beyond, plan sweet dates, spoil you with attention to make you feel like you have something real, yet the whole time he’s cheating. He preys on college age teenage girls because he thinks they’re easier to manipulate. He will tell you he’s not capable of these things but I assure you he is. Everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie. Whatever he tells you his values are it is the exact opposite. So listen closely because he tells on himself. He’s not worth the therapy and trauma. Not even contracting an STD will stop this man. He will never be satisfied.
I recently went on a few dates with him and got some very interesting energy. After the second date, I figured I should google him and have come across girls raising concerns about him being a predator. Can you please give me more information on your experience? His behavior is bordering odd, but charming. I have never come across a person like this before I don’t know whether I should be running towards him or away. Would greatly appreciate your advice.
Kevin Joseph from Bensalem Pennsylvania.
I met him on a dating website. He seemed to be a sweet normal guy, very respectful and attentive. I didn’t know what love bombing was until I met this person. At first everything was great. He was always open to communication. He would text and reply often. We dated regularly. I never had to ask for his time or attention. But there were little red flags. I noticed that he had a wondering eye. He and I are of African descent but the towns we are from are predominantly white. I have dated outside of my race so I don’t have any issues with interracial dating. However, his ex for 15 years was white and he seemed to have an obsession with white women. One day while on a date, I caught him staring at our waitress. She was a bit young with blonde hair. It was so noticeable that the waitress seemed a bit uncomfortable. I called him on it but he lied and said he hadn’t even noticed her. That was the first of many red flags. He ended up cheating on me with a white woman named April, from his town. One day when we were coming back from a date, she was at his home waiting outside for him. Like him, she was drama filled and the situation was very embarrassing. She told me that she had been seeing him for about a year. Keep in mind we were over two years in at this point. After I found out about her he became even more cold towards me. He kept begging me not to leave him but would not work on the relationship. Later I found out that he never stopped seeing her. There is Nothing wrong with being attracted to another race, but this man fetishizes over white women and that’s unhealthy. He desires them but mistreats them. On the day that the woman came to his home, she told me that he forced her to pay for her own meals, refused to meet her children, family members, or friends. They had never gone anywhere special, like a vacation or even a weekend getaway. During our time together, we vacationed, he met my family, we did special dates as well as regular dates. There was a real investment in me all while manipulating both of us. She allowed him to use her and he took advantage because he knew he could. He told me that she was “convenient.” In my opinion he thinks he can give white women less and they will stand for it. I think it’s wrong to use women in any way. All women, especially black or white women, need to stay far away from this man. He wasted almost three years of my life with this game. He is a cold hearted narcissist with zero but remorse for what he does to women.
Stuart Hartley from Geneva, Switzerland. 34 years old. Originally I was not interested in Stuart as I had a bad break up earlier in the year and was nervous about trusting someone again, but Stuart spent months showing up consistent, kind and with exceptional communication skills. He seemed wonderfully together and like he was actively doing the work to know himself and make healthy relationship choices. We went on good dates and he was always texting me and going to all efforts to show he was emotionally available. Stuart did all the right things to gain my trust, including introducing me to his friends, talking about future joint trips, engaging in detailed discussions about what we were looking for, informing me he was no longer on dating apps, and discussing relationship expectations at length. There was no obvious red flags, he seemed to very much care about me, and eventually I agreed to exclusively seeing each other.
However, shortly after gaining exclusivity and commitment, all this healthy communication and relationship behavior immediately stopped. He flipped to someone who refused to communicate, instead choosing stonewalling, ghosting, and also checking back in after ghosting just to ghost again (pattern of behavior happened more than once). When I raised the issue he also threw in a good dose of gaslighting, saying we never had discussed where the relationship was headed – despite text message records proving otherwise. Unfortunately it turns out Stuart is actually highly avoidant and just likes the dopamine hit of chasing a new romance. He wants to get laid and have emotional intimacy on his terms, but won’t be honest about his actual intentions and emotional availability. Nothing about the relationship was worth the few weeks of emotional abuse I endured before I blocked his number. He knew exactly what I was looking for and decided he wouldn’t respect my wants, time or boundaries. All I can say is he either has no ability to self-reflect or is being maliciously dishonest. He comes with a sob story about a long term ex-girlfriend. I am glad she and I both GOT OUT. I only got a taste of the emotional abuse and toxic relationship dynamics he is capable of. I can’t imagine what she went through.
Jeremy Ousey from Swansea UK. I went on two dates with this man. He gained my trust as he’s a med student but when he picked me up, his hands were already all over me. I told him to stop and moved his hand but he kept doing it over and over. He grabbed my face and forced me to kiss him. He grabbed my br3a5t5. He is just an overall creep. He admitted to being a narcissist and he said himself he thinks he’s a psych0path. I just think he likes abusing women. Warning ladies, do not meet him especially alone.
Mario Rios Sr from Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio. Please beware of this s3x offender. Not only does he go after married women, he goes after very young girls, ages 17, 18 19..He’s 55. He will seek out married women to offend so when wants to have his way with them they won’t say anything about the attack because “they are married”.
He will date multiple women at once claiming to only be in a relationship with them. He has stalked me, as well as other women. He had s3xua11y attacked me, not once but twice, and when I went to the police I was told, it was his word against yours, and since I use to be in a relationship with him proving it wasn’t consensual would be hard. He is a master at fooling and gaslighting people. He had also s3xua11y abused children and got away with doing so due to technicalities as the children were to young to say. Even though I shared this information with county workers they did not have any “physical” evidence at that time, so they could not move forward. I was an eyewitness who caught him, and for them, that wasn’t enough as he told the county worker that I was just “a jealous ex-girlfriend, and I was lying”. He was even on Dr Phil show for his crazy behaviors. S3x Lies and Audiotapes was the program. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8Z3jWo6ULc . He even tried to get his very own son’s girlfriend who was only 20 years old to leave his son to be with him as he was “infatuated” with her. He continues to prey on women, and once he obtains bad information about them, he blackmails them into doing s3xua1 things with him or he will share their secrets. I was constantly getting hit on by him despite him being married and he and I had broken up, he even pulled out his p3n15 and began to pleasure himself all in front of me. When I walked away he pursued me and backed me into a room grabbed my phone and made comments saying “I know you want me, this is your last chance to ever be with me”. At that point, I started screaming so he would get away from me.
Chris Friscia from Petaluma, Ca. Chris is a good looking, charismatic man and he is a s3x addict, food addict, alcoholic and serial cheater. I dated him several years ago and he was quick to tell me he loved me and I fell head over heels for him. He lied to me repeatedly, refused to wear a c0nd0m when we slept together and cheated on me with at least 3-4 other women, putting my health at risk. He has a history of doing this and from what I can gather has cheated on women for years and years, and he is incredibly convincing and good at what he does. At one point when I was questioning him he said to me, “I am a man of my word and you just need to trust me”. The last I heard that even though he has a live in girlfriend he is back out on the dating apps. I wish I had seen a site like this prior to getting involved with him. It would be saved me a tremendous amount of stress and heartache.
Brandon Lee Poston from Sumter, SC. Brandon Poston groomed me. He was legally an adult while I was in my mid-teens. His excuse was that he “didn’t know” how old I was and I was “so mature.”
He was severely emotionally abusive; negative comments about my appearance and personality were a daily topic. Very manipulative. He also claimed to actually be gay while he was with me. All of a sudden would go through a religious phase, though.
He threatened to mass-shoot people and himself and had a written kill-list. Authorities didn’t care.
Regularly would “mess around” and squeeze my wrists or legs so hard he would leave bruises. Did not request consent. Wrecked my parent’s car. Cheated multiple times.
A couple weeks after I finally left him, he physically beat another woman.
I can’t state his job, but his location changes every few years. He seems very, very nice and good at first but he is awful.
Ronald Laboy from Brooklyn, New York. Ladies, be aware and stay far away from him. I dated him for almost two years but found out how horribly abusive he was. He would complain about how all his exes and his kids’ mother was crazy. It was him that is crazy. He would go off the deep end and lose his temper every time we had a disagreement. He would curse me out and call me horrible names, then he would ignore me and flirt with married women and other women on his Facebook page.
He and his mother tried getting me to quit college because he didn’t want to watch our child while I was in class. She had the audacity to give me an ultimatum to quit school or I be thrown out and that he is not going to help me take care of our daughter.
I continued to go and they threw me and our child out her house. Meanwhile, he didn’t have his GED, he was unemployed while I was in college. He is a bum, useless, and lazy. He is an entitled old geezer that claims everyone must serve him. He throws violent rages if he doesn’t get his way.
He is an alcoholic and would frequent the bars for three day alcohol and drug binges.
There were times he would come home wasted, vomiting, and had blood on his shirt for fighting in the bar. I always had to nurse him to health.
He would stash 1ll3gal weapons in his mother’s house and he has a felony record. (I don’t know if he does now, because this happened years ago when we were together).
He would make up lies about his ex girlfriends to all his friends and family. His ex girlfriends are not the bad guys, he is. They all dumped him because of his abusive, lying, cheating ways.
One time he wrote horrible things about me on Facebook when I left him and he put all my information on there when I was hiding from him. I put a restraining order on him because he was threatening my life. He even threatened that his homegirls would destroy my face if I didn’t let him know where I was at.
He claimed my older kids were taken away from CPS. My two older kids live with their fathers. He lied because it was me that was taken by CPS when I was a child. I was in the foster care system when I was a toddler but was reunited with my parents that year. This was back in 1985. He knew this because I told him my childhood story.
He would twist my words and story around to make me look terrible while trying to ruin my reputation. His friends and family believed it. I reported that post on Facebook to have it shut down for defamation of character. I sought lawyers about it and eventually Facebook closed his page down for harassment and libel.
He cheated on me with multiple women and tried to persuade me into going to sw1ng3rs clubs with him. I was grossed out at the thought and noticed a pattern of whenever he was h1gh on drugs, he would bring that up.
He even stole money from me and used it on drugs.
He pretends to be a good guy claiming he found God. He is hiding behind a religion so that he can look like a good guy and that he can attract more women.
His mother is a religious fanatic and most likely told him to find God. She controls his every move and he is a momma’s boy. He uses women for a place to stay and works off the books to avoid paying almost $15,000 in child support arrears.
He is a chronic liar, he makes up stories about his exes, he is abusive, a con artist, old, and washed up. He has terrible hygiene and isn’t that smart. His friends and family are just as dumb as he is.
He isn’t even a good friend, because he cannot ever have a healthy relationship with any human. He objectifies women. He is an artist and he has done nude body painting on women, just so he can have access to women’s bodies. He would post images on social media of these women covered in body paint and his old washed up friends would make p3rv3rt3d s3xua1 jokes about their bodies. He doesn’t do it for the love of art. He is a p3rvert. He refers to his women friends as “his hoes”.
He is overly jealous and wanted me to stop being friends with my male friends or exes. Yet I asked him to do the same and he would yell and curse me out. He has never shown me respect or any reciprocity from his requests. It’s only fair that he reciprocate.
He is a huge hypocrite. He can dish it out, but can’t take criticism or reciprocate favors he demands.
Ladies, I urge you to run, not walk, if you ever encounter him. He is trash. I promise you. I am not getting anything out of this post, maybe some closure or relief of getting this off my chest. But I need to be heard and understood so you don’t go through what I went through.
Logan (Maddox) Grey from Puyallup wa. Logan is a liar and cheater.
I had a feeling something was up when he ended his live stream after a girl came in and was like hey babe.
so I waited to see her again online and finally found her. we got to talking and low and behold he had her come from Detroit to visit him for multiple days.
I have the RECEIPTS to prove he did it. yet when I called him out he is still continuing to deny it. then he blocked me thinking it will all go away.
Thomas Martin Jr from Pottsville, PA. He attempted to k1ll me by hitting me over the head with a cell phone, then ran from the police. After his arrest and when there was a protection from abuse order in place, he sent forged letters to my employer pretending to be a parent at the school where I was working, to try and get me fired. He also refused to sign off on the title on my car so I had to junk my car and lost $16,000. Stay away from this man.
Manny from Denver. Emotionally cheated on me with my close trusted friend, and rumored that I was the one who started it first.
Daniel Ash from Kansas city Missouri. He’s dirty. You will always have a part of him the rest of your life. He’s a manipulative coward. He beats women and imo in the closet. If you see a bald white guy with a lightning bolt earring, RUN
Matthew Zorich from Austin, Texas. Originally from Tuson,Az he lived in Washington state, McCord Af base. Living in Austin Tx now. This guy is dangerous. Classic Misogynist, gaslighting, emotional abuse! Will lie to his end to make himself the victim or upstanding guy. Beware, he is a convincing liar. He tried to torcher me, control me. Would try to trick me into watching animal abuse clips off internet. Also, abused my cat, terrified an innocent animal by shouting (top of his lungs)at him for no reason. BTW, he doesn’t shower for weeks. Not sure how he survived being in the military. This guy tricked me into leaving my state to live with him in another. Then once there everything went to hell. Do not trust anything he does or says.
Steven Boren from Logan, Utah. Officer Steven Boren in Logan Utah. Most prolific cheating problem I’ve ever encountered. Demoted from sergeant for stalking. He’s currently looking for a nice LDS wife to cheat on while just trying to manipulate everyone else into s3x and then leaving them right after. I’ve encountered a few of his exes. I caught him cheating. He has at least 3 ex wives he’s abandoned because they got suspicious he was cheating. It’s the amount of women he goes through that makes him so dangerous in my opinion. At least 10 in the past year, and those are just ones I happened to find out about. I assume there’s a lot more. It was a horribly painful experience. He’s amazing at making you feel like the only one in his life. Please pass along.
Benjamin John Paul Horton from Halifax/Huddersfield. He’s an emotionally abusive, manipulative jerk who cheats, lies, and bullies women.
Dan cox from Dexter maine. Caught him messaging other girls while we were dating. Was such a nice guy and never saw it coming. He is a cheater. Received a message from a girl he was trying to hook up with on fb. Glad she warned me about what he was trying. He is a selfish lover. Every time is like his first time if you know what I mean. To find out he was sending pics of that little thing he calls a manhood to other girls while I worked and he sat home makes me so angry!
Timothy Michael Mizell from Bryan, Texas. Classic text book “Good Guy.” Was with him off and on for 6 years, everything was a lie or an embellishment from day one. I ignored every red flag, and still tried to stick it out no matter how cruel or narcissistic he was; for better or for worse, right? He cheated so many times and in so many different ways that I’m still finding out about it all years later. FetLife, Okcupid, Whisper, etc. He frequents them all, whether he is in a “committed relationship” or not. Whether it is digital or in person, his methods of cheating and disrespect know no bounds. He gaslit me so much, and told so many people how crazy I was, that I stopped leaving my house; and was very mentally and emotionally unstable towards the end. Even years later, he is still telling people lies to try and save himself.
Every time I had a feeling that he was cheating again, he would call me crazy and paranoid, and every time I turned out to be right. He would scold me for violating his privacy, would blame his cheating and dishonesty on my “attitude” and would mentally punish me in different ways afterwards to show me who was charge. I cannot tell you how lucky I am to have finally stopped falling for his tricks, and I’m so glad to have gotten away from the poison.
Do not have anything to do with this man unless you want to be lied to, cheated on, gaslit, or end up with an STD. Therapy and long term feminine care can be very very expensive.
Greg Wingham from Scotland, UK. avoid this guy at all costs, he’s a covert narcissist. He is very intense at the beginning, puts on this ‘sweet victim’ act and he will mirror your personality. He is a cheater, liar and extremely psychologically abusive, it took about a year to start seeing the abuse but by that time he already trapped me. When I left him I had to get the police involved because he was so controlling and coercive (we shared a house). He has a child with another ex and I feel really sorry for her. Please be wary of this guy, he has zero empathy, calls all his exes crazy (there’s a lot of them!), just don’t be fooled, he’s honestly one of the most evil people I’ve ever had to deal with, but he puts on a good act. If he’s Scottish, supports Man U and his name is the same as above honestly run!!!
Robert Lawson from Tucson, AZ. When I met him I thought I had hit the jackpot. He was so sweet, almost sickening sweet now that I think about it. Always sending love songs, love bombing. Told me he loved me right away, engaged in three months, bought a new house in four months and at 6 months I walked in to our new home to find him in bed with another woman. I was 100% blindsided as I trusted him so completely. He’s not that attractive and very short, 5’2 but was so sweet .. I spoke to the woman she told me the entire time we were getting engaged , buying house, planning a wedding they were having an affair. I tried to forgive him but found his missing iPad and when I looked found out he was cheating with another woman and he cheated on his ex girlfriend with SIX women. He is sweet to your face but has a very secret devious life on the side with many women. Women were calling all the time and he changed their names to men’s name in his phone. I caught him in multiple lies about everything too.
He’s a manipulative, compulsive liar, serial cheater. In short he is a covert narcissist
So be careful ladies. We are getting divorced now. The heartache and disbelief is too much to bare. I don’t want any other woman to fall for what I foolishly did.
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Robert moved quickly in relationships, s3x, saying I love you etc. He told me how bad his childhood was and how all his exes are psych0s, his ex cheated on him multiple times etc always playing the victim. Asked me to marry him pretty quickly too. I thought he was SO sweet so I believed everything he was saying, especially the I will NEVER cheat on you lie. I was 100% blindsided when I walked in to our new home and found a woman in my bed. I TRUSTED this short, bald, unattractive man. He SWORE nothing happened, just old friends that had too much to drink. Swore they didn’t even touch. For ten days I believed him. Then she contacted me and I had her on speaker. She told me they had been having s3x for 8 months.
The entire time I was planning a wedding and looking at houses he was sneaking around behind my back cheating.
Then I found his iPad. Found MORE lies and way more cheating as well as spent 2000 on p0rn in six months!
Cheating not only on me but EVERY woman he has been with was cheated on as well.
His gf before me, we counted 6 women he cheated on her with me included. Who knows how many more from dating sites. He told me he hadn’t been in a relationship 6months prior to me when I met him on bumble. That was a lie. He and his long term gf were still very much together when he met me! As well as the woman I walked in on him with were together before he and I were. She thought she was in a relationship with him too.
He would never ever let me post anything of us on social media and when we got engaged we got into a huge fight because I wanted to post our engagement. He was so mad but we did. Now I know its because his gf’s were on there. So then they were all asking him who I was and he told one that I was an ex from 2018 that we had just gotten back together and he didn’t have a chance to tell her and the other he told her he wasn’t seeing me in March (LIE) and that I was a rebound from their break up.
The pathological lying and serial cheating is so hard to believe because in public he’s like a tiny little care bear. According to my therapist, he is a textbook covert narcissist. Sneaky serial cheating, pathological lying and secret life. I was so blinded because he can be so sweet yet vicious at the same time. I went through every symptom and can clearly see every single red flag now. He would devalue me a lot in the beginning, he was caught in several lies and when I would confront him he would immediately turn it around on me and blame me for everything. What I read in he iPad was so much cheating, lying and painful texts I saw. I just don’t want any other woman to go through what I have. Its hard to believe with his sweet little woes me demeanor but I have all the proof anyone could possible want to see from texts from all the women to recorded calls between himself & me about the lies and affairs (not illegal in AZ) So if anyone wants to reach out to me please do. Im happy to share and save you a very confused broken heart~
Tex Charles Sims from Ohio. Comes from a good family. Has 5 beautiful children. Looks like Cary Grant (some say George Clooney) and so charming! Tall, dark, handsome (in my humble opinion). 6’4″, Dark golden skin, beautiful honey brown eyes and he’s adorably color blind. Doesn’t workout (besides playing golf…. weekly) but is very clean, organized, and well kempt. Charismatic. Tells you everything he thinks you want to hear. A self proclaimed womanizer. I lied to myself when I thought he told me that to strengthen our relationship. I should have run away then.
We established together that our relationship would be long term. After a month he proposed to me 3 times in one night. He wrapped me in his long arms and said, “We should get married. Don’t you want to get married?” I stayed quiet. I’m afraid to get married ever again. A minute later still laying in the dark he said, “We should get married.” Still I was silent. Another minute later, “Do you want to marry me?” I finally responded, “Tex, you don’t know me well enough to know for certain if you want to marry me.” In reality I was thinking about how well I knew him. I knew we’d have time to get to know each other. I was content with that. He didn’t recall any of this the next morning. He was prone to daily drinking, I didn’t know that at the time so I chalked it up to talking in his sleep. Even though he never talked in his sleep before or since.
We established together that we would talk and work out any issues that came up. He was very good at explaining what his quirks were but had no patience for mine… My quirks come from being abandoned, abused and neglected. By men. Specifically. My whole life. My brothers are good men. He didn’t know that because it was more important for me to hear about him. His opinions, his philosophies, his perspectives. I listened intently though because we had time to talk about me later.
I learned he weighs the value of a person by their education, power, influence, and monetary gain. He respects people who overcome adversity. I’m a single mother who put off her own education to support her previous husband’s educational ambitions. After 10 years of him repeatedly quitting I realized that was a HUGE mistake. Tex didn’t know this about me either because it was more important for me to know about HIS ambitions. He was very good at his job. I don’t know how much he made but he liked bragging about how much he spent on things.
I have a low paying job in the dental industry (not minimum wage but not enough to support a family either) and Tex explained to me how devastated he was for me when he realized how little I make. He seemed content knowing I was studying to get the licensing for a better position but didn’t have the time to keep talking about it. Had we been able to complete that conversation he would know I have been struggling to find the $500 I need to take the national exam. It was clear at that point he didn’t see me as an equal.
I’d go to his girl’s soccer games every week. Took them skating. Took his oldest girl to a theme park. He thanked me and tried paying me back. I refused. I wasn’t babysitting. I love those girls. I’d brush and braid their hair before bedtime. Was looking forward to watching them grow up. He was too busy for my kids, but he’d let them come over for sleepovers and did take us on a lovely trip ONE time. And another time he showed up for a church Halloween party.
The night I told him I have pre-cancerous lesions he had been drinking a lot. I hadn’t seen him in a while and I didn’t know when I would see him again so I told him then. It was big news that I’d been struggling with for a couple of weeks. He told me that he’d be getting busy at work and would have less time for me but that everything was great between us. That texting might be the only way we can communicate for a while but to make sure I include him on all the big stuff. He stopped coming to my place.
I’m training a dog that isn’t used to children. Tex respectfully told me I should get rid of her. At this point in our relationship Tex left me alone more often than not. Especially when I was struggling or needed help. I made the 2 hour roundtrip to see him once a week. I couldn’t afford it but the first month we were together he exclusively came to see me once or twice a week. I wanted to be his companion. Things were hard for him at work, so I made every effort to be there. He made a lot of promises to help me and hadn’t kept ANY of them. So… I kept the dog. I can see how he would see that as disloyalty, but I can also see how breaking promises is disloyal and dishonest. He likes to preach how honesty is so important. He grew very distant in a short period of time. I called him out about it. He said he was just busy with work and this is “how it is.” Tex didn’t have 1 hour to spend with me but he had 5 or more hours every week to play golf and drink with his friends.
Tex always said, “You’re welcome over anytime you want,” but he wasn’t clear on when he wasn’t home. Already unable to afford the trip I wanted to make sure he’d be home. Usually I’d go over on Monday nights because I got off work earlier Mondays. One Monday night I texted to make sure he was home and he said he was out with his girls. I was disappointed I couldn’t see him, but I was glad he was having fun with his girls. I used the situation to mention he could be clearer about when he is not home and he turned me into a villain.
I had to ask to spend Thanksgiving with him. He wouldn’t let me ride with him. From a time and distance standpoint it made sense, but I was there to spend time with him. I knew the only time we’d have together would be on the car ride. I don’t like being the center of attention, but I couldn’t help how awkward it felt that no one there would look at or converse with me. That was the last time I saw him. He walked me out to my car, pecked me on the cheek. I told him I love him. I got a blank stare and, “I love you too, Babe.” That was the last time I saw him.
After that I discovered my 10-year-old took something from his house and I was whole heartedly rejected while trying to return it. Tex said, “Let me think on this one and get back to you.” He was understandably upset, so I didn’t text him after apologizing and telling him how heartbroken I was. That was a Sunday night. Monday. Tuesday. Wednesday. Nothing. I knew he was done with me. I carefully wrapped the item and his belongings left at my house, drove two hours round trip and left it inside his storm door with a note that said, “Tex, these belong to you. Take care.” I texted him to let him know it was there but I thought he blocked my number so I also texted his oldest daughter. I didn’t get a response from her either. My things were still inside but didn’t feel right going in to collect them. So, I left.
For his birthday I drove out of town to forget but was dumb and sent him a 1am text, “Happy Birthday.” It was going to the universe anyway, right? Nope. The next morning he replied, “Thank you.” Then I felt guilty for casting a shadow on his day.
I had my son write apology letters to Tex and his two youngest girls who were grounded for the item that went missing. Shortly after that my things from Tex’s place were on my doorstep. Not all of them but enough to get the point that he wanted nothing else to do with me.
In conclusion, Tex is a really great guy if you’re entertaining and worth his time. A fair weather friend. He’s just as human as the rest of us. In the end it takes more than love to make a relationship work and he doesn’t have that to give. He’s just not honest with himself or potential prospects about it.
Christopher Brantley Mathis from Virginia Beach, VA. I was very controlled and never got access to money even though we were married. He forced me by bullying to leave my dying mothers hospital room, bc he was tired. She died 30 min later. He has a record for choking his ex wife. (The first one) He didn’t tell me about his gay p0rn addiction till after we were engaged. After we got married I got sick and he told his buddy how unattractive I was. Every time he pleased himself and thought about another person he would tell me, well after I asked him not too. He told me I could not live under his roof UNLESS I go to HIS church (where I was smear campaigned) EVERY week (even though I live with a chronic health condition and often cannot be in big spaces like that). And I couldn’t find my own church. And he told me this when I was facing homelessness with my rented home (we were living a part but together). He called me crazy in front of my kids, punched a hole in the wall and loves to gaslight. He would only see counselors HE picked. Which were basically only ones from the church. (Except for one). Never keeps promises about the relationship. Crosses boundaries. Oh! And he said he wanted me on nothing but prescribed 0pi0ids (even though I’m in recovery) than utilizing cannabis (which is not something that’s addictive). That was also a “rule” to live with him. Give up my pain control option to take a cannabis pill that does exist here. He knew that. Also caught him on 18 year old teen boy p0rn site once. And uses honestly as a weapon. Lies without lying.
Kirk Calabrese from Everett, WA. He is a pathological liar that will tell you that he wants a serious relationship with you. He will lovebomb you and make you feel as if you are the most important and most special woman in the world! He will make you feel like a queen and you will begin to ask yourself “wow… is this TOO GOOD to be true?” And YES girl, it is. He will text you back and forth throughout the day for days on end making you feel very special and pursued. He will tell you that he misses you and can’t wait to hold you in his arms… but here is the kicker: he only wants to sleep with you. As soon as he gets that, he will suddenly text you less until he ghosts you altogether… and then reach out again 2-3 weeks later with some story that seems believable and since he’s back to the lovebombing stage again you’ll let down your guard and decide to give him a second chance. He is so convincing! He will look you in the eye and straight up LIE about his intentions. He told me that he couldn’t stop thinking about me, that he missed our connection and chemistry.. that he wanted to go out on a gym date again (to which I agreed to go) but we never went on a follow up gym date because deep down all he wanted was for me to come over to his place for a “movie” night to love on me and caress me in order for me to let down my guard and agree to let him hit it again. I didn’t let him have s3x with me a second time because something told me that he would just ghost me again. We even talked about it! I made him promise that he wouldn’t do that ghosting shit again but he did. The texts went from 200+ per day to 5 or less texts. He avoided responding to my questions asking “When can we do a gym date again?” “When can I see you again?” He told me in person that he wanted to be MY man and for me to be HIS girl. He wanted us to be together and spend all 2023 together… looking back he only said all that in hopes that I’ll give it up again. But I’m glad that I didn’t because dude is a jerk. I called him out in his switching up behavior and he basically told me off (guess that asking him to keep up the consistency and communication was “asking for too much”) and blocked me. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he is a master manipulator and emotional predator. He KNEW I had a good heart and very loving spirit and he took advantage of that. I don’t want that to happen to anybody else so I’m reporting him on here. Stay safe out there! He is on Tinder and Hinge and goes by the name “Khali” which he said was his middle name but I cannot confirm or deny. He works for Google and has two sons and is apparently divorced but for all I know he could have still been married or with the mother. No way to know. He also bad mouthed the mother of his children on a few occasions. I’m starting to think that she probably left him because of his inconsistent behavior and pathological lies. He will be charming and so sweet but don’t trust him!!! Run!!
Jim from Los Angeles. Get out before it’s too late. He is a devil in a great disguise.
Zane Dockery from Murphy, North Carolina. He attached a remote access trojan to photos he sent me of us after I broke up with him. This meant he was able to remote into my computer, moving the cursor while I was on it, backspacing while I type, getting on websites, opening programs on my computer and eventually damaging the computer to the point it would never turn on again which cost me a $2000 laptop. It didn’t stop there.
Years later after I broke up with him decided he was going to try and hunt me down. At that point I had already deleted all my social media because I was so creeped out by the remote access trojan he used to remote access my computer before and crashed it, but he found my professional website I use for work listed under my name.
He decided to attack my website (years later) and posted derogatory photos, a username with my bank account number, and a phishing link to a fake twitter profile he made to get my passwords. The next morning I woke up to my professional email being hacked and my cell phone booting up in recovery mode.
When I set up extra security for my website, he changed his servers to be hosted on the same platform and attempted to hack it again hundreds of times per day for the following 4 months. Instead of enjoying Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years with my family I had to worry about being hacked again by this person. Now here is where it gets CREEPY:
He would wait until I was either taking a shower, away from my computer, going to the bathroom, or not home to try attacking the website according to my logs. Meaning he was either monitoring my home wifi network or set up hidden cameras in my apartment.
I use a tool called Wireshark and found the ip address connected to one of his servers connecting to my wifi at least once, which is creepy considering we have not spoken in several years (would still be creepy regardless). He continues to attempt to hack my website unsuccessfully to this day, which is not only annoying but should be a red flag to anyone considering getting involved with him.
He will not leave me alone years later and uses the power of wifi, my professional website I use for work, and the internet to torment me daily several years later. Oh, and he is also nearly 40 years old and lives with his mom. Hacking my bank account, professional website, professional email, monitoring my wifi, and still he continues to attack the website — not only childish, but just wrong ESPECIALLY years later after we dated. Do not go out with this guy EVER and more importantly, do not trust him. EVER.
Theodore Teddy mark Taylor from Auckland, New Zealand. Theo aka Teddy chatted with me online initially. He was the perfect gentleman- said everything I wanted to hear seamlessly. He was always throwing his low number of 3 girls prior to me. Thst he only likes to be intimate with someone he’s close to. And he’s looking for the one and doesn’t want to sleep around. His photos are very handsome –
But then we met- and before that I find out he has severe anxieties and dark thoughts – I find out his low number is because he has pre 3jaculat1on problems aka doesn’t last for more than 20 seconds. So he is not pr0miscu0us because he’s insecure – not because he’s a perfect gentleman- he also has an obsession with young girls- he’s a total groomer – he also kept staring at girls while we were together –
He is very superficial. He wants to virtue signal what he thinks is pure and “good” but to his core he is negative, superficial and a poor communicator-
It all went to hell when he was acting suspicious and started making weird comments about bisexuality and wearing women’s garments. I was mean to him when we broke up because after saying ge loved me- he said he never loved me and just cut me out – then he quit his job trying to sue his boss because he wasn’t being favored by him anymore- he always said his boss was secretly gay and wanted him – that was another weird nightmare- I messaged his boss spilling beans
All I gotta say is that he’s a sociopath with major border personality disorders – I believe in sisterhood – after thinking about what I went through – feeling like I can’t trust my own judgement with men. Crying, feeling bad for telling him off etc. I’ve concluded that it’s important for me to share story so the next girl knows she’s not alone and can reach out to me anytime.
Teddy needs major help. He currently uses a rag he sniffs to relax – but he needs to actually get intensive treatment. I’ve never been scammed so intricately in my life – but he’s not very smart – so he can’t really escape his illusions – he’s got severe OCD so he can fixate on things long enough to get stuff done.
He was great at finance because he was at work 12 hour days from a previous heartache where girlfriend told me “he doesn’t respect boundaries”
Anyway- he’s really scrawny in real life and cannot relax. He’s severely codependent and preys on someone else to be his sniffy rag in human form. Unless you’re just looking to settle, I’d run. He isn’t man enough to depend on in tricky situations – his parents are severely anxious too and religiously fanatics that are judgemental
Anyways feel free to contact me anytime. And Theo if you’re reading this – you owe me an apology !
Dustin Dalton from West Monroe, Louisiana. Be careful ladies. This is Dustin Dalton age 35 from West Monroe Louisiana. We works and spends most his time in Midland because of the oil field. So I met this guy on FB dating. He seemed nice. We started talking. He went into victim mode talking about how his wife of ten years cheated on him and left him for his best friend. Talked about an ex gf and how she was talking to her ex behind his back so he broke it off. Then he started disappearing and getting distant. He swore it was depression and because he was so busy with work. We had a date where he talked about all his exes. He really made me think we were talking then he ghosted me twice over what he claimed was depression. I didn’t understand it because of how he kind of started treating me. So I texted his ex gf to see if she experienced the same thing with him. I was worried about him and thought he might be a narcissist. Come to find out, she wasn’t his ex. He was still with her and talking to me. Why he probably disappeared. Now we both know about each other. And why he probably ghosted me.
Sina Jason Taghizadeh from Atlanta, GA. I saw the other girl’s post about this guy name Sina Jason Taghizadeh so I decided to share my story here. I dated this guy for almost 2 years from 12/2020 to 11/2022. He is the most disrespected person that I have ever met. When I was suffered to deal with the car accident that I had on the way back home from his place, he went cheat on me with other girl. The accident was in April 2022. Same month April, he asked me to take him out to a fancy steak house for his birthday. I paid for his dinner. I am a cool girl so I didn’t mind. I treated him the way that I expected to be treated. I also gifted him the nice golf clubs on his last birthday. I gave his mom nice flower bouquet any occasions. However, I was completely mistreated by him. He is very cheap too. Past 2 years, he never bought me a gift. He took me out couple times and he used the coupon to pay for dinner. In October, he got fired from his job. I was there for him. I cared about him and made sure he was not a lone during his tough time. I bought him a LV wallet on my trip to make him feel special. A day after I gave him the LV wallet, I found out out he cheated on me for months. I dumped him. He is very selfish. He loves no one but himself. He is very disrespectful. I found out He used 3 dating apps for hooking up with girls. He lied to me so much. He is also master of manipulation. He brain washed me. Lately, I talked to two other girls who dated him on and off since college. I found out that he strings women along but won’t commit. He only wants them around for s*x and company. Narcissist. Girls are just object. Those 2 girls who dated him on and off since college. They are now around 30 and continues hooking up with him. There would be more but I decided to stop my investigation. He is definitely a very bad person. He is the worse human being. His parents had not raised him well. If you have even seen his name, please run fast.
Robert Alvarez from Jackson, MN. My ex-boyfriend is a serial cheater. I was with him for 6 years. I found out a year ago he had cheated on me with three other women. I decided to forgive him because the pain of leaving was too much to bear and basically the cat was out of the bag, so I imagined he wouldn’t try again. Come Christmas Day 2022, I drive over to his place to pick up my dog, because he was doggy-sitting her overnight. In his driveway is a silver Kia Soul that I don’t recognize. I figured maybe it was his friend Luke’s car since he did say he was going to do Xmas with him, but I’m suspicious. I walk into his house as he’s coming down the stairs, he looks shocked. He grabs my arm and says “don’t start this,” I pull away and run upstairs to his room to find a naked woman in his bed! I’ve spoken to his ex-wife, and she told me he constantly cheated on her as well, as well as giving her an STD. So this man is NEVER to be trusted and every woman should stay their distance.
Jesse Jones from Rosedale, Maryland. Cheated on me with multiple people (without their knowledge). Cheated on every partner he’s had for the past 20 years having unprotected s3x with all of them. He also tried to get married people to cheat on their spouses with him (sometimes successfully). Shared hundreds of private intimate pictures & videos of dozens of women against their consent. Used women for housing & food. Chronic liar. He gets very mean when you try to hold him accountable. Emotionally abusive & manipulative, and blames you for his flaws. So much gaslighting. He has a hair trigger for feeling criticized when trying to resolve conflict and becomes defensive, goes into protective mode and loses all empathy for his partner in the moment, lashes out and says extremely hurtful things.
I was talking to one of the other women Jesse cheated on (yes, we’ve basically formed a club because if nothing else, Jesse has great taste in women!). We were talking about how helpful it had been to be able to connect with the others for support to heal after the trauma caused by Jesse. It reminded me to come back to this post and see if anyone else impacted wants to join “The Club”.
I’m not sure what that says about me, but what Jesse did to me and others was terribly damaging, and I’d like to help prevent others from going through it or help them recover from it.
While I’m here, I may as well add some more context to my first post as it barely touched the tip of the iceberg. The highlights are
1) chronically distributing intimate media without consent.
2) sexual contact without consent (we call that assault)
3) Lies about taking his STD medication
4) owing you money & not paying you back
5) Serial infidelity (without condoms, no less, exposing women to more STDs)
Four of those are punishable by law and the fifth is punishable if in the military. All are objectively considered morally wrong.
1) Illegally distributing intimate media without consent
Several partners have reached back out to him to AGAIN tell him that he doesn’t have their permission to share intimate photos/videos of them. But he keeps doing it. And if you suggest that he deletes them, he becomes indignant. He feels entitled to the photos. If you received any photos of us or any other woman, I can almost guarantee he did NOT have consent.
2) Sexual Assault
This was a one-off. In general, I don’t think his character defects include sexual assault, but it does include pushing boundaries. I think he felt this was a boundary he could push and that I’d “give in”.
I hadn’t had sex with him for a few months at that point, because he had an outbreak of some sort on his penis & refused to get it tested but presumed that it was genital herpes or genital warts. I had repeatedly said for months that in no uncertain terms would I have any sexual contact with him that would put my sexual health at risk until he was tested.
We had recently broken up & he hadn’t moved out yet. I sleep naked and was laying in bed. I was still awake but facing away and it looked like I was sleeping. He then tried to penetrate me, literally behind my back. I blocked his sexual attempt just before his genitalia would have contacted mine, but froze and didn’t bring it up until the next day. He immediately insisted that he never tried to penetrate me. Then when I went into exact detail covering what he did, he switched tactics and said that I “blurred the lines”, so he thought I wanted it. He went from gaslighting to victim-blaming in the blink of an eye.
3) Stealthing
Sexual health is EXTREMELY important to me. I wouldn’t have any sexual contact with him until we’d taken STD tests & exchanged results. He had a viral STD that can be suppressed with daily medication. I said I would ONLY have sexual contact with him if he took the medication. I even waited 10 days until after he started the medication. He often stopped taking the medication for weeks at a time without informing me. My extreme care for sexual health makes it all the more infuriating that he cheated so damn much.
4) Not paying debts
Jesse is really challenged with money management. Even when he made a very, very good salary he was living paycheck to paycheck. I lent him money several times. Once was to cover his child support payment. He set expectations that he would pay it back in a few days. He then lied for about 3 weeks about the status of the money, saying that his boss didn’t have the money to pay him. He kept setting new expectations that his boss promised to pay him in a couple of days. In reality, he never turned in his timesheet for work for 3 weeks. As of right now, he still owes me $900. (and that’s not counting it all)
And he was around 5k behind in his child support when our relationship ended.
5) Serial Cheating
He cheated on me with multiple people. And he has cheated on every single relationship since at least 2017 (including cheating on his ex-wife), which means cheating on probably a dozen or more women in 4 years. The cheating took different forms. When he cheated on me, he told others that I was polyamorous (which I’m not. We had an agreement on monogamy) or just didn’t tell them about me at all.
He had a polyamorous partner whose condition was to inform if/when they got new partners and that he would wear condoms with everyone other than her. Not only did he not wear condoms with ANYONE else, but he also frequently lied & said he wasn’t sleeping with others. Except for the time that he created an entirely fictitious woman that he said he was having amazing sex with, to try to make the polyamorous woman jealous because he was struggling with her being poly.
In one long-term relationship, he was crossing boundaries with a (married) coworker and was frequenting tinder. After the ended their relationship, they transitioned to a FWB status. Her boundary was that once he was intimate with others, their FWB status would immediately end. He was intimate with many others (of course, without condoms) and lied to her to continue having sex with her. He was also lying to the other some of the women he was sleeping with at the same time, about not sleeping with anyone else. She found out many months later and was really upset. Eventually, she agreed to resume a FWB status with him. But her boundary was that he MUST wear condoms with others. He agreed, but never used condoms with others. At that time, he was even sleeping with a woman who he had a “monogamous” agreement relationship with and another that he had a poly agreement with AND trying to get the original poly woman back that he’d tried to make jealous with the tale of fictitious lover. He was also surreptitiously on dating apps when in all of his “monogamous” relationships (except with mine). I’m actually leaving out several people here because it just gets too confusing to explain it all without names. Oh, and he’s targeted several married people and convinced some of them to cheat on their spouses with him.
With me, there was about 6 people he crossed boundaries with.
1. While I was waiting for his STD results & for his suppressive medicine to become effective, he was sleeping with one of his previous partners. He was covering it up by saying he was spending time with his daughter. He was living with me at that point and we had absolutely defined it as monogamous. The other woman didn’t know about me. Actually, the first time we had sex was because he came home from spending time with her and was mad that she hadn’t been in the mood for sex with him that night.
2. He also resumed a relationship with a married woman.
3. He accidentally texted one a tinder contact with the same first name as me in a group chat with his family….the family group chat was about inviting me over to meet his family for the first time during the holidays. Once he realized his mistake, he continued the conversation with her privately and tried to sleep with her, but their kinks didn’t match up so he dropped it.
4. He went to a customer’s house (who he didn’t know) and started sexting with him and exchanging dick pics and escalating the conversation.
5. He went to a former poly’s lover’s house without telling me they were previously involved, and he let her assume I was also poly, but I can’t confirm if anything else inappropriate happened between them.
6. He was exchanging intimate pics and sexually charged conversations with a former FWB. I don’t know if they actually met up or not though. He says they didn’t.
ALL of this cheating happened within a 2 month period. SIX OTHER PEOPLE in a supposedly monogamous relationship IN TWO MONTH’S TIME.
When I found out, he said it was because he felt he couldn’t be in a monogamous relationship with me. When pressed why, he said it was because he wasn’t attracted to my stomach (among other things). That may be the case (I’m fairly fit & regularly work out but I’m sure I’m not everyone’s cup of tea). But even if that was true, then don’t sleep with me at all. Don’t live in my house without paying rent or utilities. Don’t eat my food without ever buying any groceries. And mind you, when we first got together, he told me how lucky he was that I was such an amazing person and the fact that he found me so beautiful on the outside as well was just a bonus. He’d seen me naked at that point. And he was already cheating on me before we’d even had sex for the first time. In short, he was trying to make me feel bad about my body to shift the blame away from him. The sad thing is it worked. He was so good at being manipulating, that I went into a “pick me” state and wanted to improve myself to be good enough for him. Yes, writing that is so cringy and hard to believe I ever let someone do that to me.
USING WOMEN FOR HOUSING
That’s a great segway to how he lives with his mom and HATES living there. So, he looks for women who have houses and love bombs them so effectively, but with the art of leaning in and leaning out, so that the woman is practically begging for him to come over and spend time at her house. He will make you feel so valued and loved and special and beautiful. He will see and celebrate the things deep down that you feel no one else sees and you may think that you finally found a safe person that sees how good of a person you are. He will also say ALL the things you need to feel 100% safe. He will get consent for everything and ensure that all of your boundaries feel respected.
He will absolutely throw every possible green flag with sexual spoiling, doing errands, chores around the house, doing construction projects, etc to make him seem like such an asset to have around. And then he will practically (if not outright) somehow end up living there, even if you didn’t discuss it.
None of this lasts, but will resurface from time to time….sometimes when he needs to get back into good favor and at other times because it may be the good in him that is genuinely showing through.
I’m tired. I’ll come back on another day to resume…..because oh yes, there’s more!
John J Stich from Minneapolis, MN. He is 57 yrs old…never been married. I am truly embarrassed to say that I have went out with this man on & off for the past 30 yrs. He is never faithful to anyone he dates…he always keeps the door open to his ex’s. I was never supposed to question that…even after catching him dating 3 other besides me & he had the nerve to tell I was the alpa. He’s extremely manipulative…the whole world is always against him. You just have to listen carefully when talks & you will realize that when he talks about past relationships…he always blames it on the woman. He loves to try & belittle the women he is a relationship with. He’s an alcoholic that drinks Captain Morgan’s & Diet Coke every day…from the time he gets off(before he quit his job (10/30/22)work until he goes to bed & on the weekend- all day long. He also spends a lot of money buying Adderall.
Last, but not least…he was obsessed with trying to get me to have a threesome with me…constantly searching the web for female escorts. I finally had enough.
Hunter Mahoney from Peabody/Lynn Massachusetts. My ex, 23 y/o Hunter Mahoney of Lynn/Peabody Massachusetts, dated me when I was 17/18 years old. He humiliated me by manipulating me, cheating on me, screaming at me, putting his hands on me… On 12/6/22 Hunter decided to post photos of me when I was 17 years old on a public website. Photos of my body and my full face. People commented my name under the photos and soon people found me on social media. I had to change my name on the internet. I got my LTC. Hunter, I am not afraid of you.
William (Bill) Gleason II from Myrtle Beach South Carolina. Bill was married for over 20 years and he divorced his wife to be with me (I found this out later). He had told me that he was single. She told me that he was an abuser but I thought that she was just bitter. It started out with a harsh word or gaslighting at first and then a push and finally in the year and a half I was with him, he locked me in closets, took me away from my family and friends and made me record stuff to make him look better in court when I was leaving him. He did not allow me to have any money and I was only allowed to move off the couch when he allowed me too. He is crazy and he abused his sons too. He is a controlling narcissist and it took me a year of counseling to be able to shower on my own. He rap3d me repeatedly and is very sadistic. I still cannot breath when I see someone with the same car that he drove and it has been 5 years since I left in the middle of the night with the clothes on my back
Carl Reiter from Sequim, Washington. He’s looking for money. Someone he can p1mp out like his soon to be ex-wife who is a general doctor in town. He talks all about people he gave her to. He tells all of these bad things she did.
So expect him to do the same to you. Also expect him to need to talk about the model and anything that lets him do typical narcissist behaviors, to come up often. He just wants someone to shove large butt p1ugs up his butt again and again.
He’ll say he cares about your needs, but soon it is obvious that he only does that to get the focus right back on himself. And he wants you to have a lot of money and self esteem issues so he can continue his parasitic lifestyle. He did jail time and it shows. That’s probably where his butt p1unging need and the idea of how to milk his ex wife for everything he can, came from. He pretends to be much more than he is. He has a degree and it’s the lowest degree in a different area than he claims. He’s full of absolute sh1t. He cheated on his wife repeatedly and he’ll cheat on you too. Everything he has is because of his wealthy ex wife. He’s a drug pushing g1gal0. Run.
Do your research and Run!
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Carl Reiter, Sequim WA: this man is on dating sites looking for his next victim. He’s not even divorced yet, but his ads say he’s single and divorced. His wife comes from an affluent family and she’s finally sick of his narcissistic abuses and moved out and wants a divorce.
This guy is a major predator.
He uses multiple aliases. He’s looking for someone he can sponge off of. He pimped out wife financially and s3xua11y. Now he’s telling everyone bad shit about her, while he keeps looking for another woman he can do the same thing too. He’s targeting his next mark. He promises things without any plans of actually doing them. He even brags about having this MO.
He will do anything he wants and pretend like it was your idea, he’s a master manipulator! At one point he moved another woman in with them and used them both to plunge his hungry butt hole.
All this man really wants is someone to constantly shove butt p1ugs in and out and up his butt, and pretend like it is a normal thing to demand all the time. He did some jail time and it shows in all of the abusive things he says and does.
He wanted to put a collar on me at the beginning and he played all sorts of mean narcissistic games. He’s God and you are a means to an end. Anything he says or does is excused and he will make up lies about you too. Do your research and RUN!! He doesn’t have any special degree, he’s been a parasite on his wife for their entire marriage. He has spent 20yrs pretending to be an artist, or a physicist or an IT specialist. He had a business that his wife helped him build and when he got her making even more money for him, he quit his company and has played around like the ex-con he is.
He’s your quintessential narcissistic criminal con artist. Using her and everyone he comes in contact with to get what he wants. He then discards you, unless you might come in handy later, then he’ll keep up appearances just in case.
This man goes around collecting a jar of hearts. He has had other lovers close by for years and sees a d0m1natr1x in Seattle regularly.
This guy will say all the right things and gut you when you least expect it. He doesn’t want love or a relationship. He wants someone he can use and discard, depending on how long he thinks he can suck the life out of you and fly under the radar.
He’s a Serial Abuser who should still be in jail. He’s been selling and using drugs for years. People are easier to control and fool that way. He’ll drug you without your consent and then blame you for whatever happens. If you died, he would find a way to blame that on you also!
He will try to get you to say things to people that he is orchestrating to achieve some plot he is hatching.
He always has a plan. He has been preying on you from the beginning and you need to realize he’s a criminal and he has been his whole life and that isn’t going to ever change. He’ll make you suicidal and then convince everyone that you were damaged goods from the beginning (aka not his fault)
If you are one of the many, don’t wait until he destroys you to get what he wants.
RUN Forest RUN!!
Carl Reiter aka Carl Smith is a Sequim Washington predator and criminal. He has a butt buddy that he hired to work for him and live with him and so drugs with him. A young guy his daughter’s age. When you know he did jail time and looks for butt buddies in the construction field, so he can hide that he’s paying for male pr0stitutes, you suddenly look at the crazy waterfall his wife paid for differently. Poor woman. How embarrassed she must be to have married a con artist who uses everyone to get what he wants. She gave him drug prescriptions and he went out and got more, and he gets drugs off the street and at port.
He’s crazy and he’s dangerous. He likes to dress up like a woman. He uses things he learned in prison to be a soul sucker.
And he looks like the pillsbury dough boy. Poppin Fresh! HaHaHa
He’s a loser failure that thinks he’s Mr. wonderful.
Andre Parker from Baltimore, Maryland. Where do I begin with this dude. He’s a sneaky and manipulative jcaka55 who loves stealing overtime on the tax payers dime. He’s laid in bed with me on several occasions while still being in the clock and I live nowhere near Baltimore, so he has no intentions on working…at least not for the people struggling in that city. He uses an app on his phone to clock in and out, so he can freely come and go as he pleases and I’m talking 50-60-70 hour weeks. Ladies he is a married man of 15 years, with two small children. How did I come to find all this out? Well in June of 2020, he reached out to me on a dating app (Match) and asked for a date. Mind you my profile stated I didn’t want anymore kids, and didn’t want to date anyone with small kids…so what did he say on his profile? He’s single with no children! After dating for a few months, I found out in December of that year he was married. He finally admitted to it after being caught but still didn’t mention he had kids. How disgusting right??? I continued to pursue our relationship, stupidly believing this woman was horrible to him, abused him physically and berated and emasculated him as a man. He stated he was leaving, he was no longer in love, got married to young, was only trying to emulate what his father thought was the right thing to do and because he thought that’s what a man does and felt pressured by her. Push forwards to 4 months later and here we are talking about marriage and moving in and he needs to tell me something…he has two kids (10&13) that he was ashamed to tell me about. I was floored!! 1, that a man could hide children but 2, could deny having kids! HIS OWN FLESH AND BLOOD!!! I should have known right then and there this man was mentally unstable!!! I was completely disgusted and his reason as to WHY he did this??? He saw I didn’t want kids and didn’t want to date a man with small kids, so he decided to lie about it!! He also decided to share with me recently the number of women he used while on the Match app pretending to be looking for love and wanting a serious relationship.. 45 WOMEN!!! He manipulated and used 45 women for his sick pleasures because he was unhappy in his marriage. These 45 women didn’t deserve the trauma or hurt he gave! Seems like a huge secret right??? BUT WAIT THERE’S MORE!!! This man is a sadist!! A complete narcissist with no conscious of other peoples feelings! In an attempt to keep me around, he has created fake text messages, pretending to be his wife, where he would tell her/himself he’s leaving, he’s in love with me, he is no longer in love with her, he was moving in with me, and was finally going to do right by me!! Can you imagine texting yourself, SEVERAL TIMES A DAY, FOR MONTHS to pretend to end your marriage??? He planned to trips with me, the first one he broke up with me right before and the second made the reservation and then canceled the deposit right after!! I would leave him, and engage in dating and moving on and he would come ruin all of that with telling me he’s moving in, he’s in love with me, she knows how much he wants to be with just me, and IT WOULD ALL BE A LIE!! He just didn’t want me with anyone else! He did this to me several times over!! So much I can’t even count. Just this past month, he has been sleeping with me unprotected, along with his wife and who knows else!!! We had s*x everyday and according to her so did they! He would sleep here all day and then go to work, once he got off would go sleep with her, spend time with his kids and be to me by 9 am. He had his location shared with me and her indefinitely but would leave his phone at work overnight so it showed his office, while being in bed with her or being in bed with me. Fcuking EVIL!!! He still uses the Match app, but said it’s only to monitor my account. He uses Facebook and IG to stalk me as well, so he says which is likely a lie to! He uses God with his wife, lies about therapy and even his kid caught him on Match, which he denied calling his own son a liar. I’m sick of his sh1t! He’s a wh0r3, hiding behind being a Godly man, his church and his narcissistic ways!!! Ladies please beware of this man!!! He will use you up, manipulate the hell out of you and break your heart!! He’s disgusting and should be treated like the s1ut he is!!!
Leroy Button from Port Republic, MD. Married, = wife #3. A single mom w/son half Hispanic & on Autism spectrum. Ex- had 3 sons from 1st wife. All ended up in jail. Ex: racist, illiterate, emotionally abusive. Wouldn’t let me go to crying son at night. Ex was JEALOUS of my baby. I saw 3 different priests who all said run don’t walk away. 6 months after wedding, I moved out. Weirdest habit of his? He had to watch me while he *used the restroom*. Creepy.
Kevin C. Carrico from Royal Oak, Michigan. This man will LOVE BOMB you- met on a dating site, 2021: mix and « M ____ »; he proceeded to declare his undying love for me, asked for my hand in marriage from my dying grandparent; proclaimed he was financially suited to support a wife, family, kids, etc….Drove down to « visit » me from Detroit, Michigan, and basically squatted at my home for four and a half months, claiming he wanted to marry me, procreate, move in, etc. ALL LIES…. Turns out he is DEAD broke; has accumulated liens, jugements on the pathetic home he owns- although he claimed he would put it on the market asap….yet never did. Then broke up w/me via Text, with an absurd excuse….all bc he could not admit he could not sell his home due to his owing more on it than he had, fiscally- This man broke my heart — caveat emptor – buyer beware….He is circa 58; claims he has a « sleep disorder » and sucked me into a whirlwind of pain and hurt I did not deserve, nor need!!! In my idiocy, I failed to see the multiple red flags when he claimed he had never had a s*x life nor girlfriend for past 30 plus years….(I know! But he is super smart and he made me feel like I was his queen- even invoked specific scriptures to trick me….)
Cowardly- went from « we’re getting married « i can no longer move forward unless you do x ». I said, « HECK NO! ». He never came across as a malevolent person until i started realizing all of the gas lighting and lies he told me. SAD SAD SAD. Thank God, I’ve moved on to a stable, rock solid, worthy man whom fits what i was seeking originally….Be forewarned: this 57-8 year old is a TiMeWaStE!!! He squatted at my home for months; never offered to pay a single bill; and deceived me and my family — for what? Let’s just say it could NOT have been about his wanting s*x….eck! Be wary of men who tell you you are the ONE, then ghost you after their marital proposals come to naught….
I am ashamed of myself for ever allowing this creep into my life.
Claims to be a Director, cinematographer, Creative photo genius, CAD expert, etc…in hindsight- I’m not even sure he ever had any jobs — and his hook was to constantly brag about his famous friend….from a band that was popular circa 2002…and I often wondered if he was in love with this guy, as he talked about him daily!!
BEWARE- bald, bad teeth, overweight, broke, needs pharmacological assistance with intimacy….NO $$$$$$$$$$$$! Zéro integrity! Claims he is all ab God- complete liar……
HUGE LOSER!
Uses name « Kev »
Clint Stanley Collins from Wellington New Zealand. A friend of mine dated this guy for a few years. She had been warned against him by her work colleagues that knew him but she didn’t listen. Unfortunately she learned the hard way. Narcissistic, manipulative, physical, se*ual and mental abuser. Huge Daddy issues from a young age. He is a bully and will not think twice about cheating- usually with pr0st1tut3s (confirmed by work colleagues) He is a bed wetter and suffers PE. He loves to disrespect you and others by taking out his *genitalia* in public, or getting an 3r3ct1on for other women in your company. He is a predator, will come across as charming and how much he cares about his children. (He won’t tell you he has been arrested for abuse twice on previous partners and has been questioned for abuse on his children too, some of his work colleagues knew this too. He is a compulsive liar and will make out he is a victim. He will talk to you for hours and hours to find out your weaknesses and over time will use them against you. He will then chip away to make you feel like you need him or you feel sorry for him and want to help. He gets horribly drunk and becomes abusive, he has a foul mouth and will treat you like dirt but not until he has you hooked. The truth is he is a terrible person. He tells lies about his past which is quite dark. He is racist and misogynistic but that won’t come out at first. This guy is bad news, do not fall for his lies, initial generosity and sob story about what has been done to him. In public he will come across as the life and soul of the party and offer to buy everyone drinks etc. He comes across as a really nice guy and likes to be Centre of attention. He will talk to you like a best female girl friend, you will think wow not many guys care like this- this is all part of his game. Do not let him in. And if you have children , run a mile the damage he can do is irreversible. He has the ability to put up a pretense for several months, he plays the long game to get you to a point he controls you. Walk away if you meet this guy.
Daniel Haren Jr from North Canton, OH. Extremely handsome, funny, charismatic. Has an ex wife he cheated on multiple times, brags about it. Will cheat on you the moment things turn sour, before communicating with you that he is unhappy. He vehemently despises strong women, so the moment you stand up for yourself, he will call you a stupid feminist, and yell over you so that you can’t speak your mind. He treats his mother poorly. He is verbally and emotionally abusive, is threatened by a woman being smarter than him, and is so unhappy in his own skin that it trickles down to anyone who is positive in his life. The s*x is great but he’s not worth the trouble, no matter how good his initial intentions may be.
Lachlan Gonzalez from Brooklyn NY. Lock cheated on me more times than I even know about during our years together. He manipulates women for financial support (housing, gifts, free drugs) and sleeps with everyone, does not use protection, lies about his se*ual health and habits, and while he sleeps with older women a lot he has an attraction to underage girls. he is charming, talented, and good looking and knows how to use it to his advantage. It will take me years to recover from everything he did to me.
Corey Hills from Springdale, AR. Avoid at all costs. He is a charmer and good looking that will promise you the world and say and do things to make it appear he is a good guy. Behind your back he is on every dating site known to man and I have seen with my own eyes him chatting and meeting up with random woman on a daily basis. He has left me financially broke, taken advantage of everything possible mentally, physically. After catching him cheating I gave a second chance. We talked n was going to give it another go and of course had a very intense night out…he did and said everything right and me thinking he was going to change…dropped me off and not even 3 hours later was on POF, and meetup and then I saw he was driving an hour away, weird so I called him… he said he was dashing which I knew he was lying to my face and acting all sweet saying he was going to come over next day and hang out etc.. so I hung up sick to my stomach and I texted him and basically called him out cause I knew the house he was at cause I looked up the address and his response was “you been keeping tabs on me since day one and I’m tired of u accusing me of cheating and I won’t put up with it” he clearly is a user and abuser…serial cheater… doesn’t care who he hurts or the wake he leaves. I hope this helps to stop even one person from his path..it’s pure evil
Adam Buklis from Addison, Illinois. I was with Adam for 7 years. In the those years, I was horribly psychologically abused. I believe he has narcissistic personality disorder. It began with weird disrespect, throwing my towel on the floor, etc. Progressed to yelling, slamming doors, name calling. Then onto breaking things; walls, the kitchen table, ran over my phone, etc. Then physical abuse. Dragging me down the hall, kicking me, choking me, literally telling me he was going to k*ll me. He once held a chef’s knife above his head, saying he was going to stab himself, but it was aimed at me. I grabbed the blade as it came down and screamed. Luckily he stopped, but my palms and fingers were cut. On multiple occasions I found him zooming in on pictures of female children in gymnastic photos, swimming, etc. They were students at his school ( he’s a sped teacher), so he claimed he was just innocently looking. But i saw what i saw. The final straw was the day after I found my 19 y.o. son deceased. I was horrifically traumatized, in unimaginable pain, and he said said ” I know how that feels” referring to the death of his father. If you have children, you know losing a parent vs losing a child are not remotely comparable. So, something in me snapped. I said, levely, no, you do not. Your father died of a heart attack, in his 40s, he was not a child. Adam’s response was to slam me into the pantry door, screaming horrific things, foul spittle landing on my face and glasses. This putrid monster deserves jail time. But alas, the police believed him when he told them I was hysterical because of my son’s passing. I mean, sh-t. It sounds believable, but it wasn’t true. The day I was supposed to leave, in my newly renovated camper, that he broke the door and unknown to me at the time, the axle, 1 week prior, he had his MOTHER whom I hated, call the police to try and get me committed. Something I would later find out she was telling my relatives at MY SON’S FUNERAL. Several people after this attempt to commit me, reported that she kept saying I should be “institutionalized.” They hadn’t wanted to upset me further at the time, so they just politely disagreed. Luckily the doctors saw through this lie, and I was released. For the next several years, he logged into my accounts, including my Netflix, where he watched movies on my SON’S account. He showed up at the cemetery, charged my account for Prime music, etc. Yeah. He’s VERY dangerous. Run.
Simon Stenberg from Darwin NT Australia. Simon (aka Martin) will pretend to be everything you are looking for! He will lie to your face constantly, gaslight you, act like a moron & constantly say:
“I dunno” when you ask him something after you caught him out in another lie. He also tells women he is divorced (he never divorced, even though his ex wife ran off with another man 10 yrs ago) He will tell you he OWNS his home, but the house is still under his wife’s name. He will say he has no bank accounts with the “ex” wife but she still sends sms telling him to pay off her credit card! He always hides his phone or turns it upside down and puts on silent because he is a weak, cowardly, lying piece of trash. Oh & he’s also an alcoholic who drinks 15 beers per day. Perfect guy!
Kyle Bomgardner from Sedona Arizona. He puts on a front and makes you believe he is who he seems. We dated for over a year. Throughout that time I started getting random texts asking to buy my bras, and underwear pics of a little *male genitalia* in underwear and asking for feminization and to share a bbc. It continued for a while infrequently things went south in our relationship and thru tracing the texts and talking to his other exes. it turns out he was the one sending the texts! It turns out the whole time he had been wearing ,taking pics and vids, of him wearing my bras, underwear, lingerie and not only that but riding my *fake male genitalia* and using my *vibrating toy*! WTF!? he was amazing in bed and other intimate ways I never would have guessed! Kyle Bomgardner is a small *male genitalia* *female underwear* wearing sissy! Ugh creep!
Eduardo Huerta from Laguna Niguel, CA. Eduardo goes by Eddie. He is in his 40’s, divorced with children. He is very charming and will make you feel like you have found the man of your dreams. He is successful and fun, which he uses to get his prey since he is not that attractive. He will eventually start to tear you down, make you feel bad and let you know you will never find a man that does the things he does for you. He is very narcissistic in all aspects of his life. He will tell you, you are the only one, talk about your future together while having multiple other women he is saying the same things to. Be careful, he has multiple intimate partners and will and has spread “things” amongst these partners.
My ex, 23 y/o Hunter Mahoney of Lynn/Peabody Massachusetts, dated me when I was 17/18 years old. He humiliated me by manipulating me cheating on me, screaming at me, putting his hands on me… On 12/6/22 Hunter decided to post photos of me when I was 17 years old on a public website. Photos of my body, of my face. People commented my name under the photos and soon people found me on social media. I had to change my name on the internet. I got my LTC. Hunter, I am not afraid of you.
Sayil suleiman from Amman jordan.
He gaslighted me and emotionally manipulative. He constantly degraded me and put me down with what he said to me. He compared me to other women and flirted with them in front of me. He rarely did anything for me. He always accused me of cheating when i think he was actually cheating. He lied most of the time. He love bombed me and invalidated my feelings. He told me he loved me and was into me. He gave me backhanded compliment, ” you sort of look pretty from here”. He was far away and then came back to the table. I would say hey you remember saying this and he would say i never said that and make me think i was crazy. He always threatened me with if you love me you would do this or that and saying if i didnt do something he would threaten to leave me. He told me he beat his wife. A month later he told me he was still married but seperated and that she cheated. I spoke with her and she said the same thing i say about him and what he does. He became distant and wouldnt answer my questions, ignoring my calls and texts and only pick up when its conveniant for him. He has a snapchat. He never introduced me to friends or family. He said he wanted a child with me but not marriage. He is an alcoholic and becomes angry. He is a narcassist and very insecure.
Eric Freda from Byram NJ. Eric Freda, 50, is an abusive human being and a cheater. He is a heavy drinker and likes to hit women. I checked his phone one night only to find out he has been sending unsolicited *genital* photos to many women on the internet. The photos and chats date back for YEARS! Several of the women tried to contact me via FB but Eric had blocked them on my phone without my knowledge. I only found out about this after I noticed an entire page of blocked accounts that I know I never blocked myself. After I unblocked them all I started getting messages and I was in shock. Eric has a four inch *genital* and apparently he gets off on showing it to random women. Most of the messages were of him holding a tape measure next to it asking “Is this big enough to ride”? There were even photos of him sleeping in my panties and stockings asking if the women weren’t into “men who wear women’s clothes”. Needless to say I was shocked and disgusted. The last 2 years we weren’t having *intimacy* because he couldn’t *get it up* and now I know why. It’s because the only thing that apparently gets him off these days is women mocking him. He is a disgusting pig and after I left him I made sure to let his entire family know of his depravities. I hope he dies alone.
Christopher r white mount upton New York age 40 is incredibly abusive in that he calls me names all the time, tells me I am ugly a whore a liar says things about my friends and family and threatens me. He has terrorized me with abusive texts that I am trying to find a place to post them so all women are warned about how horrible he is to be with. He constantly threatens to slash my tires and he smashed my television. He is also a cheater. He started cheating on me on thanksgiving. He is sleeping with some girl in unadilla ny and throwing it in my face. Women need to be warned of his constant narcissistic abuse.
The exact same thing happened to me. My ex was doing the same thing. I saw who he was following on Twitter. It was disgusting.
He could only spank his tiny useless lifeless monkey to skanks he didn’t know and didn’t care or could see he was an abusive loser.
Carl Reiter, Sequim WA: this man is on dating sites looking for his next victim. He’s not even divorced yet, but his ads say he’s single and divorced. His wife comes from an affluent family and she’s finally sick of his narcissistic abuses. He’s looking for someone he can sponge off of. He pimped her out and now he’s telling everyone bad shit about her, while he keeps looking for another woman he can do the same thing too. He even moved another woman in with them and used them both to plunge is hungry butt hole.
All this man wants is someone to constantly shove butt plugs up his butt and pretend like it is as normal thing to demand all the time. He did some jail time and it shows in all of the abusive things he says and does.
He wanted to put a collar on me at the beginning and he played all sorts of mean narcissistic games. He’s God and you are a means to an end. Anything he says or does is excused and he will make up lies about you too. Do your research and RUN!! He doesn’t have any special degree, he’s been a parasite on his wife for their entire marriage. He has spent 20yrs pretending to be an artist, or a physicist or an IT specialist. He had a business that his wife helped him build and when he got her making even more money for him, he quit his company and has played around like the ex-con he is. Using her and everyone he comes in contact with to get what he wants. He then discards you, unless you might come in handy later, then he’ll keep up appearances just in case.
This man goes around collecting a jar of hearts. He has had other lovers close by for years and sees a dominatrix in Seattle regularly.
This guy will say all the right things and gut you when you least expect it. He doesn’t want love or a relationship. He wants someone he can use and discard, depending on how long he thinks he can suck the life out of you and fly under the radar.
This is true. He buys and pushes drugs on everyone he dates. The police in town already know he’s not a good guy. He pretends to be nice and then he gets his god complex going and you find out that is who he really is. He secretly looks down on everyone while pretending he’s more important than he is.
He promises it all and then holds things against you that he has worse problems about and then disappears. Carl is a player. Until he want’s something from you again. Women are just things to be used. He can’t be trusted.
My ex also has a tiny manhood hahah. I showed pics to everyone.
Kashif Geathers from Portland, OR. Also lived in Vegas, originally from a Nashville, I think Clarksville. We dated for 3 months, talked about a future together. He wanted to meet my family, including my kids, he knew how big of a deal that was. Then after meeting my daughter, he did some shady stuff. Saying he is single because we hadn’t “defined” it yet. This man is 37 years old acting like a child. I found a female that was paying extra attention to him on fb and asked him about it. He got incredibly defensive and said he wanted to end our “friendship”. We spent all of our free time together, we expressed our deep feelings towards each other, and he spent the night with me EVERY night my kids were at their dads. That is not what I do with “friends”. So I tried to talk to him, in person or over the phone, and he would dodge my calls. He is such a coward he couldn’t even talk to me, had to do it all through text. The worst part is, he spent our entire time together telling me he is not like other guys, he would never play games, he is always truthful, a man of God. Ladies, he is slick, watch out for this one, he is a total hypocritical, childish, coward and doesn’t deserve anyone’s time.
I am unsure how to personally message you but I was curious what time frame y’all were talking? When was the last time he was at your house and such? Looking forward to hearing from you!
Did you have to deal with him too?
You still talk to this loser? I just went through the same with him
Aaron Beratta from Portland, OR. Aaron and I were actually married- for a whole year. He urinated on me for smoking on our front porch. Turns out he is a chronic cheater despite the fact that he will make you feel like you are the only woman in the world for him. He forgot that he put his email profile on my laptop and then signed up for AshleyMadison- a married person’s dating website. While he was asking for us to see a marriage counselor, he was carrying on an affair with another woman. He was bringing me flowers and showing up with lunch for me unexpectedly at work on a regular basis. All the while he was screwing someone else. We had a very healthy sex life, but when I called him to the table on his other woman- he said “you’re not giving me any pu$$y, so what was I supposed to do?” It had been two weeks since we had sex- and we were supposed to be working on our marriage. When he signed up for AshleyMadison it had only been 4 days since we’d had *intimacy*. He may be a *intimacy* addict- and he is definitely an alcoholic. He likes to pray on women who are interested in modern spiritualism and Reiki, body energy- etc. Stay clear if you love yourself ladies!
Ben Kelley form Boise, Idaho. This man is now in the Phoenix area. I was with him for 6 years, married for 2. He cheated on me throughout our entire relationship, then got a BJ from one of my “friends” while we were married. He has an untreated *intimacy* addiction and does not disclose his herpes status. (I had to learn that the hard way) Stay far away from this man. He is a master manipulator. He is incapable of love.
Henry D’angelo from Victoria. He won’t spend time with you, he’ll never even interact with you
Where do I begin. I have known Alex since before he joined the Air Force which he has since gotten out of. Alex is a 31yo man from MI who is a trainer and coach. I have maintained an on again off again relationship with him since. He is your classic narcissist. He promises you the world, talks about your future just to turn around and have multiple girls on the side. He has joked with me about when he needs to get rid of someone he just ghosts and blocks them and then convinces the new girl that they’re crazy. He will never ever ever ever be faithful to one person. EVER. He can’t do it. He might be ok for a few weeks or months but always slips back into cheating because he needs women to boost his tiny ego. I have been cheated on more times than I can count, but being the person I am always fell for his BS lies when he came crawling back. I have been able to blow up his spot a few times thanks to being observant on his social media, but have officially cut ties with him after finding out he had yet another girlfriend for the last year. Someone who unfortunately chooses to believe all of his lies even after I told her about the girl he was dating when he had just started dating her. The amount of women he recently admitted to sleeping with is disgusting. I have no idea where he finds them but I’m convinced he has to have an STI considering he hates condoms. I’ve considered reaching out to this new girl who he kept hidden from me after telling me how he wasn’t attracted to her, he was using her as an easy lay and officially dating her was the easiest way to do that and because appearance wise she just got worse looking, that that’s why he ended things months ago. He then goes on to tell me that I’m the only one he was talking to and sleeping with. Maybe I will reach out to this poor girl again. hopefully this post finds someone else he’s talking to, maybe her, or someone who knows her (L.L) and warns them before they get stuck in a never ending cycle. STAY AWAY. He has been cheating and getting away with it for almost a decade. 31 years old and still f-ing around like a horny teenager who can’t keep it in his pants. I’m not some crazy jealous ex, which is how he convinces his new targets to believe him, no one has that many crazy ex’s. I’m just someone who believes that girls need to be protected from this guy. If you have been dating him at all in 2022, he has cheated on you with me and I’m sure more women. You can’t change him, you haven’t won a prize by being the “girl he left someone for”, you have just been added to a long list of victims that he has been involved with. Reach out to other victims if you know them, I’m sure they’d have a lot to say.
What is his last name?
Jackson Aydon Nimmo from Palmerston North. This man Is a horrible boyfriend. In the 3 months that I dated him, he was abusive, cheated on me with his own sister AND BROTHER countless times. And every time he would put the blame on me. Not only that, but he also smelt like he just came out of a cow shed filled with fresh cow dung. 1/10, do not recommend dating. Only redeeming factor is, he knows his way around the female body, if you know what I mean ;). Overall, hate him. Stay strong sisters ;P
Darron Speyer from Byron Center, MI. Darron is a psychotically dangerous predator and pathological lying narcissist. He even took a test and agreed he has 9 out of 10 traits for narcissism and an equal qualification for OCPD, Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder.
He tries to keep in touch with or stalk former gfs while sleeping/traveling with his favorite current gf, always has a daily driver when his gf works or is busy, and is always shopping for new supply.
He looks for pretty, intelligent, strong women with good jobs, but are fresh out of a bad relationship and are in a temporary, needy chapter of their life. He plays James Bond and saves them. But the real threat they need to be saved from is HIM.
He love bombs, wisks them around in classic cars, takes them to his Florida condo, and then, in his own words, keeps them hooked by “feeding and f-ing” them.
He builds them up and then starts to criticize, then control what they eat, wear, what they can & can’t touch, and constantly compares them to the cherished one they lost. Then he does a lit of nice things and starts the devaluing cycle again and again. It forms a trauma bond.
Says he was Mr. Nice Guy to his last beloved gf, gave her everything, and she lived with him and left him 6 times for no apparent reasons.
Well, I found his daily dating journal. For the first 6 months he dated me and another woman named Denise, tried to get his ex back during our ENTIRE time together of 4 years. He had multiple dating profiles like mrniceguy and ilovetosmile, lied about his age, and was very hedgy about giving me his last name.
I didn’t see his house for 3 months. Thought maybe he was married. Found out years later it was because it was a filthy hoard. When I first saw it, it was impeccably clean, and he had a myriad of miserly rituals like I couldn’t use hot water to wash my hands, couldn’t untuck the bedding around my feet, he controlled food like cooking eggs in sets of 3’s or 6’s, don’t use too much TP, it was always freezing cold inside during the winter, I had to ask permission for a glass to use for water…the list is long. But not as long as his dozens of to-do lists all over.
We did have fun, *intimacy* was mind blowing, and he spent more personal time with me in the first 3 years than my ex did in 30. But every single good moment was broken by snide remarks, criticism, contempt, and blathering on and on about past girlfriends, cars, condos, griping about gas prices, and then me finding the damning journal.
So I have the the truth in his own handwriting which I made copies of. I also had an hour and a half long chat with his former girlfriend recently who is convinced he drugged her in a hotel when she said she didn’t want *to do it*. Woke up to bloody sheets and him saying she was drunk. Did the same crazy, controlling BS abuse to her and the one before her. I messaged with her.
After going no contact it’s been a mind bender to claw my way out of the brainwashing, gaslighting fog you fall under with guys like this. It is a verifiable addiction and that’s why it’s so hard to disengage from them.
If your gut says something’s not right, LISTEN TO IT. Then buy Lundy Bancfroft’s book, Why Does He Do That?
Carl Reiter Sequim, Washington 53 also does all of this! He is awful. After we broke up I went to the house, well outside the house. I quietly walked up the driveway and watched him and the woman he was with several evenings through the giant glass windows without curtains of course. He had her in one of those sex swings. He exploits women. He is a womanizer. He pretends he is an investor. The only thing he is investing is his wife’s hard earned money and her inheritance. He built a mountain of rubble with her money. He promises pipe dreams but his actions are all self indulgent manipulations by a predatory parasite. He’ll destroy you on purpose if he can get away with it.
Monster Alert!
Russell P Kelly from Moline IL. He cheats on everyone. His whatever she is over in Iowa is unaware he is cheating on her. He also has a married woman named Ashley he is umm screwing. He lied to me for sure since 2019 and he did it to break up me and the guy I was with then name of Clay. Then he tries to put the blame back on me and whomever else he can. I am back with Clay but I want to warn anyone who gets hit on if the guy is named Russell Kelly avoid him. He lies, cheats, cons. Some of the stories he comes up with are well, beyond or out of this world. Can we say narcissist? I was point blank told I am never to speak to anyone who knows him. And his family. I also would like the $700 he took from me and he has a key to my place. Avoid him. I am thinking he was the one I got the STI from.
Hunter / Tombs Woolsey from Bay Area, California. Abusive in every way except hurting you physically. Did not stop cheating on me for even one day, while we were in therapy. Will gaslight you about his cheating (often with the help of his mom) until you think he’s actually just poly, but he’s not. He won’t allow you to have partners and he will lie to both you and the other girls about his relationship status. He sold our house out from under me after ruining me financially, stole/got rid of all my things, rehomed our 3-legged cat without telling me or offering him to me because he “didn’t have time” but then immediately got a NEW CUTER cat, a hairless cat, which is like 3x the care of our cat.
I could go on for a whole book honestly. Every single scenario with this guy was THE worst case scenario. He will give you ptsd, leave you emotionally, s*xually, and financially ruined, and potentially homeless. Don’t make my mistake by telling yourself that someone this horrible couldn’t possibly exist, because he does. Don’t let him gaslight you or manipulate you with his million sob stories. He is a liar and a monster. There are also many, many women who will back this up who I am in contact with.
Michael Lister from Middlesbrough, England. He’s a cowardly bastard who spent the last three and a half years playing me over and over, breaking my heart more times than I care to count. He bilked me out of over £30,000 (about $33,000) which I used to pay off his debts because I wanted a fresh start with him and wanted to take away his fear and anxiety about being able to pay them off. He broke up with me over WhatsApp and didn’t even have the balls to talk to me face to face. He’s a cheat, a liar, a thief, and a gutless s***bag.
Elliot Russell from Belfast. History of emotional abuse. Narcissism and control.
Previously made fun of other girlfriends and boasted how he made fun of one for having a false eye. Was taken to court by this girl for a number of issues.
Will have a job when you first meet him and then later down the line will quit and expect you to pay for his rent, electric and gas…while simultaneously complaining at you for having no money. Please keep a separate account with secret money so you can get out of there should you choose to spend your time in a long term relationship.
Will shout and scream in your face ‘why won’t you do as I tell you?!’ And then text you the next day telling you he would never tell you what to do and everything your experiencing isn’t reality.
Will 100% cheat on you with either a random girl he meets at a party, or on occasion as admitted by himself he cheated on a previous ex with one of her best friends.
He’ll expect you to cook and clean for him while he has no job and will exclaim to you the house isn’t tidy or that he’s decided to become vegan and gluten free while out shopping on a super tight budget.
Throws things around the house like a child if you don’t specifically do something correctly…like set some biscuits down with his tea that he’ll scream he didn’t ask for and throw them out of the room. Will follow up the action with ‘Does that not teach you not to do this again? For giving me things I don’t want?’
Leaves toenail clippings everywhere and then tells you that you’re disgusting for setting a tissue down on the table.
Favourite Phrases Include:
‘Let’s just put a pin in this right now’
‘Why do we have to be equal in everything?’
‘Your words mean f-ing nothing’
‘DONT CARE’
Top Tips:
Probably shouldn’t date him after reading this, but if you’re gonna do it anyway then read the below.
Keep a list time and date stamped on your phone every time he says or does something hurtful, he backs down from arguments when he remembers you’ve been recording things. If you need to review mine for all the extra nonsense, I can also send that over.
Screenshot EVERY abusive message he sends you (if you need further proof I have tons of messages you’re welcome to look at)
Keep money in a separate account and don’t tell him about it so he can’t use it or demand that you use it.
If he begins to make fun of your personal appearance or personal achievements to make you feel like a lesser person, don’t react out of anger and say calmly and repeatedly ‘why are you being
unnecessarily cruel?’, it sends him off the rails if you call out his behaviour so be ready for the backlash.
Peter from Ireland. My Horrible Abusive Ex boyfriend is called Peter
But let me start at the very beginning
Fiance is called Alexander and we met years ago in Israel when I was volunteering and backpacking around the sights.
I was in my early 20’s and single and loving adventure and travelling. I had no intention of falling in love. I thought I was the living my best life.
That was way before I knew that the best things in life our your loved ones.
I was volunteering at a kibbutz and at work in the canteen then this beautiful man walked in he was wearing work clothes. He looked so hansom and my head was, in that moment absolutely turned. I knew I had to meet him but I was shy. I asked around to find out who he was. His name was Alex and he was an engineer. The company he worked for was hired by the manager of the kibbutz to do work around the kibbutz and as part of their fee they could get their lunch for free in our canteen. He came in every day for a week and I made it my business to be at the counter to serve him. I just smiled at him. I was desperate to speak to him but I was so shy.
Thankfully at the end of the week he came up to the counter with his tray and I said no you don’t have to bring it up its part of my job to clear the tables. He smiled and said I have to bring it to you – how else would I get chatting to you. I felt my stomach to a wee flip. I couldn’t stop smiling. He asked me could he give me something and I said yea sure. He gave me a napkin with his name and number on it. (I still have the napkin). He then asked me to phone him later after work. Wow I couldn’t believe it. I was so happy. For the next two months Alex and I was inseparable. We were falling in love. It was like a dream but always in the background was the thoughts of going home. My flight home to Ireland was just before Christmas that year. I pushed it all to the back of my mind. I just wanted to enjoy my time with alex.
The day came that I was leaving I was sad about leaving but I also really missed home. Alex was older than me and he talked about settling down. I wasn’t sure if I was ready and I started to listen to my head rather than my heart. I thought about all our differences – our cultures, languages, countries and religion. I thought deep down it wasn’t going to work. Alex and I decided to leave it at that. We said our goodbyes and I came home.
I moved back in with mummy and daddy and had a beautiful Christmas then I thought about getting a job and saving up again to go travelling. I felt I was moving on. A year and a half had passed and I had been on a few small trips but I was planning on a bigger adventure. I wasn’t sure where or what but I felt restless. I was watching all my friends settling down meeting their partners and talking about marriage and babies. I thought I wasn’t ready for all that. I was around all that talk so much. My family would ask me didn’t I want to meet a nice boy and settle down. They didn’t mean to pressure they just wanted to see me settled and I guess they wanted me to be close to home. They felt I had done enough travelling and should stay home.
I guess with all that going on I started to think maybe I should be thinking of being sensible and putting down roots. At this time I met a guy called Peter who was friends with my friend Nicola. Everyone said how lovely Peter was and how sensible he was and how he was looking to meet someone. Looking back I let myself be talked into it. I went on a date with Peter at first I wasn’t sure but everyone around me thought we were a good match after a few dates he asked me to be his girlfriend. I was 26 and he was almost 30. It all happened very quickly. At first he was a gentleman always holding the door open always saying nice things and bringing me flowers. The first year was lovely and I was thinking this is it. I stopped dreaming of travelling again. Peter wasn’t into travelling. I moved to Belfast to be closer to him. loved going out and meeting up with friends but Peter preferred to stay in. Peter also didn’t think much of my friends. Peter then started commenting on my weight telling me how much I had gained and how how unfit I was. He also told me he was never attracted to me. I let him put me down. I let him eat away at my self esteem. I let him tell me how to dress and I even let tell me how I was allowed to behave. Sadly I let him treat me like that for almost ten years. I was so ashamed that I didn’t want anyone to know. I started to visit my family less and less. I stopped meeting up with friends. Despite all of this I still wanted Peter. By that time I had become attached to him to our situation. I really let my spark go. I completely withdrew into myself.
Peter told me that he knew I would never leave him.
I was scared of what he would do if I did leave. I loved him but I was scared of him.
As the years went on i thought I can’t do this anymore. I felt weak but I knew I had to change my life. It didn’t really happened overnight it was a gradual thing I knew that i had to find the strength to leave Peter.
Then
Peter dumped me – yes you heard that right He left me. I couldn’t believe it but if I’m honest in that moment I felt relief. It turns out he had met a girl called Lee-anne. I’m not sure how he met her or how long it was going on for.
I felt so free thankfully my family and friends were there for me. It hasn’t always been easy but I got my wee spark back and feel like my old self. In time I built my strength up and I felt I had a new lease of life. I jumped right into life I went travelling again. I got a new job. I started volunteering at a radio station and present my own show. I have met so many wonderful people at the radio station one man in particular is George and he’s lovely. One day I called into the studio and George was finishing up his show and he saw that I was on the phone. He started laughing. He couldn’t believe how old my phone was. He insisted that I take his smart phone. I was adamant I loved my wee phone that could only text and make calls but he insisted I get with the times. He was getting an upgrade so I gave in and thanked him but I told him he needed to show me how to use it. He sat and went through the phone with me. He even pulled out his laptop and was able to convert all my contacts over.
Later that night I was playing about with my new phone. I scrolled down and there was a contact I hadn’t seen in years. I had Alex’s number. I must have had his number saved from all those years ago. I dared myself to text him literally 2 mins later my phoned pinged with a message it was him. He got me to download WhatsApp and he phoned and we talked all night. Wow it was amazing the next day he phoned me again after work. He phoned everyday. He wanted to know everything all about my life and what had happened after I left israel. At first it was hard opening up to him about the abuse I had suffered from Peter. Alex really listened as the months went on alex and I knew that we still had feelings for each other. We spoke everyday we became best friends. I was still a little guarded after peter I had put a few walls up I hadn’t dated anyone since peter I really felt I never wanted to ever be with a man again but Alex respected me and was patient. After 6 months of chatting on the phone every day. Alex came and visited me in ireland. Meeting him at dublin airport was amazing. He is and always was the man for me. We had a week together then I went and visited him in israel and then he came a second time to Ireland. Last year Alex whisked me off to Cyprus and on easter Sunday he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. He proposed on the roof of the harbour castle in paphos. It was magical.
We then made plans to be together in ireland. We applied for his Visa through the UK embassy and our visa just now got accepted. It was a long wait but worth it. Alex arrives 6pm in Dublin on 10th of April 2020.
I can now plan our wedding.
I’m sorry if this too long I just wanted you to know that alex and I are meant to be together we have been through so much. We both feel we have got a second chance.
Alex has helped me heal he has always been there for me. He has helped me get my strength back. He has completely shown me there are good decent men out there
I’m so happy
Thank you so much for taking the time to read all this.
Shane Thede from Zumbrota/Rochester, MN. Recently released ex-con. Drug addict & serial cheating narcissist. Has all narcissistic traits of love bombing, gaslighting, stringing multiple (15+ at once!) women along to serve his selfish needs. Blames ex-GFs for his cheating and drug addiction. Not taking any accountability for his actions at all. It’s always someone else’s fault not his. Biggest red flag is how he strung along this one ex-GFs for over two decades which is an extremely long time to suffer the emotional abuse of a narcissist. In the end over 100+ women have come forward anonymously on another social platform and shared similar stories of about being love bombed, ghosted out of nowhere and/or gaslighting behavior going back as far as over three decades. Not to mention being screwed over financially also. He also swindles much money as he can from his ongoing s*x entourage to support his drug habit whilst lovebombing which ever woman (or women) w/gifts and false promises to cover up his guilt. He has cheated on every GF since adulthood. He tries to make himself look like the victim of cheating but behind closed doors he’s been caught bragging fairly recently to his friends on how he has set up an even better system to thwart proof of cheating and knows how to throw off the so called snooping GFs or spyware apps thanks to a number of helpful apps he uses to cover up his cheating ways. FYI another is M.O. is the ongoing and ever growing s*x entourage of his. At any given time he will be dating anywhere from 3 (current favorites, always changing in rotation) to 20+ women at a time. Some are lucky enough to be referred as his GF and/or fiancee. Yes he’s had 2-5 so-called fiancees at once! Plus he has even has been brazen enough to have set up several wedding registries w/each fiancee or GF also in the past! If you end up on his shit list then he demotes you from GF status and then you’re referred to as either side piece/chic or plaything. Of course this is all done behind your back and you often don’t find out until afterwards from other sources close to him after the messy AF break up.
He also tries to claim to be a minimalist but then brags about owning designer this or that. Another M.O. is making promises he never intends on keeping like moving in together, paying back money he has borrowed, expecting GFs to pay for his expensive gifts or vacations. He put several women in severe financial debt and ruin because swindling women is the only way he can support his hobbies of cheating and traveling. Don’t ever let him talk you into paying for his traveling expenses like use your CC for plane tickets or hotel because he will never ever pay you back! He even swindled money from women who were living well below poverty. Then bragged it was their fault for being naive! Or often excuses his bad behavior on being a Gemini. What’s ironic is how he often bad mouths so-called sluts when he’s the biggest one of all. He constantly complains about drama when he brings it on to himself by dating multiple women at once then he wonders why he keeps getting caught! Hey dumdum you only increase your odds of getting caught cheating when you string along a multitude of women! They’re bound to find out about one another sooner or later with a Haram or s*x entourage that freaking large. On occasion he does pretend to dwindle down his Haram temporarily after much duress from whichever GF catches him cheating but don’t let that fool you at all because it’s only a matter of time before he’s back cheating once again. Then to top it all off unless you have solid proof of cheating from a reliable source like spyware or tracking apps he of course freaking denies it and claims you’re imagining things or are crazy! I wouldn’t trust him even if he agreed to install several tracking and/or spyware on his phone or other devices because his most recent ex-GF was an IT savant and taught him how to bypass both spyware and tracking apps. Of course he claimed he needed to learn those coding skills because numerous ex-GFs are harassing or stalking him. More like the other way around! He’s actually the one stalking ex-GFs online and sending them anonymous harassing emails! Then he sets it up for them to bully and harass each other while he sits on the sidelines to watch it all happen while eating popcorn and laughing. A close friend of his has also revealed the true reason why Shane wants to move in with a much younger close relative: because the kid is the ultimate pu**y magnet. It guarantees unlimited access to young dumb pu**y especially the ones who have ‘daddy issues’ or are into tag teaming and other sick twisted stuff. Then went on to bragging how he’ll be soon be drowning in an unlimited supply of young pu**y and he can’t wait to enjoy the daily pu**y jackpot that’ll be always revolving. Especially when he’s influencing and encouraging much younger relatives to mimick his sick and twisted behavior. Not at all a healthy example for younger generation let alone family members. Total lack of healthy boundaries or moral compass!
Another M.O. of his numerous claims is polyamory and *personal intimate interests* is often used to excuse his indiscretions or physical abuse. From what I’ve heard recently from both the local *personal intimate interests* and swinger scene is that he’s been either blacklisted or banned for bad behavior. Which equates to have broken several *personal intimate interests* contracts with outright emotional, se*ual, and physical abuse which definitely isn’t tolerated at all in the *personal intimate interests* scene.
Along with the claims of polyamory one of his most coveted and prized fantasies is both threesomes and swapping partners with other couples. Save yourself from the trouble and stress that always comes after the se*ual encounter. Afterwards since he already acquired his se*ual wants and needs first (as always) he either ghosts the participating GF and/or instigates a huge fight along with verbal and emotional abuse including throwing items like knives at his ex-GF, pushing, shoving and even slapping. He has absolutely no self control when it comes to anger at all. Scary impulsive!
Another thing he does to get away with cheating is owning several burner phones or numbers including additional smart phones. Of which he usually hides in a place his GF doesn’t have access to such as a gym locker, storage unit, post office box or even a more obvious place like a safe or humidor. He’s even been known to keep hidden phones in other women’s homes often without their knowledge. Heard a story from another ex-GF of his who found a bunch of random phones hidden all over after the nasty breakup. She even found phones stashed in the laundry room!
More recently he actually had the audacity to complain about how this GF or that GF and other ex-GFs didn’t have the decency to write to him daily in prison, send pictures, or money to him then proceeded to either ghost the GFs or lashed out with verbal abuse. Then turned around to encourage several of his other ex-GFs to harass the other ex-GFs on his shit list. He doesn’t even bother to do his own dirty work of harassment but often recruits ex-GFs to do it for him by selling the false promise it’ll get them back into good graces with him. Then he uses that against them later on by saying it proves they’re crazy or couldn’t measure up to his unrealistic expectations. He should be grateful for receiving even just one prison correspondence at all let alone any from the women he had basically totally f*cked over both financially and emotionally! That’s some freaking nerve!
A huge clue is how he often blatantly tells on himself by openly expressing both his hatred and outright disrespect towards his own mother.
Most overused expression: too many deal breakers doll, too many.
Want to know the real reason he calls every GF or side piece, Doll? Because he’s so used to dating multiple sets of women at once and can’t ever keep their names straight! The irony of that is how he often gives himself away with his frequent name slip ups. One of many excuses he’ll try is, Oh it was the name of a recent bartender, waitress, friend, co-worker, ex-colleague. Nope! Nope! Nope! And NOPE! More like the name of the most recent f*ck! Don’t freaking buy it at all! So even if he tries to reel you in with lies like oh I only cheated on my last GF. Don’t believe it! It’s been every single GF and fiancee! Not just a few but over 100+ have come forward so far and that’s likely just the tip of the iceberg! Especially since it’s been going on since onset of adulthood and he’s a professional cheating a-hole. To top it all off regarding STDs of course it’s your fault not his! It’s actually the most common reason why he sets up a nasty fight and then blames you for all of it. Even though it’s obvious he’s at fault, he never ever takes any freaking accountability at all. Then uses that to justify creating a really long nasty and messy break up.
He also blames so called jealous ex-GFs for the reason why he was sent to prison instead of taking accountability for his poor choices. By no means was he an addict just for a few months or years either but well over two decades.
Another thing is he’s cheap as hell such as promising to book a four star hotel and it turns out to be a one or two star. He only pays for the first few dates and then he starts constantly forgetting both his wallet and phone. I guarantee it’s hidden in his car and it’s chocked full of angry messages from various women. Not only that but it guarantees avoidance of anyone checking his phone for evidence of his cheating. Another repeating factor he often pisses off one GF to justify cheating on her with another GF in addition to ghosting one or several other women all at once! He’s lucky any woman on earth would give him the time of day!
We women already own an a_hole…Our own! So why in hell would we want or even need another one? Not to mention a narcissistic entitled one?! He’s extremely superficial also like how he’s extremely judgemental about women’s bodies especially regarding wrinkles, saggy skin, breasts and butt. But he’s well past his expiration date in regards of aging but has the nerve to judge women’s bodies in a very harsh manner when he is himself middle-aged. He thinks he has a body of 25 year old fitness model when in fact he has apron belly like an old man! Like ew gross no one wants to see that! His body leans more towards Santa Claus than fitness model that’s for sure! He’s in total denial that he himself has aged quite a bit. Then talks smack if a woman doesn’t look like they could pass for under 30 when they’re over 45. Then he turns around and demands impossible physical expectations from his current slew of various GFs. Definitely gaining even a freaking pound can become one of his so called deal breakers. At first he implies there’s only a couple of deal breakers. As time goes on the next thing you know he dumps the long list of deal breakers just out of nowhere too! Then will ghost you. Then after a few weeks, months or even years he tries to reel you back in with his lies and false promises. Insert eye roll. Then the love bombing begins. His M.O. every single time.
The real irony is that the cheater doesn’t have the insight to realize that they’re the ones creating their own pain and drama. If they would stop being so incredibly selfish and quit manipulating people they wouldn’t have to endure so much emotional pain. In which they try to avoid at all costs. Instead of taking ownership of their indiscretions and making a change for the better they chose to destroy themselves and bring everyone down with them. For example they not only devalue themselves by making the poor decision of cheating but they also devalue the woman involved in their cheating incident in addition of the unfortunate current GF. It’s a trifecta of nasty stuff on top of stuff! Basically a deep pool of turds! Do you really want to swim in that stinky stuff? Probably not but the narcissist won’t hesitate to push you in it! Then try to drown you in it to top it all off! Which reminds me of his extremely stinky flatulence! Yes he’s definitely gross enough to pull off the dutch oven treatment and is quite proud of how he can clear a building out with his seriously super stinky flatulence and it happens quite often! Seriously it’s worse than an old dog farts and it happens while he sleeps too! His flatulence was so pungently foul that it actually woke me up from REM stage sleep! Then my eyes were watery from the foul odor of continuous flatulence and I actually ended up vomiting all over bed! True story! He’s super gross in reality! Pretends to be a gentleman but in reality he’s really just a narcissist! A super smelly old man! No freaking lie he won’t hesitate to fart in your face! Especially while he’s naked! He pretends to be funny like it’s a joke but really he’s trying to humiliate you and degrade you. Then later on when it suits him he uses it to justify treating you badly. Not worth the effort! In addition to that he has a delusional idea that he’s going to make thousands of dollars doing one of those side gig sites involving *adult content*. Find it hard to believe anyone would pay a subscription to watch him cheating on his GF with much younger women. Sounds like a good way to get caught cheating yeah dumb *idiot*! For real, he’s convinced he’s going to be able to cash in with thousands of dollars doing so called *adult content* side gigs. Eye roll. Gag!
Wouldn’t be surprised if he literally ate farts for lunch because he reeks of *turds*!
Alipate LauLau from Bristol UK. He lives with his long-term girlfriend, yes he has a girlfriend! We dated long distance. He played the loving devoted boyfriend, sending txts and video chatting. the girlfriend is a hard-working manager who works long hours. He has lots of people who will cover for him. he is charming and fun and sweet but once you are caught up in the loving vibe, he will then begin to chip away at your self-esteem. Breaking plans last minute lying about where he is, making you feel like you have done something wrong, he is a first class manipulator. And when you confront him, he will lie and cry and try to turn it around on you. His girlfriend found out about me and him, then messaged me but the poor girl has had her self-esteem worn down by him so she stays with him and blamed herself. She is supporting his VISA to stay in the UK so he wont leave her.
Richard Shebovsky from Tazewell va. He is a conman and narcissist. He began with the love bombing and regressed to treating me like im nothing. I do him favors and he repays me everytime I ask him for something by not doing it. I lost my job because he wouldn’t take me to work a couple times while my car is being worked on. He physically and mentally abuses me everyday.. he insults me as a person and tells im nothing to him. He used me at first for a place to live then he asked me to move in. As soon as he didn’t need me the abuse started. I guess im in discard phase. He wanted me to tell some girl he wanted to go out with that I am just his friend right after he just told me I was so much more.
Sina Taghizadeh from Atlanta, Georgia. Run. a man who convinces a woman he’s all in but still sleeps around—he’s not all in. He’s a pig. This is the worse human being. He is the Master of manipulator, liar, and cheater. His target is good girls from wealthy families. He manipulates them so they believe that he loves them. But he uses them for s*x and fancy gifts. He dates multiple girls at the same time and uses 3 dating apps to find girls also for s*x.
His full name is Sina Jason Taghizadeh. He went to UGA and had MBA at Georgia Tech. Recently he got fired from his job. If you see his name, better to stay away.
Kevin Berry from Cincinnati, OH. Worst kisser in the history of kissing. Constantly talks about girls he’s gone out with, but none of the stories are funny or relevant. Claims to be progressive, but was a typical self-interested straight white man.
Josh from Bozeman MT. 50 something Josh has an issue with his 30 something daughter because she has an affair with his business partner who is in his 60’s. She gets pregnant and he cannot forgive her, then takes up with someone who isn’t old enough to drink. Because the apple never falls far from the tree!! RUN, RUN, RUN the whole family has issues. He hangs out a brewery near campus, so it won’t be hard to find him making a dent in the barstool with his fat lazy ass!! He also tells EVERYONE stories about his exes, half who work on campus and has nothing good to say about any of them. He owns a couple really badly run local businesses, but he will tell you he is successful and has a bunch of money. When you are hungover everyday but Monday, you really don’t get much done. Can usually be found with an equally alcoholic and unmotivated cousin.
Paulino (Paul) Almaguer from Fort Worth, Texas. He is an absolute cheater, cheater cheater. More than that, he is a narcissistic sociopath that uses women, especially professional women for his own gain. Ex navy and and supposed “special forces”- insert eye roll- he is still living the “a woman in every port” fantasy. If you date him you will notice quickly he has a lot of female “friends” or “business” associates that you never get to meet. If they were just friends, that’s great, but guess what? Friends=girlfriends that he is using for something while making each think they are exclusive. He’s on almost every dating sight out there currently. If you ARE dating him, have your friends sign up on the sites like Hinge, FB and bumble- 2 of his favs- and try and find him to prove this yourself. Won’t take long. And don’t let him tell you its an old inactive profile. Just have your friends engage him.
Protective of his phone (red flag!) If his mouth is moving, he is either lying or projecting. Go look up covert narcissists- he’s a solid fit.
Let me start by saying, I have proof, proof, proof and any claims of this being simply malicious can easily be debunked. He will tell you you are “the one.” (As it turns out, the number is more than one, apparently maybe even 3. Definitely at least 2.)
He will come off as charming, attentive and caring. (This is how he lures you in.) He will tell you he has never met anyone like you. He will say he never thought he’d find love again. He will make plans with you for the future, and tell you he adores you….all the while dating other women. He is a true histrionic narcissist that appears at first to be funny and jovial while slowly morphing into an impressive, cruel manipulator. He is a skilled liar, and often appears to lie simply to lie. Good luck getting a straight answer out of him when he doesn’t want to give it.
He is a skillful gaslighter. (If you don’t know what this is- go look it up. It’s a big part of his game.)
His Favorite moves:
He will probably ask you to read the 5 Love Languages. Have no doubt- he’s using that as information to figure out the best ways to tap into your heart and manipulate you.
He likes to say things like “Yeah, Baby” in a deepening voice. Chattering at you in a couple of Spanish phrases about you being gorgeous. Likes to give (hard- the better to dominate you) neck and foot rubs and cream up your legs (don’t think those are just altruistic, either.)
He will look at you with adoring eyes while tilting his head.
He’s super proud of being an ex-Navy Corpsman. He enjoys playing the victim and talks about how his ex wife was the cheater and narcissist and how he has been mistreated by various people or circumstances. (He’s really tattling on his own misdeeds. This is called projecting. Go look it up- it’s a narcissist trick.) Here’s the thing- if you start really paying attention, you will notice that there is *always* something going wrong or someone “dissing” him and he is surrounded by supposedly “crazy” people. His exwife is crazy. His ex girlfriends are “crazy” and “stalkers.” Pay attention ladies! This is to proactively groom you to have prejudice against them if they try and warn you. I suggest you should DO THE OPPOSITE! Find them and talk with them and see how “crazy they really are. You will get the real scoop on Mr Player and also establish some allies in your escape.
He will tailor his answers to make you think you are cosmically joined.
He will constantly find “similarities” between you and him, some of which might actually be true.
He will make you coffee. He will ask you to wear heels, and he loves short skirts while playing pool or darts .
He likes to use the lines of “no one has ever done that for me before..” to make you feel special.
He talks endlessly about his daughter being incredible and gifted. (the poor girl growing up with this guy…) He plays the good father card a lot. In fact, he will hide you by telling you he doesn’t want to introduce anyone into her life until he’s been dating you for awhile…and then suddenly he will introduce you and tell you you are the “first one” he has introduced to her since the divorce. (Hint: You’re not.) This on the surface appears to be a “good father” move, but it’s really to manipulate you, his time, and likely the other lady.
He brags about his 7 bedroom house (which it is not- it’s 5 bedroom and a 2 bedroom guest house both of which , may look ok on the outside but has the serious old house thing going on on the inside.)
His favorite verbal moves are:
Yeah Baby, Yesss, Indeed, you take my breath away, I want to see you, I want to squeeze you, Behave (when you call him out), I cant sleep thinking about you, come to Paul, do you want to come over?, and I deserved it (when pretending sorrow for his misdeeds.)
I can go on and on with tons more details, but you get the picture.
Ladies- don’t think you can fix him. Don’t think HE’S trying to fix himself (despite the constant therapy- just another camouflage to make women think he’s a good man trying to get past some bad stuff.) These type don’t change. Just GET AWAY and stay away. He will bring drama into your life. He will make you think you are the problem (eventually.) He will slowly increase start decreasing the charm, increasing the manipulation, and start becoming verbally and emotionally cruel. He will try and beat you down emotionally and mentally. He will make you confused by his reactions and try and convince you that YOU are the problem. He is only interested in his own needs.
In summary, he WILL manipulate you, use you, abuse you and cheat on you while adroitly lying to you…and honestly…he’s just not that *good* if you know what I mean.
Kyle Moorefield from Torrance, California. He is a master manipulator. He attempts to work a sober program but will relapse (will use extreme drugs) and cheat, lie and ruin his jobs/finances. Come home and try to talk himself into a victim of his alcoholism/drug addictions. He is not a victim he is making his choice and destroys everything in his path. I spent 5 years sadly with this person.. he took so much from me. He would manipulate me into feeling like i was his reason to use.. He will break your heart and give zero cares about how you are effected.
If you do end up here make sure he is tested for stds when he returns because he has no standards. Best of luck.
Micha Friedman from Israel and NY. Micha is a diagnosed narcissist with antisocial personality disorder. I lived with him for 14 years and sadly fell into the trap of being offered everything I ever wanted (love bombing) them having it taken away. This rollercoaster caused me to lose myself and live with both physical and emotional abuse. I later learned that he had lived a double life with his boss right under my nose for at least 7 years. He left her, we went to therapy and I believed that he loved me and could heal. Even with therapy and all the love in the world, he became brutal after I learned about his affair, treating me like I never existed, giving me the silent treatment, withholding affection then pulling me back in, the whole pallete of narcissistic abuse. He then cheated again and eventually abandoned me and my children without closure and without a goodbye. It took me years to get myself back and now I am just thankful that he finally left so that I could begin the long and painful journey back to myself. He is always looking for older women with families. He is charming but also mean and dangerous. I would wish to warn any woman to run like the wind from this man.
Mariano Longo from Argentina. He is a cheater, serial liar, abuser and a bully. He is now living in Portugal, having produced a few children with this woman from GB. but once a cheater, always a cheater. Beware girls!
Ed Uribe from San Jose California. This guy is on the down low. He pretends to be straight and sleeps with men on the side. He goes to adult clubs and also picks up random men online. He is truly pathological. AVOID AT ALL COSTS. He will destroy your life.
Erwan from Toulouse france. Il m’a quitté quand j’ai appris mon cancer il m’a insulter de grosse merde il est violent verbalement depuis longtemps impulsif agressif égoïste il a jamais écouté mes besoins … il vous prend tout mais ne donne rien et cache très bien son jeu en plus car il est un personnage public donc il donne le change … il a su que j’étais dans le coma et j’ai eu deux arrêt cardiaque il a même pas pris une nouvelle alors qu’on est resté 3 ans ensemble ! Il se fichait que je meure
Aaron Robert Hacker from Adelaide, South Australia. Aaron hacker seems delightful at first, has real charisma. Will cook for you to show that he is a “nice guy” never eat his food. He has bottles of his own dehydrated drug urine in his kitchen which he will put in your meals if you so much as look at your phone or, God forbid, answer it. He also likes to urinate inside you without saying anything first or at all
..until the end when u end it and he r*pes you and says you “f!$cked with the wrong person”
He has given me so many STI’S , STDS and several infections due to this urinating. He also video records you being intimate and puts it on the Internet and gets paid for it! He and his friends all do this and think it’s hilarious. He is violent , manipulate and BROKE. He wants you to pay his rent , bills , food beer, drugs , alcohol. Etc etc etc. He will break you down to the point of suicide , then tell you the world would be better off without you. He makes false allegations to the police about being assaulted. By me who was 48kilos at the time due to stress from him and he weighs well over 100kilos. The police didn’t do anything of course ,because he was the one assaulting me. He will r*pe you in your sleep. Steal your money, items and soul. His birthday is 27th November. He is a bus driver for an all girls school and messages them at 2 in the morning and records them all without their knowledge His friend and work colleague got done for paying one of the girls so that he could send pictures of his genitals to the girl he was paying. I believe Aaron is doing this as well.
Not telling anyone what to do. If you’re down with that kind of thing…
But yea, steer clear. He is evil, a r*pist a peado and violent.
He also hurts animals 🙁
David Robert Hanks / David Evelyn from England. He’s a narcissistic abuser, stole money, physically abused me, cheated on me. Avoid at all costs! He lies and love bombs. He leaves nothing but destruction and terror behind. I’ve spoken with his exes and family they all confirmed this.
Matthew Lennehan from Manchester, UK. CHEATER! Terrible father of 3 that he only sees once every full moon. All 3 children have different mothers.
Foul mouth, abusive and not the brightest tool in the shed.
He is also misogynistic and disgusting, morally and higiene.
Massive ego and his own family can’t stand him.
He is a 40 year old man that only likes to date girls half his age.
Jason Verfaillie from Baudour, Belgium. Jason is unstable and impulsive. It scares and destroys you mentally. He has serious psychological problems that he does not treat. And he has a huge child abuse problem.
Lai from Dour (France). He is a manipulator, a toxic person. He is very into salacious things.
Noriel Gumaca Dela Cruz from Nueva Ecija, Philippines. Manipulative. Cheater. And so many other things!!
Shane Dineen from Houston, TX. Not ex BOYFRIEND but soon to be ex husband. Textbook narcissist and is as covert as he is malignant. I was that girl who thought “well maybe he was like that with them but he won’t be that way with me” BIG mistake. I thought he would change and I thought I could help him. He ab*sed me physically and groomed me into allowing all sorts of emotional and mental ab*se. I was 23 and I didn’t know any better. I never realized what he was doing until it was too late. He would not so much cheat as he would initiate a relationship with another woman then explain to me what she had to offer and every way that I didn’t meet the mark. The last time he did this, it blew up in his face and I escaped. It was all to get me to do something that I didn’t morally agree with in the first place. From his schoolwork and exams, to writing letters of reference for jobs, reporting anyone he deemed an enemy, buying him things that he wanted impulsively while my own needs were being forgotten, the list goes on. Why did I stay for so long? Survival. He had ruined us financially and ruined me mentally and emotionally. I was constantly being coerced into believing that if I didn’t I would be a complete failure. When really I was the only one holding him down. And then there’s the physical abuse, the strangling, breaking things while beating me with them, hitting me on the hairline so it wouldn’t be visible, punching me in the mouth for crying and pleading with him. I should have done a background check on him. I’m not the only one he’s done this to and many have never reported it out of fear for the repercussions. Don’t do what I did. You’re safety, health and well-being are far more important than any empty promise he can make. He’s always gotten away with it and thinks he can get away with it. He lived as a criminal for most of his life. Exploiting young women. Pimping them out. He even kept ties to his criminal life and told me he was going to leave me and go back to it as he couldn’t handle the eviction we were facing. Leaving me in financial ruins that were caused from his substance abuse. He is an addict “in recovery” and I thought I was doing something noble by believing in him. His own father wouldn’t even let him make his amends and patch things up when he knew he was reaching his last days. I kept wanting to believe in him to be a better person. I just didn’t want to give up on him. That’s what gave him so much power over me and he used it until there was nothing left. Now I have been diagnosed with PTSD for the second time since being with him. I’m in therapy and I’ve been very blessed not to lose my job or stability in the process. I survived him.
Jordan Hellings from Hamilton, on. Strings women along but won’t commit. Only wants them around for s*x and company. Narcissist.
Dave Steele from Welland, Ontario. A furry who goes by kitani.. He will lie about having a girlfriend but 90% chance he has one, he did when he flirted with me. You’ll date him until he sleeps with you, and then he will ghost you. He gives every girl the same lines. He’ll ask what your favourite fruit is and he’ll always be a pineapple cause he’s “rough on the outside but sweet on the inside”. But he’s really decaying on the inside. I’ve met four girls who have had the same experiences with him. Total narcissist.
Casey Novian from Kemp, TX. He lied and cheated on me. He then turned around and cheated on the woman he left me for.
David Bishop from Sacramento CA. He lies about everything and does drugs so much so that his p*nis is IMPOTENT AND worthless its literally the same size as a toddler and since he is addicted to dr*gs therefore he is addicted to shriveling his p*nis too.
He is at best around two inches in length and it won’t stay hard for longer than about Four minutes. Hes ridiculous.
Dean Tooley from Brookfield, MA. Cheater. I had been dating Dean on again and off again. When he started working at Cabellas he would tell me about one of his coworker named Bri. Come to find out not only was he dating her, he got engaged to her. All while we were still together. Needless to say he did eventually break if off with me when they started wedding planning but gawd was I blind sided by this.
Brandon Wolfe from DuBois, Pa. Extremely ab*sive, narcissistic and sociopath. He’s into r*pe and b*ating women. Also goes for toddlers. He seems like your dream man at first. Comes off as funny and great with kids but it soon turns violent. He’s tried to kill me on numerous occasions. He’s a hard dr*g addict and alcoholic as well. RUN!!!
Patrick Thomas Swingle from Chattanooga, Tennessee. I dated him for years. He seems like a good guy but most narcissists do. He cheated on me and gaslit me about it, along with everything else. He was very verbally, emotionally, and even physically ab*sive. He often s*xually coerced me and tried to shame me if I was too ill or not in the mood to pleasure him. He told me he was a good partner because he “never hit me” although he often would hold me down and leave bruises on me. I hope this saves someone from him one day!
Jeremy Izzio from New York/Colorado. This man would’ve been a great used car salesman. He’s a pathological liar who will lie about anything and everything. He was on Tinder and talking to other women for years during our relationship. He kept me around, but was emotionally neglectful and was both mentally (and on a few occasions) physically abusive. If “gaslighter” had a photo next to it, his would be a perfect fit. He convinced me I was crazy and blamed me for being irresponsible when my controlled prescription medication kept disappearing. He had me thinking I was losing my mind while he stole them for years before finally admitting it. I have that conversation recorded only because of how he’d make me feel crazy and would later deny he said or did certain things. I feel sorry for whomever he sucks in next.
He will take from you everything you have emotionally and then spit you out when you have nothing left to give. In return, he will give you nothing. He always has a reason or excuse at the ready. He will not want someone who is more accomplished that he believes he is, and he will sabotage you in order to remain “on top”- unless it benefits him financially not to do so. He would always lie about his accomplishments, calling himself a “journalist” when in reality he wrote for a small town newspaper making minimum wage. When his mother gave him her house to take over mortgage payments (which would’ve made him a homeowner in just 7 years) he fucked up and the house was seized by the bank. He moved across country to start over because he burned all bridges back home. He is an opiate addict but will steal and take any controlled medications. He has no care or concern for hurting others and is a narcissist to the core.
Proceed with caution!
Gabriel McKnight from Washington DC. Short background story:
Gabriel and I met when I was 15 and he was 22.
He’s now 30. I’m now 23.
Before we met, I had a s*xual encounter with someone he knew. When he brought this to me, I told him it wasn’t true because the guy lied about his name. So I didn’t think we were talking about the same person.
Instead of cutting me off, he decided to play mind games for a year out of spite. I constantly skipped school to be at his house. In this time, he would love bomb me by telling me that he loved me and wanted to be with me. He would then breadcrumb by pull away. Ignore me for days on end. Go out and sleep with other women while telling me he was sick or with his family.
A year later, I fell pregnant at 16. He immediately said our daughter wasn’t his child because he didn’t trust me. I spent my pregnancy alone. Of course this changed when she was born.
This is where the mental abuse ramped up and the physically ab*se started.
I remember the first time he physically assa*lted me. I had mentioned to him that I saw someone we both knew, so I hugged said person. He immediately grabbed me by the back of my neck and nape of hair, pushed my face into his piano, and told me that I needed to “stop playing with him, or our daughter will be out of a mother”.
I should’ve left. I didn’t for 7 years.
The gaslighting begun and shortly after that, he started to get angry about the smallest things. Belittling me about not toasting my bread for a cheeseburger, calling me stupid for accidentally dragging his blanket on the floor, pointing out my insecurities and then telling me I’m “too sensitive” when I tell him that it hurts me.
Anytime I would disagree with him, I couldn’t be around him, had to leave the house without my daughter, and come back when “I’m ready to act right”. Sometimes I would leave out to clear my head when angry. I hated being angry around my baby girl. He would the not return my phone calls for days, while he kept our daughter.
When he realized that we were to coparent and didn’t have a choice, he continued to abuse me to dominate me. I also remember us arguing, so I went to our daughter’s room to just hold her for comfort, and he didn’t like that. He pushed me to the floor, folded me in half, and sat on me until I was ready “to act right”.
At this point, I had already mentally checked out from life in general. I couldn’t believe I had got wrapped up with such an evil person.
Now, 8 years later and I’m just really leaving this narcissistic relationship last month in September.
I had the last straw when he had been seeing a girl behind my back and constantly accusing me of sleeping around in August of this year. He gave me a STD from her.
Triangulation.
She contacted me, curious as to if me and him had been still seeing each other.
I told her yes.
She then proceeded to threaten me. So I honestly had it out for her. Not because of him, but because she threatened me. I finally ran into her one night when I came to his house. We fought. I really did some damage to her. I got arrested. I had been in the holding cell for 30 hours!! That was the wake up call for me. No trauma bond was stronger than my will to enjoy my child and my freedom.
He was immediately “immensely apologetic” and started talking down on the woman he had been sneaking around with. This didn’t last long tho. The last time we got into an argument, he pointed out that I was crazy, bothered their relationship for no reason, and he pitted me.
I am officially utterly disgusted by such a man child like him. I will no longer care about even looking his direction. We coparent my child. But I’m am thinking about moving out of state and raising her with her godmoms. He only cares about himself so he won’t fight to see her.
I had been constantly going back after he treated me so foul. There’s so many other things he did and said to me, but for the sake of this post, those were just the red flags in the beginning that I ignored.
A grown man that’s willing to sleep with an underage girl and have a baby with her.
A grown man that has zero communication skills.
A man with severe mommy/daddy and anger issues.
A “man” who simply isn’t a good example of a man.
Nothing much has changed. He’s 30. Now swears by being a black Israelite, so basically
black supremacy. He has even higher and darker expeditions for his partner.
He matters more than her because he “leads” as a man.
A women is to not wear pants, disobey God or she will be stricken, speak in church, be gay, etc. The basic rules of being a misogynist basically.
Me being a 23 year old, spiritual, tarot reading, bisexual, slightly dominate woman, I’m sure you can imagine that I definitely don’t fit the bill for him.
I would not deal with this man. He is a lost soul. He is becoming more and more grandiose & ego driven. I have no choice but to deal with him for now because of my daughter, but even then I am finding ways to keep her untainted as much as I can.
There’s so many men out here like him, but please use this story as a list of huge warning signs so you don’t have to get so knee deep in their web of toxicity like I have.
Paul Fuller from Allen, Texas. Ped*phile. Gaslighter. Will manipulate young girls to pay for s*x. Most times he will push payment until after and not pay. Plays dumb and will try to flip you as crazy for confrontation. Uses religion and sin to guilt young girls. He choses girls who are the same age as his son. 16-22. Texts from unknown numbers.
Ed Zagorski from Milwaukee, Wisconsin. Ed was one of those guys who started out sweet but then showed the crazy side. He was lazy too — he’d call in sick to work when he didn’t want to get up. He would criticize me and put me down, and one time he wouldn’t let me leave his place. I also remember trying to run home to my apartment so I could lock myself inside to get away from him, because he was chasing me. He’d get mad and jealous, and I was scared and thought he might kill me, so I got a new job and moved away from him. One day, my boss told me he’d called and was so charming that my boss gave him my new phone number! Every now and then, he tries to send me a message on social media so I block him.
Paul Leslie from Oshkosh, Wisconsin. He and I met online via a dating app. We dated from 2016 to 2021, and I kind of knew something was up because we didn’t spend the holidays together, ever, and a few other things. But he seemed like such a nice guy, I figured if he wanted to break up he’d be honest with me. Then a relative of his died, and the obituary listed a woman’s name as his SO. I found out he’d been dating this woman almost a year before me, yet he’d been on a dating site early in 2016…
Chase Cator from Minocqua, WI. Very distant and doesn’t know how to communicate , doesn’t know what he wants and is a mommas boy. Says that his friend is just a friend and when you officially end it he proposes to her a month later …and then breaks off the engagement.
Louis Henry Coussey from Fountain, Colorado Springs, Co/Ghana. He has been involved seriously with at least 4 women in 6 years. I have talked to 2 of the other 3 and they will say the same things. The odd one, Stacy T, would send him pictures of lingerie and had no problem texting him at all hours or calling him in the middle of the night. It is my belief they got together at one of his enabling friends houses one night. Of course he denied it. I’m not sure if that woman had any pride in herself or diseases, but she obviously didn’t care that he was living with and sleeping with me. Both the exes I have talked to say he was not faithful to them either.
He is an alcoholic who got a DUI 2/7/2021, wrecked his car. To help him as he lost his license and car, I moved him into my home so I could drive his ungrateful self wherever he needed to be.
In the next year and a half, he has stolen cash from me in the form of my tips, my prescription pain killers, and owes me for 4 1/2 months of the rent he agreed to pay.
There was supposed to be no alcohol or dr*gs in my home, so he would do both and more somewhere else and come home messed up.
When he drank too much he would go off on me if I said something he didn’t like. That triggered my PTSD so badly I would not sleep that night.
When asked to pay the rent or be accountable for one thing or another, it was always an argument. He does not like being asked to be responsible or accountable. He will lie through his teeth, so unless you have a picture or recording like I did, he will deny anything.
He has friends he will spend time with rather than his girlfriends. And they provide him with prescription dr*gs, alcohol, and weed.
I have said pictures and videos if you feel you need confirmation. As well as the court petition I turned in to the cost of the just over $5000 I hope to recover from him in past due rent and damages to my appliances and property.
William Christopher Bufis Jr from Lititz Pennsylvania. He’s an ab*sive asshole. Held a knife to my throat for s*x. Stole my virginity at 14, him 18. Popped my shoulder out of place in anger. Ab*sed a minor as an adult for 2 years. Now have been told I’d be dead if I would’ve stayed any longer at this age
Joshua Gregotski from Winnipeg, Mb Canada. Him 33 I answered an ad he had on a dating site that he was looking for fwb nsa. Said his name was Joe at 1st revealed that he was married but leaving his wife. Because she refused to partaken interc*urse with him we hooked up we clicked up weekly I fell for him he left his wife he stayed with me for a little bit and now I find out that none only has he not divorced his wife yet but for the last year that we’ve been dating he had cheated on me with 5 different people aren’t people one of which was a woman who let him have interc*urse with him in the car while she was wearing a diaper and filland filmed it live for her boyfriend to watch. He sent over 50 messages to people and had ads on different sites about hooking up with people Saying that he was hetero flexible and down for anything. Meanwhile crawling into bed with me every single night and holding me and telling me he loved me. Some of the people he did cheat on me with, he went back multiple times and didn’t use any protection with any of them and I was pregnant a few months ago until he basically said I’m going to leave you unless you have an abortion and I did. Now he does nothing but love bomb me. And is refusing to let me go. One of the people he cheated on me with, Who was only 19 got pregnant a week after I had the abortion that he literally abandoned to cheat on me with her. Said he didn’t care about the abortion or what it was doing to my body. I became trauma bonded to him and he continued to try and cheat on me. He has a breeding f*tish but wants nothing to do with you if anything comes of it. And hes still not divorced. I demanded that he go get an STI check as well as myself. But for the last year hes done nothing but lie to me and manipulate me and lie to everybody in his life including his wife. I contacted every single person that he had come in contact with to verify his story. But either way less than a year of being separated from his wife he not only cheated on his wife with me but then he cheated on me with 5 other people Not using any protection with any of us. This man is sick he’s insecure he’s a narcissist he’s very controlling And takes nobody’s well being into account.
Andrew Steven Quinn from Queens, NY and Miami, FL. This man will come off as charming, if you have kids, he will fawn over them and step up and help with homework and projects and even take part in gift-giving and bedtime routines. He will call and text daily… until he stops. COLD TURKEY. Was in a relationship for 10 months to suddenly stop from one day to the next. He has mental health problems and because of his profession, thinks he can self-medicate but doesn’t seek any actual help from a professional. I was with him while he was committed and supported him through it all and that was not appreciated. Will always pick work over everyone and everything else, including himself. His profession is filled with cocky know it alls who look down on people and he is definitely one of these as no one outside of his job has a “real job” and will always again put work first.
Challoub Samir from France. Violent, alcoolique, drogué.
Rohan Tiss from Tucson, Arizona. ABSOLUTE NOOO!!!!! Most manipulative, egotistical, narcissistic person I have EVER met. Extremely ab*sive and lacks real human emotions. Starts off really good and takes the worst turn.
Robert Howman from Melbourne. Ladies… BEWARE of this guy! He is the absolute worst. He is a walking STD, he sleeps around with copious amounts of women and has fathered multiple children to different mothers. He is a classic narcissist and will gaslight you at every given opportunity. He likes to prowl on single mothers and women with self esteem issues. He has a gambling problem and will sponge every last cent from you. He is a huge douche canoe. You are welcome.
Jason Nottle from South Australia Adelaide. When we were together he cheated multiple times. he never had any money, his family were horrible to me. When I fell pregnant the first time and had a miscarriage, he told my family I was lying about being pregnant. after we broke up he dated multiple of my friends. We have a son together when he met his new gf, and they had a baby he now refuses to see his son.
his new horrible girlfriend also tried to attack me out the front of my house. both horrible disgusting people. Stay far far away from him.
Shane Oakley from Richmond VIC, AUS.
– R*ped and s*xually abused me (and admitted to it)
– Physically abused me (held me down, pinched me, pushed me, choked me).
– Mentally and emotionally abused me (name calling, gaslighting, withholding affection then love bombing).
– Controlling (wouldn’t let me wear or eat certain things, wouldn’t let me exercise, wouldn’t let me leave the house without him).
– Isolated me from family/friends (forced me to choose between him and them, would get jealous/angry when I saw/spoke to them).
– Stole $6,000 from me (acknowledged he took the money but never gave it back).
– Cheated on me with a teenager (walked in on them together in my bed on my birthday).
– Stole my cat and gave him away (I never got him back).
Jason Straga from Kelowna/Calgary Canada. Jason also goes by the name Jay. If you’re attached to your sanity, friends, family, job, money and your credibility- this guy isn’t for you. He will give you a sob story about his life and how he can’t ‘trust anyone’. Boo hoo! Don’t fall for it. They’re tears of a clown to pull you in. I lost everything to this ‘person’. Narcissist and sociopath all told into one. He’ll love bomb you at first, call you his soul mate. Then he’ll lost his temper over literally nothing. When you go to the police about him, he’ll lie to your friends and family to try to discredit you and cover his tracks. Once he’s charmed them away from you and left you with nothing, he’ll come back pleading for another chance. He’ll isolate you so no longer have friends and family to go to when you WILL really need to get away from him. If you have a child to him, he’ll try to deny paternity and do everything possible to never pay child support. He will never look back with remorse because he is incapable of feeling it. When he loves, he adores you. When he loathe you, he will lie, lie and lie some more. He’ll lie abut his past, his family, where he really lives, what really happen in his past relationships-allot make you feel sorry for him. He will pressure you into ‘loaning him’ money. This is only the beginning. You will NEVER see that money again. He’ll build you up in one breath and tear you down in the next. If you don’t lose all your money to loaning it to him, you’ll lose your money to the years of therapy you’ll need to recover from his abuse. He says he doesn’t want kids, but he’s attracted to women who have them, and then messes with their little hearts and minds too. Stay away from this guy. He is ’60 mins’ bad.
Darren from Burnie Tasmania Australia. He has a severe personality disorder and is abusive, but will appear charming & ‘too good to be true’ at first.
Chris Orlando from Southfield, Michigan. Led me on. Decided to get serious with me then told me he didn’t have time for me then got upset I said that it was over.
David Schofield from Leamington UK. Avoid this “man” like the plague. Met on a Christian site and not long after starting a relationship he became very abusive. Verbally, and physically to the point where police had to be called and photos taken of my face. I finally was shot of him after receiving support from Women’s aid. Please do not enter into relationship with this person.
Tyson Calver from Ontario, Canada. He had cheated on me with multiple woman, had approached underage girls stating to “hurry up and turn 18”.
He does not have a faithful bone in his body. He would convince his friends to distract me so that he could sneak away and fool around with other girls. Used me repeatedly. Tried to convince me to give up my children. Terrible human being, he comes off as the sweetest person but will quickly do you dirty. He is currently married and has reached out to me multiple times, I’ve had to block ALL social media accounts of his. Please, for the sake of your mental health, do not trust this man.
Eli Baylis from Hattiesburg, MS. Eli likes to come off as a philanthropic peace maker, but when you peel back the facade – he is something truly disgusting. This man is a severe porn addict and I’m talking about red flag porn. His searches were all aimed to find childlike videos or women who looked like children. It gets worse – he is also a photographer who would often take up-skirt photos of underage girls and photos zoomed in to the chest while working for the local newspaper. He hid them very well on his many computers, but not well enough. He also had a collection of nudes he had taken of his exes hidden as well that they didn’t know he had (I deleted them). A vile man with many gross secrets.
Andrew Boersma from Palm Beach, Florida. Charming, love bombing, mirroring expert, looking to live off you, cheater.
Classic narcissist.
Always searching for next supply. Run quickly.
Wayne Aspinall from Birmingham, UK. Wayne comes across as a loving generous man and most of the time is until things aren’t going his way. He is controlling and will never be at fault always blames others. Told me I needed to loose weight as he had never dated anyone over a size 12. I was an 18 when I met him as he said he liked curvy. I lost weight over 30lbs but this wasn’t enough, he controlled what I ate and drank I didn’t see it to begin with then out of the blue he dumped me because I was not the slim sexy girlfriend he wanted, I was down to a size 14 and never realised my relationship with the man that I loved and lived in my home had a time limit . I was the perfect excuse as he I found out he was texting and had met up with an old friend he wanted a relationship with . So all in all he is a controller a liar and a cheat . He has left me feeling insecure with no confidence, he fooled everyone into believing he was a good, normal guy- sadly he is a controller with very aggressive behaviour when found out.
Jimmy Hardaway from Florida. James aka Jimmy, who is in his latter 50’s, has a terrible temper! Beware! He comes across as a Southern gentleman but when he looses control of anything, he turns into a totally different person, who lashes out at you/me. He has punched me in my vagina, face (giving me a black eye) and has knocked the wind out of me due to a punch in the stomach. All different situations and times. Extreme outbursts of anger when ever he got frustrated about something. He is able to hide this side of himself from most. Again…beware!
Teddy Grabarkewitz from Luling, Texas. This guy has cheated for years. Married 3 times or more. Cheated on his wife of 23 years with multiple women and even produced a child from one of those affairs. Refuses to see that child. He left his last wife and while dating me was involved with 3 other women at the same time. Lying to all of us. We banded together and kicked him to the side. The last stupid women is still dating him. Just warning in case anyone comes across him in the future. A man his age doesn’t change. Patterns don’t lie. He marries women for their money and this time is no different.
Bjorn Holubar from Long Island, NY. He’s is disbarred lawyer, psychopath. Alcoholic. Abusive when drunk. He isolated me from friends, family, colleagues. He claimed he couldn’t have a credit card or anything in his name because of his crazy exwife, so I ended up with an apartment, car, business, +3storage units for the business full of product…that he took from me for more than $100k & also sued me for more, so all the legal costs on top. He moved in with me (when his mother got a restraining order against him) & then wouldn’t vacate the loft or pay rent. He installed cameras in that loft (in only my name) claiming I was stealing from Him! He checked my phone & email while I was sleeping & claimed I was cheating on him while I was at job interviews if with a man – only because he had already got me fired from the prior job! He vandalized my car plus anything that he thought I cared about (family holiday items, year books, my pets). He stalked me while I had a restraining order against him. OH this is the Best one- he stabbed himself with a steak knife (near) his heart & claimed I tried to kill him. (The police didn’t believe him, but the judge said it was he said she said!). I had to leave NY to run away from him, but was forced to return often for his bogus court accusations- etc. He threatened my friends, family, colleagues. Please don’t believe a word he says!
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This man is a human stain that has spent his life disrupting the peace and happiness of many women and families. He lost his NY license to practice law years ago for defrauding clients (disbarred with prejudice) and lost his family’s estate in Setauket to foreclosure in May 2023. He continues to squat there with his current gf while the courts move to remove him. Police are at the house daily for domestic issues and problems with neighbors. He’s been arrested for menacing (firearms), dwi, theft, and has dozens of complaints filed against him. Extremely paranoid, unstable and dangerous. Would love to chat about this.
Austin Cogan from California. We were never dating officially but we went on a date and he and his friend Luke fucking roofied me. They were also racist, rich, Culver-City-ass pricks. Austin would not leave my house even though I was repeatedly telling him to get out because I was falling asleep at the end of what I thought was the night at the time, but was actually the morning. I told my best friend in the moment “I feel like something bad is going to happen if I fall asleep” because he was desperately trying to stay the night at my house to point of him following my bestfriend and i into the Uber to my house (I allowed him to but I was off Rufulin, weed, and tequila). Austin : red haired short maybe 5”5. Luke: receding hairline, light brown hair parted to the side.
Ryan Murphy from Nottingham, UK. Tried to control what I wore in public.
Had a vision and actually said “I want people to see us as the perfect couple.”
Likes to get drunk.
When a friend of his needed to crash at where us and Ryan’s best friend were staying, offered her the option of sharing a bed with him then got confused why I wanted to leave.
When I tried to break up with him he called me when I was 3hrs travel away saying he couldn’t live without me and was going to jump off a bridge if I left him. I travelled up to check he was okay and let him know that it was definitely over but to try to get him some help and saw texts that confirmed he’d actually slept with someone else anyway.
David Motter from Huntsville, AL. Narcissist sociopath, beware and run.
Kerry Hales from Tuscon, Az. My ex husband is a serial cheater and compulsive liar. I reported him once but it hasn’t showed up, so trying again. I wasted 20 years with him, unfortunately.
Shaun Cronin from Kent, UK. Comes across as very caring, intelligent and interesting. Enjoys alcohol a lot! Does not understand what consent means
Bret Bush from Austin, Texas. Where do you start with a man who has been doing damage for YEARS? Bret can be very charming and love bomb and tell you that he is going to take you to amazing places. He can’t afford to take you anywhere. He has terrible credit and rents wherever he goes because he has no intention of sticking around. He has lived in many places, but most recently Chicago>CT>TX. He will tell you he loves you and adores you and then break up with you by email or cheat. He lies about EVERYTHING to make himself look good. He left his wife of 20 years after cheating on her during their marriage and left when she got MS. Left another girlfriend at the airport where she was there to pick him up from a trip that he cheated on her. He got engaged to this woman but refused to sign a pre nup, and it ended when bought her a scale for Christmas and called her a cunt. Lived with me for one year and didn’t contribute a cent, but could afford a fancy golf membership. Left me abruptly through email and moved to Texas to live for free with his elderly, wealthy step mom. He told me he didn’t like her dogs, and when I questioned him about it, he said, “I pretend to.” When I told him that he was a sociopathic user, he texted me back “You are not wrong.” CHILLING. Lived with his step mom for close to 2 years until he met his next victim. They have moved in together and she doesn’t know a thing about his past. The ex fiance’s picture is still one of his cover pages on Facebook, but he has it set so the new girl can’t see it. I am still on his Netflix! She has no idea. Warning to anyone: Bret Bush is a user and a loser.
Umar/Umer Iqbal from Cambridge, MA. He is a cheater, liar, and manipulator. He is an emotional abuser and cheated on his long term girlfriend (while they were talking about marriage and making plans with their families). Just stay away.
Jared E. Miller from Richmond, Virginia. I started working with Jared in January of 2022, we went out on a date that same week. We ended up sleeping together and planned to go out again, that never happened. On January 28th, 2022 he se*ually as*aulted me in our place of work. I ended up reporting him to my manager in April of 2022 and he was fired shortly after. I found out after that he had lied to me about several important details about his life. Do not trust him. | S*xually assa*lted me at work. Made me go down on him. Lied about not having a past relationship with his roommate and multiple other things.
Jon Alder from Orange County, CA. He is a fraud. He pretended to be in love until he could get me pregnant and marry me. After that, the mask was off. He abused my daughter and I physically and mentally. He used me to buy him vacations, expensive clothing, a truck, and to pay over $40k helping him start a business. For almost our entire relationship he would never work and I raised my daughter and supported the family alone. Then he started working, abusing c*caine and all matter of other drugs. Once I asked him to leave and he made a false police report, telling police officers I attacked him. Finally, I left the state with my daughter as she needed medical treatment, and he refused to come. He filed for divorce the day she had liver surgery, and is dragging it out to a cost to me over $200k. He only wants money, and since he isn’t getting any he wants to make me suffer. He’s never sent his child a dollar or so much as a birthday card, and he refused to give us back anything we’ve ever owned. It’s all in his possession still so it is HIS. Truly a disgusting excuse for a human being. I REALLY HOPE THIS HELPS SOMEBODY TO RUN AWAY.
Jordan Augaudy from France.
Personne toxique à éviter :
-Menteur
-Alcoolique
-Hygiene catastrophique (n’oubliez pas le préservatif sinon il vous transmettra ses IST qu’il ne soigne pas).
-lâcheté extrême.
-Se croit drôle mais ne l’est pas.
-Parfois gênant.
-17 ans d’âge mental.
-Mal dans peau et dans sa tête, de toute évidence.
J’ai eu beau chercher sa paire de couilles, je ne l’ai jamais trouvé.
A fuir, donc.
David Kilmer from Alabama. David Kilmer is a classic textbook case abuser who thinks he’s entitled to act out and ab*se a woman whenever she isn’t agreeing to stay silent. When you meet him, and always, he presents his whole life story as him being the victim of all the women he dated or was married to. He’s a handsome, highly educated, articulate, well-mannered, covert narcissist who is very disarming, persuasive, and manipulative. He is a successful professional social worker and therapist and talented successful musician. In the beginning, he will love bomb you, but eventually, you’ll notice that he only talks about himself and takes over every conversation and only spends his time on himself and his interests. When you eventually have a complaint about the way he’s treating you, he will turn on you like a rabid German Shepherd and have a scary tantrum, saying you’re an overly critical misguided horrible woman because you dared to have a problem with him. If you try to explain that you were just asking for what you need, he will not listen but raise his voice in anger to bully you and frighten you into silence. If, then, you are not silent, if you tell him to calm down, he will explode and break things and slam doors or viciously tear you down more or storm out and stay gone for literally hours, unreachable, and neglecting responsibilities. If he stays and lectures you, he rages on for hours about how horrible you are for mentioning your own needs and daring to complain about anything or ask him to change his behavior. Eventually, after hours of ab*se, if you finally lose your cool and yell back or God forbid get out of line like him, he will scream in your face or speed in the car or almost run over you or knock you down or kick a door into your face or give you a black eye or concussion or knock you unconscious. Later, he will say you were abusive and you getting injured was an accident. Also, he will ab*se dr*gs and lie to you about it. He will carry on inappropriate relationships with his clients, texting socially at all hours. If you stop having s*x with him, he’ll say you’re ab*sive. If you say you are leaving him, he’ll say you shouldn’t leave because you owe him. Avoid this man. He is crazy, unfair, disrespectful, and dangerous.
Roger Lynn Winkler from Odessa, Texas. will lie about his feelings and hardships to get you to lend him money and then ghosts you without paying back what he borrowed. google him for more info.
Gary A Magnot from Clarks Summit, PA. Has cheated in every relationship. I was treated for VD. Pathological liar even when no need. Has a excessive porn addiction, at home and work. It’s all about the chase for him until the next one.
Jake Hodges from Oklahoma. He is the absolute worst. He cheated on me with my BEST FRIEND.
Jaime Rico from Lakewood, Colorado. He is a narcissistic ab*ser. He has choked me out and put a g*n to my head multiple times. He has also left 3rd degree burns on our sons arm due to neglect, and when I went to the ER, he said him and his family would blame me if child protective services got involved. Steer clear ladies!!!
Ariel Espinal from New York. He will love bomb you! in two weeks or so he will slowly move in. When you tell him that you aren’t ready to move in he’ll say that’s not what I’m trying to do I’ll leave… He won’t. All his exs are crazy(convenient). When they contact you-TRUST THEM NOT HIM! I made that mistake. He is gonna say that he loves you, but the truth is he just needs a place to stay. Then he’ll go through your purse, steal your money, he’ll steal your car, he’ll make up excuses and maybe even fake cancer(two years later I still don’t know if he actually had it) Every time you confront him he’ll come up with an excuse. You can try to be there for him, go to appointments, offer help etc… hell refuse it all but will gladly accept financial help and he will never pay you back or offer an explanation.
David Casanova from Hamilton/Toronto, Canada. First off don’t even bother dating him unless you want to be disrespected and and SA. He was sweet to me at first but was very condescending after some time. I never thought I would ever be SA from someone I trusted. He pretends he cares to get what he wants but in reality he is very selfish. AVOID AT ALL COSTS.
Scott Kilian from around Tampa, Florida. He lived with me for a time. Walked off with some of my stuff but the worst thing he did before he left is he lied and wanted me to let a ‘friend’ of his (female) stay at my place and lied and said they were only friends and never had s*x. Found out that was a lie. I kicked her out for what she was doing and he left with her. Avoid him. His name is Scott Kilian.
Kerry Hales from Tucson, Az. He is a serial cheater, has never been faithful to anyone. Compulsive liar as well. Will try to charm you into thinking he’s a great guy, but cheated and lied to me for most of 20 years.
Joshua Aderinola Adeloye from London/Nottingham, England. Classic narcissist. Cheats, constantly lies, preys on vulnerable ‘girl-next-door’ type women. Shames them but then backhandedly compliments them – negging. Acts like a very entitled individual. The moment you speak your opinion which doesn’t align with his, he will either hook up with someone else (says he’s spending time with the guys) or will give you the silent treatment for days so that you feel like it’s your fault. Has a short temper if you act like an individual. Only nice for his own self gain. Victimises himself. Tries to use his high earnings and flashy car to lure women in but will get her to pay for everything. Comes across as pleasant and jokey but is viscous behind closed doors. Also often attempts to pick women up either on social media or at festivals/UKG gigs. Please protect yourself at all costs!
Callum Ward from Lincoln, England. This man is very manipulative and cunning. He carries himself with a charming demeanor and hides his wrong-doings behind his professional career as a teacher/football coach. He compulsively lies – so much so, that you question yourself instead because he is so convincing. In the space of 36 hours, I uncovered 7 women he had cheated on me with. Very controlling but makes you think you are in control. Can also get physical with you if he does not get his own way. Please steer well clear.
Robert Todd from Melbourne, Australia (Watsonia North). He’s is a serial cheater and womaniser who cheated on me with numerous girls and gave me an STI. He currently has a new girlfriend named Chloe Symons and has been cheating on her too, and has potentially given her numerous STI’s. He asked me to come over to his new place in reservoir and sleep with him which I refused because I don’t want to risk getting another sti from him. The last time I had sex with him I asked him to use a condom and he refused to and forced me to have sex with him. This happened while he has been with Chloe.
Benjamin David Luke Rawlings / Atkinson from Perth Western Australia. Deadbeat Baby Daddy to 2 kids currently!
Girl basher, will beat you daily & make you believe it’s your own fault, that nobody else would want you, no one in your family cares about you. Whilst controlling every thing in your life he will also be out cheating on you, with any swamp rat he can get his hands on. He will steal from you, he will lie. & he will continue to make you believe you only have him to lean on. He more than likely has diseases by now, thanks to his very many years in jail.
He also has a criminal record to prove all the assaults he has made on FEMALES, namely – his 2 baby Mummas.
He also has a sexual assault on his record, it may have had the charges dropped. But his friend will confirm, it was in fact non consented – therefore rape.
Phil Whyatt from Lockrose QLD Australia. Met him on tinder and was so charming. Sent heaps of texts, calls photos etc. We were dating and I always had a suspicion that something wasn’t right. He always had to leave early and would always have a reason not to come over. When I was at his place he was constantly looking out windows and I joked that “he was looking for the missus to come home”. Well after a few more week of him making excuses and saying there was no one else I had enough and said good bye. Two days later I saw him on “people you may know” on Facebook. Which was weird because he said he hated Facebook. So of course I clicked on the profile.. because you know.. curiosity.
There was 1 person that liked his photo and because I was already suspicious I clicked on this girls profile. To my surprise it was his girlfriend of two years! So I girl coded and messaged her to tell her what was going on. She didn’t believe me until I sent her all the naked photos he had been sending me over this time. She believed me then. We then found another girl on his instagram that we thought he had been seeing and sure enough.. he had been dating her too.. lol at the same time as us. I walked away but the original gf stayed with him. So if you see a phil on tinder.. he has a girlfriend. I guarantee he is going to do this again .. don’t be number three like I was hahaha
Tony Vega from Brisbane, Australia. Cheated multiple times. Threatened to unalive himself when she wanted to break up. Convinced her to stay then cheated on her with somebody new while she was at home looking after his kids. Broke up with her to be with the new girl and got engaged to the new girl 2 weeks later. Then cheated on the now-fiance with the ex gf while she was in Europe for a couple of weeks by telling the ex gf he was on a “break”. He wasn’t. Could go on as he cheated soooo many times with so many different people. The worst.
Adriel Yeo from Brisbane, Australia. Serial cheater. Cheated on his wife (#1) with his girlfriend (#2). Then cheated on his girlfriend (#2) with his wife (#1). Got a new GF (#3) and cheated on her with his ex gf (#2). Also cheated on his wife (#1) and probably ex gf with his “best female friend”. Can’t help himself. Religious man. Thinks god forgives him so he doesn’t need anybody else’s forgiveness.
Roer Jimenez from Sydney, Australia. Strung me along for 10 years and then found out he was married…yep a story as old as Rome. A consummate liar. I don’t think I will ever recover but adding his name to this list helps.
Bernard Sinclair from Melbourne, Australia. Untrustworthy!
Simon Morrey from Melbourne, Victoria, Australia. Cheated and then told me all about it for some reason. Then became violent.
Azzam Alqalawi from Arlington, TX. TOXIC IS AN UNDERSTATEMENT!!! Controlling, minipulative, liar….the worst is he is a predator! Has a record of going after underaged girls. Stay away. If not because what an awful person he is, then let it be so you aren’t around when his karma hits
Christopher Ho. He is a straight up pedophile, craddle robber, and creep. He groomed me when i had just became a teenager and he was over 18 yrs old. He coerced me into having sex then cheated on me by having sex with other girls who were under the age of 17. He also took nude photos of my without my knowledge and shared it amongst his circle. He should be locked up.
Johnny Si from Brooklyn, NY. This man child is a cheater, pathological liar, cheapskate, insecure, and will steal from you. We dated for a while and this guy stole money from mt repeatedly (i didn’t realize until i ended the relationship that money was gone from my home), when confronted about this, he did not deny what he did. He also made a ton of white lies throughout the relationship, such as having a job, going to school, and having a college degree when in reality he was just sitting at home doing nothing for months. Once he had a job, he cheated on me with his coworker and was caught in the act. He also tried to pocket money from his sister’s boyfriend. He is a broke ass dude that is just bumming off anyone he can to make it appear like he has some money to take you out. Don’t fall for it.
David Landry from Regina, Saskatchewan, Canada. What a loser. Manipulative and insecure, gaslights and cheats on his girlfriends. Pressured me into sending nudes, then found him jerking off to a folder of all his exes. Garbage human.
Zach Zumbuhl from Lafayette, Indiana. Met on Tinder and we hit it off intensely. He said he was divorced and split custody of his daughter with his ex. We got serious and about 4 months in he started distancing himself. I sense something is up and do a little internet researching and his ass is still married and they live together raising their child.
I confront him and he says that he plans on asking for a divorce and didn’t tell me because he didn’t want to scare me away. (Yes my dumb ass bought it) About a week later, we were supposed to go out to dinner and I can’t get ahold of him. Phone goes straight to voicemail and no text response. I’m freaked out so I drive over to his house where he is working on his truck in driveway.
I get out of my car and he immediately grabs me and guides me back to my car and tells me that I need to leave. I start asking him questions and he says that he’ll meet me at a business parking lot just around the corner. So I go and meet him there where he tells me that he and his wife are in counseling and that he wants to make it work with her. But not before he tries getting me to have sex with him in my car one last time.
I wish I could say I walked away at that point but the next 6 months were pretty much him playing mind games with me for sex. He played me a lot and knew exactly what to say to keep me on the line.
If you run across Zach Zumbuhl from Lafayette, IN on any dating apps or in person, steer clear. He’s still married to the same woman, still a gamey fuck, and won’t care about how much he’s hurt you.
Troy Piper from Cleveland,Ohio. Troy Piper is an abusive narcissist. I know those terms get thrown around a lot, but in this case it is true. He lovesbombs in the beginning and then plays games to get you hooked. He is an alcoholic and our relationship finally ended when he beat me up in an alcoholic rage. I had a concussion, broken teeth, pulled ligament in my hand which required surgery. The asshole only spent 5 days in jail because it was his first offense. Avoid this dangerous man at all costs.
Marcelo Goecking from Columbus, OH. Marcelo is a Brazilian man who has lived in the States for about 6 years. I met him on a dating app. He lied to be about everything. He told me he had been separated for 7 months and was now divorced. I later found out from his ex-wife that he was living with her for the first month that he and I dated (we dated for about 3 months). After that first month of dating me, he had sex with her. When I found out and confronted him, it was just more lies. She begged him for it, what was he supposed to do? He didn’t think we were exclusive (we had already agreed to be), etc. After a little more investigating, I found out he had gone on a date with at least one other girl while I was dating him. Meanwhile, I was starting to grow very unhappy with our relationship. Even though I didn’t know about the other women, he stopped taking me out on dates, stopped wanting to go anywhere in public. Refused to come to my house blaming that on the fact that I have cats. After that first month, he just wanted me to come over, cook him dinner, have sex with him, and spend the night. He just wanted a woman around the house. I dumped him after finding out about the other women (his ex-wife found me online and warned me). He blamed me and said that he wanted to break up with me anyways. This is a horribly narcissistic man who is pathological on many levels. Unfortunately he is very good looking and quite charming and good in bed. I think he wants to date as many American women as possible, using them for sex, meals, and the ability to learn English and possibly to business together in this country. If you encounter this man, run for the hills. He is very very bad news.
Jonathan Leon Mejia from Bucaramanga, Colombia.
Positive:
He’s a good cook
He loved traveling
Negative
He’s a cheater
He’s a womanizer
He’s a liar
He’s selfish
He’s extremely stingy
He’s a taker and not a giver
He’s emotionally and mentally unstable
He’s flaky with plans
He’s unorganized with his life
He doesn’t know what he wants in his life
He plans and doesn’t do his plans
He is immature
He is irresponsible
He has a daughter that he refuses to financially support
He’s a vagabond
He is a bedhopper
He will break up with you every three months and come back to you after
He enjoys putting his partner down
He likes an on and off relationship
He likes one sided open relationship (and that side is his side)
He is never appreciative
He enjoys criticizing his partner
You can never plan a life with him because he is flaky and unstable
He always complains everyday about everything
He is never grateful about anything
He is a narcissist
Bret Bush from Austin, Texas. Where do you start with a man who has been doing damage for YEARS? Bret can be very charming and love bomb and tell you that he is going to take you to amazing places. He can’t afford to take you anywhere. He will tell you he loves you and adores you and then break up with you by email or cheat. He lies about EVERYTHING to make himself look good.
This man was married for over 20 years to the same woman. He told me she cheated on him, however, he slipped and told me about a time he was at a Duran Duran concert and cheated on her. Left her when she got a diagnosis of Multiple Sclorosis. First woman I know of that he dated for over a year in Chicago was clearly infatuated as she posted all about him. He left her for a woman he met in Georgia at a bar. After one weekend with this woman, he arrived in Chicago to be picked up by the woman in Chicago and he told her he had met the love of his life in GA, so it they were done. He never told me that story, the GA woman did.
He tells the GA woman he is moving to Hartford for a promotion, it was actually a new job for him. Anyway, the GA woman said that he was highly jealous, insecure and very cheap. She said she found Viagra in his bags. Yet, he loves if you dress provocatively and he will walk around with you on his arm. They broke up once and he traveled to Buckhead to her favorite restaurant to find her. He told me that she reached out to HIM to apologize and promised to “change her whole personality.” Ultimately, they got back together. The GA woman got engaged to him but wanted a pre nup as she has family businesses. He refused. At the end, he and his grown children went to SC to visit her family and celebrate together. Not only were they rude, he bought her a scale as one of her presents, which she opened in front of the entire family. After a day of Christmas craziness, he insisted on having sex, the GA woman said no and he had tantrum and called her a cunt.
She responded that he will never see this cunt again and he went into the parking garage and transferred all the gifts she got him into his car and refused to leave until the morning. She never spoke to him again. He kept her family and friends on his social media and never took down their photos. He reached out to her, but she didn’t respond. A year later, I meet him on Bumble in Connecticut. He tells me that he is looking for a partner, not someone looking for money. He said his ex asked to buy her a Mercedes 6 months into their relationship. She says that it is a lie. (She is successful on her own.) At the time, I lived in a big house in a nice town and was getting a divorce.
After one month of dating, he started staying my house and made himself at home. I noticed he had all of his ex’s friends and family and her pics on social media, which I thought was strange. He lied and told me he had no contact with any of them. When I moved into my condo, he came too. While he had an apartment, he stayed with me every day and then the pandemic hit. He never really left. We had sex daily for months. He didn’t pay for wifi at his place so he needed to work from my home or my business.
He was able to afford an expensive golf membership and take us out to eat, but didn’t pay me a cent for living there. I cleaned and did his laundry and grocery shopped. He told me adored me, wanted to take me on trips, was only in relationships if he “saw a future”. Trust me, that never happened. He took me to Chicago and stayed in a crappy hotel and he introduced me to his grown children and his ex wife. They were very nice, but honestly, why introduce me if you don’t see a future with me? Odd. One time he offered to pay me $200 for living expenses when he had lived there about 6 months lol. By August. when he said he didn’t want to officially move in, I asked him to leave. He became hard to reach (come find out he drives for LYFT!) Finally one night in November we argued about politics. The next day he broke up with me by email.
I got COVID a few days later and he said to let him know if I needed anything, but he never checked on me. 2 weeks later he called to talk. I refused. After we broke up, he moved to Austin without letting me know until I saw it on Bumble. He moved in with his stepmother, a wealthy older woman. Lived with her for over a year FOR FREE. He had told me his real mother committed suicide, told his GA girlfriend she was murdered. We kept in touch back and forth for a year. (I still didn’t see it!) When he was in CT for work or golf, he reached out, but I refused. I finally agreed to see him and he came up here for a week last February. Told me he was in Houston the weekend before with another woman at an Elton John concert, but also told me he wanted a future with me and that he was all in. Told me he loved me. I never heard from him again.
I had told him I was not going to go to Texas or have a long distance relationship with a man who lives with his step mom. Saw him on Bumble the very same week. I sent him a long text telling him he is a predatory sociopath and a user. HE TEXTED ME BACK THAT I WASN’T WRONG! He is now living with a very low class girl, children didn’t live with her, no career, can’t spell, lots of filler and filters and has a rap sheet for stealing. They have moved in together (out of his stepmoms big house!) and the poor thing is adding his last name to her permanent jewelry business. Like she is special to him. And the ex fiance’s picture is still one of his cover pages on Facebook, but he has it set so the new girl can’t see it. I am still on his Netflix! She has no idea. He is just keeping a tie to us in case it doesn’t work out with the new girl. Warning to anyone: Bret Bush is a user and a loser.
There is so much, I forgot to add that he is a heavy drinker and pretty much drinks everyday. He will not buy property and always rents because he wants to be able to move on a whim. He has an odd relationship with his ex wife. He complains about her, but they speak often. He told me he didn’t like his stepmom’s dachshunds that he was caring for, but told me “I pretend to like them.” Also, he is collecting money from investors to start a business with some partners here in CT, but this process has been going on for 2 years, and I doubt at 60 years old, he will ever succeed. DO NOT GIVE HIM ACCESS TO YOUR LIFE, HE WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE.
Seydou Belemvire from Hyattsville, MD. GHOSTED AFTER A YEAR OF DATING
Met Seydou on Hinge. He was a recently divorced dad and didn’t disclose online that he was technically awaiting final divorce papers until we met in person. I began to get very outlandish stories about where he was when he would miss calls or activities about a week or so before we split. He even missed Valentine’s Day with some last-minute excuse.
Finally things ended because he ghosted me while I was in the hospital and never returned any of my personal belongings. He seemed like a nice guy at first, but nice guys aren’t bitter at women and don’t break up with you by ghosting. He was probably cheating and just decided to go for what was easiest rather than behaving like a real man… at 45 years of age. He starts off well, but just isn’t the kind of guy to be able to maintain a relationship long term which explains why he’s divorced. Fun to date at first, but certainly not someone you will miss when he’s gone. Just make sure you don’t leave anything of value at his place.
Daniel Williams from Hawthorne, CA. Be Careful trusting the feelings he says he has. We were dating for several months, he expressed his love during intimacy, then ghosted for a week. Turns out he said he loved me and literally took it back and said he didn’t, that he was caught up in the moment. Should have walked away then. Fast forward 2 years later. Lied about vacation planning with his brother and where he was going to party, who was there, and what drugs he was doing. Did not admit it until he was caught in the lie. Fast forward 2 years after that and we have been living together for 9 months. Gas lighted me at every chance he could get. He got me to the point where I was begging for attention and affection and told me that my feelings were wrong. Lied about watching porn and panicked when confronted. He is a selfish lover and anytime I tried to ask for my own needs, he denied me. The moment I set boundaries and started asking for a partner who helped around the house, who was accountable for their actions and be communicative, he told me he wanted to be alone and not have the responsibility of a relationship. He left two days later to go live with his mother who cooks and cleans for him. This man is a self admitted coward who can’t even take care of himself, let alone be a willing partner. Keep in mind, he is in his 30s. If he wants to date you, shut it down quickly.
Brooklyn James Jongkind from Abbotsford and Vancouver, BC Canada. James and I met on hinge.
We dated, got married all within less than four months after dating.
We got pregnant and he abandoned me.
James is 41 years old, claims to have a history of “businesses”
Lives with his parents
“Christian” but talks bad about everyone, including his family.
Use to be a dancer
Was a martial arts instructor in Vancouver.
Was arrested for horrible things
Uses woman financial
Can’t afford anything
Brooklyn James has ghosted me during the pregnancy.
He loves to play the victim.
The Range Rover, I bought it and he financially abused me.
Abusive partner physically, mentally and emotionally.
Alpha male, I had to do what he said because he’s a man.
Created fake dating profiles to catch his sister in law cheating but yet he talks to younger woman.
Lived in Barcelona for 10 years and has traveled the world but yet is banded from 10 continents.
Claims his ex is crazy and a drug user.
Yet, we are married, he has made my life hell. Im pregnant with his daughters and he doesn’t seem to care one bit.
Im sure he’s active on a dating app, trying to wow females.
Works for Melaleuca, a pyramid scheme company.
Claims that it’s his father’s multimillion company. Again, it’s not.
Let me just say this ladies, he can’t afford a cup of coffee or gas.
Chris Gauthier (not the famous actor) from Maryland, Illinois, AZ. Chris Gauthier recently from Maryland, but now a digital nomad possibly in SC, NC, AZ and Spain (Granada or Malaga). Originally from Illinois. (Not Chris Gauthier the famous actor!)
A super charming, educated and smart guy. Loves to talk and knows a little something about everything. Will charm the pants off of any girl and will love-bomb you. He will tell you whatever you want to hear just to sleep with you. I wasted 10 years of my life with this man. He is a chronic liar–chronic, and know him well. If his mouth is open, he’s lying. He lies about everything, even when it’s not necessary. He told me he was divorced when we first met, even after I repeatedly asked about this, but turns out he didn’t get divorced until 1.5 years after we were together.
But the lies go much deeper. Even in the first year we were together, he kept several female “friends” close by. One, he met for dinner and drinks on a Friday night when he was supposed to be going out with me. He was 3 hours late getting to my house and said that he had gone back to work (I know this was a lie because one of my friends saw them at the restaurant looking very “comfortable” together and then in his car for a LONG time. He ended up sleeping with that woman and lying to me about it for years. And then there were multiple ex lovers through the years whom he always kept on a short string, always hiding his texts and emails with them. I looked at his texts a few times, and they were sexual in nature and not the kind of text you would exchange with “just friends.” There was another woman whom he bumped into at his job one year whom he essentially dated at work while he and I were living together. Lunch, breaks, dinners, drinks, hangouts, private messages…. This was a woman with whom he almost cheated on his first wife with, but now he had the chance to sleep with her again and my gut says he did. He also brought home an STD–thanks, Chris.
And it gets even worse. Despite his charm and intelligence, he has a behavioral addiction (not a drug, but behavioral addiction). He has a sexual compulsive addiction, which is manifested in pornography (mostly) but also some other very concerning behavior. Don’t get me wrong, this is NOT LIKE the millions of guys who look at porn on the weekends, no, Chris is looking at it almost 24/7. His porn viewing starts as soon as he wakes up in the morning, he would reach for his phone to view the latest celebrity bikinis or “nip-slips”, then he takes his phone to the bathroom for more “private” porn viewing. And then he was in and out of the bathroom multiple times a day for 30+ minutes at a time. Then we watches porn before, during, and after his home workout. He says it gets the blood pumping. He had a database of thousands of pornographic photos of models that scrolls on screen while he works out. And then it was off to work (before he became a remote worker), driving to/from work every day on the Washington DC / VA / MD beltway, watching porn videos while driving. He even crashed his car twice because he was watching porn instead of paying attention to traffic and it was months for his car to get fixed. At work, he would take printed literotica into the bathroom (phones/electronics not allowed in the building) and would view porn on the work computer but only through his google drive or “shopping” sites (lingerie, bikini, celebrity models, etc) so he wouldn’t get caught. He changed job contracts within the company often, likely because he never did much work because of the porn-lite all day at work. Remote work now makes it so much easier now for him to view hard-core porn most of the day. This is his EVERY DAY routine! I counted his work hours once for a few weeks and he actually only worked about 10-15 of the 40 hours he claimed on his timesheet. And he was in and out of porn 30+ times each day. Every day! Not kidding.
When he would get home from work, he would sit in the parking space finishing up his porn before coming in and then lie saying he was on a work call (I kept proof of all of this too!). Then he would “go to the bathroom” with his phone or tablet for 30-40 minutes, and on and on. I didn’t know about the porn until the first day we moved in together (when I caught him alone in the kitchen watching porn while church people and kids carried in boxes!) and once I started really looking into what was happening, I was completely shocked at the amount of porn he was watching, and the TYPE. Even sometimes “teen” porn (of course the sites say they are 18+, but I wasn’t really convinced). And as any addict does, he needed more and more of the drug to get his fix. And in our sex life he needed either porn or other progressively weird things to have a good time. And I haven’t even mentioned the prostitutes. He’s sick, and he hides it from the world extremely well. But the worst part is that he cannot acknowledge that he has an addiction. This, and the chronic lying, and the women, the trust issues, tore us apart (and of course he blamed me!).
He’s also extremely good at gaslighting. When I showed him the proof when I brought up the problems, (from his phone or wherever), he would be so mad at being caught lying that he would call me psychotic–basically because he was caught and was trying to retaliate! He would lie about the porn, the lovers, and everything else and then try to make me think that I was the problem or tell me something completely opposite to make me question myself. I started recording our conversations and gathering proof just to make sure I wasn’t crazy and to prove that he was a liar and an addict. I’d say he probably borders on “charming narcissist.” Again, he is super charming on the outside, but has a dark and ugly inside. I hope this helps someone down the road and luckily I kept my proof just in case someone tries to question my words.
Mervin Green from Fresno California. He is a seriel cheater. Dated me while he had an entire girlfriend and another side chick! Was dating all three of us at once. This was just 2021. I broke the news to his girlfriend after I found out, she was devastated but she was the nicest person and understood everything. He is a jerk who uses his past trauma to guilt you into staying with him. He is a whole different level of narcissist!
Brian McNeil from Panama City, FL. He’s a sociopathic, narcissistic rapist. His whole family is very similar. I was married to him for years and was abused mentally, physically, and emotionally for the duration. Finally left him after he hit me in the face with his cast (he had 2 broken arms from an accident and was mad I was in the way of his video game.) Avoid this man at all costs, he’s not even worth being friends with.
Abraham Zayas from CA. He used to live in Chicago. He dated a girl in college and cheated on her relentlessly with Asian specific women (he’s not Asian). He seems quiet and chill but he lives multiple lives with women. He has a history of being a serial cheater and he is a narcissist. He is most likely with someone who he is probably cheating on with. Ladies please be warned.
Lucas Fuhrman from Greenville, MI. This is someone every woman should avoid at all costs. He is a full blown narcissist. He is physically abusive. To the point that he choked me. He has destroyed MANY of my personal belongings. He has cheated more times than I could possibly count. He is a porn and sex addict. He uses every woman he’s with. He may appear Charming and attentive but it is 100% an act. He will screw ANYTHING. He does not use protection. He once had sex with a girl that had just turned 18 and at her request.. did it on her father’s bed. He then came back to me and we spent several days on a vacation. Where we had unprotected sex. He has put my health at risk MANY times. You may find him on the usual dating sites. (As well as all the gay dating sites) Which he has been banned from. So if you see him there please report! He pressures and coerces woman to have sex with him. He sends unsolicited pics. He has sent my nudes out to multiple ppl without my consent. He targets overweight women the most and has a fetish for them and trans women as well. He thinks he’s really something because he has a “career”. He lies, steals and cheats. He takes whatever he wants. The nicer, more compassionate and more empathetic you are the bigger target you will present. He has attacked me then called the cops on ME. While he was on the phone with them kept yelling for me to stop hitting him. I was 100’s of yards away from him. He once called CPS during and off period because he thought I was seeing other men. He is a “grown man” yet he will seek out barely legal teens to hook up with. HE DOES NOT USE PROTECTION!!!!!!! He has ruined countless holidays and birthdays. I gave up years of my life hoping he would change. He is still exactly the same. He will not ever change. Having him out of my life has been transformative. I’m getting my life back. I’m not depressed anymore. My anxiety is so much lower now. PLEASE stay away from him. He is a VERY GOOD liar. Completely pathological too. He lies about stuff that’s so weird. He still lives with his parents. His family babies him and takes care of him. They have helped create a narcissist. He is absolutely nothing special. He doesn’t care about anyone. Not even you.
Andrew Ferguson and Indianapolis, IN. This man hooked up with my best friend in our downstairs bathroom, while I was asleep upstairs, the night we celebrated my birthday, two months after my sister died. And this was after he “warned” me that his “needs weren’t being met, and we both know bad things happen when my needs aren’t met”
This is far from the only terrible thing he did, but it’s by far the worst. Save your time, he’s addicted to porn, sex, he drinks like a fish with jack Daniels taste on a PBR budget.
Aundre Christopher from Anoka, MN. Avoid Aundre “Dre” at all costs. It’s a crazy ride of deceit and cheating. He wants to marry any successful women he finds, and claims his modeling career is successful until you find out the truth. His bisexuality isn’t the issue, but rather he doesn’t play safe and it’s not occasional mm fun, it’s multiple times a week. He will love you and treat you well, but all to hide his other activities. He doesn’t pay his bills, his multiple sugar daddies do.
ER Lombard from South Africa. ER Lombard is a pathological liar who gets a kick out of living double lives with multiple women at the same time, without consent. He is a leach who will tap you dry, both financially and emotionally. He is a narcissist who works at systematically breaking down the self-worth of every woman he cons.
John Longo from Albany, NY. Beware ladies! This man is married but thinks nothing of cheating on his wife.
Luis Cortez from San Bernardino, CA. He’s actually my ex husband. He had a major pornography addiction which really lowered my self esteem and prevented us from being intimate with each other. He was always very vengeful and full of the need to get even as well as being incredibly petty. For us, he didn’t love and appreciate me the way that I needed him to and we would constantly fight about it and I would beg him to just show me that he cared. He takes no responsibility in any of his actions and will always act like he does no wrong. Eventually we both had some infidelities which caused him to become insanely jealous to the point of looking through my phone and smart watch when I was sleeping or anytime I wasn’t around. I knew before we got married that he wasn’t for me and I should’ve listened to my gut!
Darnell Chase Hill from Emory, Texas. He met his new girlfriend when she was 16 and he was 23, groomed her until she was 18 and then knocked her up on her 18th bday. Then he decided he didn’t like her so he started dating me. He lied to me about their relationship and the origins of it for over 6 months and I didn’t find out until 6 more after the breakup when she texted me going apesh!t thinking I wouldn’t leave him alone. I explained that I dumped him over 6 mos prior and he was the one harassing me. We became friends, unfortunately they’re still together but I hope she gets out one day bc she deserves way better. I wouldn’t wish that lying, manipulating narcissist on my worst enemy.
Jason nottle from Adelaide, when we were together he cheated on me multiple times. After we broke up he dated all my friends. We have a son together and after he met his now girlfriend and they had a baby he refuses to see his son.
He has nothing to his name. Will never be able to afford a holiday or buy a house. I’m glad I got out of there
Dave from Upland-Irvine. RUN! Likes them young..real young. Will sweep you off your feet in an attempt to look like Prince Charming when he’s really the Villain. Faker than a used car salesman. Terrible credit and won’t pay his bills. Chronic cheater with severe mommy issues and teeny tiny baby balls. Horrible BO with worse teeth. Drug addict and alcoholic. Habitual liar. Ladies stay away from Dave from Upland/ Irvine/ Rancho Cucamonga- CA or Orange NJ! Not exaggerating when I tell you he likes them young. 13-17 and yes the police are involved.
David Smith from Greenwood/Indianapolis Indiana. I was with him for 8 excruciating shit show years.
I didn’t realize until a few years into the relationship that he is a malignant narcissist with BPD, a chronic alcoholic, and a fraud/con man.
To name a few:
He’s addicted to:
His ego / himself
Alcohol
Food
Porn
Money
(Overextends and spends irresponsibly has no retirement plan or savings
And filed bankruptcy at least 2 times).
He’s a hard core racist
Misogynist
Chauvinist
Bashes and hates women
He hates dogs
Always negative and screams at people.
Highly verbally abusive with some physical abuse too
Has threatened peoples lives including mine
Two faced backstabbing hypocrite who has nothing nice to say about anyone behind their backs
Fleeced (stole) over 70K + from my mom/family.
(not including the house we shared)
He’s been married many times previously and preys on women for his financial advancement.
His first wife wanted out so badly that she moved out and ran far away when he was at work one day. I understand her disdain, fear and desperation.
He participates in poor and shady business practices.
He is a carpenter
with his own business and overcharges and cuts corners constantly
He dumps chemicals illegally and cheats on his taxes.
He also collects guns
Is a conspiracy theorist
Is highly paranoid and unstable
He also has very nasty hygiene
He can sit for hours and chews his fingernails and finger skin.
Can’t flush a toilet
Won’t wash hands after taking a shit
Destroys the toilet seat when using the bathroom
Farts constantly
Snores like a freight train
His tiny dick didn’t/doesn’t work
Ogres or imps under bridges are an improvement in comparison to my fucktard ex.
I pray for any woman who might fall prey to that repulsive soul crushing life sucking vampire.
He’s a repulsive person. Run away if this parasite loud mouthed braggart conceited asshole starts trying to woo or groom you.
He has nothing to offer you even though he’ll act like his cooking skills deserve an award winning parade.
There is nothing genuine or altruistic about that man.
Always remember : As he’s helping you, he’s also making sure to help himself.
He will never go
without,… at the expense of others.
His sketchy double life and deception/lies are his smoke and mirrors game.
I have noticed lots of guys by the name of David listed here.
Kind of creepy isn’t it?
Jason Crumer. Was very forceful and tried to have s** with me without a condom and when I said I wanted to use one he said he wasn’t attracted to me anymore. Then went and slept with another girl in the house loudly. Told a lot of white supremacist “jokes” you could tell weren’t jokes.
Kevin D from Austin, Texas. Addicted to anonymous internet s**. Pressured me into not using protection. Lied about being sober and being with his ex.
Rain Cross from Austin, TX. Violated my repeatedly stated limits in bed and laughed about it
Leo’Nard Jordan from Atlanta, GA. Operates under the guise of being a “nice guy” who is pro-woman. But in reality he is a womanizer, cheater and a lazy bum. He cheated on me with other successful women, trying to get me to finance his lifestyle the entire time we dated. Didn’t have a steady residence, nor could he hold down a job. When one of the other women he was dating reached out to me, she told me she and him never used protection. Very narcissistic, selfish, and when he gets caught doing wrong, he plays the victim.
Kevin from Woodland, Ca. He’s a pig. No manners. Loud, obnoxious, and is very insecure about his tiny member. It’s only about 4 inches long. He thinks he’s God’s gift to women. Has no respect for the woman he’s with. Always thinks he’s right. Always wants his way. Drug user and alcoholic.
Aidyn Caisley from Melbourne, Australia. He was such a beautiful soul, he had his demons as everyone does but he always tried his absolute hardest to put it behind him and better himself for the future and for us. He was dedicated, persistent and always trying to make me smile even when I felt like I wasn’t able to, he trusted me and I trusted him even though we were only together for such a short time it was amazing, he helped build my confidence and always made me feel good about myself. The only slight red flag or issues we had were people of his past… His ex’s he never cheated but I didn’t like that he was so friendly with them, his friendly to everyone which I guess isn’t a problem unless you’re the jealous type. If the person reading this is with Aidyn don’t take him for granted. Show him the love he deserves ?
Adam cantergiani from McAllen and Dallas Texas. He has undisclosed jail records for robbing a house and possession. He is a drug addict. He is the class is example of a nascissist, lies, cheats, also asks you for money, guilt trips you. He has violent tendencies, can’t buy a gun and pushes people to buy one for him. Stay as away as possible from him. He tends to move around a lot, california may also be an option. He lools like a preppy fit guy. don’t be fooled.
Frank W Brevik from Savannah, Georgia. Physically and emotionally abusive, on top of being a constant cheater. He’s a very scary man. A classic narcissist, will love bomb and then slowly over time devalue you, make question your reality, try and make your confidence completely diminish. Believes women should be quiet, claims that no man wants a funny woman. Collects women as prey. Quite literally said it’s okay to do everything he does because “we are all predators”… terrifying. Groomed me as I was half his age and made the perfect victim. Makes voice recordings on his phone about the “things” he wants to do to his students. It’s genuinely disturbing. The list of horrendous acts goes on. Stay far away.
Tyler from mCalgary, Alberta. This man used me for 19 months. He couldn’t afford to pay his bills or feed his children. Told me bs lies that I was the one and he only wanted me. I put food in the house all the time. And he had the audacity to steal money from my wallet. And not small sums either. When I noticed he blamed his teenage son. Said he talk to him and nothing changed. I should have realized sooner it was him. We eventually moved to a more affordable place but he wasn’t happy. Our rent was always bouncing. He couldn’t budget his car payment and rent. I paid him half of the rent so not sure where his money was going. He eventually talked me into moving again on the promise that I would not have to pay more than I already was. My credit was used to get the home and 2 weeks later he’s done with me because I won’t buy him smokes. I went for a drive to clear my head and that was the end of it. Granted he would leave to go for drives and it was never a problem. Found out this man had been cheating on me pretty much from day 1. I stupidity supported him and ensured his kids where feed and he told me he stopped being intimate with me because I put on a gross amount of weight. I had lost 20 lbs during the course of our relationship. But you know he had photo evidence. This POS after the break up doesn’t pay the rent at the house I had to move out of and than abandoned it. He during this time of not paying rent borrowed money from his friend who had two kids and another on the way and could not really afford to loan him 300 bucks, so he could take his new girlfriend to Banff. Last I heard he never paid them back. Absolute waste of breath this one. He even posted lies on the dirty. It just made me feel bad for sleeping with something so stupid.
Tyreece Allen from Long Beach, Ca. He has more children than Future and Nick Cannon.
When I met him he had 3 kids from 2 women… which is a lot, but he seemed to be a great dad. He had custody of them and the kids adored him. So I made an exception and entered into a relationship with him.
I suspected he was cheating on me 2 years into the relationship, but never had any hard evidence… until we had a child. My daughter was 2 months old when I found out she had a 3 month sister from another woman.
I was heart broken and left the relationship, then found out later he father SIX other children during our 3 year relationship.
My life has taken a seriously unexpected detour.
Ladies, beware!
Christopher Clark from Mass. & WA. Cheating, lying, gaslighting. Ex-spouse had a restraining order for years.
William Robinson from Ellabell ga, somewhere in texas. Abusive, prolific cheater, gaslighter, is really sweet at first but once he has you he will brainwash you and when you try to leave it gets dangerous.
Stan Roberts from Dallas, Texas. I dated this man, Stan (25 years old), for 3.5 years until I found out he was leading multiple lives… 2 other long term girlfriends (one in LA and one in Dallas) and multiple long term hook ups/relationships in New Orleans. He is not honest about his sexual status and history, and has put at least 6 women at risk. His entire family and friends knew all of us and no one warned us, he had plans with each of us to move in together, get married, have kids, the whole deal…
He’s originally from LA, but has lived in Dallas, New Orleans, Scottsdale and is now back in Dallas. He spends a lot of time in all of these places, and if he doesn’t have a girlfriend in each place, he’s got women he hooks up with frequently in each area. He uses Hinge in all these places to find new women to date or hook up with. Please steer clear as he is manipulative and narcissistic and will continue his trend of hurting women emotionally and putting their sexual health at risk.
Tim Bell from Brisbane and coffs harbour Australia. He is a con artist and manipulates everyone to suit him. He kept it hidden from me for 6 years so he is very good at it. He will act like he is the most amazing catch but really he is a hidden junkie who shoots up in secret, uses fake profiles to sleep with anyone he can find and will secretly sell all of your belongings. He will make you think you’re a crazy person because he will deny everything even when he is 150 percent caught out on something. His denial game is unmatched! Don’t be fooled, I was for way to long and thought his ex was crazy but she was right about everything and now I’m here to warn the other girls of this despicable man child. In his fake profile I also found him trying to sleep with young teens so keep your kids away from him too
Chris McDonald from Qld Australia. He told my care team that I was a risk to myself and others, effectively locking me in a psych ward on my 19th birthday. In the 24 hours I was in there, he spent the entire time talking to one of the girls I went to school with who now had a fansly account. He spent this entire time talking to her, jacking off to her pictures and then left it all open on his laptop for me to find. On my birthday. Bastard didn’t even get me a cake. This, coupled with emotional affairs, cancelling dates and anniversaries to go out drinking with other women, making me take out loans I still can’t pay back to pay for his smokes and groceries after he spent all his money on alcohol, and a blatant disregard for how his actions affect anyone else but himself is why he is 29, with a failed marriage and a failed engagement under his belt. He looks like an incel in his tinder pics, he’s not, but he’s a grooming, pedophile piece of shit and unless you’re under the age of 18 and don’t know any better, he won’t be interested.
Chris from Qld Australia. Met when I was 17 and he was 27, he was my manager and I was a staff member. We moved in together and he started drinking and partying and forgetting important days, eventually broke up because of his obsession with another girl. 2 weeks later he was sexting another 16 year old girl, he was charged with using a carriage service to menace, harass, or cause offence. He used his alcoholism and the fact that he was ‘drunk’ as an excuse for trying to sleep with a 16 year old as a 29 year old man. He wasn’t drunk, he’s just a piece of shit
Henry Quarrell from Sa/vic Australia. Cheater, lier, abusive drunk, multiple baby mummas, won’t pay child support, marriage means nothing to him. Multiple restraining orders, also threatened to kill his ex wife because she wouldn’t put up with his bs anymore.
Kimble Patrick slaughter from the UK. He’s a full blown narcissist . He sleeps with prostitutes. Is on all online dating sites and is a gas lighting parasite. He will take your money . Your confidence and he will never tell the truth , he’s a dangerous drinking raging abuser.
Max Tidball from Somerset, UK. An abusive, self centred alcoholic. All he wanted was money from MY earnings to feed his habit.
He didn’t care when I was ill and he really has a crap family too. Glad I left him, really nasty pieces of work.
Harry Kamataris from Fort Lauderdale FL/Caoe Cod, MA. He is a covert narcissist that not only abuses emotionally but he will also physically assault you. He has a criminal record and appears most people know about this. I did not know this. I highly recommend any girl/lady/woman to second think any relationship with this guy.
Bruce Tretzen from Renton, WA. When we first got together I was 26, he said he wanted to wait on having kids, then 7 yrs later, I’ve helped him build his work network and contributed regularly to his house payment and the household expenses. Then he says he changed his mind, doesn’t want kids with me.
A few years later I looked him up on twitter and found him having private chats with our friends’ 15 yr old daughter on her sexually promiscuous account, she literally had called herself a “ho” in the title. This was a girl we knew since she was only 4 and I had always been like an aunt to her. I also had caught him cheating and lying his ass off about it over the years, like when he’d take trips to vegas to visit his parents, yet he stayed in a hotel 30 minutes away. Every night with this man was an absolute bore watching him chat with babes online and ignore me.
Cameron Mosier from Muskegon/ Grand Rapids, MI. Narcissist, emotionally, psychologically, financially, and physically abusive.
He’ll seem like a gentle, wounded, giant at first. He was beaten as a child and has had girls cheat on him in the past so comes across as a sorry soul. (All true, family verified). He told me an ex even took him to court for stalking but the case was dropped because she messaged him ‘I love you’ before the hearing. (first red flag, I know, but he explained it as her and her mom were upset he broke things off)
First year was great. Didn’t realise I was being conditioned into messaging him at all points of the day – even if I woke up at 3am- if he saw I was online at 3am why didn’t I message him? Slowly realised I was no longer allowed to hang out with friends after work or the weekends. If I had a shift with men I had to ask to change to all female shift.
I wanted to go to university to get a better job (he was unemployed and had a hard time keeping a job as had a big of a temper with authority figures. I was paying his rent and groceries despite us not living together). He was furious and said he’d kill himself if I went away to study.
After a physical altercation I broke up with him for good.
Post breakup I figured out that he made dozens of fake social media accounts to lie and spy on me during our relationship. Then used them to harass me and posted NSFW images of me and even videos I didn’t know were recorded(!!) online with my personal number and social medias making guys harass me as well. He drove across country to my childhood home and sent me pictures of him there 2 years post break up.
All while occasionally threatening to kill himself or me if we didn’t get back together. This stalking went on for 4 years POST BREAK UP. I blocked all of his numbers and accounts but he just kept getting new ones!
Yeah, be aware.
PS I’m doing a Law masters now sooooo fuck you Cameron.
Brad from Maidstone area U.K. Lied about a lot of things , such as money , his folks , himself, his mates , etc
Kelvin Shephard from Pontypridd, South Wales. I met him whilst working at the cinema years ago, in my home town of Telford, he came across as kind and caring… We were soon dating and he managed to isolate me from my family and friends. I felt pressured into marrying him whilst i was still young (he is 8 years older than myself) he beefed himself up to be this person that he is not ie professional photographer/cinema projectionist and marketing guy.. but he was none of the things he was telling everyone he was… After our wedding day everything went further south… I was mentally abused by him as he loved to play mind games with me and make me out to be his child bride to all the older men who would listen to him.. He had affairs in the marriage and never contributed to the house hold bills, leaving me to pay for everything on my bakery wages… When my brother was murdered, he told me that my brother deserved to be beaten to death and was not there for me as i grieved for my little brother… This is when i started gathering information about him to help me get a divorce… before i filed for divorce he got mugged on the way home from work and because i didn’t call an ambulance to meet him at home, when he arrived home… he called the police and tried to get them to arrest me, stating I set him up to be beaten and robbed! (wish i had now!) Once i had gathered enough evidence against him for the divorce I filed it… Unfortunately he got half of everything, even though he never contributed towards anything and i moved on.. but during the divorce he registered my phone number as some sort of sex line and i was getting all sorts of perverts ringing me up for sex.. i changed my number… Now I’m married to a friend I have known for years and we now have kids of our own… Kelvin moved to Pontypridd after our divorce and he is still lying and scheming and giving false character references for himself on line… so please beware girls he is not what he pretends to be.. on typing this he will be now 52 years old and still likes younger girls.
Ahmed moneim from Winter garden, Florida. I’m doing this because I wish someone had warned me about Ahmed Moneim. He abuses and controls women. He treats them like property. He lies constantly and has a serious drug problem with coke and marijuana.
He might buy you things in the beginning but then when he feels like he has you trapped he WILL financially control you. He Will threaten you and lie to you. This is the type of man that will NEVER change. Do not submit to him. YOU ARE NOT HIS PROPERTY. LEAVE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE OR YOU WILL END UP BEING PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY ABUSED. I had to get a restraining order because he wouldn’t stop. He has completely abandoned his son and lies and blames it on me but as upsetting as it is for my son to not have a father he’s so much better off without him in his life. He used to give our son false hope and promises. He would say he was picking him up and bringing him somewhere fun and then never showed up. He would buy my son a phone or a gift and then take it back and give it to someone else. He would throw his toys across the room at me. He smoked marijuana with my son in the car.
He’s a monster and used our son to play games with me. My son is now in therapy and will probably always need it because of the abandonment issues and the way his father treated him. I have proof of all of this from texts, recordings, and restraining orders. My oldest son who is not his is also a witness to the abuse and can’t stand him. He finally moved on after years and had 2 kids with someone else and they separated last year. His ex contacted me and said that she’s going through the courts with him and he’s completely lost his mind and he’s still using drugs. One of the things that really stuck in my mind that she said was “why didn’t you warn me”. I told her I didn’t know how. I didn’t have a way of contacting her. So now I’m telling all of you. Stay far, far away from him.
Darren Flint from Newport, Shropshire. He was loving and kind when we got together, then we moved in together. when he got laid off from his construction job, he kept telling me that he was too depressed to work, was constantly round his parents or friends houses or playing video games at home, whilst i had three jobs going to keep the roof over our heads and keep the bailiffs from our door (i was paying his and my own debts, as well as all the house bills) Then he had the audacity to accuse me of cheating on him, when i was working 7.30am until 11pm Monday to Saturday, with the three jobs!
Sunday I would go to my mothers house. When i fell pregnant by him, he stressed me out that much with stating he was going to leave me and didn’t want anything to do with the baby, that i actually miscarried the child, which destroyed me… He used this to get attention from his family and friends and cried crocodile tears to get attention/sympathy, where as, I never received any support from anyone.. i went to the doctors as i was on the edge of a breakdown and the doctor called in the mental health team, asking me if i wanted respite care in the local mental hospital, to which i declined, so the doctor upped my meds a bit to help me cope… in the end i was sick to death of being accused of cheating, on a daily basis, i ended our tenancy and gave him some of the bills to pay (told the suppliers he was going to pay for some and why) I then moved back to my mothers to rebuild myself.. whilst clearing out the last of my things he turned up asking for his jump leads out the back of my car, so i told him to get them.. but he emptied my boot into his own (brand new tools that i had just bought along with some of my brothers tools) After i left i heard he was driving school girls round the town and on daytrips…. I am glad I got out and met someone better, now i am married with kids, but Darren made it obvious he wanted to keep his jack the lad behaviour going for longer than his teen years… he is now in his late 40’s and still hanging around with younger girls.
Zack Davie from Conover/piqua/Troy, ohio.
Where do I begin with him.
We met in like 2017 or 2018 and for five years my life was hell.
He has major commitment issues. Tells you he love you one min then tell you that you are “worthless, ugly, disgusting” list goes on.
If he’s not verbally abusing you , then it will be mental and sexual abuse.
We broke up like a week after dating. We then became on and off with stuff . Mostly him doing the “I don’t wanna commit” type stuff.
He also cheated on me . And has genital warts cause he was my only partner and mysteriously I had them.
Hes very possessive cause even if your not dating him , your his type of shit.
He also is a big alcoholic and weed smoker . Like alcoholic to the point of driving drunk and vomiting in my bathtub (leaving that morning and leaving me to clean it … Gross).
He’s got a girlfriend now and claims “he’s a changed man ” and bullshit . But we all know that once a man cheats they will always do it . And once an abuser they will always be an abuser.
Rahul Singh. India origin, lives in London. Moves around the world. He has a secret wife back in India. He poses as a divorcee on dating sites and tells a lot of other lies to lure women in. He treats women very poorly, he is unable to maintain any relationship because he’s emotionally unavailable. He has an STD but refuses to get tested for it.
Zach Lamblin from Hopkinsville KY.
Honestly I have no clue where the person I feel in love with. When we started dating he was so affectionate, went on dates, he called me after work, text me when he could, went out of his way to see me and spend time with me. The last couple months of our almost year long relationship it was like a switch flipped, he would never plan dates, I would try to plan dates and he would come up with every excuse in the book, would never come to my house 15 minutes across town, and I couldn’t come to his because he was busy. He never would call me anymore and finally got to a point where he point blank told me he wasn’t going to text me because he didn’t like texting that I could only Snapchat him cause that’s what he preferred even though we had been texting every day for months. I tried many times to ask him if I did something to upset him? Was there something I could do for us to communicate more because I was feeling like something was off and every single time I had these conversations I was told I was just picking a fight. Even though we could be just sitting and be asking cause I felt like I had to do something for him to treat me like a stranger after all this time. When he finally broke up with me it was over Snapchat while I was at work. I tried to talk about it and he finally just stop responding to my messages and has never said another word to me. 3 weeks later he has a new girlfriend that he’s posted all over his Facebook which is pretty much the only social media I have. He never posted not a single photo of me on his Facebook even when I asked, never put we were in a relationship on Facebook even when I asked. He barely would even take photos with me but now is taken weekends off work which he told me he couldn’t do for a year solid unless it was something he planned because his supervisor wouldn’t approve it. Driving over an hour to spend time with her. He has her over at her house and which I couldn’t come over for the last several months because he was so busy. It’s pretty much like I never existed to him and he’s going out of his way to make sure I know too. Be careful because he seems great at first but then will go out of his way to make sure you know he didn’t care about you at all, cause you’re completely replaceable with a girl that he’s happy to flaunt around which is all you ever wanted and all the days you spent telling each other you loved each other meant absolutely nothing to him.
Ryan Torbet Thomson from London UK.
He only stopped lying when he was asleep. Cheated on me at least once – his friends girlfriend sent me a video of him cheating on me and he still denied it to my face. Gaslit me constantly. Used to get drunk and verbally abusive quite often. Used to lie about how much he drank, or where he was, used to pick fights with bigger boys when he was out with his loser friends. His mother enabled it and was often just as bad to be honest. Just steer well chat, he’ll murder someone one day.
Michael Daugherty from Paris, TN. He is a lier and a narcissist. A womanizer.
He was slick at his game. Literally, he was married to a women in another town. I never seen him text her or even a phone call while he was with me. I had no clue! Then later, he moved in with me then his wife contacted me on FB and told me every detail. I was shocked and angry!! I’m not the type to break up a marriage. How dare he for he played a fool of me. I confronted him and he said he never wanted me to know. While during this time he was talking marriage to me and bragging to me to take his last name! Then more secrets come out he was texting other women in other towns while with me saying “I was a friend he had no girlfriend” he denied it even though I had proof. He also said his 2nd wife was just a business arrangement to get a new car! Enough. He blamed me for his behaviour and degraded me. I broke up with him. He still stocks me to this day. He refuses to leave me alone. I wonder how many other women he is stalking. He sends me flowers and I refuse them telling florist to send them back. He calls screaming how dare I refuse his flowers. I say it’s over to leave me alone. He still doesn’t.
Peter McConnell from Toronto/Kingston/CANADA. He once locked me in a room for six hours because I disagreed with him. He kicked our 10minth old baby in the head with his hard brogue shoe because the little one was crying when he was speaking. When I left him, he got thugs he knew to folkow me and threaten to beat me up/kill me. He’s older, but he’s a menace. Stay away.
Gary Stacey from Glastonbury Somerset UK. So I met this guy online and he came to see me in Wales a few times. This went on for a while and I thought we were close. Sexual online relationship as well as in person. Earlier this year he went cold – nothing. He’s always been quite controlling but he’s a good looking guy so I went along with it all because he would shower me with compliments and occasionally gifts. So I thought OK, what did I do? With a bit of digging I found out he’s been married for 20 years or so, with kids, and he went cold because he was caught sleeping with his friend’s wife and others. So yeah, he’s an unsolicited willy waver and a narcissist and a philanderer.
Brian A. from West Melbourne, Fl. BrianA. Took and took, he was with me for over 7 years, never got to meet his adult children because his EX-wife of more than 3 years prior to meeting me was told I caused their divorce. Arggggh, he didn’t think it was worth an argument to straighten this black mark on my reputation. He told me he loved me but on several occasions he told me “he didn’t really love me he just said it because it was what I wanted to hear.” He never spent the night at My home, just dinner and sex. After taking years away from my life, he broke up with me when I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer because “he didn’t want to deal with the cancer drama”. I found out later he was on several dating apps and never pulled his profiles when we were in a good place. He just used me for intimacy and good food, nice birthdays. He had a new woman hooked even before I started my chemotherapy. What a pig!
Wil Charters from O’Fallon Illinois. Raging narcissist with daddy issues and short man syndrome. Manipulative and emotionally abusivr. Initially charming, which will later give way to icy behavior and cheating. If he prioritized his partners as much as he prioritized mindless television and sports he might have a successful relationship that doesn’t go down in flames, but it’s doubtful. Stay far, far away from this mistake waiting to happen.
William Earl Dance from Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Will or William David is a narcissistic compulsive liar. He sucks the life and resources out of women until they have nothing left to give. He lies for no reason. He portrays himself to be some hero because of his supposed law enforcement work. It’s all a lie. He steals, lies and cheats. He has no relationship with his kids or family. He is an alcoholic drug abuser. He will love bomb you then gaslight you until you begin to think you are the crazy one.
I hear this loud and clear. I just posted my story.
It’s horrific to have lived it.
I’ll never be the same.
I am trying to salvage what is left of me.
Patrick Perez from Bridgeport, Chicago Illinois. Patrick is still married after 9 years of being separated. He acted like he wanted a long term relationship and 4 months in decides to go back on the website we met on and hit up a gal I know! He probably did this the whole time, and he didn’t want to tell me why he did it or talk about things.
John Camilleri from Lancaster, PA. John is a selfish prick who is most concerned with how good of a guy he appears to be. He cheated on me (maybe not physically but definitely emotionally) while we were ENGAGED. he broke off the engagement because I was too busy to go out drinking with him and his coworkers (I was busy working 2nd shift and getting my masters degree in social work). And because he sprung on me that he wanted to pursue a career as a musician. When I did not think this was a solid career goal (just as his father thought also) he ran into the slutty arms of his coworker. Who had wanted to throw him a bachelor party with just her and other girls! John and his entire family are so full of their own Italian bull shit and I am so grateful I escaped a life with him. FYI he is originally from Long Island and is only in Lancaster because of me.
Adrian Balogh from Elverson, PA. Adrian is a real loser. He will make you feel bad for him and make you think you are too good for him (YOU ARE). He buttered me up and made me think we’d be together so I didn’t think anything of “lending” him money. I ended up giving him close to $5,000. As I started to question his excuses, he told me he had BONE CANCER and needed the money for medication and doctor visits.
I ultimately cut him off at which point he would try to guilt me back in. He said “guess I won’t see you at my funeral.” I could not imagine someone would lie about cancer so it took him bailing on me and getting angry with me for me to get my head out of my ass. He is a pathetic drunk that you should NOT feel sorry for. Do not let him kee roping you back in like I did. LET HIM GO.
Daryl James from Swansea, United Kingdom. Was with the bloke for 7 years in a very abusive relationship. I was constantly on edge around him, and would dread coming home from work to have him screaming and throwing punches at me. I was to scared to speak as anything I would say he would think I was making a joke out of him and he would turn it into an argument.
He would go out drinking and not turn up until days at a time. His response would be that he had stayed over his friends, but when speaking to said friend, they hadn’t seen him for months. I went to the sexual health clinic to get tested and they said I had an std. Turns out he cheated on me numerous occasions through the years. He would spend my money, and belittle me for the way I looked. I just felt so trapped, but whenever I would say I can’t cope much longer with the relationship, he would say that he would kill himself if I left and I believed him because he would self harm to show that he would take it further next time.
He cheated on me with a ex girlfriend of his from when he was in school and left me for her. I was so relieved to finally be free of him.
Please stay clear of this narcissist!
Troy Young from Vacaville, California. Do NOT date this person. He lived with me, rent free, paid $0 for anything, for a year (yes my fault), all while cheating on me with multiple women. I know of 3 but I’m sure there’s more. I personally talked to these women so it’s not just a hunch. He cheated on his wife while married which was a red flag that I ignored. Lastly, he got into an accident in a moving truck I rented.
Since it was under my name I was financially responsible. He made me pay half saying it was my fault I let him drive. $10,000+. I had to take a loan out from my retirement. He also has a photography company, at least he tries to. Imaged Stories Photography. Just stay away. He’s a narcissist and horrible human.
Darin Gouldrup from Newport News VA.
Drug user who steals from friends family and partners. He always has other women he is ‘just friends’ with and swears he didn’t cheat yet several women have told me he later went on to date those women. He flirts with several woman.
Has been both physically and mentally abusive. Will push, and grab women as well as threaten them if he doesn’t get what he wants. According to several ex’s he has not held a steady job and expects the women to pay his way.
He has several kids with different women that he barely knew when he convinced them to try for a baby. I would not be surprised if there are many more. This man is handsome and charming. He will spin a great tale and he is very good at love bombing. You will be his whole world, love of his life then he will threaten to kill you the second you don’t enable him. He likes to go after older women because I think he sees them as easy targets.
Lee brown from United kingdom. He’s a cheat and a liar was with him for 5 years and he ruined my life stay away never trust him
Delandis Trevon Harris from Dallas, Texas. Delandis is a serial womanizer, cheater, deadbeat father, compulsive liar, and narcissist. He meets women on dating sites and social media and used them during our 8 year relationship for sex and the occasional place to stay when he wasn’t with me.
Everything was about him and I spent countless amounts of money during this time as he could not hold a job longer than 6 months. Our relationship ended for him (because he knew there was no turning back to me) when he impregnated some female and it came out actually his. Then while still married to me, he proposed to her, moved in with her and all this I didn’t find out until 1 month before the divorce was finalized. He is almost 33 years old and probably is doing the same thing he did to me to her as well as other countless women in the DFW area…as this is just what he does; hop from woman to woman allowing them to think he is the best thing for them.
Stay away from him at all costs!!!!
Ditto with my ex.
Ryan Quilty from Boston, MA. Ryan has prolifically made it across most Facebook Groups for women dating in Boston, but I’m afraid nothing will stop this man. He shares women’s nudes without their consent. He is/was a neuro ICU nurse and has used COVID as a means to get away with “travel assignments” and extra night shifts to keep many girls in his line up. He comes off as nice guy, but is a Netflix-special grade sociopath. He is a narcissist and has emotionally and psychologically abused countless women.
20+ women in Boston and in New England have been involved with him. He keeps notes to keep all of his lies straight. While engaged to one woman he was planning to propose to his long-time girlfriend who wasn’t aware he was living with his fiance. In addition to his fiance and soon to be second fiance, there was what seems like limitless roster he kept on the side.
STAY AWAY.
I am just finding this site almost a year after this comment was made. Can you message me? or reply, I am not sure how this works. @Ryan Quilty for search purposes.
Ryan Hall from LIverpool, NY. Sent d* pics to a mom of one of the girls on his team. He would have slept with her but the daughter was in the hotel room at the time. I have no idea what else he did with mom!! I was with him for years before that.
Matt Fowkes from Nottingham UK. Google is you’re friend with this man, Google ‘Matt Fowkes Court Usher’ and you can read all about the story that was in the National newspapers Dec 2018. Cheated on every single partner he has had, so don’t think you’ll be any different as you won’t! Please read the story carefully as it is 100% accurate. I am NOT the person who took it to the press and who then donated the fee to a charity. Matt admits the whole story is a true account.
Steven Bonnell from Miami. Steven is a Emotional abuser whenever I would give him constructive criticisms he would stonewall me and when he would talk to me he was very passive aggressive and end up gaslighting me, It was the worst time in my life that therapy may never fix.
Nilay Mehta from Mulund Mumbai. First of all he has very small. Even though he has small i accepted him. Then he cheated me by sleeping with her old friend. I dumped his ass
Daniel Weyant from Austin Texas. Horrible psychological abuse. Expert in gas lighting and manipulating. Stay away!!!
Gregory Hale from Hartford, CT.
This man is a narcissistic predator. He initially presents with a charming personality, thoughtful gestures, will love bomb you, tell you everything you want to hear, be the person he has determined that you want him to be. He’s a chameleon in this way.
Nicholas “Cole” Filipek from Alameda , California. I believe the following to be true: Nicholas “Cole” Filipekkk physically assaulted me multiple times when we lived together. There is no debate or other side of the story as I not only filed a police report which is public record but I have Cole’s own words stating directly and unapologetically via a time stamped email, “I’m not going to tell you not to tell your friends I beat you but when you make it public it’s not ok.” More receipts exist including further emails, landline phone bills in my name of our shared residence and cancelled checks.
Cole Filipekkk is also a hideous racist who called me a n**ger multiple times and racially profiled numerous Black children he came in contact with via a position of authority he attained (predominantly over children of color). I am Multi racial and he expressed disgust and shock at how, “Black” I looked in a kindergarten photo.
Cole fleeced me financially by bullying me into pay for everything. One day I had no change for the parking meter and outside the restaurant we were eating at and he expressed disgust that had to put his own coins in the meter. It didn’t matter that I was paying for the entire expensive meal as usual. I’d saved some cash to buy trinkets and candy for a child I was babysitting later that day. When Cole saw that I had a few dollars and quarters he accused me of “lying about not having money for the meter” earlier that day. He then proceeded to take all the things I’d purchased and methodically threw each item into the street one by one before he dropping me off. The family I babysat for remembers me showing up distraught and in tears. Cole would also charge me money for rides to work and for parking tickets that were his responsibility as I don’t drive.
Do not be fooled by Cole Filipekkk”s incessant pronouncements about his “Ivy league degree” and his claims of coming from a “happy family.” According to *his own words* his mother was institutionalized following his birth (she thought he was infant incarnation of Jesus Christ). During Cole’s childhood she demonstrated poor and narcissistic boundaries around the men she brought into the home he grew up in (and in which she still works). Cole told me as a teen he was breaking into the BnB near his home to commit bizarre sex related crimes (like masturbating over sleeping women) and was never caught.
One of the few regrets I have is not pressing charges against Filipekkk for domestic battery when given the chance. He is a text book narcissistic sociopath. I put myself at risk by posting this but have taken measures to protect myself. Cole Filipekkk has never apologized to me. I”m sure he’s tried to reinvent himself as a “woke liberal’ but he should fool no one. He has no redeeming features.
Tom James Ashton from London. Two years ago I’ve met Tom and for the following 6 months he observed a pattern of violence, manipulation and verbal abuse toward me.
I was vulnerable and deeply ashamed, thought it was my fault.
It took me a long time to come to terms with the abuse, but he was finally arrested and there is an ongoing investigation.
But he’s still free to exploit women for his own sexual gratification. Moved on to other women, younger, even more vulnerable than me , that will have found harder to say no to his demands, actively encouraging them to take drugs and alcohol, recording them naked without consent. Girls who are distant from their families, have financial worries or who had been previously abused.
Last week we met in the street by chance and all this feelings came back and went home crying and shaking. I saw in his eyes the lack of remorse, lack of accountability for his actions.
I’m working through love and forgiveness, but people have to be held accountable, and they can´t just bamboozle people and say, `Well, I just made a mistake.
When I told him in a calm manner how his actions have deeply affected me he just told me just to get over it and move on.
They are dead inside.
J. Chris Boyer from Marietta, California. I met Chris in Minneapolis in December’98. He was 19 and I had just turned 20. It was a casual friendship because it was long distance. We had never been intimate, only kissed at the club. He went back home to California for the summer.
I had start a job in Chicago and my new roommate was from Mission Viejo. She invited me to her childhood home in June ‘99. I called Chris And they invited Michelle and I over for a small house party that weekend.
Thankfully Michelle brought her best friend named Will with us. When we arrived it was just Chris and one of his friends and the three of us. Chris offered us drinks and we excepted. I mentioned my mixed drink tasted salty. Chris and his friend pooh-poohed my complaint. I did not know what a mixed drink should taste like. I was very naïve. Will became suspicious of their actions and told Michelle we should get going to the other party.
It was at that point that the date rape drug I had been given in my drink hit full effect. Oh I fell back into the couch and could not move or speak. Will and Michelle knew that something had happened. There was some yelling and Woell threw me over his shoulder like a sack of potatoes and put me in his car and drove me back to Michelle‘s house and she put me in her bed to sleep off the GHB.
Thank God they were there. I will probably would have been tag teamed by Chris and his friend had a not had someone looking out for me. It’s funny because he didn’t even need to drug me because I was into him.
Later on years later he emailed me and admitted he did it and apologized saying he had found God and become born again.
I found out he became a youth minister and I hope he never violated the trust of The kids that were in his charge.
I am starting to process the trauma of the violation and find it’s helpful to put it in writing.
I wasn’t able to press any charges because I waited too long to tell the police.
Moral of the story, don’t feel embarrassed to tell someone when you are violated. It’s not your fault. Process it early For your mental health later on in life.
Andrew Bowen from Arizona. Narcissist. The fact he spoke so horribly about his ex wives should have been a raging red flag. Love bombed the heck out of me, cheated on both his exes (I found out from them), he is the textbook narcissistic abuser. Made me feel amazing at first, then chipped away at my confidence and mental health.
Everyone else was to blame for his issues. Not to mention he is addicted to tobacco, alcohol, and god knows what else. Plus… he’s got a small… ya know. And it’s gross. Homeboy needs orthodontic work, and serious therapy.
You’d think he’d get help considering he brought his daughter on dates with us, and she’s satan herself. I feel bad for her because she’s clearly got some issues, and I saw recently she’s gained a ton of weight since I met him. Run ladies. Save yourself the heartache. I needed therapy after him to control my PTSD that he caused.
His first ex wife — gorgeous but became an addict because of him, his second — gorgeous, lost a ton of weight and glowed up seriously big time after he left. He came from a shitty childhood but that’s not an excuse for ruining people’s lives. Just seriously… run. Don’t look back.
David Gilliland from Fort Collins Colorado. He’s a serial cheater. He’s usually got 2 or three women on the line who have no idea about each other. Be careful, he preys on the lonely who are having blips in their self confidence. Sex is great, but the mind games will kill you.
David P Miller from Decatur Indiana. He’s verbally abusive, threw me out literally, stole all my stuff,beat me up totally not worth it stay away from them ladies.
William West from Chula Vista, California is the absolute worst. I met him on Tinder and I really thought we hit it off. We dated for about 4 months, and while we went slow at first, for the last 6 weeks we were talking daily and seeing each other at least a couple times a week. But what I didn’t know is that while I thought we were getting serious, he was getting serious with about 4 other girls. I always thought he was just so busy with work. Ha! It was so busy alright but not because of work!
Adam Ezell from Durham, NC. He’s a manipulative cheater. Would set boundaries he didn’t like and kept trying to progress relationship too fast. Tried to break up with him twice and he would cry and talking about change and how we can fix it together. Scheduled a more serious talk about our relationship and cheated on me the day before and pretended nothing happened. Used photos of us and cut me out for tinder profile on the SAME DAY he was writing me apology about how it keeps him up at night and he has trouble sleeping in his bedroom where I found the evidence of his sleeping around and left him. The apology appeared to be heartfelt, but the tinder profile, sleeping around, my friend seeing him on a date the same week I left him would state zero remorse. He only feels bad about getting caught. Red flag: told me all his exes were crazy.
Jordan Brittelle from Albuquerque, NM. He’s charming and will make you fall for his every word without any hesitation. He gives you just enough of the truth for him to relieve his self guilt so that any expectations you may get will never be based off anything he’s said or done.
He cheats on all his girlfriends over and over again even to this day. His current girlfriend catching him with over 4 girls in the 3 years they’ve been together one of those girls she’s caught him with a minimum of 7 times starting the first year they were dating while she was pregnant with his TWINS!
He’s a sweet talker and he plays the game better than anyone I’ve seen. Then when things blow up he twists it all and makes you feel like it was all in your head. Gaslighting, cheating, lying, ghosting, after he’s already connected with you and pulled you in convincing you he loves you. It’s either a game to him to see if he can get women to fall for him and when he does he’s over it or he’s got too many other women in his life that he can only be good to one at a time so when he’s treating you like shit that must mean someone else is getting that attention. He’s just a fake ass excuse of a man. Now he’s living off his gf no job, making her look like a clown playing her out while she keeps catching him fucking around. Whatever lies he tells her, they’re working. Poor thing.
Gary Morse from Chireno, TX. He is a true narcissist. He will love bomb and then destroy you mentally and financially. I took him back 10 times in 10 years. He’s an alcoholic and gets very verbally abusive. He’s a snake!
Alex Lane from Sedona, Arizona. He is a womanizer. You will never be his only. He uses you as a supply. He always lies and makes you feel like you’re going crazy because of his lies. He is a steroid using freak that cares more about his image than anything. Very selfish.
Travis Williams from Jackson, Ohio. 6 months and my life was flipped upside down. Manipulated into quitting my job, moving, giving my car away, making family distant, ruining relationships, co-signing vehicles, ruining my credit, AND… getting pregnant.
Mental and verbal abuse was very strong. He is a hustler who won’t keep a job or a girlfriend long. Manipulated me to move into his mom’s house with him, where she puts up with everything he does and enables every part of it. He has now 6 kids, the 6th being mine, but he only sees 1 of them. All other women have kept thier children from him bc of how horrible he is. He is manic, bi-polar, slightly schizophrenic. His stepmom tried to have him treated as a child and he lashed out. He will spend every dollar on hunting gear and marijuana. Then when money gets tight, he will sell things for a fraction of what it’s worth.
He will convince you to sell your own things that you don’t want to get rid of. ANDDD, after all this, he has been spreading STDs to every girl he’s been with (at least 30 women) since at least 2014. Stay away and warn all others!!
Steven Morris from Webster, FL. He’s homeless and loves to control his women, including forced intercourse which he did to me. I’m petrified of him to the point that I couldn’t bring charges against him. I’m just glad that I left when I did.
Antonio Dones. A.k.A Tony from Feeding Hills, Massachusetts. I hope that my story helps someone out there. This man represents himself as hard working, a good father and down-to-earth. Easy to get along with. He would spend money on you to reel you in and make you feel special. It’s all a facade.
He’s dangerous because he hides all the toxic through a charming persona. After 10 year’s I found out that he was the one who gave me herpes. He doesn’t tell women that he’s infected and doesn’t use protection. He’s also an alcoholic who smokes weed, and cigarettes and likes to sniff. He hid his status, and when I went to the doctors and came back positive, he blamed me for the disease. He also has a record of Domestic violence against 2 women, including me. He beat up my dog’s with large wooden planks because they destroyed our garden.
He also picked up our pit bull and slammed him on the ground because he took a leak on our rug. He likes to use Badoo to meet women in Massachusetts. He’s light-skinned, wears braids and is Puerto Rican. Height 6″1″. His occupation is in Construction.
Keith Roberts from Rock Hill/Richburg SC. Cheater-sleeps with multiple women in the same day, uses women, pot head, will bleed you dry, doesn’t care who he hurts in the process.
Jose Luis Perez from Sylmar, CA. He is handsome and can be a real charmer. He works as a political organizer and acts clean-cut. He is in his late 40s now. I met him while he was organizing a campaign out here in the Midwest. Once it ended, we continued dating. I flew out to CA to see him and was blindsided. He was high the whole time. He also used Coke. It dawned on me that I’d been too naive to see it or even suspect it before.
He was arrogant and cruel—his friends had told him so in front of me, and he seemed proud of himself. He has a hair-trigger temper and is verbally abusive. And while he cuts you down, he laughs to himself like he’s a one-man comedy show. He fawns too much over small children, but I have no actual proof of any abuse by him, or I would have gone to the police. But my instincts are good, and his behavior always made me feel embarrassed and creeped out.
He constantly reminded me of his ex and how he had hit her. I told him he would not touch me, or he would have a police record and no more jobs in politics. It worked long energy ugh for me to get out of the relationship. But I knew if I didn’t, it was inevitable gat he would hit me. He constantly wanted me to hook up with he and his friends. He was fixated on it, but of course, didn’t say so until I was on his turf. I was devastated and confused.
Finally I suggested that perhaps he should just pimp me out to his friends because at least I’d get paid. And to my horror, he thought I was being serious! He proceeded to decide which friend would be first, etc. I was so crushed I just sobbed all night. It was then that I knew I was finally done. I know I shouldn’t, but I still kick myself. Unfortunately, I had a couple of days before I was flying back home. The night before I left, I was restless—apparently, it woke him because the next thing I knew, he was on top of me and I was saying “No!” And fighting him off with everything I had. Fortunately I’m fairly strong and he gave up. I took pictures of the fingerprint bruises on my inner thighs the next day just in case. He is a monster. I found out afterward that he had repeatedly cheated on me with girls aged 19, 21, etc. We were in our late 30s at the time. He just s a pig. He also had stolen large fold-up tables from my county’s party (the one that he was representing) after the campaign. And he had stabbed one of his cousins and slept with another. Pretty proud of those facts, too. This is the abbreviated version of the hell I experienced. I ended things in the summer if 2014.
I have had to repeatedly block him on EVERY social media outlet I use. And I have blocked a minimum of five phone numbers and maybe seven emails addresses. I am still scared he will show up and maybe one of my dogs will go missing. Or I will go missing. He is proud of the story about his cousin in prison who kidnapped his ex from a party at gunpoint. But I’ve told my parents, brother, and close friends about him, so at least people will know who hurt me.
I’ve dated off and on over the years, and I’m not friendly with all of my exes, but this is the only man I’ve ever felt that I needed to warn other women about for their own safety. His soul is black. Please be careful always.
Justin Smith 43, known to live in Vancouver, BC in addition has lived in Chilliwack, BC and Kelowna, BC. He is my ex-boyfriend and he is a cheater, he will cheat on you, a habitual cheater. He is also in my opinion really bad in bed, never had it so bad as I did when dating this guy. Just avoid dating him, he isn’t worth your time trust me.
Chris Fields 40 Tampa, Florida. Emotionally immature, “nice guy,” deep dark hole need for attention from other women, voracious flirt, waster of time.
Roberto Valladolid Leo Chantilly, Virginia from Peru. Big liar, drunk, narcissist, crazy mother, cheater.
Clay Meadows in Birmingham, AL. From Montgomery, AL. Also Clayton Meadows and Clayton Wayne Meadows. Cm542. THE WORST DUDE. Liar, cheater, selfish prick. Looking out for all ladies because I wish someone had told me about him!
David Tougas Flint Mi, narcissist and inability to have compassion for other humans, including both men and women. Cheated on his girlfriend of five years and spoke negatively of her to all he could despite continuing the relationship.
He is an admitted sx addict wishes for all females to be submissive and lacks the ability to empathize with anyone, including sick parents.
He is a master gaslighter who will make you feel like everything that goes wrong in your relationship is your fault. He always feels like he can do better than you. Stay away.
Donnie Eldon Hensley, VA covert narcissist, trolls online dating sites picks up as many women as he can to make his ex jealous. He still supports ex his name is on her leased apartment. She apparently goes between her apartment and his townhouse.. he plays the victim and will give you a sob story. He will use you to get back at his ex. Forget holidays and birthdays. He is waiting for his ex to show up and surprise him. He lies about everything. Run away as fast as you can.
Grady Taylor (also goes by Cuzzi)
NATIVE TO CHICAGO IL, but currently in AUSTIN, TX
We dated briefly (2mos approx)
After the second month he assaulted me. When I confronted him he said it wasn’t possible for him to do that because we were in a relationship. I said what about me saying NO, to which he replied, that’s selfish when you’re in a relationship. Unfortunately for me I wish it was the end. I ended up pregnant. I broke things off.
Fast forward, after the baby was born he begged to be apart of her life. He said he was a changed man, apologized over and over. Said he never meant to do that to me and that he’s never done that to anyone else. I stupidly believed him.
I offered to just coparent. No intimate relationship or dating at all. Not even 2 weeks into this arrangement he decided to tell me I’m not allowed to date anyone else.
I told him he didn’t have the right to make a demand. To which he responded with saying it was all or nothing. He demanded that if we were to continue to coparent we would need to be in a relationship or he would walk away completely. I told him I wanted nothing from him.
He ASSAULTED me WHILE I was holding my baby. He repeatedly hit me in the head with closed fists and pinned me against the couch as I was trying to protect my baby and set her down away from him.
HE IS A ABUSER. He uses tactics like control and love bombing to manipulate. He offers to help with finances only to back out at the last minute and some how make his reasoning nothing but excuses. He is not fit to be around children AT ALL. Please Ladies, protect yourselves and children from this predator.
Mayo Michael Manass. Sacramento and Yuba city. He talks with a Nasal voice and never says anything even remotely manly or does anything chivalrous and doesn’t even know how to unclog a toilet or drive a car. He pretty much just puts everybody he knows down so he can continue on in his own ‘little’ delusion of grandeur. I even found out that he was a self-proclaimed chubby homeless chaser and he never went for skinny or pretty girls before me. Once he had me though he tried to keep me trapped by making us move away from our friends and jobs and never letting me do anything fun while he was at work.
He is very passive-aggressive and emotionally abusive and acts like a teenage girl most of the time. He throws at least one stompy and muttering under his breath temper tantrum every 2-4 hours. He recently brought a chindo into our bedroom and I’m honestly tearing up/crying as I write this because I am that repulsed. When he busted it out, it smelled like poo and looked like he must have bought it used or something.
Anyways now it’s all he ever wants to include in the sex now and I’m trying to figure out a way to leave him when our lease is up because he keeps on talking about how much he wants us to get pregnant and move in with his stepfather so I can work at Walmart and get this so he can finally focus to be a professional skater and he’s like almost 30 years old already!!!!….Im about to escape him so this is a fair warning to all you other girls in norcal
Daniel Joseph Zealberg. He used to live in Accokeek, Maryland, but now I think he is in Baltimore. He’s in his late 50’s now and I am sure, still running “the grift.” Watch your money and your back with this scumbag. Not only is he physically abusive, but he loves to spend other people’s money. When we broke up, and I went to Court to get my stuff back, he would not open the door for the Sherrif’s Department to serve him the notice to give me my stuff back. So, I never did get it back. I lost everything I had, and shortly after I received notice that the case was being dropped by the Court because they could not serve him, my best friend and I drove by and saw him selling all my stuff at a Yard Sale. “Why didn’t I do something,” you ask? Well he is what we call a “Cop Caller.” He would have called the Police and accused me of being drunk and all kinds of other stuff.
I am not sure if he cheated or not. He was too busy spending my money and not paying his bills even though we worked the same job as Ironworkers and he made more money. He smokes more Pot than people smoke cigarettes and he will tell your family ALL your business while of course, trying to make you look like a piece of crap. Luckily, I kicked his ass more times than he kicked mine (after he hit me first). When he ended up in the hospital with a concussion, he manipulated my family into thinking the whole thing was my fault. Oh, and he loves to file Restraining Orders and play the victim. Since he has an extensive Criminal Record, I guess he thinks everyone else should have one too. Unless you want to Pay for EVERYTHING, be made to feel like an a$$ every where you go, have semi-naked pictures taken of you when you are asleep, have your family think you are a Evil and have the Cops at your house every weekend for a Domestic Disturbance, you need to stay away from this guy. Don’t let him slip out and smoke “GREEN” or go “DIPPIN.” He may come back and try to kill your animals.
Barton Hawkins, TN
very charming, falls in love fast, plans your future (1st month), speaks God and religion and love, starts with small snide remarks that are hard to catch. Within 3 months, obvious verbal abuse, name calling, insults, followed by apologies, promises. Starts arguments over anything that takes your attention off of him; ANYTHING. Moved onto minor physical abuse (grabbing). Never takes responsibility for his actions; always blames someone or something else (ex: caught my bathroom on fire with a cigarette, blamed me for sitting my toilet paper by the commode lol). Never once apologized, not once. Was grooming the next victim while still schmoozing me; thought he was clever. I let him do his thing, knowing after he sneaked out he’d later drop his “I deserve a happy peaceful life” message as usual (when he’s the one making sure you’re never at peace, nor happy). Tons and tons of vile hateful hate filled messages when you’re done. Never stops. Blames alcohol; says will stay away from it. (Not really a drinker but when he drinks……vile venomous satanic monster.
Summary: A bona-fide monster like everyone else’s. God bless us and give us strength.
Samuel Trevizo- Colorado, Arizona, Florida
He is a complete loser. Claims to own his own business but hardly ever works. He took a picture of my debit card while I was sleeping and used it online for almost a year before I realized it. Cheated for 3 years out of our 3.5 year relationship. Everything he says is LIES!! Addicted to meth. Complete Narcissist. Also extremely abusive. He will drain you emotionally and financially. In 2 years time he put 7 different trackers on ny car. He has threatened and harassed my children and my friends. Biggest mistake of my life!!!
Tony Fabrizio- Tampa- originally from Pennsylvania. He is a Narcissist a Sociopath and a Manipulator. He is a loser who spends all his money on prostitutes male and female and trans who have both a penis and breasts.
He wasted 8 yrs of my life telling me he was going to marry me and he wanted a child with me and allowed me to pay for in-vitro several times while he was paying “professionals” doing drugs and having threesomes with men AND women in his home.
He tells you what you want to hear and everything he says is the opposite of the truth. He acts like he’s straight and acts like a tough guy who beats people up to make you think he’s manly.
He will act like a racist but those he says he’s against he is actually sexually attracted to them.
He calls others Pedis but he goes after teenagers and has intimate relations with them. Ladies Watch your children. He is a 46 yr old male who will say and do anything to get intimate with you and anyone that breaths, and will take your money in the process. He is abusive mentally and physically and destroys walls and furniture and objects.
He physically attacks you and then punches himself in the face so he can call the cops on you and get you arrested saying you did that to him. He an addict and has been in rehab with no success.
He will make you feel sorry for him, say he’s a good guy, and put down all other men to make himself look and feel great! DONT BELIEVE HIS LIES!!!! HE IS THE BIGGEST SCUMBAG LOWLIFE LOSER TO WALK THE EARTH. MY BIGGEST MISTAKE IN LIFE!!!
Virgil Garcia from Omaha, Nebraska. Cheated on me with my best friend. But I’m happy to say he ended up cheating on her too with his neighbor. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Kyle Therrien. Vermont, used to reside in Pennsylvania.
Dated him for two weeks when I was in college and I have to vent to/ warm others.
-Controlling- He hates it when you don’t tell him where you are AT ALL TIMES. I decided to hang out with some new friends after class. He asked where I was (He automatically assumed I was going to be at my dorm waiting for me at all times). I told him to come over and have fun. BIG mistake. He sat in the corner and pouted while reading some religious scripture. He told me it was to prevent him from “lashing out” at me in front of everyone since I “wasn’t where I was supposed to be.” Gross.
-Religious- Not inherently bad at all, but he used Catholicism to judge others and make him feel superior. Made my best friend cry because her religion was “wrong.” Believes condoms are a sin and they prevent the man from giving his “gift” to the woman. I. Wish. I. Was. Kidding. Also full heartedly believed that women had more ribs than men because Adam gave a rib to make Eve. When I broke up with him, he posted on FaceBook, “Why has God forsaken me!!!” We’re not in 30 A.D., get over yourself.
-Friend repellant- Drove away everyone I met. Thought I was going crazy until after we broke up. Had over a dozen people tell me, “We love you, we just didn’t like HIM.” Real wake up call.
-Petty- Tried to make me jealous on purpose. A girl in his Bible group hit on him I guess. He told me about it and seemed pissed that I could care less. Why should I be mad at the girl, you probably didn’t tell her about me. I met her and she was cold towards me even though I was perfectly nice to her. He loved it because he thought we were “fighting” for him. That was until I told him she could have him.
-Homophobic- Again, the religious thing. “Quoted” the Bible and blah, blah, blah.
-Didn’t shut the fuck up.
-Silent treatment- Don’t know why this of all things still haunts me. There was nothing ‘silent’ about this. He would huff, plop himself down in a chair and fold his arm like a three year old. This never gave me anxiety before meeting him, because that’s when he starts the terrible mind game of “You know what you did” and I had no clue because the things I would be in trouble for were absurd. It could be: I didn’t compliment his new hair cut, didn’t react enough to some achievement, (specifically) didn’t clap to one of his self-righteous speeches. Again, get over yourself.
You may ask yourself, ‘This happened all in two weeks?’ Yes. His previous girlfriend lasted 8 months with him. He would wine about how she broke up with him over the phone. I did it over a text.
I hope he’s having the life he deserves.
Brett Walden from Henderson, Nevada is a guy you want to avoid at all costs. Cheater. Liar. Stole money from my apartment more than a few times. At first I didn’t realize he was doing it. I knew I was missing money but I couldn’t figure out how it kept disappearing. I thought I was losing my mind. But turns out I just had a loser boyfriend.
It’s funny. I first saw this site like 10 years ago. Who’d ever thought I’d be returning all these years later to post my own story. Bill Moore from Bismarck, North Dakota is my exboyfriend that needs to go on this list. It wasn’t just the cheating, which I guess was bad. But finding out the years of lies is what hurt the most. Why do men do that?
I met who I thought was the perfect guy over summer break my freshman year in college. His name is Victor Hall. Please ladies trust me when I say, you want to avoid this guy. I live in a small town just outside of Rochester, New York called Avon. He lives in the next town over, Le Roy. Both being small time people we just had this great connection.
Because I went to school in New York City we didn’t get to see each other often but when I was home, we’d spend all of our time together, which was really just during breaks from school. We were together for three years.
Just before I graduated we talked about about what we wanted to do. We had decided we would move to Rochester together, and get an apartment. We were both close with our families, so living in the next big town over was the perfect solution. Because we needed to live in a place with job opportunities but we didn’t want to be far from them either. I thought I had my whole life planned out with the man of my dreams. WRONG!
Then two days before graduation my roommate Amy was on a dating app and came across a profile of a guy that looked exactly like Victor, and low and behold, after she matched with him and started talking, it turns out it really was Victor. Who told her that he’s been single for awhile now that he was married before but his wife died of cancer. Now my Victor was 23, he told her he was 32 so that didn’t make sense. She kept talking to him just to make sure it was really him and sure enough it was. He was from the same small town. I mean how many Victor Hall’s are there in Le Roy, New York?
I’ll skip over all the boring details and get right to the punchline. He was in fact 32, not 23. He was married but his wife wasn’t dead. He was actually still married to her and they had two kids. Me? I was just one of many girls he has hooked up with other years behind his poor wife’s back.
Spencer Bell. From Reno, came from Utah. Extreme narcissist who is incapable of opening his mouth without lies spilling out. Continues to be married, yet has multiple girlfriends and is VERY active on dating sites. I don’t honestly know how this man has the energy to entertain so many “relationships.” He has a talent for telling women exactly what they want to hear and tailors his life and background to fit every girl he meets. Starts out with gifts and affection and then morphs into someone who is more than happy to take your time, money and heart without regard. Once one of the women finds out about the others and reaches out to them, he becomes enraged and plays the victim. He doesn’t even have enough originality to say different bullshit to each woman and literally copies and pasted his texts and pics. I hope this post helps at least one other woman from wasting her time and heart on such a broken and truly evil man.
I understand. I will leave my ex nameless but he has tried now to frequent places I used to go to. He knocked out 3 of my teeth in June of 2020. How do I report him in a comment such as what you have?
His name is Alec E. Rosentrater. Iowa State University. Aerospace Engineering.
He says he believes women are equal, but his desires mattered to him a lot more than mine did. He ridiculed me and put all the blame for our problems on me and my chronic health conditions. He was super booksmart, he was charming, but also emotionally and physically abusive. He assaulted me in March 2019 when I was 18, he was 17.
Later I told him my feelings were the same as someone who survived assault, and he said, no that’s not what happened between us because I didn’t say no. He was doing one thing, and I said yes to that. But then he started doing something else that moved my bra that I was not okay with and I froze. I couldn’t process what was happening until it was over because I just didn’t want to believe it. I cried. And he cried too because he didn’t intend to hurt me. He’s not a monster; he’s a very flawed person. He didn’t want to believe he assaulted me, and neither did I.
We tried to “rebuild trust” which really ended up with me letting him push physical boundaries further and further past my comfort zone as a way to feel like things were peaceful and so I had “something of value” to offer him.
(FYI, YOU OFFER SO MUCH MORE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAN HIS PLEASURE.)
I told him early on in dating him that I wanted to take a break from making out because it felt like too much too fast and so we’d have more conversation and get to know each other. He told me that physical intimacy is just part of having a relationship, and that he’d be very sad if I didn’t want to do that anymore. (This is manipulative. My actions don’t control his emotions. That’s all him.)
He did not respond well to me changing my mind during intimacy. He would often grumble about it if I asked to slow down or stop. When I reflected on what I wanted for 2 weeks and told him that I didn’t like that we had been doing “x” and didn’t want to do it anymore, he made a meme with profanity that belittled and bullied me for changing my mind and using my voice.
This man has big problems understanding consent and how to respect a woman’s body and her mind. Maybe he’ll grow up and mature by the time you’re dating him. Extreme caution to those who date him. If you do, don’t get involved physically for a few months. You may get really hurt. It’s taken me years to get over the emotional abuse and gaslighting and trauma. Save yourself the trouble. Be safe. There are much better men than this one.
Jad Nazar
ins: jash.english & jad nazar
youtube: jash english
facebook: jad nazar
This guy is a dirty blonde with blue eyes and he’s an influencer. He’s super narcissistic about his face and his muscles but inside he is sensitive and ashamed about the size of his private parts. He is the youngest and spoiled by his siblings and basically, he can’t live without them. He’s racially biased about white people even if he pretends to be white (he’s mixed British but he looks white) most of the time in order to get people’s attention. He is immature and childish, unable to handle relationships that involve sex because he’s terrified girls would find out his private parts is thin and small and he came in 5 mins. Don’t date him because he will claim he’s not an jerk, flatter you, hypnotize you, and once he sleeps with you, he will tell you crap and run away like a coward. Anyone would be petrified by the contrast of the smallness of his private parts and his muscle, but even if you don’t mind, he will still run away like the wimpy kid because he has mental issues that he can’t accept himself but he still chooses to mess with girls and ghosts.
Rich Earl – north NJ and Vermont
Sociopath, manipulative, puts on a completely different persona for you and then becomes aggressive when you start to see the real truth of who he is. Anger management problems and verges on physical assault. Substance abuse problems and I also suspect bi-polar issues aggravate his aggressive and manipulative nature. Don’t fall for any sob stories or grandiose ideas of his. There is a reason he doesn’t have many people close to him that have known him for long.
Rohit G Krishnan. 10/1991 Bay Area, California
Watch out for this scumbag. He’s a good dresser, charming, charismatic, outgoing, complimentary, tells you exactly what you want to hear, but he has a nasty dark side.
Huge ego. Narcissist. Pathological liar. Manipulative. Mentally and physically abusive. Has substance abuse problems (alcohol and drugs). Admitted to me that he cheated on his ex numerous times. (Also awful in bed)
He was engaged to his high school girlfriend of 8 years (she finally ended it after being unable to put up with his BS anymore) and has since filed a restraining order against him because he literally can not get over her- she’s had to move several times so he doesn’t know where she lives. (I think he doesn’t like that she was the one to end it- as he likes to be in control)
Says he’s in the Navy Reserves (unsure if this is true). Has claimed he’s in Stanford Grad/Business school (not true). Says the father who raised him isn’t his biological father and his father is actually from Ireland (though he died when he was an infant) I’m pretty sure this is also BS. Plus many other stories…I also found 11 separate IG accounts that he owns
Incredibly manipulative and will gaslight you about anything suspicious. Just an overall shitty person.
Austin James Deceder DOB 5/22/1996 Lived in Mason City, IA and Forest City, IA and Ames, IA and Kansas City.
Very manipulative. Will do anything to get what he wants from you and then leave you when he gets it. Known cheater.
Will force himself on you even when you say no.
Was accused of violating by multiple girls, with no conviction because he knows how to leave no evidence.
Be very careful. He is a diagnosed Sociopath and possibly a Psychopath.
Please women, be very careful of this guy. He will be very toxic mentally and physically and financially.
Jeff Milgroom, AZ, 53: He is a tall, well-mannered, well-spoken man – all of it is an act. This man claims he is separated/on his way to get a divorce, he is not. He will make you believe his life situation is sorted, it isn’t. He will claim his wife is an abusive addict and he is a victim, he is not. He continues to lie to women and cheat on his wife. He is manipulative, he will project his insecurities on you. He is cheapskate and will lure you into believing his sweet lies by projecting himself as the victim of his situation. I feel bad for his wife C.M. and his son for having such an awful person in their life.
I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your comment. I dated him from December 1st 2020 until today, after I read your comment. He told me the same story about his wife. He told me about separation and divorce. He asked me every day for patience. Every day he told me I’m the one. He is using big words. I’m speechless. He talked so poor about his wife, he is always a “ victim”. He is a monster. And is sad because all I did was to love him sincerely. He told me 3 years ago he slept last time with his wife and in all this years he was alone. He pretend he is a lonely guy, in fact he keep all his mystery around him to hunt more victims. I wish this site to be more visible. We don’t deserve to be treated like this. I’m sorry for your experience. I hope you can heal fast. I hope the same for me. Thank you again.
The best description about Jeff Milgroom, 53 years old, Az. He is the most fake person I met in my life. All his words are lies, zero value. Don’t trust him, don’t believe his words. Stay away from him, he is just using you. He looks like a kind old man, mannered, in fact is just a person who is taking advantage of others. He have zero respect for women, he pretends he is crying. Absolutely the most pathetic person alive. Don’t waste your time with him. You have better things to do. He is not an attractive man, he doesn’t have compassion for women. He is the biggest liar you will see in your entire life.
Joey Nicholas. Joseph Nicholas. Glendale heights or in Schiller Park Illinois. 30 years old. But a child. Do not waste your time. From day one he was shady. While we were talking, he had sex with a girl on his vacation. Throughout our relationship, he talked to girls and would say very inappropriate things to them.
Talking about getting one pregnant if they hung out. Talked about what “daddy” says and what kind of relations they would have. Found out he had multiple profiled and a dropbox full of nudes from online and ex-girlfriends or girls that he would talk too. He made a Twitter account and got sent free nudes by a girl who looked like she was 14 while we were in a relationship then blamed his dad and said his dad made that account.
Then later told me it was him. He would have girls text his phone and then delete the messages. He would hook up with “professionals” while in a relationship with me and text them and then make up some lie about why he texted them in the first place.
Doesn’t care about his family at all. Has money but can’t save his money or pay his bills. Car was in collections and I had to help him get a new car. Very selfish and one-sided. In the beginning, he wasn’t controlling but I wasn’t allowed to go out with my friends or have guy friends lol because he was the one being shady.
He won’t ever let you have his phone password or know it. Always has hid his phone until I was able to get into a few times and each time I found cheating, shady shit. He never apologizes for anything and will never make you feel better about your insecurities. As long as he can do what he wants behind your back, it’s fine.
But the moment you stand up to him and call him out, he turns it around and makes you feel like your crazy. Oh he’s messy as hell and will sleep with a room full of garbage. His feet are completely infected with some gross fungi but he won’t get it checked out.
Has a good body but has a big gut or belly that won’t go away. Completely narcissistic and cocky. He flirts with his friends and other people’s girlfriends that he’s attracted to or gives them special attention when they are around and doesn’t care. Not even a week after we broke up he was out with some other girl while I still lived in the apartment we had together. So overall, a shady piece of —. Would not recommend.
Paul Roger Bedard Jr. (from the reality TV show Gator Boys). Weston, FL
Paul is the biggest lying manipulative sack of —-. I was with Paul for years. We took a break when I went off to New Zealand to pursue my Masters. He dated other people, so did I. I accidentally got pregnant while in New Zealand, I told Paul everything.
He welcomed me home with open arms and said he didn’t care that the baby wasn’t his. He acted like a saint at first. Paid for everything, really took care of me. Once I had Joseph he changed. He didn’t want me anymore, just Joseph. He wanted to be daddy but treated me like shit. The show became a hit and he secretly started dating Caroline. He then kicked me and Joseph out of the house so he could move Caroline in. He broke my heart. He promised we’d get married, told me he loved me.
He agreed to keep paying for my school and Joseph but I didn’t have enough to get a place of my own so I was forced to move in with my mom (I didn’t work I was trying to finish up my education). Paul didn’t like the distance from Joseph so he got us a small house in a neighboring city.
Paul didn’t want me living too close to him and Caroline. I’d see them together and it would kill me. Breaking my heart all over again. Because he was paying for everything, including my education I just did what he said. I eventually met my current husband and I told him about everything Paul had done. I was an emotional mess when Mario met me. Mario married me and we agreed we needed to get Paul out of our life.
So I cut him off. Paul had no legal rights to Joseph. I was done being abused by Paul. Having him hold my education over my head so he could get what he wanted.
Paul turned into a monster. Caroline eventually saw what a scumbag he was and dumped him. It’s been 5 years and 4 domestic violence charges later:
Paul is still making my life miserable. Making matters worse he currently has a pregnant girlfriend and I know she is going to go through what I did. I want to save her, I just don’t know-how.
Sorry to burst anyone’s bubble who loved Gator Boy Paul but he is a rotten self serving dishonest manipulative sack of crap.
I want to post about my ex but I don’t know where to go. There is no link or anything.
Kevin Sorensen, North Fort Myers, FL, 30 years old, plumber or painter when working
This guy took advantage of me for nearly a decade, stealing and trying to lie the entire relationship. Kept me complacent with minor changes to his ridiculous manipulative and dishonest behaviors, doing housework half-heartedly, and bombarding me with loads of empty promises sprinkled heavily with his personal brand of bullsh*t about his unending love for me and compliments on just how beautiful and sexy I was … Until I stopped tending to his every want and need. Then he really became an scum, had me pay for his visit: flight, hotel, food, gas, then stiffed me for all of it. Not the first time this cheap, lying, thieving junkie has screwed me … But it sure is the last time. Don’t trust anyone with the last name Sorensen, Vetter or Reber in Southwest Florida. Both sides of Kevin’s family has got some members with top level red flag issues.
Don’t date Alex Williams from the Bronx. He is black and went to Skidmore College. Don’t date him. He has psychological issues and has anger issues. He will stalk you, threaten you, hit you, and then try to manipulate you. He will move into your apartment and then never leave. Thank God i moved to Florida.
Dean Keithly. Cornell University PhD, Aerospace Engineer, 27 yr old, from Michigan.
Huge RACIST. Says really insulting stuff towards the Hispanic, Asian and especially Black communities!(The worst thing is he seeks to date minority woman!!)
Manipulative, controlling. Very calculative. Pretends to be sweet and harmless but then slowly use manipulating ways to undermine your confidence then break up with you when you are least prepared and says so many insulting stuff to make you feel like it’s all your fault after the breakup. But then he will internet stalk you for years and talk shit about you to everyone you know in common.
#RobertEarlJonesJr also known as #bigbobbyjones #bigbobby or #jbigbobby #bigbobbyjones777 met and begin dating etc in 2017. He was kind then we both relapsed and vegan using. I got clean he didnt so I left. We both moved on with our lives then about6 months ago I cane up positive for HSV2. I knew hed given it to me I reached out he didnt care at that time he was sleeping with a friend and had knocked her up and he was also sleeping with a married women. I reached out to both these women and he got upset. I want to say beware of him he has a way of being able to make believe hes good but he isnt he has a temper and even quit talking to the pregnant friend. Its sad hes spreading hsv innocent lives changed.
Will Bosland from New Mexico. Resides in Dallas.
This a*hole will use you then *poof* gone.
He dated my friend for three months then just disappeared when she was in a bad accident and in the hospital.
He is selfish, do not expect him to be there for you during tough times.
Kanak Raina, Ph.D. Yale University, New Haven, Principal Scientist at Halda Therapeutics (public information)
If you are dating him, run for your life! He is an abusive, manipulative psychopath with body dysmorphia that he will project on you. He will promise you to “give all of himself”, play on your desire to have a family and a home. He will create a bubble where you are the only person he has in his life, isolating you from the rest of the world. It may be romantic at first, but you will have no one to reach out to when things do not go his way. This is when the manipulation starts happening “If only you lost this much weight for me, I’d not need anything else in my life. You know you are everything I ever wanted”. And when you are not hitting his goals, he will withdraw, not speak or be intimate with you to show what it will be like if you don’t do what he wants. This sophisticated manipulation will be presented as his care for you, and what is worse, he will find a way to blame himself as someone who has failed his feminist believes, which will make it even more convincing to keep on going with this madness. And you will keep on losing weight and stop eating altogether because he will control your food intake and what is being purchased and exercise until you no longer can stand, but it will never be enough. You are no longer perfect in his eyes, and as soon as that happens, he will leave you in the worst manner possible, right when you are about to get married, or so he said. He will threaten you when you ask for an explanation or closure. You wouldn’t even know what happened because a week ago he promised that you’d always be together.
And once you get over him and pick yourself up and become more successful, he will reach out again and try to get back together. DO NOT GO FOR THAT. While dating you, he has a history of reaching out to his exes and trying to get back together he is perpetually unhappy and will be searching for someone to fill that whole. He did that for six months, trying to get back together, but when you stand your ground and reject his abusive treatment, he will run to the first girl who’d have him and promise her the world, because he can never be alone with himself, too afraid to face his utter ugliness. Remember, your love, praise and lack of criticism is what’s feeding him. He doesn’t love you, he loves being loved, doesn’t matter by whom. Last time I saw him in July 2020, he told me that he doesn’t care if he hurts people feelings, only if he hurts mine, and that is why we couldn’t be together…run for your life!
Austin James Chandonnet (32) Peachtree City, GA, Grand Rapids, MI
BEWARE!!!!!!!! Very dangerous and abusive conman. He hasn’t had a stable job in over 6 years, is chronically unemployed, but will pretend to be successful by making up careers and claiming to own his own business. He appears to have financial means at first because he mooches off of and literally steals from his wealthy family – yes, he has committed check fraud against his own parents. During the time we were together, he revealed himself as a sociopath and a pathological liar, constantly lying to me and going out of town “for work” all to find out he was having affairs with women he met online. The money he was allegedly bringing in from work was deposited into our bank account from his mother, making it appear like legitimate paychecks.
Yes, unfortunately his parents are not above lying on his behalf and enabling his despicable behavior. When I became suspicious about his behavior and caught his lies, he began being physically abusive with me. He hit, punched, kicked and threw me down on the floor or against the wall multiple times, causing bleeding and bruising, and he eventually went as far as to point a loaded gun at me and threaten to kill me if I left him. When I finally got the courage to leave, he stole thousands of dollars from my bank account and bolted out of town. We owned mutual property together and he had our vehicles repossessed without my permission, damaging my credit and almost causing me to lose my job in the financial field. After fighting him in court for 4 years and the judge ruling in my favor, he filed for bankruptcy to try to avoid paying the debts he owed me, lying on his Bankruptcy documents, which is perjury of Federal Court.
This individual has no moral conscience. He is especially dangerous because he blends in with every-day normal people and doesn’t appear to be the degenerate he truly is due to the fact his parents are more than willing to provide him with money, an apartment to live in, and a car to drive, despite the fact he would never be able to provide any of those things for himself since he does not have and has not had employment for going on a decade now. He will use you for social status, money, narcissistic supply, sex, a place to live and anything and everything else he can take advantage of. If you know Austin Chandonnet, or know a woman involved with him please reply to this comment for more information verifying the accuracy of my claims. I have pictures and years worth of court documents corroborating my statements. Also, you can look up these public court records in Fulton County and the bankruptcy in Federal Court state of Georgia.
Please take these warnings very seriously. This is a dangerous person who will do anything and everything for his own personal gain without any remorse.
Gutierrez is a covert narcissist and a con man. He used me and my family for four years until he drained me and discarded me. Google Covert Narcissistic Personality disorder and you will get a detailed description of his tactics.
@Girl_Wonder ~
Bravo & thank you!! Really well written and extremely insightful, you just described the dynamics of my involvement with an anger junkie/narcissist/autistic/addict and thanks to the damage he caused I’m in such a state that my brain hardly functions at the level I need to sound this competent. Your words are blazing in my mind and super succinct, you should write professionally if you don’t already.
How do I comment on the main thread here? I don’t see a box other than this one… also, at BBFL admin, how come my searches for the guys listed here come up empty? I mean, what’s the point of having a list if it’s not searchable?? I can put you in touch with a bad ass coder to fix that, SHE will probably do it for free considering the hell men have put her through!
Admin: Working on a better search feature for these listings. I didn’t even realize the new updated search was excluding your listings. I will work on getting that fixed asap! Promise!
Tyler Kennedy from Harrisburg PA, now living in Nebraska: I’ve been with him for going on 12 years. We married in 2015 and are in the process of divorcing. Buckle in ladies, this is gonna be a long one.
We met through a mutual friend and quickly hit it off. We talked on the phone for hours and hours every night. He was always texting me. He was super attentive and sweet and thoughtful. He made me feel special and I thought finally! This is a good man I could love! He had a job, he was educated, honorable discharge from the Navy. Seemed close to his family. All were things I thought were good signs. He was cute to boot, so I jumped in with both feet. Things were amazing for the first few years. We went through serious poverty, ups downs, etc and it seemed like we were forever.
Then I noticed that he wasn’t making any effort to get us out of the situation we were in poverty wise so I did it. I got a well paid job and saved every cent, bought a house and a car and pushed him to get a job too. He finally did. Over the years, his jobs got more and more high paid. Yet we always seemed to be just barely scraping by. My parents often had to bail us out.
Anytime I’d try to right the ship, get things going in the right direction, there was gaslighting, manipulation, anger, and fights. He was so subtle about it that I never realized until I was already really beaten down. By the time I understood what was happening I didn’t have the energy or strength to do anything but endure.
Then my Dad died. I fell into a depression so deep I couldn’t function. He took over the bills. The car got reposessed and the house went into foreclosure. This happened twice. He’s stolen money from me anytime he knew I had any extra. He ruined my credit and my health. He cheated on me with a woman and I only found out because she called me and thanked me for letting her and her 8 yr old son move in with us and letting her date him. She said he’d told her she could move in and that I’d allowed this. I certainly didn’t. I told him to choose between us. It took him two weeks to decide. He’d never met her in person and had been chatting her up for 3 months. He told me that he loved her more than me and that my depression in the wake of my father’s death was making me a bad wife and that’s why he cheated.
A few years later I have nerve damage. When it flares I hit an eleven on the pain scale or higher. The kind of pain that puts you in a fetal position, ripping out your hair and screaming. He refused to help me get to the doctor, said it was all in my head and I was making it up and being a drama queen. That the hospital wouldn’t help me even if I went so there was no point. I tried to call an ambulance and he took my phone away knowing I was too weak to get it back from him. He would yell at me during these times because I was disturbing his sleep.
He would get drunk every evening and start fights with me, making up scenarios about things I’d done which never happened. He had sexual fantasies and kinks I found vile and I suffered through multiple instances of forced consent. ( this is where you are bullied into a sexual situation you dont wish to be in. Make no mistake, it is a form of rape) This man humiliated, violated, used, and stole from me for more than a decade.
He destroyed my house. He screwed up my health. Every promise he makes is a fallacy that never sees follow through. I discovered that he’d been cheating on me online for most of the time I was with him, sending these women money. And not just his money, but my money too. When I confronted him with this he shrugged and said; “I’m sorry for the way things played out.”
He is a pathetic, alcoholic, abusive, pretender of a man and he WILL destroy you if you let him. Don’t let him fool you. BEWARE.
Jeff Silvas (goleta ca) is abusive and unstable. Ladies, beware. He’s cruel and moody af.
Matt Sweex from the netherlands is a horrible skirt chaser who gets off fantasizing about a bunch of women to serve him. We talked from September then in October he got a girlfriend but wouldn’t let me go then blocked me in November this guy sucked me in then kicked me too the curb
Here to report Patrick Russo a seemingly nice guy from South Florida, currently in Chattanooga, Tennessee. This guy is not my type he is chubby and hairy but he was so kind, he took me on many nice dates, took me traveling, so when he asked me to be his girlfriend I said yes how could I say no to the nicest human I had ever met? Attraction can grow right? And it did. We ended up moving in together and that was the day everything changed. He never wanted to hang out, he was almost never home but when he was he was always angry, scary angry, I prayed for our relationship daily, I tried, really tried. Always had a meal waiting for him, was constantly looking for things I could clean before he got home. For nothing, he kicked me and my child out on the street, started threatening me. I ended up filing a police report and getting help from a local church to move back home to Florida. When you’re not attracted to the nice guy… there’s a reason ladies.
Daniel Rosenblatt. Known alias: Dan from Far Rockaway, NY and Woodmere, NY. Comes from a Jewish family. He has no respect for vulnerable women. He likes to take advantage of the generosity of women. He is verbally abusive and manipulative. We met via a Jewish dating app. He said I was the one and we spoke about marriage brought up by him. Flew abroad to come and see me. I opened my home to him. I picked him up from the airport and we came to my place.
He met my family and was in my personal space. We became intimate. I told him we should use protection and he said rejected it. Said if we got pregnant, it would all be fine and “we would deal with it.” He made me believe if anything did happen, we would sort it out together. I became pregnant during his stay. As soon as I told him, he panicked and told me to get a scan to which I agreed. Before I could get a scan, he fled the country and went back to his hometown. He blocked me and then unblocked me after some time. apologized just to lure me back in. Told me he would support me only if I would “get rid of it.” Told me he wanted nothing to do with me and that he told his family and they told him I should abort as well.
This is not common in the Jewish religion. He said I would not ruin him in the Jewish world with this mistake. He intimidated me and played with my emotions in every way possible. Made threats to make my life hell if I would not do what he wanted me to. He told me to do things I had never done before. He was so threatening. I had to start recording the conversations as he was verbally violent. He made sure to not get anything in writing and told me no one would find him and that I was crazy. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do and he was pressuring me and telling me he would ruin my life. I tried to have a rabbi speak to him but he was equally rude and verbally violent towards the rabbi. He has violent tendencies when he doesn’t have his way. I want to put this story out there to warn other Jewish women of this man, so they do not fall into the same scenario I did and so they do not believe his lies.
ASHLEY GOTTLIEB in Tokyo (used to live in NY). Big time cheater, and addict. Will cheat on you if he gets a chance. Prefers paid companions over normal girls because he cannot have a normal relationship. Had a threesome with 2 paid escorts in Vietnam. Cheated with other multiple girls while he was overseas. Illegal drug usage in Asia which is very risky. Abuses prescribed drugs to get high (Xanax, sleeping pills, and pain killers). Before you get hurt please run away.
have to address that he had a threesome with 2 ‘ladies of the night’ in Vietnam while he was traveling with his current girlfriend. On a business trip to Thailand, he will always order takeout paid escorts to his room. Makes out with other girls in front of his GF if he likes that girl. He cannot help it.
Finally a place to rate my ex bf. You really should have like a scale of 1 to 10 to rate just how bad my ex boyfriend is. Then again after reading some of these comments I guess everyone would be rating their ex bf a 1. lol
Beware of BRIAN HALL ( in his late 40s) of Arlington, Va!!! He has a life long issue that he can pass to you. He’s been sleeping with several women unprotected. Two women have come forward with their results and informed him. He did not care to get checked or produce results showing that he wasn’t positive of this issue. He is a serial liar, cheater, and manipulator.
Ryan Cavanaugh, Professional Banjo Player and Instructor, Nashville Tennessee. This guy is extremely toxic and has anger issues about women. He postsregularly on a sight called Quora. He makes up questions from his other accounts and then answers them. They are all about his ex girlfriends or his mother. He lures young female musicians into instruction and then sexually harrasses them. If they don’t “play ball” he black lists them with musicians in Nashville so they can’t get jobs. He asks for nude pics and then shares them with his male contacts and brags about it. He was physically abusive to me as well as the woman he lived with before me. He bragged that he has cheated on every woman he has ever dated because he wants to have the upper hand. He loves to brag about how he conns money out of older women by pretending to be interested in them for romance or friendship. He is unable to maintain any relationship. He has never been engaged or married (he is 44). He boasts that as a virtuoso banjo player, it is his right to cheat. When we broke up he stated to me “I am a bigger deal than you will ever be. I will sleep with half the women under 45 in this town before you even begin to date again” He really loves to hurt women. Please be very careful if you are ever around him.
Harry Hudson from Romulus, NY. Cheater, Liar, doesn’t know when he is sexually harassing a woman. When it comes to sending inappropriate photos, he does not take no for an answer.
JOSEPH ‘SCOTT’ HOUSTON – FOUNTAIN MI
Is a lying, narcissistic, poorly endowed user… he owes me around $35k. After he begged me to leave my husband, spent all of my money while he laid on his ass for 18 months, and when I could no longer work due to balance and osteoporosis issues, this 61 year old pos decided our relationship was over. I was no longer any use to him. I imagine it will be the same for any woman who falls for his ‘charms’ (word used loosely). He is egotistical for NO reason what-so-ever. He is bald, has bad teeth and shits the bed. I don’t know what the hell I was thinking…. shit, I was just horny and wanted to let off some pent up girl stuff but he fell in love and pestered me until I left my husband of nearly 17 years. Date him at your peril. He’s perpetually miserable and will make you miserable right alongside him. How I lasted as long as I did is anyone’s guess.
Angier Moseley Ames or Angier Ames of Healdsburg, California and of Boston, Massachusetts drugged and raped me for 3 days. He gave me such a strong drug that I almost died 3 times. I was blacking out, passing out and I could not speak or move for hours. I tried to walk and I kept falling over and over and I could not even sit. I would occasionally wake up and he was raping me and I could not feel my body. One time I remember slapping him and crying as he raped me. He said he wanted to tie me up with jump ropes. Angier Ames gave me such strong drugs that I had extremely severe chest pain and I had trouble breathing and swallowing. I was hallucinating and I was having horrible seizures. One time I woke up and he yelled at me so much that I thought he would hit me. He told me that he was arrested for hitting his previous girlfriend who is a nurse. Please beware!! Angier Moseley Ames has a serious drug problem, he is a rapist and he beats women plus he is emotionally abusive with a short temper. He gave me such a powerful drug that I still have severe chest pain and it’s been a month. I have horrible nightmares of what Angier Ames did to me. My doctor said he gave me a drug that is like a powerful anaesthetic that is used mainly for colon surgery. So the patient is awake but feels nothing and remembers nothing. Angier Ames also told me that he likes to dress up like a woman.
John Oliver Schwartzkopf of Manteno, IL went after my teenage daughter after we were engaged. After asking around found out he has knocked up a few teenagers before.
JASON DAVE from GOLETA, CA is a dangerous, abusive man. Ladies, beware.
Ramon Franco Jr., MD is a serial cheater and liar. He lied when we met about his relationship status, and when I found out he gaslit me. I was in love and foolish and stayed for four more years, as he continued on and off with another woman. We broke up for four years, and in a moment of weakness, we re-established a connection- though not committed. He always said he was single, but sure enough, he was with another woman (in a committed relationship) the entire time we were having causal relations from 2011 to 2018. He is a terrible human being who thinks he is great because he is a doctor!!
EMIL KOTSCHESSA OF beachwood,nj
Short and sweet he is a cheater, a lier and likes to beat on women he beat me after I found out he was married and cheating on me with 2 other women and his wife who he has 2 kids with he loves to try to draw us girls in with making us pity him and saying he is great man but he is a snake and a very evil man beware he also prays on single moms as I my self am.
Any man who SAYS he’s ‘mr perfect’ should be avoided… they shouldnt have to say it; if they are, you will know by their actions.
Ira Ney
Vancouver WA, Elko NV
A true pathetic piece of shit, disguised as nice sweet guy. This good for NOTHING man child mooched off me for months. Instead of getting a job, he spends 18-20 hours a day playing computer games. He pays nothing in child support for his 4 kids his poor xwife has to raise because he’s a dead beat. Paid nothing for rent, utilities, or groceries, then left me 2 days before August rent was due because he’s incapable of having any kind of adult conversation. And he had the balls to screw around…WOMEN AND MEN beware
WILLIAM JEEKEUNG FONG, AKA: GUILLERMO FONG, 80sKIDGEEK, WILL FONG, BILL FONG, FERDINAND. SAN FRANCISCO, CA.
He is 47 as of 2020. He is Chinese, but he can’t stand Asians and frequently uses racist terms to describe them. He is a huge fan of Donald Trump, Republican values, the military, and guns.
He has never been in the military or shot a gun. He is obsessed with the Navy Seals but is scared to death of nearly everything that they have to do.
He is a narcissist and a moocher. He will put on the charm until he’s confident he has you in his clutches, then his normal self reappears.
He curses A LOT, makes fun of his son for not cursing, and gets angry easily. His anger has led to violence in the past. He has taken people’s headlights out with hammers and rammed their cars with his own when they weren’t going fast enough.
He was violent with his son in the past, hitting him and knocking him over when he was a baby. He spent tons of his ex-wife’s money ($15k +) on toys for himself and often neglected his son.
Even now, everything is about himself, and his son is 2nd place. Then anyone else comes afterwards. He only dates people if he thinks he can benefit. If you break up with him, he will sell your stuff.
He doesn’t even care about his parents (who are in their 80s) unless they can do something for him and he never visits them even though he lives 5 minutes away.
Avoid him like the plague.
Ladies be aware of Paul Bagby, aka Paul C. Bagby. Some user names on POF, Ashley Madison, Match, Zoosk, Tinder, Bumble are drolds350, drolds1970, 1970olds, MrMitchell, MrMitchell1614, MrBig27238 to name a few. He is a habitual liar, user, and narcissist. He told me he has one child and has actually 3! Two were from strippers that he doesn’t associate with! I uncovered a whole bunch of other lies too that just floored me. He is in debt like you wouldn’t believe and has some serious anger issues and he will take it out on you! He blames everyone else for his problems and will never own his shit!
There is a guy name Will Rulong he is such a douche bag. He screwed up because he thought he be an alcoholic and take my vehicle any time he wants too. So then when I ended it and was away from my house he stole my THERAPY DOG and my DENTURES. Then had the nerve to tell the foos were something wrong with me. Now he is out on POF trying to find another women that he can suck into his web of lies….he comes off as being tender and doing everything for him and then he will change….SO BECAREFUL GIRLS
MILAN KREBS aka Legends44
RENO,NV 32 yrs old
Cheater- Narcissistic-Pathological Liar-Sociopath- Transmits STDS- Closet homosexual- Doesn’t pay his bills- gathers information on you~ to use against you in a court of law- Uses his work to sleep with unknowing individuals (men & women) in empty apartments/houses he works in-Violent- uses his “military experience’ as a trap so you feel bad for him(claims to have been black ops sniper) BLAME SHIFTER-PREDATOR Know pill abuser and hard drug user- Needs serious Mental help- talks about fucking you in the ass and peeling your flesh off your body(with a smile on his face so you think its a joke- small D***-big ego- Owes child support (over a thousand) tickles his daughters in a cringe-worthy way and has been caught playing with in their bedroom- Very insecure- Lives disgustingly- will pretend to be a cleanly person- but one month in and he stops cleaning up after himself(garbage and nasty dirty clothes/wont do dishes or tie-up/take out garbage) PETTY/CHILDISH known to have POF and Grindr- Sex addict- Lies to his family about you if you date him and threatens to ruin your life if you try and leave- then cries when your are done with him- MASTER MANIPULATOR- his D*** gets hard if he makes your cry/hurts you- will rub his semen on your belongings- will invite men/women over to steal your things & have sex on your bed/furniture- Hacks your devices and stalks you>the old IF he cant have you-nobody can-
DONT BELIEVE A WORD THIS GUY SAYS HE IS VERY CUNNING/SMART AND ONLY WANTS TO FUCK WHATEVER HOLE HE FINDS
Most Relatable to TED BUNDY-JEFFERY DAHMER
BE WARNED Don’t give him a chance to speak or you’ll be his NEXT VICTIM
Christopher Trent Kaplan (goes by Chris)
San Francisco, CA
He seems like an absolute saint at first, as he does lots of volunteer work, has worked for the Mind and Life Institute and currently works as a mental health counselor. Don’t be fooled by this!!! He is actually an incredibly predatory narcissist. A lot of sociopaths work in the “helping professions” so as to have power over others. He is emotionally abusive and very skilled at gaslighting. His dating profile will read like the perfect resume, and he will tell you about how his “crazy ex-girlfriends” have all mistreated him…even though he is the common denominator! He will use you and throw you away like garbage whenever it suits him. Then he will move to a new state where no one knows him and start this behavior all over again. He is a womanizer of the worst kind, in that he actually hates women. Again, he can act INCREDIBLY sweet and kind in order to get what he wants. It’s not real. He’s just an amazing liar. Please take care of yourselves and stay away from this sick human!
BILLY BENDEN.
William Thomas Benden.
FairviewPark, Ohio.
Knowingly spread STD’s and is a compulsive liar.
Cannot stop cheating.
Emotionally abusive.
Victor Cesari – California, New York, and Maryland. Tinder addict. Lover of dirty girls, lies, and massage parlors. Forced me into sex. Acts cuddly like his dog named Bear. Don’t let the dog fool you. This Navy dude is a classic example of an enlisted Navy scumbag. He admitted to seeing prostitutes for blow jobs in his earlier years. He frequently enjoys “hand jobs” at the massage parlor to this date in 2019.
Thin women and Asian foot massage fetish. Gave his ex girlfriend and I both the same cancer causing STD. He lied about being arrested for drinking and driving more than once, a simple background check confirmed it. He also forced me into sex while he was broken up with his girlfriend. I didn’t know this until we chatted much later. She confirmed there were at least 2 women he would still mess with from Tinder and avoided sex with her – classic ‘Madonna complex’ of wanting the innocent woman for his future wife and his side chick on the side. To make matters worse I was stupid enough to watch his dog while he would visit her. This narcissistic dude has it all – he will take you out for a lovely meal on the first date, tell you how much he wants a “good” woman. He will follow it up with making sure you aren’t dating other men and lock you into a relationship right away. All classic signs of abuse and narcissistic ways.
He will treat his side pieces like crap – and all because they aren’t educated or good enough for him. Classic example of someone who drives a nice car for show and lives in a shithole apartment. Once he feels he can control you (and want to spend ALL HIS TIME with you) he will eventually pull away and start messaging the “DIRTY GIRLS” like me because the ‘good girl’ is missing something.
Cherry on top? Once you meet him online you may find an article from his hometown in New York about him saving someone’s life. Guess WHAT? He admitted to writing the article and posting it online HIMSELF! Let’s be clear! VICTOR enjoys making himself seem better than he is. He will manipulate you into thinking he is trying to change and is a changed man! He did drugs and alcohol but doesn’t anymore. The Navy is a bad influence on him. He hasn’t changed – don’t listen. Block him on Tinder, Match, Eharmony. I only hope this is an easy google search for women as a public service.
Nic Frachon. Nicolas Frachon. California.
This man is a predator. He’s the kind of guy that will throw you overboard on your honeymoon cruise. A sex-addicted psychopath with no remorse. He’s a massive manipulator with the charm of Ted Bundy. His ego needs to take a plunge down to his IQ. There’s not one honest bone in his body. Don’t believe his lies and love-bombing used to lure you in. It makes it harder to recognize the abuse. He’ll make you think you’re crazy, but you’re not. That’s him gaslighting you. Don’t mistake his white privilege. It’s made him not mentally mature enough to care for anybody else other than himself. In reality, he’s inhibited intellectually and knows he has nothing to offer you. Remember, the devil was once a handsome angel. Don’t fall for a fraud.
I saw your post and still gave him a chance. Of course he claimed it was false and hired a lawyer. He lives in Phoenix now.. Girl he’s still up to the same BS. It was his idea to be exclusive. We had sex 5 times one morning last week and he still cheated on me the same night. I’m physically ill. He’s 31 and I found out he was talking to a 19 year old. At least he’s admitted he needs therapy, however I expect him back on the apps soon.
Hello ladies, I just responded to another post above about Nic. Can you tell me more about your experiences? I’m currently kind of dating him and have some concerns/reservations which have ultimately led me to this website and googling him.
Nathanial Ramoska. Goes by Nate and Nathan. From Chicago, Illinois. Used to live in Missouri and Iowa for a short period of time. Huge f*ckboy. Likes to hook up with girls and leads them on for months, giving them hope for a relationship some day. While doing all that to one girl, he gets in relationships with another, and then cheats on the girl in the relationship. Uses girls for sex and money. Preys on younger girls (18-20) when he is almost 30. When confronted about his horrible treatment of women, he turns it all around and acts like a victim. He’s a gaslighter. He has the emotional intelligence of a 14 year old. He is also a trump supporter, gun nut, and racist. He even went out of the way to say he’d never date a black girl, and other incredibly offensive things about black people on our first “date”. Likes to tell stories of how his past girlfriends cheated on him, which I later found out is far from the truth. He takes his friends’ experiences and uses it as his own for sympathy. Unrelated, he is a shitty friends and I wouldn’t be surprised if he didn’t have any of his friends left at this point. Will lie and tell girls he loves them to get what he wants, which is sex. Will even go as far as to saying he wants to be in a relationship/wants you to be his girlfriend just so he can get laid, and then immediately takes it back afterwards. Expects girls he talked to to be available whenever it is convenient to him, if not he acts like a huge D*******, which is ironic because he exudes and has SMALL D***** ENERGY. Nathan Ramoska has small D***** energy and tries to overcompensate with this toxic behavior and actions. That is all.
@midnightsun I am a 19 year old from Chicago, Illinois, who was sexually abused by Nate Ramoska when I was 12 years old ( he told me he was 25 at the time ). It has taken me years of therapy to cope with the sexual abuse and manipulation that he put me through as a child. So on top of being a racist, fuckboy, manipulator and gaslighter, you can add pedophile and r*pist to the list. I have even been told by others who were his friends long ago that he would brag about F*cking me (WHEN I WAS A CHILD). And if you dont believe me that’s fine but i have witnesses and physical evidence that it happened. And i was even willing to go as far as to make a police report last year only to be told that the statute of limitations had expired. Please beware this man and spread this information so that no other women make the mistaking of falling for this disgusting piece of Sh*t.
Chris Linkous, Atlanta, GA
He comes across as charming. Don’t buy it. Don’t believe anything! He claims to have a TBI from a car wreck in high school. This is not true. In actuality, he is a closet alcoholic and compulsive liar. I had to get a TPO against him, which he violated. He was arrested for aggravated stalking and is currently out on bond. His wife just divorced him, so he’s just looking for someone to shack up with and take care of him. He’ll be in love with you within a week. Don’t fall for it!
Rabid Redneck Rapist: Brian Thornburg (originally of Chattanooga, TN) is a violent rapist. Whether he preys on an unconscious young woman at a house party, plots a date rape, or turns psycho on a consenting partner and leaves her bleeding, bruised, and naively confused he will find a way to take it from a woman. His only other approach to getting together with an unsuspecting female is to be entirely fake, “too cool”, lie about 100% of the basic facts of his pathetic existence, and in his “off time” scrounge up some stolen money to support his alcoholism and crack habit. Oh, & he isn’t a chef, nor is he trained in any martial arts. However, he sure can grow a lovely poneytail (gag) and adopt the personalities of the guys he latched onto like a redneck, ass-kissing parasite. He might even buy a woman’s brother a puppy figurine on their second date (Don’t ask me what the hell that is all about. Just enjoy that this truly happened. NOTE: My brother has no inclination to collect ceramic animals nor does he fancy dainty gifts from guys he met (er, was kinda stalked by) the prior week.
Enough.
Sam Akl who is a Physical Therapist from Brooklyn, NY. He is a very self-entitled narcissistic and controlling prick. He is 43 years years old at the time of writing this narrative.
He hides behind a mask of generosity and magnanimity, yet the reality belies a profoundly fake, insecure and superficial petulant man child. He is an arrogant douche bag that will attempt to exploit and manipulate others in order to get his own way.
Sam is very controlling and manipulative dumb fcuk that is whole-heartedly convinced he knows everything and that he is always right.
Furthermore, he lies and manipulates others to get his needs met. He is a bonafide asshole with dubious values and morals. He will play the role in making you think he is such a “nice guy” but nothing is further from the truth.
Let me add the fact that he is also a steadfast Trump supporter which should be of no surprise, another malignant narcissist jerk-off.
Stay from this POS as he has nothing to offer but lies, manipulation and problems. He will attempt to exert his control over you awhile being dismissive and disdainful especially if your opinions or perspectives differ from his own.
Additionally he will antagonize and act like a toddler if you happen to tell him “NO”. He likes to test and push one’s boundaries and play stupid mind games as that seems to a source of endless entertainment for him. Again, avoid this person as he unbelievably dumb, emotionally immature and a spectacular failure as a person.
Sioux City, Iowa. This man Trevor Wauhob has been messing with my head for a year now. I thought his issue was drinking. Come to find out he is also a player. I found out he is on dating sites such as tinder. He also is walking around with and untreated STD. I would like to post screenshots. Is there anyway possible to do so.
Sebastian Carias Hyattsville, Maryland
Chronic cheater and user of women. Hides behind the nice guy facade but is really a snake. Uses tinder and bumble for his conquests. Also a high school history teacher who smokes weed. Was dating 3 girls at one point.
WARNING TO PEOPLE OUT THERE ABOUT STEPHEN EDWARD WILSON AND KENNETH EDWARD SWEET:
These 2 are chronic liars and thieves. Beware of them on all the dating sites. They seem so nice at first; they are good actors. Sadistic and happy to torture you, isolate you, abuse you.
◦Reading the Signs Look for a lack of shame. Most sociopaths can commit vile actions and not feel the least bit of remorse. See if the person lies constantly. Sociopaths are perfectly comfortable going through their lives telling a series of lies. See if they are able to stay eerily calm in spite of their circumstances.
◦Look for ‘gaslighting’. Since sociopaths lie and deceive, they tend to make the victim look and feel as though they are the problem that the sociopath is causing. The medical terminology is ‘projection’, and is a calling card of the sociopath. Blaming you for what they have done to you.
Kevin Innerst Chambersburg, PA
Careful with this guy. When I knew him, he had an uncontrollable addiction to alcohol. He claimed he was going to try to get better, but never sought out proper help to do so. He is not a cruel drunk, but his personality and outlook changes. He’s superficial, caring more about appearance than personality. He cares more about sex than actually creating real connection. If he’s quickly talking about a relationship or a future together… Don’t believe him.
Trevor Stottlemyer Shippensburg, PA
It pains me to write this. I thought he was one of the good guys. Boy was I wrong.
Met this guy through a dating app. Definitely under the impression for casual sex relationship. He likes to portray himself as a good friend sort of guy and he can be. And girls… The sex with him is great! Now if only things could have gone for the better…
This guy has some interesting sex tastes. Nothing unreasonable, but for anyone accustomed to a vanilla sex life, they can be daunting. It doesn’t matter if you don’t express an eagerness in his tastes, he’ll try to wear you down with repeated talk about his fetishes until you’re willing to give in to him. I was worn out and eager to make him happy, so I gave in. I wish I realized what was happening before that happened.
Now, casual relationships are fine. It’s what I would want to start with, but Trevor blurs the line. He wants to cuddle and give and receive massages, but he does this without coming straight out to talk about his expectations. He doesn’t think about if he’s leading you on… Only to tell you he’s not ready for a relationship.
He’ll talk about how he can’t compromise himself which is all well and good, because you’d think that means he doesn’t want you to compromise yourself. No. I expressed my need for equal give and take and when I tried to discuss how unfair it was for me to have to be the only one to compromise, he later berated me for asking him what he would compromise so that I felt like we had equal give and take going on. Also, when he began to talk against having sex, I told him that I met him for the sex and if it wasn’t going to be a thing, I wasn’t interested. He then accused me of objectifying him. This coming from a guy that made frequent jokes about wanting to be able to pick up lots of girls and make money off of sex when I talked about him being good at sex. No, if what I want is sex and he doesn’t want that anymore, then I have my right to step away. No matter how many times I tried to explain what I meant, he would remark that I was objectifying him several times after.
If you can guess, Trevor is a guy that will put words into your mouth. While I would express that I felt he said something one way and ask for clarification, he would immediately claim you meant something you didn’t. And even if you tried to explain yourself, he’d continue to hold his perception against you. You can discuss and come to a decision, making sure he is okay with it, only for him to later bring it up and say you were wrong to decide things to be a certain way. He’ll complain about you to his close friend and rather than discuss with you the concerns, he’ll accuse you of acting inappropriate. Also, while he would put words into you mouth, he would complain if you were the one to unwittingly twist his words… even if you were also asking for clarification.
Trevor is also a guy that likes to complain A LOT. He’ll complain about his exes, his close friends, his work and how unsatisfying it is, his lack of progress towards his passion goals. From his complaints, you are left with the impression that he doesn’t have supportive people in his life, but if you try to support him, he’ll make excuses rather than take you up on your offer.
Also, he seems to have a tendency to complain a lot about the things he wants to keep in his life. He complains a lot about his ex from over a year ago, yet will say that he still wants her back. He’ll complain about about his friends, but insist they are good people to have in his life. He’ll complain about work being unsatisfying, but lets himself stay in an absolutely miserable working situation.
All this despite Trevor being a guy that claims he’s easy going, trustworthy, and understanding. Perhaps at first. But where you think that you can confide in him after he confides in you… Again, he’ll twist your words. I would explain that I have a difficult time trusting people, even if I want to and he’d berate me for not trusting him. But then, as I tried to be more open and honest with him, he’d complain about how I perceived things and pull away.
So I would listen to him and try to support him as he complainedabout everything, no matter how uncomfortable it got… But when I discussed with him my deepest struggles, he blocked me out.
This guy said he would not use me and toss me aside. He said he wanted an intellectual connection, but any attempt that could be made was replaced with his desire for sex or (when he didn’t want the sex) rebuking me instead. He is neither ready for a casual sex relationship nor a serious one.
I won’t deny that I did not act on my best behavior all the time, but I was left feeling like I had no right to stand up for myself or speak my mind. And no matter what mistakes he could make, I felt like I couldn’t make a single one. Then while I thought things were going well, he’d have something to complain about while making me feel like it was my fault.
I’m posting this because when he decided to end the sexual aspect of our relationship (but discussed remaining friends though he ended that himself immediately), he said he was not interested in sex or pursuing it as he needed to focus on himself. If he if pursuing sex, then he is a liar and a hypocrite. He does need to do some serious work on his sense of self and how to be willing to work towards improving himself before he drags someone else into his mess. He’s scared of what is good. No girl deserves to deal with that.
Cory Allen Keene
From Port Charlotte Florida . Can be found in North Fort Myers Florida , Thailand , and Japan .
He is the biggest narcissist . He believes only he has rights to anything . He is entitled to everything . And his words “when a girl looks at me her panties should automatically be dripping wet . Why would they ever want any other man ? I’m the only man anyone should ever want . ”
He’s a liar and a cheater . He cheated on his ex with me . Lied to us both . Then cheated on me with his ex . Lied to me . I found her clothes . I gave him the benefit of the doubt . I should have just left . That was our first week together . It would have saved me so much hell and mental issues .
He is a hard core woman beater . He beat me every other day sometimes every day . For anything . I cooked and cleaned and worked all the time for him and he’d immediately take my money for his body building, anime , games , and whatever he wanted . If I wanted anything for myself he’d be angry . If he didn’t have a energy drink he’d beat the living crap out of me . I had a bruise on my face the shape of his hand . He gave me two black eyes at once before . And you know what , he beat me for “making him beat me” and for getting bruises, black eyes, and busted lips . He’d beat me for having to get make up to hide it, he’d beat me for not wearing enough to hide it . He’d beat me for not making enough money because for a while he refused to work . He beat me for being upset he threw out clean clothes on the dirty floor . He beat me for not wanting to have sex or perform on him, until I begged him and told him I was unworthy of his intimacy and he dubbed me good enough for the sexual engagement I didn’t want to begin with . Is that rape ? He beat me for crying when he beat me . He beat me until I apologized for him beating me and meant it . Best ones, he beat me for missing my daughter and family and he beat me for trying to take care of my sick dying father . HE BEAT ME FOR MOURNING MY FATHER .
He’s a cuck . He needs to fantasize about being cheated on to get off . He’d have me pretend I was screwing other people . He needed me to . Then beat me and accused me of cheating . . .
I tried so hard to cook clean and at some point make all the money but this is the messiest person I’ve ever known . . . I told him I was trying my hardest and he told me I want good enough . Even threw me through a wall once . As in he the me so hard into the wall a giant hole was left .
When we broke up he told me how he fantasized about children . he like the thought of him being so much bigger and stronger .
finally he’s really manipulative . . . he’s an idiot and he wants you to feel a certain way and he will get you there . later you are questioning yourself and why .
I’m really messed up in the head and it’s been years . if my boyfriend wants to do something for himself , even making a sandwich , I feel like I’m in trouble , or he’s mad and he’s planning on leaving me . dumb stuff . I know it’s dumb but I feel how I do . I can’t turn it off just work on it . . . he rewired my brain , conditioned me , whatever . I hate being a victim . I hate I technically was one . I hate how he made me feel . I hate he wouldn’t allow me time with my father or family . how he’d rage that I was sad my father passed . I hate him . he was awful . and he pretends he’s perfect, he’s convinced of it . how he’s never done anything wrong . oh and real quick he’s a woman hater . he believes girls are cooking , cleaning , sex machines . if a man says something you have no right to say otherwise . when he moved to Thailand he said women there are better because they do as they’re told . if you ask them it they will always say yes . American girls are snobs because they think they have the right to say no . this isn’t even all of his crap . I hate him so much . I’m finally ready to share . so here it is .
p.s: he wouldn’t let me play video games . have too many guys boners apparently . And he’s always scratching his balls and sniffing . Always . Purposefully not washing his hands so others can be “touching his balls” too .
Andrew (Drew) Ian Tyer. From North Little Rock Arkansas.
I want to add that he suffers depression, and uses it as a means to step away from the relationship. When he got drunk, he consumed a whole bottle of jack Daniels, bullet rye, wine bottle, and 10 beers in one night.
I had no idea that he was a raging alcoholic. Mix it with antidepressants, you get a monster.
He will love bomb you, make you so good and then just discard you. He finds his girls on Instagram, reddit, facebook. His looks are enticing with the nice tats, and nice built body. please save yourself, don’t fall for it.
I wanted to die from the pain he gave me. don’t go near this man. he will make you feel like youre nothing, he will take away your value and not even look back.
Andrew (Drew) Ian Tyer. From North Little Rock Arkansas.
We met online. He is a liar, cheater and narcissist manipulator. While we were talking/dating, he told me I was the only one. Little did I know he was fucking multiple woman, ubering them to his house. I live across the states, and so we would facetime/talk all the time. He told me he loved me, while still trying to pursue other woman. While visiting me, he was still messaging woman, trying to set up dates.
The very last time we were together this march 2020, he got so drunk, that he told me he was fucking multiple women, and when confronted, continued to spew every hateful word at me. He pinned me down, screaming obscenities. He denies ever tackling me, cause I didn’t have proof..so therefore I was a liar.
Even when I showed him the proof of his own actions, he continued to deny it. Saying I was Crazy, that I was making shit up. He gaslit the fuck out of me. I started to even question my reality.
In the end he confirmed, that I wasn’t the first one, and certainly wont be the last. He had another girl already lined up, and that there was plenty of fish in the sea. STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM HIM. Hes charming, handsome, and knows exactly what he was doing. Hes empty inside, and has multiple girls that he reaches out. He got me good. I loved him, and I thought everything we had was real. We were talking about moving in together, and starting a future together, only to realize he only used me for my attention, and how much I loved him. Text book Narcissist
Watch out for anyone named C. Ogletree. Ask many questions and look in the background thoroughly. This waste of carbon matter makes snakes look nice.
Berge Kata is a manipulative narcissistic asshole. Women beware. After I was hospitalized with surgery he had the balls to tell me i’m on my own and he’s done. He then said when he decides who he wants to have sex with he’ll let me know so he can divorce me. He’s a major lowlife loser who never has money and he’s so ugly with the ugliest dark circles under his eyes. I married him years ago because I was desperate. I paid for everything, our trips, bills and even helped him set up his now failing business because he sucks at managing people and running anything successfully. He’ a moody angry and miserable person. He’s terrible in bed and doesn’t know how to please or treat a woman. He deserves a lowlife loser like himself where they can both live in misery.
Richard Beech , beechardrich – a narcissist or sociopath, still unsure which but it’s definitely one or the other. Have been through therapy to try to re-establish boundaries and regrow self-confidence and self-esteem. He comes across as very charming and presents himself as all you’ve ever wanted, will pursue you, compliment you, text you constantly and tell you you’re his soulmate and he’s never fallen so fast for anyone before.
For me this changed within months to verbal and emotional abuse. Suddenly I was being shouted at for every minor little thing. It was impossible to act like a normal human around him as normal human statements and questions would result in him shouting or throwing adult temper tantrums. He avidly posts about feminism and domestic violence on Twitter, but would call me a slut, question how much I ate, and insult my appearance in numerous ways.
Why do I think he’s a sociopath/has NPD? Well the above for one, plus cheating numerous times on his ex-wife because she was anorexic and wouldn’t sleep with him (his words); constant plotting to oust the CEO of his old company and take that job; casually admitting to stealing an expensive guitar like it’s no big deal; chatting up 15 year old girls on Twitter and Instagram; lying about having bipolar disorder, and threatening suicide whenever things weren’t going his way. Genuinely the most manipulative person I’ve ever met (if he reads this I’m sure he’ll take it as a compliment).
I’m sure he’ll either end up a CEO of a company with awful working practices, or in prison for killing a romantic partner, one or the other 🙂
Michael Scott Thomas, 61, Los Angeles. Uses the name Mike or Don Rust61 in dating profiles. He is charming, charismatic, funny, grandiose, critical, controlling, lying, blaming, jealous, and opportunistic. He will win you over with big gestures and words of flattery and love. He will make himself out to be your hero, do anything for you. But that will change. He stole thousands of dollars from me, writing checks to himself out of my account. Then said it was my fault because he felt he was entitled because I was going through a hard time. He blamed me. He raped me once when I was under the influence of alcohol that he gave me. He will not take responsibility for any of his actions, he will say things that happen are “unfortunate ” and he is quick to get his feelings hurt for very small things. He lied about things all the time. Especially when confronted with a situation. He has almost no close friends, and is very content to sit on his couch all day and night watching TV. His own daughter wants very little to do with him. He has been married three times, do not let him talk you into being number four!!!
Ex BF Nick LaCasse very rude but smallest penis ever maybe 3 inches totally hard premature can last 15 seconds just horrible worst sex of my life and he expected head and handjobs at the end i gave him a minute and i gave him a handjob he came usually before 30 seconds
Ex BF Nick LaCasse very rude but smallest penis ever maybe 3 inches totally hard premature can last 15 seconds just horrible worst sex of my life and he expected head and handjobs
Why be with somebody who is hung like a hamster?
That dude is trash, good for nothing.
Adnan Shihadeh New Jersey a complete bum and loser who lets his woman pay for all his dates then complains about driving her when she lived only 15 minutes away. He has been fired from every job he has ever had in his life. I dated this guy around mid 90s and swore myself off of dating since then! When I broke up with him he called me screaming at me, flying in a full blown rage, I could hear things being thrown around and glass breaking through the phone. Then he kept calling me and stalking me for over a year. Only reason he stopped I think is because he had to move. He has serious anger management issues and doesn’t believe in having a job. Stay far away ladies!
Chris Pironti Ventura CA
Stay away from this narcissistic sociopath. He lied the entire time of our relationship and was texting/sexting other girls. Lots of “boys trips” with his married friends that included trying to hookup with girls. He is a firefighter and thinks he is gods gift. He is more like Satan. My Christmas present was him getting drunk picking a fight with me and trying to screw the desperate fat neighbor. The only reason they didn’t was because I came over to his house and we talked. After we broke up he immediately got in a new relationship and had sex with me and tried to kiss me on different occasions. Until I realized how screwed up that was. My mistake.
Christopher Rae Jordan in Simi Valley, California…
You will think you hit the jack pot with this Fraud of a man. You will think that you two have everything in common, that he is easy going, comes from a great family of “men” with deep rooted family values, and that he was a great dad before his first wife “turned his kids against him.” Don’t believe a word of it.
What he won’t tell you is that he walked away from his first wife who stood by him for 16 years, and their two boys. Literally, walked away. He walked away because he thought the grass would be greener with another, younger woman whom he thought would wait on him hand and foot. He presented a false self to the second wife who started connecting the dots shortly after moving in with him.
Know this: he brings nothing to the table. He is lazy, spends no quality time with his kids, is only concerned about sports and drinking, is not cultured, is negative, racist, gives a good impression of knowing a lot of things but doesn’t act on any of it, can’t fix anything, pays his bills late, you can’t depend on him for anything, he thinks cleaning is beneath him, and if you get sick you are on your own..
He claims to be attracted to strong, independent women which, over time you, will see that is exactly what annoys him.
You will think you two have a lot in common because all he is doing is studying you and mirroring your interests. If you pay attention to his patterns, it won’t take you long to see that his actions don’t match his words.
Yes, he has a good job, but that doesn’t mean he’s good with money. He is very wasteful and works a lot of overtime to make up for his indiscretions.
A relationship with him will have you feeling like the loneliest person in the world. Not at first -the beginning of the relationship will have you thinking you hit the jackpot. IT’S ALL AN ACT! As soon as he thinks he has you, he will do less and less to keep you because life is all about him. If you try to talk to him and express your feelings/concerns, depending on how new your relationship is, he will tell you what you want to hear and then go on doing what he wants to do. If you press the issue further, he will turn into a victim and blame you for not being sympathetic to the made up drama in his life that he caused.
Also, while you are dating him, you won’t know this, but he will be badmouthing you to his family and friends. This is so that, in case you dump him, or when he gets bored with you (because he will get bored with you), and you two do breakup, everyone in his circle will already be primed that you are the questionable one, and there will be no shock to his circle of friends when you two end. I promise you, YOU will be labeled the crazy one no matter how amicable you think the breakup is, and the reason for the relationship ending will be all YOUR fault. Whatever kind of discussion you try to have with him or his friends and family – no matter how civilized – you will be “crazy.”
This is also why he dates girls outside of Simi Valley… They are removed from his circle. He doesn’t have to worry about you getting close to his circle. He can control how his circle perceives you. He doesn’t have to worry about you asking question or comparing notes with others. So when he says he’s going to go to a particular friend’s house for a bbq, or to his brother’s, and then tells you, “I would like for you to come, but I understand if you’re not up for it,” take this as a red flag. He truly doesn’t care if you don’t come because he doesn’t want you getting close to his circle. He has to maintain his false front with them as well.
There is a reason he has two ex-wives. The first wife had kids with him. He’ll say she “neglected him.” She did everything she could to stick it out with him for the kids. There’s a reason the second wife ran for the hills. Neither of the exes ever met. There is a reason neither of them want anything to do with him or his circle. Think about it, the common denominator is him.
He seems like the best thing now, but the narcissist is in there. He will show himself. And when you try to leave, that is when it will be the worst for you. Spare yourself, and get out now!
Do NOT try to date either Tom Alfano or Vincent J. Cutri, both of whom are located in Oswego County, NY.
Tom friended me on Facebook and messaged me frequently, acting as though he was interested in me. However, after I sent him a current picture he cooled off right away and a couple of days later Tom started to ghost me. When I confronted Tom on his silence, I was greeted with – you guessed it – silence. So I unfriended and blocked him.
Vincent Cutri approached me at a local Dunkin and asked to sit with me and even though he said he just wanted to be friends, he acted otherwise. At one point he gave me his number and told me to call him but blocked my number right after that. He went to the local ER without telling me but made sure mutual friends of ours found out so that I would know.
Vinny made me worry myself sick and did not regret it one bit, blaming his behavior on a medical condition I cannot list here.
Vinny started talking about how he wanted me to move in with him, travel together and ride motorcycles together and then poof – wanted nothing to do with me. Again, he blamed his behavior on that medical condition.
Both men are narcissistic, selfish men who only want super-skinny women they can take to bed. Avoid them at all costs!
Hunter Halsted is someone you should NEVER date, no matter how he seduces you or how he acts like he is the most caring sweet person. After almost two years he called me on Christmas Day and broke up with me for no real reason. He then blames his mental health and I promised to be there for him through it but he refuses. Then he blocks me on everything and is secretly seeing his ex. He also at one point attacked me verbally because I said how about we try friendship? I was nothing but kind to him and loving for two whole ass years and he was consistently manipulative and used sex to have power over me and gave me a fucking std and moved multiple states just to be in the town where I go to school and he still tries to remain friends with my best friend like a fucking pervert- he also tried to seduce her at one point while dating me but that is another story. He has one motive and it is to seduce woman, he actually told me it is how he measures his self worth, then when he gets bored he flips the switch and ghosts so 0 to 100 out of nowhere!! Please don’t let him fool you ladies! I know his dark sexy persona can be appealing but it is actually scary and he honestly can be so fucking mean. OH HE ALSOOOOOO broke up with me and then tried to FUCKING have sex with me while I was crying cause he was horny and he was literally laughing at me while I was crying. I also helped him in so many ways and he had the audacity to say to ME that he was sick of taking care of me?????? I was like B**** when? When we broke up he said he would never love another girl again and it didn’t have anything to do wit me and two fucking days later he is going on a date with his ex Res Benn from his freshman year of high school 7 years before- he also only ever called this girl crazy and manipulative to me???? My family took him in when he had no family….Hope him and his ex have fun being sociopaths together and ruining each others lives<33333 If he is single though RUN AWAY FROM HUNTER NICHOLAS HALSTED
DOUGLAS “DOUG” ENGSTROM, HANOVER MD
ladies, if you ever come across this sociopath, please run in the opposite direction. He will make you feel like the most beautiful and special woman in the world and then he will drop out of your life with no warning. He will leave you heartbroken, confused and feeling like trash. He also has a crazy ex wife who will make having a relationship with him pretty much impossible. He’s a spineless coward when it comes to her. Please stay away from this Loser.
Keegan ‘Onefoot’ Wenkman, 37, Portland OR, St. Paul MN, Madison WI
Former co-owner of a printshop in Portland. Uses social media and dating apps to find women. He is a liar, narcissist, manipulator, thief, and an alcoholic. Psychologically and emotionally abuses women. Uses anyone as a means to an end. Will always play the victim and never takes responsibility for his actions and the effect they have on others. Hides behind his art and the tragic artist, hobo, fun-loving persona he has built around himself on social media. Loves to lure women in by claiming to be a feminist.
Stacey C Umberger
This guy is a hobosexual-Looks for women that he can have a relationship with so he can have a place to live in. Gives you a feel sorry for me story-Abused by his adoptive father (Who was told by a cop to beat him whenever he got out of control). He’s from the Stoddard/LaCrosse, WI area. Travels through out the US. Claims that he’s bipolar. He’s an alcoholic and has no interest in changing his life. I lived with him for 2 days and all he did was sexually harass me, get drunk and lie (I told him that I was just fresh out of a bad relationship and didn’t want to be his girlfriend. I wanted a roommate, not a FWB.). Paid rent to stay there but slowly started asked rent money for booze. I kicked him out after I found out that he was lying to me…Afterwards, he started to show up at my house at random times (He did this on and off for three years). Tried to call the police but he would be gone before they showed up. Favorite places to hangout at are bars, community centers for the disabled, the public library, the mall and bus stations. Favorite targets are poor people, the disabled, women that are not too pretty or cute, Single moms. Has a warrant out for his arrest in Springfield, Missouri. (violating restraining order) Always dressed nicely.
Also goes by the names of “Spence Umberger” and “Spence Schaefer”. He’s 45-46 years old.
Rodney Graham Louisville KY
Typical Narcissist. Charms you in the beginning, you’ll think you’ve found the one but its all an act. Once your hooked, the abuse begins. Very subtle at first, criticism, sarcasm, never happy with anything you do. Keeps it all behind closed doors so everyone buys his fake persona. He is a compulsive liar, cheater, P* addict has multiple accounts on adult websites. Drug addict, gambling problem. He works and makes good money but blows it all on drugs and scratch-offs and strippers.. plays the victim and says his exes are crazy B******. Very convincing, but total fraud. He is married and always has at least one to two girls on the side. Gets violent when he is caught lying or cheating. BEWARE
Mike
I dated this guy for a while on caribbean cupid turns out he was still on the site the whole time while we dated and he had made me delete my profile. He gave me herpes and syphilis. He was always complaining that he needs some money to pay his bills and I like a fool would pay his bills. Then the drama finale is when he moved into my place and was always “working late” so I followed him a few times….yea I know I know. He is NOT a christian, he is a two-timing liar and user. Go to the site and tell him he is an azzh! He needs to learn a lesson.
Patrick Sutton-Coulson, calls himself Paddi with an ‘I’ because he’s a twelve year old girl or something.
Nothing like most of the awful stories on here but still a little shit. He has a weird taxidermied mole and he sleeps with a toy ferret. Shit was creepy. Text dumper and ghoster. Not interested in women after he’s got what he wants out of them. Not worth the effort.
Miguel angel abrego. Daly City/ San Francisco
Emotionally abusive, cheater, user. He and his friends collect women and baby mommas like cattle. Once they can get a girl pregnant, it’s hooks in to live off them for their money, car, home etc.
Jeffrey Edwin Ford Santa Clara, ca/oakhurst
Gay/bisexual on the down low (hides it), alcoholic, adhd/bipolar. One of those guys who is not honest and a user.
Broke up this year. The man in question was previously married. though he was divorced- and he seemed so sweet but had a ton of problems. Please be warned if you are vulnerable as he likes to pick sympathetic women.
He was great guy if you want a one night fling or something not very consistent. But the major problem is (from a dating perspective) he is all over the place. He loves to talk which is a lure for us girls (right?) but basically talking is all you will get. Girls beware of any guy who wants to keep you talking on the phone at the beginning. I soon learned that he used that to really make you bond with him.And he is not young. He is middle aged now.
After the talking and the seduction he seemed like a gift but as soon as you feel bonded and deal with all his positive affirmation BS:) that’s all that happens. He has been losing weight and working out since before I met him AM ( before during and after marriage) he was morbibdly obese I realized he just wasn’t relationship material as his whole world was what he ate, how he ate, when he ate – this isn’t a temporary thing where he wanted to lose 20 pounds and then could have a life. What he needed to do, is to have more intensive therapy as his therapy wasn’t working that well- he has spread lies about me cheating on him-untrue- but I did wise up and started dating men who were without all his baggage- (he has huge problems which I won’t broadcast here)
He is very sociopathic-I know that is bandied about but he will spew verbal vomit on you when he first connects with you- his sad childhood- his weight- his injuries- his awful, terrible life and in most relationships in the beginning- this can be a mutual intimacy building theme- with him it is just unloading- like sex for him- unloading. Mostly, I want to defend myself on here and say I didn’t cheat on him. He lost real interest very quickly why? because there was no room in his life for a relationship to grow, no place with his eating regimen.He was obsessed with himself. He was a man child in the truest sense. He is Tim Fox and lives in San Diego.maybe by now he is ready to have a genuine relationship but when I knew him- no way !
Hello everyone, I have been infected with HSV 1 & 2 which I contacted from my partner since 3 yrs with a lot of outbreak and different symptoms which almost cost me my life.
Who is the guy? Name & shame please!
Chad William Pomnitz Huntsville, AL
I met Chad Pomnitz on POF. This guys is the worst I have ever experienced! After dating for a while it came to light that he was very addicted to opiates and very deep in denial about them. He will lie to you like a profession con! Looking back, it was obvious something wasn’t right because what 50 year old doesn’t have anything to show for his life. His only son told me that he was a dead beat dad. He is very manipulative, very emotionally and verbally abusive, and a stalker. He stole money from me, he committed credit card fraud against my account. This man’s name needs to be posted anywhere and everywhere possible to prevent other women from being prey to this horrible person!! If any of you have any other ideas of how to help others to know that this is a man to STAY AWAY FROM please let me know.
Dedrick Raymone Johnson: Galveston County
Dedrick Johnson is a vile human being. He is a manipulative liar that strives off of using others to his benefit. He cannot hold down a job and has absolutely nothing to offer anyone. Dedrick has fathered children that he cannot care for, being that he cannot care for himself.
In addition to being a horrible human being, Dedrick hits women. He will lie and deny this but several assaults show a pattern of violence against women.
Dedrick can cry at the drop of a dime but most of his emotion is fake.
He cannot maintain a relationship because he is a habitual liar and cheater. He does not have it on his heart to be faithful to anyone. Dedrick will claim to be on love with you just to use you. Once he no longer has any use for you he’s on to the next.
Dedrick is currently looking for a sponsor wife/ girlfriend. Someone committed to taking care of him for the rest of his life.
He is truly a waste of human being.
Doug Rippe— crown point indiana, manipulative, drug user, left bruises on my body. Claimed he was getting a divorce, never did. Worst kind of person.
Ezra Margono (continued)
Emotionally abusive behaviors:
– Stonewalling/ghosting
– Making you ask for permission to ask him questions
– Ignore you (calls/texts) and then make fun of you for how you tried to call him and text him
– Call you names (selfish, uptight) in order to make you be more generous to him and more “easygoing” (aka allow him to do whatever he wants)
– He would only listen to you after you give into his demands, and even then, barely
– He would say he wants you to “sleep on it” (a decision) until you agree with him — I pointed out that this is controlling, but he is willing to use these behaviors unless you’re strong/smart enough to draw a boundary
Finally, he has very little insight into his mistreatment. He constantly says that he “wasn’t nice” but he refuses to recognize his behavior as emotionally abuse and exploitation.
Ezra Margono (from Airmont, NY / Saratoga Springs NY)
He is abusive because of problems around insecurity, possessiveness, and jealousy.
If I had a work stint (away from him), he would perform nonconsensual exams because “he didn’t know who I was with” — even though there is no information from an exam that would tell you anything about if someone had any additional partners. I was calling him every day at this time to tell him what I was doing in my life.
He would blatantly use objects that you EXPLICITLY TOLD HIM NOT TO USE to penetrate you, even if he has acknowledged that they are too large for your anatomy and he had tried to get a refund from the Amazon seller in the past.
He is also very selfish. If you wanted to do different hikes, he would choose his. If he had the choice of visiting your family or his, he would make you visit his.
He would also gaslight me into thinking I didn’t pay him for a month of rent, unless I kept written documentation and dates of my payments.
BEWARE. He is charming and he always says “he didn’t know”, but no person in their right mind would say “they didn’t know” that they shouldn’t do vaginal exams or gaslight people to squeeze out every single dime from them.
YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE INVOLVED WITH THIS MAN OR HIS FAMILY.
It’s cool you provide a place for woman to warn others about their ex-boyfriends.
Laurence Sotsky Hermosa Beach CA.
He is a disgusting, manipulative, cheater, liar, narcissist. He uses women to cover up for his massive insecurities. He wears lifts in his shoes, wears a wig, and is obsessed with his looks. His wig is so bad. You can tell it’s fake but he won’t admit it. He has no friends and every girl ends it with him because he cheats and lies.
He will pretend he wants a kid with you. He will let you pay. He’s selfish. He thinks he’s amazing at sex but half the time his THING is soft and he’s just trying to finish himself with no concern about you.
This man is so convincing- RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. DONT BE FOOLED BY HIS HOUSE OR CAR!!! He’s broke!
Robert Blanchard, Bobby Blanchard. Orlando, Florida. charming at first. after that, when he needs to be. never takes responsibility or ownership of actions. physically abusive on multiple occasions. mentally abusive. alcoholic, to the point of spending his whole paycheck on it. claims he wants to be poly so he can fuck whoever he wants and not tell you. (if he knew what poly was really about, a big component of that is communication. something he will never do) but, he really just wants to manipulate and use people for his benefit.. really! listen to him talk about all of his ex’s. assume he has at least 2+ other girls on hand, one of whom has been his friend for years. he runs to her when his supply of women has ran out. oh.. has no problem making you feel bad for being a woman. do a court records search on him to see his alleged stalking accusation by his ex girlfriend. he will gladly tell you that he ran from the cops for a year to avoid being served.
Stacy Akin of North Little Rock Arkansas is the most extreme Narcassistic sociopath I have ever met in my life. I only dated him 4 months and he destroyed my entire life, and whatever you do do not let him know any information he can later use against you, because he will blackmail you with it to the very end to get his way, he has a obsession with cheating and you will be accused constantly and if he can’t find anything wrong he’ll just make something up! He will tell you he’s smarter then you, he will be passionate at first but then he will act like he hates you, he will not reciprocate affection and it will make you think something is wrong with you. He will do anything he can to hurt you, never tell him your fears he will manipulate you with them. Verbally abusive is a understatement, he hates woman and he’s about to prove it to you, he has a massive gambling problem that you will fund, he is the worst experience of my life. I wish I could have been warned…Please get away from him. For your own good!!
Michael Anthony Diaz from Brooklyn, NY. He will make you think you have found yourself the ultimate catch; attractive, ambitious, compassionate, believes in love. Whatever it is you want from a man, he will wear that mask. He is an emotional abuser and liar and a cheat. He will never respect you or treat you like an equal. He will prey on your weaknesses and use it to his advantage. Do yourself a favor and get out NOW. Do not listen to what he says, he isn’t and never will be capable of a relationship. His only relationship is with alcohol. He is a major alcoholic on top of everything else. He just hid it really well.
Michael J. Jewett aka Mike Jewett or chitown_15 Naperville, Il.
46 years old in 2019
Textbook Covert Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Mike first appears as charming, fun, smart, kind, thoughtful and very sensitive, don’t fall for it. He becomes the person you dream of. He is such a keen manipulator, you won’t see the real him for a long time, or possibly never. It is all about him, and getting what he needs, be it sex, money, praise, or having you do things for him. The real Mike Jewett is mean, depressed, selfish and a pathological lair. He will tell you his ex is crazy or is trying to get him back, etc. It is really him that is using her to make you jealous and control you. Chances are he is seeing someone else, possibly that “crazy ex”, regardless of what he tells you. If you think she’s crazy, you are not going to contact her, right?
Stephen Michael Ross Alias: Steve. Denver. Dated him for 6 years and he is verbally and physically abusive, a pathological liar, narcissist and smooth talking con artist. He has choked me and given black eyes multiple times. I have a permanent dent in my shin from his beating me. Also is very dirty. Urinates in water bottles all over the house and also spits his mucous onto the walls and floors and refuses to clean it.
Lives off of his mother who he argues with daily. Had to take a restraining order out on him after he was arrested for domestic violence. Went back to get my belongings recently and he stole anything he knew I loved, including my cats ashes. Also called my family to tell lies about me for over an hour while barricaded in his house trying to avoid being arrested. His nice face does make up for the mental, physical and emotional torture he will put you through. I had panic attacks for a month after the breakup. He asked me if I wanted a drill or hammer through my hands. That’s right he threatened to crucify his girlfriend of 6 years who emptied his urine bottles. Please do not date this man!
Kevin Gardner 40 Ohio
Genital warts
Michael Marcinik 40s Ohio
Manipulating, cheating, stole my credit card number, posted pictures of me in my bra online
James (Jim) Keith Kopin, Greater Chicago area. He’ll tell you he lives in Aurora, but it’s a neighboring suburb. Born in 1972 (so 46 as of early 2019). We met online in 2009 and dated until late 2017. He told me he was a Navy SEAL, which I was skeptical about, but he showed me the medal they get when they complete their training, and his story about which team he was on and where he was stationed matching up with searchable online information. Oh–and he’ll give you a sob story about how he has PTSD from a mission where he had to shoot a kid. And he’ll tell you a scar on his cheek is from shrapnel. And if you tell anyone that he used to be a SEAL, he’ll say that he doesn’t want you to because he “doesn’t want people to make assumptions” about him or ask him about “the missions he did” Personally, I doubt he ever was a SEAL. In the Navy? Maybe. He strung me along for YEARS and never gave me his home address because “I had an ex who would just show up unannounced and it freaked me out” and “I don’t want my kids to meet you until we’re engaged”. Yeah, I know–major red flags.
Due to our jobs, we had weird work schedules and so were almost in a long distance relationship even though we both lived in the Chicago area. Then I moved out of state, but we both agreed to see if we could make it work long-distance–with the stated plan that HE would move to ME when his youngest kid graduated high school. So here’s me driving or flying on a monthly basis to see him. It took me FOUR YEARS to finally get him to drive to me ONCE. Clearly not anywhere near an equal division of emotional labor.
I finally started doing some online searching and found property tax records proving that he and his “ex” wife shared the same address–and not in the suburb he said he lived in (“My name is just on the mortgage so my kids can live in a better school district.”). I also found his “ex”‘s employment website and her bio that listed him as her “college sweetheart” (“She works at a religious school and could be fired if they find out she’s divorced.”), and his “ex”‘s Facebook page with photos of the two of them together looking decided NOT divorced (“I had to go to the wedding, and also her co-workers were wondering why there weren’t any photos of us together.”). Interestingly, her page is no longer visible–so I don’t know if she deleted it or if she somehow found out about me within the past year and blocked me. Regardless, I demanded to see his divorce papers. Don’t know how he did it, but he had what looked to be an authentic document–complete with notary public embossed stamp. So I stayed with him for another year until I finally realized that I had lingering doubts about his story and he STILL wasn’t budging about giving me his home address.
I finally told him in December 2017 that we’d run our course and it was time for us to part ways. The look of shock on his face was, in retrospect, highly amusing. I’m sure he figured that he had me hooked forever–and with me out of state, there was little chance of me bumping into him “in the wild” or of me coming into town unexpectedly. He spent the next several months texting me from time to time (which I would sporadically and tersely answer), but once I was out from under his spell, his gaslighting ways become very apparent. Finally when he wished me a happy birthday along with “If it’s weird that I’m texting you, please let me know”. So I told him that, yeah, it was–and he BLEW UP! Unleashed a super sarcastic, snide email which I didn’t respond to (I hope my silence drove him nuts). Don’t ask the question if you don’t think you’ll like the answer. We haven’t communicated since, and I don’t plan to.
Sorry about this turning into such a novel, but I’m trying to alert you to all of his excuses, stories, and behavioral traits. Oh–and he’ll want to take intimate photos and videos too because “my ex was super uptight and never even wanted to wear lingerie”, and he’ll pout if you have reservations and ask why you don’t trust him. Never mind that he’s the most walled off, two-faced liar EVER.
So anyway, forewarned is forearmed. DO NOT ENGAGE. DO NOT LET HIM SMOOTH TALK YOU. DO NOT WASTE YEARS OF YOUR LIFE ON HIM.
Joe D Tyler from San Diego, CA age 37
For legal purposes, all said here is what happened to me and how I remember events as they occurred. .
We met on the dating app, Bumble, and before our first meeting at Disneyland he had said everything a woman wants to hear: said he’ll take care of me financially, that he was ready to have a serious relationship, and was looking for a long-term relationship that would lead to marriage. After our first meeting, a month into the relationship, he proceeded to ask for money for Uber rides and food. Because I already had feelings for him, and believed him when he said he would pay me back when he got paid, I helped him out with those things.. The amounts exceeded $200.
He didn’t get me a gift for my birthday…. instead I had to meet up with him in Las Vegas, using my own travel points, while he was there for work and he considered all his expenses on himself for room and board as expenses on me, when he had reserved the Airbnb to be there for work to begin with. He gaslighted me many times when I asked for him to pay me back, called me a “user” when I was the one who paid for majority of our date tabs. He would drink extensively and is an alcoholic in denial. He also told me he has used cocaine in the past. He is the epidemy of a leech type of man who would pressure me into surrendering my debit card at bars and he told the bartender to keep the tab open when it was my card. He would order 3 or more IPA beers each time. Usually I had to drive him because he was intoxicated either before leaving his house or when we needed to leave a restaurant or bar to go home.
Even right after the 110 mile commute I would make to visit him, he would be drunk and ask me to drive so I had no rest for my legs. He would one moment be nice to me, then the next accuse me of things I didn’t do. He had me engage in rough oral sex that caused me to vomit and now I have gum issues. I tried to say it was too much but I was also afraid of making him angry because he has a temper. When his birthday came around, I was expected to get him a gift and paid over $100 in food and beverage expenses on him when I earn close to minimum wage in retail. My annual income is at poverty level. I don’t mind paying my own food and drink but always having me pay for him also ruined me financially when I was already on a tight budget before meeting him. Remember, he didn’t get me a gift for my birthday and had me travel to him for it. I always drove or road the train down to San Diego from Los Angeles but he didn’t once visit me in LA. Originally, I wanted to be the encouraging girlfriend and I tried so hard to make things work but he emotionally abused me with accusations and belittling my intelligence when I have a masters degree.
I felt trapped by his guilt trips and gaslighting statements saying I didn’t really love him and saying if I did I would go down to San Diego right away to see him. It was a very one-sided relationship where I made all the effort because I did have true feelings for him but he was taking too much from me. I am broke. He lied to me over and over and kept me in his control for 6 months by using emotional abuse tactics like turning his commitment flaws in our relationship, into my own. My efforts of buying a new car to drive down there, see him whenever I had a day off, pay for majority of dates, and having sex where only his orgasms mattered wasn’t enough for him. My dad is dying from his recently diagnosed cancer also, and Joe still guilt tripped me saying I should drive down to San Diego if I loved him when I had to take care of my dad these past couple months.
I finally ended it after multiple attempts at getting out of this emotionally and mentally abusive relationship and his failing to visit LA instead of me visiting him again while I needed to tend to my father’s terminal illness. I am the nicest girlfriend ever, and he reels in a nice girl like me by telling them he is well off so they can feel like he is ready for marriage and starting a family. I’m 30 so I am at the age where I feel ready to find a stable partner. Once he had me, he didn’t want to have those things anytime soon. He can’t even commit to being Facebook friends with his girlfriend. My genuine feelings for him were manipulated for his gain.
I stayed so long despite obvious red flags because I was afraid of the consequences of making him angry and also to prove I loved him despite his many flaws. It hurts even to write this because I had true feelings for him but he is a companion with whom one can feel like you are no longer yourself anymore. He forced me to watch videos he liked too but didn’t allow me to show him entertainment I liked. Everything was about him and I was close to losing myself forever.
Roger Pate from Indianapolis, In. Will gradually try and take more and more control of your life under the guise of wanting you to improve yourself. Really its wanting you to do what he wants regardless of your own thoughts and feelings. It will get to the point where he is telling you where you should work (where he works), and where you should send your kid to school, regardless of where your kid is currently and how well they are doing there. Constantly demanded for oral sex to be preformed on him, even immediately after I broke down and told him I had been sexually assaulted years ago that way!
Would say he was excited to move in together (which we didn’t, thank the gods) and start a life and family together, then if I did something he didn’t like, such as not give him his way completely he would become dismissive and detached for awhile. Like he was trying to punish me. I see now he is completely emotionally immature and cowardly.
Stay away for your mental and emotional well-being!
Cameron Burrell Bradley, San Diego, CA. For legal reasons, the following is my OPINION based on my own experiences, and is true to the best of my knowledge
Biological father murdered his stepmom and died shortly after. Brother diagnosed with bipolar. Planned to kill self (got taken away by police on 72 hour lock down and tazed in own bed), threatened to kill/stalk me (police report filed/police escort offered twice), put fist through a door, throws / breaks things, tore up most of childhood photos in a fight with his mom, gaslighter (does negative things and doesn’t believe you when you try to talk to him about it), manipulator, major control freak, plays mind games / manipulates your mind until you have no self confidence left, another ex girlfriend couldn’t even say her own name when introduced at parties after a while because she was so torn down by his games, jokes about sleeping with your family members, threatened to break up if I didn’t meet a literal list of standards that most people I know could not meet or if I talked to my family for too long on the phone, did not work 90% of time, his mom was provider of living expenses/school bills/ tickets, I was the provider of nearly all other costs (groceries, meal prep, pet supplies, items he wanted online), did not even help me carry in groceries I bought for us or open a jar most of the time because he was “busy” playing video games, plays video games all day and tries to make you do both the tasks of the man and the woman, will say to your face, creepily, smiling, “I don’t give a F what you think” even if you are crying / distraught / trying to maturely problem solve a real issue. A major let down. Do not date at all costs. F ing crazy. You will be disgusted with yourself and lose years of your life. Is super nice and charming at first (charms and talks his way out of lock downs and getting meds he needs from therapists), so you might not believe me until its too late. He might say I wrote this because I am crazy. Your call. I have nothing left to gain or lose by this, just trying to save a fellow sister from going through the same pain I went through.
Jim or James Metzenheim. He is from Fort Lauderdale and currently lives in Port Orange Florida. Imet him on Tagged the dating site. We talked For one month before we moved in together. I should have known better since he was living in a men’s shelter for alcoholics when we met. After living with me for two weeks he got kicked out of my condo and because I wanted to be with him I moved out myself. By January which was five months later I was $31,000 in debt and really nothing to show for it! He is a crack addict and an alcoholic and is high maintenance beyond words. He is a user, a manipulator and the only person he really cares about is himself. He exemplifies narcissistic personality Disorder!! And of course the addiction and the alcoholism were hidden from me until only two weeks in the living together. The man knows Nothing except how to use and take until there’s nothing left to give.
Scott Francis Carrig Beverly Hills Florida. Beware! This guy is a master manipulator, Alcoholic, Cheat, Lier, Smooth Talker that will lure you in with pretty words, make you dinner, Set the table with candles, Make you Steak and Bacon wrapped Shrimp ( Seems to be a speciality of his) all to lure you into his bed. This guy can’t even get it up, but will grope you till you just want Scream! He’s into sick sex and gets angry if you don’t want to play along. He prefers to call it making love, he says he doesn’t like to call it sex. This guy is in his mid 50’s but acts like 24! He is after money and if he finds out you don’t have any, he’s on to his next victim. He will take anything he can get from you, and while he is texting and calling you, sweet talking you with the baby and honey, be assured he already has another lined up he is saying the exact same things to. Ladies, he is a master at game playing.. a Player above Players! He isn’t good looking, but thinks he’s God gift to women. He drinks everyday at a bar in Crystal River Fl. He passed out drunk at my house while his phone was ringing off the hook with his newest victim besides me. He will tell you he’s a one woman man.. flavor of the day is more like it. This guy cannot be trusted as far as you can pick him up and throw him. He rides a Ducati motorcycle and has a German Shepard dog he doesn’t take care of. If you catch this guy in a lie he will look you right in the eye and tell another lie to try and cover… If he sees your not buying it he becomes violent and will threaten you with “I’m a Marine”! He’s a low life piece of crap that will abuse you physically and mentally. He’s had felony’s in the past for abusing and stalking women, including his ex wife and next door neighbor.
Nicholas Esler (Nick Esler) from Duluth Minnesota.
I first met Nick on OKCupid. He said he was in an open marriage. I feel disgusted, betrayed, and violated. Nick is, to my knowledge, still dating or trying to date most of the polyamorous people in Duluth. DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH NICK ESLER. He is NOT someone you can trust! He will lie his face off… and the worst part is, he’s good at it. You will never know you’re being deceived until it’s too late.
Jeff Taylor lives in Chicago area now from Boston. You will meet him and ‘fall in love’. He is charming, cute, claims to be so sensitive. He will pull you in but he is a classic narcissist and possibly sociopath. If you look up those characteristics you will see he fits. He will date you, maybe claim to ‘love’ you but tell you how messed up he is do to his divorce. You’ll want to help him. He doesn’t care. He is drawn to attention. I’ve lived it and actually have been contacted by ex girlfriends who have said the same. Makes you feel stupid when you think you have the connection with him only to find out he has done the same to others.
Joshua Hammett of Columbus, Ohio. Went out of way to meet me, put in an immense amount of effort to get to know me, begged for weeks for a first date. Once he got that date, he seemed to be smitten. Called whenever he could, made copious amounts of time to visit… you know, the usual idiotic “in love” man actions. Then, one day told me he HAD to see me…. I agreed and when he walked in, immediately asked me to be his girlfriend. Of course I said yes! Things were nice for a while… then he started dodging calls and ignoring texts. Okay, I can take a hint. I asked him what was going on. He said he was just busy with work… okay, cool. Fast forward to my birthday… he literally goes MIA for four days. No call, no visit…. nothing. So, I’m assuming I’ve been ghosted. K… thanks for the wasted time/emotion. He finally calls and he sounds TERRIBLE. He’s been sick with “the man flu”. Okay, so this disappearing act goes on, so I just call it off. He flips. Says he loves me, yadda yadda yadda. Then I notice hes all but disappeared from my social media. I do some investigating and his Facebook hasnt been touched in a week, but his ig is hoppin! Awesome! One girl in particular is liking everything hes posting and I see hes doing the same. I follow her and she immediately contacts me saying shes his gf and has been wondering who I am………………….. Hold on…. you’re his WHAT?! We start talking and realize we like each other and do more digging. THERE WERE FOUR OF US. ONE OF WHICH WAS A LIVE. IN. GIRLFRIEND. So, I go to his work to ask and he (with a straight face) says he doesnt understand what the big deal is. He should be able to see different people to see what he wants, and that itt wasnt like we were official or anything…….. uhmm he had met my parents and my child. And didnt he ask me to be his girlfriend? Tell me he loves me? Make these beautiful future plans for us? Long story short, he thought I was nothing and didnt matter at all. He did this to at least one other girl in the group. I just wish I knew why. Why lead me on? Why lie? AND HOW IN THE HELL CAN YOU HANDLE MORE THAN ONE WOMAN AT ONCE??? DONT YOU KNOW HOW DIFFICULT WE ARE?
Jeremy Berg of clovis, ca is a HORRIBLE boyfriend. Tells you everything you want to hear, but then behind your back to EVERYONE ELSE talks mad crap about you, making every one think he is stringing you along which makes the girlfriend look like a fool. He is very charming, and funny, and generally seems like a great catch, but he will make you fall in love with him, then break your heart, over and over again. I was his longest relationship. 7 years i put up with him, along with his yearly break up thing, in which i was left devastated every time. He will also turn every situation around to make it look like your fault, though its not. He is very good, RUN AS FAR AS YOU CAN NOW. He makes for a great friend tho if you keep him at an arms distance. Can also get somewhat physically abusive, not real bad tho. Just RUN
Chris R
Orlando, FL
He is a liar and cheater
TJ Urglavitch
Location: Pennsylvania, Dallas, Colorado
He is manipulative. Will say he has feelings for you, will also make up fake emergencies, and then just disappear once you are good and emotionally attached. Current age 33, but turns 34 this year. Appears normal, but likes drama and over exaggeration.
Ruby Heart, aka Matt Wysocki,
Age 31
Originally from Michigan, spent several years in Los Angeles, and is currently spending time in Florida.
I don’t even know where to begin. This man is a compulsive liar with circular logic. He got me pregnant and promised to be there, but never was, and one day began trashing my things and trying to get me to leave our home (while I was pregnant with nowhere to go) He even dumped my makeup drawer into the toilet. He ended up putting his hands on me and getting himself arrested, and that was the beginning of the end.
The utilities were in his name, and he had a previous bill (from before we moved in together) of $1100… he never paid the bill while we lived together, and when he moved out the electricity got shut off and they would not turn it back on unless the entire balance was paid in full. Of course, he refused to pay it or even talk to LADWP, and did not move somewhere where he needed to get electricity in his name… Forced me to pay almost $2k in electric bills.
He later lied and said something I did or said caused him to stab himself in the leg and get 30 stitches, and that he contracted HIV from me… (this is all a lie… I tested clean when I got pregnant, and again recently, and if he did get stitches his recovery time was remarkable…. I’m not sure which is crazier–this actually happening, or lying about it happening)
Ruby/ Matt is also almost always on cocaine or some other drug. But usually cocaine.
Says he hides 10K in “paintings” but it’s actually prop-money. He got the idea from me when I told him about Piero Manzoni canning his feces and selling it for the weight of gold.
If you meet him–BE AWARE!!! This man will ruin your life. Always keep him at double arms length.
Catholic women, be aware of this man, he pretends to be a devoted Catholic that attends church daily, John Schafer, San Juan Capistrano, Orange County. He immediately wanted to be my boyfriend, and when I didn’t want to go to his house he was upset and stonewall me.. He is not an honest person and goes after Catholic women. Be careful, she seems he has slip personality disorders.
Jeff Scott Arnold of Pflugerville, Texas. He is 43, has two teenage sons and works in IT at Trend Micro. I am sharing this in the hopes that if you meet him online or in person, you RUN as fast as you can in the opposite direction. The only woman, if you can call it that, who puts up with this deceitful, shady, manipulative loser, is another deceitful, manipulative loser – a morbidly obese, video game and fast food addicted, pill popping, alcoholic blob named Stephanie Lewis. Do you remember the humans from the movie Wall-E? Well, two of them appear to be alive and well in Texas,
Please take my advice and jump off this crazy train while you still can, because it’s headed for a cliff.
James Baskin
DFW Texas
Age 55
Pros:None
Cons: Emotionally distant, unsupportive and unavailable; Deeply money oriented (everything is about money), narcissistic behaviour, intense gaslighting, sexually inept, too adventurous sexually, borderline physically abusive, verbally and emotionally abusive, always has to be right, and have the last word.
The story: I started dating it a year after it was dump by its ex who then got married after she dumped it. It WOULDN’T stop stalking it’s ex… Stalking her FB saying she wasn’t married… I wanted to give it some closure, and I found the marriage records, and that her FB was updated with her new marital status. He says it’s been hacked and that’s not hers and that she didn’t get married… So I left the subject alone. It was always emotionally distant, and didn’t want to be near me unless it wanted me to “help it out”. It can be a charmer and acts almost Human, don’t be surprised if suddenly it “loves” you after only 3 days. That should have been my warning… But alas, I failed to heed it. I was with it for over 2.5 yrs… It promised to marry me, and after I dug up the fact that it’s still married to its “ex-wife” it did it’s gaslighting bit and said it never said it wanted to marry me. That should have been my second warning. I was devastated, but I stayed… We had fought quite loudly average it, and it had told me to leave and never come back, so i took all my belongings… And I lived in my car for 3 days in the middle of winter, before it begged me back, saying it didn’t mean for me to leave… Anyways, to make a long story short…ER… Lol… It’s only worried about how much money it makes… he will pay for everything, but he’ll only keep you so that you’re available for its “need”, your needs as a human are not regarded.
Frank James Ramirez Jr of Dallas Texas, 42yo Hispanic/white…What do you get when you take the over inflated ego of a philosophy professor, the condescension of a prick who thinks he’s ALWAYS right, roll that up with the unmatched sense of entitlement one has when one suffers from “affluenza”, throw in just a smidgen of a Napoleon complex, and then make him a raging I.V. heroin addict? You get THIS guy, Frank, aka Dino, aka Sarge. This guy likes to treat girls who leave the safety, comfort, food, and warmth of their HOMES to sleep under a BRIDGE with him, like shit. If they get a “smart mouth” with him, he likes to pop them one, and yell at all the other homeless people that he has no compunction about hitting a B**** in the mouth and if they have a problem, take it up with him. He gets chicks strung out on heroin, and if they piss him off, he withholds drugs so they get sick as punishment. He doesn’t mind handling random people’s urine in order to pass his drug test at probation(which he is on for stabbing his ex in they thigh on the train), and he supports his heroin habit by stealing HUNDREDS of dollars worth off merchandise DAILY from stores all over Dallas. He also enjoys telling girls that he loves them, making a BIG deal out of how he wouldn’t say it if he didn’t mean it, making her feel like shit every time she questioned his authenticity on the subject, and telling them that they both need to go to detox so they can get straight and get to be together forever, and he can be a better provider for her. After detox(which SHE had to do COLD TURKEY, without ANY meds to ease HER discomfort) his mommy said he could move back in, so he did, never speaking to the poor, dumb, girlfriend again. The last thing he said to her was the night they were going in to detox, he smothered her face in kisses, told her he loved her, held her so, so tight, and told her he was proud of her. What a piece of shit.
Jon Davis aka blucifernyc aka blueyedbanditt aka blueyedboy from New Hyde Park, NY (long Island). He sleeps with all women but he is a white male who prefers black women. Sex addict, pathological liar and master manipulator. PLEASE PLEASE protect yourself from his lies and deceit and stds, he will sell you the world and cause emotional turmoil and then walk away. He practices unsafe sex with random women constantly. He frequents dating apps and websites POF and Okc are his favorites. He is married with 2 children and will use them to get close to women as well. He is broke and can offer nothing but pain. He is mentally ill and addicted to sex run away as soon as he approaches.
OMG he is the worst PLEASE ladies save yourself the aggravation, he is definitely the devil in the flesh. Jon Anthony Michael Davis. He also says his name is Chris, Anthony and other names. He is a supreme liar. He is on the sites hard as blueyedboyss or some variation of it. He has bad teeth and vapes all the time. He will ask you to go to sex clubs and to give him threesome sex. All of this while living with his wife who is aware of it but still lays with him. It is a complete horror show. Drives a chevy equinox and he is a painter. Run the other way
Dave Pettitt from Nottinghamshire, UK – Is a narcissistic abuser. He will make you feel like a million dollars then gradually psychologically and emotionally abuse you – chipping away at everything he made you feel, gradually making you feel worthless. He is 44 years old and has never been single. He is on his 2nd divorce and since I left him 6 months ago, he has dated several women, bringing them back to our marital home, visited “Thai bride” websites, seen prostitutes, and tried to have an affair with a married woman at work – all while trying to get me back!! Watch out for this one ladies – he’s sly and cunning and very mentally damaged – but like all good narcissists comes across as charming and like he’s got it all together! Beware! He HAS NOT changed and he will do the same to you. You only need to see 2 sets of divorce papers saying the same thing to know I’m speaking the truth!
Lorne Rogers from Edmonton Alberta Canada is a master manipulator and will bleed you dry of your money.. I took him to court and won. He owes me over $20,000. and hasnt paid a sent. He used my credit card without permission.
David Partain, he is in gulf shores al but can be found in jackson ms area. Uses ex girlfriiend crystal marie fox homan to help manipulate and con others. He is a pathological liar and narcissist. He will play you for anything he can and lie about everything. His favorite thing is larger women with big breast. White or black. But he will take advantage of anyone. When he is finished using you, he will not even tell you he’s throwing you away he will just disappear. Cuz he’s too big of a coward to face anyone he’s the biggest weasel I’ve ever met and sorry excuse for a man and the girl that hangs around him Crystal, the dark headed girl that has buck teeth and her gums show, she is overweight loud obnoxious and has tattoo sleeves and she believes that he loves her even though he’s used her and his scams for many years. David partain is Handsome and charming, he will make you believe anything that comes out of his mouth just beware you will regret it if you get into a relationship with this man.
Robert D Shettles, best friend is KaLynn Mayo, living in madisonville, tx, both from Mississippi. Beware, they are a lying, 2 faced duo. They were together under my nose for 3 months, as well to add he cheated on me with 2 other girls. I left for what was supposed to be a few days, he was sleeping with her, KaLynn, that night.
Drew Scofield aka Andrew B Scofield lives in Arbuckle CA. He preys on women in Yolo and Colusa county and maybe further out. Years ago, he reduced my BF to an emotional wreck. It took her a long time to get over how he treated her…and I just found out he did the same to the woman who came after my friend, even though we tried to warn her off. So it’s beyond time to out this assh*le.
He is a total player who comes off charming and has money to spend because he lives rent-free in his grandmother’s house. He thinks he is a big shot almond farmer. He doesn’t care if his targets are married or single b/c he is looking for pussy, and as much of it as he can get. He will tell you anything you want to hear to get to you and keep you available for sex. No matter what he says, he is damaged goods, incapable of sustaining a real adult relationship and at some point will go back to his player ways. He shows a woman a good time, to show off. Nice dinners, fancy seats at baseball games and meeting up at the casinos is how he charms the ladies. His looks are OK and he is physically fit. What he won’t do is ever be honest with you about who he really is. He is a drug addict, and he has bedded and played more women than you can imagine. Dozens at least. He will lie about using protection with other women, he will lie about who he was with and how often. He believes he can know if a sex partner has an STD or not just by looking.
If he targets you as a long term prospect, some of the charm wears off. My BF used to call him a belching farting no good SOB. He does favors for his women and drops cash on them to buy them off for putting up with all kinds of rudeness, emotional distance, being late for everything and generally treating others like crap. When he starts to get tired of a girlfriend, the verbal and emotional abuse starts up. You’re supposed to be grateful for his money and his favors and never call him out on his bullsh*t. If you get him mad he will explode with anger and call you every name in the book. He will turn things around so that nothing is his fault and everything is you. Near as I could tell he was not ever a physical abuser, but given what he will do to you emotionally it almost doesn’t matter. He has zero honesty or integrity though he will demand that from others. He pulls off this hypocrisy really easily because he has no feeling for others and even fewer emotions. His life is all about getting what he wants….and that means his entitlement to use women for his own pleasure. Outwardly he has a lot of swagger and self confidence. He is apparently good in bed and proud of it. If you actually fall in love with this guy you are in for every kind of heartbreak. The woman he screwed over most recently (the poor dumb thing blew over five years trying to make it work with him) was depressed and so clingy-needy…easy prey for this jerk. He does not care about you no matter how much he makes you think he does…know that you are being manipulated. Deep down he knows he is a piece of sh*t (and doesn’t care) but will whine all the time about how no one respects him and how bad people treat him. He totally works the “oh poor me” thing. But if you want to see him come out fighting, call him on actually needing to be a man and keep his word and treat people with respect. He has used sites like Plenty of Fish and others in the past to hunt women…if you catch him at this he will deny he ever meets up with them. I’ll wrap this by saying that I heard his last girlfriend dumped him after finding texts from seven other women he was screwing (unprotected) behind her back after swearing he only had safe sex…after the time she returned from a trip to find another woman’s panties in her bed….he “never touched that woman”. Ladies, you’ve been warned.
lance roane, is a sorry piece of crap, used my friend, moved in with her family didn’t pay rent, for food or give anything towards the house, got her pregnant and when she had a miscarriage he left her to deal all by herself he has no house of his own so he goes from chic to chic if you see him RUN he’s in md so beware he smokes weed and drinks until he passes out he’s good for nothing
BEWARE of Bruce Bryan Jr,, Bruce Lyle Brian JR, Bruce Blacksheep, Bruce the Blacksheep, Tn,,,,,,
Predator,Liar,ABUSIVE TO WOMEN AND CHILDREN, Alcoholic, BIPOLAR with SOCIOPATHIC TENDANCIES
Multiple DUI’s in Sumner, Davidson and Rutherford counties in Tennessee
DOMESTIC ASSAULT IN SUMNER COUNTY TENNESSEE
Theft over 10k in Davidson County Tennessee
Failure to pay Child support on one of his kids in St Johns county Florida (he has 2 kids)
Failure to appear on the DUI and Domestic Assault in Sumner and Davidson County County
Convicted of Felony in Tenessee
Ex DJ for radio stations in Florida and Tennessee
STAY FAR FAR AWAY FROM THIS PREDATOR HE WILL ABUSE YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN
Douglas Bosworth- Burning Man, Sonoma County, Mojave Desert, Los Angeles. Family in San Diego Very Dangerous. Extremely controlling and delusional. He is very talented and extremely manipulative. Likes to hold a girl against her will, choke hold, break one’s phone when she tries to call for help. Forces a woman to work against her will without pay. Takes her phone & takes car keys so she cannot leave. Locks her in the house with him while he verbally and psychologically terrorizes. Verbally abusive, psychologically abusive. Likes to do very dangerous things while you are driving. Leaves women in financial ruin. He lies constantly. Lies about his “Ivy League” education. There wasn’t one. Nothing that comes out of his mouth can be trusted. He lies constantly. Cannot be trusted with paying back loans or following through with financial agreements. Two strikes, three DUIs and Grand Theft, Burglery charges- many Domestic Violence Charges. Loving drunk turns into Scary Drunk if the winds change direction. Has no care for anyone but himself, blames everyone but himself. Cruel beyond anything I have seen of another human being up close. So delusional about reality that you think he actually believes it. Destroys lives.
BEWARE OF VICTOR GARCIA,
Michigan Allen Park, Taylor, Ecorse, Detroit, River Rouge, Lincoln Park, Georgia, Mississippi and more
He is a woman beater and to the fullest extent. He will punch a womans face until it is unrecognizable and steal from you. he is a horrible drunk and crack and weed addict. He is good at charming someone male or female to get what he wants and once he does he will con you from money or your home and is violent with a history of cheating.
MessageAnthony Vacchio-currently in LI, New York. Serial user and emotional abuser. Not capable of feelings of true love. His typical type is overweight women who have good paying jobs, and places or houses of their own. He reels you in by telling sob stories about his childhood and how mistreated he was–mind you he is a grown 44year old man. Then he will be as sweet as pie, will buy gifts, tell you how you are an angel sent from above. As soon as he gets a place to live-in your home- he will fix it up to earn his keep and will stop working for money. He may go as far as marrying you to convince you of his love, but BEWARE he will leave you dry and gasping for air! Has handfuls of victims. Protect your heart, your soul and your wallet!
MANUEL FRED TORRES Alias FLACO from FRESNO CALIFORNIA. Tattoooooeeedddd looosssserrrrrrrr……
MANUEL FRED TORRES aka FLACO from FRESNO CALIFORNIA is nothing but a loser deat beat dad he has 4 kids from different females. A criminal background with Two strikes and is a Sexual Offender he has to register as a SEX OFFENDER!! Doesnt have a job or car. BEWARE LADIES OF THIS TATTOOED ALL OVER THUG WITH A RIDICULOUS BACKGROUND THATS LURKING IN FRESNO …..
Brandon Harvey Warren, MI Oxford, MI Rochester, MI Pontiac, MI
Lazy, looking for a sugar momma and a free ride. He finds someone new every 6 months to sponge off of. He cant and/or wont get a job. He talks to women like they are dumb. He is arrogant and cocky. Beware. Also goes under the name Damien Christian.
Brian M. Beck, Dayton, OH
Very cute, adorable, funny and charming but don’t let that fool you. He’s rapid cycle bipolar, an alcoholic (been thru rehab several times, hits the bottle again days after getting out) and displays paranoid behavior. Brian is very good at lying and manipulating. He will put words in your mouth, accuse you of things you didn’t do or say and twist your words around to use them against you. He will trick you into believing you and he are in a relationship–then when you fall for him (which is his goal), he will push you away and tell you it was never any more than a friendship. He tires of women quickly, usually getting “involved” with several in a year’s time. He will not want you to have sex with anyone else, yet he will **** other women behind your back….and lie about it. Every bad thing that happens to him is everyone else’s fault, never his. Everyone is the Bad Guy, he’s always the “victim”. He will want you one day, then kick you out of his life the next. Brian is very unpredictable, due to the rapid cycle bipolar disorder. You never know how he’s going to be from one day to the next. He will cheat on you too, no matter how good you are to him. Has to have another woman in the shadows, then he will start a fight with you so he can chew your ass out and run to the other girl. Then when he’s tired of her, he’ll search you out, wanting to be a part of your life again….and again….and again. Brian isn’t a monster, he’s just definitely NOT relationship material. My advice is just don’t get involved with him, do not reveal too much of anything to him, do not talk or associate with his friends/family, take all he says with a grain of salt and keep your distance and your guard up at all times around him. Sad, but just trying to save you all the pain and heartache I went thru with him.
Mike O. Jones, Roanoke, Va
He is a liar, plain and simple. He a gambling addict and a loser and he’ll gamble away his entire paycheck and go after yours. He claims to be a man in integrity, but you’ll soon find that he is a user. He’ll try to use you until there’s nothing left.
Don’t let him, I got out when he started asking me for money and not smalls sums either. He had the nerve to ask me for $500!!! and then got pissed when I said NO!
Shane Boudreaux, New Iberia, La be careful when you try to break up with this guy because he will literally try to break you. When I did he pulled a gun on me (such a real man) and proceed to throw me around like I was a rag doll or something. Don’t worry ladies, cops were called and he was arrested but not before I got a few punches in myself. This was years ago but I needed to let everyone know. He’s nuts. Unlike other people on this page (post #266) I actually dated this guy, I didn’t chase after him pathetically wishing for me then try to blast him when he rejected me. Sorry boo boo, but suck it up.
BEWARE OF DONALD ELZY JR.
Lured me in with his sweet and charming ways. Made me fall totally in love with him. Called all the time, took me out and then just disappeared. Comes to find out that he recently got out of prison and has been in and out since 2005. LADIES BEWARE! He will suck all the life out of you and then move on to the next victim!
Below are just some of the convictions. He also has several misdemeanors which include Family Violence and Resist Arrest:
OFFENSE: ASSAULT CAUSE BODILY INJ DATE/FAMILY/HOUSE ENH
OFFENSE TYPE: FELONY – 3RD DEGREE
SOURCE STATE CODE: TX
OFFENSE: BURGLARY OF HABITATION
OFFENSE TYPE: FELONY – 2ND DEGREE
OFFENSE: ASSAULT PUBLIC SERVANT
OFFENSE TYPE: FELONY – 3RD DEGREE
Jacob Bell Lafayette La. Ok ladies time to fill you in on Loser. He has an incredible way of charming women but he lies. He cheated on his long time girlfriend so many times she finally dumped him. He told me he has always wanted to be with me and after I slept with him he goes and sleeps with my best friend. He has slept with his friends girlfriends. He thinks every girl wants him. He tells everyone he owns a sporting goods store but his daddy is the one who owns it. He only makes $15.00 an hour. He is such a loser he is 28 and lives at home with his mother, he is bipolar, he is a pill junky and he has a very small penis. Stay as far away from this piece of &*%$ as you can.
Michael Gijsbertsen. Ede, Gelderland, NL (Netherlands) – if any of you ladies go here, becareful of him. I’ve dated him off and on for the last two and a half years, and he has lied, cheated and manipulated me. He has tons of female friends, and makes time for them, but never you. Flirts with all of them, out in the open and then denies anything is going on, even when he’s been found out. DO NOT trust him, you will fall for his sweet and charming demeanor and then, you will find out that he’s scum and end up heartbroken.
Eoin Sheehan Dublin Ireland. Told me he loved me and wanted to marry me so we would have sex, gave him my virginity and the next day, he told me it wasn’t anything serious and couldn’t be because he is 22 and I’m 15. and now I have an STD, and he was the only guy I’ve ever been intimate with.
Gareth Grehan – You fuck over your friend in real life then precede to slander him online. This is despicable, but then a lot of things you do are. You should off at least picked a less obvious username.
John Michael Treppard- Chattanooga, TN area- AKA Mike or Michael. Ex drug and alcohol abuser and counselor (got fired for sexual harrassment). Liar, abusive, Sex addict and Bisexual cheater. He Thinks hes better than every woman and pretends to be all sweet and Gentleman like but once he gets you, he cheats with both men and women, calls her out of her name (anything but prefers CU**) Emotionally/Physically abusive.. He likes short skinny redheaded women with VERY little boobs & cute feet. (teenage looking women).. NOT worth ANYONES time.. Oh, and he throws childish temper-tantrums when he doesnt get his way or when hes called out on his actions.
Toby Passauer Cranbourne Australia. Cant stand his own company, moves from one girl to the next yet still ‘visits’ his exes whilst with current g/f. Liar, cheat and user. Believes he is superior and will leave you feeling like Crap. Doesn’t have the guts to end long term 4 year relationship to your face, will simply send text message and move on to next girl.
Leotha Anderson, Peoria Illinois. He is abusive, controlling, manipulative and a big pothead, worst of all a thief. He will steal your heart and your money. He will tell you tales of his hard life, make you pity him, accuse you doing stuff that he is actually doing and kick your teeth in if you confront him or try to leave him. BE AWARE this man is crazy and will ruin your life. NOT WORTH THE AIR HE BREATHES.
Eric Afful. He acts like the sensitive type, but he’s really a jerk. He shows up late–if ever. Basically, he has no regard for your time and doesn’t bother to call you on a regular basis. After I broke up with him, he continued to text and call me for months. I didn’t respond until two weeks ago, when I finally had enough of it. He claimed that he missed me, still loved me and apologized for what he did. I told him that it would take a lot for him to get back in my good graces because I didn’t trust him. He said that he would do whatever it takes. Well, guess what? No follow up from this guy, which I expected anyway, but it is yet another example of how men never keep their word and like to play games.
Bill Maynor. He sweet talks you, treats you nice, and then goes off and says I can’t be in a relationship, but can be committed. Then leaves you when you’re at your weakest and gets into another relationship with a girl. He is NOT worth the time.
Oh and he’s located in SE Ohio – think he’s too old to play the game but hey you never know. lol
William Gannon aka William Cooper – after 16 years of marriage and 2 sons he remarried, took HER last name to run and hide from child support. Yea – and his mother doesn’t speak to him to this day (this happened in 1989) she talks to me tho – haha that says it all. You changed your last name and your mother won’t speak to you? LOSER!! CHEATER!! LIAR!!!
Chris Perrott. Known Alias: LucasWolfox, luciusheldfether, thantusgrimfist, PSN: L_W_F. He’s a gentlemen at first and what every girl dreams about but he will romance you for a few months and then stop talking while he romances someone else. He will blame you saying you don’t trust him, you forced him to cheat and where smothering him. He is very vain and constantly thinks of his self image in that he will only do the ‘right thing’ at anytime if he thinks other people will notice. For this reason he will not breakup with a girl because he’s truly a coward and doesn’t want trys to desperately make up exhausts to his friends and family why you are a bad person. He will not breakup because he doesn’t want you to think badly of him because he is simply looking for different girls to add to his list. He is also secretly bi but is completely afraid of what others will think of him but will use girls as his cover!!! He will romance a girl to take home to his friends and family as a show to cover up the not so credible girls and guys he’s dating on the side.
Be careful girls he’s a very smooth romantic talker but knows what he is doing and so say to have you fall for him. He thinks he’s a honorable guy and always do the right thing but he doesn’t and is really a true coward. He is even willing to abandon his dog he’s had since a puppy for ten years so he can not have responsibility. He will say it’s because he truly cares and it’s for the best. That’s his favorite line but who would do that to there dog?! That’s how much a slime he is.
Gary – A bald, fat ugly looking man with no morals or sense of responsibility. Disguised as pleasant, caring, and loving you will think that he is a nice person when you first meet him. But you only get a few weeks that is how long it takes for him to become unable to repress his true self any longer. He subjects a person to anger, emotional and mental abuse. He will rank you on the bottom of his priority list. When you become emotionally involved with him, he will show his true colours. He is the type of person going around telling his mates that he is so brave and intelligent but truly he is a male pussy. If there is any problem he backs out, because this man does not love anybody for who they are but for pleasing him.
Trash mingles with trash, that’s why we didn’t get along after awhile because you are trash, and I am not. Grow up, grow a pair and settle down with a broad who is at the same low class level as you and has no shame.
Dan Shell, Cincinnati, Ohio- is a sociopath who abused my friend of nearly thirty years. She is physically disabled, and was living in The same apt. building as this monster. To make a long story short, they ended up together as a couple, and he used her financially due to the fact hew was too lazy/high to get/maintain a job. As his drinking/ drug use got worse, he began beating/ assaulting her in every way imaginable. my friend is no angel; never was, never will be. But no human being should ever be treated this way. Scared, lonely, and in a new city, she made the mistake of befriending then falling in love with a “person” who used her in every way he could, and left her with physical/ emotional scars that will never heal. He is unpredictable and violent; a pathological liar.
lee d a ups driver in modesto calif a maried man with five children, a childrens football coach and all around seemingly nice straight laced man who is a habitual cheater. he lures women into his truck for sex. he talks crap on fat people but is screwing a five hundred pound chic on hhis route . an all around ass who needs to be found out.
Luke Paxton, Cleveland, Ohio. Pathological Liar. May be a sociopath. Is a drug addict and liar. He was the worst thing that ever happened to my life.
Shane Lane: Alias: Shane, Hercules Tampa, Fl;Ocala,FL;Albany, GA – I was with this man for 7 years. We had two children together and were married. He cheated on me with a man for money and lied to this man telling him that he was gay and that he wasn’t married and didn’t have any children. He is an abusive, controlling alcoholic and unless you don’t want friends and don’t care if you ever talk to your family… DON’T DATE THIS GUY!
Shane Lane: Alias: Shane, Hercules – I was with this man for 7 years. We had two children together and were married. He cheated on me with a man for money and lied to this man telling him that he was gay and that he wasn’t married and didn’t have any children. He is an abusive, controlling alcoholic and unless you don’t want friends and don’t care if you ever talk to your family… DON’T DATE THIS GUY!
Steven Ellis…Sumter, SC. This bastard beat the hell out of me. I was only 13 years old when he started to physically abuse me, it didn’t start until 8 months into the relationship. It went from a push to a slap, and then one day he just snapped and broke my nose and blacked both of my eyes. He chased me around his apartment with a knife threatening my life. He slammed my head into a counter multiple times and bashed my face into a microwave so hard I cracked the plastic part of the door with my face. I took his ass to court with a blackened and bruised face and all I got was a temporary restraining order, no justice for me. It didn’t him away of course and I made it clear he was not welcome in my life anymore. He got to the point where he was obsessed and still is, he is still stalking me after 5 years. So girls, if you are smart you will stay clear of this woman beating prick, no relationship is worth risking your safety and I learned that the hard way…
Travis Deshotel…from Sumter, SC. We were together for almost 2 years and at the end of our relationship, I got knocked up. Him and his B***** mother basically begged me to get an abortion multiple times but even though I thought about it I knew I wasn’t capable of doing it so of course I was planning on having our baby (I was 17 at the time). Well when I was about 7 weeks prego (also the day before my birthday!) I had a miscarrige, which wasn’t a surprise from all the stress and hell I was going through. He wanted to have sex with me THE SAME NIGHT I MISCARRIED OUR CHILD, I should’ve run then!!! Finally exactly 16 days after that he broke up with me and wanted nothing more to do with me, while I was still miscarrying our child…what a fuck head! Girls, stay away he is a loser and a mommas boy…I think it was her that pushed him into dumping me. He is a liar, manipulator, and lazy pot-head LOSER.
Darick Gayden
This guy is a jerk. Stay away from him. He cheated on his dying wife. He drinks like a fish, but states that he is a man of GOD. He did and will not honor the state of marriage because he is Mississippi jerk.
RON FINSTER JANESVILLE WI~Cheater, Liar, Coward, Small THING, self-centered, drunk, pothead…
Bruce Lyle Bryan Jr…..AKA BRUCE THE BLACKSHEEP OR JUST BRUCE BLACKSHEEP HE IS AN EX DJ OUT OF NASHVILLE TN FORMERLY FROM florida. This guy is a predator the preys on women that may be older than him and are able to support themselves,and he seems to target single moms. He came into my life presenting himeself a guy that just had bad things happen to him, and after I helped him get them straightend out we got married….then he told me he wanted us to have sex with other people. He is also an alcholic and cannot ever hold a job. He has schizophrenic delusions but when diagnosed refused to take medication and beat me almost to death. And could not understand why we would not get back together after that. I have bought him a jeep which he was to pay, but then defaulted and hid the jeep. I had to file bankrupty to protected myself. He wants older women to use their money while he is out with the younger ladies behind your back I found out too late. He is always running from florida child support enforcement from a daughter that he has never seen,and also has a son down there that he has nothing to do with. He stole from me, lied to me, used me and took everything he could from me. He even tried to tell people that the bruises he had on him from me defending myself, were where I had started attacking him, and he had no choice but to get me off of him. He is verbally abusive and was mean to my children but tried to convince me the children were lying about it. RUN AWAY FROM THIS MAN HE IS DANGEROUS…he also now has a felony record along with everything else in Nashville tn public online records. HE TORE APART MY FAMILY AND MY LIFE
JOSHUA WILLIAM REEDY, DOC REEDY, AZ
He was engaged then cheated on her while she paid his way through school and paid for his brand new jeep. She broke it off with him and he ended up marrying the girl he cheated on her with. That girl knew he was engaged too! Well long story short, after he gets married he starts contacting his ex again says he loves her, wants to hook, and whenever he drinks he gets bitter about the whole thing! WTF! I want so bad to contact his wife now and say “you knew he cheat on his girl with you, you really didn’t think he would cheat on your ass”! Women come on!! Once a cheater always a cheater!! He was always lying, contacting his ex-girlfriends. He was looking for someone with money. Family wealth. He needed the image. He was all about image. He would tell you what to wear. He was even physically abusive at times. He seems nice. Everyone loves him but he is quite different behind closed doors. He is cheating on his wife. He is bad news! Stay away from this manipulative creep.
Brian Lee from poughkeepie ny. If I were you I would stay away from him. He may come off as a great guy like all men do but let me tell you he is far from it. Any boy that would cheat on you while you were pregnant with his baby. Send you into per-term labor due to stress. Have our daughter 2 months early, have to have an emergency c-section and have a 4lb 2 oz baby girl you can’t bring home till a month later is no man at all. Then to top it all off leaves you 2 weeks after Christmas with 4 kid’s. no money, bill’s up the ass, no job cause I was caring for a sick baby and find out he left you for yet another chick. He is no man. Than for two years straight he claims your children who he never supported on his taxes and takes the money to get things for his new apartment and to buy a new motorcycle is no man. Then he keeps coming back to you saying how much he wants to make it work out and then plays you like your a fool. That is no real man. Now he really want’s nothing to do with his children at all. He takes them maybe once every 3 or 4 months if that. So yeah if I were you I would stay away from him. He is nooooo good
More about John Charles Burtis Jr., Hyde Park New York also forgot to mention he has cheated on every single woman he’s ever been with including his ex-wife. He starts cheating with a woman then leaves his current girlfriend for the girl he cheated with. He’s done it every single time and he will never change. He’s a real piece of work…and that’s being extremely nice.
John Charles Burtis Jr., Hyde Park New York. We were together for 6 years and I found out he’s been cheating on me for 5 of those years. He’s a pathological liar, a serial cheater and physically abusive. Do Not Go Near Him!!!
Jeff Morser, from San Diego but has resided in Jacksonville FL, Tulsa OK and Bloomington IL. Ladies, do not go near him. He is definitely a guy who seems too good to be true, and he holds that image for awhile, but as the old saying goes, anything that is too god to be true probably is. He definitely was!
He told me he did not believe in pre-marital relations and then cheated on me with his hussy undergrad co-worker! He made (at the time) probably three times more money than I did, yet he was always complaining of being broke and insisted that I buy his groceries! I did (I know, I know) because he had gone through a divorce (which according to him was 100% his ex-wifes’ fault. hmm-mmm) and I felt he was probably financially strapped afterwards. I had to take him to the airport once and, because I work nights, I fell asleep that morning…but I still got him to the airport on time! I even still got him there early! And guess what? He called me that night and yelled at me for it!
PLEASE do not go near him. He is a liar, a cheat and will only be interested in you for your money. BEWARE!!!
Sean Chavez-Akron,OH-when we were together he tell me he loved me but i’d also find “dirty” conversations with other girls on his phone and when i left him and moved on he and his new girlfriend started harassing and stalking me and when my new boyfriends brother told him to back off or there were going to be problems he tried to make me out to be the bad guy. Also he wont do anything for anyone unless he gets something out of it generally in the form of money or sex. He’s a complete jerk who can’t be trusted.
Steven Henri from Bellevue, Ne. I met this piece of work through a mutual friend of mine. Steve came off as very sweet and caring, he had the good looks and all of the right things to say. We were together for about 6 months, everything was going fine, and we had discussed moving in together this spring. Well, right before Christmas, he broke up wit me because he had been secretly talking to his ex and thought he still had feelings for her. I should have saw the warning signs that he was trouble, but I really wanted to believe that he was different. About 3 months into the relationship he started to let his nice guy mask slip, and started to show that we was very narcicistic. He constantly talked about how great he was, and began to imply that he was better than me in all aspects. Keep in mind that I am in graduate school, I have a higher position in the company I work for, and I make more money. I implied that he was beter looking than me, even though whenever we went out, all of his friends, guys and girls would talk about nothing else but how attractive I am. He was vey competitive and hated to be challenged, he was never wrong no matter how wrong he really was. I he has a good story, he will try to gain your sympathy and get you to lower your gaurd by telling you about the tragic deaths of two of his siblings. He will sweet talk you, and buy you a lot of cheap shit claiming that he likes to ‘dote’ on all of his girlfriends. Then out of the blue, he will tell you that it isn’t working and dump you leaving you absolutely heartbroken. I found out that he does this to everyone he dates. He will date them, make everything sound like it is going great, and then just dump them. Be warned, this guy is nothing but trouble. If there are any girls out there that really think that they can change him, just remember that he will never be capable of giving you love, because he is too in love with himself. The only thing that will change after you date him, is how you view men all together in a really negative way.
Jerry Dvorak from Houston, TX. This warning is basically for black women since that’s what my ex is into. At least for now.He’s moody,selfish, verbally abusive, liar, and cheater.
Reed Barrow (Sissykrystal)from Everett,Wa. OMG he was such a great guy, warm caring and considerate. Reed was someone I thought was the catch until I had him stay and watch my home while I was away on business. I returned home sooner than I told him and it was late so I quietly entered my home not to wake him, and to my surprise he was in the bedroom with the stereo loud and standing in front of the mirror dressed from head to toe in the most outlandish little sissy girl outfit I ever saw. I think he was in as much shock as I was, and when he tried to explain he just made it worse by telling me and showing me he wears real pampers and plastic pants under his petti too. Give me a break I’m not going to be a mommie to a grown man. Unless your into very! sensitive guy’s I would avoid Reed all together.
Aaron Wray from WhiteBluff, TN. I dated this guy on and off for 3 and 1/2 years. It started from when I was 12 and he was 14 till I was 16 and he was 18. He was my first bf and being with him almost kept me from being able to ever have a normal relationship again.The whole time we were together he never met my parents, we never went on a date, were never physical (not even a kiss), never talked on the phone, or anything that normal coples have or do. He told me he loved me all the time and broke up with me regularly because he wasn’t “good enough.” He made me think that our relationship was normal so when I got the chance to date other boys I didn’t know how to act with them. He cheated on me repeatedly. He thought he might be gay and I still stuck with him. And finally he broke up with me because he just didn’t love me anymore. Since then he’s repeatedly tried to get me back. Stay away from this jacka**! Nicknames or Known Alias’s: A-ron, Double A-ron
Dominic Ruffino
Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Dom, Minicky, Dominoe, Click
Last Known Location: Vanleer, TN
Watch out for this one! He comes off as the perfect guy. He’s great with kids, he can cook, sing, play guitar, he’s funny, sweet, loyal, and gorgeous, but it’s all just a cover. He started out as one of my best friends before we started dating. We had to break-up for unforseeable reasons, but it wasn’t till after that things started going down hill. He told me how much he wanted me then started dating another girl. He dumped her and we hooked up a few weeks later. After that we started being fwb’s. That was on and off. we almost had sex a few times. He started “talking” to another girl over the summer, hooked up with me during that. Hooked up w/ another chick while we were out together after he’d spent the whole day at my house. We split because i wanted more and he wanted to be single. He split up with all the other girls to date some new girl. He cheated on her with me. When people started finding out, he said I made it all up and lied thru his teeth. She ended up cheating on him and the happy couple is still together. we are no longer friends, we went from talking on the phone for hours everynight to barely talking ever. He used me repeatedly, betrayed our friendship, and turned into a cheating womanizing, player. Look out!
Gareth Grehan from Ireland. He lies. He hurts everyone and says he cares. He gains me trust, and acts “gentlemanly” then he starts malicious arguments to break me down. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, then 2 days later rips my heart out by telling me he wants nothing to do with me and that he never loved me.
Jerry from Georgia. Where to start. Cyber stalking alcoholic meets paranoid Christian Bale wanna be. Will live off you for free, take all your money, and then claim it’s all your fault. First week I met him I said on the phone that he was sweet and he said No I’m not sweet I’m an Asshole. I should have listened, he knew best!
Aztec from conyers. He drinks he smokes he curses he farts he snores and if that’s not enough he’s a lying piece of crap. I gave him 2 kids and he’s trying to ruin my life. Asshole.
Ryan from Michigan. Seriously he has emotional probs and is a master of manipulation. He uses fear to try to control women. Have broken up with him several times he always manages to get me back by crying and getting his way, not this time!
” Dr. John ” Chiropractor
Met this “Doctor”…not. He was a CHIROPRACTOR. yeah, ok, not the same thing. I have a great chiropractor and I know the good ones are wonderful but this still is not the same thing as being a “Dr” . He was using that to be deceptive. He was ok at first, I thought he was normal. Then one night he came over to stay and he takes this huge gun out and puts it up to my throat. !!!!!! So scary. I told him I needed his help to get something out of the garage and I got him to go out there. He thought I was walking behind him and as soon as he was down the steps and in the garage I threw his duffle bag w/ the gun * I unloaded it first and threw the bullets out* out into the garage and slammed the door and deadbolted it. He was really mad. I said Get the Hell out of here or I’m calling the police now. That was the last I saw of him. What a freak~! Then his WIFE ( didn’t tell me he had a wife either) started calling me. I was like Look. You need to get your fake Dr. husband to a REAL Dr. fast because he is a total head case. I changed my number. YUK!
Free Loader
this free loader will come on to you so smooth and like he’s just so in love with you. Calls every few minutes to every hour, even at work always has time for you, blah blah blah. Until he gets in your pants. Then it’s “Hey what can I say the new has worn off”. Hm. But the new didn’t wear off my money did it you took over a 100 grand and sure didn’t mind sticking around for all the benefits. He has a habit of saying all the women in his life past and present are crazy. I could give you a list of all his ex’s and ex wives who he says are crazy. He even says his Mama is crazy. Shame on this Free loading asshole and I hope the rest of his hair falls out and I hope someone does to him what he did to me. I hope someone cleans out his bank accounts steals his stuff and takes advantage of him and his family in every single way.
Frantz Jean also known as Rick or Ricky from Miami, FL.
Well ladys here is the King Kong of adultery lie’n and stealing .He won’t take care of his own kids 4 by the way … he sucks in bed and he has multiable my space moco space and blackplant accounts just for the simple pleasure of messing with what he thinks is the lower speices So women watch out for this smooth talking rapper wanna be rat b*stard thanks have a nice day
Billy Lee from charlottesville,va. He is an alcoholic with a charming personality. But dont be fooled he is a jerk. Will be at bars every night,no phone call . NOTHING
Terry Ross. He never says he doesent want a relationship, but never answers that he does. He gives you just enough information to keep you on the line. He refuses to commit after 1 1/2 years of dating. By now he knows how attached you are to him. He sleeps with other women and has some way of making it all ok…after all he is a good man. He maintains a type of mind control and seduction over you and treats you with a mild neglect. He calls just enough to give you hope. He screws you, screws other women, screws you…after all its okay because you know hes happy being single.
Lonnie Ernst from Salt Lake City. He is a free loader that makes his way through life using women. He does not care who he hurts to get what he wants. It is probably your money. Claims all his exes are crazy.
Nick Billings. Calls all the time at first. he goal is to make you feel real special. He tells you how much he loves you after week one. He wants you to pay his bills. When he finds out he can’t freeload he drops you and picks up another girl in a matter of days.
Trevin Wallace Barber from Palmdale, CA. If you think Trevin is such a “Godly” guy and cute cuz he looks like nick jonas then i beg you to reconsider. He is not as Godly as he appears but is a violent CHEATER, HYPOCRITE, LIAR AND FAKE.and hed make a horrible father. youve been warned.
Paul Mijatovich also known as Pablo from Melbourne, Victoria. This guy is a jerk! He ain’t my ex (thank god) but he is a woman beater, manipulator and is iscolating and alienating my best friend from everyone who cares about her! He is a pot smoking, no hope loser who is so controlling, my friend is scared not to answer his phone calls! It’s beyond a joke. Be warned ladies this guy is the real defintion of a controlling male. He deserves a good beating himself if you ask me!!
Jeromy Coleman from St.Paul , Minnesota. I was married to him less then a year. He is in the Navy and moved to Oaklahoma City after he moved back to the states. I was to move down there with him and my 2 kids but, He told me not to. He didn’t even want to see me , talk to me, text me …. or notihng. Come to find out… He had been cheating on me. Saying I was cheating first. He is smooth Ladies. He is sweet, loving and has a past but, he will use you to get what he wants, Lies, has his father lie for him. If you meet him….. runnnnnnnnnnnn away fast. He will take all your money, and use you for sex. He is really full of himself and can’t stop looking in a mirroer or whatever. Watch out for him. He has always been a cheater and a user.
Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Jer Bear, Bear
Eric R. Crosby — Alright weman…… Truely stay away from this one. He loves to have fun, drinks alot, parties…. ok as a friend but please beawear of the truth. I was with him for 6 1/2 years. Known him now for 9 years. He has 2 kids and one with speacial need. Wants nothng to do with him because, as he said it….. I can’t handle the fact he is retared!!!!!” Yes he really said that about our son.!!!!!! He lies about everything. Cheats on every woman. You think your special….. in his phone…. he calls every womean a booty call.!!!!!! He doesn’t see his kids, doesn’t pay nothing to me, and will not talk about his kids. He will use you and lie to you about anything and everything. You will ask you to marrie him in about 3 weeks time. He talks mad crap about every woman. He say’s I love yu to get in your pants. He does cheat. and, He is always right. Stay away from him. Any woman out in White Bear Lake Bar places can tell you what I say is true. Stay away from this a-hole!
Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Big timer, Thumper, big daddy and E-roc
Last Known Location: White Bear Lake, Minnesota
Scott Todd Perlman
Run! Do not walk as far away from this abusive ex husband& deadbeat dad. A very “small” man in EVERY way. I guess that’s why he feels he must bully and control those unfortunate enough to believe his crap! He’ll alienate you from your friends and family. He’s so beligerent that you rarely can go to the same place twice with him because he makes an ass of himself with his loud aggressive ways. You will have no self esteem left when he’s done with you. His talent is that he’ll have you believing that “you” made him act this way so it’s your fault. He’s a deadbeat dad who continues to enjoy the priviledge of having a chiropractor license even though he’s many thousands behind continuing NOT to support his kid from a prev. marriage. He lies to courts about his income to avoid having to pay and claims he is on poverty level income! He demeans his little children til they don’t even want to talk on the phone to him. Yet rather than try to improve his relationship with them (stop controlling, bullying) he blames me for being a bad mother. This man is a cancer walking among us. If there were any real justice he’d be in jail where he belongs. He claims to be holistic, the only thing holistic about him is the “holes” in the verbal diarrhea that he spews whether you want to hear it or not! Nicknames or Known Alias’s: “Dr.” Scott. Last Known Location: Marietta,Ga
Thomas John from Wooster, OH. Also known as TJ. I have had two beautiful children for him. i have also had my credit destroyed by him. he now has another child by someone else and does not see his son unless i ask him if he wants to see him. I HAVE TO ASK HIM!!!! Hello!? He drinks and may even have people watching me. He knows what i do. Where i am at etc.
Robert “bob” Beasley from columbus, ga. He’s not my ex. he’s the ex of my good friend. he lost his job locally and couldn’t wait to move back home (to his mom’s house) he told my friend he was trying to find work and the whole time he was packing to move. he told her he had tried to get work at a place she referred him to but they weren’t hiring. that was a lie, her manager had already contacted the owner of the business who agreed to hire him. the manager called a few days later to say the guy never showed up. the worst part for me was finding him on the plenty of fish website. ( i didn’t know it was him) i sent her his picture and told her when she went to columbus to visit to see if she could find this guy for me. i finally had to call her on the phone to find out why she wasn’t answering me and that’s when she told me the picture i had sent was him. what a creep. his profile said he had recently transferred to columbus (he was fired from his job) everything he told her was a lie. i wanted to sign up on the website and trick him into meeting me and that’s when i was going to give it to him good. my friend wouldn’t let me do it. she said liars always reap their just rewards and he wasn’t worth the oxygen it would take to even speak his name. ladies in columbus georgia be careful of this creep. and for you creep, i hope your life turns out miserably.
David (last name unknown) from Oklahoma City, OK. I didn’t actually date this dude or anything. He tried to get into my panties, but I told him that I was not physically attracted to him, and that we could only be friends. BIG MISTAKE! Description: Short, chubby black dude with child-bearin’ hips & corn rows. You could show a movie on his wide ass. Goofy face. Works for the city. Drives a red car. Currently lives with his Mama (big surprise… NOT). The Scoop: SCRUB to the max, liar, possible pothead & gambler, human crazy-glue, incredibly stupid, overly dramatic, corny, wanna-be player. DO NOT LET HIM IN YOUR HOUSE! Once you get him started, it is hell getting rid of him for good. Will show up EVERY DAY unless you scold him. Says he’s a “loner”, but you’d never suspect that, judging by his needy behavior. Tell him you’re not sexually attracted to him, and he’ll say “OK”… BUT he’ll keep trying to touch you, and even touch himself! (He tried to masturbate on my sofa, right in front of me!!!). Makes up lame, transparent stories about how many women are chasing after him (Riiiiiiiight), in order to make it seem as if he’s “in demand”. Asked me how much money I had, on several occasions, and implied that he wanted to go to Lucky Star casino. I made the grave mistake of buying him dinner a few times (he bought dinner once), and after the 3rd time, he expected me to foot the bill EVERY TIME. One morning, he showed up at my house (after keeping me up all night, watching a movie till 4 AM, and he FINALLY left) and he was in a funky mood because he had just bought a new tag for his car, and he was complaining about the price and throwing the paperwork in my face like he expected me to do something about it. Almost always showed up near dinner time for his freeloading meal. Was always asking if I had any liquor in the house. Very bossy, at times. Would tell me (not ask me) to get him some water, soda, etc. Stole some money from off of my coffee table (he asked me if he could borrow “a dollar”, but scooped-up about 4 dollars worth of quarters when I wasn’t looking). Can’t keep his damned hands to himself, and the word “NO” is not in his dictionary. STAY AWAY FROM THIS PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN!!! He’s a Grade-A LOSER.
Paul. I met this guy online, through the Sex Addicts Anonymous Yahoo group. He is, supposedly, a recovering sex addict. Right after I joined the group, he began to send me perverted emails. A few weeks later, he lured me into Yahoo messenger, where he became extremely hostile & abusive when I refused to cyber-sex him. He called me a “C******”, accused me of having AIDS and all sorts of other things, just because I wouldn’t give him what he wanted. He is in his 50’s, I think. Has short, curly gray hair, is considerably overweight, wears glasses, and he’s in the real estate business. WATCH OUT!
Alan Abbott or Buck, from Winder GA.
Well prince charming turned into a pathalogical liar and a crook. Not to say his sexual games with others ended our marriage before it ever got started good. He owns a welding shop and has all of his family kissing his rear so he can do his dirty little secrets. It is scary how this man thinks and acts. He has many pending domestic violence cases open throughout the state. Well what else to say but BEWARE OF SHORTWELDERS WHO HURT WOMENDOGS
Jeffrey Weeks from Chicopee, MA Takes advantage of women ($, emotions, whatever he can get), user of human beings, has mommy issues / may hate women altogether. Dead inside. Is perpetual bachelor. Has issues about being manly because he is a pretty boy. Vindictive, sneaky and a cheater. Immature. Superiority complex. Terrible in bed, completely selfish.
Andrew Kenease also known as Andy, from Indianapolis, In
I’ll try to keep this short. First off i only knew this guy for a week. He automatically decided that i was his girlfriend without asking me. By the end of the week he’d told me he loved me, and was asking me to get an apartment with him. He gave me over $200 to ‘buy my firendship’ and by the end of the week he was telling mye i was fat, and how worthless i was. and worst of all. he date raped me. and i became pregnant. i have a beautiful baby boy now who i love dearly. but now i have to have a daily reminder of that one night. and i think the bastard needs to some how pay for it. I know he’s had to do this to other people…he picks girls who are wulnerable and maybe need serious help and/or just had a recent bad break up, and starts trying to control them immediatly.
Duane Hannah (Bluesdady) from West Virginia Only wants someone to take care of him! Is an alcoholic that doesn’t believe that he has to work. Believes in his heart that a woman should do everything, work, pay bills, clean house, cook, etc. while he sits and watches dirty movies all day on the computer. He thought something was wrong with me as I did not share his beliefs! Big ole looser girls, I should have known better.
Aaron Smith from Gainesville, FL. We were together for 3 years and have a womderful daughter together… 3 months ago we both decided to have another baby. I got pregnant right away. 2 months into it he decides he isnt feeling it anymore so we are splitting up… and get this… before we officially ended our relationship he went off all night and slept with someone else, how’d I find this out? Found the condom in a cup in his car…. great right? No I’m pregnant and alone when it was supposed to be us growing our family.
Ernie Gurke
This is a dangerous psychopath, alchoholic and druggie who gets his kicks out of sadistic acts, violence, lies, manipulations, and making fools of everyone – he will say anything to get what he wants and steal and throw away everything you have to hurt you. Watch out for your kids and friends, no one will stand in his way. sweet talk will soon turn to physical violence. Depraved empty man who will steal you blind. Weak little man who cares about nothing but himself and how he will get his next fix. Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Ernie, Ernst Last Known Location: Whitehouse Station, New Jersey
ERNIE GURKE
Nicknames or Known Alias’s: ERNIE, ERNST, Last Known Location: READINGTON NEW JERSEY
WOW DON’T KNOW WHO ELSE POSTED ABOUT HIM BELOW – BUT RIGHT ON!!! YOU LEFT OUT A FEW THINGS – RUDE ABUSIVE LOSER WHO THINKS ROAD RAGE IS A HOBBY AND ABUSES AND MANIPULATES PEOPLE FOR HIS OWN KICKS. HIS IDEA OF GOING OUT TO DINER IS MACDONALDS AND MIND YOU – YOU WILL PAY FOR ALL. IF YOUR IDEA OF A GOOD TIME IS WATCHING SOMEONE SLOBBER DOWN FOOD YOU PAID FOR AND THEN SNORE ON YOUR SOFA IN FRONT OF A BLARING TV……. EXCUSE ME? SORRY I DID NOT HEAR YOU – EXCUSE ME? ? YOU WILL PAY. YOU WILL PAY FOR FOOD, YOU WILL PAY FOR EVERYTHING, YOU WILL PAY FOR WHATEVER HE DEMANDS UNLESS YOU WANT TO SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCES – EXCUSE ME? HE WILL BE POLITE INITIALLY BUT THAT WILL BE VERY SHORT LIVED-HE IS ONLY POLITE AS A MEANS TO AN END TO MANIPULATE AND USE .. HE DOESN’T GO OUT EXCEPT TO BE A SLOBBERING DRUNK IDIOT WITH HIS BOY-FRIEND DOUG. THEY DON’T GO ANYWHERE WITHOUT BEER BOOZE AND DRUGS IN THE CAR. IT WON’T BE LONG BEFORE HE STARTS LYING AND STEALING YOUR MONEY. HE LIES ABOUT EVERYTHING INCLUDING IF HE HAS HEPATITUS, BEING AN ALCHOHOLIC AND TAKING EVERY IMAGINABLE DRUG. HE IS A BURNT OUT SHADOW OF A LITTLE MAN AFTER YEARS SMOKING DRUGS, DRINKING AND TAKING DRUGS AND WORKS HARD ONLY TO KEEP THE DRUGS AND ALCHOHOL PLENTIFUL FOR HIMSELF NOW. HE IS A LAZY BUM ON EVERY OTHER COUNT. THINK BEACHED WHALE WITH A BEER AND JOINT IN EACH HAND. HE IS ALWAYS LATE, SAYS WILL BE SOMEWHERE AND THEN CAN’T BE FOUND OR NEVER SHOWS UP. SAYS HE WILL CALL AT XYZ TIME AND NEVER DOES. SAYS HE IS BORROWING MONEY FROM YOU AND NEVER PAYS IT BACK – EVER. HE IS FREQUENTLY STONED AND DRUGGED TO THE POINT HE CANNOT WAKE UP OR DRINKS HIMSELF TO THE POINT THAT HE THROWS UP AND THROWS UP. DADDY WILL BAIL HIM OUT OF WHAT EVER TROUBLE HE GETS INTO AND LIE FOR HIM AS WELL. AND THERE WILL BE TROUBLE AND VIOLENCE. ONCE HE HAS YOU WHERE HE WANTS – WATCH OUT FOR YOUR SAFETY – THE ABUSE AND STEALING WILL GET WORSE AND WORSE. AND WHEN HE DOES NOT GET WHAT HE WANTS FROM YOU – HE WILL THREATEN YOUR LIFE AND HURT WHOMEVER OR WHATEVER YOU VALUE. HE HAS THREATENED AND REPEATEDLY INJURED ME. HE IS UNBALANCED AND DANGEROUS. VERY VERY DANGEROUS. RUN DON’T WALK RUN!!!!- STAY FAR FAR AWAY FROM THIS MANIAC.
ERNIE GURKE
He says he has friends on the police to deter you from calling the police when he is violent or threatening. CALL THE POLICE. get the protection you need. Don’t be intimidated by this lying degenerate. don’t let him hurt you or destroy your home. call the police and file the charges. your safety comes first. Last Known Location: NEW JERSEY AND NEW YORK
Jose Antonio from Laredo, TX. Dated him for app. 3 months. Slept over at my house numerous times. Very recently I was informed that he has a girlfriend with children in his hometown. This information was confirmed via internet. I’m sure his girlfriend had no idea what her sweet little college boy was up to during the week, 3.5 hours away from home.
Anthony Lorick also known as Tony, from Kerrville Texas… Mentally ill,Compulsive liar,violent,emotionally abusive, financially abusive, sexually abusive. This man was a serial cheater. He had so many phone numbers in his wallet once it took me hours to call all the women. His real trick is the internet. He had dozens of women on the line and thinks a woman is stupid enought to believe all his lies and when you don’t he becomes furious!He draws you in by first becoming a “caring” friend and then convinces you he’ll give you everything you dream of. He was dangerous before but now he’s taking karate lessons. Stay way from this man! He will take everything you have and leave you or worse you might just end up dead!
Mark Ashby from the Pacific Northwest…. Con artist…LONG history of incarcerations. You’ve been warned – STAY FAR AWAY!
Duane Butler known as BIg D from stephenville newfoundland canada. Beware, he is a con artist true manipulater. Uses woman for their money or what ever he can get even just a meal. has drug addictions which he will try to support by living off his woman. he will run your bath light the candles and fill your heart but you will only end up being used for his own needs. He is abusive when drinking and has been also with kids. Dead beat father 100 per cent would rather support his habits then his kid at present is using yet another woman who is going through a divorce and is waiting for her to get her money so he can take it and run. his past history with all his woman is the same, he is a liar cheater user and a very loud speaking man with a mental illness. He loves a woman with a sports car and will try to charm you to give it to him. He is a big man 230 pounds 6 foot 2 inch but really he is only a small man with a very small burnt out mind and a very small private part. Useless human being who uses woman and never worked any real time in his life, welfare is his style and the bonus comes from the females he meets who have a bit of money to support him and the habits. He is verbally abusive as well when he does not get what he wants or he will pretend to be depressed so you will feel sorry for him and give him what he wants. He hurt me and my kids many times, my kids hate him and have been scarred. Beware is all I have to say!!!
Chris Patik known as “C” from Connellsville, PA. He is a lying, cheating, jobless, and degreeless loser and waste of space. He is very attractive and a charmer, but once he gets close to you, he starts to take all your money and he’ll move in with you just so the jobless hobo has a place to sleep! All the while, he is seeing other women behind your back! STAY AWAY trust me, girls 🙂
Max Maxwell from Louisville, KY. He is a Lier, cheater, user
Haris from Spokane, wa. Known as a compulsive liar – Control freak – ask constantly where i was who i was with and what I was doing Liar -would tell me things to me and then something different to my best friend. Then when we confronted him about it he said he never said any of it. .. (psycho) He wanted to marry me after like 1 month of dating He is completely socially awkward and is all about the PDA i mean like you feel completely trapped!i Also would wait down the street until i would come outside to see me. WOuld call me when he was outside so he could come over. Even if i was super busy he still demanded i make time for him. If i didnt he would seriously throw a tantrum like a 2 year old. He Lies about shit and is the biggest drama queen i have ever known. I have never ever ever met somebody so dramatic in my life!!!! STAY AWAY ladies he will become obesessed with you!!! He is a fucking leech! He needs some serious Mental help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mario Lyles also know as mario quo or m-eazy from Pittsburgh, PA and Buffalo, NY. Mario is a user and abuser! He not only used my credit cards, but when I found out he said he would pay it and never did! He told my uncle that I was his overdraft protection. After I had just helped him find a car, get it on the road and registered it for him! He has a nasty temper and can be very violent. I once had a stapler thrown at my head. He is also a cheater. He goes from one girl to the next, we were together for almost 2 years(and knew each other longer than that). After I broke up with him he was with a new girl in 2 weeks, saying he loved her, and she was the one. He is 23 and everytime it seems like the girls get younger and younger. He also told my little brother that he prefers virgins because he likes being the first, even if it’s not a longterm relationship. He is an excellent liar and can be very charming, so do not fall for it girls!
he pretened he was a person….ya know, with feelings and empathy and everything!
Justin Carpenter Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Joker from Orlando, FL. Justin is an asshole! We were together for 2 1/2 years and he left me after I found out I was pregnant and I have heard from him once sense then. Needless to say I have not gotten any money from him. Watch out for this worthless piece of swamp slime!
Bobby also known as: Robert K. from hunterdon county, nj. I never actually dated him but “attempted” a relationship. He is a lying, self absorbed, disrespectful, arrogant, cocky, self centered, dumb, uncaring, judgmental, cold bastard. He will say that he will call or take you out, but he is always “too busy.” He tells you what you want to hear, leads you on for months and shatters your heart. He supposedly has “many women” he meets through his job and because he’s SO desirable. He seems to thrive on drama and will listen to any feedback from a third party about you. If the feedback is negative, he will pass judgment on you and CUT YOU OFF, WITH NO EXPLANATION! He is 38, self employed, still lives at home. He is a commit-a-phob and leery of any relationship. You have been warned, steer clear and save yourself NOW!
DAN C Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Big D, Ted from Valparaiso, IN. He’s a charming snake, but don’t be fooled! If you give him a penny, he’ll take the entire bank account. He consistantly stole my bank cards while I slept and bought THOUSANDS of dollars worth of items. I mean, how dare I try to sleep at night! He’s been caught cheating on MySpace with local girls calling himself “Ted”. Same lie: Poor Dan, mean wife divorced him so feel sorry for him. We most certainly were NOT divorced. I felt sorry for the girls he duped into dating him…most were really sweet girls who thought they’d met Mr. Right online. Run from him…don’t walk!
I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW…. IVE BEEN WITH JEROMY FOR LONG ENOUGH!! HES THE BEST EVER!! IM TIRED OF HEARING ALL THESE CRYBABY STORIES ABOUT SORRY ASS MEN!! THEIR ARE GOOD ONES OUT THERE!!! SORRY MINNESOTA GIRL!! HE TRULY LOVES ME… SORRY YOU LOST A GOOD MAN!!JEROMY AND I ARE FULL OURSELVES!! WE ARE BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE!!! HE TAKES CARE OF ME!! SO YEH HE USED YOU!!! LOL!! WE HAVE MIRRORS ALL OVER OUR HOUSE!!!! MAUH!!!
Nicknames or Known Alias’s: MAN OF MY DREAMS!!! EAT IT DEBBIE!!
David Woods is a Child Molestor. He is from Bethlehem, Pa.
Harold Edward Roberts II. Known alias : Robbie. from Tulsa OK. This is my ex husband. Not only did he cheat on me while I was in the hospital but he was also physically abusive throughout the spam of our relationship including choking me several times. Despite what he may tell you about his past he was removed from the Military for theft and an inability to listen to authority. His dishonorable discharge from the Navy was because he stole several laptop computers.
Doug Scroggins. from Tulsa OK. Doug cheated on his wife more than 3 times in their 10 years of marriage including the day after his brother-in-law died while his wife lay in bed traumatized. The girl was 19 years old. He was 35. He had 2 kids both of which he doesn’t bother to spend time with. He lies and cheats and is an admitted relations addict. He’s big into Internet dirty movies as well, once secretly taking pictures of his wife while she slept and posted them on the Internet. What kind of man takes pictures of his wife’s boobs while she sleeps and posts them on the internet?
Erik Zepeda. Known alias : Yogi bear. from Mexico. He looks at your eyes and tells you “I love you” tells you that he is afraid to lose you that he needs you that he feels very different and special when he hugs you but days later tells you that he is going back to Mexico only for a month and that it is unfair for you to be his girlfriend if he isn’t with you so he ask you to brake up and promis you that he will call you when he comes back but he “comes back” a week later from mexico (not for a month like he said)and calls you but he never talks about a relationship anymore…
Scott Edward Loiler. from Citrus Heights CA. This guy is the biggest loser of them all. He tells lies like they most people make small talk. He is a drug addict alcoholic theif that will burn anyone including family. He will tell you exactly what you want to hear to get what he wants. He’ll promise you the world and then rip your heart right out of you chest. He’ll back stab and deceive and cheat…no matter how much he tells you he loves you. His word means shit and his apologies are empty. I’ve never hated anyone until this man got a hold of me.
Kim Willis. from Georgetown IL. Kim Willis is a liar user and abuser! He craves attention and affection so much that he will get it from anyone and everyone no matter if he’s in a relationship! The word “faithful” had no meaning to him whatsoever! He has no problem screwing ugly nasty hoes! He will lie to you and manipulate you to get whatever he wants. If you break up with him or deny him in any way he goes completely balistic. He treatened to kill me break in my house and kill my DOG and all sorts of crazy shit! I almost had to get a restraining order on him when he would call my phone at all hours of the day and night and leave the most awful voicemails EVER! He said the meanest most hurtful things that have ever been said to me.
He also stalked me I had to quit my job and find another and still hope he doesn’t find me! I would catch him driving past my house quite often. LADIES BEWARE! HE IS BAD NEWS! He’s great when you first meet him seems mellow and sweet and is handsome but don’t ever let him drink or get him angry! He hides his pyscho-ness well! He’s admitted to being Bi-Polar and is on meds for it. I would have never ever guessed he was this NUTS he seems so normal when you meet him! He’s also into guys but will only admit it when he drinks…he often asked me to finger his butthole! GROSS! He’s not the type of guy you wanna mess around with!!! If you ever meet this nasty LOSER RUN FAR FAR AWAY FAST! TRUUUUUST ME! DON’T LET HIM FOOL YOU!
Josh Rounsville. Known alias : James Joshua Rounsville. from Citrus Heights CA. He used the whole “I’m not the typical guy” line and turned out to be a total asshole. I caught him talking on the phone to another girl in my kitchen. He was saying the rudest things about me and I heard every word… my revenge? A suckerpunch to his mouth. Yeah bad I know. But the jerk had it coming. Also he says he loves to work out but ladies cover your eyes when he takes his shirt off!
Daniel Talbot. Known alias : Tabs. from Adelaide South Australia. seems like the perfect caring sweet life time kinda guy.
but will lead you on break your heart and ruin your life.
soulless back stabbing user.
Will make you fall hard for him then take advantage till he’s gotten everything he wants.
Bob Littlefield. from Everett WA. He is a sociopath to the T. He was always looking & watching other girls when I was with him & trying to get them to come over when I wasnt home to give him a bj. He started persuing another girl after about 2 years of us being together & then was verbally abusive when I kicked him out. He is a womenizer & can not have just one girl. He lies about everything he has profiles on single web sites & even talks to girls in Russia about hooking up. He uses you until he no longer has a use for you then he will move on the whomever he has sitting in the back ground. He is a silver tongue devil & for a 40 something year old he is still playing the same games & making the same mistakes as he did 20 years ago. He is a loser user & booser he will never change or learn so do yourself a favor & stay away & NEVER NEVER EVER believe or trust anything he may say if you have the misfortune of meeting or talking to him.
Carl Tavoloni. Known alias : Anthony. from Fircrest WA. I had a boyfriend 4 a couple months and basically he got tired of me. So he got action from another gurl without me knowing. Then I found out so he dumped me. Then he went out with a bunch of other gurlz to make me jelious. But I found out that he really liked them. We broke up 4 like at least a month. Then we got back together and he like an hour later sayz its over then hangs up. Then the nxt day at school he tells every1 it waz funny when he broke up wit me. If you ever date this guy all I have to say is watch out! He likes to play games and iz not the rite guy 4 any1!!!! WATCH OUT!!!!!!!!
Alan Cutshall. from Pasadena TX. He was great at first. Really nice. Just divorced. All of a sudden basically was living with me. Can’t hold a job because he would rather smoke weed and get high. He got so jealous of my exboyfriend calling me he broke 4 of my phones. Put several holes in my walls and kicked my door in. I would be sleeping in my room and all of a sudden he would be in my house. He had found a way to sneak in my house. I finally found out he would sneak in my garage and jimmy the lock…OMG psycho. He drove by my house and even sent messages to my new boyfriend telling him not to date me and etc. I paid several of his bills and i got SCREWED over. He bought me a bbq pit worth 50 bucks and he told me he was going to sue me for it….HAHA STAY AWAY
Justin Mooney. Known alias : Toby. from Canton GA. Treated me like Trash for 5 straight years. Would call me a bitch tell me to shut up get mad if I said no to sex never picked me up from my house said disrespectful things about my family cheated on me after 4 years called me all sorts of degrading names (from stupid bitch all the way down to the c word). Forgot my birthday and picked his video games over me. He belongs on the ex boyfriend list because he is disrespectful to women (atleast me) and is still a boy who plays his video games ATLEAST 5 hours a day (Not counting the days he’s off work)
Paul Ferrari. from Melbourne Victoria. This guy and his whole family stole my 3 year old son. They are holding for ransom and this is the second ex-wife this family have done it too. Paul and his whole family are all Narcissists & they take great pleasure in emotionally abusing the people on the “outer circle” meaning if your not blood your not in the family and you never will. They will be extremly overbarringly nice to the point where you wonder if they are all fakes. And i assure you this man and his family are VERY toxic and if you ever see them run run far far away and NEVER look back!
John Spaur. from Los Gatos CA. He is a NARCISSIST and is not capable of deep feelings for another. He knows how to go thru the motions to make it look like he really cares about you but he is not truly capable. He’s messed up but doesn’t know he’s messed up. He’s so wrapped up in himself that he won’t even think of you. So consider yourselves warned.
Stanislaw Kolosa. Known alias : Stan – polish guy. from Campbell CA. This guy is out for one thing and one thing only. He took me out twice and then expected me to go home with him. I told him no I don’t want to go to his place since I still didn’t know him very well. Geeze it takes months to get to know someone well enough to want to sleep with them. Then after that I never heard from him again. What a DORK!
Thomas Rodgers. Known alias : Tommy. from bc49 Tom. He was abusive emotionally verbally and physically. I finally got out of that relationship and pressed charges against him for assault. There was supposed to be a restraining order for a year but he got off after only 6 months.
The bruises and emotional scars he gave me were not worth the 8.5 years I stayed with him.
He is immature and has a tendency to be attracted to young girls (as in 14-16 years old)
Stay away! especially if he isn’t sticking to his anti-depressants and is back into the booze. 🙁
billy paiva. Known alias : pothead. from somerset /fall river ma. hmm.. where do i start? wasted 4 yrs of my life with the piece of crap. who actually had a girlfriend away at school the whole time. He decided to tell me yrs later. just letting you know girl it was great sex and he never thought about you the whole time. lol but dont want him ne more hes nasty. lying dirty cheater
Steven J Bottomley. from Schreiber ON Canada. After 15 1/2 years of my life a house home child and business….just to mention a bit….he decides after all the stress of me working full time him getting fired from his job helping him to start and run his business that was floundering from word go raising our child practically alone keeping a spotless home and putting up with his drunken stuppers and selfish and arrogant attitude and doing what he wanted when he wanted and calling me fat all the time he’ll dump ME and frig off to Alberta. Leaves me with all the bills….and meets up with a “friend” he’s been having an emotional affair with. It’s been 4 months and he has not sent a cent and I am still paying all our bills and have tapped all my savings my son’s and had to borrow money from friends and family. He doesn’t want to pay child support and wants to keep all his things we bought together and keep me paying. His new “girlfriend”…he told me last week it’s not going to work…he’s using her for her money….she bailed him out for his business and is supporting his lying arrogant obnoxious ass. Good riddance…and sorry for you new bitch. STAY AWAY FROM THIS MAN…Hinton and Edson Alberta!!!!! He can be quite the charmer….but give him a few drinks and he’s loud obnoxious and full of himself…doesn’t want to be with a fat/ugly woman he told me….sucker…lost 60 lbs and was never ugly…I know what your new bitch looks like..my dogs ass. In the end though it’s all about HIM!!!!!BEWARE!!!!
kai kaminski. Known alias : tiger (rolls eyes.. oh brother). from boise idaho from germany. this asshole is a pathological liar very sweet and charming at first very intelligent looks like the famous male ballet dancer mickael. he speaks 5 languages and got to the us my marrying some woman and then dumped her married a few more. he’s great until you find out what a liar he is about virtually everything and the he turns into a monster and suddenly you are the problem. he told people i was trying to steal his car and move out of state with it he threw me out of the place we lived in together with no place for me to go just because i confronted him with his lies. he’s a real sicko and hurt many women watch out for his sorry ass girls.
Chris Barket. from Connecticut. We met online and he moved in shortly after. I helped him start and run a bar for over 3 years. I took a home equity line out on my house to help him with his business. We were very happy and very connected until he started drinking heavily. He broke up with me over the phone by telling me he wanted to drink and party without feeling guilty about his behavior hurting me.
steve phillips. Known alias : probably. from albuquerque farmington new mexico. this man took almost 9 years of my life. i met him online in the summer of 2000 and he said all the right things i fell hard for him. he told me he was single no kids and we talked every day had lots of phone sex and he made promises that we would be together. i saw him twice in all those years and i felt a weird vibe. last week a woman called me and told me he was married and living with her. i confronted him with it and he couldn’t deny it. he would freak if he couldn’t get ahold of me was so adamant about me being true to him and not seeing any other men. and stupid me i did it for almost nine years. i know i’m not the only one either. watch out for him he’s slick and charming and an evil person that has no regard for anything but his own satisfaction. i feel sorry for his wife.
joel david wood. Known alias : faggot. from freemont new york . for one he turned out to be a sex offender he molested a boy just something he forgot to tell me when we met.2 he still lives with his mommy and he’s 39 yrs old.3 he doesnt work.4 he smells.5 did i metion he is a sex offender.
Joel david wood = scumbag child molester.
but he loves me yeah right.
John Frainee. Known alias : lil john. from redlands CA. I agree with the other person hwo posted. this guy is an a number 1 creep. He still lives with his parents and has tons of women friends. He is not loyal to anyone. I have known him for years and have been smart enough to not fall for him.
He is a loser and he is fat and disgusting and he is trying deperately to ake up for his small cock!
He will use you for whatever he can get and if you are a man reading this do not do business with him and do not make friends with this false profit! My male friend was screwed over by him for a large amount of money! Thank God someone else posted here people need to know about this fat waste of life!!!!
Joe Fradl. Known alias : Joe. from Pirate Joe Zukrider. I agree with the female that posted this at an earlier time.. Thanks to her I opened my eyes to Joe’s ways and seen even more things from him that was not listed.. So who ever wrote this THANK YOU.. He is still at his old tricks and is not to be trusted.. When he was with me he was still doing the dating site came to my house drunk I told him to leave and not return then he turned on me in a bad way.. He takes all his females to the same places PARKS etc.. His brother Mark Fradl filled me in on his other bad issues.. I took all that in plus what this other female wrote on here which I copied and reposted and took those words to heart and decided I was tired of his cheap and crazy ways.
This is further down on the list — > (copy)This dude is smooth but beware. He’s a thief liar won’t hold a job for any length of time verbally abusive mistreats animals while stating he’s an animal lover and the list goes on. His FOURTH wife accussed him of child abuse of her teenage daughter. He’s a cheater. He will flash those big brown eyes and lie to you at every opportunity. He’s listed on multiple singles sites and has multiple email addresses and alias’s. I have listed a couple of alias’s. BEWARE of this guy. He’s nothing but trouble.
everette allen reed. Known alias : allen. from eldersburg MD. he broke up with me after three years through a text message. he has an illegitimate child with another ex girlfriend. he is a compulsive spender and has no motivation for a better job or future.
Jason Edward Troike. from Noblesville IN Well. Well let’s see the worst was when he hit me in front of my son. But during our divorce he took things that were mine ruined things that were mine that he packed kept toys of my four year olds and would not give them back. Yep…his ‘rents have toys that were my son’s as well. He then has went on to tell a bunch of people really horrible and awful things about me and continues to do things to harm my reputation. Screw him but warning to all you sisters out there…he sucks!!
Shawn Shippee. Known alias : shippster. from Haverhill MA. The last girl that posted on here about Mr. Shippee just knocked the girls that he has been with but forgot to add herself. she is the one person that he was with that put him in prison. she posts things on here but is friendly to the “bi ladys face” so who is the one that is truely messed up?
Frank Russell. Known alias : surfdog78. from florida. Has been married and divorced three times
Claims 2B a surfer but cannot ride a wave Jimmy Buffett Wanna a Be
Tries to date girls half his age
Raging Alcoholic
Major Control Freak
You Can Find him on Pal Talk Site every morning taking care of business
If you are on there he might be looking at you Girl!
AND Most Importantly Will give you something Ajax will not wash off.
Jody Langley. from Lubbock TX. He is on about every dating sight out there. He is a convicted felon that says he only committed the crime because of a misdosed medication. He lures girls in with his sweet charm and decent looks. He plays off the he is this reborn christian when he is the worst image of christianity anyone could imagine. He was divorced about 6mo ago and I can’t even BEGIN to imagine how many good girls lives he has screwed up. He will promise you the world and produce nothing but lies. He has cheated on me and his just recent ex-girlfriend who is now a very good friend of mine. He used both of us at the same time and tried to use us against each other but it kinda formed a bond between us. If you see him on any dating site stay as clear from him as you possibly can. He is nothing but a lier and a cheat.
Arnold McCue. Known alias : ACE. from New Jersey / Irving TX. Where should i start? He’s a heavy drinker.and abuses you by telling you that your guly & then when he wants some me becomes real nice.
He even calls you family and tells them all your
deep secrets.He also does not know how to hold a job.The only thing is that i was the dumd ass for staying as long as i did.
My Exhusband was the same way. and i did not see the signs.but not for nothing no one should have
to deal with any kind of abuse.
I hope that the next woman that goes with these but heads sees the real person they are b-4 its to late.Good luck to all of the girls out there.
dont let the men take you for granted. make them want you make them work for it.
I know for myself that i am just a freak magnet.
And rather be by myself.
Goo luck to all of you my fellow sisters.
Greg. Known alias : Jimi Hatt. from Altoona PA. I dated this mam for 5months. Prior to that we communicated for 2 months. Then one day he tells me that he got a bad hair cut and was shaving his hair. He said he would call me later. Never heard from him again.
geraldomurp. from Minnesota. (BEWARE BEWARE BEWARE )This man started out to be a really nice gentleman but all of a sudden 8 months after we had been going together He seen me on i think it was the singles dating sight In which i did not put myself on their My computer was Hyjacked and i had found my self in other places i didn’t subscribe too I had to ping test everything that came in on email and send it to microsoft And that is how i found out i was hyjacked so had to change my accounts and id Anyway my dearest friend said i was lieing I asked him why he was on the program. and of course i didn’t get an answer from that day on he won’t talk he has lied he is sneekie makes all kinds of excuses What i am thinking is he is exploiting women especially the older ones as they are more vulnerable. So ladies watch out for this guy he has a smooth mouth and will treat you very nice But beware. things change.I still like the old man but now i don’t trust him. beacuse of some of the things he has done since.He made me feel really bad and hurt me mentally. He is a cheap sob also But to get to a new woman he will spend money for roses and etc. Hes the kind of man that makes women not like men.I just wish one day he would talk But he dosen’t know how to comunicate i guess.especially when confronted with something.
Robert Thieman. Known alias : Thiemen. from South Carolina/Iowa. He’s a straight up liar. Will tell you what you want to hear. Tell you he wants to marry you but he’s with another girl. He’s basically a cheater. He’ll get your hopes up and your heart ready and then crush both. He DOESN’T CARE ABOUT ANYONE BUT HIMSELF. He’s selfish.
Christopher Allen. Known alias : Chris. from Birch Run Michigan. He’s a drug user a drinker a liar and a cheater. He’ll tell you he loves you but he NEVER EVER really means it. He just wants in your pants. DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT DATE THIS GUY DON’T EVEN HAVE ANY TIME OF ‘FUN’ WITH HIM.
Rob. from Ewing NJ. Basically an asshole made me think he really loved me and I could possibly have a future with him. MARRIED TWO KIDS NOT EVER LEAVING HIS WIFE BUT I’M SURE HE’S LOOKING FOR ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND IF HE DOESN’T HAVE ONE ALREADY
Paul Dreher. Known alias : Paul D.. from Bumpass VA. Major liar and alcoholic. Talks on cell phone thru date and constantly texting someone. Very all about himself. WOMANIZER!!
James Locklair. Known alias : Jimmy. from Stone Cold West Ashley. Big time cheater. Living with one girl and sleeping with 3 others. History of cheating on his wives. Got a girl pregnant while married to wife #2. Lies all the time. Always needs to borrow money. Tells you everything you want to hear.
Nikk. Known alias : asshole?. from Friedens Pa. all he does is play games with you and lies like hell about everything. STAY AWAY!!!
Robert. Known alias : Brat. from Jakarta Simply put. Simply put he just let me wait 4 years before he told me that out long-distance relationship is not gonna work coz he’s marrying another girl his family has arranged him to! what a jerk! He could have told me that 4 years ago…
Cliff Spencer. from Vincentown NJ. He told me he was single and completely unattached. Later when I got pregnant he admitted he was actually going out with someone who was away at college. He abandonend me and told me never to tell the baby or anyone he was the father or he would make my life hell because he is a cop. A few months later I had a miscarriage and he took me for the surgery because he said felt bad because he heard I was so upset. A week later he told me to never call him again because while all that was going on he asked his girlfriend to marry him and she said yes. He is a pathological liar and a chronic cheater. Later I found out that a nurse he was also sleeping with was breaking into my medical records for him (I had changed my number and told him to leave me alone and she gave him the new number) He is a complete and total pathological liar.I should have known he was no good because he pulled me over to get my phone number what a jerk off.
He only stays with the girlfriend because her family is loaded.
bruce burke. Known alias : tiny PRIVATES. from beverly ma. he says he is straight but wears panties and bras and likes to check out men’s THINGS a real sissy and exposes himself in public would rather be with men then have relations with a woman I know I caught him with a man in panties and bra what a F********
Adam Austin Eatherly. Known alias : Adam or Austin. from Houston Texas. no job Lives with his momma no license no ambition doesn’t wear deodorant should i go on?
Eric Freda. Known alias : ebolazaire. from Hopatcong NJ. He is a cheating jerk who will sleep with anyone and lie to your face about it. He’s also a crossdresser and loves to wear women’s underwear and stockings and paint his toenails. Stay away!!
Tim Schell. Known alias : tim. from harrisburgpa. white male.. lazy completly lost without someone guiding him 24/7 and uses whomever he can attach his self to.If by chance you meet him run and dont look back!
Tony Ashlock. from Indianapolis IN. I have to admit I am a little bitter but men are a dime a dozen so next! I started dating this guy and he was wonderful. I was very hesitant at first because I had just gotten out of a two year relationship two weeks prior to meeting him. He persued me. He works on the docks here at my work. Things were great we had our kids involved. He told me he was going to marry me which I never expected that and wasn’t in any hurry. The only issue we ever had was his ex wife. Of course she didn’t like me but never met me. I could understand some of her feelings but she tried to talk bad about me to her kids which I feel was immature and childish. I guess a few weeks before we had ended she had a break down. He didn’t tell me but he went and picked her up and took her to a stress center where she spent a few days. He went and visited her daily and then picked her up and took her home. Three days before he broke things off he told me how happy he was in our relationship and then even had talked to his kids about us all moving in together which I wasn’t pushing either. This was all in his head! Then three days later he comes to me and just says he isn’t ready for something this serious. I never made it that serious. It was him. I am not made that he hurt me. I am maddest about how he hurt my kids. They liked him and grew attached to him and he just left like we didn’t mean anything. I miss his kids! I have found out since then that he is back with the ex wife and I hope they are miserable together!
Josh. Known alias : Josh the Jock. from Sin City. Where do I start. Jerk. Selfish. Thinks he is God’s gift to women. Stares at himself in the mirror even when he is driving!!!! Has multiple GF on the side even though he’s married. Run girls
Harvey. Known alias : Freaker aka Herve aka Jake Chifor. from Africa? France? ATL GA. Player. Black male with a thing for kids.
Jerry / Gerardo. Known alias: A****** hole. from ATL GEORGIA. Major asshole. Snores so loud he rocks the house and then starts cussing because you don’t want to listen to him drowning in his own spit. Has a very so-so penis and skills but thinks he is all that. And I do mean ALL THAT.. More like NOT! Besides having a mediocre THING he is a cheap BEHIND and he’s rude and crude. He has bumps on his PRIVATE too. Major alcoholic. Player.
SHAWN SHIPPEE. Known alias : SHIPSTER. from HAVERHILLMA. YOU KNOW ALL THESE LADIES TWO FOR SURE IF YOU DIDNT MESS THIS GUY OVER WITH YOUR CHEATING AND LYING THEN HE PROBALBY WOULDNT OF CHEATED ON YOU…ON OF YOU ARE FAT HUGE AND SMELL WHY WOULD ANY GUY WANT A PIECE OF THAT AND THE OTHER CHICK WELL SHE SLEPT WITH A WOMEN A NASTY ONE FOR THAT AND HE CAUGHT THEM GRABBING HER AND PULLING HER OUT OF THE HOUSE WELL YEAH I WOULD CHEAT TOO…HEY LADIES WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND….
Randy Cohn. from Florida. Randy lies about being divorced. Since he travels a lot and has a second home he got away with it for a long time. He is a MARRIED cold-harded user who tries to charm his way into your life. He has even posted profiles on internet dating sites. Don’t let this slime anywhere near you he is TOXIC.
Brenden Gay. from Everett washington. Never paid for anything EVER when we went out it couldn’t even be considered a real date because we just went to football games( thats all he cares about). His mother is a total bitch and he was so controlling about what i wore. Then he loved to make fun of asians (i’m asian!) and gay people constantly. He was the biggest doucheface idiot!
DENNIS. from KANSAS. WELL WE WILL HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 10 YEARS THIS AUG. AND LAST NOV. DECIDES THAT HE DONT LOVE ME WE HAVE 3 KIDS AND WERE MARRIED FOR 8 YEARS HIS NEW GIRL IS 8 YEARS YOUNGER AND HAS MONEY I THINK HE JUST A GOLD DIGGER
Armenian. Known alias : Mamas Boy. . Where do I start? My ex-boyfriend sucks because:
1)He lives with his parents at age 27!!!
2)He doesn’t put in any effort (in terms of shaving cutting his hair clipping his nails brushing his teeth etc.)when I do SOOO many sweet things for him (buy special lingerie cook him dinners give him massages when he’s had a rough day)
3) Calls me a nag as an excuse to continue to be lazy with his effort in the above mentioned
4)Makes bullshit excuses not to hang out with me.. AND gets angry when I make suggestions and try to work around the things that prevent him from seeing me
5)Loves playing video games more than being with me
6)Listens to his MOMMY whenever she tells him not to see me
7) Tells me I’m an unstable/insecure person just because I cry when he hurts me.
8) Tells me I’m clingy and psycho for wanting to spend all my free time with him. Aren’t you supposed to want that when you’re in love?
9) Thinks that taking me out to decent restaurants and paying for my dinner should make up for him treating me badly.
10)Doesn’t listen to me. Just says “BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH” when I try to tell him how much he hurts me… and how much resentment towards him I’ve built up
11)Tells me that I have a shitty job. Come ON. I’m in my mid-twenties and I’m studying to get into graduate school.
12) Makes bullshit excuses not to live with me. Tells me we can live together when I’m done with grad school and I get a better job (in four years time)
13)Changes the topic when I say anything about weddings
14) Thinks that I’m so easily influenced by Sex and the City. The show’s good and they talk about things that a lot of women have already thought about or experienced. I’m not a tool you ASSHOLE
15)Always thinks he’s right. Argues about every little thing. If I start winning the argument he’ll just say something insulting
16) He wants to live next door to his MOMMY- maybe so she can wash his unde
patrick. Known alias : clockworkmysterious. from winter park fl. This man is married but goes online to find women so he can cheat on his wife.
John Chad Oswald. Known alias : Chad. . I have never done this before. I’m not trying to be bitter. Forget him. But I’ve recently found out that Chad has done this in the past and I felt obligated to warn anyone he may do it to in the future. Wouldn’t it be easier just to sterilize them and stop the cycle?
Anyway. He is truly a manipulator and a pathological liar. A con artist. When you meet him he’s got a great high paying job and is living in his own place. Then he’s losing his apartment moves in with you (to save money!) and subsequently loses his job. He will live off of you until you rid yourself of him. He’ll drive your car because his is always breaking down. He won’t pay rent or utilities. And guess who pays if you ever want to have a social life? In hindsight I definitely saw it all coming. Especially the possessiveness. He becomes increasingly controlling and jealous. No drinks with the girls for you. There’ll be boys there! And he’ll call your work to make sure you’re really there. All very embarrassing. I happen to be a very independent person and soon found him pathetic so I didn’t let it go on too long. Although his increasing violence made it very difficult to actually remove him physically from my apartment. It ended very badly and very violently. And he harassed me for quite a while. Literally 73 phone calls in one day. Then I found out that he had accessed my cell phone account email account even my voicemail and was tracking everyone I was talking to. He then proceeded to call several of my close friends incessantly. And he called a few of my male friends and threatened them. I have a Psychology degree and can tell you his behavior qualifies as psychotic. And I was scared. So I went to the police and eventually he tapered off. As it turns out he has been in a great deal of trouble before and since (although not during). He owes many people a lot of money. No wonder he doesn’t stay in one place too long!
Anyway. Just be careful. There are a ton of these creeps out
Mark R. Ferragamo. Known alias : Mark. . Where to start. While together he cheated on me with two other women one which was my roomate for two years! Then he would make me think i was crazy when i would confront him! He took me for every cent i had and then when i needed him most he left me! He’s a 39 year old man who slept with my psycho house mate a 21 year old southie slut( who already has a kid from another man who isn’t around) this is what you get from a man who comes off as a charmer until the funds run out and he has nothing more to take from you!!!!!! oh and i guess Karma is a bitch because he’s now stuck with the 21 year old because he just knocked her up thank god payback in my lifetime! Girls be on the look out for this loser!!!!! He doesn’t want a woman who will love him he wants ass! And to top it off he does truly suck in bed! Not saying that just cause he screwed me he thinks he’s 20 in a nike jumpsuit! What was i thinking wasting three years of my life and the sucky thing is that i gave him not only everything i gave him my heart!
SHAWN SHIPPEE. Known alias : SHIPPEE OR SHIPPSTER. from HAVERHILL MA. THIS MAN IS A LOW LIFE LOSER. HE MOVES IN WITH A WOMAN AND HAS HER SUPPORT HIM. THEN UP AND MOVES OUT IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT WITHOUT A WORD. I WANT TO WARN ANY FUTURE WOMEN OUT THERE THAT HE HAS DONE THIS MORE THAN ONCE AND HE WILL AGAIN. THE GIRL THAT POSTED HIS NAME BEFORE DIDNT LEARN FROM HER MISTAKES EITHER SHE TOOK HIM BACK. STAY AWAY FROM HIM HE IS A DRUNK AND A LOSER.
Rob Lapointe. from Montreal quebec. i have read the book How to spot a dangerous man by Sandra Brown (should be read by all women)
My ex is dangerous I was the red flags a few days after we met but ignored them he is too needy and when I asked to slow things down he became nasty and then contacted me two weeks later to say how he missed me …let us not forget the ex rated pics he sent me while I was at work pics of himself masturbating..ok that should have been the end of that……
When he realized that I started to see the truth of how he was he needed to get away from me and try to find a new victime. He is controlling manipulative and uses woman ..please please any woman from Montreal who meets him …please run.
Bruce Adams. from Laconia NH. He is into HEAVY drug use is abusive lies cheats and steals. Has done jail time for stealing now a felon. Failed a cavity search in jail. Emotionally abusive. Can’t hold a job or a place to live.
mark. from stillwater minnesota. This man has completely unwarranted delusions of grandeur.Thinks he’s better than everyone else when he isn’t is verbally abusive hateful cheap and selfish in bed. Will come across as charming and caring at first but once you care about him turns into a complete prick. If you have the misfortune of meeting him turn and run the other way as fast as you can.
Jeff Wooten. Known alias : Big Woo. from Tampa FL. Unless you you want to date a 35 almost 36 year old momma’s boy (lives w/mom) and has spent all his life like a leaf in the wind that drinks way too much all the time and smokes way too much all the time has no regard for your feelings and that rambles on for hours yet says he hates to talk on the phone(while you date him Long distance) who never will visit you nor buy you cards but will feed you (at his moms with her help)if you are willing to drive 4 hours and he thinks when youre in a relationship that you should support yourself and not expect encouragement from him such as remembering that you had an interview for a job that would move you back to be with him never tells you he misses you or loves you unless you bring it up first if you move he wont help you bcs he is too sad and would rather you lift all the heavy boxes but if you are willing have nonstop “relations” and not care how he treats you then go for it.
John Spaur. from Los Gatos CA. He is an egocentric commitment-phobe. He will date you for about a year and be really good to you. Feed you all these gourmet meals but then when it’s time to start asking about where it’s all going he will balk! He also smokes pot daily and this guy is 57 years old! He is only interested in what he wants to do and will not make much effort to come in to your life. You will have to do all the work of going into HIS life going to HIS house and doing what HE wants to do. He is extremely immature and pretentious. He also is very shallow and has nothing but women friends who use him… and he lets them. And he won’t help you out when you need help. Pass on this guy! You can do much better!
Simon Binkhurst. Known alias : Babe. from Brisbane QLD. This guy is not a man he played around when we first had children with some young DIRTY GIRL while I was raising his children. He came back I let him stay should have said NO. He ends up tracking down his old affair and tried to tell me he wanted to be her friend he was sending/getting slutty SMS to some bimbo. Should have let her keep the @*&@wit to start with don’t know why I tried so hard when he just is a professional con man. Wanted nothing but to satisfy his own needs now he will not see his children again. I told him not to hurt me. Why? what does she offer that is better?
John Frainee. Known alias : Lil John. from Redlands California. This guy is the worst kind of player! He will start off telling you how he used to be a player and since he had a terrible battle with cancer he has found the lord and changed his ways. He started out talking about the bible and praying with me and before I knew it he was sending me dirty text messages and wanting to have phone sex. Not the real thing because he was afraid of God. What kind of crap is that.
Things progressed and he would come by my house unannounced and was always trying to get my kids to like him (side note: luckily I keep my girls clear of whomever I am involved with so they had minimal contact). During his visits he would shove his tongue down my throat and then run off because he was afraid if he stayed we may have sex…
Finally my ex who wanted to get back togehter (another winner) confronted him and this jerk off told him that he was just being nice to me because I had feelings for him and he didn’t want to hurt my feelings…Now he is dating one of my EX best friends…and Heaven knows who else! What a creep!!!!
Richard Walker. Known alias : Rich. . Well what does one say about this asshole? Let’s start at the begining The Sperm Donor as he shall henceforth be known and I got divorced 4 years ago and we got along well considering for the sake of our 3 children. We communicated for their sake and this worked well for us and the kids. That is until he started screwing the ugly bucktoothed dirty girl next door to his house. (he forgot rule no.1…. never fuck the neighbours especially when you own your house and can’t move when things go bad) Anyway the buck toothed dirty girl filled his head with bullshit regarding his kids and me and we now don’t communicate so well. He has stopped paying his Child Support hasn’t paid that innearly 5 months and now he is trying to claim 23% of my pension by lieing and saying he has the kids every second weekend and half the school holidays. What a useless C*nt seriously. Obviously the best thing I ever did was divorcing his sorry ass.On the bright side the buck toothed dirty girl not only spends his hard earned money but is pregnant with a baby girl that he doesn’t want. Steer clear of this one ladies he’ll suck you in with stories about how his ex-wife failed him and then he’ll treat you like a dirty girl. I hope he gets Gonorrhea and his tiny little cock falls off 😀
Carl Teske. Known alias : Camel. from Teske Queensland. Together nearly 4 years. Love of my life planning on marrying. Compulsive Liar for the last year. Told me he needed time to himself and moved interstate. I completely supported his move. Found out via his email account that he was living in a completely different state with his new GF. They had been together 8 months. Broke up Xmas eve. Haven’t seen him since. Told his new GF she didn’t care. She is also 5 years older than him in her 30s. Complete and utter loser. Still so hurt however. ;
Houston Noah. Known alias : No. . One beacause he’s a user abuser and loser. I broke up with him in November then was stupid enough to go back out with him later to find out the whole two months we went back out was just to break up with me and get back at me for breaking up with him the first time.
jeffery ballance. Known alias : jeff. from Warren TX. he plays on your heart and does everything a girl could ask for then hmmm you really thought a guy like that was still left wronge again its all a mask then after he has you it all changes
Elijah (Terrance) Chinn. Known alias : Tito. from Columbus OH. Avoid at all cost. He is a habitual lying sociopath who is suspected of being married. Aside from the emmotional and verbal abuse he will attempt to guilt you in to buying him expensive gifts and when you don’t he will accuse you of not loving him. Oh…and he will get you pregnant and dump you like a piece of garbage without a second thought after he accuses you of being a dirty girl.
Jim Butner Jr. Known alias : James. from 30-30 Lexington. He is a manipulator and a user ! He will cheat on you lie to you and all the while telling you he loves you and wants to make a home together. YOU do all the driving AND all the PAYING with him. Then when he’s done with you; he will turn from Mr. Lovable into Mr. Asshole in about 2 seconds and kick you to the curb with an 8 word phrase– ” You’re disposable–Go away-Just leave me alone.” He runs with a 2 faced BITCH that’s 20 years older then him just because SHE has money….gee what a surprise.
He has a mother fixation that’s unhealthy for a 50 yr old (man?). And he WILL rip your heart to shreds.
If you run into him—-RUNNNNNN !
stan downing. Known alias : stan the man. from glasford IL. he was recently found in bed with his best friends g/f YA! and he was trying to play me with this other girl and when cought thought we should have a threesome cause were both so good he cant decide!!!
Rod Stanojevic. Known alias : Radisa. from Sydney Australia. He is a closet homosexual with a very low sex drive. Once scorned will take you to court so you end up in a whole world of debt but hey as his parents are millionaires he doesn’t have to worry you just end up with all the legals and no sex life through out the whole relationship. He needs to stop being scared off his mum and come out of the closet!
dave ames. Known alias : boogy. from Hornell ny. he wasnt really a boyfriend more of a friend of benefits and such but i was beginning to like him i just found out that when he was calling me at 2am to come over he also has had a girlfriend the last couple of weeks. he is scum who doesnt care who he sleeps with and he will sleep with up to 4 different women at once i have found out. stay away from him as he is just a LIAR AND CHEATER who doesnt use protection. if you have slept with him go get tested.
Toby Sisk. from Central Illinois. Hes a charmer. Dont believe a thing he says. All he does is lie cheat steal drink do drugs hit women doesnt work and doesnt take care of his kids. Hes a loser. A short stubby little loser! Hes not very tall either!
nails. Known alias : aa. from Hatfield PA. STAY AWAY!! He will be sweet as pie and a dream come true for about the first few months even cook you dinner and be romantic and get you drinks etc… then his true colors start to show. He is looking for a mother not a wife. He wants a slave that will cater to his every need but expect nothing in return. He is also a cheater an alcoholic and has used cocaine and other drugs in the past and wouldn’t dought it if he started up again. He is very immature. He does not know how to hang out with a woman as a friend. He only ever makes plans with his male friends. It was sooo bad I thought he was gay – maybe he is I don’t know. However what I do know for sure is that to him A woman is only there to cook him dinner clean the house do his laundry and please HIM sexually (you get nothing in return) and that is it. he wants a stepford wife. He is also very emotionally abusive. Unless he grows up and learns how to be with a woman do not go near this man as he is immature and a player and has alot to learn about relationships with a woman (and do not try to be the one to change him – that’s the trap I fell into. I am trying to save you years of heartache – he won’t change and it is not you he is the problem- just leave him be).
STEVEN HURT. from MEHERRIN VIRGINIA. I’VE DATED THIS PLAYER FOR SIX MONTHS AND NEVER KNEW HIS REAL ADDRESS.HE TOLD ME THAT HE WAS DIVORCED BUT UPON LOOKING HIM UP IN AN ONLINE DIRECTORY I DISCOVERED THAT HE IS STILL LIVING WITH HIS WIFE.LITTLE WONDER THAT HE NEVER KEPT A PROMISE AND STOOD ME UP ON MY BIRTHDAY CHRISTMAS NEW YEAR’S(SAID HE WAS IN CHURCH-HA!) AND VALENTINE’S DAY.HE IS HANDSOME AND VERY CHARMING AND WORK FOR A COMPANY THAT SERVICES AC UNITS IN CHAIN STORES-TRAVELS ALOT. I WONDER IF THE WIFE KNOWS ABOUT HIS CHEATING I’M PROBABLY NOT THE ONLY GIRLFRIEND(NOW EX)HE HAS. THIS MAN IS SELF CENTERED AND WILL SAY ANYTHING TO GET IN YOUR PANTIES.I’M THINKING OF EMAILING THE WIFE-HE DESERVES REVENGE
CHRIS MULLINS. Known alias : SLICK. from CASTLEWOODVA. HE GOT ME PREGNANT CONVINCED ME TO MARRY HIM AND TOLD EVERYONE HE KNEW ABOUT THE PREGNANCY.WHEN I HAD A MISCARRIAGE HE TOLD NO ONE.(I STILL HAVE PEOPLE ASK ME ABOUT THE BABY)HE STARTED CHEATING IMMEDIATELY!I HAD CHEST PAIN AND PAIN IN MY LEFT ARM AND HE SIMPLY LEFT THE HOUSE TO GO ‘PLAY POOL’AND LEFT ME THERE W/NO PHONE CAR OR ANYTHING FOR ABOUT A MONTH.HE IS A DRUG ADDICT AND STOPPED BATHING RIGHT AFTER WE WERE MARRIED.
A Montgomery. Known alias : monty. from DENVER COLORADO. he is a cheater a liar an opportunist and he is weak and then mean and hurtful. oh and he has a lisp.
Jeff Wooten. Known alias : Zoomer. from Currently Harrisburg/Concord NC. Be careful–he has the “victim” role down to an art. He pulled it on me with stories of his ex wife but then he got me pregnant in a fit of rage one night. He made promises that everything would be okay and he seemed to want to change but 3 days after I moved in with him (he had asked for months that I do so) he told me to go sleep on the couch go find somewhere else to live and ended it all in yanking me around and shoving me out the door(at 4am in 30 degree weather) while I was 5 months pregnant. He feels he is justified in what he did but he has no regard for ANYONE other than himself. Long story short stay away from this asshole…his words and initial acts of kindness are lies.
Chance Pollock. Known alias : Fat Squirral. from Schenectady NY. This guy will make you feel like your the best and for eight or more years you will think he is in it for the long haul. but he has a taste for crack ho’s and he will throw everything away for one or more. and now he is a crackhead. be carful he is into bondage but doesn’t clean his toys so they smell like the last ho.
Devin Hassan. Known alias : Devlin. from Phoenix AZ and San Francisco. He is an abusive lazy man. We had a child together he did nothing to help with my son. He has mental problems…schizophrenia being one of them. I ended up leaving him to go live with my parents and he couldn’t care less if he ever saw his son again. He used me for money and w/e else he could get from me. Please be careful to not get involved with him. Hes currently pretending to be sick in order to have a place to stay because he is homeless.
Jarred Spencers. from Fort Collins CO. We were together for almost 4 years. He abused me nearly the entire time even when I was pregnant. He was emotionally and physically abusive. I urge anyone in a relationship with him to GET OUT! I want to warn everyone so that they don’t experience what I did. I have 2 children that he donated sperm for. He is lazy and owes me $13 400 in back child support. Fortunately for my children and I he hasn’t showed interest in seeing the kids and has not seen them since my youngest was 2 weeks old and he is almost 7 years old. PlEASE ladies! Stay away from this guy. He is a black belt in karate and uses it on YOU! Don’t get hurt just avoid him. He is a loser.
Kevin Cossette. Known alias : Depends on which enemy you ask. from Fargo ND. Loser Loser and Loser!!! Golddigger cheater mooch the list goes on and on. For every potential friend he meets he makes at least 5 enemies. He beats animals and women and is the most selfish person you would ever meet!
Michael Voogd Jr.. Known alias : Mikey. from Altoona IA. He’s more of a door mat than anything. He solves a problem by buying something. If we had an argument he would not discuss it or argue with me he would just buy me something and then think that the problem is resolved. He also lied from the beginning. He didn’t take his hat off in the beginning of our relationship and then after about 6 months he did and he was balding badly. He also used to shave his back and stomach when we first got together and after a year he stopped and pretended as if nothing had changed. He also was very quiet and rarely talked to anyone other than his few friends and his family. He was a HUGE momma’s boy and would do anything his crazy mother asked him to do. His mother would treat me crappy and he wouldn’t stand up for me. His sister would do the same and he wouldn’t stand up for me either. He never wanted to go out or leave the house he always wanted to design things on the computer or play video games. He would only go out if I threw a big fit and whined to go out then he finally would but he would be quiet the whole time and wouldn’t really have a good time. He was way too into collecting video games ones he didn’t even play. And Magic the Gathering (that’s a kiddie game!) and he still played it and tried to make me play it with him and friends. And he also collected alcohol. He thought that buying stuff would solve his and my problems. He wasn’t abusive but he would talk down to me sometimes. But mostly he was a door mat. He let anyone and everyone walk all over him. It was not a relationship it was like dating your brother who is bald coated in back hair buying you whatever you want if you fuss enough. Some may say the perfect man.. I say a furry door mat.
Michael Alter. Known alias : Mike. from Burlington IA. He is a little guy with that standard little man complext try to act tough and pretend you’re bigger and badder than any other man around. Though he’s not. When we dated he smoked pot everyday & then some. He would also drink all the time and drive while drunk. I’m suprised he didn’t get caught. He tried to make me be friends with all his ex-girlfriends and tried to get me to have threesomes with him and some of the ex-girlfriends and would be angry when I refused. He would boss me around and try to make me not hang out with my friends. He tried to turn me against my friends sometimes it worked. He would be rude and mean to my friends so they wouldn’t come over. I took care of him and the bills while we lived together and he barely did anything. The longest job he held while we were together was mowing lawns for a guy who paid him in beer & pot. He was the biggest momma’s boy ever and would do anything his mom asked him to do at the drop of a hat. His mom was a big druggie so she would ask him for help all the time up to 20 times a day! He would try to belittle me and call me names a lot and make me feel like I wasn’t worthy of him. He would try and act like he was smarter than me all of the time. He would lie to me say he got fired from a job when he really quit. He would take 2+ hours to do things that should only take 15 minutes. Or when he would tell me he would be home at a certain time he would be 2+ hours late. He snooped through my computer and cell phone for ‘evidence’ which wasn’t there. He was verbally abusive especially when drinking. He was secretly bi and cheated on me with another man and now admits that he is bisexual but refuses to admit he ever cheated on me. He’s disgusting and a liar and an idiot and a momma’s boy still.
Jonnathan Hoffman. Known alias : Paco. from Modesto CA. Because he has a crazy ex-wife. 3 Children (2 which he claims) he doesn’t pay child support. He can’t hold a job for more than a few months and even then he blows his paychecks on booze and drugs. He is bi-polar and manic depressive. He’s a compulsive liar. He’s a stalker. He’s a cheater. He’s mentally and physically abusive. He plays like he’s romantic and a charmer and once you get to know him he will control your life and remove all your friends from it (by threatening them) and he will even stalk your family. He has left dirty messages on my sister & mother’s answering machines. When I first got rid of him (for almost choking me to death) he would call my cell phone 40+ times a day. He used to stand outside my apartment window and stare at me. He slashed my tires more than a few times. He had crazy druggy ex-girlfriends one pulled a butter knife on me. (Yes a butter knife) He didn’t have a license most of the time due to haveing DUI/OWI’s. He cheated on me with any woman he could get his hands on (he prefered over weight women or ugly women so if they would tell me he cheated on me with them I wouldn’t believe them). He made promises he never kept. He was violent and agressive. He kicked the window out of my car once. He broke a rocking chair once. He couldn’t cook and wouldn’t even attempt to try. He didn’t know how to pay a bill on time. He thought he was god’s gift to women. He thought he knew everything. He was a wannabe gangster. He even treated his only family like crap and lied to them as much as me. He pretended to know Spanish and claimed he was part Hispanic though he wasn’t. He hid a gun in the house and when I found it it was just a BB gun and he tried to make me believe it was a real gun. He pulled the BB gun on one of my friends and scared him really bad and my friend wouldn’t come over anymore. He still stalks me whenever he finds the means possible!
David MacEwan. from Siloam Springs AR. Where should I start?!?! How about 5 ex wives 7 known children 10’s of thousands of dollars in past child support and a pathological liar. Sure he’s prince charming when you meet him but it sure doesn’t last long!
TIMOTHY MCLEOD. Known alias : TIMMY. from TORRINGTON CT. HE’S AN ALCOHOLIC LIAR AND A BUM– HE HASNT HELD A STEADY JOB IN ALMOST 11 MONTHS…. I PAID FOR EVERYTHING FOR THE LAST YEAR I JUST MOVED OUT 2 DAYS AGO- PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DONT FALL FOR HIS CHARM AND INTELLIGENCE– ALL THAT WENT TO MUSH A LONG TIME AGO ITS THE ALCOHOL- HE ALSO THREATENS VIOLENCE WHEN DRUNK- HE THREATENED TO HIT ME SO I THOUGHT THAT WAS THE LAST STRAW– HE IS ALSO VERY IMMATURE FOR HIS AGE– I COULDNT DEAL WITH HIS ABUSE ANYMORE- WHEN HES’ DRUNK EVEN WHEN I DONT DO ANYTHING IM A BITCH A FUCKIN C**T … AND ALL I DID WAS SUPPORT HIS STUPID ASS
Steven Whitlock. Known alias : Steve. from Steve-o Witty. i guess the main thing is that he’s sexually abusive. son’t ever let a man do taht to you. i stuck it out for almost a year and then i got the guts to leave him. (i’ve been with my current guy for 1 yr 7 months) anyway he messed me up pretty badly–i still can’t go to a doctor without crying because it reminds me so much of the abuse.
Bradley Monebrake. Known alias : Moby. from Camden Ohio. He’s a big liar and cheater…Two face jerk and he will metal abused you and stalking big time. He won’t leave me alone when i tell him I am through and he threatened me with a blackmailed with a stupid dirty pic…He get accented on my cell phone when I change my number five-time and still does…no matter where you at he find you and stalked you…He talks other women without me knowing anything while I work and having sex with them..I had miscarriage last year he never paid the bill and won’t I am the one paid it for all…everytime we go out I am the one pay for everything he usually don’t and he is a mama’s boy big time…He gets me away from my parents and brainwashes me about them…I hate him for all the things he does and I never wanna to marry him at all I am glad I didn’t…He has tortured me long enough with his controlling and temper acts…He has no sense of knowing what love is all he know was lust and sex everytime I am tired of it..I wish he leave me alone and go away…I am through…..I want my own self back the way I was and the way I use to be…..Not like he want me to be….He will physcially mental abused you…..
Jeffrey Scamardo. Known alias : Jeff. from Lakewood Oh. STAY away from this guy! He is a liar a cheater alcoholic drug user and he uses people. He has never has a stable place to live and he uses people for a place to stay. I was with him for almost 3 years and he pretty much cheated on me the whole time. And the worst part I had no idea until AFTER I broke up with him. He will abuse you mentally and make you feel worthless. I was stupid to stay so long but i think I was just used to him. Ugh. BEWARE!
Anthony Montes. Known alias : Stoner. from salinas CA. MY EX BOYFRIEND BELONGS ON THE WARNING LIST BECAUSE HE IS A LIAR AND A THEIF.HE TOLD PEOPLE THAT MY MOM CALLED ME A SLUT TO HIM AND HE BROKE UP WITH ME FOR IT. I CONFRONTED MY MOM AND FOUND OUT SHE HAD NEVER SAID THAT. HE ALSO STOLE MY HEART AND WON’T RETURN IT.
Joe Fradl. Known alias : zukrider; the dread pirate Joe. from Dayton Ohio. This dude is smooth but beware. He’s a thief liar won’t hold a job for any length of time verbally abusive mistreats animals while stating he’s an animal lover and the list goes on. His FOURTH wife accussed him of child abuse of her teenage daughter. He’s a cheater. He will flash those big brown eyes and lie to you at every opportunity. He’s listed on multiple singles sites and has multiple email addresses and alias’s. I have listed a couple of alias’s. BEWARE of this guy. He’s nothing but trouble.
Brandon Medlin. from Last known Ridgecrest Ca. He blongs on this warning list because he comes off real sweet but BEWARE. He will act as if everything bad in his life was someone elses fault. Beware ladies he has abandoned 2 children already. He sent me and his daughter away to visit family. While I was gone he sold all my stuff for drugs didnt send me a dime and moved tweekers in my home. He left us homeless and to fend for ourselves and told me I couldnt come back to my home because there were drugs there. Where the hell was I supposed to go jerk!!! He has been in and out of prison his entire life. He can manipulate with the best but dont buy it. Big beware when I met him I owned a home and was financially secure. Now I have nothing just my daughter my dog and the 3 suitcases I left with. He will stick around until he has taken everything from you and when your sucked dry he will be gone.
Timothy Bomar. Known alias : Tim. from Davenport IA and Lancaster. Tim and I had been dating for about 3 months things were great he told me he loved me (which should have been my first clue right? and he went back to Ohio to help his mom out after she had surgery. So I hadn’t heard from him in about a month which ticked me off anyway and then yesterday he emailed me on myspace and told me he had moved back to Ohio permanently. Without saying a word. He also said that he still loves me and that maybe some day we’ll be together again. I doubt that.
kevin grazier. Known alias : kdogg. from kev holton. he is great in the begining. we have 2 kids together. we split up then he said he wanted to work things out. i leave my family which by the way are not talking to me because of him i move in with him then find out he found a new girlfriend and still lied to me after i found out. and i think all mothers can agree i got mad when he took my kids to her house and spent the nite and he couldnt believe i was mad. he talked down to me made me feel like shit. he is a cheater and a mental abuser so have caution with this one ladies. please no one deserves what he did except mayby his new girlfriend wich by the way knew about me
christopher ryan qualls. Known alias : ryan. from zephyrhills fl. this isnt my ex it’s my friend lizzy’s ex. he’s a drug abuser broke bitch and a total loser! if you run into him throw rocks please! this guy put lizzy through so much bullshit its not even funny. he has hit her raped her got her addicted to drugs and all kinds of other really really bad shit. girls please…. run him over
kurt spencer. from zephyrhills fl. kurt sucks as a person. he has no goals no morals and no good intentions. please do not be fooled by his “charm” (if you could even call it that) there isnt enough time or space to describe everything he put me through. i dont care who you are you deserve better than him. i know i do
Terry Heiden. from Chicago Illinois. Terry is addicted to internet dirty movies. He actually used my dead grandmother’s laptop to look at those movies. I also caught him using my desktop to look at dirty movies. Shortly after that my computer crashed and I had to buy a new hard drive. He also is a huge pothead and spends most of his money on pot. He never would go out anywhere. He’d rather sit at home and smoke pot while watching cartoons.
Patrick A. Ellenberger. from Apollo PA. He can’t keep his hands off other women! After so many years together he decided he needed a girlfriend half his age took the house all the money and even stuff that belonged to the kids! He cares about no one but himself! Stay away…FAR AWAY!
Ken Longworth. Known alias : Ken. from Kenneth or William Calgary. He Cheats!Doesn’t pay support for any of his children. Abusive!!! Into drugs and dirty movies! Stay away far away from this so called man. If you cannot use birth control and don’t allow video cameras in the house. He will film you without your knowledge and post it on-line!!!!
BEWARE LADIES!!!!
Eric Lee Morlong. from Fresno CA. HE”S A FU**ING CHEATER!!!!!! Don’t get pregnant by him, he’ll cheat on you while you are carringhis child.,
Christopher J alcock. from winnipeg. Just stay away needy needy needy. Dumped me twice before my birthday Nov 4th and then came back after feb 14th tell you what kinda guy. Blames me for everything and called my younger sister to comfort him. Needy jerk. Has no back bone when it comes to support and being a real man he also is a little creepy close with his bro. This guy will take all you got and then leave also a comittment phob and he will cry about how much he has been hurt give it a rest I say. if you want a real man dont look here.
Jovan. from Los Angeles. Really charming sweet guy at first. The PERFECT man… well look out! Total wanker! Manipulator liar cheater ego-centric ass and in a word… ASSHOLE!!!! Unless you like it when your boyfriend calls you a fucking bitch and if you like it when he throws heavy objects at you and if you like it when your boyfriend screams that he HATES YOU then STAY AWAY! He broke up with me when I stopped putting up with his shit then tried to beg me back and THEN the asshole started emailing my family members talking shit about me and how I dumped him for another guy!! Cheater liar manipulator heart breaker emotionally and mentally abusive PRICK!!!
Shawn Shippee. Known alias : Shippee. from MASS. I want who ever is telling Shawn that I have posted here to e-mail me! I did not post him to get even! I did not post him in a womans world because I wanted to deal with him knowing I was hurt! I thought it would be safe in a WOMANS world. I needed to talk and let things out. He conacted my son’s dad (They are great friends) about this. Who is the snitch that came in to men suck just to tell the man who hurt me things. It is woman like you that cause us to have these problems with UN FAITHFUL men. Are you sleeping with him now? He denies NOTHING that I wrote and if you want to be involved with him than you do that…you DESERVE him honey!!! So like I said..If you or anyone else wants to question my pain..than e-mail me!
matt. from toronto on. put it this way… 3 years of disprespect no appreciation put downs 2 physical attacks alcoholism cheating (2wice that i know of) checks out other girls while we’re together all around treated me like dirt after i gave him everything and did EVERYTHING for him… men are all assholes
Mark. Known alias : Giddy. . He made me fall deeply in love with him and messed with my head big time. Before I knew it he owned me and to me it was normal life…i still miss him but I’m learning to grow after all I’m better off without him:(
Pete (Piet) Van Es. Known alias : jack ass. from Gainesville Texas / Lewisville. He’s a cheater a liar a woman beater and a thief not to mention a known drug addict
Shawn Shippee. Known alias : Shippee or Shipster. from Haverhill Ma. He is an alcholic with a real dark side. He quit working when he moved in with me and cheated on me with a FAT FAT NASTY girl named BETSY (the cow) while I was at work. The worst part is I was her manager at Wendy’s. Has a violent record and has done lots of time…He will sleep with anything anywhere at anytime. He is now in Dover NH and has jus confessed while trying to get me back that he slept with his best friends girlfriend. Which ironicly enough I suspected he had done when we were together. He says no still saying that he just slept with her recently. He has some strong mental issues…stay away if you are smart.
Robert J.Dubois. Known alias : Rob and Bob. from Buffalo MN. Nasty rotten attitude.Cheater and a big fat liar.Stay away from him if you are sane.Insane people will make a perfect match.He loves old wrinkled women.Warning to all the nice woman out there;Run the other way if you ever run itto this cheating pig.
Terry Membrey. Known alias : scamking. from . Huge drug dealer heaps of $ and full of SHIT! Treated me like gold for years but I knew he was cheating with a speed skank as well. Addicted to heroin for a bit then back to speed coke and smoke. Lies cheats very insecure IMO b/c he cried when I moved but DID DIRTY SHIT TO ME ! BAD BAD BAD If u like drugs and cheaters u will like him but he is a loser n wankstick after the shit i went thru due to him.
Muhammed Aldeen. Known alias : Moe. from Milpitas CA. Very charming and perfect man for the first couple of months. He is an extremist muslim abusive cheater and bipolar. A compulsive lier.Very cheap also
Rocky G. Known alias : ROK. from Orange CA. He’s a USER Liar & Cheater. He is selfish & stubburn. He doesnt care about anybody but himself. He thinks he can play with girls minds & it works for him. Watch out– He’s nice looking but he’s the DEVIL!
Mike Jones. from SALEMNH. He likes the DIRTY GIRLS better than real women. Women beware….he might seem sweet but he is a liar cheat and will tell you more excuses on why he did not call or why he could not make it!!
Brian Edmondson. Known alias : Brian. from Broomall PA. a liar and a cheater ~ same old same old!
Ryan C. Bush. Known alias : RyDaddy. from San Ramon CA. HUGE- Lier Cheater and Fake!!!
matt coates. Known alias : coates. . fuck me i dno if he deserves 2 even be on this list after hearin about the rest of them what fuckin wankers. matt broke my heart but he’s a saint compared 2 these guys. so what fuckin hope does that give us women if even saints cant make us happy?
Jeremiah Lynn Parker. Known alias : Jer. from Jeremy Tim”. He’s a pathalogical liar. He’s an adulterer. He ABANDONDED his wife daughter home job and all responsibilities. He’s telling everyone he’s divorced when HE’S STILL MARRIED! He’s addicted to adult movies and video games. He KILLED not 1 or 2 but TWELVE of my dogs because he was too busy jacking off to ault fliks and playing video games to feed / water or go home for 5 minutes a day. He’s been caught for PEEPING before but the cult he grew up in just hid it from everyone even though everyone knew about it. His new girlfriend JENNA has been told he’s STILL MARRIED but apparently she thinks he won’t do it to her. Sorry to tell you JENNA but he’s already cheating on you with a blonde! Stay away from this looser! He likes to hang out at rodeo’s and professes he’s a ‘GOOD CHRISTIAN’ but we all know that’s a lie! A real MAN wouldn’t have abandonded his wife / child / home / job etc! You poor women out there BEWARE! Unfortunately he’s good at lying in the beginning but all he is is a P****** addict a murderer an adulterer and an abandoner!
Matthew Coates. Known alias : Coates. from Chelmsford/Loughborough. Weak. Arrogant. Wanker. He said he wanted to marry me and two weeks later told me he decided he didn’t love me anymore. Then proceeded to LAUGH at me along with his friends whenever i got upset that he’d BROKEN MY HEART. He isnt a cheater but he’s a complete fucking coward who clearly loves himself far too much.
Christopher Johnson. Known alias : Mark. from Mount AIry NC. Warning ladies—–this creep has HERPES!!!
That’s right he is infected!!!!! BE VERY CAREFUL!! ANd warn all your friends!! DOn’t let innocent women get it!!!
philip parr. Known alias : axe. from boston mass. LIAR CHEAT likes to jerk off rather than have sex
Robert Mcgraw. Known alias : rob. from evansville IN. in the two years we were together he cheated on me twice and each time i forgave him. he hit me a few times and was a compulsive liar…warning stay away
Travis Koch. Known alias : Big Worm and TK. from Brandon SD. He is a compulsive liar a CHEATER and couldnt commit to a pet let alone a women. He married me and 5 months later said he didnt love me anymore. The whole time getting his ROCKS OFF everywhere but our marital bed!
Shawn Cobb. Known alias : roadkill. from Algonac MI. This man is a professional liar. If he gets backed into a corner and cant lie his way out he will turn the conversation completely around to make you look like your the one thats wrong. He is a player. He will lie about why he broke up with any ex’s and its all a lie. He CANT just be with one woman! He is on all kinds of perverse sex sites always looking for casual sex. He is a master munipulator. Ladies beware. Be VERY afraid. Its only a matter of time before this guy is spreading STDs all over the earth if hes not already.
Brandon Gray. Known alias : Mad Dough Boy (dont ask). from Kenmore WA. Total stalker
jason gola. Known alias : cousin 1. from bath pa. liar scarred women prob gay
but he is hott
dont be fooled
aaron gola. Known alias : gola. from bath pa. scumbag
JIMMY SMITH. Known alias : THE TRUTH. from STROUDSBURG PA LIAR . LIAR CHEATER MARRIED GOOD CON ARTIST!
LIKES TO USE WOMEN!
DONT BE FOOLED
P.J SNYDER. Known alias : PAUL. from BATH PA. HE IS AN ABUSER AND LIAR! HE TOOK ADVANTAGE OF MY FRIEND WHEN SHE WAS ONLY 14 AND HE WAS 21!!!
HE BEAT THE CRAP OUTTA ME AND GOT ME INTO DRUGS!
SINCE THEN I HAVE CLEANED UP AND LIVING A GREAT LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Alejandro R. Torres. Known alias : Alex or Alrotova. from Miami/Boca Raton FL. This guy takes the cake. I wasted 7 yrs of my life with a commitment phobe. Very critical has no idea about how to love a woman or be romantic. Massive trust issues with the world. In arguments will go out of his way to make you feel like you’re an idiot. Also he is an ex convict who only got where he is currently because of his Daddy.
William Lawless. from Lafeyette LA. He is a pathological liar. He is constantly looking for the bigger better deal while in a relationship. He will even go so far as to propose but hes never serious. He waits until the girl moves away then dumps them when he finds something better.
andy. Known alias : andrew. from Waxahachie TX. He is a liar he doesnt understand women hes too bossy and he just makes me really mad! I really loved him and that ment nothing at all to him.
Kevin. from New Oxford PA. once a cheater always a cheater. Lies. Fakes tears.
Jason Sexton. from columbus oh. He lies. He cheats. And makes me want to vomit.
TEDDY GOLDEN. Known alias: TED. from PEKIN IL. THIS “BOY” USED ME FOR NEARLY 6 YRS. FOR $ PRIVATE RELATIONS AND WHATEVER HE CHARMED HIS WAY OF GETTING. I WOULD MOVE ON AFTER HE WOULD SAY WE HAD TO END THIS. THEN HE’D PULL ME RIGHT BACK IN W/CARING WORDS AND CHARM. I WAS ALWAYS KIND AND A WONDERFUL FRIEND AND IN THE END I WAS A DIRTY GIRL AND TOO OLD. OH AND A MISTAKE. IF HE CAN FOOL ME W/THAT CHARM HE CAN FOOL ANYONE. STAY AWAY AND KNOW THAT HE HAS NO CONSCIOUS OR EMOTIONS. IT WAS ALMOST SCARING THE WAY HE YELD AT ME WHEN ALL I DID WAS CALL TO SEE IF HE WAS OK. I HONESTLY NEVER WANTED TO BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE LIKE THIS EXIST. EVIL IS THE ONLY WAY THAT I COULD SOME UP HOW HE TREATED ME.
Jay Sall. Known alias : Jiz. from Miami FL. Stay away from this one. He will chew you up and spit you out and enjoy hurting you over and over financially emotionally – in any way possible!
Trever. Known alias : Hotshot. from Babe Las Vegas. He’s a cheater!! He slept with my best friend in my bed on my birhtday. He has no moral beware he will cheat on you with someone close to you in any given time. And IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! He’s just a sex-freak (in a bad way).
Nicholas. Known alias : Nicky. from London UK. He had sex with my best friend! when i found out he begged for my forgiveness when i forgave him and got back with him he told his friends that i had begged to get back with him and then he went on to cheat on me with another claiming to me all along that they were just friends and hiding any evidence that proved otherwise…
He’s a good person and can treat a woman well but when he knows you feel secure that is when he will begin to hurt you slowly
BE WARNED!!!!!!!!!!!
nathan till. Known alias : nate. mean ol nate. from raleigh nc. we broke up and he moved out…everything good right?? no!! first off he moved out in the middle of the night while i was at work and he took a tv that he had given me for my birthday. he took the washer and dryer (no big suprise there seeing as how he took the tv) then to top it all of he had the power and water cut off before i had it switched to my name and without telling me! he just acted like a small child by getting all pissed off because i broke up with him. argh!!!
manuel antonio figueroa. Known alias : tony. from seattle wa. you are the biggest f*cking loser i know. i want nothing more than to bash your face into a wall so you can experience the pain you have caused me. Your are nothing more than sorry mother f*cking broke ass b*tch that needs to lie to people in order to get thier money. you f*cking told me you loved me so i could “filler’ up” with gas and so i could feed your fucking face that looks like ass. I cant even describe the hate i have for you. it is not only hate but also pure disgust. I cant believe what an evil person you have turned into. i hope your venom never gets within inches of me like when i have let you back into my life the many times before. you dont deserve anything not even your family. i suggest you run back to las vegas before you use them too. youre a f*cking creep and no one even wants to be around you.
Bob. from sacramento CA. He’ll lead you on until you finally find out that he’s been dating a man the entire time.
Juan Diaz. Known alias : Tito. from Chicago IL. Untruthful selfish inconsiderate insulting and can’t commit…who has since contracted herpes since the split-sweet.He’s a cop shoulda new better.
Urs Bachmann. from Zürich Switzerland. If you ever happen to visit Zürich DON’T hook up with Urs Bachmann. He had me writing about a thousand (no shit at least 200) short messages from my cell from abroad before he figured out that I’m not exciting enough for him…Geez and I was stupid enough to fall for him…He also gave me a bladder infection. So watch out!!!
Danny Koons. from Orange CA. he was so sweet at first and told me everything that i wanted to hear. the problem is that he lied about it all and ended up cheating with someone else in the same class as us
Kevin Williams. from Manville NJ. He isn’t commited to 1
david velez. Known alias : boriquen. from puerto rico and houston. this guy was so sweet and loving that he has me tattooed on him twice!! then he goes to jail for 11 months i wit like the good girl that i am and not even a month later he tells me that he needs to get his life on track without me in the way. when everything is better we will live together again. next thing i know i’m treated like the other woman because he found another woman!!! he calls and says he’s coming over to be w/ me and the kids and doesn’t show. only comes over if he wants something. Bastard!!! watch out for him!!! he think he has game!!! SIKE!!
thomas m hutchins. Known alias : hutch or micheal. from Austin Texas. I dated him for six months he kept telling me he loved me and everything would be better just trust him. Then he started to disappear without any explanation but that it was for his business. Yeah right he was out doing drugs everytime he could. Then once we break up he still insists he loves me does love mean lying breaking promise after promise being rude to parents and telling you to shut up? I think not. Then he gos on and on about how good of a person he is and how he never lies as if I have no memory of the truth. All the blame he puts on his ex-wife is probably nonsense too. I feel horrible for her at least I had the sense to get out but I warn you every word he says is a lie.
Nathan Nipper. from Indiana. Grr I am sick of calling my ex to tell him about his son and he is so wrapped up in these females that he cant pick up the phone for two seconds. He is a jerk and girls if you think about dating him he will treat you like gold till you either change something about yourself or get knocked up by him. He is dating this girl who is pregnant by another man but will not take care of his child. He told me to have an abortion when he found out i was pregnant. He is a chovanistic pig. not to mention he doesnt pay child support or even spend much time with his son.
Nathan Nipper. from Indiana. My ex belongs on this list because he is a pig. He only keeps in touch with his son when he does not have a girlfriend. His girls come before his own son. I think it is bull our son has asthma and has been really sick on and off he is only 9 months old. His dad thinks that he makes the rules and he can do whatever he wants. I didnt have a sitter this weekend and he decided that our son was my responsibility this weekend so i had to call off work. He is only a dad when it is convient and I am sick of it. Its time to grow up.
Eddie Senger. from Norridge IL. I’m actually writing this about my daughters father…we dated 4 a little over a yr. 10yrs. ago but shortly after we broke up I found out I was pregnant & so I told him needless 2 say he disappeared the entire time I was pregnant & was in his daughters life 4 about a wk. after she was born. Here we are 9yrs. later I finally got a court-order 4 child support that he pays (only cuz he has 2) but he still has not seen or tried 2 contact his daughter! He also has 2 other children w/2 different women that he does take care of!?! He also did cheat on me during our relationship! He’s a scum-bag that I would not wish upon any woman!
Ethan Zriny. from New Hampshire Arizona. He borrowed $10 000 from me and never paid me back. Then he disappeared.
Sam Mccready. Known alias : Sammy. from Owings Mills MD. This wannabe playa boy cheated on me in our home on our sofa and videotaped it over my babyshower tape…yes ladies he cheated while I was 7months pregnant with our son. It doesn’t get any dirtier than that.
Walter. from Tyngsboro Ma. MARRIED!! HE’S DIRTY PROB HAS DISEASES WILL SCREW ANYTHING. SELFISH INSECURE NEEDY USER NEED I SAY MORE?
solomon lee. Known alias : solo. from IN last seen in San Diego. he used me for my ammenities in my apt to do his law school work. then he stole my sleeping pills and on top of it i woke up one morning to him having sex with me in an uncomfortable hole leaving me to bleed and cry and he didnt stop for 15 minutes! yet every night i would try to end it and find him on my porch smoking acting like nothing was wrong! he is bipolar and very confused! he treats women like sex objects and then physically and emotionally abuses them leaving them in tears. he also maimed my car when i asked him to leave me alone! hes insane!
Tim Fitch. Known alias : Tim The Toolman. from Toledo Ohio. Well in the first place he is bipolar and does not take anything. Everytime something gets to serious or deep he runs. He waited for weeks to tell me that he felt things were getting too deep for him. So in other words he led me on and he lied. I HATE LIARS.
Steve. Known alias : Steve. from South WE. We both work a lot. We’re both busy. When I am busy I can somehow manage to think about him and even jot off a quick note letting him know he’s on my mind. But him? Nope. I guess it’s too difficult to think AND work at the same time. He sucks.
Patrick. Known alias : Crambert. from Sunnyvale CA. He is so insensitive and will start talking about other girls to you! He doesn’t care about anybody but himself and isn’t afraid to manipulate your feelings to get what he wants.
Mike Paahana. Known alias : mpaahana. from Waipahu HI. liar liar liar. He is a two timing liar that will cheat behind your back. Middle aged juvenile delinquent that only wants sex and will tell you anything until he gets caught. J & M watch out for this guy. He will take you for everthing you have.
Emilio Juarez. from Kansas City Mo. this guy is nothing but a liar and fails to tell women that he has an STD. and drinking Bud Light and smoking weed is more important. also talks down to women and mentally and verbal abuses.
Robert Scarff. Known alias : Robbie. . He is one of the sweetest guys until he doesnt get his way. Then he acts like a 2 year old and gets really mad and who knows what that guy will do when he is mad he is a completly different person. Also make sure you dont let him near your money because if there is one thing he is good at it is spending money.
Michael Andrew V.. Known alias : Mike. from Franklin Square NY. He’s married and frequently cheats. He’s has a truely good heart underneath it all but he’s sneaky slick overly-charming and a con artist.
Stay away from that mess…….
Dustin Allen Whitesell. Known alias : Dusty. from Indiana. First of all yes this was a gay relationship… We were together three wonderful years (or so thats what I thought). In July of 2006 I had my whole life crash around me. I was driving around town with a friend waiting for Dustin to get off of work. We pulled into the mall parking lot and I asked her if she heard about Dustin and Jenny. She told me that Dustin was having an affair with Jenny… Jenny was and still is Dustin’s bestfriend… I was crushed I didn’t know what to say what to think how to feel anything. Well to make it worse all his family and our friends all knew about it… Everyone had kept it from me for over sixteen months… I told him I could handle it better if it had been with a man.. At least I would have known it was because of me.. I have never felt so inadaquiet in all my life… He and I tried to make it work but all we did was fight.. I couldn’t have sex with him or even sleep in the same bed as he… I cried myself to sleep every night for a month… August 27th 2006 He and I ended it… We were trying to work things out when he met his new current fling… Dustin would call me and tell me he loved me and that he missed me and the whole time he was out with Bj… To this day Dustin and Jenny still have a thing going… They are inseperable… They work together they do everything together… I just hope his new bj is ready to live the life I gave up… I will always love Dustin but I can’t be with a dirty girl and someone I can not trust… He is a snake and he will never change…. Men and Women beware!!!!
Paul Campos. from Colorado. Goes on rages thinks everything should be about HIM takes control of your life then denies he ever did anything. A complete JERK. Throws vases and oranges.
james voitik. Known alias : JR. from louisiana/bowling green/st. charles/troy/winfield mo. my cousins husband. they are married but he cheats….he is extreamly violent!!! deadbeat dad has no respect for anyone!!! he is a liar thief and user! he can make anyone believe he is a saint….even after knowing all the stuff he has done he can get you to a point where you second guess the reasons you hate him! he is EVIL!!!
adam lovelace. from st. charles/wentzville/winfield mo. he is my sisters ex. he beat her physically and emotionally for 7 years. she has 3 girls by him her last one was concieved when he rapped her! she had finally tried getting away and he broke in her place and rapped her! she has been away from him for 3 years and still lives in fear! he is a deadbeat dad has never attempted to pay in any way to care for the kids. he is a heroin addict. he is extreamly violent and has no respect for women!!!!
Adam Fiscus. from Burleson TX. This man is seriously mentally deranged. DO NOT BELIEVE A WORD HE SAYS! He is a manipulator and can make you believe he’s a normal sweet guy BUT DON’T FALL FOR IT!!!
Byron Clark. from Fort Worth TX. Crazy! Crazy! Crazy! He will talk your ear off about how miserable his life is and how everyone is out to get him!
Andre Brown jr.. Known alias : Dre. from New York New York. This is my ex-boyfriend. Well “friend with benefits”. He is so lame. When we would make put he would call me by the name of his real girlfriend! Can you believe that D**** head?
David Alexander Thompson. Known alias : Dave. from he is English possibly in wisconsin. This is my ex He smells (never bathes) he is a paedophile he’s a deadbeat dad supercillious devious physically abusive and generally very crafty. he has no job and likes to live off woman he romances until he gets sick of them. he’s had syphillus. Don’t touch this prick with a sub space tractor beam. Im serious
Kendall Harris. from springdale Arkansas. Well in short he is not exactly my ex but he has brought so much grief to someone I love and some people I don’t but he belongs on this list because he hunts women (and girls) out on the internet or our local bars) and attacks!! He sinks his evil fangs in and before you know it………you’re hooked on his venom. Ladies..look before you leap..cause this leap is “relationship suicide.!!”
Mark Shumaker. Known alias : MasterShu. from Mechanicsville Va. First of all I am almost 100% sure that he is into underage girls!!!! He cheats lies steels and lies some more. I didn’t figure any of this stuff out until it was over!
Juan Mercado. Known alias : Johnny. from St.Louis MO. no respect for women
Juan (Eduardo) Balvantin-Rodriguez. Known alias : Eduardo. from Pito St.Louis. He is a deadbeat!!! I have his son who is now 6 years old he knows all about him and has even seen him a few times and now has nothing to do with him. He is a liar cheater and alcholic. He is definitely a sweet-talker he’ll tell you everything you long to hear. But DO NOT believe him he will HURT you!!!!!!!
Ryan Whittick. Known alias : Ryan. from Ry Oshawa. He was having an internet/phone relationship with his ex for our entire relationship. He got me pregnant and still continued his relationship with the ex. He was (is) a coke-head. He is a complete idiot. Stay away from this man.
Kelly Sexton. Known alias : Killer. from Oneida TN. He’s a lier.He likes adult film stars on girls anything that is that nasty…So run if you come acrossed him he likes to play like you hurt him all the time when it’s really him!!!
Henry Justice. Known alias : Justice. from Cleveland OH. Henry broke my heart. He not only cheated on me but I forgave him and we were trying to fix our relationship when he decided to up and move out. He played the chicken shit card and said it was only for a little while. It has been over a year. He leads me on saying that we will try to fix us but he is not doing anything but keeping me on his string like a puppet. If you ever meet him RUN he will hurt you.
David Whitaker. Known alias : Chem-D; Dave. from Columbia MD. Dave is a complete loser. He uses drugs uses women and uses his friends. He got back together with me borrowed money and stopped talking to me the next day. He’s a cheater and a liar. He owes countless people money and favors. I spent years with this jerk and I have nothing but a $300 debt to show for it. And he also doesn’t eat it if you know what I mean!!!!!!
RICK MOREY. Known alias : AussieRick. from ATLANTA. An Australian who is in the US illegally. He has no job; no career; no real friends; no family. Rick Morey hooks up with women on the Internet befriends them makes them emotionally attached to him travels to their city moves in with them and then relies on them financially. He told me a string of lies and sob stories; I was dumb enough to support this idiot. I guarantee that the woman who takes up with Rick will end up paying his rent and buying his food. He does absolutely nothing except sleeps all day and sponges off of people. Unless you want to spend your days being his bank please steer clear of him. He is bad news. He is currently living in midtown Atlanta Georgia with his latest Sugar Mama.
Andrew Reichel. Known alias : estevus. . He claims to be a good Christian boy who doesn’t believe in sex until after marriage and respects women. NOT! He screwed the hell out of me many times and when he wasn’t getting it he was online jerking off to ADULT type movies I found his login and password to several adult sites. And he had the nerve to tell me to stop smoking and what to wear. Oh and he is quite the alcoholic he is a smooth liar and hides things well. Lookout girls if you are talking to him and he tells you the “other girls” are just “friends”.
Derek Caputi. from Elicotville NY. He told his wife that after work that Friday in November 2000 they would go out for dinner. He never arrived home. He left a message on her cell phone telling her that he was gone. He went to meet his pregnant mistress in GA. I hope he is misserable the rest of his life.
Travis Lemon. Known alias : Stupid. from Maineville. He was still married while we were dating. he became an abusive alcoholic to me. Then cheated on me. His wife was pregnant with another man’s baby and she cheated on him while they were together.
SID CARSON. Known alias : Sidvicious. from Bridgeville PA. He was married and he said he was divorced. He lied and then he was with me for 5 years while being married and cheated on me with an old bitch. I was 38 and he was 49 and the lady he cheated on me with was older. To this day he is still married and seeing this old bitch too and who knows who else. Be ware
Brian N. from St Paul MN. He’s a head fuck. Basically he fucks with peoples hearts!
Sean. from oneida ny. he told me he divorced his wife because she is a drunk slept around and was abusive that he was fighting to get custody so that he knew his ids would be safe. That the court battle was for custody and as soon as it was over we would be together. I thought id surprise him and im the one surprised i went over there to find him with another woman and then found out he is not divorced yet his wife isnt what he claimed. and I wasnt the only girl. hes a smooth talker ladies but he is a cheat and a liar please be ware
Kevin Cossette. from Fargo ND. into adult movies total perv cheater LIAR golddigger user selfish jerk!!!!
John P. Suit. Known alias : Rick. from Ricky Bismarck. Liar Cheater User Manipulator plays mind games and gay but won’t admit it not even to himself.
Shane Lyons. from Wadsworth oh/barbertown oh. Cheater drunk crackhead professional liar
Jeff Dunetz. Known alias : gridney. . MARRIED supposedly RELIGIOUS cheater. Has attempted to legally hassle his victims. He even got a friend from their local police force to hassle any WOMEN WHO TOLD THE TRUTH ABOUT HIM. Big into internet adult movies and LITTLE BLUE PILLS. He likes to send pictures of his private parts to women. He is obsessed with relations & self pleasure.
Chris Spackman. from Newmarket ON. Pathological liar and serial cheater. Has gf and baby but presents himself as single.
Brian White. from Jefferson PA. Child molestor and expects you to be okay with it.
David Woods. from Bethlehem Pa. Child Molestor.
James Michael West. Known alias : Mike. from Pittsburgh PA. Huge stoner has no respect for women. Physically/sexually/emotionally abusive. Cheats constantly. Loves to make the woman he’s with feel like crap and laughs at her pain.