The Ex-Boyfriend List: Get your Ex Reported!

The Ex-Boyfriend List: Get your Ex Reported!

We all have that jerk of an ex-boyfriend we want to report, and luckily you now have a place to do just that. This is your very own bad boyfriend database, or as we like to call it, the ex-boyfriend list!

The Ex-Boyfriend List

 
   

The Ex-Boyfriend List, or the bad boyfriend database, the place where you can report your ex-boyfriend for cheating on you or just being a jerk. The truth of the matter is, we’ve all had a bad breakup – okay, maybe a few of them in our lives, but that isn’t what this is about.

Wondering what we are, all you need to know about us is that we are out here for girls who have gone through the worst at the hands of a man who didn’t appreciate them enough. Since our website is all about supporting strong women who have had lousy ex’s, we have a small surprise for all you women out there. A little snippet: It’s all about girls supporting girls.

What is the Ex-Boyfriend List?

The Ex-Boyfriend List is also popularly known as a database designed for an evil Ex. This place is for all you women out there who were happily in love with a guy who didn’t put enough and exploited you in ways you didn’t realize you could ever be used for.

From ditching you to making you feel terrible about a small task, cheating and making you feel as if you’re not enough, and even going as far as verbally and physically abusing you. You should know you are all strong individuals for having gone through all that you did. This site and its purpose don’t lie in the fact that we all have had a few bad breakups or seen someone in our lives have them. It’s beyond that.

Now that you’re finally out of the horrible mess and out of the relationship with your ex, you probably see him walk down the streets with another girl on his arm, and that doesn’t stop you from wondering if he treats that new girl the same way he treated you? Is he being overly sweet but hiding something behind his facade? Is he showing her the same patterns he showed you?

 
   

This database is for you because through this process that we have built, you can reveal the truth about him and save lives, and since we spoke about how we are all about supporting women, this is an excellent start to this initiative—wondering how it works? Well, read further to find out more regarding this exciting initiative.

Purpose of the Ex-Boyfriend List:

This initiative is solely out there to help all those girlfriends who you have personally seen suffering, or for girls, you do not wish to suffer at the hands of someone you know is capable enough, so revenge or making worthy and good men feel bad isn’t why we have taken this initiative. We’re all about a respectful man treating his women how they deserve to be treated, but this list is out there serving those who are not doing what they are supposed to.

So, if you are someone who’s planning to post about a guy with whom they had a bad experience? Here’s you do it? But remember to follow up the given rules below:

Rules regarding posting about an Ex:

  • No personal information is allowed! Personal information may include anything and everything related to the guy’s private phone number, address and work details, and even family details.
  • No false information is allowed unless you want your account removed. Talk about what your ex-boyfriend did to you but don’t make up lies. Come on, you are better than that.
  • Tell your story and give out respectful and limited details, keeping in mind that you give enough to raise red flags for the person reading it.
  • I repeat: DO NOT POST HIS PHONE NUMBER, EMAIL, OR HOME ADDRESS. Give his name, city, and state where he lives, and nothing more.

The Ex-Boyfriends list and its reach:

Are you someone who’s out and talking to a new guy and feel a bit doubtful? This Ex-Boyfriend List is the answer to your worries, questions, and queries. Worried that the guy you’re talking to at work ticks all the right boxes and wants to find out the real secrets.

You’re at the right place because through our database, you can search him up, and find out about him, and if there’s nothing, then you’re one of the lucky ones! But if you do end up finding anything related to him, you know your doubts were correct. Help is served, and this is how we do it, anonymously yet ideally.

Share Your Story With Us!

Let us help you relieve the mountain load of stress you have been feeling, and what better way than to help someone who’s probably with the same guy that is a reason for your trauma.

Feel better today and fill up that database; let’s help each other and empower and let these men know we aren’t going to be letting them railroad us. Get posting!

We’ve not gotten hundreds of entries on our ex-boyfriend list, so to help you keep up with all the names, I’ve made the list searchable. Just click the search button above, and you can search for an ex-boyfriend by name. If you want to add your ex-boyfriend to our list, just comment below and tell us all about him.

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Tracy Tegan
Tracy Tegan has spent the last seventeen years as a professional blogger about relationships, dating, and issues pertaining to gender equality at girl.pw. In her spare time, she writes romance novels that are available at Amazon.  You can check out Tracy Tegan's latest romance novel, Crescent Moon at Amazon.
 
   

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  1. Jonathan Boyd, Northern Ireland, Belfast. He went viral for beating up his girlfriend at the time Jade. He broke her jaw, teeth and ribs. It was realised in the comments that Jonathan Boyd has beaten numerous women over the years. Many are now finally pursuing him to stop him from doing it again!

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  3. Chad from Everett, WA
    He’s abusive and I don’t mean just emotionally. He physically harmed me on numerous occasions. I have scars to prove it. On one particular occasions he tried to end my life. He said that I was going to be on the morning news. He’s a truck driver. Tall ginger with a heavy set build.

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  5. Heliò Macedo Dos Santos from Potomac Maryland
    Emotional cheater. He had a bunch of screenshots of inappropriate photos of his female friends on his computer that they did not consent to him having. He follows a bunch of woman on social media (insta baddies and OF models) and i’m not sure if he’s aware his twitter likes are public… He also would film me during sex without my consent and I would only find out afterwards. He has a thing for white woman which he seems afraid to admit, all his female friends are white woman whom he admitted he was only friends with because he finds them attractive. Some of them are only his friends because they stayed friends with him out of pity after they rejected him. Spoiled daddies money rich kid who likes to pretend he didn’t grow up with a silver spoon in his mouth. He basically cosplays poverty and refuses to acknowledge his privilege. It’s giving male feminist who gets no bitches basically, so he ends up overdoing it with the liberal and progressivism. Professional gaslighter, lacks basic empathy and objectifies woman.

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  7. Bill Fetherolf
    This 65+ year old is nothing but a con artist who manipulates women. He is a pathological liar and if you call him out he will gaslight and try to turn it on you. He gets happiness out of lying and manipulating women. He uses social media and other apps to target women and ensure they don’t see anything he’s doing. He hides anyone he dates and ensures that they never get introduced to anyone he knows. When you catch him he lies about everything. He has to take drugs to get his dick to work. He sends you pics of his penis after knowing him for one day. He’s forever cheating with multiple women and doesn’t think he’ll get caught. When he does it’s because you’re snooping or stalking him and he never addresses that he’s doing anything wrong and continues to do it. Classic deflection tactic. Doesn’t apologize or admit anything and if he’s not getting his way or sees a shinier object he will drop you in a heartbeat. He presents himself as someone he’s not on social media and in reality he’s miserable and codependent on others to survive. No impulse control and no respect for women. Beware of this wolf in sheep’s clothing and if you find yourself unable to resist his initial charms just walk away because unless you’re going to sit in silence he’s going to turn on you the second he knows you’re onto him. First he stops texting and calling. Then emotionally alienates you. Then he just ignores you in exchange for someone else on his phone that he’s probably slept with before and is trying to go back to. Please be aware of this man and just avoid him at all costs.

  8. Tomas Hernandez from Wake Forest, NC
    Don’t let him fool you, he will tell you he wants kids with you, knock you up, cheat on you and keep manipulating you. He may not have a dad bod, but he sure is a deadbeat. Leaving behind STDs and hair. Thats all you will ever get from him. He will owe you money before it’s all said and done with. Watch out ladies, he works for uber eats, dont let him slide in that door or you are done for.

  9. Amine Bouayad from France, Algeria, California, and Florida
    Physical, sexual and mental abuse for 4 years, controlling, stalking and demeaning. Isolation, anger, spying.

  10. Blake Thompson from Franklin County, Missouri
    Liar. Cheater. Manipulative.
    Constant finger pointing and false accusations. Refusal to admit when wrong and takes no responsibility for his actions therefore never apologizes. Paranoid, delusions of superiority.
    He is man therefore he does not bend.
    Unappreciative.
    Will use all of this to make you the enemy while he pursues your friends and sisters.

  11. Ezzat Alhareh from Los Angeles, CA
    Ezzat Alhareh (real name Ahmad) is an abuser. In every sense. He tortured me for 2 years physically, verbally, mentally, emotionally, financially, and sexually. Stalking, controlling behavior, lying, cheating, false imprisonment, coercion, name calling, physical intimidation, cycle of violence—love bombing, rising tension, physical abuse, repeat. If I had stayed, I have no doubt I would’ve died. STAY AWAY AT ALL COSTS.

  12. Matt Matthew D Strauss from Denver CO
    55 yrs old. This guy is a compulsive closet alcoholic both on and off the job, unknown to me, he drove drunk many times dangerously with me and children in his vehicle. He stalked me, he is a habitual harasser, he has been through the legal system for harassment with multiple woman. His maturity level is a middle school boy, has an explosive temper, is abusive to woman.

  13. Scott C Webb from Georgia, Fort Collins, Denver, Colorado
    I dated Scott. He is insecure, controlling, abuses woman, habitually crosses boundaries, and coworkers that are woman, he does not like children, he lies compulsively, he has no close friends, he’s is over 55 years old has never had a girlfriend for longer than a 6 months. He is abusive in words, putdowns and in his actions, shows no remorse for horrible actions, lacks compassion or empathy. Threatened me when I went on a vacation with my girlfriends without him. He is habitual about requesting people lie for him, including coworkers. He does not have the ability to care about others, he speaks about woman negatively, dislikes and is strongly prejudiced against women.

  14. Steve Pfingst from Salisbury, MA
    Seems like the kindest, most ethical, loyal human being on the planet. My friends and family loved him. We were together for two years. Turns out he had been cheating on me for six months with a waitress at work. His ability to do so and show no signs of guilt makes me think he might be some kind of sociopath. Stay away.

  15. Timothy Francis Williams from Manitoba
    Warning !
    The lies and getting cheated on, I endured and overlooked because I didn’t want to believe that the person I uprooted my life for was not an honest person. We were engaged Feb ’21 and ended that summer. I will never again overlook someone’s 5’4 height, *sshole attitude and jealous insecurities. It was a big red flag in regards to “Little Man Syndrome”. Credit to the one time when caught his momentary truth of reason was because he “needs the attention” and has an actual sex addiction that requires therapeutic sessions for in which were not completed while we were together.
    If you do not believe/Look at his track record. He hurts girls/women because he hurts somewhere within his wounded unhealed self. He also hates his mother but won’t admit it. Watch how he treats her as well.
    ~”Waste of Skin”

  16. Angelo manuele from Phoenix az
    Angelo abuses children and women. Originally from southington ct moved to az with dying wife. Remarried and divorced. Leaves children unattended and to fend for themselves. Thinks he’s a big shot flying his plane. Has no money. He wine and dines women and then after a short time his true colors emerge. Has 5 kids. Will make women get abortions.
    On match.com saying he’s widowed but he’s divorced. Not Christian but quotes the Bible daily.
    Evil, evil guy. Stay away before he hurts you.

  17. Benjamin William Riley from New Plymouth New Zealand
    He has avoidant attachment and narcissistic traits. If you have something to offer him (status, connections) he will make you feel like the most special person in the world. He is incapable of emotional connection. He will lead you on and tell any lie to keep you. Once he doesn’t need you anymore he will discard you. Once you aren’t special he is cruel and mean.

  18. Giuseppe from Seregno
    É rimasto a casa mia per un anno, ha vissuto sulle mie spalle e non ha MAI contribuito economicamente, nonostante abbia uno stipendio, adducendo scuse su richieste di soldi da parte della sua famiglia d’origine.

  19. Ian Grant Armstrong from San Francisco, CA
    Tiny penis, very big ego.

    This guy can be manipulative and prone to gaslighting. If he’s dating another trust fund baby w/no real job (like him), maybe he’d be more respectful.

  20. Elijah Hernandez from Elijah Hernandez
    Early 40s.

    Has two phones, which is kind of sketch, considering he presents himself as single and only has a simple 9-5, paper-pusher job.

    Says he wants a relationship but is a liar. First date takes place in a bar, close to his house and he will ask you to go home with him afterwards! He will continue sleeping around and looking to sleep around some more, after getting what he wants from you and under the pretenses of wanting a relationship. What a slap in the face to find out a guy you think you’re in a relationship with is still whoring around and still talking to other women!

    Makes disrepectful and sexist comments about your body. The guy has a small member and is unkempt with all that facial hair, so to think, the audacity!

    Like most losers, also has a fixation with p*rn.

  21. Robert Knowles from Los Angeles, CA
    This guy specifically said he was single. He seemed like a nice guy but I noticed that he wasn’t very attentive to me and ended things. He didn’t seem bothered at all, so I did some research using his number and email. I found a wedding registry website, with a gift list and everything! What a shock! As it turns out, he’s married to Suzanne Cotsakos, the wanna be actress and daughter of Christos M Cotsakos (some rich immigrant dude, who did all the accomplishing, so his American kids can pretend to have jobs as adults).

    In my short time knowing him, I discovered that Robert Knowles regularly goes on sugar baby websites, which are known by women ‘in the industry’ as a place where escort clients go when they get blacklisted from seeing a reputable professional in that line of work. These are websites where johns prey on very young, vulnerable and financially underpriviledge women. The going rate for “companionship” or sex on these sugar daddy sites that Robert Knowles frequents is akin to street rates but the girls are much cleaner and are usually more educated. Can’t someone married into a family as wealthy as the Cotsakos at least pay appropriately, the sad women on these sites? The whole thing is disgusting.

    Robert Knowles makes the entire Cotsakos family look bad!

  22. Zach Obrien from Los Angeles, CA/Santa Barbara, CA/Eugene, Oregon
    Just some trust fund kid who tries to pick up strippers in clubs across CA, mostly LA and Santa Barbara. Even though he has a kid at home, he still tries to screw you without protection. Probably a cheater and has a few different girls he’s peddling at the same time. No real job, so gotta keep busy somehow, I guess. Went viral on Stefan Molyneux for the piece, The Dangers of Dating a Supermodel. In the video, Stefan tries to show this guy what a player he is. Super hypergamous. Chases after super successful p*rn stars and super models off cover magazines who need help from parents to pay their mortgage and have kids from multiple baby daddies. Took me a full year to get over this dude, even though we knew each other a relatively short while. I was incredibly kind to him and all he did was block me, after he got what he wanted from me.

  23. Keith Jansen from Albuquerque, NM/Houston, TX
    The dude loves to feel sorry for himself about his failed marriage. He neglected his ex, so she cheated on him as a way to exit the relationship.

    Like many men on dating apps, he will probably lie to you about deleting his apps. He will tell you he loves you in the first or second week of talking to you.

    One day you get some photos from him, which he sent to you at the very beginning of talking to you and you ask him why is he sending them to you again. He’ll tell you it’s his phone acting up. The guy is pretty materialistic (lives in an overpriced apartment and drives a porsche), so it’s difficult to believe that he has a malfunctioning iphone. The more believable story would be that he’s talking and seeing someone behind your back and the photos he sent to you were really meant to be sent to his new interest.

    When you have a fight, he’ll call you “too crazy for a relationship” to cover up why he’s really pulling away.

    He stonewalls. He deflects. He screams at you.

    He threatens you to stay away and he threatens you with the police. Not because you deserve those threats but because he knows you are a stripper and escort and the police love harassing marginalized people. You speak with some professionals about this matter and they say that threatening you like that, in order to instill fear, is psychological intimidation common in domestic violence situations.

    Eight months later, he repeatedly contacts you. Via email. Via text. And would not stop until a response is received. Once he gets his response and wastes your entire day to text you, he still refuses to meet up. Not sure if the dude is in a relationship and looking to waste your time for validation but that’s what he does is waste your time. It also seemed that he was texting for entertainment, while getting drunk. Not sure if this jerk has a drinking problem on top of not-treating-women well problem.

  24. Daniel Chadbourne from San Francisco, CA
    Never actually dated this guy because I knew he was married at the time. However, we worked together and I thought we were good friends. Little did I know that he was just looking to cheat on his wife.

    He lured me to his house once and provided drinks. As an inexperienced drinker, I drank too much and knew I wouldn’t be able to go anywhere afterwards. He then made ‘the move’ to get me into the bedroom and I didn’t think I could resist due to being overly intoxicated on the whiskey he’d given me and so, I did ask him to use a condom. He knowingly didn’t and claimed that it fell off. The next morning, I woke up and with the smell of semen in the air, I felt sick to my stomach.

    I disclosed this to a roommate, who had contacted him and called him out on his unacceptable behavior. His wife responded with protective threats. Little did she know, that he would call her fat and disgusting to me, despite her bearing three of his children.

    It looks like the guy divorced the wife he cheated on and talked badly about, despite all she’d done for him and has since conned someone else into marrying him. But what a horrible person!

  25. James Steadman Plummer from Albuquerque, NM
    This guy is a real gem, I really wish someone would have warned me.

    If he knocks you up, he’ll let you pay 100% for your own abortion because he really belives in women’s rights and gender equality and therefore something like that is the woman’s responsibility, kind of like pulling the entire weight of the relationship with him.

    God forbid, you get sick. You get diagnosed with a severe illness, you start on meds which make you gain 60 pounds on a 5 foot 6 frame,
    you start sleeping 18 hours a day and you lose your job. You are no longer useful or fun to him, so he will dump you. Why? Because he’s a real good guy.
    If you tell him confidential information about yoursel, rest assured, he will tell his entire family and all his friends too! He does not care about respecting your privacy or your safety.

    He has an uncanny talent for making you feel like shit anytime he does anything nice for you, like buying you a $3 coffee. Any little “kind” thing he does for you-you know, normal things people in relationships do for one another-he’ll throw it back at your face as a way to invoke guilt and feel indebted to him. While his privileged ass is already living off mom and dad, he may also manipulate you into regularly paying for him via your credit card.
    He seems to enjoy talking to people, women especially, like they are an ill-behaved dog or a child. Dude started verbally snapping and screaming at me very early on, until literally the very end.

    As a child, he had a history of bullying other children, with zero consequence. People DO NOT change. He’s still a bully.

    He’ll escalate arguments, so that he has an excuse to go cheat on you. The washed-up 40 year old especiallly likes cheating on you with “girls,” “still in school.” Classy, lol.

    Like many perpetually single men, he has an unhealthy relationship with porn. He will ask you to do degrading things in the bedroom.

    Speaking of porn, like porn and like many white American men and American-American men (read: uncultured, the-world-revolves-around-me mentality, hick), he fetishizes ethnic and non-white women.

    He will lie to you about deleting his dating profiles. He’ll just pay to upgrade and browse incognito. A man of real integrity!

    If you dump him (because he’s a real nice guy) or get dumped by him (again, because he’s a real nice guy) and happen to leave things at his house that you want back, he won’t be able to find them. Not because they are hard to find but because like in many areas of his life, he is simply too lazy and inconsiderate to accommodate a request if there is no or little benefit to him.

    If you refuse to give him his stupid keys back, he’ll have his mommy call and threaten to file a false police report on you. As if enlisting his mom in mortgage fraud isn’t enough, he also apparently uses her for domestic violence via psychological threats, too. Again, a real nice guy.

    He talks the Champagne Socialist talk about helping people and being kind but behind closed doors and looks down on the indigent clients he represents as a public defender, he says derogatory things about the looks of women half his age, he calls the family of his friends “a bunch of hicks” and he looks down on people who work really hard without mommy and daddy forking over heaps of cash his way and still have less than him.

  26. Josue Emanuel Ortiz from San Antonio, TX
    Just your ordinary PIG, with herpes 2 from all his whoring around. He’ll court and pursue you, until he gets what he wants and then he drops you. Then, he’ll blame you for his bad behavior because he’s real mature like that. As a matter of fact, the exact terminology is, “I’m not responsible for your feelings.” He’s very kind like that, yes.

    Also, he has a big problem with frequenting strip clubs and places of prostitution in third world countries because he’s just frugal like that, though some may call it exploitative. He likes gawking and laughing at and putting down the poor women trying to make a living in those places. He tries so hard to act Mexican but when he looks down at other people in third world countries, he ends up looking like a rich, entitled, selfish American-you know ath-hole, the kind that gives all of America a bad name around the world.

    Despite making a nice six figure salary, he likes to laugh at not paying his extremely reasonable co-pays. Like, it’s a power trip for him to laugh at not paying $45 co-pay for a medical service.

  27. Jeremy from McPherson, KS
    Liar LIAR LIAR!
    This guy can’t even tell the truth about what time it is. He will tell you whatever you want to hear and not a single word is true. He will look you in the eye and tell you you’re crazy for questioning him at the same time he is actively cheating on you. He is the exact guy that makes you think he is great, upstanding, emotional, “been hurt”, will do anything for you, loves his family. Beware! HE IS NONE OF THOSE THINGS. He will drain you emotionally and financially. He plays the victim while scheming behind your back. He also has a preference for barely legal girls. He is a predator and will think nothing of using anyone from his own mother to the checker at the grocery. He is disgusting and dangerous. He is violent and entitled. Save yourself from this giant bag of ducks and take a hard pass immediately. He is just gross.

  28. Justin Kinnel from Westminster, CA
    This man is dangerous and abusive. When we were together he was verbally, physically, sexually, and financially abusing me. He was also abusive towards my cat, and would put mine and my dogs life in danger with his extremely reckless driving. He almost took my life on multiple occasions and I am not the first partner he treated this way. I had to get a restraining order when I left him. We met at a Daft Punk cover night at a club, and he plays the role of perfect gentleman and love bombs you until you feel vulnerable enough to open up. Then he slowly weaponizes your trauma against you, slowly begins alienating you from friends, and becomes more and more controlling until he’s wore you down. He wraps it under the guise of wanting to help you and knowing what’s best for you. Do not fall for his tricks of coming off as an enlightened empath. Once he has you trapped, the abuse will begin.

  29. Dale E. Hunt from Pulaski Virginia & North Carolina
    He lies about EVERYTHING!! He doesn’t know how to be a boyfriend or how to treat a woman and he has NO respect.
    He will basically force you into a relationship and once he gets you and doesn’t have to chase you anymore, he loses interest and starts making things up and telling lies to avoid you. Its almost like he tries to get you to break up with him so he wont be the bad guy (but boy is he!) He’s nicknamed DECEITFUL DALE.
    He’s gross, has a teeny peeny, and he snores SO loud it’s disgusting. He is a narcissist, a manipulator and will gas light the F out of you to the point you believe you are the problem! He’s lazy, has NO aspirations in life, won’t keep a job, lies, lies, and lies some more (I can’t stress that enough), and bounces from house to house mooching people dry! He is the definition of a loser and a sorry excuse of a “man”!
    Most of what he told me about his past sounded so fantastical I decided to do a deep dive and found proof that he lied about all of it! FACT CHECK everything he says because most likely none of it is true! It’s ridiculous. I’ve never in my life met someone who lies as much as he does. He will tear you apart emotionally and quite literally make you question your sanity. He blames everything on a ‘brain injury’, which im not convinced even exists…It’s just an excuse for bad and unacceptable behavior. He will never stop telling lies, and if you let him in he will cause nothing but harm.
    Oh and get this….HE HAS NEVER BEEN A MARINE OR A POLICE OFFICER!!!

  30. Michael Drummond from St George’s, Telford
    This guy likes to tell you he loves you but stays on dating sites regardless while stringing you along. He likes to strangle girls. He likes to sleep with other girls while making out your the only one for him. He likes to splash cash on you, he doesn’t have his own home claims to be an amazing business man but he’s just a little boy who hasn’t grown up into a man yet. Avoid. Lives in Telford UK and is on Hinge.

  31. Angelo Manuele from Phoenix, AZ
    Angelo is a liar and cheater. He abuses children and women.
    He’s a psychopath and narcissist. He moves really fast to wine and dine women, take them on plane rides and get married quick before she truly sees what he’s all about. He has false info on dating websites, like match.com stating he’s a widow instead of divorced. He leaves his children, without phone and alone to fend for themselves while he goes out to get laid.
    Angelo talks about religion and godly this and that but is not Christian. He hates people including his own family. Doesn’t even talk to or see his sons, siblings and granddaughter.
    He’s a piece of sh*t!
    Run, I wish someone warned me.

  32. Curtis Sharp from BC, Canada
    Does not understand consent. Manipulates others in order to meet his own needs. Never takes genuine personal responsibility for anything. Constantly romanticizes the past and is rarely content with the present.

  33. Thomas Rodgers from BC, Canada
    If you encounter him, run. He is abusive – verbally, emotionally, and physically. He is a bully who uses narcissistic tactics to control. He is a scammer and uses others for money. He is writing a book where he needs to do “research” and the topic is about child SA and p*dophile subject matter. He is not safe and already has a guilty assault charge on his criminal record.

  34. Jeremy Hassol from New York, NY
    Jeremy is an ex model, very charming man. I knew him from a young age. Basically, I was duped.

    He came to me asking me to be in a committed relationship with him, after I had made it abundantly clear that monogamy and honesty were two nonnegotiables for me. I did not force him into a relationship. I asked him only to treat me with respect and be honest with me.

    I learned, after 4 years of being together minus two breakups lasting 2-3 months each, after we had at least 10 months consistently of what felt like a truly committed relationship with discussion of marriage, children, etc, that he was sleeping with multiple different women, going on cocaine binges, sleeping with s3x workers, ex-girlfriends and was lying to me for the entire 4 years.

    I learned that during the first year of our relationship, was having s3x with his ex-girlfriend while I was at my father’s bedside being present for him while he was actively dying. While I watched my father suffocate to death, my supposedly committed boyfriend, was having a s3x fest with his ex-gf.

    He is not a good person. I have come to realize he likely has anti-social personality disorder. He completely lacks compassion. He is not capable of truly caring for someone else.

    He wasted years 37-41 of my life, pretending to love me, pretending to be committed, knowing I wanted an actual committed (for me monogamous) relationship and a baby. We were long distance a couple of times. I moved for work across the county after one of our breakups and he continued to pursue me across the country, again spouting bs, and I stupidly got back together with him. While he was telling me he loved me and was committed, wanted to build a life together, the entire time he was having UNPROTECTED s3x with 10+ who even knows how many women, several of whom were s3x workers.

    We spoke every day for hours. He was my best friend in the entire world. And the whole time he was living a totally separate life that I could sense and he gaslit me and made me feel crazy for what I now know were accurate gut instincts

    He is a liar. He doesn’t care about others. He clearly has a s3x addiction. He claimed he was extremely sad when I found all of this, but 13 months later has yet to make any real apology, amends, or made any attempt to just tell me the truth and take responsibility for so deeply betraying and hurting me.

    I learned the truth in March 2023 when left his computer open at my apartment and before he went to sleep. I opened imessage and found years and years of his texts. It was horrifying. I realize this is an invasion of privacy. But I am glad I did it. I suspected something because one week before, he was showing me something on his phone and a video of him jerking off popped up and he tried to hide it, but I saw it. I knew he had not sent it me, so I asked who he had sent it to and he said to someone on the internet like a porn site thing. Which to me was heartbreaking and felt like cheating because it was an online interaction with another woman. Ans, I also could tell he wasn’t telling the whole truth. So that’s why when given the opportunity, i looked at who he really was by reading his texts. I don’t know the person I saw in those texts. He was so gross.

    He is s really bad guy. Stay away. There is so much more than that, but truly. The guy is a sociopath and does not respect women. He seemed to really know and love me and care about me. No one does that to someone they care about. I of course had a role to play by ignoring red flags. The s3x was great and all that oxytocin made me stupid. I wish I had walked away as soon as he first lied about something small instead of ignoring it.

  35. John J Jordan from West Seneca NY
    Has a pure anger issue against my 8 yr old grandson. Called him a little a-hole. He thinks only his son is perfect. At the same time he neglects his own son by over feeding and not seeking treatment for sinus and speech issues. Helicopter watching and controlling of all people around him. OCD personality. Very strong Anger issues shown in conflicts within multiple family relationships

  36. Cory Waycaster from Elkhart, IN, USA
    Cory is a master at covert manipulation. From his falsely laid out dating profile to his inability to genuinely have empathy for others (especially women). He resorted to gaslighting me after getting physically violent towards me. He lives with his parents in the basement and refuses to work a “9-5” or any kind of job that requires effort to earn consistent income. He is a cis-Caucasian male and openly displays misogynistic and racist sentiments towards his partners once you’ve gotten close enough. He refuses to make any effort in any relationship if it requires him to leave his dungeon- to the point where his mother turned to me to carry out tasks that he would never do within/outside the home. I can’t even explain the amount of emotional abuse he exerted within the duration of our “relationship”, but let’s just say afterwards these key words were felt by me: Depressed ,Used, Angry, Dehumanized, Worthless, Empty, Unloved…
    The person I was before the relationship and the person I was after the relationship was completely different. I didn’t recognize myself ; and didn’t recognize that I didn’t recognize myself until the aftermath.. I am not a certified psychologist but I can bet everything on the fact that I believe Cory is a sociopath and covert narcissist. I’ve heard the saying that covert narcissistic abuse is death by a thousand cuts-per Dr. Ramani’s words. But I believe they are death by carbon monoxide.

  37. Austin Leskow from Lexington, KY, orginally from West Palm Beach, FL
    I was with him for 8 months. He spent the entire 8 months pining over his ex wife, making multiple Facebook accounts to try to talk with her even after she asked him to stop contacting her. He also had a nude photo of her when she was still in high school. He also spent his time trying to find someone to cheat on me with. He was posting in local subreddits and making multiple dating app accounts. He also had some very sketchy search history on reddit, ranging from high school pu**y to chicks with d*cks and docking. These things should have been major red flags, but he had made me feel so worthless during our time together. He consistently called me fat and ugly, and then would be mad at me because I would cry. He refused to do anything intimate with me, and even when so far as to offer me up to his friends. The final straw was when his roommate brought a girl home from tinder and let her move in with them. Everything seemed to be fine until I came out of his bedroom and found them cuddled up in the living room, kissing and touching. This girl had literally just turned 18. He is so beyond manipulative, and is a master at gaslighting people. Beware of him. He is bad news.

  38. Justin from Lincoln Park, Michigan.
    He is a catfish and a liar. He used super edited pictures when we initially met on bumble. He claimed to be a musician and had a lot of pictures taken in a music studio. Turns out he was a SoundCloud guy writing terrible music from his bedroom. When we went on our first few dates, all of them were terrible. He lied about a million things. He was the person in the photos but was not well put together, he reeked like cigarettes, was missing his front teeth, and was living in a disgusting trailer with his grandmother while in his late 30s that he had never moved out of. For as long as we went out, he could never hold an intelligent conversation and it seemed like he was high out of his mind the entire time. This man is a catfish, a liar, and astoundingly stupid. He also pressured me into having s3x with him when I did not want to. The only thing he can hold a conversation about is his painfully average penis. Do not waste your time going out with him. He is what I like to call a hobosexual as well.

  39. Lugardo Chávez from Chico, California
    Is a narcissistic scammer. I had been in love with him but he dumped me and didn’t speak to me for two years. He was living with his parents and had the world’s worst job, but he had a job offer in Chico so I offered to let him live with me so he could get started. I footed most of the bills, supported him financially and emotionally after he got canned, and encouraged him to keep applying for the job he wanted, which he finally got. took him with me to Hawaii and New Orleans and a ton of other places, also on my dime, because I wanted him to be able to go. Hell, I paid for both of us to go to Detroit for his cousins wedding, and he did nothing but chastise me for perceived slights, and aside from the wedding, I was on my own the whole trip.

    Huge red flags, but he said he loved me and I believed him. Passive aggressive to the nth degree, wouldn’t ever resolve a problem. One time I didn’t want his cousin to come by after work (after 11pm) because I was sick and tired, and after that, he never invited anyone to the house again and denied it was the reason. I asked for help cleaning the bathroom ceiling because it was grungy and I couldn’t reach, and he started taking cold showers and denied it was the reason. Right before he left, I asked him during a fight to tell the truth about why he wouldn’t help me with this little thing that took literally 3 minutes a few times a year, and he said it “wasn’t his mess” because he took cold showers. At least at the end he stopped gaslighting me for 30 seconds.

    I never asked him for help with much either – like a 3 minute assist was typical. I took care of the yard myself (his allergies) and I cooked and I paid a housekeeper – he literally had hardly anything to do and generally wouldn’t help when asked no matter how small.

    His pathological selfishness didn’t end there. He lived like a frat boy, high every day from morning until bed, drunk several nights a week, and out sometimes every single night of the week partying and going to shows. When I asked him to attend a work party with me, he refused because he had yet another show he wanted to attend … despite that he had been out for the previous 7 nights and I literally asked for one thing, one evening.

    When our s3x life essentially ended, and I tried to talk to him about making it a priority over the drugs and late nights, he asked me, “what are you, depraved?” Literally never had a man shame me over my sexuality before, let alone for wanting to have s3x with him.

    He videotaped me without my consent when we were arguing (I was crying and yelling) and told me the day he moved out, so somewhere out there are videos of me at my worst, most upset moments.

    Then he moved out and ghosted me. I said I at least deserved some closure, but he didn’t think he owed me anything after all that and refused to respond. Plus a week after the breakup his creepy married uncle contacted me and tried to hook up. This dude and his family are creeps, steer way clear unless you want to be completely f-ed over too.

  40. Phil Femoyer jr from Easton, PA- formerly NJ
    Another ex girlfriend had already listed him below from 6/2023 and I felt compelled to list him again with updates and confirmation that yes this man is a pathological liar and plays the ‘good guy’ victim role while gaslighting you and lie to you straight in the face. He is a forty-something year old man-baby with stunted emotional development and will probably be alone forever. Actually, I feel pity for him more than anything. But if you’re in the Easton PA area – keep a lookout for this loser.

    Phil Femoyer Jr. is a covert narcissist who thinks he’s smarter than everyone — but is actually reckless, impulsive, and tells on himself through his mindless babbling and thoughtless actions. Phil has admittedly opened up to me before about cheating in multiple exes from prior relationships before I dated him — which these alone were obvious huge red flags. When discussed further, he justified his reasons for the cheating occurrences and then complained about each ex being “abusive” to him as if he was this poor, misunderstood victim. Also discovered during the second part of the relationship that he was already seeing another woman already for 9 months which allegedly overlapped at the same time as him and I in the beginning (who knows who else he was probably seeing or trying to see). I found out through the other woman directly after she found me online and had she not have reached out I probably would’ve never had known. He also exhibits severe anger management issues which came out slowly over time, but became quite frequent and obvious and a normal part of his baseline towards the end, right before I finally broke up with him once and for all for good this time. The anger seemed impulsive and uncontrollable, almost like his mask was just slipping off and he knew he couldn’t hide his true self anymore. I wonder had I continued to stay if it could have continued escalating. He would also get extremely angry at very relatively minor things that come up in relationships, for example him flying into rage when you are calmly and respectfully asking him what time he came home the night before, or asking any sort of question about what he wanted for the future (again, this was slight in the beginning but over time turned into overt anger and narcissistic rage) and then after his blow up, he would then blame me for “ruining his peace” and “being too emotional”. He was clearly trying to hide his true motives from being exposed, but again, isn’t even good at lying. You’d think for how often he’s been caught in lies over the years that he’d become a bit more skilled but he gives himself away quite easily if you are willing to look at the red flags and remain honest to yourself. Unfortunately, his patterns are to aim for women who have been in abusive relationships prior, or women going through a vulnerable period in their life or one struggling with some sort of issues in hopes of looking like her savior while mentally bringing her down behind the scenes (you can put the pieces of his patterns together easily while he’s complaining about his exes – again he gives himself away and isn’t even as smart as he thinks). If you do come in contact with him, trust your gut, listen to your intuition and don’t second guess yourself whatever you do. When you confront him in the beginning he will lie to you while staring you in the eye and you’ll find out later your suspicions were actually right on point. He used to live in New Jersey but recently moved to Easton PA. Stay vigilant of him on the dating scene as he’s constantly on those apps looking for a new source of validation and better yet, stay away completely if you can.

  41. Adam Opas from Long Island, New York
    I met Adam through an ex-mutual friend on Discord after I was invited into their group of friends, which consisted of their best friend, another couple, Adam and I. Besides the few people who would join sometimes. Me and him hit it off, I was head over heels and too in love to see any signs that anything was wrong. Adam would have me fly up about once a month to go see him, our relationship lasted 7 months, and through those 7 months they were some of the worst of my life. I mean this man stayed with me through my toughest hours, surgery and the like. He would do something, and always apologize but never made any efforts to fix anything. He was messy and unkempt and it’s like he kept it that way so I would continue to do those things for him. He would never let me say no, especially in situations where I wanted to and I had to either deflect or somehow wiggle my way out of basically being forced. I went over to his friends house one day, our mutual friend, because I trusted the guy and wanted to just hang out (not leaving them out despite our relations). It was the worst choice of my life, bad things happened and when push came to shove, I really thought Adam took my side. At the end of our seven months when we were having a rough patch and I came back up. He told me I was costing him too much, that I really didn’t know our mutual friend like I thought I did, and he didn’t believe me about what happened. I “needed a reality check”. He wanted me to leave and not even call my mother and tell her anything. He got very pissed off and left when I did, and I felt unsafe from what had happened that day let alone having to live with the guilt for 3 months from what their friend did. So he blocked me immediately before even knowing I was leaving, when he left. I was belittled, made fun of, and got some of the nastiest messages from their friends after that. I was so heartbroken after that, and while I never wanted to run anyones name in the mud, I really hope no other girl gets SA’d and used like I did from these two men. You deserve better, remember there IS always better out there waiting for you. We do not deserve guys who act like little boys, we need *men*.

  42. Salvatore Abbatiello from Westbury, NY
    Sal is a narcissist, a pathological liar, and possibly has mental health issues. He latches on to smart women who own homes and have their head on straight. He lies about his past, plays on emotions and makes you feel like he was a victim in his past relationship. I wound up giving more and more of myself because I believe all of his lies. Next thing you know he moves in, doesn’t pay rent, or any bills because I believe he’s trying to get on his feet. I loan him money to start a business. We buy a boat together. Fast forward after 7 years of mental abuse, I finally break up with him and he tries to take me for everything. Attempts to come after my house, threatens to sue me, refuses to sell the boat. Blacklists me with all of the boat brokers and the marina. Find out he never paid the summer docking fees for the boat (since he wasn’t paying rent he was supposed to pay the docking fees). Come to find out he’s done the exact same thing to at least 2 women before me. He has next to no reportable income (runs a cash business). He hides his money from the IRS. And now, he currently has a new “victim” in his life who he is preying on. He free loaded off of me for over 7 years and used me to buy a boat as he couldn’t get a loan in his own name. He is now trying to take the boat from me – even though I paid the down payment and am 1/2 owner. During our relationship he did awful things to me – walked out multiple times and didn’t come home for days. Left me in Key West. Left me on Fire Island with my dog (had to take a ferry home). Has screamed at me and humiliated me in public and in front of friends (at restaurants, bars, and a variety of other places). He pretends to be a family man – but in fact he only cares about himself. He not only abandoned my kids – but then tried to take my house away from them. He is a fake, a phony and a fraud – so women beware. There is not one word of truth that comes out of his mouth. He lies about the small things and the big things – but he does it all while being charming. He uses his charm to suck women in. If you meet him or he wants to date you run away. Trust me. While it took me some time to actually do it, breaking up with him was the best thing I’ve ever done. I’m not regretful and my only purpose here is to warn his future victims – do not get involved with him and definitely recognize the red flags as there were plenty that I ignored because of his charm. You will be in for a very expensive and very hurtful journey.

  43. Anthony Ross from Jacksonville FL
    Anthony is a pathological liar and cheater. Found out that he was s3xually involved with at least 10 other women while we were dating. He does not use protection with any of us. He doesn’t take care of any of the 6 kids he has. He is a walking red flag!

  44. Ben Wolfe from Vermont
    I learned about narcissism after we broke up and I discussed his behavior with my therapists and counselors. He engaged in the classic narcissistic relationship behavior patterns:

    It started with love bombing, in which he gushed over how much he adored me and how devoted he was. Not knowing the pattern at the time, I believed him, and I gave him my heart like I thought he was giving me his.

    Then there was the future faking, in which he told me he wanted to move to where I lived so he could be with me (we lived hundred of miles apart). I never asked him to do this and never would have asked, but he came up with the idea and stated repeatedly that he wanted to move for me. Then later when I brought it up he gaslighted me on the whole issue, acting like he’d never said or thought such a thing. He seemed offended that I thought that moving was on the table for him, and said that instead he wanted me to move for him.

    Then came the devaluation and discard.

    I couldn’t understand how someone who loved me as much as he had claimed to could treat me that way. And that’s just it: someone who loved me that much wouldn’t. He had never loved me and it became clear.

    During our brief time together there was also nonconsensual sexual contact. At the time I was very religious and wanted to save sex for marriage. He said he wanted the same. But he pushed and broke my boundaries. He physically forced me to do something I’d never done before and wanted to save for my husband. Then walked away without even looking me in the eye. If he had, he would have seen how unhappy I was. Not that he would have cared.

    I consoled myself with the thought that he was going to be my husband. He said that was what he wanted. He was lying.

    He lied a lot. And not just white lies… nor only the major lies like “I love you.” He also told silly, pointless lies on more than one occasion as if just for the kicks of seeing what he could get me to believe.

    And of course, he projected his own character flaws, such as lying, onto me. We had an argument about something and he said he thought I was lying about a thing. I insisted I wasn’t, but then he said that even if I wasn’t, he was still right to assume I was lying! What a mind-f***. And that was typical with him. Lots of mental/emotional abuse and gaslighting. Everything was always about him. My feelings were nonexistent or irrelevant and stupid.
    He pretended to be humble but his faux self-deprecation was a manipulation tactic to demand endless emotional catering.

    He also disrespected my finances and expected me to pay for a lot of things that I shouldn’t have.

    If you come across this guy, please, PLEASE proceed with caution. He initially presents himself as the kind of wholesome, spiritual, thoughtful, down-to-earth man that many women dream of. But it’s fake and it may just scar you for life like it did me. I truly would give almost anything to have never known him.

  45. Damiano Fusca from Hermosa Beach, California
    Damian is so sweet and so charming, he says all the right things even agreeing to be exclusive with you. After more than six months I caught him with another woman at his place when he had said he was at work. Awful! Come to find out he juggles several women at once telling them all the same sweet lies. He admitted to me he has no emotions. It’s all about s3x for him, of course. DO NOT fall for his bullshit! He is a really good player..be warned!!

    I met Damian on a dating app. He messaged me and seemed genuine then asked to exchange numbers so we did. We talked for a bit and before long he was asking me to come to Hermosa Beach for a date. This was 2023 right before Easter so when we made a date after the holiday. The night before he text me that he had to cancel due to traveling to Pittsburgh. He would call and text me while away then when he returned asked to see me soon so we set another dated for May 10th. On that same day right around 12:30pm he asked to cancel, his brother wanted to watch the Lakers game with him so I said fine. I was discouraged now but he kept pursuing me so we met on May 12th, 2023.

    He was so sweet, charming and generously giving compliments. I fell for it. After a few more dates we were together on his bed and agreed to be exclusive. That was on June 2nd, 2023. He moves extremely QUICK!

    After months, every so often he’d have to cancel plans with me due to being depressed or just saying tomorrow would be a better day and promising to make it up to me. Sometimes he’d have weird excuses like working on a Sunday out of the blue all of a sudden, working in the film industry I gave him the benefit the doubt.

    Then this last weekend he said he was going to work with his brother on his show (his brother’s a comedian) that Saturday and agreed to have me over his place after 6pm Sunday evening (April 7, 2024) I looked up his brother and he had been in Cincinnati since Friday doing his shows until Monday. Damian was LYING!!!

    It’s an hour drive for me to get to Hermosa so I got on the freeway to arrive at his house around 6:08pm. I text him my eta 20 minutes after driving. He immediately calls me and says he’s working and so sorry but he won’t be home till really late. I’m so upset and crying, I already know he’s lying. A few minutes later he text me “are you ok? I’m sorry”. I say no and I’m still in route to his place. He, again, immediately calls me and confesses he has someone else with him who’s been there all weekend. I told him I’m coming over, better get rid of her.

    Once I’m there with him the questions and talking is on. Eventually he admits to having multiple parters he juggles throughout the week and doesn’t plan to stop.

    He looks for women to charm then manipulates and lies to get s3x and will keep lying and stringing them along to keep them available for him to have s3x with whenever he wants it.

    He also said to me he has no emotions, that he’s “a piece of shit”. I believe him now and wish I would have never fallen for him. The hurt is tremendous!!!!

  46. Dale Hunt from Pittsboro, North Carolina
    He said he was a Dominant, if you’re into that lifestyle. He’s as manipulative and as narcissistic as they come. He tried to keep me as a side chick while he moved to North Carolina from Radford, Virginia. He does nothing but lie about nearly everything while telling you the sweetest things. Be careful, he’s insane. (Also has an extensive criminal record.) Stay Safe, Stay Aware.

  47. Antonio (AJ) Russo from Seven Valleys, PA
    We were dating, talking about marriage, and told each other constantly how much we were in love and never wanted to lose one another. Things were GREAT. We wrote each other notes and letters, he sent me flowers, and I made him a basket of his favorite things. It was everything to me and he made it seem like it was everything to him. Then, he just GHOSTED me. Mind you, I was his girlfriend, not just a fling he was talking to. I was his screen saver on his phone and had met his friends and even some family (that one only through the phone). The very last time we talked, we were on the phone and he told me how much he loved me and was excited to see me for our date later that week. We went to bed and then woke up to never hear from him again. Texted him from another number and he responded right away. I don’t know what I did or what went wrong. Everyone I talked to just said he was psychotic and even gave off psycho vibes that I had just been oblivious to. I’m writing this because I’m mad but part of me still hopes he has a happy and healthy life. Just be warned, if you end up dating him next, he has a history of love-bombing and leaving without a word.

  48. Scott Ross from Fortuna, CA USA
    Scott is a narcissistic predator. I had to get a restraining order against him because he tried to kill me. He is absolutely a sociopath. He doesn’t really care who he hurts as long as he gets what he wants. He is truly the worst person I’ve ever met in my life. The first three things that he ever said to me, were all lies. He’s an alcoholic and a drug addict. He is also an IV drug addict. He’s also a compulsive gambler. He mentally and physically abused me. He’s tried to kill me several times. He cheated on me so many times. He hooks up with people from craigslist. Male or female. He doesn’t care. As long as he gets his supply. Several times when he was very angry at me, he would tell me I sucked other girls’ pu**y juice off of his d*ck. He’d swear (on the souls of his children) he wasn’t cheating on me, then get angry at me and send me videos of him having s3x with the girls he had cheated on me with. Twice he left me for another female and proceeded to rub it in my face and send me pictures of her naked saying “this is my new girlfriend. She is awesome. She treats me like a king. She listens to me when I talk.” He gave me an STD. Upon getting treated for the STD. And because he was cheating with men and women, I was told I needed a hepatitis B shot. 12 days after I had the hepatitis B shot I had something happened to my heart. And it threw me into lupus. Now I am chronically ill. I caught him on craigslist so many times. He posted almost daily looking for threesomes with bisexual males, and females, females who would trade s3x for drugs, and gay men. He is also very much interested in having s3x with transves*ites. He called me ugly fat old every single day for three years. And this list barely scratches the surface. He is a monster. If you meet this man, I recommend you run as fast as you can in the opposite direction. Everything that I have said is absolutely true.

  49. Bobby Goff from Caldwell, ID.
    Bobby was my BF and then fiancé for over a year. I found out he was full of lies, deceit, and cheated on me the entire time non-stop. Unfortunately, it took a year to find all this out. I had my suspicions but needed factual and physical evidence to back up my “gut feelings”. How I found out: I went to his house planning on staying five nights there. His ailing mom lives with him and she was excited about my stay. When I got there, he had been drinking prior and passed out on his bed. His cellphone was unlocked with an active text string that had naughty pictures displayed. So naturally, I took his phone and started going through his text messages. Come to find out, he’s been meeting up with different women at hotels, sneaking women in and out of his house, going to their houses, and meeting up with different women after work to sleep with them. There were 18 women (I stopped looking at that point) he was actively s3xting, and the majority he was sleeping with. I’m so happy I found all this out before I married him, moved him into my home, or co-signed on a new truck with him. I definitely dodged a few huge bullets. Ladies in this area, PLEASE BEWARE, he’ll love-bomb and breadcrumb you. He’s narcissistic and a severe serial cheater who’ll sweet-talk you and doesn’t care who he hurts physically or emotionally.

  50. Kenneth Andre Goolsby (Kenny) from Cleveland, Ohio
    Andre (as I knew him) has extremely manipulative and controlling tendencies. We were engaged for 2 years, in a relationship for 3 total and we tried to work things out for an additional year. In that last year, I told him 4-5 months before I finally fully ended everything that if he was seeing other people, I needed to know and we would need to use protection. He agreed. 4-5 months later I ask him point blank if he’s seeing other people, he told me it wasn’t my business. I then asked him if he was having s3x with other people, again, his response was that isn’t my business. I broke up with him on the spot and have never been happier. Don’t let him fool you- he has a lot of baggage and he won’t accept any accountability for any of it. His ex is always to blame. And he doesn’t know why he has such bad luck with women. I was engaged to him and dreaded the thought of marrying him. So glad I left- he caused a lot of trauma and was incredibly toxic in his approach to relationship building.

  51. Justin Smith from Vancouver, BC
    Justin Smith lives in Vancouver, BC, Canada and is 45 years old. He has been married a total of 3 times, and is a habitual cheater. I learned this hard way by dating him and he of course cheated on me. It wasn’t until after our relationship ended that I learned of his cheating past.

    I know he uses tinder and bumble, so if you are in Vancouver and see a 45 year old named Justin, approx 6’2″ tall and 190 pounds, just be aware you could be talking to a cheater, plus really a man who has been married 3 times, probably isn’t the type of guy you really want to be with.

  52. Chris Fogel from Foresthill, California Sacramento, California
    I posted in the ex boyfriend list awhile ago. Everything was true, but I’ve come to realize Christopher Fogel was in a very dark place. Doesn’t excuse his behavior, nor have I received an apology. He does deserve a chance to be a better man. I believe he can be. I’ve been in the same spot almost 10 yrs before. I was angry, vengeful, lost in a bottle, letting my conscience rip me apart. I was toxic to myself and to my loved ones. Thankfully, I’m doing much better now. I’ve been forgiven
    , I’ve been giving a second chance and am working to not be that person ever again. Christopher Fogel should have that chance as well. We all make mistakes, we all have dark times. Chris Fogel was in his. I wish our relationship was different but it had to happen. It made both of us face reality. A vail has been lifted in my life and I’m in a much happier place. More independent, I’m very aware of who I give my love and time to. He had to put in the work too. Now he’s clean, sober, working full time, no longer homeless and working on himself. I still have moments of anger but I’m working on them, I have forgiven him. Used the experience to become a better partner for my future relationships. I owe him an apology for publicly posting about our relationship and its turmoils. I’m sorry. Good luck to everyone and thanks for reading this.

  53. Stuart Paynter from North Carolina
    This guy is an extremely rich litigator with his own Law firm in his state. Comes from a very privileged wealthy background, ivy league schools background paid by his grandfather. He goes on random dates lying about his marital status and his dating intentions when he is away on vacation. He is a typical male liar both by profession and personality. He is extremely irritable and entitled as a result of his privileges. He won’t care about your concerns or feelings one bit. And he will ghost you the moment he is does the deed once and or if you just tell him the truth. Can’t tell for sure but likely may be carrying a strain of hpv associated with cervical cancer. Rich tall white guy yea but don’t be fooled.

  54. Joseph Benvenist from San Francisco CA
    This guy is a compulsive liar who has very poor self control. Throws temper tantrums. He will lie about anything to get his way. He is deeply insecure and hates himself. Extremely needy. His profile on dating app says he is 7 yrs younger and several inches taller than he is. He is very irritable and angry and should not be trusted. His finances are bad, hardly works, will take x10 more than he gives. His nice and civil appearance is fake , don’t fall for it. He pretends to be many things he is not- super arrogant annoying cant stop talking about his IQ which the very need to talk about it should tell you to run for the hills. Bad lover, ick. Bad personal hygiene. Spare yourself. He says “sorry” at times but don’t fall for it, he doesn’t mean it- he won’t change.

  55. John J. Gerding from Tampa, FL
    I have never seen a more classical example of a malignant narcissist in my life. He is physically, verbally, and emotionally abusive. He is a pathological liar that has no issue lying to get what he wants. I had to flee the house I furnished and a lot of my belongings in one day to escape him after four years of threats to ruin my life, and finally, bringing a gun into the house when he wasn’t legally allowed to have one. He is an attorney now, but he fabricated a resume to get into law school and had a felony conviction. I escaped him 5 years ago and am still undergoing treatment from PTSD. Nothing is EVER his fault. He pretends to be a dumb stoner (also an alcoholic and a coke addict at the time) but he is the most terrifying person I’ve ever met. He put his hands on me more than once and convinced me I had done something wrong. He is a misogynist looking for a strong woman to break. He didn’t break me, I got out and I know what he is, but I don’t know any other woman to suffer him ever again. If I’d know this site existed I would have posted sooner.

  56. William M Parsley from San Antonio, Tx
    William (from Arkansas with a masters and phd just to further identify him) is a serial cheater. Everything about him is a carefully constructed ruse to seem like an emotionally mature and great guy. He isn’t. He has no respect for women and cheated on me the entire 3 months we were dating. Despite asking me to be his girlfriend, and frequently calling himself my boyfriend, we never went out on a date. He’d disappear for hours and hours with no response or comment on why he was unresponsive. His friend Skilar is his cover, so if he’s hanging out with Skilar, beware. After one particularly absent weekend, he invited me over to spend the day at his place. He slept the whole time, after kicking out his friend (Brian) who was still there, and the next day I asked what his plans were. “Nothing today but I’ve got plans with Skilar tonight.” At this point I was done giving him time and space to back up his words with actions, so when his phone went off and he said it was his mother I knew that looking over at him (his back to me on his couch, cuz he was guess what, napping after just waking up) I wouldn’t like what I saw. And I didn’t. His plans that night were with a girl named Fabi. After he fell asleep, I checked his phone. Didn’t go all the way through it, this was a new experience and I was freaking out), but sure enough, any girl he texted was either someone he was seeing or was trying to. Telling them he hasn’t been in a relationship in over a year, things gotta go slow, he’s looking for something real, etc. he told me he loved me, that I was special, etc but now that the blinders are off I can see him for what he is: a narcissist with a cheating problem. Knowing what I know, it’s not much of a stretch to say he was cheating the entire time (I’ve done nothing but go over every time he disappeared or said or did something questionable- like sending me a reel of Scotty Doesn’t Know from eurotrip, because “it’s a good song”). He’s a narcissist, he love bombs, breadcrumbs, gaslights and manipulates women so he can sleep with whomever he wants to whenever. I feel like such an idiot, this man was definitely laughing about it behind my back with his friends. He’ll tell you he has some trauma that makes him super weird about his privacy and not showing up unexpectedly at his place even to surprise him. He’s 37 years old so there’s no growing or changing from that. Good luck out there girls.

  57. Michael Sullivan from Picton, Ontario Canada
    So my ex’s name is Mike Sullivan. He literally eats feces. I am not just saying that to be petty, but he actually eats poop. I was only dating him for 2 months and I had no idea about this. After looking on his phone, there were videos of himself eating it. I almost gagged when I was watching one.

    I asked him about it and he kept saying it was not him and he said that the bathroom that the videos are filmed in weren’t his bathroom and persisted that it can’t be him, completely denying the fact that it very clearly was him in the videos, and being oblivious to the fact that these types of videos are even on his phone to begin with.

    I just basically kept saying “So whose bathroom is it then Michael?” and he said “I don’t know, not mine”.

    I scrolled through his phone some more and there was a video that showed him in the exact same shirt that he wore 2 days prior. The video starts with him taking his shirt off and then eating feces from the toilet.

    So long story short, he ended up admitting it was him in the videos, saying that he was posting them online to make extra money in the “adult market”.

    The fact is that he is a liar and kept something as serious as this from me. Everyone might have their kinks but someone who eats shit is not something I am prepared to deal with. It doesn’t make sense that someone is going to post it for the “adult market” if they don’t already enjoy that type of thing. It is clearly his fetish and he wanted to keep it from me.

  58. Gregory Miller from Canton, Michigan
    He had been divorced for about 2 years. He still had/has pics of his ex wife on social media and his phone. From day 1, he’d assure me that he’s moved on from her. Months into our relationship, I find out that his ex is still on his phone plan and hadn’t paid her portion in months. I tell my ex that I’m not comfortable with the pictures and sharing the phone plan. He states I’m insecure and that I need to trust him. We compromise with the pics, to take them off of social media and put them on a flash drive. He stated he also contacted his ex about the phone plan. A week goes by, and nothing is done. I bring it to his attention again. He states that he changed his mind and that I’m insecure. I told him he needs to choose between her or me. He said he’d think about it, then ghosted me for 24 hours. Then I received a text from him saying due to his lack of letting go of the past and my insecurities, he felt there was no need to continue our relationship. He also added, “I had a lot of fun with you. Sorry it didn’t work out.” Throughout our relationship, he said he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. The next day, he texted me asking for the s3x toys he gifted me for Valentine’s Day. I threw all his stuff out my front door, including every single thing that reminded me of him. I’ve also deleted all pics of him and blocked him on everything. Women, beware of this man. He’s a sweet talker and claims to be a Christian. He will make you feel vulnerable and hurt.

  59. Thomas Gilliford from Denver, Colorado
    Found Tom on Groupon offering massage, back in 2014/2015. Went to him for a few sessions, always borderline flirty, but nothing happened. Reconnected with him years later when we matched on a dating site and dated for a few months. Lots of red flags, like he always had strange times he could meet up, didn’t like to be seen shirtless with the light on. Turns out he’s engaged and has a kid and would only meet up with me when his fiancé was out of town for work. I was super upset but looking back it all makes sense… he definitely has a serial cheater kind of vibe.

  60. Nicholas Scott Berger from Leesburg Florida
    Narcissist, energy vampire, possibly soulless, plays victim but no YOU will be victimized. Weapons grade manipulations, emotional black hole. Lies, steals, destroys. Will only take and give almost nothing back once he’s got you mind messed up with gaslighting, denying truth, blame shifting. Biblically he is a Mocker, a Scorner often driving others to anger and rage. Attempts to get women in compromising situations if he can easily do so and then condemns her. Sitting with this man may lead to your demonic possession.

    The love of God is not in him. Protect your energy or you will get drained fast. Don’t believe future faking. He is attuned to your feelings but only has feelings of hatred to devalue you. He always has more supply lined up in case you don’t feed his ego well enough. Don’t believe you’re his sunshine or that he wants someone to grow with. He’s not a real boy but he’s 43 and lives with his parents with his teenage son. He needs a woman to make his material and lusty day. If you don’t enable his antics or accept that he’s perfect and you need to change. Good Luck!

    Watch how he treats people in the world. That will be YOU the moment you are devalued.

  61. Qies Hadeed from Allentown, PA
    This is a man who is still a little boy concerned with reputation and not character. He will lie cheat and tell you what you want to hear use a woman till he is tired and moves on. He lives his life by wearing different masks showing certain parts to certain to people but never the truth. He is concerned with his name brand cloths, his appearance of how wonderful he is on the outside, he loves his social media photos and videos of all his travels but will try to hide you in his secret life not post pictures of the two of you by telling you lies which somehow you’ll believe.

    He has many addictions such as gambling, online shopping to feel better about his image spending thousands weekly on high end brands and even addicted to s3x. He has cheated with his coworkers, he has many online dating profiles flirts and shares explicit photos. He has no friends no real hobbies and his only concern is to travel, document it share it online get as much attention as possible and feed his ego. This is a Narcissist who will charm you to your face but behind your back to his family and others will tell a different story.

  62. Brent Bennett from Chenango county New York
    If you want to be used, manipulated, lied to, forced into submission, discredited, degraded, made to feel worthless, useless, and filthy… He’s the man. You will be cheated on, and put into a rotation alot. You will be gaslit and bread crumbed then stonewalled. He studies psychology to manipulate people to get what he wants in life, mainly women. It’s easier for him to get women to keep the rose colored glasses on than it is men. Men can sense his ways much easier. So he is exceptionally careful dropping the mask around men.
    If you want to see some of the darkness, get him plastered with liquor. You’ll see sh-t you’ve never seen before.
    Run.
    Just run and never ever look back.

  63. Cody Hall from Lincoln Nebraska
    Lives in Texas. Stationed in the Army.
    I was with Cody for 4 years. Two of which we were married. When I met Cody he told me he loved me after two weeks and pressured me into telling him I loved him. We were on deployment. He had a 8 month old daughter at home. And he told me he wasn’t with her mom. That she was cheating on him and how terrible she was. He made me feel bad for him. Throughout our relationship I never talked to his ex and got the full story. I provided for Cody financially and emotionally. He was cold faced and showed me no emotions. I cried so many tears over him and rationalized the red flags. He is not in his daughter’s life as he should be, nor does he want to pay child support. I am the one the bought clothes and toys for his daughter. He hid his alcohol problem from me. Hes addicted to p0rn. He never posted about me on social media and hid me from his family for 2 years…
    I dropped Cody off for the army. And I went on deployment. He confessed to cheating on me 2 days before I came home. Then while saying he was sorry, he entered another relationship. He told her I was cheating on him and that we were legally separated… He broke me. I found out because she told me. Cody is narcissistic, has no emotional connection, and is selfish. He prays on women who want to be loved and who care. He has never been alone for 10 years. Before his baby mama he was divorced. I made peace with her and discovered that they were still together when he met me. Be careful. Check his phone. Watch his actions. And do not believe his words. He needs to do a lot of work on himself. He has not paid me any of the money he owes me. Do not give him money. He will use you. His middle name is Alan. He is currently 30.

  64. Wesley N from Bellevue
    He cheated on me for a childhood friend that came out of no where. He has been having red flags that I ignored. He never visited me when I had surgery and lied about being too busy. He often gives other people attention over me. And when we were together he always seemed absent. He claims he actually cares a lot but really he only cares about himself. He says his pet peeve is when his partner doesn’t have enough drive go make a better life for himself but really he has no patience and decided to cheat. He claims he wanted to break up for awhile but was too much of a coward to break up. This man will only date you out of convenience and will never truly love you. Do not waste your time on him like I did. I gave him so much of my love and he knew how much I loved him. He is very charismatic but do not fall for it.

  65. Shawn Hutchins from Epping NH
    He is married living with his wife. He was arrested and jailed in 2008 for raping multiple woman. He is cheating on his poor wife everyday. He is mean and very rough and demeaning. Be warned woman Shawn Hutchins is scary and does not know what NO means.

  66. Omar Quintero from San Diego, CA
    After dating Omar for over a year he asked to borrow money. I lent him $2500, which he promised to pay back but never did. After we broke up, we stayed friends. I hired him to redo the floors in my house. He promised to give me a good deal using his contractor discount. He asked me to pay for the materials and promised to pay me back the $2,500 he owed me by not charging for his labor.
    After a while, he ghosted me without doing any of the work or giving me the supplies I supposedly paid for.
    It’s been over 2 years and he still hasn’t paid me back.
    Meanwhile, he was lying and telling people I was pregnant with his child. (I wasn’t).
    After telling friends about him taking my $ and disappearing I learned he took thousands of dollars from another single mom. I think he preys on single moms and takes their money. He’s a narcissist who lies to manipulate others. Watch out!! Don’t give him any money or your heart.
    He is a contractor and artist in San Diego.

  67. Will Baez-Santiago from Georgia
    Did not care about giving me herpies! Denied still being married and let me pick up tab for everything. Lied to me and tried to sleep with my best friend.

  68. Matt Archer from Gaithersburg, MD
    He is a pathological liar and will never apologize. He is obsessed with staying young so he lies about his age on all dating apps. He will never commit. He always has several woman he is chatting with and sending nudes. Stay away from this guy. He is on several meds that make his behavior extreme and scary. Run

  69. Clay Griffin from Cairo, GA
    Girl, stay away from him. At first, he’s going to come across as nice and put together. Then he’s going to tell you that all of his exes are crazy. Google him is all I have to say! He is mentally and physically abusive. He will call you 500 times per day, and he needs to know where you are at all times. He has real problems. You’ve been warned.

  70. Nicholas Johnson from Scottville, Michigan
    Nick and I dated for 6 months, the first 3 were the best I have ever experienced…and then I had a first class seat at the sh-t show. He was filled with rage, took it out on strangers, animals, etc. It was like watching a child have a sissy fit when things did not go their way. Did not respect my feelings, pressured me to move in ASAP, verbally abusive, demeaning, manipulative. And the negative qualities continue…under average manhood, failed to give me an orgasm, ED, and wet the bed for 3 months.

    And rightfully so, I did what would eat away at him. Moved everything out of his place while he was out of town. I never said a damn word, he walked in and all my shit was gone. I do intend my post to warn others however, I walked away as a better, stronger woman. So, thank you Nick Johnson for making me smarter so in the future, I will avoid insecure douchebags like you. And I soundly sleep at night, knowing you will self sabotage anything good in your life. So if any ladies run into this half of a man on dating sites, just remember he can’t perform and will piss the bed every weekend.

  71. Justin Dean Smith from Desoto, TX
    I met him as he was dating a girlfriend of mine. I noticed his rage immediately when he would call or react towards her aggressively. I hated him initially because of that particular flaw. A few months later we become friends then started to explore something more. He is devilishly handsome and has a nice build to top it off. He is aggressive with his flirting and can make you swoon from across the room with that one look he has. I fell for it and things were amazing the first couple months. Then he ghosted me for a couple months. I ran into him again at a mutual friend’s and we hit it off yet again. For the next year and a half I was stuck in the cycle of being lovebombed then completely broken down by his verbal and (at times) physical abuse tactics. Me being a divorcee of 20 years I was naive to all of this manipulation. I stayed in a state of shock most of the time and feigned for the good times yet again. I would find where he would reach out to both male and females for ego-boosting conversations or sexual favors. He would also manipulate other women for financial gain as well as for housing. He also stole my underwear and negligees all the time so he could oil himself up, watch p0rn, and wear them while he took pictures and pleasured himself. He had no car, no drivers license, no high school diploma or college degree, no job or current job history, no home, no goals for his future and he had a drug and porn addiction. He was an absolute nightmare disguised as a night and shining prince with the chiseled face of a Greek God. He eventually discarded me after I maintained his phone/ food benefits while he was in jail for 4 months. He made sure to give me a novel long text and final-end review on my looks, s3xual abilities, and my overall character. All of which were lacking in his eyes of course as to why he moved onto another innocent victim. My life has plummeted since we started dating and every bit of “love” that he showed turned out to be completely fake. I’m left broken, confused, and mentally disturbed. Ladies, do not be fooled by Justin’s good looks and charm as that’s all he has to offer that is actually pleasing to anyone.

  72. Bryan Yaworski from Marengo, Illinois
    Bryan Miles Yaworski From… Flint Michigan, Rochester Minnesota, Marengo Illinois, Ocala Florida. We want people to know to STAY AWAY!!! Bryan Yaworski is dangerous! He is from Illinois, Florida but all of America should be warned, He moves a lot of woman in his home, because of the relationships he blows up. He gets so delusional and unhinged after falling in love that he is terrifying despite his small build. He can be very charming and charismatic at first, and the woman that have been with him are fine as long as it is casual but as soon as he catches feelings a switch flips and he becomes a controlling narcissistic Monster. Please be careful! I’m terrified he is going to kill a woman one of these days. He gets completely irrational and stuck in his own delusional reality. Don’t get sucked in by his seemingly cool lifestyle it is all a mask he wears to hide his black pit of a soul. Please don’t fall for it. He will manipulate and control you.
 Police are always escorting woman out of his home. Bryan’s own mother with gaslight. Ps. If you are unlucky enough to have known him like this all of his exes have been in contact with each other and shared our horror stories about him. It’s pretty therapeutic so reach out if you think it would help, unfortunately we all know where you have been.

  73. Paul from Kalamazoo, Michigan

    He’s a cheating, closeted man who isn’t smart. He was amazing in the bedroom most of the time, but he’s a narcissistic sociopath!

    The moment you start suspecting he’s cheating and even get proof, he’ll act like you’re crazy-even with proof. When I broke up with him he stalked me, my family members (called my mom), contacted my ex husband, etc. I had to remove my social media.

    He’s a bald headed, white guy who had an Italian dad. He’s got a black beard and grooms himself well. If you’re looking for a good one night stand-he’s your guy! If you want substance, honesty, stability; run…as fast as you can!

    Paul’s idea of a good conversation is talking about how he starts problems with his coworkers. If you’re really lucky, he’ll tell you time and again about “his” glory days; aka drunken younger days.

    He doesn’t enjoy being with confident women and he even thinks that he chooses broken women because he can help them. Of course his idea of helping a woman involves him sucking on the privates of men, when he’s not busy manipulating you and getting wasted!

    From Detroit, Michigan. He lost a wife to cancer but he treated her horribly up until the moment she passed.

    Every single time he talks, it’s like your brain cells die from how boring he truly is.

    Good luck and hope this helps another woman.

  74. Dennis Hult from Moberly MO
    He started off amazingly he was charming, caring, supportive everything u would want to have in a boyfriend except 1 small problem….he was married….he did eventually leave his wife and we began our 7 year relationship. Starting out like a dream come true he was there for me when I needed him, he would do little things to help make my day easier. After a few years it all started to change, slowly at 1st, he became moody more frequently, he stopped doing the sweet gestures he had done before, he would change plans frequently. I questioned him about it asking if everything was OK or if I could help him somehow. He blew it off blaming work, stress over seeing his kids, family issues. But as time went on it got worse instead of better. In the last few years he would intentionally start petty arguments with me, he became critical of things about me he claimed to have loved, he would randomly be “needed” in his home town to help a dying family friend, he rarely invited me to go anywhere with him, and I barely got to meet his friends. Fast forward to a month ago he doesn’t have a car so he asked if I would take him to his friends house so he could do a tattoo for them and he would find a ride home later. I dropped him off he gave me a kiss, said he loved me and would see me later that night. I haven’t seen him since, he has responded to 2 messages I sent (one from a fake number just to see if he would answer if he thought it wasn’t me, I have found out he has lied to his friends and stolen money from them. I also find out he has been lying to me about several random things throughout the years along with some fairly important things he should have told me about. I have been told he is strung out and messing around with his female drug dealer (a girl who he had previously lied to me about saying she was dating one of his friends which she apparently never was). He left all his belongings at my house including his “beloved” dog ignoring messages asking about her food and care even. He has blown off seeing his kids and lied to them about even why he hasn’t seen them going as far as to say I had said they couldn’t be at my house for various reasons. I literally supported him the last 3 years we were together and because of me his kids were able to have Christmas presents the last 5 years. It is the complete disregard to anyone’s feelings but his own and his cowardly choice of a relationship exit strategy that I want to warn ladies about. He will seem like everything u are looking for and slowly will become someone u don’t even recognize. He will use u for whatever he needs from u and will discard u without a second thought all the while portraying u as the bad guy. Beware ladies I wish I would have had a list like this 7 years ago before I basically wasted almost 10 years of my life for nothing.

  75. Jose Lugo from Staten Island, NY
    He is a narcissist and a liar. He will love bomb you and then slowly destroy you and take over little by little. He is a cheater in several relationships at one time, always talking to other girls and strippers while we were married. I finally left him due to violence towards me.

  76. Stefan L. from Williston, North Dakota
    Currently lives in Williston, ND but is from Michigan. Previously lived other places for military training. Narcissistic, manipulative, avoidant. (Admitted verbally to me to having narcissistic tendencies, that his attachment style was avoidant, and said he believes he has bipolar disorder). Verbally, emotionally, psychologically abusive. One minute was extremely loving and kind and love bombing me, the next was cold, heartless, rude, and acted like a completely different person. Lied a lot. Love bombed a lot. Pulled away a lot. Ignored me over Christmas without warning to hang out at a friend’s. Met a girl while there and then had sex with her a few weeks later just days after breaking up with me. Kissed a girl on new years eve just days after another time he had broken up with me. Broke up with me the day I found out someone very important to me had passed away. He has a lot of unhealed trauma and my empathy took over and I kept taking him back every time he would break up with me and pull away, as he would text and call a few days later and apologize and say how much he loved me and missed me and how much better he was going to do for himself and for me. He would falsely accuse me of all kinds of things – cheating, monkey branching, manipulating him, having an only fans account, talking to other men, etc. I wasn’t doing any of that. He was extremely manipulative himself and knew exactly what to say to make me fall under his spell. Will tell you everything you want to hear, to get you to come back, then discard you when he’s had enough, then he’ll come back a few days later to do it all over again. Never meant what he said. I never knew what mood he was going to be in. The littlest things could trigger him. I never knew what to even say to him out of fear he would get upset. Please stay away from him. He has severe trauma from Special Forces training, from his childhood, from high school sports, etc. that he has not healed. Claims to be actively working on healing which is another reason I stayed and kept taking him back, but that was a lie as well. Won’t take medication. Won’t see a therapist. Won’t go to the doctor. It was one of the most bizarre experiences. Falsely accused me of saying horrible things to him that I never said. And was extremely adamant that I said them, that he heard me say them. Almost like he was hearing voices or something. Told me that he’s had a dark entity around him for the last 10 years and it tells him all the time all these bad things to do but he’s learned to not act on those bad thoughts. Believes there’s a curse on his family. When I visited him the one and only time, which was our first time meeting in person, his apartment was a pigsty and he still had his ex’s clothes all over his bedroom (even though he told me they had broken up 10 months earlier). Even had a suitcase full of her clothes on the floor of his closet. Her bra on his bedroom floor. Her thong in the bathroom cupboard. Her prescriptions medication in his kitchen drawer still. Weirdest experience ever. Please stay away from him. He will use you to make himself feel good, then discard you like a piece of trash. Told me not to make noise during s3x because it made me a wh0re and men who want a wife don’t want a wh0re for a wife. Seemed extremely misogynistic and told me how much worse men have it than women. Seems quite paranoid. Lots of toxic masculinity present. He is hurting so deeply inside himself and needs to heal a lot before he becomes a safe person to be around or to give your heart to. He doesn’t love himself, and so he doesn’t know how to love anyone else, either. Hurt people hurt other people, and he is hurting immensely inside but refuses to help himself in the ways he needs to. So please be careful.

  77. Anthony Michael Shepard from From St. Louis, Currently in Portland, OR
    Anthony and I met on Tinder. We dated for nearly a year before he ended things by inviting me on a coffee date, which he explicitly said was just a date and nothing serious. I get to the coffee shop and sit down expecting a typical date, only to be surprised by him telling me he wants to break up because he “just realized he doesn’t find me physically attractive.” I asked him what he found unattractive, and he said “Nothing in particular, just not attracted.” This was insulting and surprising because when we first met, he said he was mainly looking for a FWB. He would make sexual comments, feel on me, kiss me, all the things to suggest physical attraction. He was the one who asked me to be his partner and officialize our relationship. All this had me believe he was actually interested in me. Additionally, I’m not ugly, I’m fairly conventionally attractive, and in all honesty, was the cute one out of the two of us. One sign I ignored was that when having sex, he would have trouble staying hard, but he would say it was antidepressants or he had a lot on his mind. At the time, I thought they weren’t lies, but that he was actually dealing with issues with medication because I have dealt with that before myself. Turns out he was just a deceptive attention-seeking asshole who, in his own words, “only liked the emotional and intellectual intimacy and time spent together.” ONLY?! I don’t know about others, but for me, those things are some of the most important parts. The physical will change over the years no matter how hard you try. This to me showed his priorities, this man is not looking for a relationship, he is looking for sex fantasies at the expense of substance. More so, he is willing to lead others on and play with their emotions until he’s done with them. I couldn’t handle my emotions at the time of the break-up and being in a public space was making everything worse, I told him that and he said he was willing to meet later to discuss so I could have time to digest things. I said I would need this and that we should end the conversation because I would just be yelling at him if I stayed. I messaged him the next day to ask when he was free to meet next, as I wanted closure on the situation. He replied saying that he refused to meet up because of how I “handled my anger.” Further stating that he felt like he was being belittled and disrespected because I called what he did “disgusting.” I was fairly calm considering things, but I did say that what he did is rude and disgusting cause it is. I asked if we could do a phone call at least. He refused and then proceeded to block me. Anthony Michael Shepard is a selfish, deceitful, a-hole, who uses people with no regard for the consequences of his actions nor the hurt he causes others. He hides behind this nice, shy, nerdy facade, but underneath, he’s no better than your typical f-boy.

  78. Jose Lopez from Rancho Cucamonga California
    First off he is a liar! He loves to tell you how as a Leo he is strong, there for you etc, etc., but he’s all in for himself. If you don’t live up to what he wants he makes you pay in emotional and coldness. He is totally self centered. He says he’s a great lover but he sucks. He has such a short temper and will embarress you with his mouth. He thinks because he drives flashy cars and makes $$ as a firefighter you should be impressed and he uses that to suck you in all the while telling you that you are the only ONE HE IS SEEING and he is A LIAR AND A CHEAT. He has multiple women all who don’t know about each other, quick to propose to suck you in and act like he wants to spend $$ on you but it dries up very fast!!

    I have caught him so many times my tears are dried up from all the times he broke me. PLEASE LADIES TRUST ME this 40 something has been fireman is not worth it. He will break you heart and piss you off with the way he treats you like crap.

  79. Carl Anderton the 3rd from Delmar, Maryland
    During this relationship, he seemed normal, until I found out he stalks his exes. Multiple girls had messaged me asking if I could make him stop. That was too much for me so I broke up with him. He threatened to rape my stepsister (she has down syndrome btw). This happened 10 years ago and he STILL harasses me. I have blocked dozens of his social media profiles and he continues to make more. About five years ago he tried to get me fired from my job at the time by pretending to be an upset customer and he filed complaints to my boss. Now he’s harassing me (and my fiance), saying he has “proof” that I cheated on my fiance.
    I have gathered multiple screenshots and pictures of proof that he won’t leave me alone so I can get a restraining order. But I want other women to know so they can stay away from this guy. I think he’s about 26-27 years old now.

  80. Santos Martinez from Santos Martinez
    Santos Martinez from Big Springs, TX who now lives in Cibolo, TX is using dating apps tinder, match to find and defraud his victims. He was pretending to want a relationship, then got me to start paying for things. However, he was messing around and has an std. Once you get infected and confront him, he will leave you infected and with all your medical bills. He was messing around with his ex and hooking up with other women. He will target women in Cibolo, San Antonio, Lubbock, TX, the guy moves around. He will use and abuse you, stay away from this guy and if you have been his victim report him to the police so this romance scammer can get caught.

  81. Edward “Ross Corristan” from Jacksonville Florida
    The form asks what I want people to know. I want people to know to STAY AWAY!!! Ross Corristan is dangerous! He is from Fl but all of America should be warned, he moves a lot because of the relationships he blows up. He gets so delusional and unhinged after falling in love that he is terrifying despite his small build. He can be very charming and charismatic at first, and the woman that have been with him are fine as long as it is casual but as soon as he catches feelings a switch flips and he becomes a controlling narcissistic Monster. Please be careful! I’m terrified he is going to kill a woman one of these days. He gets completely irrational and stuck in his own delusional reality. Don’t gets sucked in by his seemingly cool lifestyle it is all a mask he wears to hide his black pit of a soul. Please don’t fall for it. He will manipulate and control you.
    Be safe and good luck. Ps. If you are unlucky enough to have known him like this all of his exes have been in contact with each other and shared our horror stories about him. It’s pretty therapeutic so reach out if you think it would help, unfortunately we all know where you have been.

  82. Julian Kozerski from Salt Lake City
    This man has cheated in every single relationship he’s ever been in. He cheated with a complete stranger while I was home taking care of his sick daughter. I only learned after that he had cheated on his ex-wife while she was going through radiation treatment for her cancer, and used his child as an alibi.

  83. Marc leblanc from Regina sk canada
    Very very dangerous ladies ! Dated him for 4 years up until 2 days ago. Mental abuse so bad that I feel like I’m never going to be the same . Then I found out after all this abuse he has been cheating on me for 2 year with a girl from Manitoba. Her and I talk and she ran too . I should have ran earlier but he groomed me here are some messages he sent me and her messages to me. He was engaged to me but telling her he loved her. He was planning on bring her to Regina to live . I’m supposed to marry this man. Then he screen shot a personal message between us a while back to use it against me . Who does that to someone.when he got busted for cheating on me and then realized he lost control he went to the police twice to get a restraining order but had not worked . I’m mentally beat just hurt

    I’m seriously crushed how can someone be so mean , he called me dumb stupid bad mom , no one wants me . He would say shut up or get out. Made me drive home Xmas Eve to be alone as a punishment so I spent Xmas Eve alone and Christmas Day alone then emailed me to say Merry Christmas I love you . He would block me on social media and cell as a punishment but would email lol tells me cheating is disgusting but he was lieing the whole time . When you react to the abuse he would flip it and play victim. He made me out to look crazy but he was actually the one.

    I have been in recovery for 9 years and he used my past and threw it In my face when he got mad . You don’t do that you support the person you are engaged to

    I have tons of messages I can share with you as well as emails and then the other woman’s as well . He will mentally destroy you so bad

  84. John Wang from Caldwell, New Jersey
    Don’t even think of eating anything he thinks is unhealthy. The first thing he did before we even made it official is slap my face to stop me from eating a cupcake…yes a singular cupcake. He laughed and called it a “shock slap” he was very proud since it worked. He had thrown the amount of money he spends on our trips, gifts and food in my face. He loves to play double standard; what he can do like touching parts of your body are completely off limits for you to do to him. He will question the reason you’re putting makeup on. He’ll say that all your “700 creams and lotion don’t seem to be helping your face”. He swears that he can see your privates no matter what kind of pants you’re wearing and that makes you a hussy, he’ll flip out if you don’t post him on social media and change your status to taken even though he won’t do the same all because he has little to no friends/followers. When I told him that everyone on my friends lists knows him and that I hardly ever post pictures and when it was a picture of just me fully clothed that meant that I was trying to advertise myself as single according to him. He called my very dead and out of date Instagram a ho-ish Instagram because I didn’t have him name or photos in it..my account is private and I haven’t posted in like 7 years now. He will give you early red flags like saying if he doesn’t want to be in a relationship he’ll start doing thing to get you so upset you’ll break up with him, I don’t think there’s too much I need to say on that one. He told me that he thought about cheating on me but he didn’t so he deserved an atta boy for literally doing the bare minimum as a bf. When I tried to save our relationship from ending by doing any and everything be wanted he was cold, belittling and would use crazy tactics such as keeping me up at weird hours of the night to fight. He went through every single message, from family to my friends to even my nail tech. He accused me of sleeping with just about everyone…even my own family. I had told him of one guy that was abusive in my past and he threw that in my face and said that I called all the guys I’ve been with abusive, and that I’ll do the same to him. He demanded that I tell him every single person I’ve spoken to during the entire 5 years of our relationship. He took the opportunity of me being vulnerable enough to be intimate with him one last time to take an STD test in hopes of it coming back that I had cheated. When the test was clean and he couldn’t find evidence of me cheating he only go angrier as there was nothing to feed his delusions.
    If you talk to John from Caldwell in New Jersey he will make himself seem like a woe is me, soft boy that had his heart broken by some manipulative, lying, gaslighting cheater (all the things he called me to my face and behind my back). The real reason we broke up if because he saw old messages between my and an old collegue/guy friend that he didn’t like and accused me of cheating, he saw that me and one of my longest high school guy friends who he was ‘okay’ with had called and FaceTimed me a few times and when I couldn’t remember every exact convo he thought I was cheating. He went down that belief so hard he thought I would go back home to NY to cheat on him, I never cheated on this guy but he didn’t belive a word I said.
    So please be careful when you start seeing John Wang from Caldwell, NJ he’s very good at coming of like a nice, smart, mature guy but he really is insecure, controlling and very immature. Also ask why you never go to his house and he only meets you halfway or spends the night at your place/hotels. He lives with a weird guy that will absolutely make you uncomfortable and when you bring it up John will laugh in your face.

  85. Keegan Vandermeer from Denver Colorado
    We started out pretty simple, just friends with benefits. It went well for a while sleepovers here and there things like that hanging out and I didn’t really notice it in the beginning for what it was or what I think it was, but he would start fights with me by saying, or twisting what I had said, and then blamed me for starting the fight, and then would punish me by giving me like the silent treatment, and make me therefore react in a panic anxious mode, and then he would blame me for that as well after I reacted, and I didn’t quite catch on until the end of our relationship. Things would go up and down, but he would always start a fight with me, then blame me for it then punish me for it, and it really took a toll on me, especially when he would leave state to travel to do competitions. He would always start a fight with me while he was gone to just get a rise out of me and then use my reaction against me. He’s a total mindfuck, then at the end of the relationship when I guess he feared he had enough of me and was ready to move onto the next bitch. He said he couldn’t handle me anymore and that I was too much to endure when I was reacting to his reactions and then panicking and then he would blame me for my own reactions for him starting to fight if you can follow along. He’s a horrible lying on Reasonable human being and I wish I never met him but if you get with him he’s going to fucking manipulate you he’s going to try to make you feel like you’re crazy all above you’re gonna be the blame for everything and he will not listen to a single word syllable. Nothing that you have to say he literally has not Processed or absorbed anything I’ve tried to tell him to get to listen to me I even try to put a little presentation together for us to heal our inner or childhood wounds together and he just does not listen for shit. Does it care about anybody but he put me through so much emotional distress and then try to blame it all on me now you got me messed up Kid he’s a piece of shit don’t fuck with Keegan, Vandermere and Denver Colorado.

  86. Jayson Rodriguez from Fort Mill, SC
    The crap list for Jayson goes on and on. While we lived together, he started ignoring my calls around his ex (who he has two tattoos of, lied about removing over the years, and never has). I went to my parents for awhile one night he ignored me for her, then came back to a changed door lock. He changed the locks to an apartment we lived in I was paying half for. I banged on the door, and moved out the next day. As I was moving out, he stole my White Water Center sticker from my car. When I left, he owed me $900 for helping with an old tax bill. He never paid me. I accepted him working on my car periodically, while still occasionally sleeping together, because he totally refused to repay anything.
    When I refused to get back with him while he continued to lie: lying about being on dating sites (as he was telling me he wanted to get back together), lying about going over his exes, lying about not being able to afford to repay me, lying about places he went, lying about never removing the tattoos, lying about going to church – he then somehow blamed me for all of it. Saying he didn’t have a chance to keep his word, after two years…..
    Then would randomly block me – literally to go over his exes – then unblocked me.
    He came over one night, promising the world, doing a little what he promised, then left in the middle of the night as I was asleep.
    The cycle of him doing tiny things then disappearing, blaming me, lying to me, continued, until I left for months. Then one day said he could work on my car – only to find out he slept with me, and another person later that day.

    There are so many other shitty things I could say. Like how he got upset at me because I didn’t like him talking to his ex on instagram, promised to fix my heater (fall season), then kept delaying and literally laughed at me when I told him I was cold in the morning. This guy is a total piece of shit. I could say even more.

    If you’d like your crap stolen, to be cheated on, lied to, literally left in the cold – and potentially get an STD (he gave me BV), then by all means, carry on with this 46 year old guy piece of shit. Then lies so bad you feel sorry for him and want to believe there’s no way he could be that low – he is. And lower.

  87. Ralph burke from bronx ny
    Oh man where to start with this guy! Well loser! I was with ralph Burke for a long time until he broke my heart and played me for a fool. he has so many women! He thinks he is better then everyone but he’s not he’s a low down dirty shame. He wears glasses has a big egghead and is crazy and very sneaky! And his mom ruled his world. He was just mama’s boy. Heartless! He has no care for anyone in this world just himself why cause his a corrections officer at rikers island! Please. His mom made him get that job. He is a narcissist man. He will make you feel sorry for him but its all behind his mask! He has very low self esteem and his breath is not the greatest! But still thinks he’s better then everyone. He has multiple women I mean multiple! He comes off as a man you will always want but ladies trust me he is not that man you think! If you know better you will do better! Stay away from him. He lives in the Bronx. And he cares about his animals more then he will you. Now he don’t talk to his mama cause of what he did to her! But you can find his mama in the Bronx and ask her yourself who he is! Ladies please stay away from this man. He’s only with you to make himself feel superior! He’s not a man with true feelings because he’s so insecure! Don’t stay with this crazy sneaky man! Leave while you Can trust and believe. He hurts women’s feelings he plays you like a kid who out grows a toy. His sex is not great either! And his breath is just as bad as his sex! And remember he’s a sneaky narcissist man who preys on women cause of his low self esteem. His friends are hoes too! They all look down on women just want what’s in between the legs. That cookie. But Ralph burke is trash. A liar and a whore! Had to bring this man up. Even though we dated a long time ago and was still on and off he played me and he will do that to you! Ralph burke from the Bronx wack virgo man! Stay away. Never look back keep moving from him. smelly breath!

  88. Kenneth Schlueter from Fulton, Tx
    He’s actually not my ex boyfriend. He’s my soon to be ex husband.
    If you look up liar or cheater his picture will be there. He’s been physically emotionally and mentally abusive to me, if he’s not cheating you better make sure he’s still alive and breathing. He’s a thief, and has some odd undeserved power trip going on. He thinks he’s God. You answer to him but he damn sure doesn’t answer to anyone. He’s downright cruel. 14 years of my life- down the drain.

  89. Eric scarbrough from Tucson AZ
    When met him he had 2 kids that he had custody of and a good job. He was amazing, or so I thought. 3 months after we moved in together he “started” having money issues. When asked why he revealed that he actually has 4 kids. He slowly stopped going to work and lost his job. From then on I picked up most if not all of the financial burden. His children, especially his daughter were complete sociopaths and he was a covert narcissist. His children could do no wrong while my children were denied food and decency while I was at work. He would tell my children that because they had a father that they visited they could just eat there. He gave me an STD. I noticed it on his genitals and he told me he didn’t tell me because he didn’t want to give it to me. When I got it 3 weeks later he told me I gave it to him. Gaslighter to the extreme. Would say the shittiest thing and when called on it 30 seconds later would deny ever saying it and would call me crazy. Had a fun habit of waking up at 4:30am going into the bathroom and would start ranting and talking mad shit about me and my kids and would do it loudly to make sure it would wake me up. Was very jealous. I couldn’t go out with my friends without him and if I did would get a barrage of hateful texts. He hated my parents of course. Even though my mom would bend over backwards to help take care of his kids, buy them school supplies, uniforms, clothes, pick them up and drop them off. Never once got a thank you from him or the daughter. I became very ill at the end of the relationship. He of course wasn’t working and I could no longer work, my parents paid our rent and expenses for 9 months which only myself paid back. He would get on my phone banking app while I was sleeping and use it like it was his own.
    I finally got away but the damage has been done to my children and my emotional state. My children have forgiven me, but I can’t forgive myself for allowing him to worm his way into my life any psyche. I don’t believe I will ever be in another relationship. I will never trust myself to be able to find a nice person again. Plus he have me and STD that will never go away and I would never put another person’s health at risk.
    Narcissistic, gaslighting, STD having leech.

  90. Sean Gilbert Langley from Fredericksburg, VA
    Liar, Cheater, narcissist, abuser. He cheated on his pregnant girlfriend multiple times. Left her in the hospital with their second son who is in the Nicu..to go hook up with a prostitute. he has several DV cases and has several DUI cases. Doesn’t use protection also hook up with guys. Very dangerous. He will come off as the victim. That his exes are crazy and out to get him. But if you have talked to anybody that has dated him, it’s all the same. He lies, and he cheats. Only has been abusive with his wife and baby momma. Yes, he is currently still married. But will say he’s divorced and she won’t give him a divorce. Which is also a lie. Is behind over $17,000 in child support.

  91. Anthony J Graves from New York, NY
    Anthony is a habitual liar and cheater. He cares about his immediate family which is nice, but he is never able to see a bigger picture or follow through with things, leaving his romantic relationships to fall to the waste side. He has cheated in every relationship he has been in, and started our relationship the same way. He is afraid of commitment, shallow, only cares about material things, and is incapable of loving another woman other than his mother. Lastly, his mother treats him like her boyfriend. Their dynamic and codependency is unhealthy. He goes through vicious cycles, so please beware!

  92. Colby James Pearce from Plymouth,Wisconsin-USA
    This is incredibly difficult to write, but I am putting this out there in case someone else is put in this position. It took going to therapy to realize that I had been abused in more than one way, I hope by putting this out there that others can avoid him and learn the signs. Not all abuse ends in bruises.

    This poor excuse for a man:
    • Sabotaged my position at a place I used to work because he was jealous of the position that I held at that company and was jealous of the male manager I worked with. I lost my position at that company because of it.
    • Screamed at me for getting a tarot card reading, in front of 2 other witnesses repeatedly demanding I tell him what was said about our relationship in that card reading.
    • Took my sister’s pictures, without her consent, and tried to pass them off to someone else who did not have access to them.
    • Would harass male friends if they hung out with me without his consent.
    • Only allowed me to do things he deemed “alright” in his eyes. If I did anything that was not okay with me doing, he would harass me. ( On one particular evening, I got harassed for going to a concert in another state. I was supposed to meet up with my uncle and go to the concert with him.)
    • Became extremely jealous of any male friends that I did see or talk to that weren’t his friends.
    • Used me for my credit, then did not allow me to pay 2 bills when they became past due. Which affected my credit score. Financial Abuse.
    • tried to rape me on at least 2 occasions (4th degree sexual assault) while I slept. I woke up on more than one occasion to him assaulting me when I refused his advances earlier in the day. For this to stop, he told me that I had to agree to have sex with him going forward.

  93. Kim Rosenberg from Jacksonville, FL
    Kim Rosenberg is a woman, and my ex-wife. I hope it’s ok that I use this platform to warn others about her. While Kim was married to me (I’m also a woman) for almost seven years, she could easily now be dating men. While the gender she’s dating may change, her tactics will not. Kim is the definition of a covert narcissist, and she’s very hard to spot. I didn’t put 2×2 together until the very end of our marriage, and by then the damage was already done. Because I was the bread winner and we’re no longer together, Kim is desperate for a new main supply to pay the bills. Her desperation will put her covert narcissistic qualities on full display, making it next to impossible for the person she sets her sights on to escape unscathed. Education is the key to keeping yourself safe. Start with understanding the very important differences between an overt and covert narcissist. Overt narcissists are easier to spot and what most of us think of when we hear the word. Covert narcissists are much more subversive, they’re wolves in sheep’s clothing.

    Kim in relationships wants love and admiration but struggles to accept it long-term. Her ‘love bombing’ early in relationships transitions to a constant trial where you’re expected to prove your love in a situation where proof is disallowed and invalidated. She’s got no empathy, she’s entitled, she gaslights – all with the goal of avoiding any kind of accountability. She’s unable to communicate her needs and mirrors you in the love bombing stage to cover up her lack of self awareness. She moves fast, and once she’s hooked you the devaluation slowly starts. Hindsight is 20/20, but I noticed a change in her on our honeymoon. Kim looks for successful people with the heart of a pleaser. She’s also got an identical twin sister that enables her every move. You as her partner will be a third class citizen by the time all is said and done. She’ll say one thing to your face but her actions will tell a completely different story. When Kim Rosenberg tells you who she is – please believe her. She’s a liar, a cheater, a manipulator and an entitled user. All she cares about is getting validation and supply, which could come from anyone. She treats strangers better than her partner. There’s no loyalty, no awareness of how her actions cause a reaction. In fact, she loves a reaction because it allows her to continue her role as a victim. Please watch out!!

  94. David Phillip from Marietta / Chattanooga
    Beware is narcissistic and plays gaslighting games. Also plays mind games with women. Have no respect for any at all women. This also includes his best friend that finds women for him or each other. Both play games with these women making them feel small or weak minded. Just using them to get some kitty. Always trying to find a way to have a threesome. Which also may lead to them taking videos without parental consent. Plays gentlemen, showing hospitality, offering drinks specially alcohol to only get you drunk then takes advantage of you. He’s had relations with over 50 plus women including does not using protection. Keeps previous videos/pictures from past relations. Women, please watch for this man. Do not become a Victim.

  95. Joe M Hayes from Oakland, CA
    My 54-year-old boyfriend of 20 years cheated with his 26-year-old research intern Amy Gong Liu of Alameda, CA. After a year of sneaking around and taking midnight hikes, 8-hour runs around the neighborhood, etc., he told me and his 3 kids he was in love with Amy, they wanted to be together, and it had become too difficult to keep secret, but the last thing either of them wanted was to break up our family. He never said a thing through 6 months/25+ hours of couples therapy, said our relationship was medium, not super close but not full of conflict and strife that we needed to split up. He told Amy we were in an open relationship and he could verify that for her.

    He took my kids to Alameda Beach with her and to her home. When a neighboor by chance ran into them, he introduced her as his new co-worker who just moved to town and he was showing her around to the cool local spots.

    I kicked him out of the house the day after he confessed and he was surprised. He thought he could keep living here and we would work it out. He put his stuff in a storage unit and went to live in schmoopie junior’s mom and dad’s Barbie townhouse for a few months until he could afford to sublet a room with a bunch of roommates. He is still shocked at my reaction. He thinks he can explain.

  96. Kyle Bomgardner from Sedona Arizona
    Hung out a few times hooked up once (omg he has a small d1ck like literally the size of a bic lighter) came back on my lunch break and caught him wearing one of my matching bra and panty sets (other bras and panties were on my bed he had been trying them on) and literally taking my sexiest dresses out of my closet to try them on. He had taken pics of himself in a few of my sets, some videos of him playing with my vibrator like he was a girl, and a videos of him sucking and then sitting and riding my d1ldo. He had BBC and Sph and Sissy training porn videos all over his phone history. Between his tiny d1ck and Being able to wear my clothes it’s no wonder he is a sissy.

  97. Travis Joel Allen from Baldwin, Florida
    Travis and I dated for ten years. In those ten years Travis was emotional abusive, you cheated on me several times and always made me feel worthless. Travis puts on a good show as though he’s the perfect boyfriend then when we get behind closed doors the real hom began coming out

  98. Javier Antonio Perez from San Antonio, TX
    Ladies this guy is married, he goes around lying to women claiming that he is single. Not true, he is married and will then start stalking and threatening you when you reject him. He is Puerto Rican and not afraid to hurt you. Do not trust any drink this guy gives you. I got really sick and dazed after he brought me a drink from the bar.

  99. Lanton Young from California
    I didn’t have any panic attacks or anxiety issues for ten full years before my relationship with this man. Things would be great between us for weeks at a time, then out of the blue, he would start these big arguments. He would want to break up, stating each time that he “wanted to see what else was out there” because he’s “never been in a relationship that lasted more than a few months.” I never understood why he would suddenly be saying these (and many more) mean things when I was putting all my energy into trying to help him feel more comfortable and relaxed. He forced me to quit three different jobs because he would find something about it which would bother him to his core. But, he was always bothered about something. His boss (no matter which job) would always be out to get him. He would complain about every customer or job location. He would complain about not being fit, but would refuse to go with me to walk around the block. During our first year together, he told me he wanted to marry me soon, and have a child or two in about five years. Four years in, and a year after I had my IUD removed for him, he still hadn’t proposed (because he “wanted to do it properly”) and says he still won’t be ready for kids for another five years. (I used the IUD to relieve my Dysmenorrhea symptoms, but that didn’t matter to him.) When I was working as a gig driver, he told me that I had to be home by 5:00pm everyday, so that I was there when he got home (even though his job would regularly keep him out three or four hours later, sometimes more.) He would go out to party with his friends from work, sometimes without even telling me until he came home. (I would think the job ran long.) He would make up accusations about me cheating when (looking back) I’m pretty sure he was cheating with his coworker. All he does is complain, sit around playing video games, and fall asleep during s3x and blow jobs. And, he wastes tons of money on concerts which he would rather go to with his friends. He is filled with anger and envy towards his little brother. He hated everyone in his family except his grandfather, but refused to go to his funeral because he didn’t want to deal with his (admittedly) horrible grandmother. The worst part is that he intentionally shot his father in the leg while they were at a gun range when he was a child. He admitted to me that he wanted his dad dead, so he aimed at him and pulled the trigger. And, his father did almost die.

  100. Jeremy from Albany NY
    Originally from Albany, NY
    Residing in St. Pete Beach, Fl
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    Abusive, Alcoholic, narcissist gaslighter
    Will wine and dine you to get in bed
    Gets abusive when drinking

  101. David Smith from Saint Augustine Florida
    David was great lazy but sweet until I found out he was letting other men have their way with him in our house I came home to find him being f-ed in the a55 on a dog leash and sucking another man I took pictures and videos for evidence before they noticed the men fled and David left with nothing

  102. Anthony Michael Shepard from From St. Louis, Currently in Portland, OR
    Anthony and I met on Tinder. We dated for nearly a year before he ended things by inviting me on a coffee date, which he explicitly said was just a date and nothing serious. I get to the coffee shop and sit down expecting a typical date, only to be surprised by him telling me he wants to break up because he “just realized he doesn’t find me physically attractive.” I asked him what he found unattractive, and he said “Nothing in particular, just not attracted.” This was insulting and surprising because when we first met, he said he was mainly looking for a FWB. He would make sexual comments, feel on me, kiss me, all the things to suggest physical attraction. He was the one who asked me to be his partner and officialize our relationship. All this had me believe he was actually interested in me. Additionally, I’m not ugly, I’m fairly conventionally attractive, and in all honesty, was the cute one out of the two of us. One sign I ignored was that when having sex, he would have trouble staying hard, but he would say it was antidepressants or he had a lot on his mind. At the time, I thought they weren’t lies, but that he was actually dealing with issues with medication because I have dealt with that before myself. Turns out he was just a deceptive attention-seeking asshole who, in his own words, “only liked the emotional and intellectual intimacy and time spent together.” ONLY?! I don’t know about others, but for me, those things are some of the most important parts. The physical will change over the years no matter how hard you try. This to me showed his priorities, this man is not looking for a relationship, he is looking for s3x fantasies at the expense of substance. More so, he is willing to lead others on and play with their emotions until he’s done with them. I couldn’t handle my emotions at the time of the break-up and being in a public space was making everything worse, I told him that and he said he was willing to meet later to discuss so I could have time to digest things. I said I would need this and that we should end the conversation because I would just be yelling at him if I stayed. I messaged him the next day to ask when he was free to meet next, as I wanted closure on the situation. He replied saying that he refused to meet up because of how I “handled my anger.” Further stating that he felt like he was being belittled and disrespected because I called what he did “disgusting.” I was fairly calm considering things, but I did say that what he did is rude and disgusting cause it is. I asked if we could do a phone call at least. He refused and then proceeded to block me. Anthony Michael Shepard is a selfish, deceitful, a-hole, who uses people with no regard for the consequences of his actions nor the hurt he causes others. He hides behind this nice, shy, nerdy facade, but underneath, he’s no better than your typical f*k-boy.

  103. Ronald Torgersen from WindGap PA
    Gaslight to the max. He did everything right and perfect in the beginning. He had my picture as a Screensaver on his phone. Printed pictures of us and put them all over the house, hard working, would really listen to my opinion, asked me to move in right away. Seemed perfect. Until I saw his drugs, meth. Xanax. Weed. Started drinking at noon. Sometimes sooner and wouldn’t even come to bed some nights. Gambling problem. If I tried to bring up the drugs and drinking he’d tell me it’s my fault and he doesn’t do drugs and he failed a drug test and I have found it in the house now 4 times in a year. He started being abusive. Dumping beer on me, he shoved me into the ac unit, into a night stand and bruised my rib and I could barely walk and sit and stand up, it took 4 weeks to heal if not longer. He’s destroyed my things numerous times and tell me it’s my fault and I make him do it. He’s destroyed our home multiple times, he can’t even get all the holes in the wall fixed before he smashes 3 more in the other wall. He screams so loud and freaks out and breaks and throws anything in his way. It’s scarey. He caused 1600$ worth of damages to an airbnb we stayed at together on a vacation, which turned out to not be a vacation at all. He can’t get hard because of the drugs and ED. To any girl out there. He’s a wolf in sheep’s clothing and an abuser; everything he does will be your fault.

  104. James Eide from San Francisco, CA
    He shoots up meth and im pretty sure is borderline psychotic maybe psyczophrenic?

    He seems normal at first and like he has it together but run away as fast as you can.

  105. Ruben Guerrero from Appleton, WI
    This guy goes by Gabriel now and uses that or Ruby Tuesday. He is on every dating site there is while he was living with me rent free. He cheated on me with multiple women and gave me HPV, BV, herpes, and now Chlamydia. He is a true sociopath per my therapist. He put me down in every way but doesn’t pay his child support nor call or send his kid anything. His own daughter said he wanted to sleep with her. He tried to sleep with my son’s 18 year old gf. He demands s3x whenever he wants but does not care about if the woman receives pleasure. He has stood me up on 2 birthdays and countless other occasions he said we should do to bring us closer. Latest is he got a job and is using a different name, then he wanted a referral bonus from me so I got hired and found out his alias. He bought me flowers just to tell me his “new” name is on his vest and then called in the days I had to work and now switched his schedule. He is abusive verbally, financially, and emotionally. He NEVER apologizes and doesn’t ever think he is wrong. He tells me I’m dirty and smelly. He picks on how fast and hard I work but all he’s done is made a dent in my couch.

  106. Andre Clarke from Bronx, New York -Jamaican
    I was with this male for almost 10 years, friends first for 15 years. We have two children together. During those 10 years, he proceeded to live a double life that I was unaware of and was battling with his own personal demons. The last two years of our relationship became volatile. Physical abuse became more prevalent and frequent. Gaslighting and mental abuse became more recognizable. In the last year of our relationship in 2021, I found out that he was sleeping with both men and woman. The worst part and most heartbreaking was I found out in the summer of that year that he was abusing our children and suffers from pediphilia. I was able to get full custody of my babies, an order of protection as well as for him to not receive visitation. My concern is for the woman and children that he will be around before he is actually prosecuted. Please be careful and aware. Believe and listen to your children no matter how young they are. I made the mistake of trying to keep my family together, but ignoring all the red flags over the years because I was so convinced that I was in love and whole heartedly trusted and believed in this person. Please be safe and keep your babies safer.

  107. Richard Bedell from San Antonio
    Richard is a pathological liar and a s3x addict amongst other addictions. He actively engages with s3x with h00kers and pr0stitutes, while lying to you saying he has a low s3x drive. He engages with unsafe s3x with woman and men, has s3x openly in parks & frequently drives around exposing his genitals or staging in parking lots exposing himself. He’s a cheater, a liar, he lives a double life, he’s a stalker. Stay away from him. He’s toxic and nothing short of pure evil.

  108. Kody from Colorado
    He’s got signs of a narcissistic personality that I should’ve recognized, but didn’t until our relationship was over. I didn’t realize how toxic it had become and how much of myself I had lost.

    He was low-level controlling, always telling me “you should____” Ex: you should get your nails done, you should put more blonde in your hair (he told me this one SO many times that I finally caved, even tho I didn’t want to), you should curl your hair, you should wear these types of clothes, you should start a small business in XYZ, you should buy that, you should get a different job, you should move. Like an idiot I did almost all of what he told me to do because I was so eager to please. And he ate it all up. But if I set boundaries on what I wasn’t comfortable with or was hurtful to me, I could tell he was frustrated and irritated. He’s a salesman and is good at it—he’ll treat you like a client that he’s pushing to do things/buy things. NOT HOW A WOMAN SHOULD BE TREATED IN A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.

    He’s OBSESSED with image and looking good, and with money and “making it big.” He was antsy and dissatisfied with everything, it seemed. Even with a solid job he wasn’t satisfied. Even with a solid salary he wasn’t satisfied. Even with a solid girlfriend whom he loved and she loved him, he wasn’t satisfied.

    If you don’t match up on every single thing, he will eventually find issue with that. He’s also got a temper he tries to hide. In fact, if he’s reading this somehow, he’s probably getting really angry that I wrote this, instead of being self-aware enough to work on himself and his issues.

    And the worst part?? If he would’ve communicated to me what was going on, I would’ve worked with him on ANYTHING. But he didn’t communicate. AT ALL. Big red flag in a relationship. And I wish I could’ve called him out on all his bull.

    He may try to hide his issues but the truth always comes out.

  109. Fred Hoess from Colorado and New Jersey
    Fred Hoess #fredhoess , a talented enduro motorcycle rac-
    er is and was seeing multiple women he met and meets primarily on Tinder and simultaneously (typically on the second date) proposes
    love, marriage, future plans with the women, continues on Tinder, would see and or talk with the women on the same days, use the women’s homes, their bodies, and their time and money for his benefit. It wasn’t until a third woman showed up late one night while he was with one of the women that his criminal behavior came to light with at least these three. His ability to manipulate, betray and humiliate women is criminal. He primarily travels around NJ, CO and the Rocky Mountain region. You’ve been warned ladies.

  110. William Anderson Jr (sometimes Hatton) from Portland – Sweet Home, OR
    I was madly in love with this man. He seemed decent and kind. My kids loved him, and his family accepted us. Turns out he’s a meth addict. He is very good at hiding it and keeps a normal sleep schedule. I took him back after I found his pipe on the condition he stay clean. He couldn’t. I bought drug tests on Amazon and asked him to pee for me days later when he was exhibiting symptoms of being high. He did pee after he packed up to leave, and all 3 came back positive for meth. It’s probably why his dick barely worked too.

  111. Erik Humphrey from Niagara Falls, NY
    He is a liar and a cheat. When you first meet him, he comes off as genuine and caring but it is all a hoax to lure you in. He will cheat on you mercilessly and then gaslight you into thinking it’s your fault. He cares about no one but himself. He has a decent job but will find ways for you to do things for him.

  112. mac cepeda from san antonio texas
    he has raped and abused, physically and emotionally over 4 people. he has an assault charge that happened 11/6/23

  113. Douglas O’brien from Cornwall, uk
    Was with him from too young an age, I had just turned 15 and he was 17, he kept me on a hook for 4 years, only turning up when he’d heard I was dating someone, then when he was 21, he decided he was ready to be with me, moved me to liverpool for his last year of uni.
    Then we moved back to Cornwall together, I stayed with him for 5 years, when I wanted to leave, he threatened to hurt himself, kept me there with these threats for years, when I did finally leave him, he did everything he could to financially ruined me, stalked me for 2 years, broke into my room, did weird stuff to my dirty laundry, took personal things, when through my bin, only stopped when I caught him doing it on a secret motion camera in my room. He very carefully moved me away from everyone, isolated me, took away my identity over years, broke me down, made me feel guilty for wanting to go to uni, for wanting a job, made me feel like anything I did without him was a betrayal.
    He claims to love animals but when he noticed I was trying to get out of his hold, such as getting a job, repairing relationships with friends and family, daring to stay over at my dad’s house, he was ‘so worried about me’, that he forgot to feed or give water to our rabbits for 3 days, and one died due to GI stasis even after I rushed her to the vets as soon as I got home, I was heartbroken, and he just blamed me for leaving him, because he ‘couldn’t function without me’. That was when I actually saw how he controlled me, and punished me for things I did that he couldn’t control, that was the day I stood up to him and told him he was dead to me.
    He broke me down mentally so that he could control me, took control of my life, would drive me to places so that I had to be picked up by him, kept detailed logs of all my purchases, even things he bought me.
    After dating other people he would still force his way back into my life, secretly becoming friends with my boyfriend, hounding me telling me he would wait until I was done with all these other ‘nobodies’, and he’d still be waiting for me. 2 years after we broke up I would still see him following me, it was only when I got footage of him stalking me that he agreed to stop.
    He hides behind the calmest mask I’ve ever seen, always friendly, never shouts or gets angry, never lets the mask slip, he chipped away at me for years until I didn’t even realise I had nothing left until I spent a whole year sat on the sofa, everyday, miserable, waiting for him to get home from work, so I was allowed to go out, so I was allowed to use ‘our laptop’, so I could speak to someone.
    He made me feel like I wasn’t a feminist because I wanted to lose the weight I’d gained from this and go to the gym, he told me he liked me chubby, and the only reason I would want to loose weight is to get pretty and find someone else.
    If you want to date this psychopath, set yourself some serious boundaries and pay attention. He gets you in the details you don’t even notice.

    He took 7 years of my life, and even to this day, he still sends letters telling me he will die knowing that the only person he will ever love is me, that he’ll die knowing he owns the memories of me being his, and that he’ll always be waiting for me to go back, because he is the only person who could ever love me for who I really am.

  114. Ethan Landeros from Boerne Texas
    Want a guy who chooses an abusive family over you?

    Looking for someone who repeatedly lies to your face about loving you?

    How about a partner who only believes you when his friends/family confirm what they did to you?

    Check out Ethan! He says he brags about you, but tells people you’re a homicidal maniac behind your back.

    He won’t admit anything bad he says about you.

    He can lie 7 times in 3 minutes.

    He lets his sibling put his hands on a woman for leaving their house.

    He even has a parent who puts her hands on you after you told her about people touching you for no good reason.

    He’s a lying coward and a spoiled brat.

    He allows his friends to disrespect you and your home.

    One day maybe I’ll find someone willing to hear the whole looong story, but until then:

    If you want months of your life wasted and you want to be publicly humiliated in front of at least 9 people, Ethan Landeros is the person for you.

  115. Chris Fogel from Foresthill, Ca
    Chris Fogel lied, cheated, physically attacked me and Several of my friends. He lied about his entire life, family, jobs, exes and finances. He was a raging alcoholic, homeless, grandiose narcissist. He cheated on me with many different women. One of which was my close friend. He mirrored me and pretended to be chivalrous. I caught him lying often, hurting my dog and cheating with his ex while we were together. After the break-up I found out I was pregnant. I had an abortion.
    He used that to try to get sympathy sex from his ex. He tortured me, calling professing his love then calling later telling me to stop talking to him. He would never leave text or voicemails of his insults and screaming. He told people it was me and that I was crazy. He wasn’t all wrong. It drove me crazy, I’m in therapy now, trying to work on my trauma. He went to rehab which is good. But be careful, he is always the victim or hero. He will lie and cheat. He has one every ex. He got a dui one night after choking me in front of my friends at a dinner party and being told to leave. He attacked me without hesitation. Didn’t care who saw. He hides secret profiles on dating sites. He also takes everything about him on the internet down. He is not a good person. Be careful please. I wish I could warn every woman about him, it makes me sad that he will have future victims. Save yourself money in therapy and avoid him.

  116. Ronald Jay Greynolds from Boynton Beach Florida
    He’s married and has no intentions of getting divorced. He told me in 2016 that he was separated from his wife and he was getting a divorce. It’s been 7.5 years now and I have had enough. I moved out of a house that we shared to get away from him and his gaslighting, manipulation tactics. I never wanted to be in a relationship with a married man, and the only way to make him finally come out and say that he was never getting divorced was for me to walk away. We haven’t spoke since. He’s a lying, manipulating abuser. Don’t fall for his fake love talk, he just wants to use you for whatever he can get from you without any commitments.

  117. Ricarion Nelson aka B. Nelson from Kansas City, MO and Mount Ayr, Iowa
    He was a liar from the jump. He will feed you this whole sob story about how he raised his self because parents were in jail for drugs and he was signed on a record deal… all lies… his mom raised him his whole life… he will then talk about how he is afraid to be in a relationship bc his ex hurt him so bad by getting prego by his cousin… lies once again… he is a narcissist and a cheater to the core… 3 years in I found out about all the girls he was cheating on me with… from day one… and while i was pregnant with his first child.. he will use you for anything he can get… nothing is ever his fault and he is always the victim in every situation. His mom completely takes care of him. She pays all his bills, buys his food, his car, etc. He is a sweet, smooth talker… one of the best ive ever met…

  118. Mark Marley from Warsaw, IN
    He dates many women at the same time and does not tell them the truth. He manipulates women to stay in relationships with him through threats. He does not want them to see other people even when they find out he does.
    He is in the swinger world and has profiles on sdc and sls. He is active on Tinder.

  119. Ruben Guerrero from Appleton, WI
    Philanderer, serial cheater, has relationships with multiple women at the same time. He has multiple dates with women in one night and he is spreading HPV.

  120. Raj Sardessai from Houston, TX
    He is an alcoholic with a third DUI (this one a felony) charge pending, and he is currently suing a strip club for damages after he was in bar fight. Bar fights are common occurrences in his life. He has a previous felony in TN for manufacturing narcotics. He is a pathological liar and will gaslight anyone that begins to understand the depths of his depravity so that he can continue to defend his need to drink.

  121. Ronald Jay Greynolds from Boynton Beach Florida
    Originally from Boynton Beach, but residing in Asheville NC with his wife. He claims that she is his ex-wife but they are still legally married and after wasting 7 years of my life waiting for him to file for divorce, I pressed the issue, and he informed me that he had no intention of getting divorced. He mislead his intentions to have a relationship with me for 7 years, and manipulated me by never following through on his promises to finalize his divorce. I moved 900 miles away to see what he did, and as expected he returned to live with her, still claiming that there’s no relationship between the two of them, but they are now living together again. Just as I suspected, keeping her as a backup plan.
    Ladies beware, he’s a blue eyed libra devil, funny and fun to be with, but his intentions are not honorable. He’s not honest about his situation and will gaslight you the entire time. I trust actions, not words, there’s no accountability, or remorse for his actions. He is not what he portrayed from the onset of this story. I endured mental anguish over the 7 years, and I’m finally free. I’m here to expose him for what he really is, before he finds another woman to torture with his toxic behavior.

  122. Frank Stankevicius from Massachusetts
    Gave sad story about how all his ex’s were crazy and his ex-fiancé cheated on him and he lost his house, etc. Cheated with his ex-girlfriend (she confirms knowing him since she was 16!). Cheated when she was 20 and he was 53- gross. Has no consistent social media presence because he has no solid job history- goes from job to job and home to home (sometimes friend’s couches). He lies and cheats and will scam you that he’s a ‘nice guy down on his luck’ at the moment. Nope.

  123. Jacob Thompson from Palm Beach, FL
    Narcissist and eager to circle. Only values his own time and does not care about you or anything about you. Inconsiderate, rude, and manipulative. Stay away!

  124. James Milstead from United States
    James grew up in a disfunctional and abusive family which has affected him severely. He has narcissistic tendencies, but more importantly, the complex trauma he experienced affects all his relationships, both romantic and family. He doesn’t want to explore his trauma or heal and he will divert all problems as being your fault. His favorite phrase is, “You get what you give” which gives him permission to treat you poorly if you have any hint of attitude, frustration, disappointment, or anger in your voice. His anxiety, BPD, lack of motivation and inability to maintain a regular job are all red flags, so beware. I dated him for 3.5 years, and was older than he…so this is not a revenge warning. This is a woman to woman warning because you will suffer for loving him. His other favorite saying is, “I don’t give a f-k” and that will include you at some point. He is not fixable, and will not compromise…and wants to be mothered, which is why he likes older women.

  125. Antoine William Rohlehr-Batts from Resides in Oakland CA, from Miami Florida
    Antoine W. Rohlehr is a corporate salesman narcissist and will be whatever you need to earn your trust. He is not attractive …he’s short and awkward ( I thought he was safe, I was very wrong) but he’s a brown noser, plays off your weaknesses. Predator. I gave him a chance cuz I thought he was a nice guy! Worst decision ever! He buys his way in and uses hard times to his advantage like when my dad died and my wrist broke. He made me feel guilty for needing help. He wants to earn your trust so he can use you for social status/climbing to make himself look better. ( I helped him get a promotion etc) Why? Because he is deeply flawed and he knows it. He is totally addicted to p0rn of very young Japanese women and girls ( non-consensual rape p*** on a train…. apparently that’s a thing in Japan) and that’s all he cares about. I turned him in to Oakland PD but they haven’t picked him up yet. He will put you down, bread crumb you, gaslighting you in your darkest times like when my father passed away. I gained weight he blamed everything on me. Meanwhile he ran up my electric bill with his p0rn addiction, cost me $7,000 ruining the plumbing in my bathroom due to his negligence, told me he was going to help me with lots of stuff never did any of it. I was grieving and confused after my dad’s death, and when I started to feel better I realized how badly he screwed me over and his truth came out!!! He’s not a good guy, he’s a disgusting demon. Just because he’s unattractive and seems nice does not mean he’s better than a hot guy. Just go for a hot guy! I think these guys who are nerds in high school have anger issues with women.

  126. Paul Bisio from Easton, PA
    This physician & LtColonel Air Force veteran has been scamming women for years. He always has several simultaneous girlfriends who are promised a monogamous relationship. He is a predator who deliberately defrauds women from the very beginning of his relationships. Most never saw any red flags because he’s been perfecting his con for 30+ years. He prays on single, divorced women (and their children) and has no conscience about the damage he causes. His family is complicit and they assist in further deceiving unsuspecting women. Disgusting that he is a doctor and a high-ranking military officer. He uses those positions to create a false sense of trust.

  127. Ian B. Mahoney from Chicago, IL
    He’s a liar and serial cheater. He cheated the entire time he was married, during both of his marriages, and he cheated while his wife stood by him during his bout with cancer. He’s disrespectful, he always checks out other women and will make comments if he thinks they hot, then he’ll say stuff like, “you should dress like that”. He’s cheap, expects perfection, nails always have to be done, waxed, etc, but never offers to pay. He was cheating on his wife and his girlfriend, and left for a rich, young, unattractive hump- backed housewife. He puts out that he’s such a nice guy, but he’s a snake. He’s a selfish, self absorbed narcissist, who never thinks of anyone but himself. And now you can add gold digger to the list of unappealing traits.

  128. (Jack) Anthony Holland from Idaho, Utah, Colorado
    Have been stalked and harassed by this ex for YEARS. At first I thought his delusions were harmless and I blocked him after rebuffing his advances. But he recently found me again and sent me a s3xually explicit and violent message. He moves a lot and changes phone numbers often so it will be difficult to know where he is coming from.
    Beware ladies!

  129. Caleb Leonhardt from Lincolnton, NC
    On the first date he loaded his whole life story on me and dropped that he was suicidal before me. Keep in mind that we had only met for one day. By the second date he said he was falling in love with me. He had literally only seen me two times. It only took a few months and he was already talking about marriage. ( I ignored the red flags because I was desperate and lonely) But we had to call off the marriage due to his manipulation, critical spirit, lack of motivation, lack of ambition, and just plain cluelessness. He was very wet behind the ears meaning he was pretty immature. He didn’t know how much things cost. He is very cheap and lives in a trailer. He expects his future wife to live super cheap and be a stay at home mom. However, he only wants one kid because he doesn’t want to have to move. By the way, he collects hundreds of little action figures, toys, stuffed animals and dolls. Keep in mind that he is in his late twenties. He spends all his money off of these things and porn. But he will criticize you over buying “too much food” , keep in mind I only spend about $150 on groceries for the whole month. He will criticize you over breathing too hard for real. God forbid I forget something at his house. Everything was a problem for him. My dad called him a narcissist because he acts like he can do no wrong and the other person is always the problem. He used a lot of gas lighting when we fought. He claimed he had trouble finding a girl in the past because they would block him “for no reason” after the first date haha. Honey, there was a reason, you are creepy.

  130. Keenan Jonathan Harris or Ramirez or Mello from Long Beach, CA and Las Vegas, NV
    This guy played me for a fool spent all my gambling and I gave him a home, car, money for his kids and he’s tried to ghost me, he left me said his mom was sick but went to Belgium to beg her to take him when he used me all up. He ghosted telling me he was gonna break up with her. He cheated at work met her there and they went to extended stay. He told me some stupid lie about we his coworkers called him a hoe. He mastered playing the part like he loves you
    He’ll play on ur situation and you’ll think he’s ur soul mate but he is just weasels his way to ur funds and depletes it not giving no f*cks about what’s gonna happen to u with no more money. After 3+yes and 100,000 later I figure him out and called him on it and he said sorry and resumed normal program like nothing at all. Still expects me to take and pick him up from work. It’s unbelievable how he can have set with someone he doesn’t like. I feel sorry for a weak-minded girl and he likes them Young says I’m the first older woman he’s been with.

  131. Neilbert Jardeleza from Lexington Kentucky US
    We met at work. We work in Healthcare about four years ago. I thought he was absolutely amazing. I could’ve swore he was The. I had just literally met the best man ever and I knew he had just split up with his child’s mother and he was a really ugly break up he he acted like it was amicable, but I could see and I was reading text messages that he you know didn’t know that between those two and he was really kind of nasty with her but I didn’t know if maybe she enticed it.

    As time goes on nothing things seem to be going very nicely. He’s very sweet, very attentive. Seems like he cared a lot. It seems like he was very into me well after so many months, I think about six months we moved in together, and we were working together same Hospital And things just started getting weird like females like just being overly friendly with females, and it just seemed very off to me, but I didn’t want to be accusatory or ruining my relationship that seemed like it was the best one ever right, right . I end up getting some emails like to my Facebook messages and it was from girls that he had worked with prior and then currently and they were informing me that he was going to work telling them that he did not have a living girlfriend that he was single and I was just a roommate so that was the first one and then of course I brought this up it was I was devastated he denied it. He said they were liars and they wanted to be with him and they were you know just trying to start stuff all fast-forward a year after that and I start seeing these weird phone numbers on our phone bill and I looked it up and it comes back to a girls name that I knew that Also had worked with us a while back at the hospital and comes find out he was having a fling with her. He says they never were intimate. They were just buddy they were just friends yada yada yada he was lonely I was ignoring him you know that kind of stuff so of course I forgave him because I loved him and he was amazing and I wanted to believe him because you know he was amazing, right so fast forward years later by now we have had so many issues with cheating lying gaslighting so many things and it just becomes very hard and it’s very complicated and I am not the type of person to you know be nasty towards anyone especially in a break up I try to make it as you know, clean and amicable as possible Well this guy literally has been spending thousands of dollars online paying camgirl to masturbate to . He’s been starting to come home but he gets off at 7 o’clock in the morning very late. He should be home at like nine. He’s been coming home at one or two every day for months and I don’t like questioning people or being in peoples business, so I try to not but becomes the point where it starts to hurt your feelings because you know somethings not right because I also work in the same field and I know when we get off of work you know so then he starts tying his phone to him like he has that phone everywhere he goes and then when he does leave it out, he’ll leave it out purposely and leave the phone open like thinking I’m gonna go through it, but he has these little codes he sticks in his phone that I learned a long time ago, and it like reroutes. All of his information is iPhone, so long story short he is a habitual cheater. I mean it so it makes my stomach hurt right now just thinking about it I’m not even just a camgirl like girls he works with and he doesn’t speak any specific type. He likes white girls, Asian girls, African-American girls, I mean, thin thick I mean he does not discriminate And these girls always lie for him. I don’t know what he says about the girl he seen, but he has got these girls. They will not write on him at all. Some of them have gotten belligerently crazy with me when I’ve asked them questions like calling me names and putting me down I’m guessing those names and stuff came from him. He is really good at manipulating and coming off has been very , very mellow mellow he seems very mellow and nonconfrontational and tell you really get to know him. He can be very nasty with his words with his actions and just comes to the point where I don’t even know if he ever really even cared about me at all because he’s so I just know the better word for it evil no cares that you know about my feelings or anything he makes when I bring up things that are you know going on that are not you know respectful with you you know his actions with our relationship. He gets very condescending towards me. He makes fun of me he he know he banters, and he belittles me about the issues like the things and then he and then he turns around and he projects to me. He rejects onto me what he has been doing And I get to the point where I feel like I have to defend myself so then instead of it becoming a whole issue of trying to get to the bottom of why are you doing this? It becomes a why I’m defending myself at that point so he’ll reroute the whole, you know scenario in general so then the most recent are you we got into, and I just like I found out about the thousands of thousands of dollars worth of camgirl that he’s been paying for to masturbate to for whatever reason which is crazy me whatever anyway but he told me that I need to learn to get some self-confidence , and not worry about why he’s lying to me and treating me like shit I was just floored I mean I literally just was I was just like wow what the f-k sorry for my language and that’s when I decided that it’s too much. I’m a beautiful girl. I’m a good girl. I’m a nice girl. I have a nasty attitude at times but it’s not on the daily. It’s only when provoked really is. He wasn’t an amazing guy on paper. He seems like the most intelligent awesome sweet caring, good looking very charismatic man and he is a he’s the devil Thing is his kids mother tried to tell me in the beginning and I didn’t listen his ex-girlfriend before his kids mother even tried to contact me and let me know that he was not a very nice person when it gets you into the relationship and I didn’t wanna believe it. I thought they were all lying and being jealous, and they were not. They were being truthful, and I felt for it and I got , I got you know I kinda got what I I kinda got what I signed for suppose I would just put this out there that you know although those two females were nice enough to try to inform me and you know look out it just I had that time thought that they were maybe just trying to scare me away because they wanted him back. He still amazing that was not the case. Literally they were just trying to be decent females and let me know and I’m really wish I would’ve headed their warning. so I am putting this out there in hopes that it will be right across-the-board by somebody because I’m sure there is somebody out there for this man that maybe will be a good I don’t know whatever but then again I’m mean I hope there is, but I don’t know because he seems like he’s very he has very grand thoughts of himself. He’s manipulative The I mean very good at manipulating. I really didn’t think I could handle it. I really didn’t think that I was going to come out of this unscathed and or maybe we were gonna deliver a happily ever after, and I can assure you I have been through many hard relationships, but this he got me good I’m I feel like a complete fool. He has been lying to me this whole time and it sucks but the end of the day I can’t change it I am just trying to help somebody else out in the future tread carefully girls please.

  132. James Anthony Yates aka Jay from Jessup Pa
    He ruined my life. He emotionally and physically abused me for 9 years. I finally woke up was manipulated into thinking that it was out of love. Currently have a restraining order in New York on him. I’ve had 3 protection from abuse orders on him in Pa. There’s video of him being a pervert around a minor. He has new girlfriend, Teresa Balak, who I already informed her about his abuse. From her profile she seems to be MR, if so he’s using her. He cheated and was abusing my one dog he had been smoking meth with. He says he changed I don’t see any. Prayers for the new girlfriend.

  133. Chris Wright from Gastonia, NC
    Chris and I started dating a few months ago. It was a very strong connection right away. He was always very sweet and attentive. There were times in the relationship that I thought he maybe not telling me the truth about his career, financial means and living situation but he always had an excuse about something that came up or why something happened. A few months into the relationship we planned to spend a weekend in Asheville. He sent me all the information including the confirmation. We were traveling separate due to coming from different places. We talked that morning, he sent good morning text. Everything seemed good. I got to the hotel and he had not checked in yet. I called him and he said he overselpt amd would call me in a minute. I got a horrible feeling in my stomach. I got on the hotel website and put in the confirmation number and our reservation had been canceled. I sent it to him and asked what happened. He didnt reply. I sent another text and my message turned green. He had blocked me. I was devastated and angry. I looked up his ex wife and called her. We talked for about an hour and she confirmed that almost everything he told me was a lie. He was not an attorney, he lived with his parents and even how their marriage had ended. She was very kind. Of course I didnt want to believe it so I reached out to his mother. She read my text and did not respond. I really don’t think this is the first time he had done this. I know it was fast but we told each other we loved each other, talked about moving in together and meeting my kids. I am still so hurt by this bc I thought it was real. He blocked me in everything and although I never want to speak to him part of me wants closure but not from him. What he did was beyond cruel

  134. Derra from Oregon LC
    Derra wears diapers cause he has fetish/lifestyle of abdl adult baby diaper lover and he wets and messes his diapers just like a real baby and honestly the little baby deserves to be in diapers and single forever with that uncircumcised 3inch nub he has it belongs in diapers. Just want to let other women know so they don’t fall for this baby sized peepee and dirty diaper wearing baby. He also loves I mean loves to hump his dirty diapers to make himself orgasm inside of his dirty diaper. I broke up with Him cause I found a real man instead of having to change diapers and watch my bf I can now be a grown woman with my grown man husband I met while with Derra and Derra tasted my man several times too cause o cheated on that diaper boy lol

  135. Frederick Henry Paulette from Medway, Massachusetts
    Fred Paulette is a diagnosed borderline personality disorder, schizophrenic. He is a pathological liar who can morph himself into several different personalities. He exhibits whichever persona will benefit him the most in whichever company he finds himself. He is a cheater and has multiple women, none of who know about the other. He has never been faithful to anyone in his life. He has exhibited signs of violence towards animals and a destructive personality when he thinks no one is watching. He has multiple cameras inside and outside of his house as well as speakers recording every move when he is not there. He will go for days of not speaking as a punishment or scream and yell, pretending to hit you but just stopping at your face. He will humiliate you in public or get up and leave you to go pick up another woman or drugs. He will bad mouth you to his friends and family leaving you wondering why no one likes you. He will use your money and your time. After some time, even years, wasted of your life, he will convince you that nobody else will care for you, that you’re fat and ugly and stupid and that you are guilty of everything he has done. If I can prevent this from happening to someone else this will be worth it. If you are in a relationship with a psychopath, narcissist, borderline personality such as this, grab your stuff and run. No contact and never look back. Cheers.

  136. Adam C Riley from Bryan, Texas
    He is a smooth talker and targets single moms or anyone for that matter, but a ton of single moms. I was with him for 3 years and found out he has several other GF’s and a wife. All of us girls found out about each other, so he will be looking for fresh meat.

    He is on dating sites and also uses Instagram, Snapchat and Facebook to connect with any women that will accept him.

    Then he starts messaging you and is really aggressive about meeting up. Calls everyone baby or babe and will say he loves you the first week you talk.

    He was actually living partly with me, his wife and another girlfriend on top of seeing and sleeping with whoever else he can.

    He was driving my car for months, his wife’s as well and gets money and stuff from us all.

    He hardly makes any money, is sn alcoholic (loves tequila) and has a dui he got in May if 2023. You can google his name and you will see his arrest picture. He got the dui in my car while going to see and have s3x with another girl.

    He’s a user, master manipulator and very good at making you feel like you are the most beautiful woman on earth.

    he never uses protection and for the first time in my life, i had to go get tested for std’s.

    He has been sleeping with me, his wife and 3 other women at the same time. Possibly more.

    On top of all
    this, he tells the women he is with kids that he loves them
    and wants to adopt them.

    So he is hurting kids too.

    He has felonies and always has women covering his bills.

    he has 3 kids he doesnt hardly see ever. will drink and driver with kids in the car.

    he uses other names, christopher riley, and adam jameson.

    hes 6 ft 3, brown eyes and hair. loves the dallas stars and the UT longhorns.

    he complete garbage and feel sorry for his next victims.

    also, hes been married, 3 times.

    hes lived in bryan, houston, waco and fort worth

  137. Steve Soetekouw from Tasmania
    He is a leech and a flake.

    He has had kids, but doesn’t want to pay for them, either groceries or utilities or anything.

    He says that he is too sick to work but he can stay up till 2am on his computer.

    He says that he might “die” so needs to be near his kids, but wanted me to wash, cook, wake him up for appointments, and on that, he gets up at between 9-10am.

    He is just a flake. He talks BIG but does nothing.

  138. Luke
    2023
    I have had many relationships. Each one has destroyed me so far. But this one has torn apart my healing phase.

    His name is Luke, although some of his social media pages have a different name. We are not really a couple, what exists between us is more of a “situationship”. I messaged him and kept our conversations going as he said “he wasn’t the type to think of many questions”. I accepted that, we exchanged our numbers and continued writing.

    He was on vacation for a while. During this time and the two days after his return, the world was perfect. We wrote a lot, exchanged pictures with each other and stayed up all night.

    But then, from one day to the next, everything changed. He stayed out until 2,3,4 o’clock. He got drunk, met with girlfriends because he supposedly didn’t get along with men that well, and ignored me for 15 hours!

    His excuse was “he wouldn’t touch his cell phone when he was doing something with friends because it was disrespectful”. Rarely did I get any information where he was. In the beginning he still sent me pictures, but that also stopped.

    He promised to be there for me in my hardest times because I have a mental problem. But as soon as I asked him for help, he didn’t know what to say.

    He told me about the women who approached him and about all the influencers he found pretty.

    In between, he kept giving me hope. He complimented me and built me up, but days later it was all forgotten and I have a feeling we won’t last much longer.

    He gave my psyche another hard blow and destroyed my heart another piece with it.

  139. Thomas Stark from Nassau Bay Texas
    This man is a cheater a liar and worst of all a thief. He will sweet talk his way into your heart and then your house and steal anything he can to get money. He will try to convince you that you misplaced things or accuse you of having another man around that steals. Very bad man with drug and temper problems. Stay away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Thomas is a thief. He will sweet talk his way into your heart and house with big green eyes and steal everything in sight. He will help you look for things that are missing. He will make up scenarios to explain away missing valuables. And then act upset and rejected when you don’t let him distract you with affection. Charges are pending now that I’ve found my thing in multiple local pawn shops under his name. STAY AWAY!!!

  140. David A. Ramirez from CA and/or NV
    He uses aliases like at work where he sorts lots of packages, he goes by “D” and he uses different phone numbers/texting apps as well. He’s on the registered s3x offender list as David Ramirez from Manteca and is in his mid 30’s. He has 2 kids and his daughter won’t see or talk to him. Likes independent, older women so he can be taken care of financially. He doesn’t even own his own car. He’s a serial cheater and liar. While he was with me he planned a party in So. Lake Tahoe with his co-workers making sure the ratio of women to men was 3 to 1. I’ll upload a pic of the paper I found in his car. He’s also what we call a Monkey because he doesn’t let go of one branch (woman) until he has a grip on the next. He’s a BIG narcissist who garners sympathy by playing the victim when he’s not playing the hero. None of it’s real. All the places he takes you are places he’s taken all his previous gf’s. He talks real big about future plans, but is unreliable when it matters. He has a gambling problem. He will not clean up after himself or help clean anything even after I had surgery. He’s an exhibitionist. He will record you without your permission. He’s a creeper who follows girls and women around stores and secretly records them. He has a Secure File in his phone. It’s alleged that he then uploads those vids to p0rn sites. I’ll call the police on him if I ever see him again and his baby mama won’t allow him to even live in the same state (NV). Contact me for details and if you’re an ex, let’s talk.

  141. Greg Perovich from Lansing , IL
    He also uses the Alia’s “ John” This man is a master manipulator- pathological liar- he has had multiple marriages & dates while married telling sob stories of how he has been a victim to his “wife” although he has had 3! And is still married to 1 of them. Asks woman to marry him while he is still married. Abuses women in every aspect of the definition- then tries to twist, deflect, gaslight & destroy you when he gets bored, tired or doesn’t get his way. 2 small examples of his abusive cruelties is that I had just got home from having cancer surgery- I had drains & was weak , couldn’t bathe myself. He was in the spare bedroom when I literally hobbled over to him & asked if he could help me bathe. He looked me dead in the face & said “ I’m busy cleaning the closet “ – I almost tore my drains out as a slipped trying to clean myself 15 days later the drains days later I got the drains removed & was very sick- I asked him to please go get a covid test- he said “ NO- I’m not taken 14 days off of work for you” I had covid for 30 days! I was too afraid to go to the hospital I thought I’d be intubated & die. I decided it’d be better to die in my own bed & was treated at home.!It was the most painful flu I ever had & am truly blessed to be alive!! The list of abuse & cruelties goes on is long and verifiable!
    Run from this man or any man that doesn’t make you, your health, your wants, needs , or desires as important as his own! Men like him do not respect women!
    I learned the hard way! I’m not a dumb or normally gullible! This man has over 30 years of manipulative behavior & is extremely good at it. All he wants is a scapegoat, whipping board, surrogate mother & security blanket. There is no passion, emotion bonding or empathy- you will simply be a nameless faceless toy in his collection- and he will try to drain you of everything-including your dignity!

  142. Albert Klas from Utah
    He’ll say he’s not married but he is. Not legally but he’s been in a serious committed relationship for 8 years. He’ll never leave her for you, you’ll only get crumbs. He’ll pursue you and sweet talk you but he won’t take you anywhere, won’t join you for a meal but if he does he won’t eat like a normal guy, won’t plan ahead, won’t commit to any future plans. He’ll disappear with no explanation and will get irritated if you question him. He controls everything – when you see him and what you do which is a lot of walks. When he decides he’s in the mood he turns on the charm and is very sweet but it doesn’t last. If he decides he wants intimacy it will have an expiration time, he won’t stay the night. It has to be spontaneous, not planned ahead of time. He’ll change his mind about you over and over again, backing off with no explanation or discussion. He hates real conversation and will avoid it at all costs. Everything has to stay at a surface level, anything more will scare him off. Trying to have a real relationship with him is a constant stress, always feeling off center, not knowing what to expect. Hot and cold, he loves you one day, the next he says you have to take a break. Save yourself the heartache, don’t even try with this guy.

  143. Jack Burrows from Suffolk Uk
    A lying cheating scum pretty much. Super manipulative to the point you believe anything he says when it’s all crap. He started seeing someone else behind my back so called it quits with me then continued to turn up at my door every three weeks to say he regretted his choice he loved and missed me wanted a family with me ect ect … eventually contacted this other girl about it and he had some nasty stuff to say about the both of us… he made out I lied about our miscarried he called me a fat slag and only wanted a shag cos I’d easily open my legs for him. And the story goes on. He truly is a piece of work!

  144. Michael V from Killeen Texas
    He’s a smooth talker who can easily manipulate you into a relationship and then he’ll be hot and cold making you feel insecure about his friends and coworkers at first but then say that he only wants you. He’ll do this until he has you feeling like you have confidence and let him have whatever he wants. He’ll say everything he does is for his son but never takes any steps to provide for his son and will say he’s working late when he’s out for drinks with his coworkers, one of which he’s likely sleeping with. As of the day this is written 9/9/23, he does not have his own car nor his own apartment.

  145. Barrett James West Duffy from Lebanon, Oregon
    I knew this man for several years before moving from Oregon. He was friendly back then. But over the past 7 years, Barret has contacted me every once in while, we chat for three days, and then he ignores me after that. I have no idea why he keeps doing this but I’m not letting him do it to me again. I kept hoping he might just be a regular friend but friends don’t gaslight like that. He’s not a good person anymore.

  146. Chris McGuire from Little Rock, Arkansas
    Chris McGuire- This was a sad and wild ride. I met Chris in spring of 2017. He was incredibly sweet in the beginning, but I was in in a vulnerable position (shouldn’t have even been in a relationship to begin with) and I allowed him to rush us. Within a week of meeting he asked me to move in with him, and within a few months we were engaged. By that time things had become a little traditional and I took care of things at our apartment while he worked. As it happens with some narcissists, after several months things began to turn abusive. Chris had severe anger fits which he claimed later he couldn’t remember.. If we argued even about little things, it would turn violent on his end. When I tried to leave him, he would tell me that nobody else would ever want me so I should just stay, He also threatened many times to lie and have me arrested for the fight. After two years of this, I finally found the strength to leave for good. Chris was NEVER this way to his friends and I doubt they would even believe he is like this behind closed doors. Please be careful with Chris. I have other experiences with him I am not listing here because it’s too painful. After the very final painful event, our loss, he never checked on me after to see if I was ok. He’s not a good person. He also bad-mouthed his ex-wife on a regular basis.

  147. Kevin Johnson from Drain, Oregon and Williams, Arizona
    Kevin Johnson- We lived in two different states through some (but not all) of our relationship. We were together about two years. I was in my home state trying to save up to move to be with him in Oregon, when he suddenly upped and moved to Arizona without discussing it with me. Once he moved there, an ex-girlfriend of his visited and they began to see each other behind my back. When I found out and confronted Kevin, he gave the usual BS excuse and said it was nothing. But he continued to see her and started gaslighting me. I figured once we moved in together things would settle down, though while I was working to move Kevin did absolutely nothing to help us as a couple, such as looking at places for us to live. I finally drove the 1200 miles to be with him in AZ. We had a ridiculous argument right after I arrived, he left me at a motel and never took my calls again no matter how much I tried to apologize. I had no choice but to travel those 1200 miles back to my home state with a broken heart. I do believe Kevin is this way at least in part because of how he was raised. Women do not have a voice and their feelings are disregarded. I believed him and blamed myself for the breakup for years. I’m glad I know now I was very wrong and really dodged his bullet. You might consider avoiding this guy if you ever run into him.

  148. Keith Stephen Grace from Grandville, MI
    I am simply going to paste the letter I sent him as it details the assault so I don’t have to be triggered writing it all out again:

    I want you to know the damage you caused. How bad the depression gets on the days when I relive the things you did to me through intrusive thoughts. How devastated I am that I was abused and r*ped in my first s3xual relationship by someone I trusted. That if I think about being involved in s3x now I become nauseous and frightened. That I have even thrown up from thinking about it. That I now have a deep fear of men and their motivations. That I now look at heterosexual couples sometimes and wonder how any woman could subject herself to being with a man.

    I want you to know how I want love and a relationship but am so terrified of being abused physically and s3xually again that any time someone shows interest (male or female) I retreat. That having sex again for the first time (if I ever do) is going to be a frightening and painful experience for me. That I now view it with dread. That it has become something I have to overcome before it can ever be something I enjoy.

    I want you to know how I struggle everyday with my s3xual identity as a result of your actions. How I go back and forth between wondering if I’m gay, asexual, or bisexual.

    I want you to understand that you are responsible for your actions. That it was your job to control yourself and respect my boundaries and not my job to constantly fight against you for a sense of respect and safety.

    I want you to realize that pushing the boundaries of someone who is suffering from trauma to see how much you can get away with is abusive and predatory. That fetishizing my childhood r*pe (which makes you a ped0phile) and trying to sneak r*pe play into us having s3x after finding out about the s3xual assault is one of the sickest things you could have done.

    I want you to understand that continuing to touch my breasts when I told you to stop and physically removed your hands is a s3xual assault (so is grabbing my rear in the parking lot of Taco Bell).

    I want you to understand that trying to coerce me into giving you nude pics by becoming angry and yelling at me while I repeatedly told you no is abusive.

    I want you to understand that slapping me in the middle of s3x without discussion or permission is assault, and that continuing to have s3x with me after I told you no in response to you asking me if I liked being slapped with my voice breaking and choking back tears in distress is r*pe. I want you to know how I literally felt something inside me give out when you forced that kiss on me and kept going. How I disassociated during the assault. I want you to know how I kept repeating ‘you’re okay, you survived it’ to myself in my head after it was over but could not put words to what had happened or how I truly felt about it because I couldn’t fully process the attack due to shock.

    I want you to understand that becoming aggressive and yelling at me to get me to submit, yelling again to get me in the bedroom, and again to get me out of my clothes is s3xual coercion and r*pe. I want you to understand that the fact you did not ask permission to penetrate me when you were told you had to specifically ask permission for it puts your actions even more firmly in the category of r*pe.

    I want you to know how helpless, frightened, and violated I felt both of the times you r*ped me.

    I want you to understand that not being able to process an attack after it happens is the most common reaction to being attacked by a loved one. That shock and denial can keep you silent with confusion. That being heavily medicated with two emotional processing disorders (PTSD and autism- both officially diagnosed by this point) on top of that makes it near impossible to figure out what is happening emotionally or what to call it. And that none of that makes what you did to me my fault because nothing you did to me was under my control. You chose to do these things to me. You chose to put me in these harmful, damaging, and triggering situations without discussing these things beforehand. You chose to not follow the rules of consent. You chose to push boundaries. You chose to fetishize my childhood trauma. You chose to slap me. You chose to hurt me. You chose to coerce me. You chose to r*pe me.

    This is on you. Your actions are your responsibility. And honestly I’m not sure how you live with yourself. You knew how vulnerable I was and how much I was already suffering. I will never understand why you made the choice to treat me this way. I never wanted to be treated this way and I certainly never stated that I wanted to be treated this way. I did not ask for it, I did not agree to it, and I did not deserve it.

    I wonder sometimes if you have other victims. I wonder if those women you said think you’re a creep, those women you deemed “crazy girlfriends” are other victims of yours. If they should be calling you an abuser or r*pist rather than a creep. I’m sure I’m not the only one you’ve harmed. There are probably other women out there but for various reasons they never spoke up or reported.

    I’m sure you’ll go through your life continuing to lie about what happened. You’ll keep telling people I was just looking for attention or that I’m crazy or that it was BDSM (something I once again never agreed to or asked for) or some other made up story to preserve this façade of innocence you’re projecting to the world. But your lies can’t change the truth of what happened. You abused me and you r*ped me. You are an abuser and a r*pist and there is nothing you can ever do to change that fact.

  149. Andrew R from Stevens point
    Serial manipulator, serial cheater and teen Predator..please becareful he is a Covert narcissist and puts on a really good show of a nice kind guy who’s very charismatic but he is the predication of evil.

  150. Jerame Joseph Jolley AKA TRIPLE J from Henderson Nevada
    My ex-boyfriend Mr Jeremy should win the award for scumbag , loser, sneakiest piece of s*** of the year. Or the century. I’m not even going to call him a man he’s a boy he’s a child he’s 43 years old still lives with his 91-year-old grandmother who supports him and is 42-year-old brother and daughter. If you ask about him many people will tell you that he’s a nice guy everybody knows him. He sleeps around and always has. With just about anybody and everybody matter of fact he had s3x with his now deceased ex girlfriends mother and stepfather. He has cameras all around his grandmother’s house including one in the bedroom which is constantly recording every move I make or anyone makes for that matter. Everyday he play this little game if he was in the mood or if he had talked to a girl prior to coming home he would run straight to the bedroom rewind the tape see if I did anything that makes him feel like I was being suspicious or sneaky and then he would then cause a fight and take off to whichever whomever whatever girl or w**** he would go and hang out with it I stuck around for 5 years. He cheated on me numerous times numerous times I even went to so far as to let him have a side chick as long as he come home to me what do you think he did he didn’t come home to me he come home when the girl wouldn’t please him so he come straight to me ask me for a b****** asked me to f*** and then I was a piece of s*** after that. There were times he had to go to work and he’d end up going to whichever girl for the moment’s house and call me he had the audacity to call me at 4:00 in the morning to pick him up from whatever side piece he was with that night and then start a fight with me choke me out strangle me hit me in the head because he did wrong he would take that out on me this guy is 100% loser no matter what comes out of his mouth it’s a lie maybe not to other people but if you’re his girlfriend forget about it you’re scum to him beware you have been warned

  151. Michael Jones from Fort Wayne Indiana
    Rarely worked, lived off my income and under my roof. Exaggerates “construction talent” and blamed all errors in business on his brother Adam. Lies about being separated from his wife Andrea and wanting to divorce her. Treats Andrea so poorly and talks badly about her. Lost jobs shortly after getting hired, because he would frequently call in “sick” and employers saw overstated experience & knowledge and VERY poor work ethic. Never paid rent, for food, dates, or anything and had a fit when I told him to sell his broken down Jeep for $5k to pay me for a fraction of what he owed me and what I spent on him. Frequently depressed and emotionally manipulative, often trying to get you depressed and encourage you to commit suicide. Always on phone (seriously major addiction to it) and secretive about what he was doing & extraordinarily possessive of phone. Irrationally jealous and breaks your phones and resorts to physical violence, often restraining and choking you then taking or breaking your possessions. Held me hostage in several vehicles, not stopping and making me urinate in car, purposely driving erratically to hurt me. Stole my car and had to involve police to get it back. VERY insecure, cried, took off with my car and threw fit when his “manliness” was threatened by other men. Total Beta not an ounce of Alpha in his blood. Best years of his life are still high school. My memory of him still makes me physically ill.

  152. Kenny (Kenneth) Lynch from Ringwood NJ
    This man has very serious mental problems which he hides behind his charm. He is a liar and a cheat. He is extremely cheap. He has Obsessive Compulsive Personality disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

    He has a long term girlfriend named Karen who lives in Suffern NY that he claims he isn’t having s3x with. He will gladly have s3x with you while seeing her behind your back. Kenny is too much of a coward to tell Karen the he is having s3xual and romantic relationships with other women.

    Do yourself a favor and stay away from this creep. He is a mean, nasty, and disgusting human being.

  153. Chris McGuire, Little Rock, Arkansas- This was a sad and wild ride. I met Chris in spring of 2017. He was incredibly sweet in the beginning, but I was in in a vulnerable position (shouldn’t have even been in a relationship to begin with) and I allowed him to rush us. Within a week of meeting he asked me to move in with him, and within a few months we were engaged. By that time things had become a little traditional and I took care of things at our apartment while he worked. As it happens with some narcissists, after several months things began to turn abusive. Chris had severe anger fits which he claimed later he couldn’t remember.. If we argued even about little things, it would turn violent on his end. He was mentally, physically, and emotionally abusive. When I tried to leave he would tell me that nobody else would ever want me so I give up on leaving. After two years of this, I finally found the courage to leave for good. Chris was NEVER this way to his friends and I doubt they would even believe he is like this behind closed doors. Please be careful with Chris. I have other experiences with him I am not listing here because it’s too painful. After the very final painful event, our loss, he never checked on me after to see if I am ok. He’s not a good person.

  154. Kevin Johnson- Drain, Oregon and Williams, Arizona

    – We lived in two different states through some (but not all) of our relationship. We were together about two years. I was in my home state trying to save up to move to be with him in Oregon, when he suddenly upped and moved to Arizona without discussing it with me. Once he moved there, an ex-girlfriend of his visited and they began to see each other behind my back. When I found out and confronted Kevin, he gave the usual BS excuse and said it was nothing. But he continued to see her and started gaslighting me. I figured once we moved in together things would settle down, though while I was working to move Kevin did absolutely nothing to help us as a couple, such as looking at places for us to live. I finally drove the 1200 miles to be with him in AZ. We had a ridiculous argument right after I arrived, he left me at a motel and never took my calls again no matter how much I tried to apologize. I had no choice but to travel those 1200 miles back to my home state with a broken heart. I do believe Kevin is this way at least in part because of how he was raised. Women do not have a voice and their feelings are disregarded. I believed him and blamed myself for the breakup for years. I’m glad I know now I was very wrong and really dodged his bullet. You might consider avoiding this guy if you ever run into him.

  155. Richard Miguel Guerra from Miami Fl
    He will turn into a chameleon just so he can be your ideal partner. Then his true self comes out. He’s a cheater a narcissist he will make u believe you’re crazy! When he gets on his drinking benders he will abandon you if you’re out on a date or out of state. He is the master at ghosting you for days and blame u for not reaching out. He will destroy your self-esteem and sanity.

  156. David Jonathan Michael from Fort Lauderdale, FL. (Born in Louisiana. Grew up in Washington)
    David is a charming narcissist who has the ability to wear different masks and be whatever his victim wants him to be. I sadly wasted 8 months with this A-hole. He initiated everything, from the start cute little dates, to asking me to be his girlfriend, to ask me to move in with him, and asking me to eventually marry him. He left out the big details: how he is a pathological liar, master manipulator, gaslighter, CHEATER, and emotionally abusive. He jumps from girl to girl: because he’s addicted to the honeymoon phase in the beginning of the relationship. As soon as problems come up- mainly because he’s getting caught doing shady and hurtful stuff- he is already looking for another girl to date and f-k, because he lacks the ability to be faithful and loyal. He is addicted to meth too, so ontop of his s3x addiction and p0rn addiction: he gets horrible paranoia and grand delusions that he believes are real. Anytime I left the house or his side, I had to make sure I had evidence of everything I was doing because he would come up with crazy stuff and push and accuse you of doing wrong when he is really just telling on himself but he claims he doesn’t do anything wrong and the world is against him

    He will take a strong independent woman and strip her of everything. And once that girl is dependent on him, he will kick the girl out of his life and leave her broken, confused, and contemplating EVERYTHING.

    If you meet this man, run away. Don’t fall for his charm and tricks again, he is just out to hurt you, and continuously feed his ego.
    Because I wasn’t here

  157. Erik Nordland from Portland, OR
    This guy would treat me great then flip flop and treat me horrible. I tried to break up with him, but he would not let me with great excuses and apologies. Then he would be mad at me and cues me of trying to break up with him all the time, making it out to be a bad thing about me. He vilified me to his friends after gaslighting me and getting me to a place where I was embarrassingly reactive. He made me sound like a horrible person to his friends to the point where they wanted nothing to do with me and he made sure that I knew it. Tried to ignore it and he told me there was nothing he could do about the situation. He would lie about little things for no reason and insult me out of nowhere, and then say that he felt like he was walking on eggshells around me when I would try to tell him that the way he spoke to me on a regular basis was not OK. Then eventually, he broke up with me and made it all out to be my fault. I know this was abuse because I am still left feeling very confused. I know what gaslighting is exactly what happened. I also feel very used like he used me to prop up his own fragile ego and I’m still processing all of this abuse and trying to make sense of it. It’s strange because he seems like a good guy on one hand but then downright hateful, insidious, and callus mean-spirited on the other very Jackle and Hyde. It felt very much like he needed to complete control of me and the relationship in the situation for it to be good. He really vilified me and threw me under the bus demonize mean vilified mean it made me out to be the bad guy the crazy ex girlfriend, right?

  158. Marcus Pickering from Illinois
    He’s a gigantic man child. We initially dated, I thought he was the best thing I’ve ever had. What I realized was I settled for some reason.
    I would work at 6am and he’d keep the lights on loud noise and be yelling until sometimes 3/4/5am whatever him and his thug friends wanted to do since they didn’t have real jobs anyway. He would just sleep until he got up for work. Leaves trash everywhere and doesn’t pick up for weeks on end. When you try to clean it he yells at you, when you try to help he will complain at you. He will want you to take care of his every need. Hes ‘not’ going to get a license and drive. He’s ‘not’ going to grow up and be responsible financially to pay bills just blow it all on his whatever he wants first.
    He will not do any basic hygiene, (bathing, teeth brushing etc) for weeks on end. He ll lie to anyone anytime to play sides to get whatever he wants.
    He ll take advantage of anything you have, take/keep anything of yours he believes he can keep or is owed. He took advantage of my care of him and had me help him with bills, food, taking him to help him get medicine, taking advantage of anything I have/own, and know.
    He ll shower you with all the love and affection and care that drowns you in it at the beginning and then just start to cut you out and tell you you’re all he wants and needs. How much he loves you, then block you from everything after isolating you, once he gets you isolated away from your friends and family.
    He made a new social media, messaged me long after cutting me off under the guise of apologizing for what he did, wanting to know how I am, messaging hinting at him wanting either my attention or to get back together, “doing great I’m on my own(but pics you sent are you and your hood friend in his van) but not doing great( sounds homeless, got a dog but i gotta give away) but doing great cause….,” and lashed out at me when I told him how what he did was wrong.
    I hope no one else has to deal with his mental breakdowns, lying, manipulations, excuses and just horrible attitude/hygine.

  159. Kevin Vance from North Carolina
    Started off seeing him, he definitely escalated feelings. ‘Knowing the entire time he was moving’-supposedly as well.
    Promised dates, going out, trips. Talked to me about going out and treating me. Led me on about his intentions talking to me how much he talks about me to family, friends, etc. How important I am to him and how much he cares. But really cause? He ignores you for other women, on his phone constantly, talks about them in your presence, has girls come to visit him, talks about all the things he cares about you for but only wants to try to get you into bed with him. Even breaking up with him all he could do was keep trying to grab into my body and asking if he can stay. ‘Crying’ about how he’s going to miss you too, but has already moved on.
    Tried to say he was good to me.
    Like girls stay away from this one he’s definitely toxic and will do what he wants in his “self journey-finding himself” to do whatever he wants and give you poor excuses.

  160. Joshua Johnson from North Carolina
    He was controlling, verbally/mentally manipulative, if something doesn’t go his way it’s never his fault always something/someone else.
    He would accuse me of cheating on him, being a wh-re.
    The worst experience was him screaming this at me while trying to simultaneously pull on my steering wheel while driving.
    He’s made different social media accounts to stalk me or try to talk to me after blocking him.
    He’s a gigantic man child and good luck to anyone who encounters him.

  161. Cole Minter from Jacksonville State, Alabama
    Cole Minter is just a stupid loser. He is lazy and prefers to lay around all day rather than go out with me when I want. Furthermore, after months of dating and leading me on, he told me that he was a “sissy” and that he actually liked to dress as a woman and be with a man! He will lie to you and break your heart. He is clumsy, has no sense of direction, has a small penis, and dresses like a girl for other men!

  162. Chris Julian Medina from Sunland park/El Paso
    Emotionally, mentally and physically abusive. Stalks, harasses, physically damaged my property on multiple occasions when he was upset. He restrained me by my pregnant belly multiple times when I was carrying his child. He has now kicked my door down twice trying to get to his daughter because he lost all custody of her because of all the stuff he’s done. He thinks there’s nothing wrong with his actions. He told me at the beginning of our relationship that I would never get rid of him, he wasn’t joking! Please don’t get involved with him or he will do the same to you, the last five years of my life have been hell!!! It’s been draining to say the least, I’ve lost hair, weight and my sense of self. No one should ever have to go through this much sh-t from the person that claims to love them!!! I have no choice but to move from my home in order to get peace, I will have my address sealed so he cannot find us again. Please don’t let this happen to you you deserve better!!!

  163. Stefan from Maryland
    He was by far the worst boy I’ve ever met in my life. I want to warn other girls who may encounter him. He emotionally abused me for 6 months. That is domestic abuse. He lied to me everyday. He took advantage of me. He discarded me when he got what he wanted. He is a sick person. I pray for the safety of the girls he interacts with. I pray for the female friends he has who don’t know what’s coming. I pray for his family. I have done so much healing and I’m so proud of myself for overcoming the trauma and manipulation he put me through.

    1. This sounds exactly like my experience. Except he wasn’t from Maryland. Wish I knew if we were talking about the same Stefan or not. The experience you had sounds exactly like mine.

  164. Stephen David Horton Jr. from Scurry, TX
    He is a narcissistic @$$ to the EXTREME He lies to all females, goes to bed with any female, has sex w/ one and while she’s still in his bed, goes and gets his ex and brings her home WITH OUT A WORD OF WARNING & hadnt even said a word about wanting the one in his bed to leave. He doesn’t care if any female has any satisfaction or enjoys any s3xual activity as long as he does. and if he doesnt get what he wants when and how. there is hell to blame and it’s all your fault. He is so obsessed with his lower anatomy’s size it’s absurd. Has no couth or consideration to the hurt and heartbreak he causes women to go thru. has been known to f-k more than 1 girl in less than 2 hours with no shower in between and no protection either. needs ego strokes constantly. and is a male chauvanistic pig unlike no other. all women are b-tches. and I hope that the b-tch he’s with right now enjoys how I taste on his d-ck because he didn’t shower today after we f-ed this morning, prior to picking his ex gf up. YES IT’S CRUDELY GROSS AND YES I SURE DID TAKE IT TO THAT LEVEL.
    A LEVEL I SHOULDVE TAKEN IT TOO LONG BEFORE NOW.
    #SORRY,NOTSORRY
    #MEANWHATISAYSAYWHATIMEAN
    #EVERYSINGLEWORD #UNAPOLOGETIC#UDESERVEWORSE
    #REVENGEISADISHBESTSERVEDCOLD”
    #URNOT”BROKEN”UR T-O-X-I-C A-F!!!!
    Rant Over for now
    THANKS YOU SOOOOO MUCH FOR LETTING ME UNLOAD ALL THIS HERE. IT’S APPRECIATED & I’M SO GRATEFUL! WILL BE SPREADING THE WORD

    #NOREGRETS,NOTAKEBACKS,NOREMORSE
    #IGOT99PROBLEMSBUTAD-CKAINT1
    #NOTINTIMIDATEDBYUREXGF

  165. Adam Max Trefonides from MA US
    Cheater, stealther, non payer of debt. Not a trustworthy person. If I had known what this person was like I would not have dated this person at all. I regret that. Waste of my life, my time and caused damages from mental & emotional stress and harm, health, financial and trust in people and men in general. Self absorbed egotistical high opinion of self and not bothered in the slightest if the problems from his decisions end up in another persons life. Never apologized or tried to make up for it in any way.

  166. Christopher G. Fogel from Placer County, Eldorado County, Sacramento County. California
    He’s a grandiose narcissist, alcoholic, lying, cheating, hobosexual. We met it was a one night stand, we ran into each other again and eventually ended up dating. He constantly talks about how great a worker he is, yet he doesn’t have a job. He talks about chivalry and how he’s showing women its not dead. However, he physically attacked me, cheated, lied, and didn’t listen when I took back consent. He is a text book narcissist. He tells half truths about his past, his jobs, everything. He will lie straight to your face while you’re holding the evidence. He is a very bad person that will mirror you. I fell in love. I didn’t know about narcissist and the trauma bond. I’m in therapy because of him. I’ve met 2 of his exes, he did the same behavior to them as well.
    So many red flags I didn’t see. He says he doesn’t have social media, he’s lying. Hes on dating sites too. It’s getting close to the cold season so he’s probably on the prowl looking for his next victim to live with. He will cheat, over and over. He sleeps with anyone. He doesn’t shower or brush regularly, I had to make a rule. He’s got a suspended license and a current dui charge. He choked me one night at a dinner party then drove drunk after. Getting the dui. When he tells you anything ask many questions. You’ll notice he will get vague and put his head down, stop talking. Every story makes him the hero, or victim. He’s never the problem. He talks about his exs nicely until drunk because he knows it’s a red flag. He has no friends longer then 6mths. He’s been 86d from most bars in my area. I’m the craziest ex because I exposed his lies. Now he’s playing the victim, he’s actually an abusive drunk, he destroys women then moves on to the next.
    I’m completely changed after dating him. Therapy is helping but it’s taking so long. The withdrawal is no joke, I’m going through hell. I don’t want anyone to ever have to feel this way, or go through what I did. The more I learn about narcissist the more I see I have a type. Save yourself from paying for a therapist, don’t date Christopher fogel in the placer county, Eldorado County, Sacramento area. He will lie, he will cheat, he will hurt you. You won’t find any info on him on the intro because he makes sure to erase anything and everything. He cheated on his ex wife and some other stuff, the divorce is sealed. He’s has horrible spending habits, works for weird older men but never can keep the job. He’s very aggressive when drunk, gets mean when he’s discarding you. When I spoke about reporting the s3xual coherence he called me 9 times calling me a cop calling rat. I have text of him admitting what he did. He pretended to turn himself in to the cops about it. He literally made a whole scenario up about fight cops and getting kicked out of the police station. I got pregnant and had to have an abortion. He used my abortion to try and get sympathy s3x from his ex. When she told me I lost it. I couldn’t believe someone would do that. He will do anything to get women. Protect yourself and your heart. Christopher Fogel is a very mean and abusive man. Beware of Christopher fogel in california.

    1. I’m sorry he hurt you. Chris fogel is rehab now, playing a victim. He blames the last ex for his abusive behavior. Like a narcissist he’s trying to get sympathy for his problems and actions. Anyone that believes it is not very intelligent. He’s made victims in Northern California for the 7 yrs. Now that one ex publicly exposed Chris Fogel he’s covering his tracks. Don’t be fooled, rehab doesn’t change the violent attacks, the sexual assault or the evil, horrible trauma he’s inflicted. Narcissist do not change. They just get better at hiding. Chris Fogel’s got flying monkeys and enablers in Foresthill,CA. As long as they’re covering for him and paying to help him hide, he will be hurting other women.

  167. Daaunte Embry from Indianapolis, Indiana
    He has lied,cheated on me out here sleeping wit me raw and out here sleeping wit females he’s cheating with raw too! He has abused me almost breaking fingers on right hand and has abused other females he’s been with plus he busted my bedroom door and sliced a 500 dollar purse with a knife .As well steals and this stuff this was our second time together he don’t the same thing the first time we was together 3 yrs cheated on me wit over 35 females never using protection on none the females just doin them all raw and even then he was abusive to me punching me in face while driving and done other stuff to me as well other females to being abusive

  168. Eddie lang from Stanwood wa.
    This man is a s3x addict alcoholic and lies so badly He is not to be trusted for any reason and he is homosexual in the closet with his work buddy willy

  169. Paul Pontii from Kingston, Ontario, Canada
    Paul Pontii is a classic psych0path. He will answer your ad off of social media platforms, appearing to give you what you ask for. He comes across as charismatic, reliable, calm and easygoing at first. He is a manipulator that uses mind control to get you to submit to his will. He claims to be a Dom in the Domination and Submission world. He does not respect women, is verbally abusive, and loves to humiliate you with his words, and tear down women. He does not respect women.

    It is almost impossible to get him to carry out a decent coversation with you, although he is very intelligent. He is emotionally unavailable, and I have reason to believe he has had childhood trauma.

    He has admitted to dating at least three women at a time when he was younger.

    He is a s3x addict, who wants you to indulge and be present every night while he masturbat3s online or on the phone, and gets angry if you are not available until the middle of the morning. He has had s3x with many people in different scenarios.

    He is evasive, and I have reason to believe that he is working with others. Beware! For women that want to find a good Dom in the Domination and Submission K1nk world, beware of him. He is a Master Manipulator, and dangerous! He asked me questions about who I socialize with, and I got the impression he was trying to isolate me. He is very jealous, and egomaniacal. Please protect your emotions, and even better, don’t get involved with him.

  170. Tang Zhe Chong (Kevin) from Born in Zhe Jiang, China. Canadian citizen from Toronto but lives around the world
    Travels around the world and sleeps with girls, pretending he’s looking for a serious relationship, then cheats on you. Takes nudes of them and stores it in his phone as souvenirs. Don’t believe a word he says!

    Goes by Zhe, his lifelong dream is to be a business school professor. No moral compass. Has undergone multiple cosmetic procedures including limb lengthening surgery and hair transplantation. Tattoos on left arm of a bear in the forest and right arm with Koi fish and flowers. Anchor tattoo on chest. Currently working in Singapore as a research assistant.

  171. Robert Jarrett aka Trevon Moore from Savannah, Georgia
    Met him on Moco Space in 2015, during that time he was living in Atlanta, GA; told me he was divorced because I do not date or talk to men that are married or separated. He lied to me after the 3-year breakup in 2018. Years later, I wanted to rekindle and reached out to him in 2021, this time I was with him for 2 years (still called him Trevon or Trey because that’s the name I knew him by, but his legal name is Robert Hearns Jarrett Jr. named after his father) Mother’s obituary is public record (Angela Woods Jarrett). I had caught him in the same lie again about being married because I video-called his phone and his wife answered my phone; he had told his wife that he didn’t have a fiancée and that he didn’t know what I was talking about. I want to warn any woman who comes across this man; he is sick and well-goes to dialysis for Polycystic kidney disease (PKD) and just transferred back to Jacksonville, Florida for work. If anyone comes across this man on any social media, he claims to be in the lifestyle of a dominant (Humble King). He will tell you that his name is Trevon Moore, but it is not his birth name; he’s using a false name and pretense to get over on women and used them while all the while still married to his wife-his real legal and birth name is Robert Jarrett, he would get to know every single thing about you, make proclamations of love to you, and propose to you. But knowingly he can’t marry you because he’s already married (he doesn’t deny this, nor does he show you proof that he’s divorced after asking) If you ask questions about his family, he will tell you he doesn’t get along with any of them. This is true because I tried and failed to really find out who I had been involved with for the past 2 years, ladies please be aware of this person-he is living a terrible lie under a false name.

  172. Khalid Williams from Newmarket, Ontario, Canada
    The absolute worst partner I have ever had. 4 years of toxicity, physical and emotional abuse, manipulation, gaslighting, and violence. He will die thinking he did nothing wrong. Run. Fast.

  173. Donny L. Pugh, Jr. from Port Orchard, WA
    This guy comes on way too strong from the very beginning and he won’t leave you alone. He has deep seated mommy problems that he talks about constantly. He is a True Malevolent Narcissist. He held me hostage in my car with my dog and raged at me about how I was flirting with a 21 year old kid. I am 55 years old and would never go after somebody young enough to be my grandkid. He was texting my son’s 21 year old girlfriend negative things about me that aren’t true and threatened to get me fired. He is currently threatening and stalking me. Stay away from this guy. He is crazy and his skills in bedroom are lacking. Yikes!!

  174. Kai H. from Indiana
    My ex had a very destructive bipolar like attitude. If something didn’t go his way it was always your fault. He would name call you and attempt to control your every move. He believed that women were all weak, stupid and basically s1utty.
    He would make accusations that I was a premadonna, stupid, s1utty and more. He never once showed any compassion regarding my life and told me that my career was worthless (even though I’m more educated than he is). He will never remember your birthday nor buy you anything. He’s a big whiny man-child who honestly acts like a 5 year old who just got sent to the corner. He pursued me for months and then threw a hissy fit when I got a new man.

  175. Willie cox from Danville Illinois
    My ex is a player. He likes to be on dozens of dating sites under different names including our sons name. So sometimes it’s Devante, Isaiah, Treyvon and I’m sure there is more but basically this lack of a man will move in with you , use you for any money you have so basically a freeloader who doesn’t buy clothes or diapers for his kids and busy out on streets in a car he has no license to drive. Lady’s beware you will go from a stable household to debt where all you do is work while he is out seeing other women and gambling.

  176. Stephen Goldberg from Richmond, Virginia/Washington, DC
    Stephen Goldberg from Richmond, Virginia, but now working in the Arlington and Washington, DC area, is a domestic abuser and a cheater. He works in IT/tech support and comes off as a nice enough guy, but he is a prolific lair, cheater, and violent abuser.

    He sent at least one ex to the hospital. Stephen Goldberg deserves to be in jail. Stay far away from him or you could end up unconscious on your apartment floor.

  177. Christopher Luna from Austin, TX
    He’s actually my ex-husband. He was controlling throughout our 7-year marriage. After I gave birth to our son (on my ex’s birthday), he insisted that I work at just 7 weeks after the birth. I had an emergency C-section and was still in pain and limping. He didn’t care. When I was sleep-deprived and asked for a babysitter, he said no. Then he insulted me. Then he made a deal with me that I would work for 2 more years, and then I could stay home with our son. When I completed the 2 years, he said we couldn’t afford it. The last straw was Christmas, when I wanted to invite a few friends over for a holiday party, and he said no. What kind of partner says no to a party with friends at Christmas? I was upset, and I told him I wanted a divorce. But I didn’t file. I reached out to my therapist. After the holidays, he filed for divorce, and he lied about my mental health to get custody. He kept my son away from me for 5 months. My son wants to live with me, but my ex insisted on 50/50 custody. And his biggest priority was getting more money from the sale of our house, plus the tax break. My lawyer told me to settle because court was risky and unpredictable. So he gets to lie and manipulate things, and my son and I pay the price. He blamed me for him filing for divorce. I apologized for hurting him, but it’s been 7 months, and he still blames me for everything.

  178. Jordan Ackerman from Carlsbad, CA
    He abandoned me pregnant and said to have an abortion 9yrs ago. Since then he avoids following through on his agreed visitation, rarely seeing our child. Him and his family are wealthy but he pays bare minimum child support and his ex business partner revealed to me that he hides money in shell accounts and LLcs and uses his sisters name to help do that to avoid proper child support amount. Our child needed back to school clothes and ge bought her 5 items from the MEND section, all hideous and large and when I asked him to help more then that he proceeded to call her overweight and blame me for the way he thinks she looks to him and told me to take her to a THRIFT store and buy her a wardrobe with $50 all while ge drives expensive cars and lives my the ocean and in Palm Springs. He talked this way about a 9yr old little girl amd I have the texts to prove it. He’s by my definition a deadbeat dad and her grandparents could care less.

  179. Steven Hernandez from St. Albans, Vt
    He is a narcissist.
    Be destroys women by making them believe he’s a wonderful guy.

    He wears a particular uniform once a month…

    He is physically abusive.
    He uses what little power he believes he has to literally smear your name, create drama, literally screws every single woman he can find.

    He’ll say that his exes are crazy, want him, are obsessed with him — none of that is true.

    He’s cruel and has extreme anger issues.

    He will destroy your life.

  180. toni from Las Vegas
    He cheated on me with a group of guys! He became a sissy and met with men and sold his body behind my back! He dresses like a girl and always wore my clothes for these meetings! He deserves this!

  181. Brent Bennett from Central New York State
    This sick man in his late 40s is extremely abusive. He is a narcissistic sociopath that has no boundaries. He will do the utmost on your head, and leave you in the dust. Any age range from 18 to 60. He moved in the sub house and s3x s1av3 he found for us, thinking I’d be all for it, and I destroyed his AND HER fantasy. They’re actively hunting for another woman and the NEPA is also being hunted… My old hometown area. He uses methamphetamines to drug you, and increase your s3x drive to get you to do what he wants. I have screenshots of when he was manipulating me to make a profile to hunt down a woman so we could “r*pe her and throw her in the snow”. These two tried a plan to convince me to go to his house, unknowing she was already moved in, so we could finally meet. I tried warning her of what he was trying to do behind my back, and she never answered. Because… She was in on it. It was also done to other women who have contacted me about it. This man is also studying psychology to open a business where he can “help” WOMEN ONLY. It’s so he can have his harem he as always wanted… I am putting word out everywhere to warn women of these predators. He is extremely skilled at lying, and manipulating. BE CAREFUL LADIES!!! ALL AGES AND SIZES!!!

  182. Richard Diliberto from Satellite Beach Florida
    He completely took advantage of me and my family for 6 years we have a child together that is 3 years old. He has another child that is 16. He never took care of or was there for in her life even when I stepped in I took care of her. He caused me and his daughters and my daughter that he’s been around since she was born so much distress from constantly deserting her more than one occasion he destroyed our family my father my children he depleted us emotionally physically and financially. I’ve given him everything he has a buisness he claims he built but me and my father purchased everything for him to just maintain a buisness. Please Beware of this man and his evil intentions he is physically and mentally abusive and will never change. He tried to hit my 74 year old father with a chair. He has done everything to try to separate the sisters that lived together their whole lives and is trying to harm their mother by trying to put her in jail he is the worst man I’ve ever met in my life and I’m not supposed to have hate or anger towards anyone I truly try to be humble but God and karma will come his way. He is a user and abuser and cannot take care of himself his mother bought him new equipment he can’t do anything for himself he’s out for himself and will selfishly take advantage of the next woman he comes across because he loves no one he is a addict and has used drugs while the mother supported the kids. He is one to completely look the other way. I wish I did but I can’t say that because I love my daughter so much but boy I wish I never met this man.please God

  183. Victor Li from San Francisco/Houston/New York
    I met Victor on Hinge in SF. When we met, he was a perfect gentleman, extremely charismatic. We went on a couple dates and then he had a family emergency and he never messaged me again. I recently saw a TikTok exposing him as a serial cheater that had girls in several different states. After contact some girls, it was revealed that he is a serial cheater and a pathological liar.

  184. Josiah Cone from Altoona PA
    This guy is a total f-boy. He texted me for two days all day all night and then basically came on so strong almost to the point where he was really aggressive. He asked me to the movies and then said he couldnt afford it, only to go to the bar that night to probably pick up more girls. BEWARE LADIES

  185. Josh Salas from New York, Brooklyn
    This guy, who’s name Josh Salas is a Latin American guy. When we first met at 2017 he was really kind, gentle, romantic. He was cheated on 2 times before and I would never think he will do smth same to me, because he knows the pain of it. Long time about 2 years I couldn’t understand why his exes cheated on him if he is so amazing? But then O started notice, that several times when we already came back home he started to tel me about girls who were flirting with him. And instead of show attention to me to let them know we are together, he, I’m pretty sure just flirted with them back. I understand it only rn. I already gave a birth for our baby when I was only 23 and he was 30. First year he was good to us even tho we already the whole year lived in different countries, because he was making docs for me to come back in USA to be as official marriage couple. We planned future together. While I’m in my country he used to get for me a lot of gifts and for our baby and they are still there in NYC. Then, in 2 years after we started date, one thing happened, that always changed my mi f about him. While I was alone taking are about our baby in my country, I saw in his live Instagram how he talks in a camera to several girls who showed them naked butts. After that I didn’t wanna be with him, but only because we have a baby I decided to give him a chance just for a baby. When he found out that I saw this live he was telling sorry bunch of times and he was supposly really sorry. At least it looked like that. Then in a half of the year, 1 of January he telling me that we are actually not together already 2!!!! years!!!! When just yesterday he was telling me how much he loves me!!! In 3 months he blocked me in all social medias. The in 3 more months he blocked me in what’s app and FaceTime. Our the only place where he and baby used to talk. He dissapear for 2 weeks while I stayed alone with baby on my hands don’t know what to do next. Then he called me only in 3 weeks after disappearing from a fake phone l. That’s how we are talking still already the whole year. I do t want talk to him, but I try make everything that baby got at least some connection with him. The other days I found out, that he started have a new gf exactly same period, when he dissapear for 3 weeks and started talk to us from a fake phone. I just saw on her Instagram pics, that he started give away all those new gifts that he got for me while I’m in my country and didn’t have a cnahce to get them in person. He also made for her exactly same necklace just with her name. Looks like he is trying to make her a copy of me. But to be honest she is not even a half version of me. Not good at all.
    He is those type of guy that can also talk to other girls same time when he is in relationships. Don’t trust him. He lies very good. You will never believe his puppy eyes. Trust me. He also makes music (that is really horrible) and Troy g to be on social medias those person who is not really him. He is very very broke boy. Not a man at all. He never keeps his words. Joshuaflyboy is the worst ever person I met in my life. That’s his name everywhere if you are interested.

  186. BANE MOSLEY from JACKSONVILLE/MIDDLEBURG Fl
    This man is a total parasite. He’s an institutionalized narcissistic egomaniac, sociopath, and psychopath been in prison more than he’s been out and that’s where he should be Society is not safe with this form of a human body walking around but it’s actually the devil running around..his whole life getting by on his looks fortunately Karma kicked in is last bid took a major hit on his looks. I knew he was a devil when when I first met him I rode a four-year bid with him treated him like a king got whatever he wanted spent $10,000 only to find out so I took care of his other drug addicted girlfriend which mind you I’m not a junkie took care of her 2 year stay in county ,and took care of one of his other little girlfriend’s probation ..and I have no idea who else I helped take care of ..He got to work release got the $300 phone he insisted he had to have and got his $2,000 worth of clothing when he got to work release and had no problem at all just brushing me off .. but him not being in my life is definitely a blessing I’m too much of a grown woman for a f-boy .he wants women that he can run game on All he knows how to do is sell meth and he’s not even good at that because he can’t stay out of prison long enough to sell it. He is the most vile person that I’ve ever come across. I cannot imagine spending 4 years of my life every single day with someone talking to them multiple multiple multiple times a day catering to them and then just so easily like I was never anything to him at all whatsoever, and without one conscious thought set my soul on I’m fire let me dead in the eyes as I’m burning and dying and laughing at the same time that’s him what he does he gets off on that. They are called cons for a reason. He’s also known to throw hands .. luckily I dodge that bullet too but I don’t think that either one of us would have survived the first fight ..tell me one time it was his way or my way .He prefers unattractive drug addicted women who will put up with him because they need his dope but that was not me I was his first non-junkie girlfriend. Now the thought of being called his anything just literally makes my stomach turn. This man does not have one good redeeming quality about his self at all everything about him is scam see what I can get out of you . He likes to see how big of a clown I can make out of you and then toss you aside.. he’s also currently in the middle of an investigation of the worst kind if you can only imagine. Crossing my fingers that he has to pay for what he did to many women.Told I wasn’t going to be happy until he was that where he belongs which is behind bars or no longer breathing my air which means that he passed away from natural causes… beware ladies if you run across the scumbag run

  187. Nick Sweeney from Baton Rouge, Louisiana USA
    This is an abridged story of an ex from a few years ago. I’ve been wanting a way to warn other women to stay away from this boy. I’ve finally found somewhere where I can do so. Please be advised, if you are triggered by DA/DV and name calling, don’t read on.

    I met Nick sweeney during a very dark time in my life. He’s from baton rouge, Louisiana.

    My heart was broken due to believing that I was unwanted and amounted to nothing. I was convinced i was no longer good at my job and was just utterly broken. In rolls Nick who eased the pain I felt in my heart.

    That is until I did something he didn’t like. It didn’t matter what it was. It didn’t matter what I said. I was always wrong and always a “stupid b1tch” or a “c*nt”. It started out because I was worried about him staying over for WEEKS at a time (my roommates didn’t like him). If I told him no, he would verbally abuse me until I gave him what he wanted. My roommates would leave the entire time he was there and wouldn’t come back until he was gone.

    He would throw things at me, snatch things out of my hand and break them, throw entire pots of food on the floor, scream at me, verbally and mentally abused me, and even demonstrate how he’d like to bash my head in with a wooden cooking utensil.

    I stayed because he made me feel something other than the pain I was feeling. Eventually, one pain was traded for another. I began to wake up every single day with a painful knot in my stomach. As soon as I opened my eyes, I dreaded the day. I was losing myself in this vicious and abusive relationship. I was anxious and on edge all the time.

    The final straw was when he put his hands on me for the first time. He went from 0-100. The argument was over him forcing me to go to sleep for the night. It was 9pm and I wanted time by myself. He wasn’t having it. He flipped out. Pushed me to the ground, kept me from leaving my house, ripped my shirt off of me, stole my wallet and keys. When I tried to make a mad dash for the back door, he grabbed my dogs leash, hooked it around my neck, yanked me back, and tried to choke me out. I was eventually able to escape with my dog, But not before he punched me in the face as I got into my car. He was a hair too slow afterwards. I was able to lock my doors and keep him from dragging me out of my car. I have a strong feeling if I wouldn’t have gotten away, he would have used his gun on me that night. Later that night when we were safely at my friend’s house, we found that he had hit my dog on the head with something so hard that she had a wound on it.

    He stayed at my apartment for over a week. In that time, he took a knife to my walls and sliced all the way down the hall, punched huge holes in the walls, wrote a long nasty letter on the wall in front of the door so everyone could see “what a horrible girlfriend I was”. There was trash everywhere and he stole many dumb things just to spite me. (like a cast iron pan that I bought) he squeezed and entire bottle of lube on the carpet because “if lube is needed, the woman is failing. She should never need lube”

    If you’re friends with him, stay away. He will use you and throw you away. Countless friends of his put him up in their homes only for him to literally destroy things, such as a bathroom sink, in their house and refuse to fix what he broke.

    He is abusive towards all women. Even knows he doesn’t know. If a woman slights him in any way, she’s a “f-ing b1tch” and he will threaten to kill her. He threatened to throw rocks at the rental managers car, beat her up, and kill her for towing his car that was illegally parked.

    Please, stay away from him. You cannot fix him. Don’t fall into his trap of making you feel worthless. You deserve better than that.

    P.s. if you have animals, he will abuse them. He had a dog he picked up from some friends and that same day he punched the dog repeatedly to “show her where her place was”. We had given them bones from the butcher once and failed to realize that too much bone would give the dogs explosive diarrhea. They couldn’t control it. He stomped on his dog multiple times and she was screaming. It was horrible. Nick Sweeney is a horrible, awful sorry excuse for a human being. When you see him, run away. Don’t walk. And don’t look back.

  188. Sabbir Rahman from United Kingdom
    Verbally abusive and once threw a plastic bottle in my direction.

    He also was communicating with other girls when in a relationship with me.

    We broke up 2014.

  189. Sean Gilbert Langley from Warrenton, VA
    He has been charged with domestic violence against his pregnant girlfriend. He is an alcoholic. He is addicted to meth. He is a cheater, a liar. He is a narcissist. He hides all of this very well. He keeps the mask on. But if you are around him long enough, it will fall off and you’ll see. He says he only abuses the ones he really loves. He will have s3x with anyone male or female. He rarely uses a condom unless he is forced by the other person. He has STDs. Does not disclose that. He has four children that he currently only supports 2 of them. And he was forced by the court to support the two. Pretty sure he’s on his next victim to get her pregnant so he has somewhere to live. He will trap you by getting you pregnant. He will use you and take everything from you financially. He’s very good at this he’s been doing it fir over 20yrs. He is 44 years old. He likes to either go for a really young women in their 20s that are naïve and don’t know. Or he goes for single mom’s. Just trying to see if someone from the heartache. And not to get an STD from him. He is very abusive. Most of It is public record so you can Google him. He blames it on his exes. He says they’re crazy. But it’s all lies. He is a bartender, so he picks up a lot of people there. In the beginning, he will love bomb you. Future fake. Tell you everything that you want to hear. Make promises. But it’s all lies. Please be careful if you encounter him.

  190. David Zingaro from Richmond Virginia
    David Zingaro is an abuser and a rapist. In our (too-long) relationship, he raped me repeatedly and convinced me and himself it was okay through a barrage of emotional abuse, gaslighting, and manipulation. He was emotionally and physically abusive throughout our entire relationship. He repeatedly raped me throughout our relationship and gaslit me when I tried to bring up the brutality of the encounters after the fact. He would claim to “not remember” the assaults. Avoid at all costs–he is severely troubled and extremely abusive. Afterwards, I attempted to confront him and he claimed I was “crazy” and lumped me in with other so called “crazy” ex girlfriends. Avoid at all costs. He is a rapist, an abuser, and a narcissist.

  191. Taylor Waidhofer from Houston, TX
    Taylor Waidhofer was verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive. He does drugs a lot, I think, because I didn’t find out until later in our relationship. I still think that he’s a good guy, but be careful if you start dating him.

  192. Dean Delserro from Wharton NJ
    This man is the worst type of malignant narcissist.
    He appears to be the “perfect” guy. (Professional job, nice car, divorced and spends time as a dad with his kids.) He will treat you like a true gentleman for months maybe even years. But then slowly it comes out he’s been with multiple other women (usually on business trips he refuses to allow you to join him on); starts to devalue you; major attempts to control you and if you push back he used gaslighting, manipulation and lies to try and shut your voice down. He is the ultimate wolf in sheep’s clothing. He studies gun laws like they’re the Bible, owns several of them and has been known to round aboutly threaten women with them. He will steal money from you, video tape you without your knowledge or consent while having s3x with him (there are cameras all over his home including I discovered the bedroom) then use that footage as leverage against you if you reveal him. He’s cool, calm and collected in demeanor to a point he could be equated with a sociopath. He can lie straight faced to anyone about anything. He’s always looking for the angle to deceive a person. Do not be fooled by his showcase of flowers, attention to heartfelt details or his lavish weekends away. He does the same routine w every woman and as soon as he no longer has power or control in the relationship he discards you without another thought or word he’s just done w you and moves on to the next woman. He’s been through two wives and has no conscience.

  193. Michael James Pierce from Tustin, CA.
    Mike Pierce is a dog. He is great at being fake because he has 2 faces. It’s called multiple personality disorder. He is a narcissist and he said it himself that his goal was to get me so upset that I’d be pulling my own hair out. That’s what he did to his baby’s mom & ex wife. He beat me up several times. I always had bruises when we were together.
    He compares all women to each other so I was basically no different than her in his eyes. Even though I never did any of the messed up things she did or what any of his exes did, but I still had to pay for all their mistakes. He doesn’t have the brain capacity to differentiate his past girlfriends from his all new girlfriend who never did any thing to hurt him. He did his best to break me. He started fights on purpose to get me mad so I would say something mean to him and he used that as a reason to disappear for 2 days and not answer his phone and call me a psycho for showing up to look for him since he was no where to be found. That’s if he would even open the door. He was the worst person I’ve ever dealt with in my life. I’ve been in so much trouble and nearly landed a few cases over him pretending to be a victim. I am the victim in reality but I don’t like people looking at me like that so I wouldn’t say anything. I just dealt with it on my own in silence. I was so embarrassed to tell anyone the things he would do to me. I felt stupid for letting him get away with it. I just loved him so much. I didn’t understand exactly all the games he was playing because of all the manipulation and games and blaming me for stuff I never did. He used that as a tactic to break me down and steal my confidence gas lighting me to the point of confusion.. I was unaware of what a true narcissist really was. He is a monster! After him takes recovery time and getting help to be pulled out of the mind f-ing. He would tell me im the worst things on the planet but it was always him. I honestly feel sorry for anyone who tries to love him. He went back to his ex because her handicapped husband mysteriously died out of no where. That was her second husband who died. When my ex was married to her, she tried to kill him with rat poison in his food more then once. She fed their baby the same lasagna with the rat poison in it. She cheated on him the day they got married and stayed cheating with that same man throughout their entire marriage. She cheated on her last husband who just died too. He was fresh in the morgue, with no date set to be buried and they were already f-ing in her dead husbands bed. No respect no shame. I actually helped her clean her house for his funeral because she was ACTING LIKE SHE WAS SO UPSET! They are both dirty scandalous liars! God sees everything. He knows what’s in our hearts & he can read our souls. I loved that man and he did me so wrong and to add to it he continues to talk crap on me calling me fat, degrading me, saying evil stuff about my body. He is a horrible person. Mike Pierce has a long disgusting criminal background with almost half of his life being in prison. He wanted me to have nothing by the time he left me. He tried to ruin my family relationships and he messed up both of my cars. Now I have no car and he’s happy about that. I hope and pray that anyone who is interested in him in any way does a background report on him. Especially if you have children please run the other way. He will suck your soul dry. He also has one deceased wife. Her name was Karen. He has a child with her that he never raised. He has a tattoo on his arm that’s says REST IN PISS KAREN. God help me – I’m sorry for writing that but it’s true. It has a picture of a man pissing on a grave. His ex wife was sober the entire time they were apart. She is no longer sober and she was a drug counselor. Over him she is on drugs, drinking and she lost her career. She is being robbed of her life as well. I wonder which one will suck the other ones soul dry first… At least if they stay together he can’t do this to any other unsuspecting innocent women. Oh wait … He is a cheater so yes he will just do it under the radar like he did to me. Any women who f-s another women’s man is stupid if she thinks he won’t be f-ing other women when he is with her. A cheater is a cheater. You either cheat or you don’t. There is no in between. It is ingrained in us from childhood. Some were raised right and some were raised to be trash raised by trash. People don’t change . It’s rare if they change but they usually don’t. He was the cheapest loser I have ever been with and he is clueless about how to treat a women. Don’t be fooled this guy’s can’t be trusted.

  194. Alan bush from Ocean beach California
    I was seeing him for a while, asked him several times if he was seeing anyone. He invited me over to his his one night. He said his roommate wasn’t home. As I left in the morning I found a bra in his room. I guess the roommate shares his bed. Later to find out on line that he had a wife and a child. I asked him about it and it was lie after lie.
    Made sense to why when he would spend the night with me to why he always had an excuse to why he has to leave ealry in the morning 5-6 am .
    I threatened to tell his partner but never did.
    He’s a complete narcissist he’ll never take blame for his constant lies.

  195. John C from Orange County, CA
    Every single word that comes out of his mouth is a lie. Every action that he does is a lie. The true him won’t come out until the very end. And everything he says from the moment he meets you is going to be a lie. He’s a narcissistic mean person who is cruel evil and enjoys hurting his girl. He honestly gets pleasure out of using his words to rip you to shreds you will leave the relationship feeling worthless empty and alone.

  196. Johno from United Kingdom
    Seemed a nice guy at the beginning but unfortunately very toxic, rude and spoiled a-hole.
    Cheat and the biggest backstabber. He started to see someone else while I was abroad looking after my mum who passed from cancer.
    He claimed that we were on the “same level ” without even asking me what my feelings were and he claimed that we were only friends. He kept repeating that I should start someone else just after my mum passed.

    I stuck with him despite he treated me like a doormat. I looked after him when he had his back surgery and he couldn’t walk his German shepherd dog for months. I cooked every single day and cleaned his house. I stayed with him on good and bad days. And he left me when my world was falling apart.

    Other red flags:
    – always belittled me – my thoughts and my boundaries
    – embarrassed me in front of his parents and friends
    – never were happy with how I looked or what I wore
    – diminishing my opinion, my work, my hobbies, and my contribution to the household.

    I understand he is not good for me, and I have to thank the universe I am not with him but the betrayal will hurt me for a long time.

  197. Brandyn Simmons from Chicago, IL
    This man is a serial cheater, compulsive liar and hates to be challenged when caught in a lie. He uses charm and his good looks to manipulate and smooth talk those around him so that he gets what he wants. He has a steady supply of girlfriends and with that comes gaslighting, manipulation, lies, hot/cold emotions and someone who is always busy and wont have serious conversations unless it is to his benefit. You will be swept off your feet and will feel like he is “the one”. He uses his position to gain the trust of others as you would never believe that someone in his career would do the things that he does. He has several girlfriends scattered around all who make sure his ego is fed and he is entertained. He is highly emotionally manipulative and you will often feel crazy or made to feel irrational. Your emotions will be a problem for him. The truth is that you never really know where he is, who he is with or what he is doing because he has a good story to go with it. You won’t even realize it. He will talk about vulnerability and boundaries but that is for his benefit to feed you what you need to hear. He is a narcissist and will use anyone to get what he wants. You will be the love of his life if he thinks or knows you have money or connections that he can get to by being with you. This is a man who is a scammer and can manipulate most which is why it’s so hard to believe. It is shocking that he has not been caught is a scam. I think he has but there is a “victim” story to go with it. He will tell you his ex’s are crazy and for that reason you need to block people on social media. The truth is that he doesn’t want to get caught in a lie and for this reason has several accounts. He uses social media to his benefit. He is not the person he wants everyone to believe he is and will only be around as long as you are entertaining him and feeding his ego. Ladies – this is not a man anyone should be in a relationship with or having s3x unless you are ok with being one of many. I wish I had written this earlier but was motivated after seeing him in a picture with another women who is not his girlfriend. The reason I know is that his current girlfriend and I have mutual friends.

  198. Stefan from Baltimore MD
    I dated him for half a year. He loved bombed me for the first month or so. I really liked him and he acted so sweet to me. But it was just a manipulation tactic. He emotionally abused me for the entire 6 months. He lied to me, used me, neglected me. Those 6 months were torture. He treated me like shit under the guise that he had undiagnosed depression and mental illness. While he probably does have severe mental issues, that’s not an excuse to manipulate me. Please be careful if you meet this boy. He is a threat. His entire family apologized to me for what he had done. I have taken steps since leaving that relationship to protect myself from this person.

    1. This sounds exactly like my experience, except the Stefan I knew wasn’t from Maryland. But the love bombing, the 6 months relationship, the emotional abuse, manipulation, undiagnosed mental illness is all the same as my experience. Wish I knew if it was the same guy.

  199. Timothy Grant Gray from Timothy Grant Gray
    He is a deadbeat dad. Our daughter is 15 and he only recently asked to be in her life after going and having three more kids with different women. I let him into her life and after a few months he stopped paying child support and ghosted not just me but our innocent daughter. He ran off to North Carolina with his grandma smh he turned 36 today but ran away from his first born to be with his grandma lol. He is a horrible man who uses women and obviously doesn’t have a heart if he can destroy his own child.

  200. Julio Jaramillo Cortes from Belton ,Texas Bell Co.
    He hides His drug addiction and alcohol usages , he loves to lie about being single because of his ex’s but He still talks to them all takes them out has s3x with them ..when I first met him he sounded like he was abused by his ex’s and he spoke badly about them until one day I was at work and one of Those ex’s text me to see who I was on Facebook then I called him then he told me she was nobody but then minutes later that very same woman screen shot his messages to her saying I was a crazy woman a nobody that she didn’t have to question anything because he loved her .but then when I get off work he texts and calls me mad and tells me that woman was a nobody and I didn’t need to be jealous of her because she was crazy … And he wanted me to go straight home to be with him and not worry about her .but days later when we were together on our day off that same woman calls him around the time I used his phone and I answer in front of him and put her on speaker then she’s saying out loud papi where are u why haven’t u called me are you going to meet up with me are you going to send me money , I was like what the heck , hell no .. the girl heard me I talk to her then she says she’s been with him for yrs and I was like he is my boyfriend for 2 yrs . Then he looks at me and says to me and her while she is on phone and says both of y’all are crazy I get mad about to leave when I grab his phone then I just look into it more I see more women half naked conversation on Facebook messenger and money being involved I was like this pervert lying so I slap him on check for lying and punch him another time for cheating on me and them like that he gets up from floor and says laughing wow I deserve that and laughs at me calling me crazy constantly as I cry and walk off his phone was in my hands more woman appear popping up on his messanger to meet up to make love and have s3x with him I got grossed out it left me super hurt heart broken for months yrs past and often he tries looking for me saying I love you I want is you only but He still the same messing with more woman and even more Ex’s one called me months ago and says she’s been with him 20 yrs I’m like oh my and nobody wants to put a stop to him ..now this ex boyfriend is from Guanajuato Mexico He lies he is not one to trust , the drugs he does is just uncalled for too before these women popped up I was wondering why he would grabbing me hard and cursing at me it’s because out of his pocket earlier that same day out came out a small plastic with white powder in it I’m told it could of been cocaine not sure because I don’t do drugs never have never will ….so I hope this can save another girl looking for saving because I really didn’t think there are men like this still in the world stay safe sad to say I am out of this relationship but still broken by the whole bad experience of it

  201. Lyle Benson from Littleton
    Lyle Benson was great in the bedroom. Wild fun, dominate, and oh so skilled with his mouth but he was a terrible boyfriend. Refused to settle down and was always going off to Japan where I know he had a bunch of little fan girls just waiting for him to come back.

  202. Jim Data from Nevada city California
    I dated this man for almost 2 years.
    When his rage and accusations started I left him, only to take him back, many times.
    He will love bomb you, and after a few months the rage and accusations will start.
    It is scary.
    He abuses his dog, so I’m sure he will do the same to a woman.
    Don’t be fooled by his charm at first. That is just to get you where he wants you.
    He will abuse you mentally, as he did me.
    Luckily I escaped before the physical abuse started. His ex girlfriend was abused also.

  203. John Milne from Norwell, MA
    John was an actual insane person.

    He was the king of gaslighting. He knew how to lie about everything. I was not allowed at his house because his “family is weird”. I was not allowed to go to his hockey games because “you don’t want to come”. Turns out he was cheating on me the whole time (with his ex) and his ex lived with him and his family had no clue who I was.

    John also did not know boundaries when it came to what was being done intimately. I had to basically scream at him to stop at what he was doing and he just found it funny and when I broke up he said “I didn’t realize it bothered you.” Even when I had expressed that it was awful and uncomfortable.

    John also is nowhere near a gentleman. He expected me to pay A LOT of the time. I can understand 50/50, but it was not that.

    Before you think I am crazy and that I was the other woman, I had contacted the ex and talked with her at extent and she told me a lot of this info as well.

  204. Derrick Martel from West Paris, Maine
    Derrick and I matched on several dating apps, met locally and started a relationship. About 4 months in I found out he was s3xting my “best friend” and roughly four other girls (that I saw myself), he also had one of his female friends over about 2 months into our relationship and cheated on me with her. That same night he came to my house- STILL STINKING!!! I dismissed it as he must have just had a fish sandwich from McDonald’s on to way over, no joke.. I saw the message where she had thanked him when I found the other s3xt messages! He also lied to me on the first date about his drinking habits, relationship status, and other illegal substance use. Ladies, it only got worse from there. He is controlling and hot headed, changing women like underwear.

  205. Kenyatta Mack from San Antonio, Texas
    He is a covert narcissist, who is great at using his childhood trauma to manipulate women. He targets successful, easing going and empathetic women. He starts with love bombing that eventually turned into a pattern of criticism, blaming and belittling me followed by telling me how much he cared for me. Used terms like “we” but when I started to pay close attention they only thing he did was for his benefit, anything else he did for me was very superficial. I was the only one in he relationship making sacrifices for the relationship. Made lots of promises about marriage, settling down and buying/building a home with no real action other than words….lots of gaslighting when bringing up concerns. He has toxic relationships all within his family and frequently has had investigations at different work locations due to the environment he created. He always talked about how loyal he was, how he wasn’t going anywhere and didn’t club, hangout, etc. But I Did not know for years but eventually found out he had a “narcissistic harem” which is having several women to feed his narcissistic supply. To avoid years of emotional abuse from being criticized, devalued, manipulated and lied to stay far away from him. Narcissists DO NOT change because they never see themselves as the problem, have no accountability because they lack empathy.

  206. Dave Ankenbauer from Colorado
    Dave Ankenbauer uses everyone in his life. First of all he cheated on me. I should have known he could not be trusted, he has 2 ex-wives after all. So here are all of his red flags that I figured out after we broke up:
    1. Love bomber (he was so intensely into me up until he cheated, he would do this thing in which he would interrupt whatever I was doing, stand as closely as possible to me, and demand that I look him in the eyes while he said, “It’s so important to me that you know that I am ALL IN.”).
    2. No real friends (all of his relationships are transactional, outside of his mother (and me), everyone he has a relationship with has been a former client of his. These people are in his life so he can get something from them like money, a cheap place to live, validation, and in my case s3x and companionship.
    3. He is very judgmental of others yet seems to have no capacity for self-reflection
    4. He drinks way too much
    5. He is totally enmeshed with his mother
    6. He is very co-dependent
    7. His entire identity is wrapped up in being a “good man” who likes to be helpful. However, he cheated, he lied, he was manipulative, he used me to help him get out of a depression, to build up his ego, to help him get over his erectile disfunction and p0rn addiction.

    There is are so many more red flags, but these are the most important ones.

  207. Sam Edmunds from North Carolina
    Thought I had the guy off my dreams only to come home and find him completely dressed as a s1utty girl. Everything from makeup to wig and high heels, he looked like a woman completely, to top it off he was watching sissy hypno p0rn on the computer . What a jerk!

  208. Richard Travis Hartman from USA
    He is on the run for some reason. Just packed up his stuff, took a lot of her stuff too; and left his kid behind. Assumption is he’s in CO or OK, but he could be anywhere in the US by now.

    He’s an abuser. He’s a narcissist. He has been accused multiple times of m0lesting his wife’s niece when she was younger, which I now believe he did.

    I don’t know what lies he’s telling everyone now, but he is not to be trusted. Hopefully, this will save a female or many from his abuse.

    5’6″/50s/hazel eyes/salt n pepper hair (black)

  209. Jonathan Melioli from Defiance Ohio
    What i thought was my happy ever after, was actually my doom to certain mentality death. I fell in love fast as a young girl who has been through too much too explain, and abandonment issues like no other i was immediately wrapped around his finger, which he knew. He wanted me to get rid of all of my guy friends because “his mom had been such a cheater” he was paranoid about anyone else, i couldn’t have possible been more naïve and did exactly that. it declined from there, i couldn’t have female friends either, he didn’t like my family, let alone his own. even though they were more than good to him, and he got everything he ever wanted, other than a vacation. he talked crap about me with his friends, i misscarried his baby and the whole time i was losing it he was at home playing his game saying there was nothing he could do to help. told me he didn’t want to deal with the emotional or physical pain i was in from losing the baby because it was his birthday. there was more trauma unfolding at the time on top and i got sent to a mental hospital to save my life, when i came home he was immediately telling me how depressed he was so i of course, dropped my mental health once again to save his. i also struggle with severe ptsd which comes with anxiety and depression and when he would bully me into panic attacks he would mock me, tell me he didn’t even understand why i was crying, or that my crying was embarrassing and unnecessary, he also would turn the music up in the car so he didn’t have to hear me cry. he would pick until i couldn’t take it anymore and i’d lose it so he could play the victim. he put his hands on me, and i told him i would never be back. he accused me of cheating everywhere i went come to find out the whole two years he was cheating on me with his ex, they got together right after we broke up. worst 2 years of my life. 8 months free and still healing myself, most inconsiderate, selfish, and incredible liar i’ve ever met. i was also the only one who would get a job, ladies. never settle for a man who can’t even pay his own phone bill. xoxo

  210. Aaron Conrad from Harrison AR
    Rap1st. Disgusting human. Doesn’t know how to keep his hands off of a female. Dangerous. Threatened me with a knife.

  211. Matthew Eversole from Vallejo, California
    This man will seem like the man of your DREAMS when you first meet him. He is very charming and charismatic. Everything seems to click and he is very romantic. I definitely fell for the confidence that I thought he had and how he seemed to be absolutely smitten. I didn’t know about love bombing before him but I definitely do now. After a few months he will start to have random moments where he lashes out at you aggressively but he blames it on whatever stressors he has going on in his life at the time. He will start to question your relationships with friends, coworkers and family to the point that you start to rethink the importance of them over your relationship with him.
    I eventually was isolated from everyone I loved and financially dependent on him and then the physical abuse started. He was also sober when we met but he relapsed several times during our relationship. Being under the influence is never an excuse for this behavior. Even when I would leave or call the cops, the abusers definitely have a way to romanticize everything to win you back. The cycle of abuse is insane.
    This went on for 5 years and I had three more kids with him as well. By the time I was able to leave I was a broken version of myself and it took me forever to rebuild myself. I know that so many people may think “I would never be fooled into this” and that is fine but no one, and I mean NO ONE thought I would fall victim to domestic violence. I was a strong woman both emotionally and physically but that’s what they go for. They don’t want someone who is weak and pliable they want to break down the strong ones because it gives them a sense of power. I wanted to add him to this list because no one would even think that he was like this when they meet him. I didn’t know that I was the 11th woman on record that he has abused. I knew he had some legal issues in the past but I didn’t know he went to prison for beating his ex girlfriend.
    I don’t want anyone else to fall for what I did and end up where I ended up. I am now 4 years out of the relationship and it’s taken a ton of therapy as well as time but I’m a lot better. I’m engaged and happy, even though I now have to co-parent with Matthew. He is sober again and is a good father however the abuse he dishes out to women is not likely to stop. I hope that whoever meets him comes to find this list and reads this before they get too involved with him. If you are, RUN and cut off all contact. Good luck

  212. Samuel Morris from Louisville, KY
    samuel morris abused me physically, emotionally, and verbally throughout our two and a half year long relationship. he spent the first few months love bombing me, buying expensive clothes for me, spending hundreds of dollars to visit me in college, etc. however, about a month or so in, i got a concussion that caused me some memory issues. he proceeded to use these memory issues against me, gaslighting me into believing that i was saying things i never would’ve said, that the friends i had were mistreating me, that i needed to drop out of school since i couldn’t remember anything anymore. i told him about how i had been assaulted by one of my coworkers friends and he used that information to assault her and convince me that she was lying when she filed a police report. when i was assaulted while we were together he told me i was a cheater and a wh0re, all while he was telling everyone we had a “don’t-ask-don’t-tell open relationship” so he could cheat on me with high schoolers. i finally realized i needed to get out once he beat me after he had a night out and got into a physical fight with our neighbors. once i was out, he continued to harass me at my work or by having packages delivered to the old apartment. my neighbors also noticed that he was checking out the old apartment to see if i lived there still over a year after the split. stay safe and stay away from him!

  213. Michael Gray from Arkansas
    He was extremely emotionally and financially abusive. He rap3d and s3xually assaulted me multiple times because he “couldn’t help it” then threatened to off himself when I broke up with him. We were in a relationship for 11 months and when i tried to break up with him the first time at 9 months, he manipulated me into staying.

  214. James Phelps IV from Martinsburg WV
    Doesnt wipe his butt because “theres too much hair also it is gay”. Once he screamed at his gf in a parking lot for 2 hours because she asked to eat that day. Sent his ex a 1400 word essay three years after they broke up on new years, threatening her and sent it to all her friends that he found attractive. Dates minors while being 30.

  215. Kevin Martinez from Flushing, NY
    This man is 24 years old as of 2023 and he predates on girls as young as 16. If you frequent popular anime related conventions and recreational arcades please be careful for this man, he is a s3xual predator.

  216. Matthew Zink from Cumberland, MD
    Matthew Zink is a narcissistic controlling asshole and he’s also a rap1st. He’s currently in jail in Allegany County, MD for numerous charges. When I tried to have him charged for rap1ng me nothing was done. He’s rap3d two other ex girlfriends, one of whom he had falsely charged with child abuse. The only time he was honest about rap1ng me was when my fiancé called him out on it. He’s a monster and doesn’t deserve anything good. The day I left him it took five cops, two of which detained him, so I could get out safely. He does not deserve anything good.

  217. Michael Impallaria from Denver Colorado
    Huge emotional flood at the beginning of the relationship and then he will become verbally furious at anything deemed wrong. He is litigious, and verbally cruel. He made me cry hundreds of times and tore my confidence to shreds. I’m ADHD and anytime Id forget something or get lost he’d get furious and tell me how I’m an inconvenience and shouldn’t be allowed to do anything unsupervised. This was all while I was employed and supporting him not working. He would kick me out of his place at 2am at any kind of disagreement as a means of control through fear. Will bring up having a dead mom as an excuse everytime. 3 years together is my experience.

  218. Timothy Dustin Reeves from Corona/Eastvale, California
    Timothy Dustin Reeves (goes by Dustin or Atomsky online) is 34 years old, he likes to lie about his age (says he’s about 24 years old) because he does seek after girls who are barely 18, and has even talked to minors. I know because I was one of them, I have reported to the police but they didn’t do anything with the case. He’s in every single way abusive while having mommy and daddy pay for everything. Understandable why he beats women because he’ll never be a man. He is known to go to bars in the Corona/Eastvale/Riverside area and has drugged people’s drinks before. Again all of this had been reported yet nothing has been done, he is currently with someone who’s 14 years younger than him, as she just graduated from high school about less than 2 ago. I just want to warn people about this behavior because I dealt with it for 2 years, and will never do it again. Please be safe out there.

  219. Joshua Cobos from SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA
    A tale as old as time. First came the love bombing, then came the abuse. Abused me s3xually, physically, emotionally. Physically assaulted me in public, bashing my head against a car window then threatened su1c1de if I left. Isolated me from friends and family. Cheated on me with multiple people then proceeded to s3xually assault me without protection. Rap3d me (“I love when you say no”) several times. Respected no boundaries. Physical abuse/su1c1de were constant threats.

    He has spent time in Southern CA, Massachusetts, San Francisco, Austin. A photographer.

  220. Giancarlo Rendon from Born in Colombia, Currently resides in Philadelphia PA
    He is a narcissist psychopath who I was seeing since 2019. We broke up summer 2022 and he spent the last year trying to get back together… all while having a girlfriend. He is a serial cheater and has cheated on all of his exes who he now deems “crazy” and “insane”. He also stole my cat. Avoid this man he is a very jealous and sad individual. He will blame you for everything he feels is wrong with your life and drive you to insanity. He is emotionally abusive and manipulative.

  221. Chase Jeffrey “CJ” White from Tustin, CA
    Google him and find he rap3d someone in a public park in 2013! You wouldn’t suspect it since the guy is like 100 lbs soaking wet. The coward had someone else hold his victim while he committed his crime. He appears very charming and sweet, don’t be fooled.

  222. Ian “Jack” Kenney from Richmond Virginia / Maryland
    He’s a narcissistic abuser. It started with affection and tending to my former wounds, and slowly became about controlling me, reforming me into his ideal partner. He eased into it by making “jokes” that were intended to put me down, but it got far worse. It was largely verbal abuse, and he made it seem like I was the problem. If I did anything out of turn, or hung out with my friends, he would punish me. Then came s3xual and physical violence. He later told me, actually, that he was trying to brainwash me, to break me down and rebuild me to his perfection. Absolute sociopath. If I hadn’t already been a survivor, who knows if I would’ve gotten out. Little does he know I cheated on him before I left. A-hole.
    He’s a narcissistic abuser. He’s manipulative, hateful, fat-shaming, and will tear you down. He’s the kind that wants to take a strong woman with vulnerabilities and break her down so he can rebuild her in his image. He’s such a sociopath he literally told me his plan for me, like it’s totally normal to brainwash your partner. He’s gone unchecked and has hurt people after me who reached out to me since I was the first experiment. He will treat you special, buy you expensive things, act supportive, and slowly the digs and the “jokes” are cutting, made to screw with your self esteem. He will use anything to control you. Hand out punishments if you’re out of line. By the time you realize what’s happened, you’re in deep and think it’s still love and think “well maybe if I change myself, it can go back to the way it used to be” SPOILER that was all an act and you need to RUN from this man or anyone who acts like f-ing Jonah Hill

  223. Will Heron from Newmarket Ontario
    He lied constantly about family members dying and about people hurting him in order to coerce women to sleep with him. He takes advantage of emotional vulnerability and will abuse you emotionally and s3xually. That’s what he did to me. Save yourself the trouble, please!!!!

  224. Triston Fairchild from Omaha, NE (Papillon)
    Avoid this man at all costs. He has some serious physical and emotional abuse problems. If you’re interested in him, cut it off or you’ll waste your time with a manipulative, selfish, lying, disrespectful, and violent scum bag. He will hurt you in more ways than 1 and gaslight you into thinking it’s your fault.

  225. Jeffrey Edens from Tigard Oregon USA
    He will tell you he needs a particular favor in order for him to be s3xually active and that if you do this thing he’ll give you all he can. What he doesn’t tell you is he lies. He’ll give a million reasons for not doing anything you ask of him and if for any reason you can’t do his thing or it’s not how he wants it, he’ll treat you badly and like you’re worthless. It’s a real head trip. He starts off as a prince and ends as the prince of darkness.

  226. Ryan Farnsworth from Enfield, NH
    He is a F boy through and through. You will be in a situationship and not the only woman despite what he says. Enter at your own risk!

  227. Adith Uttam from Rishikesh, UK, India – Singapore
    This person is a narcissistic psychopath, has a criminal background.
    All this person talked about was getting his d!ck s*cked and has no education or any means of personal growth. Selling drugs in India and going from broken relationship to broken relationship. Shaming, lying, scheming, plotting, blaming and has huge trust issues. Reported history of conflictive brake-ups, demeaning psychological and psychical abuse towards women.

  228. Kevin Rahill from Northern California
    It’s always the ones who tell you how honest they are that are lying. This one comes on all sugar and sweetness to reel you in. He moves fast. He practically moves you in as soon as you are seeing each other. You may misinterpret this as him being so in love with you that he wants you around all the time. What is actually happening is that he wants to cut you off from everyone outside the home and control you completely. You won’t have one private phone call and you aren’t allowed to correspond even with the friends you have in common. He will make it difficult for you to work while telling you he doesn’t care if you don’t work at all. Pretty soon you will give up because he makes it too hard. He will verbally, emotionally and financially abuse you relentlessly. One day a week he will be affectionate and loving and be the boyfriend you thought you had, and when you wake up the next day you will find that it was all a lie. He’s hateful again. He will make it look like true love on social media but he doesn’t care. He cares far more about what strangers care about than what his partner cares about. His image is EVERYTHING. As confirmed by a therapist he is a paranoid covert narcissist. This means he will never break up with you. He will torture you until you leave. He can never be the bad guy. He will tell you that every woman before you cheated on him and treated him poorly. You will feel sorry for him and work hard to prove that you are different. You are not different. All the girlfriends before you were good women too. They were victimized also. He tries hard to drive you out of your mind with lies and aggression and gaslighting. He wants you to doubt your reality and feel like whatever you do, you are not good enough. I stayed around for over 2 years. The damage has been extensive. I do not recommend. Don’t ignore the red flags over those blue eyes. There is nothing behind them but hate and evil.

  229. Herbert Edward Lester from Vallejo, CA
    Beware of this one. Aside from being the standard liar and cheat, once you are done with him and break up he will go full assault mode on all social media to smear your name with lies. Doesn’t matter what kind of person you are, he will try to destroy your relationships, your career, alienate clients, terrify your children, etc. He is pure evil. Please don’t get tangled up in that mess. He’s not worth it. He can’t keep a job either, so double not worth it.

  230. Brian Strong from Rochester, NY
    Well known cheater despite being married. Was told they are more like roommates , he trashes his wife but found out he has two kids with her. Then, because we live in small city, I discover he has multiple women on the side. He will lie to anyone. Ladies be warned!

  231. Alex Garrick from Trussville, AL
    Serial cheater and pathological liar. He not only cheated on me, but at least 2 other women. One of them being his ex-wife. My experience with him introduced me to the concept of “Fake Love”. I didn’t realize this was the case during our relationship but when things became clear, I quickly found out that this was exactly what we had. This is a very long read, but if you are entertaining this man, please learn from my mistakes and save yourself the trauma. I don’t want anyone to have to go through what I went through with him.

    I should have paid attention to the red flags. The first day we met in person, he said he loved me. It was weird. I assumed it was because he was lonely and hadn’t had any female companionship since his divorce earlier in the year. Then there was the constant, non-stop bashing of his ex-wife. He made this poor woman sound like the spawn of Satan. He obsessed over her. He talked about her so much it felt like she was a part of our relationship and didn’t know it. I ended up looking her up online and what I found was not a crazy ex, but another victim of his lies and cheating.

    His story about what caused his divorce would always change. It went from the wife completely changing after they were married to him “only” sending dirty texts to another girl. He tried to make the ex-wife sound unreasonable for blowing up over it. Later on when our relationship was practically over, he was drinking and lost track of his lies. He slipped up and told me he had s3x with this other girl a few days after he was married and his wife saw the messages on his phone and that’s when she became upset. Knowing what he had done, he still had no problem making it seem like he had no hand in destroying their marriage.

    Alex was very belligerent towards me. We are both into nerd culture and would play card games together. I was super brand new to one game in particular and he offered to teach me. Instead of being patient he would get frustrated with me and become condescending when I didn’t make a play fast enough. It was so hurtful I wanted to quit learning the game altogether.

    After reflection, I can see that he never truly cared for me. I had surgery and needed someone to take me to the hospital and stay there with me. During that time, I had a friend offer to take me, but he insisted on doing it. After the procedure, I was in the room and coming out of the anesthesia. He asked if it was ok if he left to go hang out with his friends. It was like he couldn’t get out of there fast enough. The next day he drove me home. Per the doctor, I was supposed to have someone help me out because I wasn’t able to move around on my own that good. What did he do? He brought me home, waited until my meds kicked in and left me to fend for myself. His “I will be there to take care of you” quickly turned into “can’t you order your food and stuff online?”. Boyfriend of the year.

    A few months later I became pregnant with his child. I was happy because I thought for many years that I was infertile. Well, it ended in a miscarriage early on. I was devastated but also in a lot of physical pain while the miscarriage was taking place because the surgery site was not fully healed. Where was he? At home sending text messages to me about how scared he was that he might be sick. Zero consideration for what I was going through.

    Fast forward two more months. D-Day. I wake up in the middle of the night and see 20+ missed calls on my phone and 6 or 7 voicemails. Naturally I’m thinking the worst, so I call him right back. He was drunk and stumbled over his words but finally admitted to making out with someone at his friends’ party that night. I was crushed and tried to get off the phone immediately. He must’ve realized what he said because he started crying and having a panic attack and saying how he didn’t want to lose me. He swore up and down that nothing else happened. Well, that was a lie.

    His story kept changing. The one constant was that he blamed the girl at the party for starting everything. I decided to do some digging. I created a fake profile on a website he was using to “meet friends” and had that account reach out to him. He took the bait. I would text him from my phone and then have the fake profile text him from a different phone at the same time to throw him off. He lied to the fake profile about being a writer (he never had a job the entire time we dated) and even brought up how awful his ex-wife was to him during the divorce.

    To catch him at his own game I pretended that this fake profile was having an affair and was confiding in him. It took a few days, but he opened up and admitted that there was a girl at a party that he ended up cheating with. I had the fake profile press him a bit and he did say that yes, they had s3x. All the while he was still telling me they had only kissed. I ended up finding the girl he cheated on me with and she came clean. She told me that they were drunk, and mutually flirting back and forth. He told her everything would be ok if they had s3x and that he would tell me and I’d be cool with it. He lied to get in her pants and then tried to throw her under the bus. I was grateful for her telling me the truth but she’s not innocent. She knew we were together, yet she still agreed to sleep with him and used being drunk as an excuse. When I confronted him, he suddenly became the victim and had the audacity to tell me that it was hard to tell me he cheated and that we could reconcile later that year but I’d have to learn to trust him again. No accountability whatsoever.

    Avoid this man at all costs. He will lie to you, treat you poorly, put everything else above you and waste years of your life. Then turn around and tell the next victim that you are to blame. He is not worth it.

  232. Jason creighbaum from Indiana
    Jason was my pen pal while he was in prison after he got out he moved to my area we had 2 kids when I was 7 months pregnant with our youngest my house was raided and I found out he had warrants after he missed our child’s birth and I supported him thru 17 months in prison things were OK except he always needed money after about 4 months from him getting out I recieved a text that said sorry I got my boss pregnant and we r moving he never sent another text or came home to get his stuff it’s been 7 years he doesn’t pay child support or have any contact with our children

  233. James Woo from Rockville, MD
    Do not believe a word this person says! He lied about dating/being engaged/married!!!! I feel bad for his poor wife and kids…. NOT TO BE TRUSTED!!

  234. Jason Chad Graham from Los Lunas New Mexico
    Jason is a serial abuser , cheater , liar , alcoholic and Narcissist! Beware all!!! He’s been married and divorced 3x. He will love bomb you and tell you what he thinks you want to hear , take anything he can from you and once he has you where he wants you the true personality will appear! He is angry! And a truly hates women I believe. After a very physically, emotionally and mentally abusive marriage we divorced. He broke my femur 3 years after our divorce! Unfortunately we have a 7 year old son together so going no contact is not possible at this time. Again please beware!!! And steer clear of him!!!

  235. Jim Data from Nevada city California
    I dated Jim for 2 years.
    He has terrible rage and accuses you of horrible things. He has signs of narcissistic traits.
    He has made up stories, and tries to get me to admit it.
    He shows violent tendencies.

  236. Francisco Josue Alvarado Araujo from Fort Worth, Texas
    I really had on my rose-colored glasses with this walking red flag. At first, I thought he was really sweet. But that was just love bombing and I didn’t pick up on it. I was in lala land but, in reality, he’s very unstable.

    I discovered this man-child cheated on me throughout our entire 3 year relationship using dating and hook up apps. When confronted with receipts, he started gaslighting and stonewalling.

    He was never able to have difficult conversations. He was avoidant and never had anything to say. It was like he wouldn’t allow himself to be vulnerable or he didn’t know how.

    His close friends, including his roommate are also cheaters. I suppose this is another experience that they can bond over, as they have a mutual understanding and a similar view on cheating, which enables them to openly discuss it without judgment.

    It was all very toxic all around.

  237. Alex Peter from Arlington, VA
    This guy plays so many mind games! I think he’s undiagnosed bipolar. He tried to kick me out of our apartment on a weekly basis! He would threaten to call the cops! He ended things and then sued me for my engagement ring back! *He promised me I could keep the ring if anything happened, because he knows I have no money! I’m on disability and had zero money for a lawyer! I had to legally tell him to leave me alone and block him from all contact! Do not play his games!

  238. Chris Johnson from Leesburg, VA
    This guy will hide the fact you’re dating. He will not publicly recognize you in any social media network that you’re together. In fact, he will block you from all his social media accounts! Chris is the biggest scammer I ever met! He currently owes me $15k and has not made any effort to pay me back and it’s been years! Do not date nor give any money to this piece of scum!! I’m on disability and need every cent I can get! He has depleted all my savings! A truly horrible person! He should be in jail!

  239. Niall Dunseith from Leesburg, VA
    I dated this guy for about 3.5 years. We lived together, talked about marriage and kids. We even talked about engagement rings. What does this guy do? Cheats on me with our next door neighbor!! You should also be warned that he has addiction issues with drugs, alcohol, gambling, video games, p0rn, etc!

  240. Michael Evangelis from Morris Plains/ Hopatcong, New Jersey
    Michael is an abusive and manipulative person. He cheated on me for the 9 years we were together, and when I called him out on his cheating and toxic behavior he abused me. He chases women who he thinks are lesser than him, and he can control easily. He tends to go after women younger than him (he is 34) and will make them feel like he is some Prince Charming. This worked the first year or so, and then I started to notice he has addictions to gambling, drugs, and s3x. He gr00med me into playing out his f3tishes and when I stopped giving in he became very verbally abusive and toxic. He would say I am a woman and need to know my place next to a man, and that I can have control in the bedroom but he is the leader otherwise. He picks up women calling them angels and princesses, but all to conceal who he really is. A controlling, manipulative, addicted person that has no friends. If you have friends he will keep criticizing them, and find ways to push them away. He would say horrible things about all my family and friends because he didn’t want them encouraging me to leave him. I really hope every women finds this before dating him so they can see the red flags that I missed for so long. When women don’t give him what he wants he threatens them, which he did to me, and countless other women whom I learned all about when I found out he was cheating on me the whole time. He travels for work and that is when he cheats. He will say he is busy with a coworker but is really with a new woman every time. Please be careful around this man.

  241. Eric Gonzalez from Tucson AZ
    Stalker and harasses women. Has had multiple women file for protective orders. Comes off sweet, quiet. Liar, covert narcissist. Run!

  242. Francisco Josue Alvarado Araujo from Westworth Village, Texas
    Red flags
    – Emotionally Immature
    -Emotionally Unavailable
    -Lovebombs
    -Gaslights
    -Stonewalls
    -Cheater
    -Jealousy
    -FOMO (fear of missing out)

    I really had on my rose colored glasses with this walking red flag. At first I thought he was really sweet. A cute and cuddly fuzzy little mouse. In reality he’s just unstable.

    I discovered this man child cheated on me throughout our entire 3 year relationship using dating and hook up apps.

  243. Anthony Quarless (Stickz Greenz) from Atlanta, GA
    Stickz Greenz (Anthony Quarless) is a self-admitted sociopath who lies and manipulates to get what he wants. I was dealing with him for a year and a half and, multiple times he did incredibly hurtful things and, when I called him on it, he would make excuses and justify his behavior. He will not take responsibility for his actions unless you convince him to do so.

    Over a year into dealing with him, he gave me herpes, took 11 days to come talk to me, and when he did he looked me dead in my eyes and said “at first I was upset cuz I really thought I gave u this but then I realized u had it this whole time and tried to make me think I gave it to u. But it’s ok, I forgive u, there’s no animosity, no love lost, everyone makes mistakes….” I was livid. I then spent the next day sending him screenshots of conversations with a doctor and parts of articles to convince him he did, in fact, give this to me.

    After things ended between us he proceeded to gaslight me, claiming that various things he did and said over the previous year and a half never happened. He’s so good at gaslighting and manipulating that I times I found myself actually questioning my own reality.

    He wears colorful suits everyday, his hair is always dyed a different color, and he has a grill in his mouth. If you see him walking around Atlanta he may seem like someone you’d want to get to know but my advice is to stay verrrry far away!

    ps- He’s in the music industry so he has access to a lot of younger and impressionable women who fall for his charm only to be used and discarded when he no longer has a use for people.

  244. Spencer M. Bowles from Denver, CO
    I would like to start off by saying anyone can change and I truly believe that, but personally there was a limit to what I could put up with in a partner. Spencer is a sales guy, so naturally he was a smooth talker and knew how to have a good time. However, when the going got tough he would shutdown, ignore problems, and had an extremely narcissistic attitude. The first red flag was when I found out he had gotten a previous girlfriend pregnant and essentially guilt-tripped her into getting an abortion then dumped her stuff off at her friend’s and cut off all communication blaming everything on her, I mean it takes two to tango… As far as my story goes, towards the end of our relationship I was involved in an accident requiring a couple surgeries, but he was unable to care for me as a partner might with checking in, potentially helping out with doctor visits, or with the cooking and cleaning. The second flag was that he had difficulties caring for himself and his responsibilities too. From the beginning, whether that be from his ADHD or was his normal state of living he struggled with addiction, work, adult living, and finances until I entered the picture. He is a second born privileged child and it shows through with his self-absorbed and self-centered ways. Although he seemed to have a close relationship with family and friends, he would lie easily to them and put forward an idealistic image of himself and his life. He has a sweet natured husky malamute dog that he spoils and shows affection to in front of others. However, if he had a bad day there was the tendency to take it out on the dog physically, unable to control his anger. While with him, although he didn’t try to get physical with me, I was worried for my physical safety on several accounts. When the mental abuse/assault/threats became too much to the point of entering into a difficult depression, on top of my physical healing journey, I had to call it quits to focus on my own healing away from him. He didn’t know how to communicate, work through disagreements, or be in a long-term relationship (our relationship of one year being the longest relationship he had been in) and although he was ready to propose with his grandmother’s diamond custom ring specially made and had asked for my father’s permission, I was not to the point of where I could see myself agreeing to marriage with him before calling it quits. I would like to warn other women of Spencer in that he is a shmoozer and will say many things that you may want to believe will come true, but to remember that actions speak louder than words and to not trust a narcissist. I understand that there are two sides to a story and I’m not perfect, as I have had my faults too when I had disassociated after my traumatic accident, but wanted to share my truth and to inform other women who may have hesitancies about Spencer.

  245. Dalton Linkus from Nashville, TN or Dacono, CO
    Narcissistic personality disorder, abusive, manipulative, now verging on stalker.

    I wanted to just forget about Dalton and move on with my life but, despite being very clear with him that I wanted no contact (multiple times, on multiple platforms) he still will not leave me alone. This is beyond his extending an olive branch after leaving the relationship, it is outright manipulative behavior bordering on stalking. Other women should be warned about this, it’s gone too far.

    A few years back, Dalton and I had an unofficial relationship. He wanted more, I didn’t, but he kept pursuing. At first, he put me on a high pedestal. He made me feel amazing. But as I started to go out in the world, grow in my own achievements, and come into myself, he felt threatened. He started tearing me down. He started trying to isolate me from my friends, saying they didn’t get me, that I was only friends with them because they shared one thing in common with me (where we lived, how we were raised, their religion, etc.) He said they were bad influences and that they were “weird” because they were different than him. He then went after my family – saying it was kinda pathetic and abnormal that they napped (yes, he really said that) and then he would talk up how amazing his parents must be because they “… didn’t need naps like toddlers.”

    Pretty soon, he was coming after my body. When I would go hiking, running, etc. without him, he would act amazed that I had completed the hike because “[I wasn’t] in good shape” or that my hiking partners weren’t. But when I was with him, he would act amazed that I could keep up with his workouts and would compliment my dedication.

    At one point, when I mentioned I wanted to do a race with some girlfriends to qualify for a prominent race where I live, he said, and I quote, “if you were ever going to be a good runner, you would know by now” (His implication was that because I had been casually running for two years that, if I had some natural excellence, that I would know by that point.) Examples of this go on and on and on and stem from him being unable to compete professionally in motocross. He washed out, would say that riding his bicycle was way better anyway, but continued to revolve his personality, user names, posts, etc. off his old life in motocross.

    At several points along the way, I would get fed up with his negative, hostile comments about me, my family, and my friends, and I would lash out at him. At those moments, he would start to cry, type out looooong text messages about sorry he was and how he just wasn’t raised like I was, and was still learning. He would beg for another chance. And I would give it to him.

    Throughout our relationship, he continued to have an extremely high, unearned opinion of himself. How amazing he was at motocross (his parents literally own a dirt bike track and had a big one built in their backyard for him), how amazing he was at school (he didn’t really have to work, mom and dad paid for most of his undergrad and he had their credit card to buy whatever he wanted). Just ask him, his sister used their parents credit card to buy skis, backpacking gear, etc. and he would do the same). How amazing he was for getting hired at his job when so many others gave up (He got to live with his very well-off parents and had easy work connections so no responsibilities and plenty of cash, while many others don’t have those privileges). He would often post his rides on Strava, saying things like, “Not my best time, spent the whole night hanging over a toilet.” But… he would never mention being sick to me despite sharing most every other detail of his life.

    He would also endlessly fish for compliments, saying, “One of my ex girlfriends said she wasn’t with me because I was good looking, just because I was so nice. She said I was actually ugly and it’s really messed with me since then.”
    Then, every time he would be in front of the camera, he would show off, smile, then look at the picture and beam about how great-looking he thought he was. It was really unhealthy and alarming.

    He would also manipulate me into constantly affirming him in other ways. He would nag me to take his picture, take a video of him doing some banal “trick”, and when I would say I didn’t feel like having my phone out all the time, he would make guilt-trip me into it, saying things like, “I just think it’s a really awesome, nice thing for people to do. People like to know they’re loved and appreciated, and taking their picture lets them know that.” And if I didn’t send him the pictures fast enough, didn’t post the pictures he took of me, and so on, you would think it was like I clubbed a baby seal by his tantrum.

    Dalton is also extremely critical of people he looks down on. He has extremely low opinions of stay-at-home moms, for example. I told him that my mom was a SAHM and he cuttingly asked, “does she even have any friends? I would never let my wife not work.” He also had grossly low opinions of Christians, people who were home schooled (never mind that statistically, home schooled people have better mental health and grades than their peers) and people who don’t devote their lives to working out. Any time I would say I was too busy to run/hit the gym because I was working, needed to work on my car, had a doctor appt, etc., he would say, “You make time for what’s important to you. I guess working out just isn’t.”

    He would steeply criticize me for having a glass of wine or beer with dinner, saying, “I just don’t really like to drink. I like just water, it’s healthiest.” Then he would go out with his buddies on the weekend and get very drunk.

    Be aware that he also is incredibly conceited about his decisions in life and attempts to minimize the good decisions others make by any means possible.
    Once, I got a great review on a work project and he asked if I waned to go celebrate and fill him in on all the details of the feedback. All throughout drinks, he would ask about my review, then quickly change the subject to the new bike he was buying. He implied my review was not as big a deal as his bike. I laughed it off, thinking he was just trying to be funny. Then he did the exact same thing after I bought a new-to-me car: he shaved his beard. When he came out to see my car, he “surprised” me with the shave and shrugged at my car, saying, “Sorry I one-upped you with my mustache.” I was very proud of the car and excited to get it and he literally did not care. I told him my friends were all excited, that it was a great deal, and my mom was glad I was in something safer than my last car and he said, “My car was the best deal though. Here you are, driving around in this shiny new thing, and I’m just over here in my Saturn, zooming around, not caring what anyone things of my car.” I wrote his words down in my phone because I realized this relationship wasn’t going to go on and I wanted to remember why the next time he cried about it.

    About his car though, his dad bought him a newer pickup of his choosing… for getting good grades. So, yes, maybe his car was cheaper than mine, but he also had a shiny newer pickup all bought and paid for by his parents.

    I could give endless examples of his narcissism, verbal and emotional abuse, but I want to close by discussing his stalker-like behavior.

    Multiple times, I tried to close the doors on the relationship civilly. Each time, he would flip out, cry, and say “no, I’m not done with you yet.” In retrospect, that’s horrifying. Eventually, I just stopped responding and would hide FB, Insta, and Strava updates from him and wouldn’t text him much.

    After I made it clear I didn’t want to continue into any serious relationship and that I wanted my space, he ended it. He told me under no uncertain terms that I was not to contact him unless it was an emergency. I agreed!

    Pretty soon though, he was sending me random Snapchats, then he would text me sad breakup songs, then long messages about how I had broke his heart. I repeatedly told him to stop contacting me. I blocked him on Snapchat after telling him I was done and wanted nothing to do with him (weird, a little space and being back around GOOD people made me realize how horrible he was), so he blocked me on Facebook and Instagram. I blocked him on everything else I possibly could except phone number, since he had mostly left me alone there, I figured he wouldn’t send something I could show a judge.
    Then he would find other ways to text me or contact me, like from his email. I went on another round of blocking and thought I got it through to him. Then, on my birthday this year, he text me. I blocked him there, too. Then, recently, his name popped up in my suggested friends list on Facebook. He had unblocked me and was no doubt stalking my Facebook page.

    I truly do not know, but earlier this year, someone put a rose in a box with my name on it and left it in my parent’s mailbox (he knows where my parents live). I am very concerned it was him. He doesn’t know where I live now and I won’t ever let him.

    If you read this this far, you have been warned. He is narcissistic, conceited, selfish, manipulative, and arrogant. Now, he is borderline frighteningly bordering on being a stalker.

    Trust me, just don’t go anywhere near him.

  246. John Stone Duluth, Minnesota
    I met John Stone in Sept 2021 at a job we both worked at. With his long dreadlocks and bright blue eyes, he stuck out. He had a very observant, cutting sense of humor. He was smart and interesting. By October we’d started going on dates.

    I soon learned from him of his past – he’d had a long marriage which ended poorly. The ex-wife had kicked him out of the Renn Faire where they’d worked as a couple for twenty years. She claimed he was abusive and that she was afraid of him. Security had to escort him out. He said it was just her being dramatic and trying to get people to hate him. I should have paid more attention, but I didn’t.

    Another point of note: he’d spent the last three years of their marriage cheating on his wife with his female “best friend”. He blamed the affair on his ex-wife because they were no longer in love with each other. He was clearly still in love with the affair partner, he referred to her as a “girlfriend” and took no accountability for his part in destroying his marriage. It was all the ex-wife’s fault.

    He also boasted of a married Japanese woman he’d dated (back in his twenties) without the husband’s knowledge. He had a bad habit of bragging about his exes in front of me, it was pretty sick. And then he’d laugh when I got jealous and say I was just being hormonal and crazy. I feel like when you’re forty-seven, the s3xual exploits you engaged in back in your twenties are not really interesting to anyone except maybe you. But it spoke of a lack of integrity. Nothing of those girls was private.

    And apparently he dated a fourteen-year-old child when he was twenty-two (yuck!) but it wasn’t his fault because she’d lied about her age, and she’d threatened bodily harm to anyone who threatened to reveal her age to him. There was also a rumor that he’d gotten 86’ed from a bar because he’d pushed one of his ex-girlfriends off the bar’s balcony while they were dating. But that was just a rumor, he said, another vindictive ex spreading lies, what can you do about it. Nothing was ever his fault.

    He had done c0caine in his youth, enough that he had such a high tolerance in his late forties. Every time a big music festival came around I worried and worried that he would try c0caine again and overdose (there is a lot more Fentanyl now than there was when he was in his 20s, so hard drugs are a risk in this city). He never did, but I always felt small and boring compared to the women of his past, all beautiful Renn Faire types who did c0caine and were firedancers and were accomplished artists. He told me so much about his exes. It was hard to trust him.

    He had trouble hanging onto employment. He lost one job because he called the supervisor the c-word. He lost another after repeatedly sneaking beer home from work (not his fault, though, it was his coworker’s fault for ratting him out). He lost yet another job (his third in less than two years) after crashing the company vehicle.

    Because he lost most of his friends in the divorce, he had to find new friends, people who didn’t know about his past. Of course the most logical thing was for him to befriend homeless m3thheads and alcoholics. Two of them began storing their belongings in his yard. This was about the time when he lost his second job. Imagine staying at your boyfriend’s house and his m3th-using friends show up on his doorstep looking for something they’d left in his yard or house. We had no privacy.

    He kept Narcan in his house and drug needles for his friends, saying it was his way of making sure they could use safely. Which I can understand, but at the same time, who wants to stay at a man’s house knowing there might be drug needles on the floor, or in the couch. His house was very messy. Towards the end I became worried – suppose I dumped him and he became depressed and turned to m3th or her0in – so that guilt compelled me to stay longer than I should have.

    I think the worst part was when something he did made me jealous. I approached him with it (not the best thing to do, I realize in retrospect) and he made me do something s3xual that at the time I very much did not want to do. Because he was angry with me. He was over a foot taller than I was, and had experience with martial arts, had beaten people up in his past, had spoken to me in the past (while drunk, but still) that he wanted to beat me. It was evident that he wanted me to feel scared and ashamed as punishment for being jealous, and I had to do the s3xual thing, so I did.

    His bitterness over his ex-wife and their divorce was a continued problem. I remember him speaking about how he’d like to tie a rope around her and drag her through a swamp with his car. I thought it was just him blowing off steam, but at some point those sorts of thoughts are no longer okay. He should have been seeking professional help.

    There was another time when he said, if he had a gun and there was no way that he’d get caught, there were “several people” who he’d love to shoot and kill. I felt like, for a long time I was safe from his rage, but now that it’s over I might not be safe anymore.

    I honestly don’t know if I will ever be able to date another person again. I feel afraid.

  247. Geordan Broeckx from Canada
    At first he’s very loving , outgoing, friendly ect, really is controlling, unsupportive, selfish , lazy unless it benefits himself. Judgemental and has a setting mindset of how a gf should act/dress.. but gets obsessed with online girls, usually someone he has known like this str1pper he used to go to school with he’s been stalking for 2 years . He has no boundaries or respect dosnt take accountability. He has looked at photos from most of my family members see if the have nudes gets secretive and knows more about network computering then he leads on to hide his life. If it gets to the point of him getting away with disrespecting you he’ll test the waters . He’s called me names , makes me feel stupid and walking on eggshells.. led to SA and rumors spread. Words never match behavior, very confusing.

  248. German Cardelle from United States
    Burton Cardelle Aka GERMAN Cardelle is illegitimately married for artist visa reasons, among also has a fake ID and Social by Alex Alonso to work under the table picking up plates: has been unhinged multiple occasions to where his ex had to get a restraining order against him. He further more calls her up to tell her how many people he’s f-ed in a week. She paid for his p3nis enlargement, helped him get on his feet and help him get a car. He claims to be gods gift to woman now and belittling them while giving his band high fives about it. This guy is GRODIE!!!! She has to get a restraining order on him, he broke into her house and terrorized her for over 20 hours.

  249. Ross Corristan from Jacksonville, Florida, USA
    BEWARE!!!!! This person is DANGEROUS. There is something very, VERY wrong with him, in all likelihood some sort of personality disorder.

    He is charming and disarming at the start. Very charismatic. And he gives up his own red flags early on… DON’T BE FOOLED. There is an intense rage boiling there, under the surface, and a deep seated hatred of women.

    His three most recent girlfriends all feared for their own safety for months (and years) after their relationships with him began to disintegrate.

    He is EXTREMELY controlling and unstable. He is prone to stalking the object of his obsession and skilled at manipulating her close friends and family members into siding with him (or at least attempting to).

    He has (and will) used threats of suicide to attempt to control women close to him. He owns guns, and keeps one loaded in his truck.

  250. Ahmed Gadalla from Miami
    Dealing with him for almost 3 years. Experienced everything from mental to physical abuse, he was arrested in Miami, for domestic violence, bc he has money, he hide this info from Google, he is still married for the green card and has a kid in Virginia. Lies about everything starting from what he does for work to his name. Very manipulative, pure narcissist. Never knows what he wants , scared of any responsibility, we were together for more than two years and still he was telling me I’m not his gf bc he likes to talk to multiple girls at the same time, has weird preferences in s3x. Won’t go to details in here. Moral of the story he will
    Suck all of you energy and will leave like you never existed and will keep coming back when he is bored or dump by other girls, pretends to be the sweetest guy alive but don’t get fooled. Hates animals also! Very selfish and only cares how he feels and what he needs. Every story he says is how he doesn’t want problems but they just find him and he is just an angel, as I said lies everywhere. So disgusting that he even used his sons name on dating web site! Has a lot of money but will count every cent he spends on you. On the top of everything is sick all over, every day there is something new coming out, doctors non stop and will expect you to nurse him 24/7 but won’t do nothing in return. If you are looking for one night stand even that won’t work bc his P won’t even get hard but he will still try. If you are looking for pathetic lier and cheater you know his name! Most important when you look at him the most angelic face ever! Don’t get fooled he is a devil! Used to have a great body, still uses old pics to get girls attention. Reality is very different!

  251. Alvin Niere from Harlem, New York
    Alvin is in his mid-30s and lives with his sister and sister-in-law in Harlem, NY. What a great start, right ladies? LOL! Anyways, he is an absolute scumbag….. I have never witnessed such a pathetic loser in all my days of dating and interacting with men. Alvin is a certified p0rn addict and the brain damage he’s suffered as a result of his addiction becomes very apparent upon socializing with him in any capacity. He’s subbed to many OF accounts and follows a plethora of SWers on all social media, as his addiction cannot be contained and he even goes as far as to joke about it (since when did being a single, middle-aged man who can’t keep a woman happy nor have fulfilling long term relationships and uses p0rn0graphy to cope with that hard truth something to be proud of?!) The new-age male-feminist act only goes as far as supporting women feeling good about sleeping around with random people ’cause… shocker… he’s hoping to be one of those random people! I know that isn’t revolutionary or unique. He isn’t the first and he wont be the last guy to lie and try to convince women he actually respects them. But just to reiterate: he does NOT care about you and he only cares about getting his d1ck wet (no matter WHAT he says). Stay far farrrr away from this one, girls. Anyone, and I mean ANYONE, can do better than this.

  252. Phil Femoyer Jr from Bayonne, NJ
    Phil Femoyer from Bayonne, NJ pretends like he’s a nice guy but he is actually a pathological liar and a serial cheater. He is super manipulative and will gaslight you when you start questioning any inconsistencies in his many stories. He speaks to a therapist once a week to supposedly work on himself, but that is just a coverup because he uses that time to complain about other things in his life, not to better himself. Phil is extremely selfish and will never change because he doesn’t think he has any issues. He uses any therapy lingo he’s picked up as a way to fool you into thinking he is emotionally intelligent, but he has severe avoidant issues that he refuses to address. He’s also a hypocrite because he would constantly criticize his friend for not treating his gf well yet he was repeatedly cheating on me behind my back. He also would criticize his father (who shares the same name) for being a lying scumbag, but turns out he’s exactly like his dad. He was emotionally cheating on me for 3 months with his ex girlfriend (she had no idea I existed) and then physically cheated with her 4 days after my cat died while I was grieving…what a wonderful guy, right?! His ex girlfriend lives in another state so he didn’t physically cheat sooner with her, but I’m almost positive he cheated on me with other women throughout our almost 9 month relationship. If you encounter Phil, you should do yourself a favor and not believe his “nice guy” act because it’s super fake just like he is.

    1. Yes – this is another ex gf that can concur story that the story about sounds about right with this man. He is a forty-something y/o emotional man-baby who will die a lonely man, sadly for him.

      Also, update: he has moved to Easton, PA. He will lie to you through the skin of his teeth with eye contact.

  253. Sean King from Huntington, NY
    OMG! RUN! Where do I begin… Selfish, condescending, treats all woman like trash. Oh, and did I mention he is a silent stalker! Has been watching me for a while now. Actually re-matched on Tinder w/ me and I think just to see where I am. He texted me to say he wanted to come over for s3x! WTF! I sent back a laugh emoji and that pissed him off (don’t worry, I’m sure he moved on to the next victim). Very secretive regarding family etc. Like he is a child afraid to present his girlfriend to his parents. Oh, and when I say selfish – only interested in his own pleasure. If you haven’t had intimate relations yet, let me save you the trouble. All of his extremities are a bit on the small side (nose, ears, hands, and well you know. He’s Irish if you get my drift.

  254. Erick AcostaHuber from North Augusta, South Carolina
    Please be careful of this individual. I met this man back in August of 2022. We began dating exclusively in September of 2022. I found out in November of 2022 that he was seeing other women. In December of 2022 I found out that he was married. He lied to me during this time, telling me that he was a single father. He had me convinced that he was never married and that the mother of his child was overly dramatic, borderline crazy and would not leave him alone. He also told me and my family that he was serious about our relationship and wanted to marry me. He has continued to contact me even after I broke up with him. He is still married and is still dating other women in the area although he has a wife and child in his home country. He will try to avoid protection during intimacy and tell you anything he thinks will make you trust him. I only found out this information because he was unaware that I had friends who work at the same company that he does. Without my friends I may have never known the truth about this man. He portrays himself as shy, kind, caring and concerned. He uses his foreigner status as a way to hide behind lies and his family here in the states will not be honest with you regarding his relationship status. They are willing to lie on his behalf.

  255. Kyle Humphreys from Indianapolis, IN

    This is on behalf of a friend of mine, so I have no specific details. Kyle Humphreys of Indianapolis maliciously dated one of my best friends, married her quickly, and then moved her away from her support group (from PA to Indianapolis where he lives now). As soon as they moved away the verbal abuse started to the point my friend wanted to end her life and he did not care. He is single now and trying to find another victim to charm into being his mom. Doesn’t do a damn thing around the house. My friend is not the fun person she was before him and I’m angry because I had no idea he was like this. Avoid at all cost, he seems genuinely nice on the outside, but will try to rope you into marriage and children to trap you.

  256. Paul Schmidt from Florida, Wisconsin, California, Oregon
    Clinically a pathological liar, narcissist, and alcoholic.

    History of physical, financial, and emotional abuse (restraining order and prior arrests).

    Anger issues. Big time.

    Very savvy and convincing, but will catfish you. He has no money and gets fired from all of his jobs because of his alcoholism.

    RUN.

  257. Thomas Dame from Oklahoma
    We was in a relationship for 6 years until he met the little girl that lived across the street (she was like 2 years younger than us but I still refer to her as “little girl”) he became distant and then started accusing me of cheating and didn’t like the fact that I was working all the time. I went to go see him at his house and when I went in found him and her together. He’s a straight cheater and a dog. He also likes to pop up in others dm’s even though he’s married now.

  258. Alex Harris from Redditch, UK
    Compulsive Liar; relationships, finances, education, experiences, activities.

    He continues to lie that he’s won competitive competitions, that he is an expert in martial arts, that he has done a physics, mathematics, and electronics degree (final education is 16 years at school), tells people he is rich (I get his bank statements and he’s in debt), and blames every ex he has had for the break ups with weird excuses or long made up stories.

    Got fired 2 weeks into relationship as no showed work, gaslight was my fault as I’d caused lack of sleep so told me I owed him. Faked bank account shots of 5k savings and 140k of due monies for inheritance, so allowed to move in with me thinking would get new job. Said my nagging to get a job caused him depression and this is why he refused to do housework and spent all our money on food.

    Lied about university degree, job history and qualifications and had me make a fake CV to apply for roles. Was jobless for 18 months. Pretended to go job centre.

    He stopped seeing his family, and would only meet them behind my back when I was at work. He told them I didn’t let him see them anymore (to make me seem abusive) when I kept trying to ask him to make effort and arrange days out with them.

    When he got a job, lied he got paid monthly instead of weekly and lied he earnt £12.50 more per hour than he did. When he couldn’t pay rent, faked phone calls for bank fraud and this is when I found out he had lied the 18 months of the relationship about EVERYTHING. No savings, no house sale, no education, earnt minimum wage, pretended to try get work.

    It took me from October to March to get him to agree we were over as he kept pretending we werent and forcing us to continue. After he refused to move out my home and I couldn’t legally kick out. Continued to be naked, touched me without consent. Told me my family members were dying and berated me (i had to begin recording him as evidence of threats of violence).

    He would go to friends houses claiming I was hitting him, leaving house for ‘safety’ when I wasn’t even in the area and was visiting my own friends, to try create narrative I emotionally and physically abused him.

    8 months after break up, he still refused to leave. He posted my nudes to Fab Swingers, advertising us as available for s3x and tried to offer me out with my personal information. He showed my nudes round his workplace and actively encouraged the men to try have s3x with me. It took my new boyfriend staying over, an eviction notice, contacting his family and threat of legal action for revenge p0rn for him to leave.

    1 year + after break up he still tells people we are together and says we moved into a 3 bed house with a child. but says we are in an open relationship and that’s why I’m seen with my new boyfriend.

    He still attends my public workplace (gym) and has lied to other girls about his nationality, achievements and education to try convince them to sleep with him. Hasn’t learnt his lesson. Which is why I am making this post.

  259. Joe Foley from Alexandria, VA
    Joe Foley, Joseph P Foley, Joseph Paul Foley, from Old Forge New York currently in Alexandria, Virginia.

    Joe is a serial cheater and pathological liar. He carries on multiple relationships with women who each believe they are in an exclusive relationship with him while he simultaneously has casual hook ups. Joe does not use protection and has given several women STDs.

    Joe uses his military service and seemingly strong and stable character to lull his victims into a false sense of security.

    Run from this so called man.

  260. Elliam Hedges from Tasmania, Australia
    Elliam met his then girlfriend in January 2021. They were wildly in love and he seemed perfect. Bringing gifts, surprise dates, flying across the country every week to visit her in Queensland. She reciprocated and flew down regularly with her two daughters until he was able to relocate to QLD in July 2021. He suggested that they have a baby together and she was so in love that she believed it felt right. 4 miscarriages later they fell pregnant with Franklin. As soon as the pregnancy hit 12 weeks however, Elliam stopped showing any interest in affection, kindness, family time etc. This then led to him commencing (well, returning to) a second life filled with pr0stitutes, massage parlours, ex dates, and regular affairs. Even when confronted, the only thing that would come out of these discussions was complete denial (even with photographs, messages, and contact from these women). Even a level of acceptance from his partner wasn’t good enough because it was always about the SECRECY and deceit.
    The next year was full of domestic violence, gaslighting, manipulation, constant affairs, and telling his partner (and everyone around him) that she was “crazy”, so that they wouldn’t believe her if she ever told anyone. He manipulated her into thinking that if she had the police ordered DVO removed then they could work on their relationship. She worked hard for 12 months to have this removed, only to have his hatred and number of affairs skyrocket the moment that she was successful in having it removed.
    Elliam would deny his partner s3x for many months while getting himself ‘serviced’ by girls who looked barely 18. As a doctor he would fly internationally and look for young s3x workers available locally (in the Phillipines especially). Despite being a doctor, he put his partner in a position where she could not take maternity leave. She was left supporting him physically and financially, as well as their 3 children while he studied for his FACEM exam, built his nest egg and paid for pr0stitutes.
    He started his last affair with “Laura” on Snapchat days before his girlfriend’s birthday. He then started a fight and disappeared – To her. This fight was of course then blamed on his girlfriend (it always was). He has now taken a complete ‘victim’ stance where he has told everyone he knows that he is the victim in this situation. That being caught out caused him great suffering and he was living in constant fear. Fear of being found out.

    He was the perfect step dad in the beginning, but as soon as his step daughters saw him for who he really was (swearing at their mum and calling her names while she sobbed in a ball on the floor), he stopped trying. He dragged them to their rooms by their arms, threw them into their rooms, and said that his time being their stepdad was OVER after one of the girls told him that he couldn’t speak to her mother that way (he was yelling and calling her names at the time). He would start a fight and storm out/ disappear for days/weeks/months at a time (using this time for dates and brothels). The kids would be terrified. He made a special effort to make sure they felt completely unseen and unwanted once they had seen the other side of him. They are both still in therapy trying to rebuild their sense of self worth.

    To this day Elliam continues to see multiple women at once, insist that he doesn’t want an open relationship (because that takes the fun out of the deceit), refuse to financially contribute to his son’s upbringing, and push a false story about the entire situation to anybody who will listen.

    This relationship almost killed his partner. The level of constant abuse was insurmountable. His partner forgave and forgave, hoping that he would change one day. Hoping that one day he would be kind again. That he would learn to be honest, open, and compassionate. He never did.

    Many, many people can attest to these facts based on what they saw in person (family, tenants, cleaners). Messages, phone calls, photographs and recordings also do not lie.

    He now lives on the Gold Coast, looking for his next victim.

  261. Michael Robert Snider from Lakeland Florida
    Mike is a great actor and lier. He claims to be a Cattle Rancher, a Traveling Superintendent, a Construction Contractor, a great dog trainer and a former Marine special forces officer who served in Iran. Mike is actually a multiple felon who has served time in several states.
    He displays narcissistic behavior and is often controlling and abusive. He has stolen money, jewelry and other items from multiple women. He uses women then proceeds to walk away on to his next victim.
    He has left many victims broke, in debt and in some cases homeless.
    He will cheat on the woman he’s currently using with one to two other women at the same time.
    He claims to have a daughter who died, when in fact he abandoned her as a baby and never supported her.
    Nothing, absolutely nothing that comes out of his mouth is true.
    He is 6’3 300 pounds, bald with a goatee and multiple tattoos, excluding 2 foreign words on his neck, wicked evil multiple heads on his back, fallen angel and forgive yourself on each biceps, a clock with a woman’s eye and broken chains on his forearm and others on his thigh and calf.
    He wears glasses while he’s driving.
    He recently married a woman and proceeded to break her down and then abandoned her leaving her homeless. It has since been revealed that he has married multiple women and then disappears.

  262. Jimmy Peluso from Jacksonville, Fl
    Jimmy is a womanizer, narcissist, admitted he thinks he’s a sociopath, and overal scumbag. He told me he slept with two married women! He drove drunk to my house 3 times in the first week we were dating. We didn’t date for long but his charm made me swoon. But when we went on dates he’d constantly be checking out other women and commenting on how “hot” they were (on TV or elsewhere). He is honestly incapable of romantic love, in my opinion. He can’t connect to anyone and he treats them like garbage, actually, he looks at women like prey. Just waiting for the next one to sleep with. His top two when he looks for someone is “it has to be a challenge” and “great s3x”. So literally nothing about personality or who the woman is. Don’t date him. He will belittle and ridicule you. It’s the Jimmy show. If Jimmy doesn’t want to do it, it won’t happen. Be prepared for broken promises, being forgotten, and Jimmy always being more important than anything else. I believe he gets off on and boosts his ego by picking up attractive women and then carelessly discarding them. I will say, as a general human and friend he’s good, he just treats women like absolute trash.

  263. Brennan Towe from Virginia Beach
    Brennan is a habitual liar and suffers from narcissistic personality disorder. He is infamous for dating multiple women at the same time everywhere in the US. He will love bomb you and make you think you are the only women he is dating. Please date with cautious. He is also still intimate with his former Morehouse College roommate.

  264. Eli dionne from Nelson canada
    Eli is violent. he attacked me on a date. later I found out he has done it to other girls and even went to court for it. watch out.

  265. Thomas R. Butler from Lancaster Virginia
    Lies about the number of children he has. If says 3 he really means 9 that’s right 9. From ages 25 to 7 or younger maybe He’ll love Bomb for years, which can easily be confused for consistency. Run as far and as fast as possible from this man. He’s the devil. You’ll think you’ve found Mr, right You’ll think now this is how xyz should have treated me all along it is his mask. The moment he leaves your side he takes it off flips it over, and is on to the next nest thing. Don’t let the fancy cars, and house fool you. This man is as unstable as they come. Ladies never second guess yourself, you know when something is off but you just can put your finger on it. He’ll break you and your heart and leave you there, causing me to have a nervous breakdown so badly I didn’t know the date or time. I d blank out looking toward the sun too long, literally, shocking the sh*t out of me. I’d birth his child, just days before catching him with another woman. He answered the door and pretend he didn’t know me. Jesus himself may have tried to warn me and I would have told him he was a liar. You’ve been warned, save yourself the hurt and pain. He doesn’t care about anything or anyone but himself, he’s a serial cheater. /// Lies more lie and lies some more. This man has 9 children with 9 different women. He lies and tells you he has just 3. These children range from ages 25 to 3 years. Don’t be fooled by the multiple cars and the lavish house he’s unstable as they come. He’ll love bombs for years which can be easily confused for consistency. He moves from woman to woman telling the sob story of how he’s tired of being tricked. Is a single father etc. He caused me a mental breakdown, where I was unable to recall the date or time. He literally shocked the life out of me. Believing all his lies, planning a wedding, and just days after I birth his 10 lbs son. Caught him with another woman, and he pretended to not know who I was. You’ll slowly feel yourself becoming insecure desperate not to become, what he told you was initially so off-putting about his exes. He’ll do everything in his power to lower your esteem eventually you are only happy when he is into you and sad when he isn’t. You’ve been warned, don’t be naive thinking your different, he doesn’t care about anything of anyone except himself. It doesn’t matter what you look like, what u own or don’t own your career or address, he’s just looking to feel grandiose momentarily.

  266. Thierry ¨Marc¨ Mazenc from France/Mexico/China
    Be careful, he travels to find his new victims. He trapped me into a fake love story to then abuse me emotionally and physically. He was extremely violent, kicked me, punched me, hit me several times ¨by mistake¨.
    He also had s3x with other woman when we were in a relationship, he broke my heart when I found out.
    He lies about his age to find much younger women on dating apps, latinas or asian, don’t fall into his trap.

  267. Michael robert Gonzalez from River edge, NJ
    Stay away!!!!!! Liar, cheater, alcoholic, drug addict. Evil in every way you could imagine!!! He’s not worth anything. Loser. Dead beat dad of 4. Probation forever. Always arrested. And he never leaves.

  268. Derek Sanders from Salem, Ohio / St Pete, FL
    He cheated on me but claimed it wasn’t “cheating” because it was only once…and then he had the audacity to ask me to still watch his dog for him before I never speak to him again because he has zero other friends in his life and I was helping him out even though we had already broken up. He also owed me money and when I asked him to pay me he wanted to deduct the cost of the flight cancelation fee because he had to cancel his flight home because he didn’t have a dog sitter…as if I am supposed to lose money out of my pocket because he f-ed me over and he is a loser with no friends?

  269. Stephen Allen from Lewistown, pa
    This man is the worst. He always has multiple relationships going on at the same time. I’ve been on to him for years but keep getting dragged into his life by new women. Just last night yet another girl called me crying because she found out about 2 other ongoing relationships he’s in. Everything out of his mouth is a lie. I am posting this so that hopefully it will save some new girls from going down the same road. My advice… do not even start because he is a smooth talker. He will have you convinced that you are the love of his life. He will tell you how he can’t stand men who cheat, while he’s already dating at least 2 others. You’ve been warned!

  270. Gavin Nicholau from Morgan Hill, CA
    Serial cheater and liar. Physically scarred me for life by engaging in cutt1ng during s3x without prior consent. Stalked me after we broke up, spread insane lies about me (like telling people my family were high up in an outlaw biker gang and had put a hit out on him), and told people he’d like to have me k1lled. Mirrors your values and beliefs to disguise himself as a good person all while intentionally deceiving and misleading you. Lies about who he is, where he’s from, and what experiences he has. Poor little rich boy.

  271. Danny Iniguez from Champaign, IL
    Warning: he is sexually unsafe and cannot control his anger. Be careful if you join his gym, he will try to entice you into what sounds like an appealing open/poly relationship, but only he is allowed to have multiple partners.

    • He did not ask for my consent to be gagged or choked during s3x.
    • He did not notify me or others that he gave us chlamydia.
    • He verbally abuses his gym staff, humiliates them, and has high employee attrition.
    • Admitted that a girl who used to attend his gym accused him of s3xual harassment.
    • Refuses to believe that you’re telling the truth and constantly questions your loyalty.

    His life story is sad, but he uses it as a lure. Please be careful.

  272. Austin Kirby from Spokane, WA
    Really sweet introvert turned super controlling narcissist. Accused me of cheating on him every day. Beware this guy, he’s paranoid and has a sharp, mean tongue when he’s angry. Lives with his parents, not worth the trouble.

  273. Reece Pickering from Annan, Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland UK
    Reece has too many unresolved anger issues as well as a history of violence and domestic disputes against even his own parents. He speaks horribly of every woman in his life as well and treats them like trash, please don’t add urself to that list, u probably think u can fix him but u can’t. Not to mention that he has a very severe addiction to p0rn, and has no drive for anything in life. Trust me, just leave as soon as u can, don’t let him weaponize suislide or his mental health, he’ll be fine, he’ll start talking to a new girl in no time.

    1. i also forgot to mention he’s incredibly non self-aware AT ALL and has a plethora of undiagnosed mental health issues, and a tendency to lovebomb. he can be very controlling and hypocritical as well, he’ll expect devout loyalty and kindness from you, but won’t reciprocate. If I were to armchair diagnose him, I’d say he shows signs of BPD and autism as he has extreme attachment and anger issues, paranoia, and lacks insight into other people’s needs which results in a one-sided relationship of always catering to him but him blowing up when you expect anything from him.

  274. Kevin Guzman from Toms River/Jackson New Jersey
    Kevin was fired from his job for stealing, he sold his prescription med, falsified his drug tests by collecting and presented ma friend’s urine and cheated Then he abandoned his girlfriend and she was pregnant. He left her. He never acknowledged the baby and left her with all of the medical expenses

  275. Jonathan (Jon) Oakley from Halstead Essex, Bedford Bedfordshire
    This man is probably the biggest liar ever, He is a fantasist who is leading a very cruel double life, getting himself as much s3x as possible from woman.
    He is predatory and appears in your life from nowhere.
    He approached me and i had never met him before and within moments he began his well rehearsed routine of love bombing, He sweep me off me feet with flattery and claimed to be a professional racing driver for a well known global racing team, he then claimed to be a motorsport design engineer with a successful business, the lies went on…. International super car rental company, the Stig from the BBC show Top Gear. He even wrote stories to back all this up on the internet. The speed at which he operated gave me no time to stop and think about anything, as the next amazing brag and the overwhelming promises and the next huge show of affection quickly followed. Of course this was all just a wicked plan to get me into bed as soon as possible because once you have time to analyse the ridiculous achievements, things start to add up. only they didn’t because a quick google revealed that there are stories which make it seem plausible, this is the extent of the intent he goes to in the plan to get s3x from you. When i googled him (which obviously i did as he comes across as one in a million and you are excited to see this) I discovered that he was married with 4 children! When I confronted him, surprise surprise he denied it and i never heard from him again. When I met my current partner, we were chatting and this vile predator came up in conversation and straight away he spotted that these boasts could not be possible and a quick investigation found that all the stories to back his bullsh*t up have been written by him and only appear on forums and low level websites where content can easily be uploaded. He has gotten away with this for so long because he only appears in someone’s life long enough to get his quick s3x and then you find out he is married, he makes a clean break and you dont look into the fact that you have been targeted by a s3xual con man, if it wasnt for my boyfriend i never would have found this out, so i am posting this to warn as many woman as i can to stay well clear of this scum bag. I am also hoping that any previous victim may read this too (and there of loads of us) because he doesn’t deserve for them to think they met a great guy who just happened to be a married cheat, they met a s3xual predator who targeted them, lied them into bed and abused their trust. He is a bankrupt nobody who has achieved nothing in life for himself.

  276. Joseph “Joey” Taylor from Waycross, GA
    Has a rap sheet a mile long that he lies about, has fathered at last count 5 children with 4 women the last 2 are 4 months apart. He is a grifter and only interested in what he can scam from women. He stole almost 2K from me.
    He uses burner phones and prepaid cards that is clue number one. He is trash plain and simple. Will consume any drug he can get his hands on and cannot even hold a minimum wage job.

  277. Raymond Thatcher from Ticondiroga NY
    He is a compulsive masturbat0r addicted to p0rn0graphy. Google Swampdonkey09. He lovebombs women starves them/ gaslights and projects his behavior onto his victims. Textbook narcissist. He spends hours “edging” online to young women in jeans and because of this obsession has had multiple bankruptcies. He takes no accountability for his emotional abusive tendencies and he hides behind a position of power in his community. He admitted he has taken life insurance out on prior girlfriends and they don’t know. He is literally obsessed with his pen15 and needs constant reassurance of its size being its average maybe. He doesn’t care about pleasing but expects it always.

  278. Michael Vincett from Mount Holly Springs, PA
    Michael is the epitome of a narcissist. He has multiple substance abuse issues. He’s a psych0path. Look it up. He fits it to a T. He is selfish. He is not loyal whatsoever. He cheats. He likes to use Snapchat and his long list of phone contacts to start that up. He has so many Sara’s in his contacts that he had to start saving them attached to the state or bar he met them at. He gaslights. He breadcrumbs. He lies and manipulates and tells complete stories. He’s good at what he does. He had me hooked for a year and a half before I finally got enough solid proof to finally be done with his f boy ahh. If you meet him, I would run in the other direction if I were you. Save yourself.

  279. Reece Thomas from Savannah, GA
    Dated this guy from few years. Works as a DJ at the str1p club and he cheated on my with multiple of the dancers who knew we were together, knew of him cheating on me, and some of them had no clue i existed. He’s not financially stable and would prefer to spend money on video games and DJ equipment to make music that isn’t very up to par. He’d play video games and restart it if he messed up or got “killed”, tells you a lot about how he is in life. Likes to cover issues up by buying you things and stays far away from hard conversations that create growth within a relationship. Doesn’t have much ambition expect for smoking and making music he never finishes. Had issues with control and lies a lot to make himself look good. Needs to go to the dentist as he has periodontal disease, active gingivitis, chronic bad breath, and severely bleeding gums. He doesn’t get along with his mother and talks bad about her, in which shows he has no respect for woman and a superior complex. Just steer clear, he’s 30+ and doesn’t brush his teeth and doesn’t have a solid future for any sort of commitment. Manipulative and rude.

  280. Kevin T Scott from Phoenix
    I dated this man for 7years, he was living a double life on me..
    We lived together and his wife/3rd party once she reached me told me that had been together for 16th,
    He’s a womanizer later she told me and I confirmed he bamboozles older women into s3x & eventually their money, he’s fluid in his sexuality as well, I’m embarrassed to say it but I thought other women should know & be careful of this predator . His an alcoholic, addictions like gambling & unfortunately s3xual too (any gender) I’ve been in counseling for 1yr as the shock really damages my life, my children’s. He needs to be exposed..
    Ex NFL player, narcissistic individual. Ladies please do the homework. God bless

  281. Jason Collins from Daytona Beach, Florida
    My ex was a good guy, at least I thought. We had been together for 5 years, And everything was great, he was attentive, caring, loving, protective, and the s3x was great. Well one night, I got home late from work and he was in bed asleep. As normal I crawled into bed and snuggled up to him and felt something very odd, press into me. I reach down and felt metal encasing his bits. I shot up and turned a light on and saw what looked like a metal cage, padlocked onto his bits. I woke him and up and was freaking out. Turns out he visited a D0minatrix that locked it on him, and she had the keys to it. There was no way it was coming off without the keys. I left, and never looked back. A few months back we ran into each other and I had to ask, and he was still locked up 2 years later. I don’t understand why he felt the need to go to a D0minatrix when he had k1nky fun at home, but whatever the reason is, I couldn’t continue with him. He emailed me asking if the D0minatrix could send me the keys, and him and I talk, but I refused. He told me that she won’t give him the keys back because he lied to her about being single, but then told her about me after I left him. Regardless there is 1 ex boyfriend running around Daytona locked in a chastity cage, and cannot get out of it.

  282. Jeremy Hansen from Antioch, IL
    He’s a pathological liar and cannot be trusted. He lies about everything, OFs, cheating, money and past relationships. He has literally slept with his entire town and friend group. Absolutely has 0 morals and is complete hillbilly trash. He will sleep with anything that walks and is the scum of the earth.

  283. Benjamin Dugas from New England area, U.S.
    Met him in a group of friends and we hung out a couple of times on what I guess were like “dates”. Beware- he turned out to be a huge creep. I stopped being interested when my friends and I noticed he was messaging us separately asking to hang all the time and saying very weird things on Facebook— he was pushy and got way too close/doesn’t respect body space when talking to women. He seeks out multiple women at once but will lie when asked about it though (thinks we don’t talk to each other!). There is something very disturbing about this guy – while out with him he was staring at other women’s bodies and seems perverse. He latches on and won’t take cues to stop messaging. He gives off stalker/p3rv3rt vibes. He also had poor hygiene and bad breath. Run.

  284. Curtis Pevehouse from Ardmore, Oklahoma.
    Curtis abused me physically and emotionally for about a year. He is a choker, which makes him the most dangerous type of domestic violence perpetrators. I no longer care one way or the other about him, but I always wished someone would have warned me and now that I came across this site, perhaps I can protect another. Watch out for love bombing- he’s the perfect boyfriend for the first few months, but that Curtis will leave as soon as you’re emeshed and you will not see him again. Serial dater, cheater, and married multiple times. I’ve spoken with one of his exes that came after me and he appears to use the same M.O. for each woman. If you MUST date him, take it really slow and don’t agree to everything he suggests. Be careful. This isn’t just a bad boyfriend, this is one who almost killed me. DV choking is no joke.

  285. Cody champion from Weatherford, tx.
    He is a liar, extremely manipulative and emotionally abusive. Cheats like it’s second nature to him, and doesn’t care at all about how his behaviors harm other people. Untrustworthy, deceitful, selfish, uncaring, buffoon!

  286. Skyler Briggs from Winnipeg Canada.
    He is manipulative. He pretended to care about me the whole time we were together and then dumped me right after I fell in love with him and he had also gotten me pregnant (and it was SA) he is now messaging me 4-5 times a week on random accounts on every platform I have saying I know you love me and you need me, trying to gaslight me into doing it with him. He is unloyal a liar and he is a sociopath, and I don’t mean that to be dramatic that is what he is. He has no emotion at all. He lusts and finds it entertaining to hurt women. He also threatened to hit me many many times when we were together and caused me to flinch many times because I was terrified. All throughout this his roomate and roomates girlfriend sat there and watched the whole thing never trying to help me once.

  287. Kevin Thomas Guzman from Toms River and/or Jackson, NJ
    abandoned a woman when she was pregnant and left her with all of the costs associated with it. He is 50 years old and was fired last year for stealing from his job. He was selling his prescription meds and cheats on every girlfriend he has ever had. He will charm you and research you and figure out the person you want. He will become that person and use you and then cheat on you the whole time.

  288. Noah J Barton from Acushnet/fairhaven MA.
    Manipulative and compulsive liar. he takes advantage of intoxicated and underage women and has a pattern of s3xua1 deviance. aka total psycho r****t

  289. Stefan from Baltimore MD.
    Stefan is a narcissist and nihilist. He is actually insane. He pretends to be a nice misunderstood guy but once you get to know him, run. He is manipulative and depressive. He drags the people around him down. He neglects those around him and disrespects them. Save yourself the trouble and don’t go on a date with this fool. He insults himself to make you feel bad for him. It’s all a play.

    1. I commented on your other post about Stefan. Again, this sounds exactly like my experience. Narcissist, manipulative, disrespect. I just can’t tell if it’s the same Stefan as you because the one I knew wasn’t from Maryland, and I’m unsure if he ever lived there or not.

  290. Tom Stirk from Melbourne, Australia.
    Tom Stirk lead me on for almost a year. He took advantage of me and took me on dates and kept mentioning he wanted commitment and a relationship only for him to abruptly end things because he wasn’t ready for anything serious and didn’t have time to date anyone and wanted to be alone and even owned up to playing me along. He did this to me 3 times and whenever we weren’t together, I found him on tinder saying that he was after a relationship. The guy is extremely narcissistic and will always talk about his problems and traumatic past but won’t even give you the time of day to talk about your life. He is a grown ass man and still a mummas boy. He is a heavy drug user and is mentally unstable and doesn’t know what he wants. To any girls out there that unfortunately cross paths with him, my advice would be to RUN!!! Don’t waste your time on this f-boy! He will only waste your time and make you feel like you’re not good enough! The guy also has HPV and denied giving it to me and lied about getting tested for it and has potentially infected so many women with this disease! AVOID!

  291. Alex Merwin from Ontario, Canada.
    I know this from years ago, but Alex cheated on me, or well on his actual girlfriend and now wife. He slept with at least two other women as well.

  292. Jaime Villanueva from Lynn, MA.
    We reconnected on OKCupid a few years after college. This dude is UNWELL. He has serious issues with boundaries, as in you need to say, “NO!” at least three times for him to get it.
    He has issues with self control, he is a raging alcoholic, and he is delusional. On our second date, he randomly burst into tears in the middle of a bar, screaming, “My mom is a millionaire!” (she’s not lol). He then proceeded to tell me he was in love with me (bro, relax) and told me I couldn’t see other people…on the second date.
    Needless to say, I hightailed it out of that situation and urge anyone who knows him to do the same.

  293. Alex Burmeister from Redding, CT.
    Lying, cheating, manipulative narcissist. He has anger issues, substance abuse issues, and is a compulsive liar. He will steal from you (he stole from me) and he is incapable of being faithful (he cheated multiple times with multiple partners, putting me at risk). STEAR CLEAR!!!

  294. Marcus Brown from Maricopa, AZ. This man is detrimental to any female’s mental health. He fed me lies…so many lies, manipulated me, depleted me of everything emotionally, and in the end gaslighted me and then blamed me for the break up. He was very mean, cold, emotionless. In the entirety of our relationship he was emotionally chaotic, berated me on several things from my communication style, how I dressed, and repeatedly falsified his intentions of what he actually wanted from me. Ladies, save yourself and run away!

  295. Drew moore from Jonesboro, Arkansas.
    Drew is a loser. Who is a junkie and uses women. He has nothing but d1ck to offer and he has herpes so watch out!!! He got me pregnant than blocked me!!!! He’s a loser ladies

  296. Jeffrey Steven Knowles from San Clemente, CA.
    1. Lies about his past… said his wife cheated on hiim then I found out he cheated on her for 2 years before they got a divorce. He would cheat on hiis lunches and have s3x in his car with a married woman named Kristi.

    2. Keeps his phone very private, aalways accused me of cheating. now that we are not together I see all of his instagram comments on exes and other women of wanting to “motorboat them”

    3. Everytime we had a fight he would immediately get on a dating app. one time we had a therapy appointmnet at 6pm, at 5 when I told him I would meet him there and he respoinded I love you, he also send me a voice memo of him flirting with anither women he met on a dating app on accident.

    4. I always had to beg him for s3x he was never in the mood, howver he was constantly telling me how he used to have regular hook ups when he was single.

  297. Scott Hardina from Scottsdale & Prescott, Arizona.
    Scott Hardina is a 47 yr old trust fund baby, he was in an accident in his 20s and got a settlement. He has a hobby job to keep his mommy off his back. All the nice things, car, house, he didnt work for a day in his life. Which would be fine if he were humble and not a lazy piece of shit. He’s a spoiled brat. Mom pays all his bills, dad does his yardwork and he can’t make a decision without having hours of conversations with mommy first. He did so many drugs in his teenagers that it fried his brain. He uses that as an excuse for being forgetful. He dates women half his age. When he was 20 he dated a 14-year-old for 10 years. The one after that was 15 years younger than him. He finds the young ones so he can be in control and feel smart. Smart women are intimidating to him so he finds ways to make you feel small and stupid.

    I’m only two years younger than him. We went to high school together, he Facebook messaged me and I foolishly replied. We dated for five years. Multiple break ups throughout the years. He pretended to be somebody he’s not. But he found me shortly after my divorce and my daughter going away to college so I was vulnerable and naïve.
    He’s Secretive, shady and untrustworthy. Anytime he’s confronted about these things he’d gaslight me,makes you feel like you’re crazy. Just to find out your gut instinct was right. He had our relationship from all social media sites. When asked he lied and said I’m being crazy. He was having secret conversations with young girls on all platforms.
    He uses women to clean, take care of the dogs and the house. He’s only interested in the relationship when it’s convenient for him Then if he feels like you’re getting too close he pushes you away and then yo-yo’s you back. He’s emotionally abusive and manipulative. Five years of my life wasted on a manchild but I bent over backwards for him because I saw the good in him sometimes I made excuses for him
    and now all I have to show for it is cervical cancer. He gave me 2 strains of high risk HPV that progressed in pre-cancerous within a year and cancer in 4 yrs. Annual Pap before we started dating was clear, 1 yr later, fresh new case HPV. So either cheated on me or had it right before we started dating.

    He got the dogs I got the medical bills.

    Anybody find his name on here RUN! don’t let the first 3-6 months of charm fool you. Everything he pretends to like and do is a lie. because he finds out what you’re into and pretends those are his interests also. Within six months he will tell you he does not like any of these things, he will never socialize with your family or friends, he will never go on vacation unless it’s with his parents. Yep all our vacations his mom was there and she planned them. Mommy is the only woman he loves and respects, she controls him. He’s already married to her. Their relationship is beyond unhealthy, boundaries crossed.

    And I’m pretty sure he and his buddy may still be selling drugs, like in their high school days. the amount of cash stashed is suspicious, and I think he drugged me one New Year’s Eve.

    Stay away ladies!! Especially the young 20 year olds that he likes.

  298. Nicholas Mis from Encinitas, CA.
    Manipulative, narcissistic, mentally and physically abusive.
    Met on hinge. Dated for 6 months but it was pure hell. I worked my butt off to be with him but he kept manipulating and gaslighting me. Told me I have issues, I’m nuts, crazy, a c*nt among other things. I’d bring up how I feel and he got mad at me and made it my problem. I needed to go to the hospital one day and he said “I’m at the gym then I’m going to the store then I’ll come and take you.” His mental abuse turned to physical abuse.
    He used to pick up woman at the beach and at gyms so beware. I’m sure he’ll be back to doing that again now that I broke up with him.
    Hes not worth it ladies.

  299. Rahman “Ray” Adedoyin from Chicago/Algonquin IL.
    Only his needs are important and nothing is his fault. Always broke, he refuses to work because he doesn’t want to pay child support to his son’s mother. Perpetually “down on his luck” but this is due to laziness. Uses people so he will borrow your things and destroy them, will not offer to replace. Abusive to people, children and animals. Every personal problem is a social media post, so if you’re dating him your business will be made known to all his friends.

  300. Micah Joseph Barwick from Austin, TX USA.
    Once a cheater, always a cheater. Ten years ago he cheated on his wife and left her for me (Karma is paying me a visit). Five years ago, he dumped me and then came crawling back begging me to marry him – stupid me, I did.

    Well, here we are, same pattern, he is cheating again but this time tried to blame the relationship’s failure all on me. In these past weeks, he used me several times for s3x, told me he loved me while saying lies about me to his friends and family. I filed for divorce and told him to leave. He’s a broken boy with mommy abandonment issues that I thought I could fix. Save yourself the trouble and heartbreak – run!!!!

  301. Jeremy Cutbirth from Spring, Texas.
    Beware of JEREMY CUTBIRTH from SPRING, TEXAS. I am writing this to spare other women the hurt that he caused me and continues to cause women. When you meet him, you will wonder where he’s been all your life. He says he wants to travel the world with you, he wants to grow old with you, and he will buy you whatever you need. Your phone cracks? He will make an appointment with at&t and go pick up your new iPhone. He seems too good to be true, because he is. I woke up one morning and he was having s3x with me ana11y. He was just finishing when I woke up. I felt so gross and like a rag doll and was scared. I confronted him about it about 30 minutes later and he was shocked and duped that I knew. His response was, “Next time I’ll just jack off to p0rn.” That’s the last time I saw jeremy. Bottom line is he seems like such a nice guy and he’s really not. There’s so many other things I could mention, but this person truly does not know what love is.

  302. M from Indiana.
    Dated X for over a year.
    he would say I am not beautiful because of how I look and controls how I dressed, the make up I ware, sets rules I needed to follow on how I need to act as a person, he said a physiologics says everything is my fault for what happens and goes wrong in the relationship and he refused for us to see physiologics together. He used to tell me when I should cook and clean, I was not allowed to listen to my own music and my own shows, he says I wrong about everything and he says he has fur more knowledge than me about everything in the world.
    He says he is against feminist.
    When I was assertive towards him or when I changed my mind he would blocked my phone number.
    Threatened to block me if I call him or message him to many times.
    He blames me for everything, says he did not ask me to be empathic and to help him, says its not my problem.

    When I told him, he makes me upset when I was emotional and emtionaly stress he would say I am too sensitive and told me not to be too dramatic.

    Starts agurments out of the blue, conutines agurment for days. He leaves the house and call a girlfriend he has been trying to get with.

    He says he is looking for girl who can give finicical status and full time residency.

  303. Justin Juho Yun from San Antonio or Houston Texas.
    Justin has a 3 year old who he doesn’t want anything to do with. He is also narcissistic and will love bomb you in the beginning before he gets super abusive and controlling. He doesn’t care about the girl he’s with, only his gaming business. He had a protective order for being abusive to his kid and baby momma. He also has genital herpes and has purposely given it to girls, also chlmadyia. Stay safe ladies in Texas

  304. Fraser Stead from Southwest of England.
    Been with this man for 10 years 2 kids, I saw some red flags in the beginning but didn’t think anything of it, how quickly we dated, love bombing, after a week asked me out, then the belittling me in front of friends etc cutting me off from male friends the lies, list went on I found out pieces that he was cheating nudes, emails etc I’d raise it with him and he would react in abuse physically aswell as emotionally he’d say they mean nothing but be cold and distant making out I’m the reason he’s unhappy and never apologise for what I’ve found out. The second one I found out and threw him out because I couldn’t take it anymore didn’t know what he was truly up to ignored me for months but still controlled me due to finances of the house I met someone and he came back pleading he was trying to find himself he realised I’m his soul mate, love bombed me, made me feel bad because he never slept or done anything with these women it was only me for 9 years, when I said no raised what he’s done to me and how he’s treated me he done the normal threatening to end his life superficial cuts and this man knows the body, he wants to become a dr knows too many facts and has an answer for everything. I took him back because I thought he needed help even though I should have learned he has done this in the past to reel not only me back in but others to feel sorry for him think he needs help he will carry this on for weeks/ months until he can say he’s a changed man and he’s ‘sorry’. I’ve found out the last 5/6 years he’s been in full blown relationships with other women promising them after a week they will be his wife, have a family together, grow etc only because he was messaging me saying why is my mum saying I’ve tried kissing you and he was next to her, I’d outline we literally slept together today and he responded with when, prove it. I know the audacity I sent screenshots picture of him half naked because I knew deep down he was with another woman, he had been sleeping with me staying at the house promising we was going to make this work and little did I know he was forcing this girl to be with him, staying at hers ignoring me making up lies not only to me to this other woman also, we contacted eachother, shared the details we was both speechless to say the least, he then started the disappearing act texts that makes no sense for us to worry and ignore everything he’s done we didn’t give in I shared with his friends, mother and work, to prove I wasn’t going crazy I wasn’t a psych0 this man had literally ruined me for his own gain along with other women. She sent me a recording of him going there to declare his love it was sickening because it was the same lines same tactics but she knew the truth, he then was making me feel sorry for him to the point I said do not come to the flat I have a friend over he came in wielding a knife assuming it was male and the information I got out of him was just shocking, he made a post it note video to the other woman saying let me protect you can you be my wife I meant every word etc just so she would talk to him! Saying he will travel with her and FaceTime is there for a reason in disrespect to our young children. Last November I found dating apps, s3x worker sites fake only fan accounts, telegram, messages from pr0stitut3s while he was claiming to go gym, I asked him how many other women how many pr0stitiut3s he said he’s never touched one but said he wanted to see their menus and catfished one. The police officer listening to this recording stopped it looked at me and said please get tested he was meeting up with these women still paying for their services and then catfishing them. I felt sick! He would then come home love bomb me sleep with me and spout lies. He’s put trackers in my car, he joked about cameras in the house but it got me to the point I was going through every room to find something because I couldn’t trust him, he took my phone December after manipulating me all of it was research purposes because he wanted us to do only fans I am not confident and don’t feel comfortable doing it and he would spout something to make me feel even worse for not doing it. I gave him my phone because he didn’t trust I wasn’t being loyal to him little did I know he was going through my phone and deleting all evidence I found of him cheating on me, the tracker the lot. Gave me a pre engagement ring christmas saying he’s devoted to me I’m his and I didn’t know he was pursuing this other woman. Police are involved and it’s sickening because he’s been messaging her saying how can we fix us and so on and messaging me at the same time the same thing. I don’t want another woman falling for this and getting sucked in to abuse it’s frightening and sick at what he’s been doing so please don’t fall for him ignore him because he’s clever until he gets caught and then uses the ending his life to get out of owning up to it. Stay safe

  305. George Joseph McQuade from Los Angeles / formerly Indiana.
    He’s just lonely because -although he’s working (military) and earns a lot more than he should, he is homeless since all his “crazy exGFs” throw him out after he lives off them, and chooses to live in his car until he finds another woman to move in on. L.A. girls don’t want a homeless guy. He partakes in a LOT of toxic behaviors that I WON’T have in my life i.e., loves stripp3rs, has a p0rn addiction, is the creepy old guy on IG and FB (hes 46 in 2023) following a LOT of naked girls his sons age, “ALL my ex-girlfriends have BPD”; is extremely superficial, loves women with lots of plastic surgery (although he himself is not attractive, skinny everywhere but fat belly), he’s got what appears to be Aspergers syndrome/BPD/avoidant attachment disorder/again -p0rn addiction/dirty old man/possibly somewhere on the NPD spectrum too because although he is too cheap to lovebomb or buy gifts, he WILL mirror you (pretend to be everything you want), text all day and eat up as much of your time as possible and when his mask starts slipping, he will just ghost. He’s extremely unhealthy mentally, he has women friends but he is a major misogynist. This guy hates women. He fanboys any toxic content creators that take an anti-women stance. He’s an extremely pervy dirty old man incel, dreaming of being a fkboy. It’s really depressing.

  306. Adam Meyers from Melbourne, Australia.
    Adam is a manipulative narcissist. I have learned that throughout our entire relationship, he remained on dating apps, and was seeing other women, despite us being ‘exclusive’. He lied, he gaslit, and he manipulated me endlessly. I am completely broken. He always called his exes ‘crazy’ and ‘psycho’ which I should have noticed as the first warning, but he knows how to charm. My fellow Melbourne girls, please avoid this man for your own wellbeing. He is taekwondo obsessed, if that helps.

  307. Michael Evangelis from Hopatcong and Bayonne, New Jersey.
    Michael Evangelis, also goes by Alexander and Nick to trap women. We were together for years, and were having relationship issues because he didn’t seem to think that communicating and figuring out things together was necessary. We even went to therapy multiple times. Each time he would make a promise infant of the therapist, and then break it the next day saying he is a man and will do what he wants. Then I found out that while he was traveling for work (which was during most of our relationship) he was picking up multiple women on apps and the gym. He was also doing this when he would come back home to New Jersey. He would tell me that he is busy with work or managing his property. But instead he was going on dates and having s3x with other women. He would lie to them that he is single, lie about his name (saying it’s Nick or Alexander), his intentions, and then get them to sleep with him in investment property. When our relationship was really struggling he would argue about s3x, and be abusive emotionally and physically. But the truth is he was mad that he was sleeping with other women, yet I was saying no. He is a manipulative psychopathic man who has gone to an abusers support group without any success. When I stopped seeing him, he put a tracker on my car and left me cryptic voicemails about he knows where I am and that I better not be with any other man. He believed that I belonged to him, while he continued to cheat and be abusive. He has done therapy and his therapist had told him to get help, go to s3x addict group. But he continues to deny he has any issue. Michael Evangelis does not respect women. He only wants to use them to make himself feel good about his own self. He will say his name is Alexander or Nick, and that he is from Denville, Parisppany, or Bayonne (various towns in NJ). He only knows how to lie. I found folders of videos and pictures he took of all these women like he is proud of his actions.

  308. Adam McClanahan from Maryville, TN.
    He was the most selfish person I ever met. He only cared about his wants and needs. I would tell him that I didn’t want to be intimate with him sometimes and he would kind of force me to and try to shame me into doing it. No woman should ever have to deal with him. Plus I genuinely always thought he was gay. I caught him checking out multiple men all the time, so I think he was just in the closet and that’s why he treated me and other women he has dated so bad. Protect yourself ladies. Stay away from this man.

  309. Leonard Harvey Schreck from Red Lion, PA.
    This man spent 6 years verbally abusing me and calling me names and accusing me of things that were not real. Calling me a cheater and every name under the sun. He broke into my home and threatened to murd3r me and blame it on his friend. He attacked my 10 year old child that was only trying to protect his mom.
    I took polygraph tests proving everything Leonard accused me of was just lies. Leonard took a test proving everything he told me about other women he was seeing behind my back was lies and that he was the one cheating and not me.
    He spent until Feb. Of 2023 in a form of s3xual relationship with me while running around at bars ignoring me and pretending that there was no other women when really there was.
    He slandered my name all the way from Nebraska to Baltimore.
    His pick up line is ( my ex cheated on me ) it’s all lies, no one ever cheated on him.
    He spent years going behind my back slandering my name to other women as a form of getting attention from them.
    He failed his polygraph and refused to be honest about it after spending years lying about me for attention.
    When ever I confronted him about lying or when he got caught lying year after year about where he is, who he’s with and run around disappearing for hours, days, instead of being an honest man, he chose to call me names and make excuses about why he’s the only one that doesn’t have to answer for what he’s done after verbally abusing women and slandering their names for years just to get attention from other women.
    He loves calling women wh0r3s when he’s the only one that ran around acting like one.

  310. Rick Little from Minneapolis/ Fargo.
    Player history: This guy is married and is a constant cheater- she has no idea either! He pretends he single and they are going thru a few issues. ALL LIES! He is nice when you meet him/ chat with but when he’s done he’s gone and he really is just using you! He will pay for videos and chats. You can find him at any strip club, massage parlor, and expects a happy ending. He is a frequent “STG” and “escort affairs” user so he pays for *women*! He’s got a dirty d**K! Beware of the DRD!

  311. Bennett Locke from Braintree, MA.
    Ben is not what he appears. He is physically, emotionally, and psychologically abusive. The two assault arrests he has pertaining to his abuse on me are just the tip of the iceberg. He threatened to p0is0n my friend’s dog several times, threatened to k1ll me (sent me pics of him holding a hand gun) and threatened to hire someone to k1ll me based on the contacts he met in jail. He psychologically abused me by saying the most ugly things about my body, send me nudes of the girls he was cheating with and told me to k1ll myself already (I have BPD and suffer from these kinds of thoughts) Ben is scary. He puts on a great act and love bombs at the start. Do not fall for it. He’s a pathological liar and cheater. He has no conscience or remorse. He will ruin your life then walk away, gaslighting you and he will not give a single F about the damage he has caused. He is a dangerous predator. RUN!!!

  312. Todd Spangler from Gloucester, VA.
    Over the course of 6 years together after consoling him through a rough divorce where she cheated on him, yet, he cheated on her. Swore he could never betray me. In our last month together he met someone new and continued the relationship with me. Through calculated manipulation he withdrew emotionally leaving me no choice but to walk away. Fast forward one month and he updated his Facebook profile of a photo of him and her. I waited 5 years to post a photo of us on social media once his divorce finalized. He knows her for merely two months and is displaying her for the world to see. I walked away assuming we drifted too far apart when all the while he sabotaged the relationship so that I would walk away and he would appear the good guy. The pain is indescribable seeing the photo of them and then hearing they met in January when I ended things in February tore my already broken heart even further. Obviously he’s a coward who is afraid to be alone so he must find someone new before leaving his current relationship respectively. I truly believed he was a genuine person and now he doesn’t even acknowledge me to allow proper closure in order for me to heal and move on.

  313. Kunal Mehta from Sydney, Parramatta, Australia.
    He is a polygamist. Smooth player. Alcoholic.
    He connects with women on dating and matrimonial sites under the pretext of wanting to marry.
    He never uses tinder because as per him he doesn’t want women who have casual relationships with other men.
    He will introduce women to his friends over video calls to show-off to them.
    He’ll use words like “I’ll keep you like a queen” “i want to love you”
    I have spoken to two other women he was with along with me and that’s when I ended it.

  314. Kenneth aka Rome aka Kenoe Robinson from Omaha Nebraska.
    I have never meet a devil in real life until this boy. Once he has you thinking he is “different than other guys” he tells you this horrible sad stories about family struggles, even used his daughters mental health to get money from women. All the while he is bragging to his friends that this is his “game” to women so he doesn’t have to work. He keeps multiple girls around for s3x and money. Literally walking red flag, no job, no place to stay, busted car but because he is quiet and pretends to be sweet he gets away with it. He is a horrible person.

  315. Paul Thomas Taylor from San Jose, CA.
    I write this hoping to save some poor fool from falling for this con man.
    Paul and I dated for 5 years, 4 of which he was abusive emotionally, physically and financially.
    This “man”, presents an image of extreme success but he only gets anything by taking it from others. He used my information to take a loan out on a vehicle (through online service Carvana) that he then damaged extensively and accrued an amount over $2,000 of fines/penalties, parking and toll violations on.
    Paul also racked up $10,000 in credit card charges on my account. He also skipped out on $8,000 he agreed to pay when I purchased furniture for our apartment on my credit card.
    This man will gaslight you, lie to you, cheat on you. He will spin you a story of how much he has been victimized, from a history of vicious ex girlfriends, to lies about abuses he suffered as a child (both physically and s3xua11y), to lies about where he grew up, the nature of his adoption and relationship (or lack there of) with his family.
    The only real thing I ever knew about him was his veteran status. He did serve and was wounded while on deployment.
    He will excuse his mistreatment of you because he “is in pain”.
    He will excuse his alcoholism and substance abuse because these substances, (he is particularly fond of c0caine, but will use whatever he can get) is the only thing that works for his chronic pain.

    Please protect yourself from this person. If he’s at all in your life, remove him. Cut him off and burn that access shut.

  316. Jonathan H. Morgan from Savannah GA.
    We were together for 5 years, and 6 years ago that I wasn’t the only girl he was with. I was meant to be the at home girlfriend that gave him his children and took care of the houses because he has many. I spent the 1st 2 years of our relationship busting my butt and creating a really cool Inn in the Sterling district of Savannah Georgia. The part of that history I did not know was the inn supplied him with cool people that he can make jokes too and hot girls that he can F. I won’t tell you the name of the Inn but it’s in starland arch district please note that Jonathan has genital herpes and does not tell. He told me after 6 months of being together. He was seeing lots of guests behind my back and then eventually he started dating his Chinese manager and left me for her and then she left him because she wanted a baby. Note when he left me I was pregnant and then I had a miscarriage. It all started because of he said that he would not be in a relationship if the s3x ever stopped more then a few weeks. He knew I had trauma before we met and he was insisted that he helped me with that, pretty much all he really did was make me relive on my trauma and tell me to get over it. But I was also working hard to try to get the Inn open Because he didn’t know how to hire employees and the people helping really didn’t care if we open On the open day of March 2020. Yes yes he has a lot of money he has a lot of cars and a lot of houses but that’s not why I loved him so much I loved his crazy goofy personality how we worked on things together and how we just enjoyed each other. But it seems the only reason he was attracted to me was because of the s3x. He was having s3x with guests while I was in the house cleaning. You never told me that after 2 years we were gonna be in a somewhat polite relationship. Where he gets to go and screw all the girls he wants but I can’t screw anyone but him. His absence has avoided his just disrespected not caring about who I was or supporting me and any of my decisions or life. He would tell everyone that I didn’t love myself but I did I was just being emotionally abused ocean lamb views to where I could figure out anything because he had confused me so much telling me he loves me but yet just respecting me. He said he couldn’t trust me and he resented me but I never rejected him from s3x he thought I did and that stuck with him when I was just talking about my trauma and how I don’t like to be forced. He got mad because I didn’t pursue him for s3x but I never did in the beginning so why are you expecting me to do something I didn’t do. He would get mad at me just talking about work such as Hey what color do you want this door with turn into a huge argument. I told him I didn’t want to keep cleaning rooms for a living because I barely made poverty level in the state of Georgia. He told me I shouldn’t try to get more money because he pays for the houses he pays for my living and everything else though he honestly didn’t. The business paid for the houses we lived in and it paid for all the utilitperiod am I food in the things I liked I bought myself because I didn’t see it ethically right to have a business purchase something for me personally especially when it’s a business account. So I paid for all my stuff with my amazingly little paychecks can you tell me I shouldn’t worry because I’m dating a millionaire. He is a millionaire and assets only he got it because of his parents they’re not rich but they have great credit and can’ cosign. He is a very good smooth talker and he will say anything he has to say to a female to get them to have s3x with him. You will not be his only you will only be his toy. As in the letter he wrote me he has 18 years left to screw everything he wants, and he doesn’t want to miss out. My therapist and some of his friends call him in narcissist, but I was the only one that would ever stay into his face. But if you do meet him flirt with him boost his ego you might get a nice trip to the island house that I used to live at where you can see dolphins absolutely beautiful swimming in the pool, Take a dip in the hot tub that I rebuilt and enjoy the beautiful wildlife he held he might even make you dinner. He’ll talk dirty to you maybe put on some p0rn or show that’s very suggestive don’t do it, Just use him like he uses every other girl. He flatters and boosters he goes to get what he wants but I’m letting you know what he wants and how you can take advantage for yourself. Maybe if everybody starts treating him the way he does to others maybe he’ll see what kind of a crappy person he really is.

    And it’s interesting because he told me about his exes I wonder if I’m used to demand s3x from him and how he hated it so I tried not to do that to him because that’s not my personality. The Times I did want to have s3x he kept telling me he wasn’t having outbreak to actually have s3x with him, because he never talked to me and that was the fault of everything and hes not communicating with me and he said it was really hard to even talk to me because I have Asperger And that my I autism prevents me from understanding any In the portable at communicating, I’m sorry but I’m straightforward honest and Blunt. He liked it before and then all of a sudden he didn’t like it I don’t know who hes talking to or where he gets these ideas from but hes not the man that I fell in love with so many years ago.

    I don’t think I could ever trust him again because he is just as worse as the one before named Jeff Dickey who was not a marine who was never in the military and used his kids to get what he wants and get sympathy and free food cigarettes and all that other BS. That guy will take your money and use your car and use you up until you have nothing and I’ll try to trap you by having a kid with you. That’s what you tried to do and then I had surgery in which had to stop my periods as then that’s when the physical views happened. Jonathan knew of my trauma with this guy and promise you would never do the same things but yet he ended Up doing the exact same things minus breaking my arm.

    I ultimately had to leave the state to get away from him and to heal.

  317. Brett Burns from Missouri.
    Brett is psychologically abusive. I would not be posting about him if he weren’t. His behavior screams narcissistic personality disorder. He doesn’t take accountability for his actions, has a long, colorful history with the law, and every story he tells me always ends up being someone else’s fault. He dismissed my feelings and my needs, accused me of cheating nonstop with basically everyone I spoke to even though I offered him my phone to show I had nothing to hide, he blew up over the smallest things (groceries, housework, etc.), belittled me and everyone around him, would call and text multiple times throughout the day to ask where I was and who I was with, he lied constantly, violated my boundaries and told me they were ridiculous, shamed me for not shaving as often as he thought I should, shamed me for having ambitions and goals that didn’t revolve around him, and was generally an angry, unreasonable person. When we first met he was super sweet, took me on shopping sprees, gassed me up, told me I was the woman of his dreams, his “Angel”, and that he wanted to provide for me and take care of me, aka, he lovebombed me. I didn’t recognize this for what it was because no man had made me feel so special before. That all changed when I got pregnant with his child. He became disrespectful, constantly told me I didn’t care about him or the child because I was continuing to work. He has caused issues for me at work with others as a result. He told me if we can’t be together he’s moving to a different state. He has also told me he has no intention of supporting me financially throughout the pregnancy. When I told him I wanted to look for a different, less stressful job he got angry with me because he wants me to be his personal assistant and said he wants me to do what he wants and work for the “family business” which really just means work for him with zero autonomy or freedom. He didn’t respect the fact that parenthood would be completely changing my life while he didn’t plan on sacrificing or changing anything once the child arrives. He got angry when I went to see my friends and family out of state even though he was invited and chose not to come. He also got angry when I did anything social without him even though he was almost always invited. He has said that he isn’t even sure the baby is his several times. He didn’t understand why I feel so exhausted from the pregnancy all the time and questioned why I go to bed so early when I finally moved my stuff out of his place. He would get angry when I didn’t want to stay up late with him; he got angry when I wasn’t in the mood to have s3x with him. He offered no emotional support and never intended to be involved with child rearing beyond financially and that support exists ONLY if we would have stayed together and do things the way he wants them to be done. At first he told me he would help me get health insurance. I am a 1099 contractor and am pretty healthy, so I didn’t need it until I got pregnant. Now he says he will only help me if we are a couple. He makes plenty of money so there’s no reason for him not to support his child. I have never posted anything on this site and honestly didn’t know it existed until today. Hopefully this is the only review I will ever feel compelled to write on an ex. Avoid this man at all costs. You will regret it if you don’t. He did the same thing to his last girlfriend and doesn’t see a problem with his behavior. I am now trying to figure out how to make ends meet and move back home to Oklahoma closer to my family and close friends as I have no support system in this state and am facing the reality of being a single mom and giving birth alone to my very first child. For more information on this man, please reach out via email at egtenny@gmail.com or Facebook messenger via the link in my profile. Be careful out there.

  318. Chad Spencer from Ohio.
    I met him off meetme. It was OK in the beginning. He moved in quickly. I met his mom quickly. We got a place together rather fast and that’s when the DV started. He dumped me off his $5 couch. Took my phone to refrain from calling for help. Blocked the only exit door. Dragged me off the bed. Destroyed my dresser. He shoved me so hard I ended up collapsing to the floor. I fell pregnant during that time. (I moved out) He has been inconsistent in her life, always getting in DV relationships. He has called me horrible names in public in front of our daughter including preventing me from taking her out of the situation so shes not a witness. He likes to have another person on the phone while arguing/video record arguements. He SA’d me last year. I also watched him physically abuse his son last year. He uses, abuses, lies and cheats. Which is what all of our arguments were mainly over. This is over the course of several years.

    1. He has also held me down to the floor before during an argument leaving bruises on my wrists. Me having to spit in his face for him to release me.

  319. Muhammad Saif Islam from Hollywood, Florida.
    Saif is originally from Bangladesh and he now lives in Hollywood, Florida. He is a brown man obsessed with white women. He is self-hating and uses any opportunity to separate himself from his heritage – claiming to be another ethnicity and wearing colored contacts to appear mixed race. Saif made it abundantly clear he wanted white-passing children during a discussion we had about marriage and kids. Saif stated he would want to adopt little white “goddesses” of his own to achieve this desire. I don’t think I need to go any further… It was over and done that very moment. Disgusting.

  320. Gregory Eng from Miami, Florida.
    Greg Eng is originally from New York but is currently living in Miami, Florida. He is an alcoholic and makes for a rather embarrassing and pushy companion while going out. Greg will take photos and videos of you without your permission (and refuse to delete them). He is an unhappy, self-conscious man who will take out his insecurities on you in various ways. Greg argues over semantics/pragmatics in order to make himself feel intellectually superior than you but lacks the ability to hold himself to the same standards. He will future fake with you early on in an attempt to persuade you to accept his faults with promises of taking care of you, paying your rent, moving you in, going on an international trip together, etc. Do not fall for it.

  321. Jeff Choi from Torrance, California.
    Jeff is from South Korea and lived in NYC before moving. He resides in Torrance, California. Jeff plays the role of a tortured, misunderstood victim with a troubled past and an unlucky streak with women in order for you to let your guard down and pity him. Pay close attention to the things he says and how he responds to certain topics. He will parrot your needs and desires as his own as a way to manipulate you and create a false sense of connection/mutual understanding.

    Jeff will strategically say and do what someone you’d think genuinely cares about you would say and do just to turn around and treat you poorly after he’s successfully lead you to believe him and his lies. Jeff virtual signals, acts morally superior, and acknowledges all the ways in which people take advantage of others/hurt one another as if he would never think to perform such monstrosities himself… as he proceeds to prey upon, be disingenuous to, and consciously harm others.

    Please note, he will use metal illness as an excuse for any and all wrongdoings. Be aware this is a fully grown adult man, very much capable of self control, discipline, and the ability to be a decent human being. He knew what he was going to do before he did it and he will keep his true intentions from you until he is finished. Jeff has absolutely zero integrity.

    1. Just incase this particular Jeff is somehow confused or mistaken for another with a similar name, I wanted to provide some additional information to set him apart – this Jeff Choi prides himself in having traveled through various parts of Europe (especially his stay in southern Germany). He will also mention his trip to Japan if he has the chance to. I am sure he won’t forget to include that he performed various forms of labor during his travels in exchange for a place to stay in an effort to appear humble/relatable; however, if you are unfortunate enough to get swept up in this man’s mess, you’ll come to find out this is just yet another way he will try to support the convoluted façade he’s desperately trying to make you believe. Stay safe ladies.

  322. Myong Choi from LA/Torrance, California.
    Myong lives in the LA/Torrance area in California. He expects s3x but he doesn’t shower properly or take care of himself/think of his appearance. His P has a medical issue that he refuses to seek help for. Myong is also not skilled in anything having to do with intimacy (that involves a partner, as I’m sure he has consumed and pleasured himself enough while watching decades worth of p0rn that he has *self pleasure* mastered). Our interactions were some of the worst s3xua1 experiences of my life.

  323. David Tan from Irvine, California, USA.
    David Tan is originally from Texas and is currently living in Irvine, California. He will act as though he holds the same values and views as you do on all things pertaining to life and human interaction/relationships (platonic and romantic); meanwhile, he is putting on heirs to take advantage of you. David blames his “conservative upbringing” for his poor social development and inadequacies instead of taking responsibility and working on himself as a middle aged man. He lacks many of the qualities that make for a good partner (and a good person in general) and he will argue and debate you to death on your standards – hoping you will lower them rather than him putting in the effort to meet them. He will twist the truth/blatantly lie when confronted about the contradictions of his words vs actions or when his overall hypocrisy is pointed out, ultimately gaslighting you into oblivion if it means he can still seem decent and you end up looking over dramatic and critical. David falls back on plans and promises regularly, leaving his word to be valued at less than zero, and will rationalize it with mental gymnastics until your ears bleed. When retelling events, he purposefully leaves out the parts that make him look bad in order to sway others opinions on situations and avoid taking accountability. He will infuriate you with his weaponized incompetence and refusal to be thoughtful, consideration, etc. while expecting those things from you on top of an uninterrupted routine of s3x and acceptance of his god awful display of what he considers to be genuine interest and care for you. He is not worth anyone’s time.

  324. Jay Dathaeus Lee from West Palm Beach, Florida, USA.
    riginally from South Korea, raised in NYC, Jay Dathaeus Lee is now residing in West Palm Beach, FL. He is a washed up former athlete with major narcissistic traits and a slew of other psychological issues. Jay lied (and continues to lie) about his age, claiming to be 10-15 years his junior, as if anyone would realistically believe that to be true. His house is a hoarders paradise, although he views this somewhat of an accomplishment and claims his disorganization and living in squalor serves as evidence that he is full of ideas and is a genius.

    Jay considers himself to a great guy/”renaissance man” yet he was nothing short of a condescending, highly disrespectful lowlife throughout our time together. He has a grandiose sense of self-importance and is caught up in a multitude of hilariously improvable delusions that involve him becoming a world famous billionaire (excuse me… TRILLIONAIRE!) for all to envy and desire. Jay s3xua11y assaulted me repeatedly without remorse and exhibited bizarre sexual behavior that indicates extreme mental illness. Jay is also attracted to minors and uses “you look 10/12/14/16” as a compliment. If you are dating/any female you know is getting “trained” by him, I suggest you cease any and all communication before you end up needing to contact authorities or seek therapy as a result of interacting with him.

  325. Brett Selby from Ontario, Canada.
    Brett Selby is a highly troubled individual. He views women as beneath him and uses most of them for “practice” as he lacks the social skills necessary to already have a well-rounded personality with likable traits. He feels as though his way of shaping himself to be a good future boyfriend/husband by wasting women’s time is admirable due to the fact that he isn’t sleeping with them. Meanwhile, in his free time, him and his buddies admit to grooming women online and attempting to harvest nud3 photos and put them into compromising situations for their amusement. If you know of this person, run.

  326. Mohamed (Simo) Bayhammou from DC area/Morocco.
    This is a married man who is playing at being in a bad relationship and trying to get out. He acts all charming and sweet then he gets pushy and get the conversation going about how you make him hot. He is a liar and cheater. Do not trust him. Never spoke one true word.

  327. Jerome Avate from Northampton, Pa.
    This boy is a true master manipulator. I was warned about him from a psychic but didn’t listen. He is sweet and very good looking, he has almost a dumb cute thing going on that makes you want to help him. That’s all part of the ploy. He made me feel bad about wanting to hang out during the week and claimed he was tired then depressed.. what he was was h0rny and gross. He used the FEELD app and was sleeping with NUMEROUS women at the same time as I. He got me pregnant and had me a get an ab0rti0n. After that he treated me like damaged goods. I was so low and depressed and he was bringing so many girls into our bed that I got two different bacterial infections. I found c0nd0m wrappers two days before my birthday. So I wrote on his wall with sharpie and killed his pot plants he’s growing. Then took him back. I didn’t get anything for Christmas or my birthday because he told me I didn’t deserve anything. I bled for almost 3 months straight from the ab0rti0n because it didn’t work and ended in a horrible m1scarr1age. He made me sit in the ER all day by myself and when I got to his house after, I found 3 used c0nd0ms. He convinced me of his innocence so many times and even threw some tears into the mix. I have a four year old who adored him and his dog and it breaks my heart he chose to come and be around her and I knowing what he did. Worst part is he has a type; brunettes with a kid. I’m not sure why the kid thing is part of it but it is. He is also strung out on drugs and I think some type of painkiller, based on what I found in my room once. Jerome will tell you anything you want to hear. Everything out of his mouth was a lie. In his ceiling I found some of my clothes and tons of other girls clothes. Along with that was a box of used c0nd0ms, wrappers, and the boxes they came in. He lives in his parents basement and has never cleaned once. There are three dirty cages from a bearded dragon he had that didn’t take care of and they are all sitting around filled with poop. It’s so gross! His parents know what’s he’s up to and don’t say anything. His mom gave me $100 for Xmas bc I think she felt bad. I was so low when all this was going on I considered giving up custody of my daughter and *offing myself*. I was recommended to see a psychiatrist and am on a stronger dose of anti anxiety meds. I have so many trust issues I can’t breath and leaving the house is not something I like doing. I’m scared to see him out because I want to impose pain on him but I never will. I spoke to one of his wh0r3s and the poor thing thought she was like his girlfriend. Yet she knew about me so I’m sorry but she is a wh0r3. Please stay away from this man child. He is good at what he does. Like really good. Stay strong ladies and steer clear of Jerome aka Jay Avate.

  328. Dwayne Gordon from Philadelphia, PA/Jamaica.
    He’s a chronic mooch and liar. He will constantly be “looking for a job” while making small requests for money to women, older men, etc. He always has a “hardship” or crisis that needs paying for. He’ll spend the money on himself and justify it. He’s a perma f boy and is constantly with his baby momma while dating other women too (he’s been with her off and on for 13 years but tells other women she’s a problem so they don’t find out he’s been with her too).

    He doesn’t use c0nd0ms. He’s constantly letting others know how generous he is and that he’s a good person while he’s lying to their face.

  329. Haiwen Dai from Middleton, WI.
    Emotionally abusive. Does not respect boundaries. Threatens revenge p0rn to maintain control. Cheater. Liar. Addict. Stay safe and stay away!

  330. Marvin Christiansen from Davenport Iowa.
    I had been single for almost 3 years, I did not date or hook up with anyone because I got burned in my last relationship and I was done with men forever. Well here come Marvin into my work, he met someone there to pick up a cup he had purchased. Then he kept coming back. I never had any interest in him at all, I thought to myself..shit I have another fan. I am a bartender. Marvin does not drink or do drugs. I explained to him that I was not looking for anything. Well push come to shove I fell for it..I believed him when he said he be with me through the good and the bad and that I will get tired of him being around. So we never fought we did our thing and I thought we were happy…I finally found the guy for me…in the beginning I kept telling myself and a couple girlfriends of mine…this is to good to be true and they laughed at me because he is such a nice person and he still is something is off. As we approach our 1 year anniversary things change in him. All he does is lay in bed and play on his phone. No good morning no good night no how was work honey when u get home. He layed in bed for days at a time with the phone in his hand. Well one night I came across his Twitter account so I look and see he likes 109 pictures of naked women and when I asked he said he must of got hacked and I asked him to talk with me about it he refused and continued to ignore me, so I did the same. Saturday evening he gets ready to go to a potluck which i was invited also but he didn’t ask if I still wanted to go. Before he leaves he breaks up with me. I shrug it off and he comes back before midnight and went to the spare bedroom and I went and asked him why did he come back to my house since he dumped me and then he gets up and starts packing his stuff…at this point I’m angry and I ask him to please leave until I have cooled off. Because I didn’t want him to leave and he ignored me and I felt as if I would have done something I would have regretted the rest of my life because I’m not hurting the man I’m madly in love with! He left his phone but did leave and he told me to go through it. Well my dumb ass did. I found nothing until I checked the history in his Google Chrome that he forgot to clear. He has looked up p0rn three times before he went on to pick out my valentine’s day flowers to put in a vase that he had blown himself. He came back the next morning and gathered more of his things and I asked him several times to please talk to me and explain why he was moving his stuff out. I wasn’t upset about p0rn or naked pictures hell I even told him..I will watch and look with you but he refused to talk. He came back the next day again while I was at work and got more stuff then left stuff and said he be back later to get. Then he ignored me for 7 days. Maybe one or two text but not to check on me or to apologize. Well today he sent me a message on Facebook telling me he needs to fix himself for the next person..not for us to be together but for the next girl. There are some more things that he had not told me but I’m not throwing that out. I’m telling the story exactly how it happened. My children even told him..mom is not mad and you are blowing this way out of proportion. My heart is broken into millions of pieces and he runs over nothing. He is selfish and only cares about his happiness. He had so much good around him but he was to busy on his phone to even notice!
    —-
    Marvin is a retired army vet, he blows glass at a glass shop and makes pieces to donation for good causes. He is the best man I’ve ever been with. He and I met at my work. I am a bartender and he doesn’t drink but came in to meet someone a friend. Well I had spoken with him and I was not interested at all. I thought damn I have another fan because he kept coming back and kept asking about going to lunch or dinner. After so many times asking I agreed, I explained to Marvin that I was almost 3 years out of a bad relationship and that I was not into hooking up or anything of the sort. He kept on me and I caved and we started to date. Then we had s3x then I fell for him hard and he said he did too! I thought this is to good to be true…well I was right! Marvin and I never fought but as time went on he moved in and he doesn’t have a job at this point, he did in the beginning. I knew the situation so I had no problems taking care of him because hell we gonna be together forever. As time went on Marvin would just lay in bed for days at a time, only come out to eat or use restroom and right back to the bedroom to get on his phone. As soon as he woke, he gets his phone and lays in bed all day on his phone…i didn’t care. He eventuality stopped messaging me while I was at work. I’d get home trash is full sink full of dishes and lights all out. He did do dishes once in awhile. He made sure he was fed and he made sure his laundry was done and he made sure to keep himself on that phone. He never communicated with me anymore the s3x went to nothing. Well one night I as looking through Twitter and found a profile of his, so I look and all his likes are naked women. I honestly don’t care but I wanted to ask him what is up with that. Is this the reason why your not making love to me anymore? Well he said go through my phone, my Twitter was hacked, I said no I don’t want to. I just wanna talk to ya about and he said I’m not doing this with you and went back to the bedroom and I stayed on the couch he continued to ignore me all the next day. We were to attend a potluck together but he never asked me if I were going and before he left he told me it was over and he left. Well he came back just before midnight and went to the spare bedroom and I got up and asked him why he came back to my house after he had dumped me and he said because my things are here. I told him nobody gonna take your things. Then he started to pack his clothes and I got very angry and asked him to talk to me that I didn’t understand why is was blowing this out of proportion and he continued to ignore me so i asked him to leave because my blood was boiling at this point and I didn’t want to react and do something stupid so I put a chair in front of the door so he couldn’t come back in. Well he left his phone and he had given me permission to go through it, it was clean but he forgot to clear Google chrome well I found he like to watch p0rn too. I do not care about that either but why keep something like that from me. He still won’t admit about the p0rn or the pictures and I told him heck I’ll look at it with you…I got ignored and he moved more things out and the more he ignored me the more mad I get and again I asked him to leave before I lost it, had to lock him out again. Then he came back next day while I was at work to get some more stuff, and still no communication from him. He has ignored me for 7 days now and I am so heartbroken from this, I just wanted to talk. Well he messaged me and claims he has to fix himself so he can be good for the next one. I said what about me, I knew you didn’t have the funds to help pays bills at my house so I let it slide, I told you I will forever be by your side. Money doesn’t mean shit to me. He mentioned he was unhappy, I thought we were great. He used me and he knows it. I am an open honest person and he told me he’d never hurt me and be there through good and bad and all he did was lay in my bed and play on his phone. But if anyone he knows calls for something he is up out of that bed doing for them. I’m understanding why he has been married three times and has many many many ex girlfriends. I don’t know if he was booking up or talking or paying women online. I will probably never know and I don’t know if I would want to. I opened up to the man and he tore my heart out and he promised not to. He isn’t very s3xua1 he claims he has pain when he *releases*, so If I were lucky I got laid once a month and he made me feel like we were making love. He also has not been paying any of his bills at his home, he is in foreclosure and I had to find this out from someone else. He has many secrets many many secrets and he is selfish. He was not like this in the beginning. He freaking fooled me and I’m angry because I believed him. He is a great father a great friend but a lousy boyfriend. So if ya date this guy be prepared to be treated like a Queen for a few months or til he gets comfortable. Then bam it’s all about that cell phone. And the p0rn he was looking up was stepmom loves stepsons *genitalia*. And when I went to the p0rn page he watches it was a porn with a stepbrother and stepsister playing their fantasies…I about puked because not even a month ago he got back from his moms because his stepdad was sick in hospital and he was spending time with his stepsister and that freaked me the hell out. Not sure what is going on in the man’s head but that’s sick stuff to be fantasizing about. That is some morbid stuff in my eyes. He is a 50 year old player. This man doesn’t want love he wants to be taken care of by someone else. He doesn’t spend money on you he spends your money. I have handed him money several times and he never paid me back. But the one time I borrowed money he wanted it back right away. It’s his way or no way, he will run if there is any chance of an argument and make it your fault. Remember we had two fights the almost a year we were together and he dumped me the 1st fight also and he came back but did the same thing when we didn’t have an argument until he started moving his things out.
    I know that his last girlfriend left him because on their weekend to be alone and only them he left while she was sleeping due to an accident a friend was in and by time he got home she was gone. He doesn’t make his girl a priority, he put me on back burner and I assume he did that with the last girlfriend also. He is so happy to have you in the beginning and then he stops giving a crap. I have no proof if he messaged or FaceTimed or paid girls, but he is broke a week after his SSI check comes in. He is also addicted to a game called Kiss Of War. His cellphone is his #1 priority and that is sad. I could go in and on but I think you get the point.

  331. Todd Dogie from Duson, Louisiana.
    He is a charmer at first, only to get you where he wants you. Then he is a compulsive liar, narcissist, controlling egotistical cheater. He lies and says he was with less than 10 women in his 54 years of life not mentioning cheating on his wife when they were married and me for sure that I know of. He will cut off all contract with your friends and family and make you most vulnerable then destroy your world. I had my suspicions at first but could never prove anything until one day I received a text message from the other woman saying she wouldn’t have had s3x with him if she knew about me. He of course denied and lied. I believe her and in no way blame her. Women beware Todd Dogie is your worst nightmare. Don’t believe me? Go ahead and find out for yourself. Please share your story afterwards.

  332. Richard Bedell from San Antonio Texas.
    Richard is a covert narcissist, & I don’t say this due to a mere opinion. I have a strong background in psychology & do not give diagnoses without overwhelming support. He is in constant need for validation, & seeks it out on video s3x chat sites, social media & hook up sites. Practicing safe s3x is strongly advised since there have been recent incidents. He is extremely hypersensitive and misunderstands everything you do. Telling him how you feel is a perceived attack & he will go into a Narcisstic Rage. He will leave you stranded, with no money- there are no limits to how he will punish. He is unable to love unconditionally – all connections are superficial & you are merely a pawn in his game. The relationship suits his needs only, he will straight up tell you he doesn’t care about your feelings, he’s too proud to apologize & will not & he will always have someone else he can jump ship to if he thinks you’re mad & will treat you as if you are yesterdays garbage. Save yourself the chaos, confusion, & toxicity that is Rich Clinton.

  333. Justin Morey from San Diego, CA.
    Oh, where to start? Justin is a liar, a cheater, manipulator, possibly a narcissist (I’m not a mental health professional and not qualified to give him a diagnosis of that, but he displays every quality of one), and will gaslight the heck out of you. He has a repeating pattern of telling a woman he feels a strong connection with them, wants to make it exclusive, etc, but what you don’t realize is that he’s telling this to a handful of other women. He always has a few “female friends” on the side that he’s keeping in his back pocket. You’ll conveniently never meet them and they have no clue you exist but he makes it a point to tell you everything g about them so it feels like they know about you. ie his friend Carmen, who he cheated on me with, supposedly knew about me and then knew that I thought their friendship was inappropriate given that Justin cheated with her. His story never passed the smell test. He will introduce you to his mother, though. If you’re really lucky, he’ll tell you he loves you and that he’s only told 3 other girlfriends that in the past. I spent a year with this monster. He was sent to Australia for work for 6 weeks and immediately got onto Hinge and Bumble “to meet friends.” Meanwhile, he was meeting women and hooking up with them ASAP. He never intended to not cheat while there. When confronted, Justin will always use your words against you, make you feel crazy, and somehow tried to make you be the reason for conflict. For the sake of not getting too lengthy, I’ll briefly mention the inappropriate relationship he had with a 21 y/o. Justin is a 42 year old man. She was equally culpable but the entire time he kept making me out to be crazy. He’s a terrible terrible person.

  334. Stas Edel from California.
    Stas, also known as Stanislav, is a malignant narcissist. He is extremely charming, charismatic, and seems like an educated, intelligent, handsome, tall, strong, understanding, empathetic, amazing catch….but it’s all a facade.

    He likes to prowl Tinder. That’s where I found him in 2016. He moves from woman to woman once the truth about him is exposed. He is a pathological liar and a cheater.

    He stopped having s3x with me at all a year into our relationship, would reject me every time I initiated, promised it wasn’t me and it was him – meanwhile he was cheating on me. He cheated on me at least 5 times that I am personally aware of, starting a mere 3 months into our 6 year relationship. He recorded most of the incidents and kept them on an external hard-drive. When I confronted him about the cheating, he denied it at first, until I told him I had found video evidence of it. Then he finally admitted to ONE incident of cheating. He continued to lie about the rest.

    He has deeply disturbing k1nks, including *feces play*, *urine play*, cross-dressing, getting fully naked on solo hiking trips to Mojave and *self pleasuring*. He would put his GoPro in our toilet and record himself defacating. He made music video edits with the videos of himself cheating on me for his own personal enjoyment. He posted videos of himself *self pleasuring* to a porn site with hashtags including but not limited to: “first gay”, “amateur gay”, “gay c0ck”, “best gay”, “gay man”.

    He used me financially. I paid for the majority of our rent, his $2,000 mountain bike, and his $10,000 dental work. His host dad reached out a year into our relationship and asked me to start paying for his student loans (!!!!) which were $850 a month. He never paid me back for any of it.

    He grabbed my phone out of my hands and threw it when we were sitting in his car together waiting for our take-out food to be ready. He took my 10 bags of chips out of our pantry and threw them on the ground while screaming I owned too many bags of chips. He is extremely controlling and would try to control the food I bought and would keep in our kitchen, despite knowing I had a history of anorexia. He rap3d me, saying that it was ok if it hurt and he was too close to stop.

    He left California to go to Ukraine, his home country, for around 2.5 years, promising that we’d still be together when he returned, only to dump me one day after coming back home. He refused to talk about it or give me any closure. He moved out and I never saw him again, except when he returned once to collect his green card which he had mailed to my house. He ghosted me for months, then reappeared only to breadcrumb me for an entire year.

    He refused to go to the hospital when one of our cats was dying a month after breaking up with me.

    I found out he had confided to a friend of his that he had never really loved me. He proceeded to have a year long “situationship” with this same friend that he had been friends with for 6 years. He told her that she was the first person he had real feelings for in over 7 years. He told her he loved her twice. Then he dumped her without a second thought and blocked her on everything after he found some fresh supply.

    I found out he told another friend of his that we were married but had split. We were never married. His lies NEVER END. What I know and described here is just barely scratching the surface.

    STAY AWAY. HE WILL DESTROY YOUR LIFE.

  335. Mateo L from Tampa FL.
    By far the most emotionally abusive narcissist I have ever met. I am not a weak minded person by any means, but he played my kindness to his advantage and found ways to manipulate me even after I was free.

    He starts off so sweet, romantic, interesting, fun, and deeply caring, but it’s just to get you hooked and doing whatever it takes to be worthy in his eyes of recieving his affection. He’s a master of lovebombing and has owned the habit as if it’s not horribly abusive. His only form of showing “love” is through s3x, is hooked on fulfilling reddit fed fantasies, and has a stable of new s3xua1 partners at his disposal. He even spoke s3xua11y about his friends, usually just if he desired them s3xua11y or not. You ARE immediately replacable to him. He practices very unsafe s3x with many partners (g0ory h0le ads, grindr meets, even Nebraska s3x workers and erotic massage parlors), and lies about being safe or maybe just has no idea how to actually be safe.

    If you ever attempt to talk to him about the emotional abuse, lies, secrets, or unhealthy behavior patterns, he will gaslight you, become enraged, and will even go as far as s3lf harm (ex. slamming his head into a wall and punching himself in the face multiple times to the point of causing lacerations, swelling, and 2 black eyes) to make you feel bad or guilty so you drop it. I hid the kitchen kniv3s when he would get in this s3lf harming mode, and locked my dog and I in the bedroom or even evacuated the house the last time.

    He needs ALL of your time and attention and it still won’t be enough. Any time spent away from him, he will accuse you of cheating or wanting to speak with others no matter how much you do to prove yourself faithful to him. He will go through your phone any chance he gets, and is a master at hiding things he doesn’t want you to see on his (s3x videos/pictures of other people he’s been with and his stable mostly). He hates your friends and family, and will ISOLATE you from everyone so all you have is him, then leave you once you have no one. I barely spoke to my own family for over a year because he would blow up if I connected with anyone but him. He watches your snapchat score daily, and if it changes but you arent snapping him enough to explain the score change he will lose it and demand to see your snap histories or erase the app. He talked very poorly about me to his friends and family, despite me financially supporting him for months including paying for him to live in airbnbs, giving in to fulfill his s3xua1 fantasies no matter how uncomfortable I was, mommying him constantly, offering to support his family (grandmother and siblings), taking him on multiple vacations, taking accountability for his behaviors that I now understand as abuse, being accepting of his request for an open relationship (only open for him to see others), and showing him compassion, kindness, and forgiveness no matter what he did to me. He said many times how he hated how forgiving I was, and how he wished I would punish him? Once he felt his life was going great (finances improving, new motorcycle, moved in with friends) he’d break up me for a day or two, then get back with me when his life wasn’t the same without me. I know now he was just wanting to sleep with others he didn’t want to tell me about. He broke up with me several times through Facebook or text, always randomly and always blocking me after. He even broke up with me while he was on a date with a co worker that he had lied to me about seeing. He claimed a few times to be going out to dinner with a group of co workers after his shift, but it was really just her. Funny thing about the dates, I always paid for our dates and outings with his family, even when he started making more than me financially.

    He has a serious drug problem and thinks he’s some kind of special guru. He needs drugs to be happy in most situations, even during s3x he normalized taking v1agra, thc edibles, alcohol and energy drinks all at once, or GHB. He will try to push you to take drugs you don’t want to take, and will belittle you for not caving. He got me taking drugs I had been hapily sober from for over 8 years (MDMA) and made me try GHB; I hated it. He really got angry with me for being nervous about taking a drug I didn’t even want to try, and physically put the syringe in my mouth. He had a serious issue with k3tam1n3 but doesn’t own it because he doesn’t think he uses it frequently enough to be considered a problem. When injecting himself he didn’t even use sterile technique despite me begging him to as someone with a medical professional background.

    He blames his abusive behaviors on you, his parents, something he found on reddit, mental illness, if you’re talking too much or too little during the conversation, whether or not you’ve sent enough nud3s lately, and honestly anything he can think of. He will not take responsibility for anything, especially hurting your feelings because to him you deserved it and he will make it known.

    He loves the visible destruction and chaos he creates. He smiles when you cry, and laughs when your obviously breaking right in front of him, and I’m not even being dramatic. I have been vomiting from shock, grief, and crying so hard I can’t breathe, and he acted as though he enjoyed every minute of it. He is a user and will drain you until you have no one and nothing left. He will make you question who you are and what your worth is as an individual. He made me question my sanity, aspirations, beauty, and sense of self throughout the entire relationship and months into recovering since the breakup.

    He made me go to the ab0rti0n clinic alone when we got pregnant, even though I wanted to talk about options, and left me home alone during a very emotionally and physically painful induced m1scarr1age. He was supposedly doing drugs and gaming with his friends, but to be honest I have no idea where he was or what he was doing. I didn’t hear from him for days afterward, not until I was done bleeding. A year later he impr3gnated me again, this time after yelling during s3x that he was going to put a baby in me, then randomly broke up with me over Facebook 2 days later and blocked me on everything. Less than a week later he reached out over Discord and told me he had already been with multiple men since leaving me. I assumed he had been with others the moment he was out of my sight at this point, and I really didn’t care. I was done. For some reason it took me being responsible for a newly forming life to see the abuse and erase him from my life. I blocked him, and when he found out he was furious. He called my mom and told her about the pregnancy, in which she made me call him to talk because he put on a show of a concerned potential future father. He yelled at me to get an aborti0n or he would hire a PI and take custody of my child, then some weeks later acted sweet and asked me to move in with him and his grandmother. I declined and told him he would not be in our lives. I’ve since gotten an email wishing me the best, and dismissing himself from my life, our lives, for good, despite me already telling him we were done; he needed one last little grasp for control. I wouldn’t ever want my child looking up to a monster that treats people like used socks.

    I know I wasn’t perfect and never will be, but I didn’t deserve ANY of that, nobody does. I feel dumb (and very much like a simp!) for having put up with all of his abuse for as long as I did, all to feel any semblance of love that I felt early on. I feel weak and foolish for giving all of myself to someone that didn’t seem to care about me at all, as well as giving in to the pressure to use drugs for him and fulfill his fantasies both s3xua11y and financially. These feelings seem to be a common when recovering from abusive relationships after reading some recovery material. He made me someone I don’t even know and never want to meet again.

    Please save yourself the heart and head ache of dealing with this man. Until he gets serious help, which I truly hope he gets, he is a dangerous person to involve yourself with. I only thought to find somewhere, anywhere, to warn people about him after watching a documentary on Billy Milligan because his behaviors were so shockingly similar, as was the cold, empty stare he had in most of the pictures and videos of him. Mateo may be very charming and even sweet when he wants to be, but his inner self is absolutely terrifying and can very easily be described as having many traits of narcissistic psych0pathy.

    If you see this, Mateo, I really hope you get help. I hope you can learn to be happy without trampling all over people.

  336. Cody from NC.
    I was with him for nearly three years before he dumped me. He started drifting towards the end, but he always had excuses for being suddenly busy… cut to the next time I see him, and he is in a serious looking relationship with someone he met around the time he started distancing himself.
    In addition to this, he pressured and guilt-tripped me into doing things that I didn’t want to do. At the time, I thought this was normal. But considering all of the manipulation, things were not at all consensual. I apologized to him after he violated me because he would feel guilty.

    He is a very good liar. I had always witnessed him lying to others but never thought he would lie like that to me. Even now, I still don’t know if any of our time together was real at all. If he thought there was the slightest chance of me leaving him, he would break into hysterics, so I stayed with him because I couldn’t hurt him, especially given his alleged past relationship trauma. He had no such qualms about destroying me emotionally. He can put on a very good act, but he does not care about anyone other than himself.

  337. Francesco Iadevaia from Rome.
    He is a narcissistic, entitled, arrogant, somewhat racist, and womanizing man. He dates several women at the same time and cheats on them. Run from him!!!

  338. Francesco Temperini from Rome.
    He is a narcissist, manipulator, cheater, womanizer and a liar. We had a relationship for about one year. He would say that “one day we will move in together”, he would say “half my heart is yours and half is my mother’s”, “you are the person I have loved most in the world”, “I thank you every day for having found you”. And, meanwhile, he cheated on me with several other women, abandoned me on important dates and weekends, always gave me lying excuses to go to parties, and didn’t help me in any moment when I needed him. He treated me badly, humiliated me, was rude, crude, constantly badmouthed my Italian, and constantly put me down, clearly treating me as if I were inferior. He would humiliate me in front of his friends, looking at me with a very disgusted face. On one trip with him, I got food poisoning and he had no patience with me, always criticizing me and saying that I was “complaining too much”. He is a crazy narcissist who would look in the mirror and say “gee, if I go out on the street looking beautiful like this I will be chased by everybody”.
    When I finally managed to break up, he lied saying he tried to kill himself and sending me several “romantic” emails saying he loved me. I felt sorry for him, believed him, and came back. But then he soon went back to treating me badly and humiliating me. So I asked him “was it true that you tried to k1ll yourself?” and he said that it was an exaggeration on his part. He is completely crazy, a liar and a womanizer. I met him on Tinder and he is certainly still on all these dating apps. Run away from him!!!

  339. Carl Reiter from Sequim, Washington.
    Carl Reiter is a delusional monster. He’ll grill you and think you’re dumb enough to believe anything he says after you have seen what he does, who he really is. He pretends to be this caring open loving guy. But he’s just looking for drugs, so he can give it to you or some other unsuspecting soul. He had a butt buddy living with him for awhile. Young enough to be his son, basically the same age as his daughter. The hired man was supposedly for construction jobs, because that’s where Carl usually finds a man willing to take it and give it the way he wants it.

    Carl Reiter aka Carl Smith is a cheater and a liar who is the opposite of everything he pretends to be. Just ask around, he has made quite a name for himself in Sequim for being criminal.

  340. Daniel Flisek from Panama City, FL.
    Biggest nightmare of my life. Love bombing, gaslighting, manipulation, and emotionally unavailable. We were engaged and I called off the wedding and moved far away to escape. He also had an emotionally inc3stu0us relationship with his mom. He would guilt me into staying with him everytime I tried to break up with him. Made his ex seem like an awful person, but he was actually the problem in all of his relationships. There’s a lot of emotional issues to unpack and it’s never his fault. He doesn’t take responsibility for anything and does the bare minimum. Don’t be fooled by the ‘poor me’ victim mentality. I truly believe he’s a covert narcissist and so is his mother. The therapy he attends is just a charade. He plays the therapist like a fiddle for sympathy. I wish I had listened to my instincts at the beginning and ran. I ended up getting sucked into one of the most traumatic relationships ever.

  341. Joe Rocco from Pittsburgh Pa.
    Stay far away from this nutcase Joe Rocco. Has cheated on every single girl he was ever with and also has had *intimate* encounters with other men. He is a pathological liar with severe bipolar that he refuses to treat. He has addictions to gambling and alcohol. He is a freeloader and a big mooch that uses women and gay men to support his sorry self. He is also impotent from mental problems and alcohol. Should you ever encounter this scumbag and world class loser RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!

  342. Robby Harrison from Modesto, CA.
    The short version: Robby has a history of cheating on girls, lying and manipulating to keep girls around, using his mental health to manipulate me into staying involved, and claiming to be in love with someone while actively screwing around with other women. He only cares about himself.

    The long version:
    Robby seemed like a good guy at first, we connected so well and he said all the right things to make me feel like we had a real future together. But dating him was like constant whiplash, for the first 3 weeks or so things seemed great, until a girl sent me a DM to let me know that she had been involved with Robby for over 6 months and that I was actually the other woman. She had sent me screenshots of him begging for her to stay together with him, telling her he loves her and they belong together and looking back now, it seems he was doing the same thing to her that he would later do to me.
    He was able to manipulate me and talk his way out of that one and convinced me to give him another chance because things were over with the other woman and he wanted to get away from their “toxic relationship”.

    Things felt great again for a couple months and I realized I was really falling for this guy, we were constantly together and on the phone with each other and I met some of his friends and his mom, things felt like they were headed in the right direction. Then about 4 months in he started to ghost me randomly for days at a time, and then come back and apologize, just to disappear on me again after we saw each other.

    I started to distance myself when he would reach out and that’s when he really started fighting to win me back, he told me he loved me and that I was the one for him and he wanted a future and a family with me, I gave him another chance just for him to ghost me again. He then reached out to me a month later on my birthday, begging to take me out, telling me he messed up and he has commitment issues but that I was “the one” and to please give him another chance and I was considering it… So I was shocked and very hurt when I saw he posted videos of him on a date with another girl on his instagram story the very next day. I called him out on that and he had every excuse in the book “I’m not dating her” “she’s my friend’s sister” “it’s not a big deal” “I only want you”. I let it slide again, and we met up a couple weeks later. We went through a very unhealthy cycle for about 4 months after that, me giving him another chance, him ghosting after we meet up and then him coming back profusely apologizing, giving every excuse and telling me we belong together and I’m “the one”.

    When I wouldn’t agree right away to come see him after his ghosting periods he would start telling me about his bad mental health and alluding to su*cide by saying things like “everyone would be better off without me” as a manipulation tactic to get me to come over to see him and comfort him. This happened many many times and his mental health was a big reason I kept caving and coming back.

    After the last time I saw him, just a little over a week before valentine’s day, he ghosted again. I decided to do some digging this time and found the instagram of the girl he had posted 4 months prior, she had a picture of the two of them together on her story for valentine’s day. He had told me the last time he saw me that he was only with her for like 2 weeks before he broke things off when in reality they were still seeing each other. I was the other woman, yet again. His behavior is a pattern and it’s very concerning, I feel very bad for any girl who becomes his next target because I’m sure his behavior will not change any time soon.

  343. Rich senoski from Meriden, ct.
    Rich is an alcoholic, he is mentally and physically abusive. He cheats and lies as a norm. He has herpes and wont tell you

  344. Pete Martinez from Cranford, NJ.
    He is an abusive narcissist, and he will be the perfect man until he has you… Then his true colors show.

    Beware and run screaming!

  345. Greg Taylor from Clifton Park New York. Absolute psycho, heroin and coke addict. will destroy your life, controlling, monitors mail location and extremely jealous.

  346. Stetson G from Texas. Met him while he was travelling in Australia for work. I had my suspicions but he assured me there was no girl back home. In July of 2022 I came to visit to him for a couple weeks on my annual leave. I felt like I got swept up in a whirlwind, meeting his family, going on a short family getaway, meeting all of his closest friends. After returning back to Australia he told me he wanted to complete the K1 – fiance visa and he had bought a ring. October 2022 he visited Australia and met my family, finalised the visa and was ready to submit. November came around and shortly after he went home, a family friend came to stay. He filmed her and made fun of her, saying he “couldn’t wait for her to leave” and “was sick of entertaining her”.

    December 2022 I was ghosted, January I found out that he’s now dating the “family friend” and she’s moving in with him. I reached out to one of his Ex’s, she told me he had unmedicated Bipolar and had cheated on her with the same “family friend”. It turns out I was the other girl for her too, (they had been living with each other for 2years).

  347. Alex De Grood from Atascocita, Texas. Alex. This man cheated and had sex with someone while I was having a miscarriage. He also sold all of my things to the pawn shop, and I was barely alive through a very difficult pregnancy that ended in miscarriage at five months. He also took my child’s toys that he got for Christmas to the pawn shop as well. This is all while I was in the hospital for months WITH HIS CHILD. He never even came to check on me, and couldn’t even afford a slush from sonic during HAPPY HOUR. That’s the day I knew I had to move out because he couldn’t take care of me when there was something terribly wrong with the baby, even at six weeks pregnant. He is honestly a terrible human being.

  348. Paul michael codman from Liphook, Hampshire, uk. Ahh where to start. The man is a self confessed pick up artist. He not only prays on innocent women, but chooses single mothers as they are apparently easier to use….. uses their kids to get close to the woman. “Love bombs” the children with gifts in order to seal his place. He has had a failed vasectomy which he had ended up impregnating at least 2 poor women now (he won’t tell you this until he has impregnated you). He then won’t support with the abortion and will go off fishing…..
    This vile creature has online s3x with his ex’s and keeps people on the back burner
    He will lie and pretend he wants to marry you. After 4 months he will have a tantrum and then admit he doesn’t want to, never will etc. At aged nearly 50, his longest relationship ship is 4 years…. And he has had a HUGE amount of girlfriends. Embarrassing really. Serial steroid taker, when he can’t get hold of it he withdraws and looks like hell. This man is sexist and racist and even once with my kids in his car pretended to machine gun down people wearing Muslim clothing.
    Avoid at ALL costs

  349. Michael Speck from Lutz, FL. Ladies, if you meet Michael Speck, 45, block immediately and run away. I only went out with him a couple of times while separated from my husband, we never did anything intimate. I ended it because after a nice dinner, we both went to our separate places. He texted me that a Ferrari was sitting in his driveway with keys in it, so i figured he was entertained and i went to sleep. Throughout the night, he texted me vile and threatening texts because i did not respond, again i was sleeping. I ended it at that moment and told him that i was not up for a toxic relationship. The man will not leave me alone a year later, even after I’ve asked him repeatedly to do so. He claims he’s got more money than brains, tons of properties and investments, a yacht, a plane, etc. I think he is actually going broke, though. He has a substance abuse problem with mar1juana and alcoh0l. His texts range from bragging, to insulting me, to saying he loves and misses me, he wants to know what happened to us. He also says he has many women that want him, so I’ve told him to go after one of them, because I am not interested. I decided to stop responding/defending myself against his accusations, but he will not stop texting. I’m trying to see if there is a legal way to get him to stop since changing phone numbers is such a hassle. I don’t want any other ladies to be tormented by this toxic man.

  350. Tony Salvaggio from Ilion, NY.
    Covert narcissist. Uses women, as most narcs do.
    The first month is great, after that the abuse starts. One weird thing is he acts like he doesn’t know how to have s3x yet he will be 62 soon.
    Ladies don’t fall for this abusive jerk.

  351. Walter Maultsby from Fort worth Texas. We met via tinder. He’s a electrician with IBEW. Comes off as a gentleman but isn’t. He made lots of promises to pay things off when he used my credit cards to the tune of $31k in less than 2 years. He’s caused financial distress to his 2nd ex wife as well, she doesn’t feel it’s worth warning the next woman assuming they won’t listen but I wish someone had warned me (i was #3)!

  352. Blake geiger from Oshkosh wi. He is a bad drunk. He is very verbally abusive and if you get knocked up by him he will leave you and talk down on you. He is narcissistic in every way. He barley takes care of his own child. She stated that he tried to *end* her once.
    Only 4 months with him and i needed therapy from his abuse. He wants Nothing to do with the son I gave birth to because he was a boy
    He also called my current child *r-slur*
    His friends do Crack often

  353. Jason Erick Ahlgren from Belmont, CA USA moved to Redding CA USA. He is an abusive meth addict. He plays quiet and cool always listening to things you say you want and then gets them for you. then he turns into a narcissistic women b3at3r. his past girlfriends confirmed. One night after enduring this ongoing isolation, mind control and another b3ating he walked out slammed the door but left his phone. He had a paid subscription to Grindr A GAY DATING SITE. HE ALWAYS WAS A FEMININE AND WHEN I SAID SOMETHING HE HIT ME SO Stay away from this piece of garbage

  354. MajorRick from Minneapolis MN. We had a NSA relationship. It was a lot of sexting and he wanted pics and videos. However, he’s married and she doesn’t know. He had my pics and mailed them back to me and all my neighbors? I feel he was getting possessive. I don’t know why he did this, but I can tell you he has many different names, numbers, social media accounts and loves Snap. He is a low life dog. Stay away from this guy. Hopefully he gets caught and no one else experiences this life changing experience! What a complete jerk!

  355. Guy Sacco from Melbourne, Australia. Went to a private party and exchanged Instagrams with a couple of girls just to find out we’ve been dating the same person for the last 6 months! He even invited one of us to his family for Christmas and got us girls the same gift! We can only imagine how many others there are. He has admitted to using and rotating girls except for his “main girl”. Warning: he’s very manipulative and plays the victim card . Love bombs in the beginning wanting to talk and see you everyday then backs off and creeps in when it suits him. I don’t know where he finds the time for all these girls. Does not give the play boy vibe and seems very quiet and innocent. He also has mental problem that I’m not equipped to diagnose but he’s aware of it . It isn’t bipolar but he overthinks then makes an erratic life changing decision out of no where randomly then changes his mind. It’s exhausting behavior and he’s emotionally immature once things don’t go his way.

  356. Sam/Samuel from Virginia Beach/Chesapeake, Virginia. Lying, cheating manipulator who has used women for everything from money, to assurance as he builds his ‘persian’ empire. He swindles people quick than a used ‘car salesman’ and there are several other women (I have receipts) who have been made victim by him. Run, don’t walk away! The love bombing starts and ends just as fast. He will tell you he loves you and he is ready to be engaged and married with in months (4). He is a verbal/physical abuser and has a court record for exactly this. Don’t let the used luxury fool you because this man is the epitome of a fool!

  357. Julius Tribble from costa mesa CA. he is liar, cheater goes around using and hurting good women. he is narcissist stay away from him or you will get caught in his web of bs. he plays the victim claiming his ex wife cheated on him many years, so he will played cheat on you and lie, he is one big pile of bs and lies stay away.
    this is comments from other women on other website he has done this to at least 5 women that i know of but am sure they are plenty more..
    June 8, 2019 at 8:24 AM
    Julius recently struck again.

    A friend dated this man, he became blackout drunk, locked her in her hotel room, and she had to physically fight her way out.

    PLEASE AVOID THIS MAN.

  358. Nic Frachon from Phoenix, AZ. Nic Frachon is a master manipulator, cheater, s3x addicted predator and p3rv3rt. He will do all the right things, go above and beyond, plan sweet dates, spoil you with attention to make you feel like you have something real, yet the whole time he’s cheating. He preys on college age teenage girls because he thinks they’re easier to manipulate. He will tell you he’s not capable of these things but I assure you he is. Everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie. Whatever he tells you his values are it is the exact opposite. So listen closely because he tells on himself. He’s not worth the therapy and trauma. Not even contracting an STD will stop this man. He will never be satisfied.

  359. Kevin Joseph from Bensalem Pennsylvania.
    I met him on a dating website. He seemed to be a sweet normal guy, very respectful and attentive. I didn’t know what love bombing was until I met this person. At first everything was great. He was always open to communication. He would text and reply often. We dated regularly. I never had to ask for his time or attention. But there were little red flags. I noticed that he had a wondering eye. He and I are of African descent but the towns we are from are predominantly white. I have dated outside of my race so I don’t have any issues with interracial dating. However, his ex for 15 years was white and he seemed to have an obsession with white women. One day while on a date, I caught him staring at our waitress. She was a bit young with blonde hair. It was so noticeable that the waitress seemed a bit uncomfortable. I called him on it but he lied and said he hadn’t even noticed her. That was the first of many red flags. He ended up cheating on me with a white woman named April, from his town. One day when we were coming back from a date, she was at his home waiting outside for him. Like him, she was drama filled and the situation was very embarrassing. She told me that she had been seeing him for about a year. Keep in mind we were over two years in at this point. After I found out about her he became even more cold towards me. He kept begging me not to leave him but would not work on the relationship. Later I found out that he never stopped seeing her. There is Nothing wrong with being attracted to another race, but this man fetishizes over white women and that’s unhealthy. He desires them but mistreats them. On the day that the woman came to his home, she told me that he forced her to pay for her own meals, refused to meet her children, family members, or friends. They had never gone anywhere special, like a vacation or even a weekend getaway. During our time together, we vacationed, he met my family, we did special dates as well as regular dates. There was a real investment in me all while manipulating both of us. She allowed him to use her and he took advantage because he knew he could. He told me that she was “convenient.” In my opinion he thinks he can give white women less and they will stand for it. I think it’s wrong to use women in any way. All women, especially black or white women, need to stay far away from this man. He wasted almost three years of my life with this game. He is a cold hearted narcissist with zero but remorse for what he does to women.

  360. Stuart Hartley from Geneva, Switzerland. 34 years old. Originally I was not interested in Stuart as I had a bad break up earlier in the year and was nervous about trusting someone again, but Stuart spent months showing up consistent, kind and with exceptional communication skills. He seemed wonderfully together and like he was actively doing the work to know himself and make healthy relationship choices. We went on good dates and he was always texting me and going to all efforts to show he was emotionally available. Stuart did all the right things to gain my trust, including introducing me to his friends, talking about future joint trips, engaging in detailed discussions about what we were looking for, informing me he was no longer on dating apps, and discussing relationship expectations at length. There was no obvious red flags, he seemed to very much care about me, and eventually I agreed to exclusively seeing each other.

    However, shortly after gaining exclusivity and commitment, all this healthy communication and relationship behavior immediately stopped. He flipped to someone who refused to communicate, instead choosing stonewalling, ghosting, and also checking back in after ghosting just to ghost again (pattern of behavior happened more than once). When I raised the issue he also threw in a good dose of gaslighting, saying we never had discussed where the relationship was headed – despite text message records proving otherwise. Unfortunately it turns out Stuart is actually highly avoidant and just likes the dopamine hit of chasing a new romance. He wants to get laid and have emotional intimacy on his terms, but won’t be honest about his actual intentions and emotional availability. Nothing about the relationship was worth the few weeks of emotional abuse I endured before I blocked his number. He knew exactly what I was looking for and decided he wouldn’t respect my wants, time or boundaries. All I can say is he either has no ability to self-reflect or is being maliciously dishonest. He comes with a sob story about a long term ex-girlfriend. I am glad she and I both GOT OUT. I only got a taste of the emotional abuse and toxic relationship dynamics he is capable of. I can’t imagine what she went through.

  361. Jeremy Ousey from Swansea UK. I went on two dates with this man. He gained my trust as he’s a med student but when he picked me up, his hands were already all over me. I told him to stop and moved his hand but he kept doing it over and over. He grabbed my face and forced me to kiss him. He grabbed my br3a5t5. He is just an overall creep. He admitted to being a narcissist and he said himself he thinks he’s a psych0path. I just think he likes abusing women. Warning ladies, do not meet him especially alone.

  362. Mario Rios Sr from Cuyahoga Falls, Ohio. Please beware of this s3x offender. Not only does he go after married women, he goes after very young girls, ages 17, 18 19..He’s 55. He will seek out married women to offend so when wants to have his way with them they won’t say anything about the attack because “they are married”.

    He will date multiple women at once claiming to only be in a relationship with them. He has stalked me, as well as other women. He had s3xua11y attacked me, not once but twice, and when I went to the police I was told, it was his word against yours, and since I use to be in a relationship with him proving it wasn’t consensual would be hard. He is a master at fooling and gaslighting people. He had also s3xua11y abused children and got away with doing so due to technicalities as the children were to young to say. Even though I shared this information with county workers they did not have any “physical” evidence at that time, so they could not move forward. I was an eyewitness who caught him, and for them, that wasn’t enough as he told the county worker that I was just “a jealous ex-girlfriend, and I was lying”. He was even on Dr Phil show for his crazy behaviors. S3x Lies and Audiotapes was the program. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y8Z3jWo6ULc . He even tried to get his very own son’s girlfriend who was only 20 years old to leave his son to be with him as he was “infatuated” with her. He continues to prey on women, and once he obtains bad information about them, he blackmails them into doing s3xua1 things with him or he will share their secrets. I was constantly getting hit on by him despite him being married and he and I had broken up, he even pulled out his p3n15 and began to pleasure himself all in front of me. When I walked away he pursued me and backed me into a room grabbed my phone and made comments saying “I know you want me, this is your last chance to ever be with me”. At that point, I started screaming so he would get away from me.

  363. Chris Friscia from Petaluma, Ca. Chris is a good looking, charismatic man and he is a s3x addict, food addict, alcoholic and serial cheater. I dated him several years ago and he was quick to tell me he loved me and I fell head over heels for him. He lied to me repeatedly, refused to wear a c0nd0m when we slept together and cheated on me with at least 3-4 other women, putting my health at risk. He has a history of doing this and from what I can gather has cheated on women for years and years, and he is incredibly convincing and good at what he does. At one point when I was questioning him he said to me, “I am a man of my word and you just need to trust me”. The last I heard that even though he has a live in girlfriend he is back out on the dating apps. I wish I had seen a site like this prior to getting involved with him. It would be saved me a tremendous amount of stress and heartache.

  364. Brandon Lee Poston from Sumter, SC. Brandon Poston groomed me. He was legally an adult while I was in my mid-teens. His excuse was that he “didn’t know” how old I was and I was “so mature.”

    He was severely emotionally abusive; negative comments about my appearance and personality were a daily topic. Very manipulative. He also claimed to actually be gay while he was with me. All of a sudden would go through a religious phase, though.

    He threatened to mass-shoot people and himself and had a written kill-list. Authorities didn’t care.

    Regularly would “mess around” and squeeze my wrists or legs so hard he would leave bruises. Did not request consent. Wrecked my parent’s car. Cheated multiple times.

    A couple weeks after I finally left him, he physically beat another woman.

    I can’t state his job, but his location changes every few years. He seems very, very nice and good at first but he is awful.

  365. Ronald Laboy from Brooklyn, New York. Ladies, be aware and stay far away from him. I dated him for almost two years but found out how horribly abusive he was. He would complain about how all his exes and his kids’ mother was crazy. It was him that is crazy. He would go off the deep end and lose his temper every time we had a disagreement. He would curse me out and call me horrible names, then he would ignore me and flirt with married women and other women on his Facebook page.

    He and his mother tried getting me to quit college because he didn’t want to watch our child while I was in class. She had the audacity to give me an ultimatum to quit school or I be thrown out and that he is not going to help me take care of our daughter.

    I continued to go and they threw me and our child out her house. Meanwhile, he didn’t have his GED, he was unemployed while I was in college. He is a bum, useless, and lazy. He is an entitled old geezer that claims everyone must serve him. He throws violent rages if he doesn’t get his way.

    He is an alcoholic and would frequent the bars for three day alcohol and drug binges.

    There were times he would come home wasted, vomiting, and had blood on his shirt for fighting in the bar. I always had to nurse him to health.

    He would stash 1ll3gal weapons in his mother’s house and he has a felony record. (I don’t know if he does now, because this happened years ago when we were together).

    He would make up lies about his ex girlfriends to all his friends and family. His ex girlfriends are not the bad guys, he is. They all dumped him because of his abusive, lying, cheating ways.

    One time he wrote horrible things about me on Facebook when I left him and he put all my information on there when I was hiding from him. I put a restraining order on him because he was threatening my life. He even threatened that his homegirls would destroy my face if I didn’t let him know where I was at.

    He claimed my older kids were taken away from CPS. My two older kids live with their fathers. He lied because it was me that was taken by CPS when I was a child. I was in the foster care system when I was a toddler but was reunited with my parents that year. This was back in 1985. He knew this because I told him my childhood story.

    He would twist my words and story around to make me look terrible while trying to ruin my reputation. His friends and family believed it. I reported that post on Facebook to have it shut down for defamation of character. I sought lawyers about it and eventually Facebook closed his page down for harassment and libel.

    He cheated on me with multiple women and tried to persuade me into going to sw1ng3rs clubs with him. I was grossed out at the thought and noticed a pattern of whenever he was h1gh on drugs, he would bring that up.

    He even stole money from me and used it on drugs.

    He pretends to be a good guy claiming he found God. He is hiding behind a religion so that he can look like a good guy and that he can attract more women.

    His mother is a religious fanatic and most likely told him to find God. She controls his every move and he is a momma’s boy. He uses women for a place to stay and works off the books to avoid paying almost $15,000 in child support arrears.

    He is a chronic liar, he makes up stories about his exes, he is abusive, a con artist, old, and washed up. He has terrible hygiene and isn’t that smart. His friends and family are just as dumb as he is.

    He isn’t even a good friend, because he cannot ever have a healthy relationship with any human. He objectifies women. He is an artist and he has done nude body painting on women, just so he can have access to women’s bodies. He would post images on social media of these women covered in body paint and his old washed up friends would make p3rv3rt3d s3xua1 jokes about their bodies. He doesn’t do it for the love of art. He is a p3rvert. He refers to his women friends as “his hoes”.

    He is overly jealous and wanted me to stop being friends with my male friends or exes. Yet I asked him to do the same and he would yell and curse me out. He has never shown me respect or any reciprocity from his requests. It’s only fair that he reciprocate.

    He is a huge hypocrite. He can dish it out, but can’t take criticism or reciprocate favors he demands.

    Ladies, I urge you to run, not walk, if you ever encounter him. He is trash. I promise you. I am not getting anything out of this post, maybe some closure or relief of getting this off my chest. But I need to be heard and understood so you don’t go through what I went through.

  366. Logan (Maddox) Grey from Puyallup wa. Logan is a liar and cheater.

    I had a feeling something was up when he ended his live stream after a girl came in and was like hey babe.

    so I waited to see her again online and finally found her. we got to talking and low and behold he had her come from Detroit to visit him for multiple days.

    I have the RECEIPTS to prove he did it. yet when I called him out he is still continuing to deny it. then he blocked me thinking it will all go away.

  367. Thomas Martin Jr from Pottsville, PA. He attempted to k1ll me by hitting me over the head with a cell phone, then ran from the police. After his arrest and when there was a protection from abuse order in place, he sent forged letters to my employer pretending to be a parent at the school where I was working, to try and get me fired. He also refused to sign off on the title on my car so I had to junk my car and lost $16,000. Stay away from this man.

  368. Daniel Ash from Kansas city Missouri. He’s dirty. You will always have a part of him the rest of your life. He’s a manipulative coward. He beats women and imo in the closet. If you see a bald white guy with a lightning bolt earring, RUN

  369. Matthew Zorich from Austin, Texas. Originally from Tuson,Az he lived in Washington state, McCord Af base. Living in Austin Tx now. This guy is dangerous. Classic Misogynist, gaslighting, emotional abuse! Will lie to his end to make himself the victim or upstanding guy. Beware, he is a convincing liar. He tried to torcher me, control me. Would try to trick me into watching animal abuse clips off internet. Also, abused my cat, terrified an innocent animal by shouting (top of his lungs)at him for no reason. BTW, he doesn’t shower for weeks. Not sure how he survived being in the military. This guy tricked me into leaving my state to live with him in another. Then once there everything went to hell. Do not trust anything he does or says.

  370. Steven Boren from Logan, Utah. Officer Steven Boren in Logan Utah. Most prolific cheating problem I’ve ever encountered. Demoted from sergeant for stalking. He’s currently looking for a nice LDS wife to cheat on while just trying to manipulate everyone else into s3x and then leaving them right after. I’ve encountered a few of his exes. I caught him cheating. He has at least 3 ex wives he’s abandoned because they got suspicious he was cheating. It’s the amount of women he goes through that makes him so dangerous in my opinion. At least 10 in the past year, and those are just ones I happened to find out about. I assume there’s a lot more. It was a horribly painful experience. He’s amazing at making you feel like the only one in his life. Please pass along.