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The Ex-Boyfriend List: Get your Ex Reported!

We all have that jerk of an ex-boyfriend we want to report, and luckily you now have a place to do just that. This is your very own bad boyfriend database, or as we like to call it, the ex-boyfriend list!

The Ex-Boyfriend List


The Ex-Boyfriend List, or the bad boyfriend database, the place where you can report your ex-boyfriend for cheating on you or just being a jerk. The truth of the matter is, we’ve all had a bad breakup – okay, maybe a few of them in our lives, but that isn’t what this is about.

Wondering what we are, all you need to know about us is that we are out here for girls who have gone through the worst at the hands of a man who didn’t appreciate them enough. Since our website is all about supporting strong women who have had lousy ex’s, we have a small surprise for all you women out there. A little snippet: It’s all about girls supporting girls.

What is the Ex-Boyfriend List?

The Ex-Boyfriend List is also popularly known as a database designed for an evil Ex. This place is for all you women out there who were happily in love with a guy who didn’t put enough and exploited you in ways you didn’t realize you could ever be used for.

From ditching you to making you feel terrible about a small task, cheating and making you feel as if you’re not enough, and even going as far as verbally and physically abusing you. You should know you are all strong individuals for having gone through all that you did. This site and its purpose don’t lie in the fact that we all have had a few bad breakups or seen someone in our lives have them. It’s beyond that.

Now that you’re finally out of the horrible mess and out of the relationship with your ex, you probably see him walk down the streets with another girl on his arm, and that doesn’t stop you from wondering if he treats that new girl the same way he treated you? Is he being overly sweet but hiding something behind his facade? Is he showing her the same patterns he showed you?

This database is for you because through this process that we have built, you can reveal the truth about him and save lives, and since we spoke about how we are all about supporting women, this is an excellent start to this initiative—wondering how it works? Well, read further to find out more regarding this exciting initiative.

Purpose of the Ex-Boyfriend List:

This initiative is solely out there to help all those girlfriends who you have personally seen suffering, or for girls, you do not wish to suffer at the hands of someone you know is capable enough, so revenge or making worthy and good men feel bad isn’t why we have taken this initiative. We’re all about a respectful man treating his women how they deserve to be treated, but this list is out there serving those who are not doing what they are supposed to.

So, if you are someone who’s planning to post about a guy with whom they had a bad experience? Here’s you do it? But remember to follow up the given rules below:

Rules regarding posting about an Ex:

  • No personal information is allowed! Personal information may include anything and everything related to the guy’s private phone number, address and work details, and even family details.
  • No false information is allowed unless you want your account removed. Talk about what your ex-boyfriend did to you but don’t make up lies. Come on, you are better than that.
  • Tell your story and give out respectful and limited details, keeping in mind that you give enough to raise red flags for the person reading it.
  • I repeat: DO NOT POST HIS PHONE NUMBER, EMAIL, OR HOME ADDRESS. Give his name, city, and state where he lives, and nothing more.

The Ex-Boyfriends list and its reach:

Are you someone who’s out and talking to a new guy and feel a bit doubtful? This Ex-Boyfriend List is the answer to your worries, questions, and queries. Worried that the guy you’re talking to at work ticks all the right boxes and wants to find out the real secrets.

You’re at the right place because through our database, you can search him up, and find out about him, and if there’s nothing, then you’re one of the lucky ones! But if you do end up finding anything related to him, you know your doubts were correct. Help is served, and this is how we do it, anonymously yet ideally.

Share Your Story With Us!

Let us help you relieve the mountain load of stress you have been feeling, and what better way than to help someone who’s probably with the same guy that is a reason for your trauma.

Feel better today and fill up that database; let’s help each other and empower and let these men know we aren’t going to be letting them railroad us. Get posting!

We’ve not gotten hundreds of entries on our ex-boyfriend list, so to help you keep up with all the names, I’ve made the list searchable. Just click the search button above, and you can search for an ex-boyfriend by name. If you want to add your ex-boyfriend to our list, just comment below and tell us all about him.


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  1. Steven Morris from Webster, FL. He’s homeless and loves to control his women, including forced intercourse which he did to me. I’m petrified of him to the point that I couldn’t bring charges against him. I’m just glad that I left when I did.

  3. Antonio Dones. A.k.A Tony from Feeding Hills, Massachusetts. I hope that my story helps someone out there. This man represents himself as hard working, a good father and down-to-earth. Easy to get along with. He would spend money on you to reel you in and make you feel special. It’s all a facade.

    He’s dangerous because he hides all the toxic through a charming persona. After 10 year’s I found out that he was the one who gave me herpes. He doesn’t tell women that he’s infected and doesn’t use protection. He’s also an alcoholic who smokes weed, and cigarettes and likes to sniff. He hid his status, and when I went to the doctors and came back positive, he blamed me for the disease. He also has a record of Domestic violence against 2 women, including me. He beat up my dog’s with large wooden planks because they destroyed our garden.

    He also picked up our pit bull and slammed him on the ground because he took a leak on our rug. He likes to use Badoo to meet women in Massachusetts. He’s light-skinned, wears braids and is Puerto Rican. Height 6″1″. His occupation is in Construction.

  5. Keith Roberts from Rock Hill/Richburg SC. Cheater-sleeps with multiple women in the same day, uses women, pot head, will bleed you dry, doesn’t care who he hurts in the process.

  7. Jose Luis Perez from Sylmar, CA. He is handsome and can be a real charmer. He works as a political organizer and acts clean-cut. He is in his late 40s now. I met him while he was organizing a campaign out here in the Midwest. Once it ended, we continued dating. I flew out to CA to see him and was blindsided. He was high the whole time. He also used Coke. It dawned on me that I’d been too naive to see it or even suspect it before.

    He was arrogant and cruel—his friends had told him so in front of me, and he seemed proud of himself. He has a hair-trigger temper and is verbally abusive. And while he cuts you down, he laughs to himself like he’s a one-man comedy show. He fawns too much over small children, but I have no actual proof of any abuse by him, or I would have gone to the police. But my instincts are good, and his behavior always made me feel embarrassed and creeped out.

    He constantly reminded me of his ex and how he had hit her. I told him he would not touch me, or he would have a police record and no more jobs in politics. It worked long energy ugh for me to get out of the relationship. But I knew if I didn’t, it was inevitable gat he would hit me. He constantly wanted me to hook up with he and his friends. He was fixated on it, but of course, didn’t say so until I was on his turf. I was devastated and confused.

    Finally I suggested that perhaps he should just pimp me out to his friends because at least I’d get paid. And to my horror, he thought I was being serious! He proceeded to decide which friend would be first, etc. I was so crushed I just sobbed all night. It was then that I knew I was finally done. I know I shouldn’t, but I still kick myself. Unfortunately, I had a couple of days before I was flying back home. The night before I left, I was restless—apparently, it woke him because the next thing I knew, he was on top of me and I was saying “No!” And fighting him off with everything I had. Fortunately I’m fairly strong and he gave up. I took pictures of the fingerprint bruises on my inner thighs the next day just in case. He is a monster. I found out afterward that he had repeatedly cheated on me with girls aged 19, 21, etc. We were in our late 30s at the time. He just s a pig. He also had stolen large fold-up tables from my county’s party (the one that he was representing) after the campaign. And he had stabbed one of his cousins and slept with another. Pretty proud of those facts, too. This is the abbreviated version of the hell I experienced. I ended things in the summer if 2014.

    I have had to repeatedly block him on EVERY social media outlet I use. And I have blocked a minimum of five phone numbers and maybe seven emails addresses. I am still scared he will show up and maybe one of my dogs will go missing. Or I will go missing. He is proud of the story about his cousin in prison who kidnapped his ex from a party at gunpoint. But I’ve told my parents, brother, and close friends about him, so at least people will know who hurt me.

    I’ve dated off and on over the years, and I’m not friendly with all of my exes, but this is the only man I’ve ever felt that I needed to warn other women about for their own safety. His soul is black. Please be careful always.

  8. Justin Smith 43, known to live in Vancouver, BC in addition has lived in Chilliwack, BC and Kelowna, BC. He is my ex-boyfriend and he is a cheater, he will cheat on you, a habitual cheater. He is also in my opinion really bad in bed, never had it so bad as I did when dating this guy. Just avoid dating him, he isn’t worth your time trust me.

    1. Chris Fields 40 Tampa, Florida. Emotionally immature, “nice guy,” deep dark hole need for attention from other women, voracious flirt, waster of time.

  9. Clay Meadows in Birmingham, AL. From Montgomery, AL. Also Clayton Meadows and Clayton Wayne Meadows. Cm542. THE WORST DUDE. Liar, cheater, selfish prick. Looking out for all ladies because I wish someone had told me about him!

    1. David Tougas Flint Mi, narcissist and inability to have compassion for other humans, including both men and women. Cheated on his girlfriend of five years and spoke negatively of her to all he could despite continuing the relationship.

      He is an admitted sx addict wishes for all females to be submissive and lacks the ability to empathize with anyone, including sick parents.
      He is a master gaslighter who will make you feel like everything that goes wrong in your relationship is your fault. He always feels like he can do better than you. Stay away.

  10. Donnie Eldon Hensley, VA covert narcissist, trolls online dating sites picks up as many women as he can to make his ex jealous. He still supports ex his name is on her leased apartment. She apparently goes between her apartment and his townhouse.. he plays the victim and will give you a sob story. He will use you to get back at his ex. Forget holidays and birthdays. He is waiting for his ex to show up and surprise him. He lies about everything. Run away as fast as you can.

  11. Grady Taylor (also goes by Cuzzi)
    NATIVE TO CHICAGO IL, but currently in AUSTIN, TX

    We dated briefly (2mos approx)
    After the second month he assaulted me. When I confronted him he said it wasn’t possible for him to do that because we were in a relationship. I said what about me saying NO, to which he replied, that’s selfish when you’re in a relationship. Unfortunately for me I wish it was the end. I ended up pregnant. I broke things off.

    Fast forward, after the baby was born he begged to be apart of her life. He said he was a changed man, apologized over and over. Said he never meant to do that to me and that he’s never done that to anyone else. I stupidly believed him.

    I offered to just coparent. No intimate relationship or dating at all. Not even 2 weeks into this arrangement he decided to tell me I’m not allowed to date anyone else.
    I told him he didn’t have the right to make a demand. To which he responded with saying it was all or nothing. He demanded that if we were to continue to coparent we would need to be in a relationship or he would walk away completely. I told him I wanted nothing from him.

    He ASSAULTED me WHILE I was holding my baby. He repeatedly hit me in the head with closed fists and pinned me against the couch as I was trying to protect my baby and set her down away from him.

    HE IS A ABUSER. He uses tactics like control and love bombing to manipulate. He offers to help with finances only to back out at the last minute and some how make his reasoning nothing but excuses. He is not fit to be around children AT ALL. Please Ladies, protect yourselves and children from this predator.

  12. Mayo Michael Manass. Sacramento and Yuba city. He talks with a Nasal voice and never says anything even remotely manly or does anything chivalrous and doesn’t even know how to unclog a toilet or drive a car. He pretty much just puts everybody he knows down so he can continue on in his own ‘little’ delusion of grandeur. I even found out that he was a self-proclaimed chubby homeless chaser and he never went for skinny or pretty girls before me. Once he had me though he tried to keep me trapped by making us move away from our friends and jobs and never letting me do anything fun while he was at work.

    He is very passive-aggressive and emotionally abusive and acts like a teenage girl most of the time. He throws at least one stompy and muttering under his breath temper tantrum every 2-4 hours. He recently brought a chindo into our bedroom and I’m honestly tearing up/crying as I write this because I am that repulsed. When he busted it out, it smelled like poo and looked like he must have bought it used or something.

    Anyways now it’s all he ever wants to include in the sex now and I’m trying to figure out a way to leave him when our lease is up because he keeps on talking about how much he wants us to get pregnant and move in with his stepfather so I can work at Walmart and get this so he can finally focus to be a professional skater and he’s like almost 30 years old already!!!!….Im about to escape him so this is a fair warning to all you other girls in norcal

  13. Daniel Joseph Zealberg. He used to live in Accokeek, Maryland, but now I think he is in Baltimore. He’s in his late 50’s now and I am sure, still running “the grift.” Watch your money and your back with this scumbag. Not only is he physically abusive, but he loves to spend other people’s money. When we broke up, and I went to Court to get my stuff back, he would not open the door for the Sherrif’s Department to serve him the notice to give me my stuff back. So, I never did get it back. I lost everything I had, and shortly after I received notice that the case was being dropped by the Court because they could not serve him, my best friend and I drove by and saw him selling all my stuff at a Yard Sale. “Why didn’t I do something,” you ask? Well he is what we call a “Cop Caller.” He would have called the Police and accused me of being drunk and all kinds of other stuff.

    I am not sure if he cheated or not. He was too busy spending my money and not paying his bills even though we worked the same job as Ironworkers and he made more money. He smokes more Pot than people smoke cigarettes and he will tell your family ALL your business while of course, trying to make you look like a piece of crap. Luckily, I kicked his ass more times than he kicked mine (after he hit me first). When he ended up in the hospital with a concussion, he manipulated my family into thinking the whole thing was my fault. Oh, and he loves to file Restraining Orders and play the victim. Since he has an extensive Criminal Record, I guess he thinks everyone else should have one too. Unless you want to Pay for EVERYTHING, be made to feel like an a$$ every where you go, have semi-naked pictures taken of you when you are asleep, have your family think you are a Evil and have the Cops at your house every weekend for a Domestic Disturbance, you need to stay away from this guy. Don’t let him slip out and smoke “GREEN” or go “DIPPIN.” He may come back and try to kill your animals.

  14. Barton Hawkins, TN
    very charming, falls in love fast, plans your future (1st month), speaks God and religion and love, starts with small snide remarks that are hard to catch. Within 3 months, obvious verbal abuse, name calling, insults, followed by apologies, promises. Starts arguments over anything that takes your attention off of him; ANYTHING. Moved onto minor physical abuse (grabbing). Never takes responsibility for his actions; always blames someone or something else (ex: caught my bathroom on fire with a cigarette, blamed me for sitting my toilet paper by the commode lol). Never once apologized, not once. Was grooming the next victim while still schmoozing me; thought he was clever. I let him do his thing, knowing after he sneaked out he’d later drop his “I deserve a happy peaceful life” message as usual (when he’s the one making sure you’re never at peace, nor happy). Tons and tons of vile hateful hate filled messages when you’re done. Never stops. Blames alcohol; says will stay away from it. (Not really a drinker but when he drinks……vile venomous satanic monster.

    Summary: A bona-fide monster like everyone else’s. God bless us and give us strength.

  15. Samuel Trevizo- Colorado, Arizona, Florida
    He is a complete loser. Claims to own his own business but hardly ever works. He took a picture of my debit card while I was sleeping and used it online for almost a year before I realized it. Cheated for 3 years out of our 3.5 year relationship. Everything he says is LIES!! Addicted to meth. Complete Narcissist. Also extremely abusive. He will drain you emotionally and financially. In 2 years time he put 7 different trackers on ny car. He has threatened and harassed my children and my friends. Biggest mistake of my life!!!

    1. Tony Fabrizio- Tampa- originally from Pennsylvania. He is a Narcissist a Sociopath and a Manipulator. He is a loser who spends all his money on prostitutes male and female and trans who have both a penis and breasts.

      He wasted 8 yrs of my life telling me he was going to marry me and he wanted a child with me and allowed me to pay for in-vitro several times while he was paying “professionals” doing drugs and having threesomes with men AND women in his home.

      He tells you what you want to hear and everything he says is the opposite of the truth. He acts like he’s straight and acts like a tough guy who beats people up to make you think he’s manly.

      He will act like a racist but those he says he’s against he is actually sexually attracted to them.

      He calls others Pedis but he goes after teenagers and has intimate relations with them. Ladies Watch your children. He is a 46 yr old male who will say and do anything to get intimate with you and anyone that breaths, and will take your money in the process. He is abusive mentally and physically and destroys walls and furniture and objects.

      He physically attacks you and then punches himself in the face so he can call the cops on you and get you arrested saying you did that to him. He an addict and has been in rehab with no success.

      He will make you feel sorry for him, say he’s a good guy, and put down all other men to make himself look and feel great! DONT BELIEVE HIS LIES!!!! HE IS THE BIGGEST SCUMBAG LOWLIFE LOSER TO WALK THE EARTH. MY BIGGEST MISTAKE IN LIFE!!!

  16. Kyle Therrien. Vermont, used to reside in Pennsylvania.

    Dated him for two weeks when I was in college and I have to vent to/ warm others.

    -Controlling- He hates it when you don’t tell him where you are AT ALL TIMES. I decided to hang out with some new friends after class. He asked where I was (He automatically assumed I was going to be at my dorm waiting for me at all times). I told him to come over and have fun. BIG mistake. He sat in the corner and pouted while reading some religious scripture. He told me it was to prevent him from “lashing out” at me in front of everyone since I “wasn’t where I was supposed to be.” Gross.

    -Religious- Not inherently bad at all, but he used Catholicism to judge others and make him feel superior. Made my best friend cry because her religion was “wrong.” Believes condoms are a sin and they prevent the man from giving his “gift” to the woman. I. Wish. I. Was. Kidding. Also full heartedly believed that women had more ribs than men because Adam gave a rib to make Eve. When I broke up with him, he posted on FaceBook, “Why has God forsaken me!!!” We’re not in 30 A.D., get over yourself.

    -Friend repellant- Drove away everyone I met. Thought I was going crazy until after we broke up. Had over a dozen people tell me, “We love you, we just didn’t like HIM.” Real wake up call.

    -Petty- Tried to make me jealous on purpose. A girl in his Bible group hit on him I guess. He told me about it and seemed pissed that I could care less. Why should I be mad at the girl, you probably didn’t tell her about me. I met her and she was cold towards me even though I was perfectly nice to her. He loved it because he thought we were “fighting” for him. That was until I told him she could have him.

    -Homophobic- Again, the religious thing. “Quoted” the Bible and blah, blah, blah.

    -Didn’t shut the fuck up.

    -Silent treatment- Don’t know why this of all things still haunts me. There was nothing ‘silent’ about this. He would huff, plop himself down in a chair and fold his arm like a three year old. This never gave me anxiety before meeting him, because that’s when he starts the terrible mind game of “You know what you did” and I had no clue because the things I would be in trouble for were absurd. It could be: I didn’t compliment his new hair cut, didn’t react enough to some achievement, (specifically) didn’t clap to one of his self-righteous speeches. Again, get over yourself.

    You may ask yourself, ‘This happened all in two weeks?’ Yes. His previous girlfriend lasted 8 months with him. He would wine about how she broke up with him over the phone. I did it over a text.

    I hope he’s having the life he deserves.

  17. Spencer Bell. From Reno, came from Utah. Extreme narcissist who is incapable of opening his mouth without lies spilling out. Continues to be married, yet has multiple girlfriends and is VERY active on dating sites. I don’t honestly know how this man has the energy to entertain so many “relationships.” He has a talent for telling women exactly what they want to hear and tailors his life and background to fit every girl he meets. Starts out with gifts and affection and then morphs into someone who is more than happy to take your time, money and heart without regard. Once one of the women finds out about the others and reaches out to them, he becomes enraged and plays the victim. He doesn’t even have enough originality to say different bullshit to each woman and literally copies and pasted his texts and pics. I hope this post helps at least one other woman from wasting her time and heart on such a broken and truly evil man.

    1. I understand. I will leave my ex nameless but he has tried now to frequent places I used to go to. He knocked out 3 of my teeth in June of 2020. How do I report him in a comment such as what you have?

  18. His name is Alec E. Rosentrater. Iowa State University. Aerospace Engineering.

    He says he believes women are equal, but his desires mattered to him a lot more than mine did. He ridiculed me and put all the blame for our problems on me and my chronic health conditions. He was super booksmart, he was charming, but also emotionally and physically abusive. He assaulted me in March 2019 when I was 18, he was 17.

    Later I told him my feelings were the same as someone who survived assault, and he said, no that’s not what happened between us because I didn’t say no. He was doing one thing, and I said yes to that. But then he started doing something else that moved my bra that I was not okay with and I froze. I couldn’t process what was happening until it was over because I just didn’t want to believe it. I cried. And he cried too because he didn’t intend to hurt me. He’s not a monster; he’s a very flawed person. He didn’t want to believe he assaulted me, and neither did I.
    We tried to “rebuild trust” which really ended up with me letting him push physical boundaries further and further past my comfort zone as a way to feel like things were peaceful and so I had “something of value” to offer him.

    I told him early on in dating him that I wanted to take a break from making out because it felt like too much too fast and so we’d have more conversation and get to know each other. He told me that physical intimacy is just part of having a relationship, and that he’d be very sad if I didn’t want to do that anymore. (This is manipulative. My actions don’t control his emotions. That’s all him.)

    He did not respond well to me changing my mind during intimacy. He would often grumble about it if I asked to slow down or stop. When I reflected on what I wanted for 2 weeks and told him that I didn’t like that we had been doing “x” and didn’t want to do it anymore, he made a meme with profanity that belittled and bullied me for changing my mind and using my voice.

    This man has big problems understanding consent and how to respect a woman’s body and her mind. Maybe he’ll grow up and mature by the time you’re dating him. Extreme caution to those who date him. If you do, don’t get involved physically for a few months. You may get really hurt. It’s taken me years to get over the emotional abuse and gaslighting and trauma. Save yourself the trouble. Be safe. There are much better men than this one.

  19. Jad Nazar
    ins: jash.english & jad nazar
    youtube: jash english
    facebook: jad nazar

    This guy is a dirty blonde with blue eyes and he’s an influencer. He’s super narcissistic about his face and his muscles but inside he is sensitive and ashamed about the size of his private parts. He is the youngest and spoiled by his siblings and basically, he can’t live without them. He’s racially biased about white people even if he pretends to be white (he’s mixed British but he looks white) most of the time in order to get people’s attention. He is immature and childish, unable to handle relationships that involve sex because he’s terrified girls would find out his private parts is thin and small and he came in 5 mins. Don’t date him because he will claim he’s not an jerk, flatter you, hypnotize you, and once he sleeps with you, he will tell you crap and run away like a coward. Anyone would be petrified by the contrast of the smallness of his private parts and his muscle, but even if you don’t mind, he will still run away like the wimpy kid because he has mental issues that he can’t accept himself but he still chooses to mess with girls and ghosts.

  20. Rich Earl – north NJ and Vermont
    Sociopath, manipulative, puts on a completely different persona for you and then becomes aggressive when you start to see the real truth of who he is. Anger management problems and verges on physical assault. Substance abuse problems and I also suspect bi-polar issues aggravate his aggressive and manipulative nature. Don’t fall for any sob stories or grandiose ideas of his. There is a reason he doesn’t have many people close to him that have known him for long.

  21. Rohit G Krishnan. 10/1991 Bay Area, California

    Watch out for this scumbag. He’s a good dresser, charming, charismatic, outgoing, complimentary, tells you exactly what you want to hear, but he has a nasty dark side.

    Huge ego. Narcissist. Pathological liar. Manipulative. Mentally and physically abusive. Has substance abuse problems (alcohol and drugs). Admitted to me that he cheated on his ex numerous times. (Also awful in bed)

    He was engaged to his high school girlfriend of 8 years (she finally ended it after being unable to put up with his BS anymore) and has since filed a restraining order against him because he literally can not get over her- she’s had to move several times so he doesn’t know where she lives. (I think he doesn’t like that she was the one to end it- as he likes to be in control)

    Says he’s in the Navy Reserves (unsure if this is true). Has claimed he’s in Stanford Grad/Business school (not true). Says the father who raised him isn’t his biological father and his father is actually from Ireland (though he died when he was an infant) I’m pretty sure this is also BS. Plus many other stories…I also found 11 separate IG accounts that he owns

    Incredibly manipulative and will gaslight you about anything suspicious. Just an overall shitty person.

  22. Austin James Deceder DOB 5/22/1996 Lived in Mason City, IA and Forest City, IA and Ames, IA and Kansas City.

    Very manipulative. Will do anything to get what he wants from you and then leave you when he gets it. Known cheater.

    Will force himself on you even when you say no.

    Was accused of violating by multiple girls, with no conviction because he knows how to leave no evidence.

    Be very careful. He is a diagnosed Sociopath and possibly a Psychopath.

    Please women, be very careful of this guy. He will be very toxic mentally and physically and financially.

  23. Jeff Milgroom, AZ, 53: He is a tall, well-mannered, well-spoken man – all of it is an act. This man claims he is separated/on his way to get a divorce, he is not. He will make you believe his life situation is sorted, it isn’t. He will claim his wife is an abusive addict and he is a victim, he is not. He continues to lie to women and cheat on his wife. He is manipulative, he will project his insecurities on you. He is cheapskate and will lure you into believing his sweet lies by projecting himself as the victim of his situation. I feel bad for his wife C.M. and his son for having such an awful person in their life.

    1. I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your comment. I dated him from December 1st 2020 until today, after I read your comment. He told me the same story about his wife. He told me about separation and divorce. He asked me every day for patience. Every day he told me I’m the one. He is using big words. I’m speechless. He talked so poor about his wife, he is always a “ victim”. He is a monster. And is sad because all I did was to love him sincerely. He told me 3 years ago he slept last time with his wife and in all this years he was alone. He pretend he is a lonely guy, in fact he keep all his mystery around him to hunt more victims. I wish this site to be more visible. We don’t deserve to be treated like this. I’m sorry for your experience. I hope you can heal fast. I hope the same for me. Thank you again.

    2. The best description about Jeff Milgroom, 53 years old, Az. He is the most fake person I met in my life. All his words are lies, zero value. Don’t trust him, don’t believe his words. Stay away from him, he is just using you. He looks like a kind old man, mannered, in fact is just a person who is taking advantage of others. He have zero respect for women, he pretends he is crying. Absolutely the most pathetic person alive. Don’t waste your time with him. You have better things to do. He is not an attractive man, he doesn’t have compassion for women. He is the biggest liar you will see in your entire life.

  24. Joey Nicholas. Joseph Nicholas. Glendale heights or in Schiller Park Illinois. 30 years old. But a child. Do not waste your time. From day one he was shady. While we were talking, he had sex with a girl on his vacation. Throughout our relationship, he talked to girls and would say very inappropriate things to them.

    Talking about getting one pregnant if they hung out. Talked about what “daddy” says and what kind of relations they would have. Found out he had multiple profiled and a dropbox full of nudes from online and ex-girlfriends or girls that he would talk too. He made a Twitter account and got sent free nudes by a girl who looked like she was 14 while we were in a relationship then blamed his dad and said his dad made that account.

    Then later told me it was him. He would have girls text his phone and then delete the messages. He would hook up with “professionals” while in a relationship with me and text them and then make up some lie about why he texted them in the first place.

    Doesn’t care about his family at all. Has money but can’t save his money or pay his bills. Car was in collections and I had to help him get a new car. Very selfish and one-sided. In the beginning, he wasn’t controlling but I wasn’t allowed to go out with my friends or have guy friends lol because he was the one being shady.

    He won’t ever let you have his phone password or know it. Always has hid his phone until I was able to get into a few times and each time I found cheating, shady shit. He never apologizes for anything and will never make you feel better about your insecurities. As long as he can do what he wants behind your back, it’s fine.

    But the moment you stand up to him and call him out, he turns it around and makes you feel like your crazy. Oh he’s messy as hell and will sleep with a room full of garbage. His feet are completely infected with some gross fungi but he won’t get it checked out.

    Has a good body but has a big gut or belly that won’t go away. Completely narcissistic and cocky. He flirts with his friends and other people’s girlfriends that he’s attracted to or gives them special attention when they are around and doesn’t care. Not even a week after we broke up he was out with some other girl while I still lived in the apartment we had together. So overall, a shady piece of —. Would not recommend.

  25. Paul Roger Bedard Jr. (from the reality TV show Gator Boys). Weston, FL

    Paul is the biggest lying manipulative sack of —-. I was with Paul for years. We took a break when I went off to New Zealand to pursue my Masters. He dated other people, so did I. I accidentally got pregnant while in New Zealand, I told Paul everything.

    He welcomed me home with open arms and said he didn’t care that the baby wasn’t his. He acted like a saint at first. Paid for everything, really took care of me. Once I had Joseph he changed. He didn’t want me anymore, just Joseph. He wanted to be daddy but treated me like shit. The show became a hit and he secretly started dating Caroline. He then kicked me and Joseph out of the house so he could move Caroline in. He broke my heart. He promised we’d get married, told me he loved me.

    He agreed to keep paying for my school and Joseph but I didn’t have enough to get a place of my own so I was forced to move in with my mom (I didn’t work I was trying to finish up my education). Paul didn’t like the distance from Joseph so he got us a small house in a neighboring city.

    Paul didn’t want me living too close to him and Caroline. I’d see them together and it would kill me. Breaking my heart all over again. Because he was paying for everything, including my education I just did what he said. I eventually met my current husband and I told him about everything Paul had done. I was an emotional mess when Mario met me. Mario married me and we agreed we needed to get Paul out of our life.

    So I cut him off. Paul had no legal rights to Joseph. I was done being abused by Paul. Having him hold my education over my head so he could get what he wanted.

    Paul turned into a monster. Caroline eventually saw what a scumbag he was and dumped him. It’s been 5 years and 4 domestic violence charges later:

    Paul is still making my life miserable. Making matters worse he currently has a pregnant girlfriend and I know she is going to go through what I did. I want to save her, I just don’t know-how.

    Sorry to burst anyone’s bubble who loved Gator Boy Paul but he is a rotten self serving dishonest manipulative sack of crap.

  26. Kevin Sorensen, North Fort Myers, FL, 30 years old, plumber or painter when working
    This guy took advantage of me for nearly a decade, stealing and trying to lie the entire relationship. Kept me complacent with minor changes to his ridiculous manipulative and dishonest behaviors, doing housework half-heartedly, and bombarding me with loads of empty promises sprinkled heavily with his personal brand of bullsh*t about his unending love for me and compliments on just how beautiful and sexy I was … Until I stopped tending to his every want and need. Then he really became an scum, had me pay for his visit: flight, hotel, food, gas, then stiffed me for all of it. Not the first time this cheap, lying, thieving junkie has screwed me … But it sure is the last time. Don’t trust anyone with the last name Sorensen, Vetter or Reber in Southwest Florida. Both sides of Kevin’s family has got some members with top level red flag issues.

  27. Don’t date Alex Williams from the Bronx. He is black and went to Skidmore College. Don’t date him. He has psychological issues and has anger issues. He will stalk you, threaten you, hit you, and then try to manipulate you. He will move into your apartment and then never leave. Thank God i moved to Florida.

  28. Dean Keithly. Cornell University PhD, Aerospace Engineer, 27 yr old, from Michigan.
    Huge RACIST. Says really insulting stuff towards the Hispanic, Asian and especially Black communities!(The worst thing is he seeks to date minority woman!!)
    Manipulative, controlling. Very calculative. Pretends to be sweet and harmless but then slowly use manipulating ways to undermine your confidence then break up with you when you are least prepared and says so many insulting stuff to make you feel like it’s all your fault after the breakup. But then he will internet stalk you for years and talk shit about you to everyone you know in common.

  29. #RobertEarlJonesJr also known as #bigbobbyjones #bigbobby or #jbigbobby #bigbobbyjones777 met and begin dating etc in 2017. He was kind then we both relapsed and vegan using. I got clean he didnt so I left. We both moved on with our lives then about6 months ago I cane up positive for HSV2. I knew hed given it to me I reached out he didnt care at that time he was sleeping with a friend and had knocked her up and he was also sleeping with a married women. I reached out to both these women and he got upset. I want to say beware of him he has a way of being able to make believe hes good but he isnt he has a temper and even quit talking to the pregnant friend. Its sad hes spreading hsv innocent lives changed.

  30. Will Bosland from New Mexico. Resides in Dallas.
    This a*hole will use you then *poof* gone.
    He dated my friend for three months then just disappeared when she was in a bad accident and in the hospital.
    He is selfish, do not expect him to be there for you during tough times.

  31. Kanak Raina, Ph.D. Yale University, New Haven, Principal Scientist at Halda Therapeutics (public information)

    If you are dating him, run for your life! He is an abusive, manipulative psychopath with body dysmorphia that he will project on you. He will promise you to “give all of himself”, play on your desire to have a family and a home. He will create a bubble where you are the only person he has in his life, isolating you from the rest of the world. It may be romantic at first, but you will have no one to reach out to when things do not go his way. This is when the manipulation starts happening “If only you lost this much weight for me, I’d not need anything else in my life. You know you are everything I ever wanted”. And when you are not hitting his goals, he will withdraw, not speak or be intimate with you to show what it will be like if you don’t do what he wants. This sophisticated manipulation will be presented as his care for you, and what is worse, he will find a way to blame himself as someone who has failed his feminist believes, which will make it even more convincing to keep on going with this madness. And you will keep on losing weight and stop eating altogether because he will control your food intake and what is being purchased and exercise until you no longer can stand, but it will never be enough. You are no longer perfect in his eyes, and as soon as that happens, he will leave you in the worst manner possible, right when you are about to get married, or so he said. He will threaten you when you ask for an explanation or closure. You wouldn’t even know what happened because a week ago he promised that you’d always be together.

    And once you get over him and pick yourself up and become more successful, he will reach out again and try to get back together. DO NOT GO FOR THAT. While dating you, he has a history of reaching out to his exes and trying to get back together he is perpetually unhappy and will be searching for someone to fill that whole. He did that for six months, trying to get back together, but when you stand your ground and reject his abusive treatment, he will run to the first girl who’d have him and promise her the world, because he can never be alone with himself, too afraid to face his utter ugliness. Remember, your love, praise and lack of criticism is what’s feeding him. He doesn’t love you, he loves being loved, doesn’t matter by whom. Last time I saw him in July 2020, he told me that he doesn’t care if he hurts people feelings, only if he hurts mine, and that is why we couldn’t be together…run for your life!

    1. Austin James Chandonnet (32) Peachtree City, GA, Grand Rapids, MI

      BEWARE!!!!!!!! Very dangerous and abusive conman. He hasn’t had a stable job in over 6 years, is chronically unemployed, but will pretend to be successful by making up careers and claiming to own his own business. He appears to have financial means at first because he mooches off of and literally steals from his wealthy family – yes, he has committed check fraud against his own parents. During the time we were together, he revealed himself as a sociopath and a pathological liar, constantly lying to me and going out of town “for work” all to find out he was having affairs with women he met online. The money he was allegedly bringing in from work was deposited into our bank account from his mother, making it appear like legitimate paychecks.

      Yes, unfortunately his parents are not above lying on his behalf and enabling his despicable behavior. When I became suspicious about his behavior and caught his lies, he began being physically abusive with me. He hit, punched, kicked and threw me down on the floor or against the wall multiple times, causing bleeding and bruising, and he eventually went as far as to point a loaded gun at me and threaten to kill me if I left him. When I finally got the courage to leave, he stole thousands of dollars from my bank account and bolted out of town. We owned mutual property together and he had our vehicles repossessed without my permission, damaging my credit and almost causing me to lose my job in the financial field. After fighting him in court for 4 years and the judge ruling in my favor, he filed for bankruptcy to try to avoid paying the debts he owed me, lying on his Bankruptcy documents, which is perjury of Federal Court.

      This individual has no moral conscience. He is especially dangerous because he blends in with every-day normal people and doesn’t appear to be the degenerate he truly is due to the fact his parents are more than willing to provide him with money, an apartment to live in, and a car to drive, despite the fact he would never be able to provide any of those things for himself since he does not have and has not had employment for going on a decade now. He will use you for social status, money, narcissistic supply, sex, a place to live and anything and everything else he can take advantage of. If you know Austin Chandonnet, or know a woman involved with him please reply to this comment for more information verifying the accuracy of my claims. I have pictures and years worth of court documents corroborating my statements. Also, you can look up these public court records in Fulton County and the bankruptcy in Federal Court state of Georgia.

      Please take these warnings very seriously. This is a dangerous person who will do anything and everything for his own personal gain without any remorse.

  32. Gutierrez is a covert narcissist and a con man. He used me and my family for four years until he drained me and discarded me. Google Covert Narcissistic Personality disorder and you will get a detailed description of his tactics.

    1. @Girl_Wonder ~

      Bravo & thank you!! Really well written and extremely insightful, you just described the dynamics of my involvement with an anger junkie/narcissist/autistic/addict and thanks to the damage he caused I’m in such a state that my brain hardly functions at the level I need to sound this competent. Your words are blazing in my mind and super succinct, you should write professionally if you don’t already.

      How do I comment on the main thread here? I don’t see a box other than this one… also, at BBFL admin, how come my searches for the guys listed here come up empty? I mean, what’s the point of having a list if it’s not searchable?? I can put you in touch with a bad ass coder to fix that, SHE will probably do it for free considering the hell men have put her through!

      Admin: Working on a better search feature for these listings. I didn’t even realize the new updated search was excluding your listings. I will work on getting that fixed asap! Promise!

  33. Tyler Kennedy from Harrisburg PA, now living in Nebraska: I’ve been with him for going on 12 years. We married in 2015 and are in the process of divorcing. Buckle in ladies, this is gonna be a long one.

    We met through a mutual friend and quickly hit it off. We talked on the phone for hours and hours every night. He was always texting me. He was super attentive and sweet and thoughtful. He made me feel special and I thought finally! This is a good man I could love! He had a job, he was educated, honorable discharge from the Navy. Seemed close to his family. All were things I thought were good signs. He was cute to boot, so I jumped in with both feet. Things were amazing for the first few years. We went through serious poverty, ups downs, etc and it seemed like we were forever.

    Then I noticed that he wasn’t making any effort to get us out of the situation we were in poverty wise so I did it. I got a well paid job and saved every cent, bought a house and a car and pushed him to get a job too. He finally did. Over the years, his jobs got more and more high paid. Yet we always seemed to be just barely scraping by. My parents often had to bail us out.

    Anytime I’d try to right the ship, get things going in the right direction, there was gaslighting, manipulation, anger, and fights. He was so subtle about it that I never realized until I was already really beaten down. By the time I understood what was happening I didn’t have the energy or strength to do anything but endure.

    Then my Dad died. I fell into a depression so deep I couldn’t function. He took over the bills. The car got reposessed and the house went into foreclosure. This happened twice. He’s stolen money from me anytime he knew I had any extra. He ruined my credit and my health. He cheated on me with a woman and I only found out because she called me and thanked me for letting her and her 8 yr old son move in with us and letting her date him. She said he’d told her she could move in and that I’d allowed this. I certainly didn’t. I told him to choose between us. It took him two weeks to decide. He’d never met her in person and had been chatting her up for 3 months. He told me that he loved her more than me and that my depression in the wake of my father’s death was making me a bad wife and that’s why he cheated.

    A few years later I have nerve damage. When it flares I hit an eleven on the pain scale or higher. The kind of pain that puts you in a fetal position, ripping out your hair and screaming. He refused to help me get to the doctor, said it was all in my head and I was making it up and being a drama queen. That the hospital wouldn’t help me even if I went so there was no point. I tried to call an ambulance and he took my phone away knowing I was too weak to get it back from him. He would yell at me during these times because I was disturbing his sleep.

    He would get drunk every evening and start fights with me, making up scenarios about things I’d done which never happened. He had sexual fantasies and kinks I found vile and I suffered through multiple instances of forced consent. ( this is where you are bullied into a sexual situation you dont wish to be in. Make no mistake, it is a form of rape) This man humiliated, violated, used, and stole from me for more than a decade.

    He destroyed my house. He screwed up my health. Every promise he makes is a fallacy that never sees follow through. I discovered that he’d been cheating on me online for most of the time I was with him, sending these women money. And not just his money, but my money too. When I confronted him with this he shrugged and said; “I’m sorry for the way things played out.”

    He is a pathetic, alcoholic, abusive, pretender of a man and he WILL destroy you if you let him. Don’t let him fool you. BEWARE.

  34. Bill Fetherolf is a narcissist and a pathological liar that should be avoided at all costs. He lures women in through seduction and has unprotected relations with multiple partners at one time. He trash talks his ex-partners but never takes responsibility for his part in the breakups. Bill is ALWAYS the victim. When you meet him everything will be intense. There will be dinners, trips, private time, money for some, and constant texting or calls to gain your attention. He’ll turn on the charm and make you think you’re the only one he cares about.

    Once you’re hooked, the gaslighting and devaluing begins. He is constantly looking for his next victim on Facebook dating, prostitution sites, and other online venues. Bill drinks constantly but swears he isn’t an alcoholic. After a short period of time, it will become apparent that Bill is a miserable person who hates himself and thus transfers those negative feelings and emotions onto his victims. Given enough time, this troll will destroy your health, take money from you, and ruin your sanity. The whole time you’re breaking down, he’s watching and enjoying every second of it. He is a sadistic and extremely sick person. He cheated on his first wife and had children with other females. Now he is cheating on his second spouse who refuses to even live in the same state. All the while he is fathering children with multiple females from various ethnic backgrounds.

    He swears his children, from his first marriage, are his priority. Don’t be fooled! They’re adults whom he lies about sending money. His cash flows only to the paid companions he finds online and as a payoff to the multiple baby mommas. If you get mixed up with this pig, take notes when he talks and pay even closer attention to what he does and doesn’t say or do.

    Like all narcissists, he can’t keep up the facade for very long. After about two months the real Bill will show up and the lies will become more blatant and evident. When you finally catch on to the game don’t expect empathy or sympathy. Nope, there will only be anger, deflection, bullying, statements of entitlement, projections of his insecurities, and mental issues. Forget accountability because it’s never Bill’s fault. He’ll tell you about all the people who have taken advantage of him and then tell you that he’s lived a reckless life. If satan had a face it would be Bill’s. This pig is a predator who should be locked up for life. Don’t fall for his bullcrap! All he knows how to do is lie. Bill is a 65-year-old male who has the mindset and emotional maturity of a child. Life is too short to get mixed up in his drama!!!! Skip his bs about writing songs and singing to you.

    Skip the love bombing. Love yourself enough to walk away if you’re already mixed up with this troll or be careful to not believe his lies in the first place. If you hook up with this demon you can’t say you weren’t warned ahead of time.

  35. Matt Sweex from the netherlands is a horrible skirt chaser who gets off fantasizing about a bunch of women to serve him. We talked from September then in October he got a girlfriend but wouldn’t let me go then blocked me in November this guy sucked me in then kicked me too the curb

  36. Here to report Patrick Russo a seemingly nice guy from South Florida, currently in Chattanooga, Tennessee. This guy is not my type he is chubby and hairy but he was so kind, he took me on many nice dates, took me traveling, so when he asked me to be his girlfriend I said yes how could I say no to the nicest human I had ever met? Attraction can grow right? And it did. We ended up moving in together and that was the day everything changed. He never wanted to hang out, he was almost never home but when he was he was always angry, scary angry, I prayed for our relationship daily, I tried, really tried. Always had a meal waiting for him, was constantly looking for things I could clean before he got home. For nothing, he kicked me and my child out on the street, started threatening me. I ended up filing a police report and getting help from a local church to move back home to Florida. When you’re not attracted to the nice guy… there’s a reason ladies.

  37. Daniel Rosenblatt. Known alias: Dan from Far Rockaway, NY and Woodmere, NY. Comes from a Jewish family. He has no respect for vulnerable women. He likes to take advantage of the generosity of women. He is verbally abusive and manipulative. We met via a Jewish dating app. He said I was the one and we spoke about marriage brought up by him. Flew abroad to come and see me. I opened my home to him. I picked him up from the airport and we came to my place.

    He met my family and was in my personal space. We became intimate. I told him we should use protection and he said rejected it. Said if we got pregnant, it would all be fine and “we would deal with it.” He made me believe if anything did happen, we would sort it out together. I became pregnant during his stay. As soon as I told him, he panicked and told me to get a scan to which I agreed. Before I could get a scan, he fled the country and went back to his hometown. He blocked me and then unblocked me after some time. apologized just to lure me back in. Told me he would support me only if I would “get rid of it.” Told me he wanted nothing to do with me and that he told his family and they told him I should abort as well.

    This is not common in the Jewish religion. He said I would not ruin him in the Jewish world with this mistake. He intimidated me and played with my emotions in every way possible. Made threats to make my life hell if I would not do what he wanted me to. He told me to do things I had never done before. He was so threatening. I had to start recording the conversations as he was verbally violent. He made sure to not get anything in writing and told me no one would find him and that I was crazy. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do and he was pressuring me and telling me he would ruin my life. I tried to have a rabbi speak to him but he was equally rude and verbally violent towards the rabbi. He has violent tendencies when he doesn’t have his way. I want to put this story out there to warn other Jewish women of this man, so they do not fall into the same scenario I did and so they do not believe his lies.

  38. ASHLEY GOTTLIEB in Tokyo (used to live in NY). Big time cheater, and addict. Will cheat on you if he gets a chance. Prefers paid companions over normal girls because he cannot have a normal relationship. Had a threesome with 2 paid escorts in Vietnam. Cheated with other multiple girls while he was overseas. Illegal drug usage in Asia which is very risky. Abuses prescribed drugs to get high (Xanax, sleeping pills, and pain killers). Before you get hurt please run away.

    1. have to address that he had a threesome with 2 ‘ladies of the night’ in Vietnam while he was traveling with his current girlfriend. On a business trip to Thailand, he will always order takeout paid escorts to his room. Makes out with other girls in front of his GF if he likes that girl. He cannot help it.

  39. Finally a place to rate my ex bf. You really should have like a scale of 1 to 10 to rate just how bad my ex boyfriend is. Then again after reading some of these comments I guess everyone would be rating their ex bf a 1. lol

    1. Beware of BRIAN HALL ( in his late 40s) of Arlington, Va!!! He has a life long issue that he can pass to you. He’s been sleeping with several women unprotected. Two women have come forward with their results and informed him. He did not care to get checked or produce results showing that he wasn’t positive of this issue. He is a serial liar, cheater, and manipulator.

  40. Ryan Cavanaugh, Professional Banjo Player and Instructor, Nashville Tennessee. This guy is extremely toxic and has anger issues about women. He postsregularly on a sight called Quora. He makes up questions from his other accounts and then answers them. They are all about his ex girlfriends or his mother. He lures young female musicians into instruction and then sexually harrasses them. If they don’t “play ball” he black lists them with musicians in Nashville so they can’t get jobs. He asks for nude pics and then shares them with his male contacts and brags about it. He was physically abusive to me as well as the woman he lived with before me. He bragged that he has cheated on every woman he has ever dated because he wants to have the upper hand. He loves to brag about how he conns money out of older women by pretending to be interested in them for romance or friendship. He is unable to maintain any relationship. He has never been engaged or married (he is 44). He boasts that as a virtuoso banjo player, it is his right to cheat. When we broke up he stated to me “I am a bigger deal than you will ever be. I will sleep with half the women under 45 in this town before you even begin to date again” He really loves to hurt women. Please be very careful if you are ever around him.

  41. Harry Hudson from Romulus, NY. Cheater, Liar, doesn’t know when he is sexually harassing a woman. When it comes to sending inappropriate photos, he does not take no for an answer.


      Is a lying, narcissistic, poorly endowed user… he owes me around $35k. After he begged me to leave my husband, spent all of my money while he laid on his ass for 18 months, and when I could no longer work due to balance and osteoporosis issues, this 61 year old pos decided our relationship was over. I was no longer any use to him. I imagine it will be the same for any woman who falls for his ‘charms’ (word used loosely). He is egotistical for NO reason what-so-ever. He is bald, has bad teeth and shits the bed. I don’t know what the hell I was thinking…. shit, I was just horny and wanted to let off some pent up girl stuff but he fell in love and pestered me until I left my husband of nearly 17 years. Date him at your peril. He’s perpetually miserable and will make you miserable right alongside him. How I lasted as long as I did is anyone’s guess.

  42. Angier Moseley Ames or Angier Ames of Healdsburg, California and of Boston, Massachusetts drugged and raped me for 3 days. He gave me such a strong drug that I almost died 3 times. I was blacking out, passing out and I could not speak or move for hours. I tried to walk and I kept falling over and over and I could not even sit. I would occasionally wake up and he was raping me and I could not feel my body. One time I remember slapping him and crying as he raped me. He said he wanted to tie me up with jump ropes. Angier Ames gave me such strong drugs that I had extremely severe chest pain and I had trouble breathing and swallowing. I was hallucinating and I was having horrible seizures. One time I woke up and he yelled at me so much that I thought he would hit me. He told me that he was arrested for hitting his previous girlfriend who is a nurse. Please beware!! Angier Moseley Ames has a serious drug problem, he is a rapist and he beats women plus he is emotionally abusive with a short temper. He gave me such a powerful drug that I still have severe chest pain and it’s been a month. I have horrible nightmares of what Angier Ames did to me. My doctor said he gave me a drug that is like a powerful anaesthetic that is used mainly for colon surgery. So the patient is awake but feels nothing and remembers nothing. Angier Ames also told me that he likes to dress up like a woman.

  43. John Oliver Schwartzkopf of Manteno, IL went after my teenage daughter after we were engaged. After asking around found out he has knocked up a few teenagers before.

    1. Ramon Franco Jr., MD is a serial cheater and liar. He lied when we met about his relationship status, and when I found out he gaslit me. I was in love and foolish and stayed for four more years, as he continued on and off with another woman. We broke up for four years, and in a moment of weakness, we re-established a connection- though not committed. He always said he was single, but sure enough, he was with another woman (in a committed relationship) the entire time we were having causal relations from 2011 to 2018. He is a terrible human being who thinks he is great because he is a doctor!!

  44. EMIL KOTSCHESSA OF beachwood,nj
    Short and sweet he is a cheater, a lier and likes to beat on women he beat me after I found out he was married and cheating on me with 2 other women and his wife who he has 2 kids with he loves to try to draw us girls in with making us pity him and saying he is great man but he is a snake and a very evil man beware he also prays on single moms as I my self am.

  45. Ira Ney
    Vancouver WA, Elko NV
    A true pathetic piece of shit, disguised as nice sweet guy. This good for NOTHING man child mooched off me for months. Instead of getting a job, he spends 18-20 hours a day playing computer games. He pays nothing in child support for his 4 kids his poor xwife has to raise because he’s a dead beat. Paid nothing for rent, utilities, or groceries, then left me 2 days before August rent was due because he’s incapable of having any kind of adult conversation. And he had the balls to screw around…WOMEN AND MEN beware


    He is 47 as of 2020. He is Chinese, but he can’t stand Asians and frequently uses racist terms to describe them. He is a huge fan of Donald Trump, Republican values, the military, and guns.

    He has never been in the military or shot a gun. He is obsessed with the Navy Seals but is scared to death of nearly everything that they have to do.

    He is a narcissist and a moocher. He will put on the charm until he’s confident he has you in his clutches, then his normal self reappears.

    He curses A LOT, makes fun of his son for not cursing, and gets angry easily. His anger has led to violence in the past. He has taken people’s headlights out with hammers and rammed their cars with his own when they weren’t going fast enough.

    He was violent with his son in the past, hitting him and knocking him over when he was a baby. He spent tons of his ex-wife’s money ($15k +) on toys for himself and often neglected his son.

    Even now, everything is about himself, and his son is 2nd place. Then anyone else comes afterwards. He only dates people if he thinks he can benefit. If you break up with him, he will sell your stuff.

    He doesn’t even care about his parents (who are in their 80s) unless they can do something for him and he never visits them even though he lives 5 minutes away.

    Avoid him like the plague.

  47. Ladies be aware of Paul Bagby, aka Paul C. Bagby. Some user names on POF, Ashley Madison, Match, Zoosk, Tinder, Bumble are drolds350, drolds1970, 1970olds, MrMitchell, MrMitchell1614, MrBig27238 to name a few. He is a habitual liar, user, and narcissist. He told me he has one child and has actually 3! Two were from strippers that he doesn’t associate with! I uncovered a whole bunch of other lies too that just floored me. He is in debt like you wouldn’t believe and has some serious anger issues and he will take it out on you! He blames everyone else for his problems and will never own his shit!

  48. There is a guy name Will Rulong he is such a douche bag. He screwed up because he thought he be an alcoholic and take my vehicle any time he wants too. So then when I ended it and was away from my house he stole my THERAPY DOG and my DENTURES. Then had the nerve to tell the foos were something wrong with me. Now he is out on POF trying to find another women that he can suck into his web of lies….he comes off as being tender and doing everything for him and then he will change….SO BECAREFUL GIRLS

  49. MILAN KREBS aka Legends44
    RENO,NV 32 yrs old

    Cheater- Narcissistic-Pathological Liar-Sociopath- Transmits STDS- Closet homosexual- Doesn’t pay his bills- gathers information on you~ to use against you in a court of law- Uses his work to sleep with unknowing individuals (men & women) in empty apartments/houses he works in-Violent- uses his “military experience’ as a trap so you feel bad for him(claims to have been black ops sniper) BLAME SHIFTER-PREDATOR Know pill abuser and hard drug user- Needs serious Mental help- talks about fucking you in the ass and peeling your flesh off your body(with a smile on his face so you think its a joke- small D***-big ego- Owes child support (over a thousand) tickles his daughters in a cringe-worthy way and has been caught playing with in their bedroom- Very insecure- Lives disgustingly- will pretend to be a cleanly person- but one month in and he stops cleaning up after himself(garbage and nasty dirty clothes/wont do dishes or tie-up/take out garbage) PETTY/CHILDISH known to have POF and Grindr- Sex addict- Lies to his family about you if you date him and threatens to ruin your life if you try and leave- then cries when your are done with him- MASTER MANIPULATOR- his D*** gets hard if he makes your cry/hurts you- will rub his semen on your belongings- will invite men/women over to steal your things & have sex on your bed/furniture- Hacks your devices and stalks you>the old IF he cant have you-nobody can-
    Most Relatable to TED BUNDY-JEFFERY DAHMER
    BE WARNED Don’t give him a chance to speak or you’ll be his NEXT VICTIM

  50. Christopher Trent Kaplan (goes by Chris)
    San Francisco, CA

    He seems like an absolute saint at first, as he does lots of volunteer work, has worked for the Mind and Life Institute and currently works as a mental health counselor. Don’t be fooled by this!!! He is actually an incredibly predatory narcissist. A lot of sociopaths work in the “helping professions” so as to have power over others. He is emotionally abusive and very skilled at gaslighting. His dating profile will read like the perfect resume, and he will tell you about how his “crazy ex-girlfriends” have all mistreated him…even though he is the common denominator! He will use you and throw you away like garbage whenever it suits him. Then he will move to a new state where no one knows him and start this behavior all over again. He is a womanizer of the worst kind, in that he actually hates women. Again, he can act INCREDIBLY sweet and kind in order to get what he wants. It’s not real. He’s just an amazing liar. Please take care of yourselves and stay away from this sick human!

    William Thomas Benden.
    FairviewPark, Ohio.
    Knowingly spread STD’s and is a compulsive liar.
    Cannot stop cheating.
    Emotionally abusive.

  52. Victor Cesari – California, New York, and Maryland. Tinder addict. Lover of dirty girls, lies, and massage parlors. Forced me into sex. Acts cuddly like his dog named Bear. Don’t let the dog fool you. This Navy dude is a classic example of an enlisted Navy scumbag. He admitted to seeing prostitutes for blow jobs in his earlier years. He frequently enjoys “hand jobs” at the massage parlor to this date in 2019.

    Thin women and Asian foot massage fetish. Gave his ex girlfriend and I both the same cancer causing STD. He lied about being arrested for drinking and driving more than once, a simple background check confirmed it. He also forced me into sex while he was broken up with his girlfriend. I didn’t know this until we chatted much later. She confirmed there were at least 2 women he would still mess with from Tinder and avoided sex with her – classic ‘Madonna complex’ of wanting the innocent woman for his future wife and his side chick on the side. To make matters worse I was stupid enough to watch his dog while he would visit her. This narcissistic dude has it all – he will take you out for a lovely meal on the first date, tell you how much he wants a “good” woman. He will follow it up with making sure you aren’t dating other men and lock you into a relationship right away. All classic signs of abuse and narcissistic ways.

    He will treat his side pieces like crap – and all because they aren’t educated or good enough for him. Classic example of someone who drives a nice car for show and lives in a shithole apartment. Once he feels he can control you (and want to spend ALL HIS TIME with you) he will eventually pull away and start messaging the “DIRTY GIRLS” like me because the ‘good girl’ is missing something.

    Cherry on top? Once you meet him online you may find an article from his hometown in New York about him saving someone’s life. Guess WHAT? He admitted to writing the article and posting it online HIMSELF! Let’s be clear! VICTOR enjoys making himself seem better than he is. He will manipulate you into thinking he is trying to change and is a changed man! He did drugs and alcohol but doesn’t anymore. The Navy is a bad influence on him. He hasn’t changed – don’t listen. Block him on Tinder, Match, Eharmony. I only hope this is an easy google search for women as a public service.

  53. Nic Frachon. Nicolas Frachon. California.

    This man is a predator. He’s the kind of guy that will throw you overboard on your honeymoon cruise. A sex-addicted psychopath with no remorse. He’s a massive manipulator with the charm of Ted Bundy. His ego needs to take a plunge down to his IQ. There’s not one honest bone in his body. Don’t believe his lies and love-bombing used to lure you in. It makes it harder to recognize the abuse. He’ll make you think you’re crazy, but you’re not. That’s him gaslighting you. Don’t mistake his white privilege. It’s made him not mentally mature enough to care for anybody else other than himself. In reality, he’s inhibited intellectually and knows he has nothing to offer you. Remember, the devil was once a handsome angel. Don’t fall for a fraud.

  54. Nathanial Ramoska. Goes by Nate and Nathan. From Chicago, Illinois. Used to live in Missouri and Iowa for a short period of time. Huge f*ckboy. Likes to hook up with girls and leads them on for months, giving them hope for a relationship some day. While doing all that to one girl, he gets in relationships with another, and then cheats on the girl in the relationship. Uses girls for sex and money. Preys on younger girls (18-20) when he is almost 30. When confronted about his horrible treatment of women, he turns it all around and acts like a victim. He’s a gaslighter. He has the emotional intelligence of a 14 year old. He is also a trump supporter, gun nut, and racist. He even went out of the way to say he’d never date a black girl, and other incredibly offensive things about black people on our first “date”. Likes to tell stories of how his past girlfriends cheated on him, which I later found out is far from the truth. He takes his friends’ experiences and uses it as his own for sympathy. Unrelated, he is a shitty friends and I wouldn’t be surprised if he didn’t have any of his friends left at this point. Will lie and tell girls he loves them to get what he wants, which is sex. Will even go as far as to saying he wants to be in a relationship/wants you to be his girlfriend just so he can get laid, and then immediately takes it back afterwards. Expects girls he talked to to be available whenever it is convenient to him, if not he acts like a huge D*******, which is ironic because he exudes and has SMALL D***** ENERGY. Nathan Ramoska has small D***** energy and tries to overcompensate with this toxic behavior and actions. That is all.

    1. @midnightsun I am a 19 year old from Chicago, Illinois, who was sexually abused by Nate Ramoska when I was 12 years old ( he told me he was 25 at the time ). It has taken me years of therapy to cope with the sexual abuse and manipulation that he put me through as a child. So on top of being a racist, fuckboy, manipulator and gaslighter, you can add pedophile and r*pist to the list. I have even been told by others who were his friends long ago that he would brag about F*cking me (WHEN I WAS A CHILD). And if you dont believe me that’s fine but i have witnesses and physical evidence that it happened. And i was even willing to go as far as to make a police report last year only to be told that the statute of limitations had expired. Please beware this man and spread this information so that no other women make the mistaking of falling for this disgusting piece of Sh*t.

  55. Chris Linkous, Atlanta, GA
    He comes across as charming. Don’t buy it. Don’t believe anything! He claims to have a TBI from a car wreck in high school. This is not true. In actuality, he is a closet alcoholic and compulsive liar. I had to get a TPO against him, which he violated. He was arrested for aggravated stalking and is currently out on bond. His wife just divorced him, so he’s just looking for someone to shack up with and take care of him. He’ll be in love with you within a week. Don’t fall for it!

  56. Rabid Redneck Rapist: Brian Thornburg (originally of Chattanooga, TN) is a violent rapist. Whether he preys on an unconscious young woman at a house party, plots a date rape, or turns psycho on a consenting partner and leaves her bleeding, bruised, and naively confused he will find a way to take it from a woman. His only other approach to getting together with an unsuspecting female is to be entirely fake, “too cool”, lie about 100% of the basic facts of his pathetic existence, and in his “off time” scrounge up some stolen money to support his alcoholism and crack habit. Oh, & he isn’t a chef, nor is he trained in any martial arts. However, he sure can grow a lovely poneytail (gag) and adopt the personalities of the guys he latched onto like a redneck, ass-kissing parasite. He might even buy a woman’s brother a puppy figurine on their second date (Don’t ask me what the hell that is all about. Just enjoy that this truly happened. NOTE: My brother has no inclination to collect ceramic animals nor does he fancy dainty gifts from guys he met (er, was kinda stalked by) the prior week.


  57. Sam Akl who is a Physical Therapist from Brooklyn, NY. He is a very self-entitled narcissistic and controlling prick. He is 43 years years old at the time of writing this narrative.

    He hides behind a mask of generosity and magnanimity, yet the reality belies a profoundly fake, insecure and superficial petulant man child. He is an arrogant douche bag that will attempt to exploit and manipulate others in order to get his own way.

    Sam is very controlling and manipulative dumb fcuk that is whole-heartedly convinced he knows everything and that he is always right.

    Furthermore, he lies and manipulates others to get his needs met. He is a bonafide asshole with dubious values and morals. He will play the role in making you think he is such a “nice guy” but nothing is further from the truth.

    Let me add the fact that he is also a steadfast Trump supporter which should be of no surprise, another malignant narcissist jerk-off.

    Stay from this POS as he has nothing to offer but lies, manipulation and problems. He will attempt to exert his control over you awhile being dismissive and disdainful especially if your opinions or perspectives differ from his own.

    Additionally he will antagonize and act like a toddler if you happen to tell him “NO”. He likes to test and push one’s boundaries and play stupid mind games as that seems to a source of endless entertainment for him. Again, avoid this person as he unbelievably dumb, emotionally immature and a spectacular failure as a person.

  58. Sioux City, Iowa. This man Trevor Wauhob has been messing with my head for a year now. I thought his issue was drinking. Come to find out he is also a player. I found out he is on dating sites such as tinder. He also is walking around with and untreated STD. I would like to post screenshots. Is there anyway possible to do so.

  59. Sebastian Carias Hyattsville, Maryland

    Chronic cheater and user of women. Hides behind the nice guy facade but is really a snake. Uses tinder and bumble for his conquests. Also a high school history teacher who smokes weed. Was dating 3 girls at one point.


    These 2 are chronic liars and thieves. Beware of them on all the dating sites. They seem so nice at first; they are good actors. Sadistic and happy to torture you, isolate you, abuse you.

    ◦Reading the Signs Look for a lack of shame. Most sociopaths can commit vile actions and not feel the least bit of remorse. See if the person lies constantly. Sociopaths are perfectly comfortable going through their lives telling a series of lies. See if they are able to stay eerily calm in spite of their circumstances.

    ◦Look for ‘gaslighting’. Since sociopaths lie and deceive, they tend to make the victim look and feel as though they are the problem that the sociopath is causing. The medical terminology is ‘projection’, and is a calling card of the sociopath. Blaming you for what they have done to you.

  61. Kevin Innerst Chambersburg, PA

    Careful with this guy. When I knew him, he had an uncontrollable addiction to alcohol. He claimed he was going to try to get better, but never sought out proper help to do so. He is not a cruel drunk, but his personality and outlook changes. He’s superficial, caring more about appearance than personality. He cares more about sex than actually creating real connection. If he’s quickly talking about a relationship or a future together… Don’t believe him.

  62. Trevor Stottlemyer Shippensburg, PA

    It pains me to write this. I thought he was one of the good guys. Boy was I wrong.

    Met this guy through a dating app. Definitely under the impression for casual sex relationship. He likes to portray himself as a good friend sort of guy and he can be. And girls… The sex with him is great! Now if only things could have gone for the better…

    This guy has some interesting sex tastes. Nothing unreasonable, but for anyone accustomed to a vanilla sex life, they can be daunting. It doesn’t matter if you don’t express an eagerness in his tastes, he’ll try to wear you down with repeated talk about his fetishes until you’re willing to give in to him. I was worn out and eager to make him happy, so I gave in. I wish I realized what was happening before that happened.

    Now, casual relationships are fine. It’s what I would want to start with, but Trevor blurs the line. He wants to cuddle and give and receive massages, but he does this without coming straight out to talk about his expectations. He doesn’t think about if he’s leading you on… Only to tell you he’s not ready for a relationship.

    He’ll talk about how he can’t compromise himself which is all well and good, because you’d think that means he doesn’t want you to compromise yourself. No. I expressed my need for equal give and take and when I tried to discuss how unfair it was for me to have to be the only one to compromise, he later berated me for asking him what he would compromise so that I felt like we had equal give and take going on. Also, when he began to talk against having sex, I told him that I met him for the sex and if it wasn’t going to be a thing, I wasn’t interested. He then accused me of objectifying him. This coming from a guy that made frequent jokes about wanting to be able to pick up lots of girls and make money off of sex when I talked about him being good at sex. No, if what I want is sex and he doesn’t want that anymore, then I have my right to step away. No matter how many times I tried to explain what I meant, he would remark that I was objectifying him several times after.

    If you can guess, Trevor is a guy that will put words into your mouth. While I would express that I felt he said something one way and ask for clarification, he would immediately claim you meant something you didn’t. And even if you tried to explain yourself, he’d continue to hold his perception against you. You can discuss and come to a decision, making sure he is okay with it, only for him to later bring it up and say you were wrong to decide things to be a certain way. He’ll complain about you to his close friend and rather than discuss with you the concerns, he’ll accuse you of acting inappropriate. Also, while he would put words into you mouth, he would complain if you were the one to unwittingly twist his words… even if you were also asking for clarification.

    Trevor is also a guy that likes to complain A LOT. He’ll complain about his exes, his close friends, his work and how unsatisfying it is, his lack of progress towards his passion goals. From his complaints, you are left with the impression that he doesn’t have supportive people in his life, but if you try to support him, he’ll make excuses rather than take you up on your offer.

    Also, he seems to have a tendency to complain a lot about the things he wants to keep in his life. He complains a lot about his ex from over a year ago, yet will say that he still wants her back. He’ll complain about about his friends, but insist they are good people to have in his life. He’ll complain about work being unsatisfying, but lets himself stay in an absolutely miserable working situation.

    All this despite Trevor being a guy that claims he’s easy going, trustworthy, and understanding. Perhaps at first. But where you think that you can confide in him after he confides in you… Again, he’ll twist your words. I would explain that I have a difficult time trusting people, even if I want to and he’d berate me for not trusting him. But then, as I tried to be more open and honest with him, he’d complain about how I perceived things and pull away.

    So I would listen to him and try to support him as he complainedabout everything, no matter how uncomfortable it got… But when I discussed with him my deepest struggles, he blocked me out.

    This guy said he would not use me and toss me aside. He said he wanted an intellectual connection, but any attempt that could be made was replaced with his desire for sex or (when he didn’t want the sex) rebuking me instead. He is neither ready for a casual sex relationship nor a serious one.

    I won’t deny that I did not act on my best behavior all the time, but I was left feeling like I had no right to stand up for myself or speak my mind. And no matter what mistakes he could make, I felt like I couldn’t make a single one. Then while I thought things were going well, he’d have something to complain about while making me feel like it was my fault.

    I’m posting this because when he decided to end the sexual aspect of our relationship (but discussed remaining friends though he ended that himself immediately), he said he was not interested in sex or pursuing it as he needed to focus on himself. If he if pursuing sex, then he is a liar and a hypocrite. He does need to do some serious work on his sense of self and how to be willing to work towards improving himself before he drags someone else into his mess. He’s scared of what is good. No girl deserves to deal with that.

  63. Cory Allen Keene
    From Port Charlotte Florida . Can be found in North Fort Myers Florida , Thailand , and Japan .

    He is the biggest narcissist . He believes only he has rights to anything . He is entitled to everything . And his words “when a girl looks at me her panties should automatically be dripping wet . Why would they ever want any other man ? I’m the only man anyone should ever want . ”

    He’s a liar and a cheater . He cheated on his ex with me . Lied to us both . Then cheated on me with his ex . Lied to me . I found her clothes . I gave him the benefit of the doubt . I should have just left . That was our first week together . It would have saved me so much hell and mental issues .

    He is a hard core woman beater . He beat me every other day sometimes every day . For anything . I cooked and cleaned and worked all the time for him and he’d immediately take my money for his body building, anime , games , and whatever he wanted . If I wanted anything for myself he’d be angry . If he didn’t have a energy drink he’d beat the living crap out of me . I had a bruise on my face the shape of his hand . He gave me two black eyes at once before . And you know what , he beat me for “making him beat me” and for getting bruises, black eyes, and busted lips . He’d beat me for having to get make up to hide it, he’d beat me for not wearing enough to hide it . He’d beat me for not making enough money because for a while he refused to work . He beat me for being upset he threw out clean clothes on the dirty floor . He beat me for not wanting to have sex or perform on him, until I begged him and told him I was unworthy of his intimacy and he dubbed me good enough for the sexual engagement I didn’t want to begin with . Is that rape ? He beat me for crying when he beat me . He beat me until I apologized for him beating me and meant it . Best ones, he beat me for missing my daughter and family and he beat me for trying to take care of my sick dying father . HE BEAT ME FOR MOURNING MY FATHER .

    He’s a cuck . He needs to fantasize about being cheated on to get off . He’d have me pretend I was screwing other people . He needed me to . Then beat me and accused me of cheating . . .

    I tried so hard to cook clean and at some point make all the money but this is the messiest person I’ve ever known . . . I told him I was trying my hardest and he told me I want good enough . Even threw me through a wall once . As in he the me so hard into the wall a giant hole was left .

    When we broke up he told me how he fantasized about children . he like the thought of him being so much bigger and stronger .

    finally he’s really manipulative . . . he’s an idiot and he wants you to feel a certain way and he will get you there . later you are questioning yourself and why .

    I’m really messed up in the head and it’s been years . if my boyfriend wants to do something for himself , even making a sandwich , I feel like I’m in trouble , or he’s mad and he’s planning on leaving me . dumb stuff . I know it’s dumb but I feel how I do . I can’t turn it off just work on it . . . he rewired my brain , conditioned me , whatever . I hate being a victim . I hate I technically was one . I hate how he made me feel . I hate he wouldn’t allow me time with my father or family . how he’d rage that I was sad my father passed . I hate him . he was awful . and he pretends he’s perfect, he’s convinced of it . how he’s never done anything wrong . oh and real quick he’s a woman hater . he believes girls are cooking , cleaning , sex machines . if a man says something you have no right to say otherwise . when he moved to Thailand he said women there are better because they do as they’re told . if you ask them it they will always say yes . American girls are snobs because they think they have the right to say no . this isn’t even all of his crap . I hate him so much . I’m finally ready to share . so here it is .

    p.s: he wouldn’t let me play video games . have too many guys boners apparently . And he’s always scratching his balls and sniffing . Always . Purposefully not washing his hands so others can be “touching his balls” too .

  64. Andrew (Drew) Ian Tyer. From North Little Rock Arkansas.

    I want to add that he suffers depression, and uses it as a means to step away from the relationship. When he got drunk, he consumed a whole bottle of jack Daniels, bullet rye, wine bottle, and 10 beers in one night.

    I had no idea that he was a raging alcoholic. Mix it with antidepressants, you get a monster.

    He will love bomb you, make you so good and then just discard you. He finds his girls on Instagram, reddit, facebook. His looks are enticing with the nice tats, and nice built body. please save yourself, don’t fall for it.

    I wanted to die from the pain he gave me. don’t go near this man. he will make you feel like youre nothing, he will take away your value and not even look back.

  65. Andrew (Drew) Ian Tyer. From North Little Rock Arkansas.

    We met online. He is a liar, cheater and narcissist manipulator. While we were talking/dating, he told me I was the only one. Little did I know he was fucking multiple woman, ubering them to his house. I live across the states, and so we would facetime/talk all the time. He told me he loved me, while still trying to pursue other woman. While visiting me, he was still messaging woman, trying to set up dates.

    The very last time we were together this march 2020, he got so drunk, that he told me he was fucking multiple women, and when confronted, continued to spew every hateful word at me. He pinned me down, screaming obscenities. He denies ever tackling me, cause I didn’t have therefore I was a liar.

    Even when I showed him the proof of his own actions, he continued to deny it. Saying I was Crazy, that I was making shit up. He gaslit the fuck out of me. I started to even question my reality.

    In the end he confirmed, that I wasn’t the first one, and certainly wont be the last. He had another girl already lined up, and that there was plenty of fish in the sea. STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM HIM. Hes charming, handsome, and knows exactly what he was doing. Hes empty inside, and has multiple girls that he reaches out. He got me good. I loved him, and I thought everything we had was real. We were talking about moving in together, and starting a future together, only to realize he only used me for my attention, and how much I loved him. Text book Narcissist

  66. Watch out for anyone named C. Ogletree. Ask many questions and look in the background thoroughly. This waste of carbon matter makes snakes look nice.

  67. Berge Kata is a manipulative narcissistic asshole. Women beware. After I was hospitalized with surgery he had the balls to tell me i’m on my own and he’s done. He then said when he decides who he wants to have sex with he’ll let me know so he can divorce me. He’s a major lowlife loser who never has money and he’s so ugly with the ugliest dark circles under his eyes. I married him years ago because I was desperate. I paid for everything, our trips, bills and even helped him set up his now failing business because he sucks at managing people and running anything successfully. He’ a moody angry and miserable person. He’s terrible in bed and doesn’t know how to please or treat a woman. He deserves a lowlife loser like himself where they can both live in misery.

  68. Richard Beech , beechardrich – a narcissist or sociopath, still unsure which but it’s definitely one or the other. Have been through therapy to try to re-establish boundaries and regrow self-confidence and self-esteem. He comes across as very charming and presents himself as all you’ve ever wanted, will pursue you, compliment you, text you constantly and tell you you’re his soulmate and he’s never fallen so fast for anyone before.

    For me this changed within months to verbal and emotional abuse. Suddenly I was being shouted at for every minor little thing. It was impossible to act like a normal human around him as normal human statements and questions would result in him shouting or throwing adult temper tantrums. He avidly posts about feminism and domestic violence on Twitter, but would call me a slut, question how much I ate, and insult my appearance in numerous ways.

    Why do I think he’s a sociopath/has NPD? Well the above for one, plus cheating numerous times on his ex-wife because she was anorexic and wouldn’t sleep with him (his words); constant plotting to oust the CEO of his old company and take that job; casually admitting to stealing an expensive guitar like it’s no big deal; chatting up 15 year old girls on Twitter and Instagram; lying about having bipolar disorder, and threatening suicide whenever things weren’t going his way. Genuinely the most manipulative person I’ve ever met (if he reads this I’m sure he’ll take it as a compliment).

    I’m sure he’ll either end up a CEO of a company with awful working practices, or in prison for killing a romantic partner, one or the other 🙂

  69. Michael Scott Thomas, 61, Los Angeles. Uses the name Mike or Don Rust61 in dating profiles. He is charming, charismatic, funny, grandiose, critical, controlling, lying, blaming, jealous, and opportunistic. He will win you over with big gestures and words of flattery and love. He will make himself out to be your hero, do anything for you. But that will change. He stole thousands of dollars from me, writing checks to himself out of my account. Then said it was my fault because he felt he was entitled because I was going through a hard time. He blamed me. He raped me once when I was under the influence of alcohol that he gave me. He will not take responsibility for any of his actions, he will say things that happen are “unfortunate ” and he is quick to get his feelings hurt for very small things. He lied about things all the time. Especially when confronted with a situation. He has almost no close friends, and is very content to sit on his couch all day and night watching TV. His own daughter wants very little to do with him. He has been married three times, do not let him talk you into being number four!!!

  70. Ex BF Nick LaCasse very rude but smallest penis ever maybe 3 inches totally hard premature can last 15 seconds just horrible worst sex of my life and he expected head and handjobs at the end i gave him a minute and i gave him a handjob he came usually before 30 seconds

  71. Ex BF Nick LaCasse very rude but smallest penis ever maybe 3 inches totally hard premature can last 15 seconds just horrible worst sex of my life and he expected head and handjobs

  72. Adnan Shihadeh New Jersey a complete bum and loser who lets his woman pay for all his dates then complains about driving her when she lived only 15 minutes away. He has been fired from every job he has ever had in his life. I dated this guy around mid 90s and swore myself off of dating since then! When I broke up with him he called me screaming at me, flying in a full blown rage, I could hear things being thrown around and glass breaking through the phone. Then he kept calling me and stalking me for over a year. Only reason he stopped I think is because he had to move. He has serious anger management issues and doesn’t believe in having a job. Stay far away ladies!

  73. Chris Pironti Ventura CA

    Stay away from this narcissistic sociopath. He lied the entire time of our relationship and was texting/sexting other girls. Lots of “boys trips” with his married friends that included trying to hookup with girls. He is a firefighter and thinks he is gods gift. He is more like Satan. My Christmas present was him getting drunk picking a fight with me and trying to screw the desperate fat neighbor. The only reason they didn’t was because I came over to his house and we talked. After we broke up he immediately got in a new relationship and had sex with me and tried to kiss me on different occasions. Until I realized how screwed up that was. My mistake.

  74. Christopher Rae Jordan in Simi Valley, California…

    You will think you hit the jack pot with this Fraud of a man. You will think that you two have everything in common, that he is easy going, comes from a great family of “men” with deep rooted family values, and that he was a great dad before his first wife “turned his kids against him.” Don’t believe a word of it.

    What he won’t tell you is that he walked away from his first wife who stood by him for 16 years, and their two boys. Literally, walked away. He walked away because he thought the grass would be greener with another, younger woman whom he thought would wait on him hand and foot. He presented a false self to the second wife who started connecting the dots shortly after moving in with him.

    Know this: he brings nothing to the table. He is lazy, spends no quality time with his kids, is only concerned about sports and drinking, is not cultured, is negative, racist, gives a good impression of knowing a lot of things but doesn’t act on any of it, can’t fix anything, pays his bills late, you can’t depend on him for anything, he thinks cleaning is beneath him, and if you get sick you are on your own..

    He claims to be attracted to strong, independent women which, over time you, will see that is exactly what annoys him.

    You will think you two have a lot in common because all he is doing is studying you and mirroring your interests. If you pay attention to his patterns, it won’t take you long to see that his actions don’t match his words.

    Yes, he has a good job, but that doesn’t mean he’s good with money. He is very wasteful and works a lot of overtime to make up for his indiscretions.

    A relationship with him will have you feeling like the loneliest person in the world. Not at first -the beginning of the relationship will have you thinking you hit the jackpot. IT’S ALL AN ACT! As soon as he thinks he has you, he will do less and less to keep you because life is all about him. If you try to talk to him and express your feelings/concerns, depending on how new your relationship is, he will tell you what you want to hear and then go on doing what he wants to do. If you press the issue further, he will turn into a victim and blame you for not being sympathetic to the made up drama in his life that he caused.

    Also, while you are dating him, you won’t know this, but he will be badmouthing you to his family and friends. This is so that, in case you dump him, or when he gets bored with you (because he will get bored with you), and you two do breakup, everyone in his circle will already be primed that you are the questionable one, and there will be no shock to his circle of friends when you two end. I promise you, YOU will be labeled the crazy one no matter how amicable you think the breakup is, and the reason for the relationship ending will be all YOUR fault. Whatever kind of discussion you try to have with him or his friends and family – no matter how civilized – you will be “crazy.”

    This is also why he dates girls outside of Simi Valley… They are removed from his circle. He doesn’t have to worry about you getting close to his circle. He can control how his circle perceives you. He doesn’t have to worry about you asking question or comparing notes with others. So when he says he’s going to go to a particular friend’s house for a bbq, or to his brother’s, and then tells you, “I would like for you to come, but I understand if you’re not up for it,” take this as a red flag. He truly doesn’t care if you don’t come because he doesn’t want you getting close to his circle. He has to maintain his false front with them as well.

    There is a reason he has two ex-wives. The first wife had kids with him. He’ll say she “neglected him.” She did everything she could to stick it out with him for the kids. There’s a reason the second wife ran for the hills. Neither of the exes ever met. There is a reason neither of them want anything to do with him or his circle. Think about it, the common denominator is him.

    He seems like the best thing now, but the narcissist is in there. He will show himself. And when you try to leave, that is when it will be the worst for you. Spare yourself, and get out now!

  75. Do NOT try to date either Tom Alfano or Vincent J. Cutri, both of whom are located in Oswego County, NY.

    Tom friended me on Facebook and messaged me frequently, acting as though he was interested in me. However, after I sent him a current picture he cooled off right away and a couple of days later Tom started to ghost me. When I confronted Tom on his silence, I was greeted with – you guessed it – silence. So I unfriended and blocked him.

    Vincent Cutri approached me at a local Dunkin and asked to sit with me and even though he said he just wanted to be friends, he acted otherwise. At one point he gave me his number and told me to call him but blocked my number right after that. He went to the local ER without telling me but made sure mutual friends of ours found out so that I would know.

    Vinny made me worry myself sick and did not regret it one bit, blaming his behavior on a medical condition I cannot list here.

    Vinny started talking about how he wanted me to move in with him, travel together and ride motorcycles together and then poof – wanted nothing to do with me. Again, he blamed his behavior on that medical condition.

    Both men are narcissistic, selfish men who only want super-skinny women they can take to bed. Avoid them at all costs!

  76. Hunter Halsted is someone you should NEVER date, no matter how he seduces you or how he acts like he is the most caring sweet person. After almost two years he called me on Christmas Day and broke up with me for no real reason. He then blames his mental health and I promised to be there for him through it but he refuses. Then he blocks me on everything and is secretly seeing his ex. He also at one point attacked me verbally because I said how about we try friendship? I was nothing but kind to him and loving for two whole ass years and he was consistently manipulative and used sex to have power over me and gave me a fucking std and moved multiple states just to be in the town where I go to school and he still tries to remain friends with my best friend like a fucking pervert- he also tried to seduce her at one point while dating me but that is another story. He has one motive and it is to seduce woman, he actually told me it is how he measures his self worth, then when he gets bored he flips the switch and ghosts so 0 to 100 out of nowhere!! Please don’t let him fool you ladies! I know his dark sexy persona can be appealing but it is actually scary and he honestly can be so fucking mean. OH HE ALSOOOOOO broke up with me and then tried to FUCKING have sex with me while I was crying cause he was horny and he was literally laughing at me while I was crying. I also helped him in so many ways and he had the audacity to say to ME that he was sick of taking care of me?????? I was like B**** when? When we broke up he said he would never love another girl again and it didn’t have anything to do wit me and two fucking days later he is going on a date with his ex Res Benn from his freshman year of high school 7 years before- he also only ever called this girl crazy and manipulative to me???? My family took him in when he had no family….Hope him and his ex have fun being sociopaths together and ruining each others lives<33333 If he is single though RUN AWAY FROM HUNTER NICHOLAS HALSTED


    ladies, if you ever come across this sociopath, please run in the opposite direction. He will make you feel like the most beautiful and special woman in the world and then he will drop out of your life with no warning. He will leave you heartbroken, confused and feeling like trash. He also has a crazy ex wife who will make having a relationship with him pretty much impossible. He’s a spineless coward when it comes to her. Please stay away from this Loser.

  78. Keegan ‘Onefoot’ Wenkman, 37, Portland OR, St. Paul MN, Madison WI

    Former co-owner of a printshop in Portland. Uses social media and dating apps to find women. He is a liar, narcissist, manipulator, thief, and an alcoholic. Psychologically and emotionally abuses women. Uses anyone as a means to an end. Will always play the victim and never takes responsibility for his actions and the effect they have on others. Hides behind his art and the tragic artist, hobo, fun-loving persona he has built around himself on social media. Loves to lure women in by claiming to be a feminist.

  79. Stacey C Umberger

    This guy is a hobosexual-Looks for women that he can have a relationship with so he can have a place to live in. Gives you a feel sorry for me story-Abused by his adoptive father (Who was told by a cop to beat him whenever he got out of control). He’s from the Stoddard/LaCrosse, WI area. Travels through out the US. Claims that he’s bipolar. He’s an alcoholic and has no interest in changing his life. I lived with him for 2 days and all he did was sexually harass me, get drunk and lie (I told him that I was just fresh out of a bad relationship and didn’t want to be his girlfriend. I wanted a roommate, not a FWB.). Paid rent to stay there but slowly started asked rent money for booze. I kicked him out after I found out that he was lying to me…Afterwards, he started to show up at my house at random times (He did this on and off for three years). Tried to call the police but he would be gone before they showed up. Favorite places to hangout at are bars, community centers for the disabled, the public library, the mall and bus stations. Favorite targets are poor people, the disabled, women that are not too pretty or cute, Single moms. Has a warrant out for his arrest in Springfield, Missouri. (violating restraining order) Always dressed nicely.

    Also goes by the names of “Spence Umberger” and “Spence Schaefer”. He’s 45-46 years old.

  80. Rodney Graham Louisville KY
    Typical Narcissist. Charms you in the beginning, you’ll think you’ve found the one but its all an act. Once your hooked, the abuse begins. Very subtle at first, criticism, sarcasm, never happy with anything you do. Keeps it all behind closed doors so everyone buys his fake persona. He is a compulsive liar, cheater, P* addict has multiple accounts on adult websites. Drug addict, gambling problem. He works and makes good money but blows it all on drugs and scratch-offs and strippers.. plays the victim and says his exes are crazy B******. Very convincing, but total fraud. He is married and always has at least one to two girls on the side. Gets violent when he is caught lying or cheating. BEWARE

  81. Mike

    I dated this guy for a while on caribbean cupid turns out he was still on the site the whole time while we dated and he had made me delete my profile. He gave me herpes and syphilis. He was always complaining that he needs some money to pay his bills and I like a fool would pay his bills. Then the drama finale is when he moved into my place and was always “working late” so I followed him a few times….yea I know I know. He is NOT a christian, he is a two-timing liar and user. Go to the site and tell him he is an azzh! He needs to learn a lesson.

  82. Patrick Sutton-Coulson, calls himself Paddi with an ‘I’ because he’s a twelve year old girl or something.

    Nothing like most of the awful stories on here but still a little shit. He has a weird taxidermied mole and he sleeps with a toy ferret. Shit was creepy. Text dumper and ghoster. Not interested in women after he’s got what he wants out of them. Not worth the effort.

  83. Miguel angel abrego. Daly City/ San Francisco

    Emotionally abusive, cheater, user. He and his friends collect women and baby mommas like cattle. Once they can get a girl pregnant, it’s hooks in to live off them for their money, car, home etc.

  84. Jeffrey Edwin Ford Santa Clara, ca/oakhurst

    Gay/bisexual on the down low (hides it), alcoholic, adhd/bipolar. One of those guys who is not honest and a user.

  85. Broke up this year. The man in question was previously married. though he was divorced- and he seemed so sweet but had a ton of problems. Please be warned if you are vulnerable as he likes to pick sympathetic women.
    He was great guy if you want a one night fling or something not very consistent. But the major problem is (from a dating perspective) he is all over the place. He loves to talk which is a lure for us girls (right?) but basically talking is all you will get. Girls beware of any guy who wants to keep you talking on the phone at the beginning. I soon learned that he used that to really make you bond with him.And he is not young. He is middle aged now.

    After the talking and the seduction he seemed like a gift but as soon as you feel bonded and deal with all his positive affirmation BS:) that’s all that happens. He has been losing weight and working out since before I met him AM ( before during and after marriage) he was morbibdly obese I realized he just wasn’t relationship material as his whole world was what he ate, how he ate, when he ate – this isn’t a temporary thing where he wanted to lose 20 pounds and then could have a life. What he needed to do, is to have more intensive therapy as his therapy wasn’t working that well- he has spread lies about me cheating on him-untrue- but I did wise up and started dating men who were without all his baggage- (he has huge problems which I won’t broadcast here)
    He is very sociopathic-I know that is bandied about but he will spew verbal vomit on you when he first connects with you- his sad childhood- his weight- his injuries- his awful, terrible life and in most relationships in the beginning- this can be a mutual intimacy building theme- with him it is just unloading- like sex for him- unloading. Mostly, I want to defend myself on here and say I didn’t cheat on him. He lost real interest very quickly why? because there was no room in his life for a relationship to grow, no place with his eating regimen.He was obsessed with himself. He was a man child in the truest sense. He is Tim Fox and lives in San Diego.maybe by now he is ready to have a genuine relationship but when I knew him- no way !

  86. Hello everyone, I have been infected with HSV 1 & 2 which I contacted from my partner since 3 yrs with a lot of outbreak and different symptoms which almost cost me my life.

  87. Chad William Pomnitz Huntsville, AL

    I met Chad Pomnitz on POF. This guys is the worst I have ever experienced! After dating for a while it came to light that he was very addicted to opiates and very deep in denial about them. He will lie to you like a profession con! Looking back, it was obvious something wasn’t right because what 50 year old doesn’t have anything to show for his life. His only son told me that he was a dead beat dad. He is very manipulative, very emotionally and verbally abusive, and a stalker. He stole money from me, he committed credit card fraud against my account. This man’s name needs to be posted anywhere and everywhere possible to prevent other women from being prey to this horrible person!! If any of you have any other ideas of how to help others to know that this is a man to STAY AWAY FROM please let me know.

  88. Dedrick Raymone Johnson: Galveston County

    Dedrick Johnson is a vile human being. He is a manipulative liar that strives off of using others to his benefit. He cannot hold down a job and has absolutely nothing to offer anyone. Dedrick has fathered children that he cannot care for, being that he cannot care for himself.

    In addition to being a horrible human being, Dedrick hits women. He will lie and deny this but several assaults show a pattern of violence against women.

    Dedrick can cry at the drop of a dime but most of his emotion is fake.

    He cannot maintain a relationship because he is a habitual liar and cheater. He does not have it on his heart to be faithful to anyone. Dedrick will claim to be on love with you just to use you. Once he no longer has any use for you he’s on to the next.

    Dedrick is currently looking for a sponsor wife/ girlfriend. Someone committed to taking care of him for the rest of his life.

    He is truly a waste of human being.

  89. Doug Rippe— crown point indiana, manipulative, drug user, left bruises on my body. Claimed he was getting a divorce, never did. Worst kind of person.

  90. Ezra Margono (continued)

    Emotionally abusive behaviors:

    – Stonewalling/ghosting
    – Making you ask for permission to ask him questions
    – Ignore you (calls/texts) and then make fun of you for how you tried to call him and text him
    – Call you names (selfish, uptight) in order to make you be more generous to him and more “easygoing” (aka allow him to do whatever he wants)
    – He would only listen to you after you give into his demands, and even then, barely
    – He would say he wants you to “sleep on it” (a decision) until you agree with him — I pointed out that this is controlling, but he is willing to use these behaviors unless you’re strong/smart enough to draw a boundary

    Finally, he has very little insight into his mistreatment. He constantly says that he “wasn’t nice” but he refuses to recognize his behavior as emotionally abuse and exploitation.

  91. Ezra Margono (from Airmont, NY / Saratoga Springs NY)

    He is abusive because of problems around insecurity, possessiveness, and jealousy.

    If I had a work stint (away from him), he would perform nonconsensual exams because “he didn’t know who I was with” — even though there is no information from an exam that would tell you anything about if someone had any additional partners. I was calling him every day at this time to tell him what I was doing in my life.

    He would blatantly use objects that you EXPLICITLY TOLD HIM NOT TO USE to penetrate you, even if he has acknowledged that they are too large for your anatomy and he had tried to get a refund from the Amazon seller in the past.

    He is also very selfish. If you wanted to do different hikes, he would choose his. If he had the choice of visiting your family or his, he would make you visit his.

    He would also gaslight me into thinking I didn’t pay him for a month of rent, unless I kept written documentation and dates of my payments.

    BEWARE. He is charming and he always says “he didn’t know”, but no person in their right mind would say “they didn’t know” that they shouldn’t do vaginal exams or gaslight people to squeeze out every single dime from them.


  92. Laurence Sotsky Hermosa Beach CA.

    He is a disgusting, manipulative, cheater, liar, narcissist. He uses women to cover up for his massive insecurities. He wears lifts in his shoes, wears a wig, and is obsessed with his looks. His wig is so bad. You can tell it’s fake but he won’t admit it. He has no friends and every girl ends it with him because he cheats and lies.

    He will pretend he wants a kid with you. He will let you pay. He’s selfish. He thinks he’s amazing at sex but half the time his THING is soft and he’s just trying to finish himself with no concern about you.

    This man is so convincing- RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. DONT BE FOOLED BY HIS HOUSE OR CAR!!! He’s broke!

  93. Robert Blanchard, Bobby Blanchard. Orlando, Florida. charming at first. after that, when he needs to be. never takes responsibility or ownership of actions. physically abusive on multiple occasions. mentally abusive. alcoholic, to the point of spending his whole paycheck on it. claims he wants to be poly so he can fuck whoever he wants and not tell you. (if he knew what poly was really about, a big component of that is communication. something he will never do) but, he really just wants to manipulate and use people for his benefit.. really! listen to him talk about all of his ex’s. assume he has at least 2+ other girls on hand, one of whom has been his friend for years. he runs to her when his supply of women has ran out. oh.. has no problem making you feel bad for being a woman. do a court records search on him to see his alleged stalking accusation by his ex girlfriend. he will gladly tell you that he ran from the cops for a year to avoid being served.

  94. Stacy Akin of North Little Rock Arkansas is the most extreme Narcassistic sociopath I have ever met in my life. I only dated him 4 months and he destroyed my entire life, and whatever you do do not let him know any information he can later use against you, because he will blackmail you with it to the very end to get his way, he has a obsession with cheating and you will be accused constantly and if he can’t find anything wrong he’ll just make something up! He will tell you he’s smarter then you, he will be passionate at first but then he will act like he hates you, he will not reciprocate affection and it will make you think something is wrong with you. He will do anything he can to hurt you, never tell him your fears he will manipulate you with them. Verbally abusive is a understatement, he hates woman and he’s about to prove it to you, he has a massive gambling problem that you will fund, he is the worst experience of my life. I wish I could have been warned…Please get away from him. For your own good!!

  95. Michael Anthony Diaz from Brooklyn, NY. He will make you think you have found yourself the ultimate catch; attractive, ambitious, compassionate, believes in love. Whatever it is you want from a man, he will wear that mask. He is an emotional abuser and liar and a cheat. He will never respect you or treat you like an equal. He will prey on your weaknesses and use it to his advantage. Do yourself a favor and get out NOW. Do not listen to what he says, he isn’t and never will be capable of a relationship. His only relationship is with alcohol. He is a major alcoholic on top of everything else. He just hid it really well.

  96. Michael J. Jewett aka Mike Jewett or chitown_15 Naperville, Il.
    46 years old in 2019

    Textbook Covert Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Mike first appears as charming, fun, smart, kind, thoughtful and very sensitive, don’t fall for it. He becomes the person you dream of. He is such a keen manipulator, you won’t see the real him for a long time, or possibly never. It is all about him, and getting what he needs, be it sex, money, praise, or having you do things for him. The real Mike Jewett is mean, depressed, selfish and a pathological lair. He will tell you his ex is crazy or is trying to get him back, etc. It is really him that is using her to make you jealous and control you. Chances are he is seeing someone else, possibly that “crazy ex”, regardless of what he tells you. If you think she’s crazy, you are not going to contact her, right?

  97. Stephen Michael Ross Alias: Steve. Denver. Dated him for 6 years and he is verbally and physically abusive, a pathological liar, narcissist and smooth talking con artist. He has choked me and given black eyes multiple times. I have a permanent dent in my shin from his beating me. Also is very dirty. Urinates in water bottles all over the house and also spits his mucous onto the walls and floors and refuses to clean it.

    Lives off of his mother who he argues with daily. Had to take a restraining order out on him after he was arrested for domestic violence. Went back to get my belongings recently and he stole anything he knew I loved, including my cats ashes. Also called my family to tell lies about me for over an hour while barricaded in his house trying to avoid being arrested. His nice face does make up for the mental, physical and emotional torture he will put you through. I had panic attacks for a month after the breakup. He asked me if I wanted a drill or hammer through my hands. That’s right he threatened to crucify his girlfriend of 6 years who emptied his urine bottles. Please do not date this man!

  98. James (Jim) Keith Kopin, Greater Chicago area. He’ll tell you he lives in Aurora, but it’s a neighboring suburb. Born in 1972 (so 46 as of early 2019). We met online in 2009 and dated until late 2017. He told me he was a Navy SEAL, which I was skeptical about, but he showed me the medal they get when they complete their training, and his story about which team he was on and where he was stationed matching up with searchable online information. Oh–and he’ll give you a sob story about how he has PTSD from a mission where he had to shoot a kid. And he’ll tell you a scar on his cheek is from shrapnel. And if you tell anyone that he used to be a SEAL, he’ll say that he doesn’t want you to because he “doesn’t want people to make assumptions” about him or ask him about “the missions he did” Personally, I doubt he ever was a SEAL. In the Navy? Maybe. He strung me along for YEARS and never gave me his home address because “I had an ex who would just show up unannounced and it freaked me out” and “I don’t want my kids to meet you until we’re engaged”. Yeah, I know–major red flags.

    Due to our jobs, we had weird work schedules and so were almost in a long distance relationship even though we both lived in the Chicago area. Then I moved out of state, but we both agreed to see if we could make it work long-distance–with the stated plan that HE would move to ME when his youngest kid graduated high school. So here’s me driving or flying on a monthly basis to see him. It took me FOUR YEARS to finally get him to drive to me ONCE. Clearly not anywhere near an equal division of emotional labor.

    I finally started doing some online searching and found property tax records proving that he and his “ex” wife shared the same address–and not in the suburb he said he lived in (“My name is just on the mortgage so my kids can live in a better school district.”). I also found his “ex”‘s employment website and her bio that listed him as her “college sweetheart” (“She works at a religious school and could be fired if they find out she’s divorced.”), and his “ex”‘s Facebook page with photos of the two of them together looking decided NOT divorced (“I had to go to the wedding, and also her co-workers were wondering why there weren’t any photos of us together.”). Interestingly, her page is no longer visible–so I don’t know if she deleted it or if she somehow found out about me within the past year and blocked me. Regardless, I demanded to see his divorce papers. Don’t know how he did it, but he had what looked to be an authentic document–complete with notary public embossed stamp. So I stayed with him for another year until I finally realized that I had lingering doubts about his story and he STILL wasn’t budging about giving me his home address.

    I finally told him in December 2017 that we’d run our course and it was time for us to part ways. The look of shock on his face was, in retrospect, highly amusing. I’m sure he figured that he had me hooked forever–and with me out of state, there was little chance of me bumping into him “in the wild” or of me coming into town unexpectedly. He spent the next several months texting me from time to time (which I would sporadically and tersely answer), but once I was out from under his spell, his gaslighting ways become very apparent. Finally when he wished me a happy birthday along with “If it’s weird that I’m texting you, please let me know”. So I told him that, yeah, it was–and he BLEW UP! Unleashed a super sarcastic, snide email which I didn’t respond to (I hope my silence drove him nuts). Don’t ask the question if you don’t think you’ll like the answer. We haven’t communicated since, and I don’t plan to.

    Sorry about this turning into such a novel, but I’m trying to alert you to all of his excuses, stories, and behavioral traits. Oh–and he’ll want to take intimate photos and videos too because “my ex was super uptight and never even wanted to wear lingerie”, and he’ll pout if you have reservations and ask why you don’t trust him. Never mind that he’s the most walled off, two-faced liar EVER.


  99. Joe D Tyler from San Diego, CA age 37

    For legal purposes, all said here is what happened to me and how I remember events as they occurred. .

    We met on the dating app, Bumble, and before our first meeting at Disneyland he had said everything a woman wants to hear: said he’ll take care of me financially, that he was ready to have a serious relationship, and was looking for a long-term relationship that would lead to marriage. After our first meeting, a month into the relationship, he proceeded to ask for money for Uber rides and food. Because I already had feelings for him, and believed him when he said he would pay me back when he got paid, I helped him out with those things.. The amounts exceeded $200.

    He didn’t get me a gift for my birthday…. instead I had to meet up with him in Las Vegas, using my own travel points, while he was there for work and he considered all his expenses on himself for room and board as expenses on me, when he had reserved the Airbnb to be there for work to begin with. He gaslighted me many times when I asked for him to pay me back, called me a “user” when I was the one who paid for majority of our date tabs. He would drink extensively and is an alcoholic in denial. He also told me he has used cocaine in the past. He is the epidemy of a leech type of man who would pressure me into surrendering my debit card at bars and he told the bartender to keep the tab open when it was my card. He would order 3 or more IPA beers each time. Usually I had to drive him because he was intoxicated either before leaving his house or when we needed to leave a restaurant or bar to go home.

    Even right after the 110 mile commute I would make to visit him, he would be drunk and ask me to drive so I had no rest for my legs. He would one moment be nice to me, then the next accuse me of things I didn’t do. He had me engage in rough oral sex that caused me to vomit and now I have gum issues. I tried to say it was too much but I was also afraid of making him angry because he has a temper. When his birthday came around, I was expected to get him a gift and paid over $100 in food and beverage expenses on him when I earn close to minimum wage in retail. My annual income is at poverty level. I don’t mind paying my own food and drink but always having me pay for him also ruined me financially when I was already on a tight budget before meeting him. Remember, he didn’t get me a gift for my birthday and had me travel to him for it. I always drove or road the train down to San Diego from Los Angeles but he didn’t once visit me in LA. Originally, I wanted to be the encouraging girlfriend and I tried so hard to make things work but he emotionally abused me with accusations and belittling my intelligence when I have a masters degree.

    I felt trapped by his guilt trips and gaslighting statements saying I didn’t really love him and saying if I did I would go down to San Diego right away to see him. It was a very one-sided relationship where I made all the effort because I did have true feelings for him but he was taking too much from me. I am broke. He lied to me over and over and kept me in his control for 6 months by using emotional abuse tactics like turning his commitment flaws in our relationship, into my own. My efforts of buying a new car to drive down there, see him whenever I had a day off, pay for majority of dates, and having sex where only his orgasms mattered wasn’t enough for him. My dad is dying from his recently diagnosed cancer also, and Joe still guilt tripped me saying I should drive down to San Diego if I loved him when I had to take care of my dad these past couple months.

    I finally ended it after multiple attempts at getting out of this emotionally and mentally abusive relationship and his failing to visit LA instead of me visiting him again while I needed to tend to my father’s terminal illness. I am the nicest girlfriend ever, and he reels in a nice girl like me by telling them he is well off so they can feel like he is ready for marriage and starting a family. I’m 30 so I am at the age where I feel ready to find a stable partner. Once he had me, he didn’t want to have those things anytime soon. He can’t even commit to being Facebook friends with his girlfriend. My genuine feelings for him were manipulated for his gain.

    I stayed so long despite obvious red flags because I was afraid of the consequences of making him angry and also to prove I loved him despite his many flaws. It hurts even to write this because I had true feelings for him but he is a companion with whom one can feel like you are no longer yourself anymore. He forced me to watch videos he liked too but didn’t allow me to show him entertainment I liked. Everything was about him and I was close to losing myself forever.

  100. Roger Pate from Indianapolis, In. Will gradually try and take more and more control of your life under the guise of wanting you to improve yourself. Really its wanting you to do what he wants regardless of your own thoughts and feelings. It will get to the point where he is telling you where you should work (where he works), and where you should send your kid to school, regardless of where your kid is currently and how well they are doing there. Constantly demanded for oral sex to be preformed on him, even immediately after I broke down and told him I had been sexually assaulted years ago that way!
    Would say he was excited to move in together (which we didn’t, thank the gods) and start a life and family together, then if I did something he didn’t like, such as not give him his way completely he would become dismissive and detached for awhile. Like he was trying to punish me. I see now he is completely emotionally immature and cowardly.
    Stay away for your mental and emotional well-being!

  101. Cameron Burrell Bradley, San Diego, CA. For legal reasons, the following is my OPINION based on my own experiences, and is true to the best of my knowledge

    Biological father murdered his stepmom and died shortly after. Brother diagnosed with bipolar. Planned to kill self (got taken away by police on 72 hour lock down and tazed in own bed), threatened to kill/stalk me (police report filed/police escort offered twice), put fist through a door, throws / breaks things, tore up most of childhood photos in a fight with his mom, gaslighter (does negative things and doesn’t believe you when you try to talk to him about it), manipulator, major control freak, plays mind games / manipulates your mind until you have no self confidence left, another ex girlfriend couldn’t even say her own name when introduced at parties after a while because she was so torn down by his games, jokes about sleeping with your family members, threatened to break up if I didn’t meet a literal list of standards that most people I know could not meet or if I talked to my family for too long on the phone, did not work 90% of time, his mom was provider of living expenses/school bills/ tickets, I was the provider of nearly all other costs (groceries, meal prep, pet supplies, items he wanted online), did not even help me carry in groceries I bought for us or open a jar most of the time because he was “busy” playing video games, plays video games all day and tries to make you do both the tasks of the man and the woman, will say to your face, creepily, smiling, “I don’t give a F what you think” even if you are crying / distraught / trying to maturely problem solve a real issue. A major let down. Do not date at all costs. F ing crazy. You will be disgusted with yourself and lose years of your life. Is super nice and charming at first (charms and talks his way out of lock downs and getting meds he needs from therapists), so you might not believe me until its too late. He might say I wrote this because I am crazy. Your call. I have nothing left to gain or lose by this, just trying to save a fellow sister from going through the same pain I went through.

  102. Jim or James Metzenheim. He is from Fort Lauderdale and currently lives in Port Orange Florida. Imet him on Tagged the dating site. We talked For one month before we moved in together. I should have known better since he was living in a men’s shelter for alcoholics when we met. After living with me for two weeks he got kicked out of my condo and because I wanted to be with him I moved out myself. By January which was five months later I was $31,000 in debt and really nothing to show for it! He is a crack addict and an alcoholic and is high maintenance beyond words. He is a user, a manipulator and the only person he really cares about is himself. He exemplifies narcissistic personality Disorder!! And of course the addiction and the alcoholism were hidden from me until only two weeks in the living together. The man knows Nothing except how to use and take until there’s nothing left to give.

  103. Scott Francis Carrig Beverly Hills Florida. Beware! This guy is a master manipulator, Alcoholic, Cheat, Lier, Smooth Talker that will lure you in with pretty words, make you dinner, Set the table with candles, Make you Steak and Bacon wrapped Shrimp ( Seems to be a speciality of his) all to lure you into his bed. This guy can’t even get it up, but will grope you till you just want Scream! He’s into sick sex and gets angry if you don’t want to play along. He prefers to call it making love, he says he doesn’t like to call it sex. This guy is in his mid 50’s but acts like 24! He is after money and if he finds out you don’t have any, he’s on to his next victim. He will take anything he can get from you, and while he is texting and calling you, sweet talking you with the baby and honey, be assured he already has another lined up he is saying the exact same things to. Ladies, he is a master at game playing.. a Player above Players! He isn’t good looking, but thinks he’s God gift to women. He drinks everyday at a bar in Crystal River Fl. He passed out drunk at my house while his phone was ringing off the hook with his newest victim besides me. He will tell you he’s a one woman man.. flavor of the day is more like it. This guy cannot be trusted as far as you can pick him up and throw him. He rides a Ducati motorcycle and has a German Shepard dog he doesn’t take care of. If you catch this guy in a lie he will look you right in the eye and tell another lie to try and cover… If he sees your not buying it he becomes violent and will threaten you with “I’m a Marine”! He’s a low life piece of crap that will abuse you physically and mentally. He’s had felony’s in the past for abusing and stalking women, including his ex wife and next door neighbor.

  104. Nicholas Esler (Nick Esler) from Duluth Minnesota.

    I first met Nick on OKCupid. He said he was in an open marriage. I feel disgusted, betrayed, and violated. Nick is, to my knowledge, still dating or trying to date most of the polyamorous people in Duluth. DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH NICK ESLER. He is NOT someone you can trust! He will lie his face off… and the worst part is, he’s good at it. You will never know you’re being deceived until it’s too late.

  105. Jeff Taylor lives in Chicago area now from Boston. You will meet him and ‘fall in love’. He is charming, cute, claims to be so sensitive. He will pull you in but he is a classic narcissist and possibly sociopath. If you look up those characteristics you will see he fits. He will date you, maybe claim to ‘love’ you but tell you how messed up he is do to his divorce. You’ll want to help him. He doesn’t care. He is drawn to attention. I’ve lived it and actually have been contacted by ex girlfriends who have said the same. Makes you feel stupid when you think you have the connection with him only to find out he has done the same to others.

  106. Joshua Hammett of Columbus, Ohio. Went out of way to meet me, put in an immense amount of effort to get to know me, begged for weeks for a first date. Once he got that date, he seemed to be smitten. Called whenever he could, made copious amounts of time to visit… you know, the usual idiotic “in love” man actions. Then, one day told me he HAD to see me…. I agreed and when he walked in, immediately asked me to be his girlfriend. Of course I said yes! Things were nice for a while… then he started dodging calls and ignoring texts. Okay, I can take a hint. I asked him what was going on. He said he was just busy with work… okay, cool. Fast forward to my birthday… he literally goes MIA for four days. No call, no visit…. nothing. So, I’m assuming I’ve been ghosted. K… thanks for the wasted time/emotion. He finally calls and he sounds TERRIBLE. He’s been sick with “the man flu”. Okay, so this disappearing act goes on, so I just call it off. He flips. Says he loves me, yadda yadda yadda. Then I notice hes all but disappeared from my social media. I do some investigating and his Facebook hasnt been touched in a week, but his ig is hoppin! Awesome! One girl in particular is liking everything hes posting and I see hes doing the same. I follow her and she immediately contacts me saying shes his gf and has been wondering who I am………………….. Hold on…. you’re his WHAT?! We start talking and realize we like each other and do more digging. THERE WERE FOUR OF US. ONE OF WHICH WAS A LIVE. IN. GIRLFRIEND. So, I go to his work to ask and he (with a straight face) says he doesnt understand what the big deal is. He should be able to see different people to see what he wants, and that itt wasnt like we were official or anything…….. uhmm he had met my parents and my child. And didnt he ask me to be his girlfriend? Tell me he loves me? Make these beautiful future plans for us? Long story short, he thought I was nothing and didnt matter at all. He did this to at least one other girl in the group. I just wish I knew why. Why lead me on? Why lie? AND HOW IN THE HELL CAN YOU HANDLE MORE THAN ONE WOMAN AT ONCE??? DONT YOU KNOW HOW DIFFICULT WE ARE?

  107. Jeremy Berg of clovis, ca is a HORRIBLE boyfriend. Tells you everything you want to hear, but then behind your back to EVERYONE ELSE talks mad crap about you, making every one think he is stringing you along which makes the girlfriend look like a fool. He is very charming, and funny, and generally seems like a great catch, but he will make you fall in love with him, then break your heart, over and over again. I was his longest relationship. 7 years i put up with him, along with his yearly break up thing, in which i was left devastated every time. He will also turn every situation around to make it look like your fault, though its not. He is very good, RUN AS FAR AS YOU CAN NOW. He makes for a great friend tho if you keep him at an arms distance. Can also get somewhat physically abusive, not real bad tho. Just RUN

  108. TJ Urglavitch
    Location: Pennsylvania, Dallas, Colorado

    He is manipulative. Will say he has feelings for you, will also make up fake emergencies, and then just disappear once you are good and emotionally attached. Current age 33, but turns 34 this year. Appears normal, but likes drama and over exaggeration.

  109. Ruby Heart, aka Matt Wysocki,
    Age 31
    Originally from Michigan, spent several years in Los Angeles, and is currently spending time in Florida.
    I don’t even know where to begin. This man is a compulsive liar with circular logic. He got me pregnant and promised to be there, but never was, and one day began trashing my things and trying to get me to leave our home (while I was pregnant with nowhere to go) He even dumped my makeup drawer into the toilet. He ended up putting his hands on me and getting himself arrested, and that was the beginning of the end.

    The utilities were in his name, and he had a previous bill (from before we moved in together) of $1100… he never paid the bill while we lived together, and when he moved out the electricity got shut off and they would not turn it back on unless the entire balance was paid in full. Of course, he refused to pay it or even talk to LADWP, and did not move somewhere where he needed to get electricity in his name… Forced me to pay almost $2k in electric bills.

    He later lied and said something I did or said caused him to stab himself in the leg and get 30 stitches, and that he contracted HIV from me… (this is all a lie… I tested clean when I got pregnant, and again recently, and if he did get stitches his recovery time was remarkable…. I’m not sure which is crazier–this actually happening, or lying about it happening)

    Ruby/ Matt is also almost always on cocaine or some other drug. But usually cocaine.

    Says he hides 10K in “paintings” but it’s actually prop-money. He got the idea from me when I told him about Piero Manzoni canning his feces and selling it for the weight of gold.

    If you meet him–BE AWARE!!! This man will ruin your life. Always keep him at double arms length.

  110. Catholic women, be aware of this man, he pretends to be a devoted Catholic that attends church daily, John Schafer, San Juan Capistrano, Orange County. He immediately wanted to be my boyfriend, and when I didn’t want to go to his house he was upset and stonewall me.. He is not an honest person and goes after Catholic women. Be careful, she seems he has slip personality disorders.

  111. Jeff Scott Arnold of Pflugerville, Texas. He is 43, has two teenage sons and works in IT at Trend Micro. I am sharing this in the hopes that if you meet him online or in person, you RUN as fast as you can in the opposite direction. The only woman, if you can call it that, who puts up with this deceitful, shady, manipulative loser, is another deceitful, manipulative loser – a morbidly obese, video game and fast food addicted, pill popping, alcoholic blob named Stephanie Lewis. Do you remember the humans from the movie Wall-E? Well, two of them appear to be alive and well in Texas,

    Please take my advice and jump off this crazy train while you still can, because it’s headed for a cliff.

  112. James Baskin
    DFW Texas
    Age 55
    Cons: Emotionally distant, unsupportive and unavailable; Deeply money oriented (everything is about money), narcissistic behaviour, intense gaslighting, sexually inept, too adventurous sexually, borderline physically abusive, verbally and emotionally abusive, always has to be right, and have the last word.
    The story: I started dating it a year after it was dump by its ex who then got married after she dumped it. It WOULDN’T stop stalking it’s ex… Stalking her FB saying she wasn’t married… I wanted to give it some closure, and I found the marriage records, and that her FB was updated with her new marital status. He says it’s been hacked and that’s not hers and that she didn’t get married… So I left the subject alone. It was always emotionally distant, and didn’t want to be near me unless it wanted me to “help it out”. It can be a charmer and acts almost Human, don’t be surprised if suddenly it “loves” you after only 3 days. That should have been my warning… But alas, I failed to heed it. I was with it for over 2.5 yrs… It promised to marry me, and after I dug up the fact that it’s still married to its “ex-wife” it did it’s gaslighting bit and said it never said it wanted to marry me. That should have been my second warning. I was devastated, but I stayed… We had fought quite loudly average it, and it had told me to leave and never come back, so i took all my belongings… And I lived in my car for 3 days in the middle of winter, before it begged me back, saying it didn’t mean for me to leave… Anyways, to make a long story short…ER… Lol… It’s only worried about how much money it makes… he will pay for everything, but he’ll only keep you so that you’re available for its “need”, your needs as a human are not regarded.

  113. Frank James Ramirez Jr of Dallas Texas, 42yo Hispanic/white…What do you get when you take the over inflated ego of a philosophy professor, the condescension of a prick who thinks he’s ALWAYS right, roll that up with the unmatched sense of entitlement one has when one suffers from “affluenza”, throw in just a smidgen of a Napoleon complex, and then make him a raging I.V. heroin addict? You get THIS guy, Frank, aka Dino, aka Sarge. This guy likes to treat girls who leave the safety, comfort, food, and warmth of their HOMES to sleep under a BRIDGE with him, like shit. If they get a “smart mouth” with him, he likes to pop them one, and yell at all the other homeless people that he has no compunction about hitting a B**** in the mouth and if they have a problem, take it up with him. He gets chicks strung out on heroin, and if they piss him off, he withholds drugs so they get sick as punishment. He doesn’t mind handling random people’s urine in order to pass his drug test at probation(which he is on for stabbing his ex in they thigh on the train), and he supports his heroin habit by stealing HUNDREDS of dollars worth off merchandise DAILY from stores all over Dallas. He also enjoys telling girls that he loves them, making a BIG deal out of how he wouldn’t say it if he didn’t mean it, making her feel like shit every time she questioned his authenticity on the subject, and telling them that they both need to go to detox so they can get straight and get to be together forever, and he can be a better provider for her. After detox(which SHE had to do COLD TURKEY, without ANY meds to ease HER discomfort) his mommy said he could move back in, so he did, never speaking to the poor, dumb, girlfriend again. The last thing he said to her was the night they were going in to detox, he smothered her face in kisses, told her he loved her, held her so, so tight, and told her he was proud of her. What a piece of shit.

  114. Jon Davis aka blucifernyc aka blueyedbanditt aka blueyedboy from New Hyde Park, NY (long Island). He sleeps with all women but he is a white male who prefers black women. Sex addict, pathological liar and master manipulator. PLEASE PLEASE protect yourself from his lies and deceit and stds, he will sell you the world and cause emotional turmoil and then walk away. He practices unsafe sex with random women constantly. He frequents dating apps and websites POF and Okc are his favorites. He is married with 2 children and will use them to get close to women as well. He is broke and can offer nothing but pain. He is mentally ill and addicted to sex run away as soon as he approaches.

    1. OMG he is the worst PLEASE ladies save yourself the aggravation, he is definitely the devil in the flesh. Jon Anthony Michael Davis. He also says his name is Chris, Anthony and other names. He is a supreme liar. He is on the sites hard as blueyedboyss or some variation of it. He has bad teeth and vapes all the time. He will ask you to go to sex clubs and to give him threesome sex. All of this while living with his wife who is aware of it but still lays with him. It is a complete horror show. Drives a chevy equinox and he is a painter. Run the other way

  115. Dave Pettitt from Nottinghamshire, UK – Is a narcissistic abuser. He will make you feel like a million dollars then gradually psychologically and emotionally abuse you – chipping away at everything he made you feel, gradually making you feel worthless. He is 44 years old and has never been single. He is on his 2nd divorce and since I left him 6 months ago, he has dated several women, bringing them back to our marital home, visited “Thai bride” websites, seen prostitutes, and tried to have an affair with a married woman at work – all while trying to get me back!! Watch out for this one ladies – he’s sly and cunning and very mentally damaged – but like all good narcissists comes across as charming and like he’s got it all together! Beware! He HAS NOT changed and he will do the same to you. You only need to see 2 sets of divorce papers saying the same thing to know I’m speaking the truth!

  116. Lorne Rogers from Edmonton Alberta Canada is a master manipulator and will bleed you dry of your money.. I took him to court and won. He owes me over $20,000. and hasnt paid a sent. He used my credit card without permission.

  117. David Partain, he is in gulf shores al but can be found in jackson ms area. Uses ex girlfriiend crystal marie fox homan to help manipulate and con others. He is a pathological liar and narcissist. He will play you for anything he can and lie about everything. His favorite thing is larger women with big breast. White or black. But he will take advantage of anyone. When he is finished using you, he will not even tell you he’s throwing you away he will just disappear. Cuz he’s too big of a coward to face anyone he’s the biggest weasel I’ve ever met and sorry excuse for a man and the girl that hangs around him Crystal, the dark headed girl that has buck teeth and her gums show, she is overweight loud obnoxious and has tattoo sleeves and she believes that he loves her even though he’s used her and his scams for many years. David partain is Handsome and charming, he will make you believe anything that comes out of his mouth just beware you will regret it if you get into a relationship with this man.

  118. Robert D Shettles, best friend is KaLynn Mayo, living in madisonville, tx, both from Mississippi. Beware, they are a lying, 2 faced duo. They were together under my nose for 3 months, as well to add he cheated on me with 2 other girls. I left for what was supposed to be a few days, he was sleeping with her, KaLynn, that night.

  119. Drew Scofield aka Andrew B Scofield lives in Arbuckle CA. He preys on women in Yolo and Colusa county and maybe further out. Years ago, he reduced my BF to an emotional wreck. It took her a long time to get over how he treated her…and I just found out he did the same to the woman who came after my friend, even though we tried to warn her off. So it’s beyond time to out this assh*le.
    He is a total player who comes off charming and has money to spend because he lives rent-free in his grandmother’s house. He thinks he is a big shot almond farmer. He doesn’t care if his targets are married or single b/c he is looking for pussy, and as much of it as he can get. He will tell you anything you want to hear to get to you and keep you available for sex. No matter what he says, he is damaged goods, incapable of sustaining a real adult relationship and at some point will go back to his player ways. He shows a woman a good time, to show off. Nice dinners, fancy seats at baseball games and meeting up at the casinos is how he charms the ladies. His looks are OK and he is physically fit. What he won’t do is ever be honest with you about who he really is. He is a drug addict, and he has bedded and played more women than you can imagine. Dozens at least. He will lie about using protection with other women, he will lie about who he was with and how often. He believes he can know if a sex partner has an STD or not just by looking.
    If he targets you as a long term prospect, some of the charm wears off. My BF used to call him a belching farting no good SOB. He does favors for his women and drops cash on them to buy them off for putting up with all kinds of rudeness, emotional distance, being late for everything and generally treating others like crap. When he starts to get tired of a girlfriend, the verbal and emotional abuse starts up. You’re supposed to be grateful for his money and his favors and never call him out on his bullsh*t. If you get him mad he will explode with anger and call you every name in the book. He will turn things around so that nothing is his fault and everything is you. Near as I could tell he was not ever a physical abuser, but given what he will do to you emotionally it almost doesn’t matter. He has zero honesty or integrity though he will demand that from others. He pulls off this hypocrisy really easily because he has no feeling for others and even fewer emotions. His life is all about getting what he wants….and that means his entitlement to use women for his own pleasure. Outwardly he has a lot of swagger and self confidence. He is apparently good in bed and proud of it. If you actually fall in love with this guy you are in for every kind of heartbreak. The woman he screwed over most recently (the poor dumb thing blew over five years trying to make it work with him) was depressed and so clingy-needy…easy prey for this jerk. He does not care about you no matter how much he makes you think he does…know that you are being manipulated. Deep down he knows he is a piece of sh*t (and doesn’t care) but will whine all the time about how no one respects him and how bad people treat him. He totally works the “oh poor me” thing. But if you want to see him come out fighting, call him on actually needing to be a man and keep his word and treat people with respect. He has used sites like Plenty of Fish and others in the past to hunt women…if you catch him at this he will deny he ever meets up with them. I’ll wrap this by saying that I heard his last girlfriend dumped him after finding texts from seven other women he was screwing (unprotected) behind her back after swearing he only had safe sex…after the time she returned from a trip to find another woman’s panties in her bed….he “never touched that woman”. Ladies, you’ve been warned.

  120. lance roane, is a sorry piece of crap, used my friend, moved in with her family didn’t pay rent, for food or give anything towards the house, got her pregnant and when she had a miscarriage he left her to deal all by herself he has no house of his own so he goes from chic to chic if you see him RUN he’s in md so beware he smokes weed and drinks until he passes out he’s good for nothing

  121. BEWARE of Bruce Bryan Jr,, Bruce Lyle Brian JR, Bruce Blacksheep, Bruce the Blacksheep, Tn,,,,,,

    Multiple DUI’s in Sumner, Davidson and Rutherford counties in Tennessee
    Theft over 10k in Davidson County Tennessee
    Failure to pay Child support on one of his kids in St Johns county Florida (he has 2 kids)
    Failure to appear on the DUI and Domestic Assault in Sumner and Davidson County County
    Convicted of Felony in Tenessee
    Ex DJ for radio stations in Florida and Tennessee

  122. Douglas Bosworth- Burning Man, Sonoma County, Mojave Desert, Los Angeles. Family in San Diego Very Dangerous. Extremely controlling and delusional. He is very talented and extremely manipulative. Likes to hold a girl against her will, choke hold, break one’s phone when she tries to call for help. Forces a woman to work against her will without pay. Takes her phone & takes car keys so she cannot leave. Locks her in the house with him while he verbally and psychologically terrorizes. Verbally abusive, psychologically abusive. Likes to do very dangerous things while you are driving. Leaves women in financial ruin. He lies constantly. Lies about his “Ivy League” education. There wasn’t one. Nothing that comes out of his mouth can be trusted. He lies constantly. Cannot be trusted with paying back loans or following through with financial agreements. Two strikes, three DUIs and Grand Theft, Burglery charges- many Domestic Violence Charges. Loving drunk turns into Scary Drunk if the winds change direction. Has no care for anyone but himself, blames everyone but himself. Cruel beyond anything I have seen of another human being up close. So delusional about reality that you think he actually believes it. Destroys lives.

    Michigan Allen Park, Taylor, Ecorse, Detroit, River Rouge, Lincoln Park, Georgia, Mississippi and more

    He is a woman beater and to the fullest extent. He will punch a womans face until it is unrecognizable and steal from you. he is a horrible drunk and crack and weed addict. He is good at charming someone male or female to get what he wants and once he does he will con you from money or your home and is violent with a history of cheating.

  124. MessageAnthony Vacchio-currently in LI, New York. Serial user and emotional abuser. Not capable of feelings of true love. His typical type is overweight women who have good paying jobs, and places or houses of their own. He reels you in by telling sob stories about his childhood and how mistreated he was–mind you he is a grown 44year old man. Then he will be as sweet as pie, will buy gifts, tell you how you are an angel sent from above. As soon as he gets a place to live-in your home- he will fix it up to earn his keep and will stop working for money. He may go as far as marrying you to convince you of his love, but BEWARE he will leave you dry and gasping for air! Has handfuls of victims. Protect your heart, your soul and your wallet!

  125. MANUEL FRED TORRES aka FLACO from FRESNO CALIFORNIA is nothing but a loser deat beat dad he has 4 kids from different females. A criminal background with Two strikes and is a Sexual Offender he has to register as a SEX OFFENDER!! Doesnt have a job or car. BEWARE LADIES OF THIS TATTOOED ALL OVER THUG WITH A RIDICULOUS BACKGROUND THATS LURKING IN FRESNO …..

  126. Brandon Harvey Warren, MI Oxford, MI Rochester, MI Pontiac, MI
    Lazy, looking for a sugar momma and a free ride. He finds someone new every 6 months to sponge off of. He cant and/or wont get a job. He talks to women like they are dumb. He is arrogant and cocky. Beware. Also goes under the name Damien Christian.

  127. Brian M. Beck, Dayton, OH
    Very cute, adorable, funny and charming but don’t let that fool you. He’s rapid cycle bipolar, an alcoholic (been thru rehab several times, hits the bottle again days after getting out) and displays paranoid behavior. Brian is very good at lying and manipulating. He will put words in your mouth, accuse you of things you didn’t do or say and twist your words around to use them against you. He will trick you into believing you and he are in a relationship–then when you fall for him (which is his goal), he will push you away and tell you it was never any more than a friendship. He tires of women quickly, usually getting “involved” with several in a year’s time. He will not want you to have sex with anyone else, yet he will **** other women behind your back….and lie about it. Every bad thing that happens to him is everyone else’s fault, never his. Everyone is the Bad Guy, he’s always the “victim”. He will want you one day, then kick you out of his life the next. Brian is very unpredictable, due to the rapid cycle bipolar disorder. You never know how he’s going to be from one day to the next. He will cheat on you too, no matter how good you are to him. Has to have another woman in the shadows, then he will start a fight with you so he can chew your ass out and run to the other girl. Then when he’s tired of her, he’ll search you out, wanting to be a part of your life again….and again….and again. Brian isn’t a monster, he’s just definitely NOT relationship material. My advice is just don’t get involved with him, do not reveal too much of anything to him, do not talk or associate with his friends/family, take all he says with a grain of salt and keep your distance and your guard up at all times around him. Sad, but just trying to save you all the pain and heartache I went thru with him.

  128. Mike O. Jones, Roanoke, Va
    He is a liar, plain and simple. He a gambling addict and a loser and he’ll gamble away his entire paycheck and go after yours. He claims to be a man in integrity, but you’ll soon find that he is a user. He’ll try to use you until there’s nothing left.
    Don’t let him, I got out when he started asking me for money and not smalls sums either. He had the nerve to ask me for $500!!! and then got pissed when I said NO!

  129. Shane Boudreaux, New Iberia, La be careful when you try to break up with this guy because he will literally try to break you. When I did he pulled a gun on me (such a real man) and proceed to throw me around like I was a rag doll or something. Don’t worry ladies, cops were called and he was arrested but not before I got a few punches in myself. This was years ago but I needed to let everyone know. He’s nuts. Unlike other people on this page (post #266) I actually dated this guy, I didn’t chase after him pathetically wishing for me then try to blast him when he rejected me. Sorry boo boo, but suck it up.


    Lured me in with his sweet and charming ways. Made me fall totally in love with him. Called all the time, took me out and then just disappeared. Comes to find out that he recently got out of prison and has been in and out since 2005. LADIES BEWARE! He will suck all the life out of you and then move on to the next victim!

    Below are just some of the convictions. He also has several misdemeanors which include Family Violence and Resist Arrest:




  131. Jacob Bell Lafayette La. Ok ladies time to fill you in on Loser. He has an incredible way of charming women but he lies. He cheated on his long time girlfriend so many times she finally dumped him. He told me he has always wanted to be with me and after I slept with him he goes and sleeps with my best friend. He has slept with his friends girlfriends. He thinks every girl wants him. He tells everyone he owns a sporting goods store but his daddy is the one who owns it. He only makes $15.00 an hour. He is such a loser he is 28 and lives at home with his mother, he is bipolar, he is a pill junky and he has a very small penis. Stay as far away from this piece of &*%$ as you can.

  132. Michael Gijsbertsen. Ede, Gelderland, NL (Netherlands) – if any of you ladies go here, becareful of him. I’ve dated him off and on for the last two and a half years, and he has lied, cheated and manipulated me. He has tons of female friends, and makes time for them, but never you. Flirts with all of them, out in the open and then denies anything is going on, even when he’s been found out. DO NOT trust him, you will fall for his sweet and charming demeanor and then, you will find out that he’s scum and end up heartbroken.

  133. Eoin Sheehan Dublin Ireland. Told me he loved me and wanted to marry me so we would have sex, gave him my virginity and the next day, he told me it wasn’t anything serious and couldn’t be because he is 22 and I’m 15. and now I have an STD, and he was the only guy I’ve ever been intimate with.

    1. Gareth Grehan – You fuck over your friend in real life then precede to slander him online. This is despicable, but then a lot of things you do are. You should off at least picked a less obvious username.

  134. John Michael Treppard- Chattanooga, TN area- AKA Mike or Michael. Ex drug and alcohol abuser and counselor (got fired for sexual harrassment). Liar, abusive, Sex addict and Bisexual cheater. He Thinks hes better than every woman and pretends to be all sweet and Gentleman like but once he gets you, he cheats with both men and women, calls her out of her name (anything but prefers CU**) Emotionally/Physically abusive.. He likes short skinny redheaded women with VERY little boobs & cute feet. (teenage looking women).. NOT worth ANYONES time.. Oh, and he throws childish temper-tantrums when he doesnt get his way or when hes called out on his actions.

  135. Toby Passauer Cranbourne Australia. Cant stand his own company, moves from one girl to the next yet still ‘visits’ his exes whilst with current g/f. Liar, cheat and user. Believes he is superior and will leave you feeling like Crap. Doesn’t have the guts to end long term 4 year relationship to your face, will simply send text message and move on to next girl.

  136. Leotha Anderson, Peoria Illinois. He is abusive, controlling, manipulative and a big pothead, worst of all a thief. He will steal your heart and your money. He will tell you tales of his hard life, make you pity him, accuse you doing stuff that he is actually doing and kick your teeth in if you confront him or try to leave him. BE AWARE this man is crazy and will ruin your life. NOT WORTH THE AIR HE BREATHES.

  137. Eric Afful. He acts like the sensitive type, but he’s really a jerk. He shows up late–if ever. Basically, he has no regard for your time and doesn’t bother to call you on a regular basis. After I broke up with him, he continued to text and call me for months. I didn’t respond until two weeks ago, when I finally had enough of it. He claimed that he missed me, still loved me and apologized for what he did. I told him that it would take a lot for him to get back in my good graces because I didn’t trust him. He said that he would do whatever it takes. Well, guess what? No follow up from this guy, which I expected anyway, but it is yet another example of how men never keep their word and like to play games.

  138. Bill Maynor. He sweet talks you, treats you nice, and then goes off and says I can’t be in a relationship, but can be committed. Then leaves you when you’re at your weakest and gets into another relationship with a girl. He is NOT worth the time.

  139. William Gannon aka William Cooper – after 16 years of marriage and 2 sons he remarried, took HER last name to run and hide from child support. Yea – and his mother doesn’t speak to him to this day (this happened in 1989) she talks to me tho – haha that says it all. You changed your last name and your mother won’t speak to you? LOSER!! CHEATER!! LIAR!!!

  140. Chris Perrott. Known Alias: LucasWolfox, luciusheldfether, thantusgrimfist, PSN: L_W_F. He’s a gentlemen at first and what every girl dreams about but he will romance you for a few months and then stop talking while he romances someone else. He will blame you saying you don’t trust him, you forced him to cheat and where smothering him. He is very vain and constantly thinks of his self image in that he will only do the ‘right thing’ at anytime if he thinks other people will notice. For this reason he will not breakup with a girl because he’s truly a coward and doesn’t want trys to desperately make up exhausts to his friends and family why you are a bad person. He will not breakup because he doesn’t want you to think badly of him because he is simply looking for different girls to add to his list. He is also secretly bi but is completely afraid of what others will think of him but will use girls as his cover!!! He will romance a girl to take home to his friends and family as a show to cover up the not so credible girls and guys he’s dating on the side.
    Be careful girls he’s a very smooth romantic talker but knows what he is doing and so say to have you fall for him. He thinks he’s a honorable guy and always do the right thing but he doesn’t and is really a true coward. He is even willing to abandon his dog he’s had since a puppy for ten years so he can not have responsibility. He will say it’s because he truly cares and it’s for the best. That’s his favorite line but who would do that to there dog?! That’s how much a slime he is.

  141. Gary – A bald, fat ugly looking man with no morals or sense of responsibility. Disguised as pleasant, caring, and loving you will think that he is a nice person when you first meet him. But you only get a few weeks that is how long it takes for him to become unable to repress his true self any longer. He subjects a person to anger, emotional and mental abuse. He will rank you on the bottom of his priority list. When you become emotionally involved with him, he will show his true colours. He is the type of person going around telling his mates that he is so brave and intelligent but truly he is a male pussy. If there is any problem he backs out, because this man does not love anybody for who they are but for pleasing him.
    Trash mingles with trash, that’s why we didn’t get along after awhile because you are trash, and I am not. Grow up, grow a pair and settle down with a broad who is at the same low class level as you and has no shame.

  142. Dan Shell, Cincinnati, Ohio- is a sociopath who abused my friend of nearly thirty years. She is physically disabled, and was living in The same apt. building as this monster. To make a long story short, they ended up together as a couple, and he used her financially due to the fact hew was too lazy/high to get/maintain a job. As his drinking/ drug use got worse, he began beating/ assaulting her in every way imaginable. my friend is no angel; never was, never will be. But no human being should ever be treated this way. Scared, lonely, and in a new city, she made the mistake of befriending then falling in love with a “person” who used her in every way he could, and left her with physical/ emotional scars that will never heal. He is unpredictable and violent; a pathological liar.

  143. lee d a ups driver in modesto calif a maried man with five children, a childrens football coach and all around seemingly nice straight laced man who is a habitual cheater. he lures women into his truck for sex. he talks crap on fat people but is screwing a five hundred pound chic on hhis route . an all around ass who needs to be found out.

  144. Luke Paxton, Cleveland, Ohio. Pathological Liar. May be a sociopath. Is a drug addict and liar. He was the worst thing that ever happened to my life.

  145. Shane Lane: Alias: Shane, Hercules Tampa, Fl;Ocala,FL;Albany, GA – I was with this man for 7 years. We had two children together and were married. He cheated on me with a man for money and lied to this man telling him that he was gay and that he wasn’t married and didn’t have any children. He is an abusive, controlling alcoholic and unless you don’t want friends and don’t care if you ever talk to your family… DON’T DATE THIS GUY!

  146. Shane Lane: Alias: Shane, Hercules – I was with this man for 7 years. We had two children together and were married. He cheated on me with a man for money and lied to this man telling him that he was gay and that he wasn’t married and didn’t have any children. He is an abusive, controlling alcoholic and unless you don’t want friends and don’t care if you ever talk to your family… DON’T DATE THIS GUY!

  147. Steven Ellis…Sumter, SC. This bastard beat the hell out of me. I was only 13 years old when he started to physically abuse me, it didn’t start until 8 months into the relationship. It went from a push to a slap, and then one day he just snapped and broke my nose and blacked both of my eyes. He chased me around his apartment with a knife threatening my life. He slammed my head into a counter multiple times and bashed my face into a microwave so hard I cracked the plastic part of the door with my face. I took his ass to court with a blackened and bruised face and all I got was a temporary restraining order, no justice for me. It didn’t him away of course and I made it clear he was not welcome in my life anymore. He got to the point where he was obsessed and still is, he is still stalking me after 5 years. So girls, if you are smart you will stay clear of this woman beating prick, no relationship is worth risking your safety and I learned that the hard way…

  148. Travis Deshotel…from Sumter, SC. We were together for almost 2 years and at the end of our relationship, I got knocked up. Him and his B***** mother basically begged me to get an abortion multiple times but even though I thought about it I knew I wasn’t capable of doing it so of course I was planning on having our baby (I was 17 at the time). Well when I was about 7 weeks prego (also the day before my birthday!) I had a miscarrige, which wasn’t a surprise from all the stress and hell I was going through. He wanted to have sex with me THE SAME NIGHT I MISCARRIED OUR CHILD, I should’ve run then!!! Finally exactly 16 days after that he broke up with me and wanted nothing more to do with me, while I was still miscarrying our child…what a fuck head! Girls, stay away he is a loser and a mommas boy…I think it was her that pushed him into dumping me. He is a liar, manipulator, and lazy pot-head LOSER.

  149. Darick Gayden

    This guy is a jerk. Stay away from him. He cheated on his dying wife. He drinks like a fish, but states that he is a man of GOD. He did and will not honor the state of marriage because he is Mississippi jerk.

  150. Bruce Lyle Bryan Jr…..AKA BRUCE THE BLACKSHEEP OR JUST BRUCE BLACKSHEEP HE IS AN EX DJ OUT OF NASHVILLE TN FORMERLY FROM florida. This guy is a predator the preys on women that may be older than him and are able to support themselves,and he seems to target single moms. He came into my life presenting himeself a guy that just had bad things happen to him, and after I helped him get them straightend out we got married….then he told me he wanted us to have sex with other people. He is also an alcholic and cannot ever hold a job. He has schizophrenic delusions but when diagnosed refused to take medication and beat me almost to death. And could not understand why we would not get back together after that. I have bought him a jeep which he was to pay, but then defaulted and hid the jeep. I had to file bankrupty to protected myself. He wants older women to use their money while he is out with the younger ladies behind your back I found out too late. He is always running from florida child support enforcement from a daughter that he has never seen,and also has a son down there that he has nothing to do with. He stole from me, lied to me, used me and took everything he could from me. He even tried to tell people that the bruises he had on him from me defending myself, were where I had started attacking him, and he had no choice but to get me off of him. He is verbally abusive and was mean to my children but tried to convince me the children were lying about it. RUN AWAY FROM THIS MAN HE IS DANGEROUS…he also now has a felony record along with everything else in Nashville tn public online records. HE TORE APART MY FAMILY AND MY LIFE

    He was engaged then cheated on her while she paid his way through school and paid for his brand new jeep. She broke it off with him and he ended up marrying the girl he cheated on her with. That girl knew he was engaged too! Well long story short, after he gets married he starts contacting his ex again says he loves her, wants to hook, and whenever he drinks he gets bitter about the whole thing! WTF! I want so bad to contact his wife now and say “you knew he cheat on his girl with you, you really didn’t think he would cheat on your ass”! Women come on!! Once a cheater always a cheater!! He was always lying, contacting his ex-girlfriends. He was looking for someone with money. Family wealth. He needed the image. He was all about image. He would tell you what to wear. He was even physically abusive at times. He seems nice. Everyone loves him but he is quite different behind closed doors. He is cheating on his wife. He is bad news! Stay away from this manipulative creep.

  152. Brian Lee from poughkeepie ny. If I were you I would stay away from him. He may come off as a great guy like all men do but let me tell you he is far from it. Any boy that would cheat on you while you were pregnant with his baby. Send you into per-term labor due to stress. Have our daughter 2 months early, have to have an emergency c-section and have a 4lb 2 oz baby girl you can’t bring home till a month later is no man at all. Then to top it all off leaves you 2 weeks after Christmas with 4 kid’s. no money, bill’s up the ass, no job cause I was caring for a sick baby and find out he left you for yet another chick. He is no man. Than for two years straight he claims your children who he never supported on his taxes and takes the money to get things for his new apartment and to buy a new motorcycle is no man. Then he keeps coming back to you saying how much he wants to make it work out and then plays you like your a fool. That is no real man. Now he really want’s nothing to do with his children at all. He takes them maybe once every 3 or 4 months if that. So yeah if I were you I would stay away from him. He is nooooo good

  153. More about John Charles Burtis Jr., Hyde Park New York also forgot to mention he has cheated on every single woman he’s ever been with including his ex-wife. He starts cheating with a woman then leaves his current girlfriend for the girl he cheated with. He’s done it every single time and he will never change. He’s a real piece of work…and that’s being extremely nice.

  154. John Charles Burtis Jr., Hyde Park New York. We were together for 6 years and I found out he’s been cheating on me for 5 of those years. He’s a pathological liar, a serial cheater and physically abusive. Do Not Go Near Him!!!

  155. Jeff Morser, from San Diego but has resided in Jacksonville FL, Tulsa OK and Bloomington IL. Ladies, do not go near him. He is definitely a guy who seems too good to be true, and he holds that image for awhile, but as the old saying goes, anything that is too god to be true probably is. He definitely was!

    He told me he did not believe in pre-marital relations and then cheated on me with his hussy undergrad co-worker! He made (at the time) probably three times more money than I did, yet he was always complaining of being broke and insisted that I buy his groceries! I did (I know, I know) because he had gone through a divorce (which according to him was 100% his ex-wifes’ fault. hmm-mmm) and I felt he was probably financially strapped afterwards. I had to take him to the airport once and, because I work nights, I fell asleep that morning…but I still got him to the airport on time! I even still got him there early! And guess what? He called me that night and yelled at me for it!
    PLEASE do not go near him. He is a liar, a cheat and will only be interested in you for your money. BEWARE!!!

  156. Sean Chavez-Akron,OH-when we were together he tell me he loved me but i’d also find “dirty” conversations with other girls on his phone and when i left him and moved on he and his new girlfriend started harassing and stalking me and when my new boyfriends brother told him to back off or there were going to be problems he tried to make me out to be the bad guy. Also he wont do anything for anyone unless he gets something out of it generally in the form of money or sex. He’s a complete jerk who can’t be trusted.

  157. Steven Henri from Bellevue, Ne. I met this piece of work through a mutual friend of mine. Steve came off as very sweet and caring, he had the good looks and all of the right things to say. We were together for about 6 months, everything was going fine, and we had discussed moving in together this spring. Well, right before Christmas, he broke up wit me because he had been secretly talking to his ex and thought he still had feelings for her. I should have saw the warning signs that he was trouble, but I really wanted to believe that he was different. About 3 months into the relationship he started to let his nice guy mask slip, and started to show that we was very narcicistic. He constantly talked about how great he was, and began to imply that he was better than me in all aspects. Keep in mind that I am in graduate school, I have a higher position in the company I work for, and I make more money. I implied that he was beter looking than me, even though whenever we went out, all of his friends, guys and girls would talk about nothing else but how attractive I am. He was vey competitive and hated to be challenged, he was never wrong no matter how wrong he really was. I he has a good story, he will try to gain your sympathy and get you to lower your gaurd by telling you about the tragic deaths of two of his siblings. He will sweet talk you, and buy you a lot of cheap shit claiming that he likes to ‘dote’ on all of his girlfriends. Then out of the blue, he will tell you that it isn’t working and dump you leaving you absolutely heartbroken. I found out that he does this to everyone he dates. He will date them, make everything sound like it is going great, and then just dump them. Be warned, this guy is nothing but trouble. If there are any girls out there that really think that they can change him, just remember that he will never be capable of giving you love, because he is too in love with himself. The only thing that will change after you date him, is how you view men all together in a really negative way.

  158. Jerry Dvorak from Houston, TX. This warning is basically for black women since that’s what my ex is into. At least for now.He’s moody,selfish, verbally abusive, liar, and cheater.

  159. Reed Barrow (Sissykrystal)from Everett,Wa. OMG he was such a great guy, warm caring and considerate. Reed was someone I thought was the catch until I had him stay and watch my home while I was away on business. I returned home sooner than I told him and it was late so I quietly entered my home not to wake him, and to my surprise he was in the bedroom with the stereo loud and standing in front of the mirror dressed from head to toe in the most outlandish little sissy girl outfit I ever saw. I think he was in as much shock as I was, and when he tried to explain he just made it worse by telling me and showing me he wears real pampers and plastic pants under his petti too. Give me a break I’m not going to be a mommie to a grown man. Unless your into very! sensitive guy’s I would avoid Reed all together.

  160. Aaron Wray from WhiteBluff, TN. I dated this guy on and off for 3 and 1/2 years. It started from when I was 12 and he was 14 till I was 16 and he was 18. He was my first bf and being with him almost kept me from being able to ever have a normal relationship again.The whole time we were together he never met my parents, we never went on a date, were never physical (not even a kiss), never talked on the phone, or anything that normal coples have or do. He told me he loved me all the time and broke up with me regularly because he wasn’t “good enough.” He made me think that our relationship was normal so when I got the chance to date other boys I didn’t know how to act with them. He cheated on me repeatedly. He thought he might be gay and I still stuck with him. And finally he broke up with me because he just didn’t love me anymore. Since then he’s repeatedly tried to get me back. Stay away from this jacka**! Nicknames or Known Alias’s: A-ron, Double A-ron

  161. Dominic Ruffino
    Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Dom, Minicky, Dominoe, Click
    Last Known Location: Vanleer, TN

    Watch out for this one! He comes off as the perfect guy. He’s great with kids, he can cook, sing, play guitar, he’s funny, sweet, loyal, and gorgeous, but it’s all just a cover. He started out as one of my best friends before we started dating. We had to break-up for unforseeable reasons, but it wasn’t till after that things started going down hill. He told me how much he wanted me then started dating another girl. He dumped her and we hooked up a few weeks later. After that we started being fwb’s. That was on and off. we almost had sex a few times. He started “talking” to another girl over the summer, hooked up with me during that. Hooked up w/ another chick while we were out together after he’d spent the whole day at my house. We split because i wanted more and he wanted to be single. He split up with all the other girls to date some new girl. He cheated on her with me. When people started finding out, he said I made it all up and lied thru his teeth. She ended up cheating on him and the happy couple is still together. we are no longer friends, we went from talking on the phone for hours everynight to barely talking ever. He used me repeatedly, betrayed our friendship, and turned into a cheating womanizing, player. Look out!

  162. Gareth Grehan from Ireland. He lies. He hurts everyone and says he cares. He gains me trust, and acts “gentlemanly” then he starts malicious arguments to break me down. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, then 2 days later rips my heart out by telling me he wants nothing to do with me and that he never loved me.

  163. Jerry from Georgia. Where to start. Cyber stalking alcoholic meets paranoid Christian Bale wanna be. Will live off you for free, take all your money, and then claim it’s all your fault. First week I met him I said on the phone that he was sweet and he said No I’m not sweet I’m an Asshole. I should have listened, he knew best!

  164. Aztec from conyers. He drinks he smokes he curses he farts he snores and if that’s not enough he’s a lying piece of crap. I gave him 2 kids and he’s trying to ruin my life. Asshole.

  165. Ryan from Michigan. Seriously he has emotional probs and is a master of manipulation. He uses fear to try to control women. Have broken up with him several times he always manages to get me back by crying and getting his way, not this time!

  166. ” Dr. John ” Chiropractor
    Met this “Doctor”…not. He was a CHIROPRACTOR. yeah, ok, not the same thing. I have a great chiropractor and I know the good ones are wonderful but this still is not the same thing as being a “Dr” . He was using that to be deceptive. He was ok at first, I thought he was normal. Then one night he came over to stay and he takes this huge gun out and puts it up to my throat. !!!!!! So scary. I told him I needed his help to get something out of the garage and I got him to go out there. He thought I was walking behind him and as soon as he was down the steps and in the garage I threw his duffle bag w/ the gun * I unloaded it first and threw the bullets out* out into the garage and slammed the door and deadbolted it. He was really mad. I said Get the Hell out of here or I’m calling the police now. That was the last I saw of him. What a freak~! Then his WIFE ( didn’t tell me he had a wife either) started calling me. I was like Look. You need to get your fake Dr. husband to a REAL Dr. fast because he is a total head case. I changed my number. YUK!

  167. Free Loader
    this free loader will come on to you so smooth and like he’s just so in love with you. Calls every few minutes to every hour, even at work always has time for you, blah blah blah. Until he gets in your pants. Then it’s “Hey what can I say the new has worn off”. Hm. But the new didn’t wear off my money did it you took over a 100 grand and sure didn’t mind sticking around for all the benefits. He has a habit of saying all the women in his life past and present are crazy. I could give you a list of all his ex’s and ex wives who he says are crazy. He even says his Mama is crazy. Shame on this Free loading asshole and I hope the rest of his hair falls out and I hope someone does to him what he did to me. I hope someone cleans out his bank accounts steals his stuff and takes advantage of him and his family in every single way.

  168. Frantz Jean also known as Rick or Ricky from Miami, FL.

    Well ladys here is the King Kong of adultery lie’n and stealing .He won’t take care of his own kids 4 by the way … he sucks in bed and he has multiable my space moco space and blackplant accounts just for the simple pleasure of messing with what he thinks is the lower speices So women watch out for this smooth talking rapper wanna be rat b*stard thanks have a nice day

  169. Billy Lee from charlottesville,va. He is an alcoholic with a charming personality. But dont be fooled he is a jerk. Will be at bars every night,no phone call . NOTHING

  170. Terry Ross. He never says he doesent want a relationship, but never answers that he does. He gives you just enough information to keep you on the line. He refuses to commit after 1 1/2 years of dating. By now he knows how attached you are to him. He sleeps with other women and has some way of making it all ok…after all he is a good man. He maintains a type of mind control and seduction over you and treats you with a mild neglect. He calls just enough to give you hope. He screws you, screws other women, screws you…after all its okay because you know hes happy being single.

  171. Lonnie Ernst from Salt Lake City. He is a free loader that makes his way through life using women. He does not care who he hurts to get what he wants. It is probably your money. Claims all his exes are crazy.

  172. Nick Billings. Calls all the time at first. he goal is to make you feel real special. He tells you how much he loves you after week one. He wants you to pay his bills. When he finds out he can’t freeload he drops you and picks up another girl in a matter of days.

  173. Trevin Wallace Barber from Palmdale, CA. If you think Trevin is such a “Godly” guy and cute cuz he looks like nick jonas then i beg you to reconsider. He is not as Godly as he appears but is a violent CHEATER, HYPOCRITE, LIAR AND FAKE.and hed make a horrible father. youve been warned.

  174. Paul Mijatovich also known as Pablo from Melbourne, Victoria. This guy is a jerk! He ain’t my ex (thank god) but he is a woman beater, manipulator and is iscolating and alienating my best friend from everyone who cares about her! He is a pot smoking, no hope loser who is so controlling, my friend is scared not to answer his phone calls! It’s beyond a joke. Be warned ladies this guy is the real defintion of a controlling male. He deserves a good beating himself if you ask me!!

  175. Jeromy Coleman from St.Paul , Minnesota. I was married to him less then a year. He is in the Navy and moved to Oaklahoma City after he moved back to the states. I was to move down there with him and my 2 kids but, He told me not to. He didn’t even want to see me , talk to me, text me …. or notihng. Come to find out… He had been cheating on me. Saying I was cheating first. He is smooth Ladies. He is sweet, loving and has a past but, he will use you to get what he wants, Lies, has his father lie for him. If you meet him….. runnnnnnnnnnnn away fast. He will take all your money, and use you for sex. He is really full of himself and can’t stop looking in a mirroer or whatever. Watch out for him. He has always been a cheater and a user.
    Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Jer Bear, Bear

  176. Eric R. Crosby — Alright weman…… Truely stay away from this one. He loves to have fun, drinks alot, parties…. ok as a friend but please beawear of the truth. I was with him for 6 1/2 years. Known him now for 9 years. He has 2 kids and one with speacial need. Wants nothng to do with him because, as he said it….. I can’t handle the fact he is retared!!!!!” Yes he really said that about our son.!!!!!! He lies about everything. Cheats on every woman. You think your special….. in his phone…. he calls every womean a booty call.!!!!!! He doesn’t see his kids, doesn’t pay nothing to me, and will not talk about his kids. He will use you and lie to you about anything and everything. You will ask you to marrie him in about 3 weeks time. He talks mad crap about every woman. He say’s I love yu to get in your pants. He does cheat. and, He is always right. Stay away from him. Any woman out in White Bear Lake Bar places can tell you what I say is true. Stay away from this a-hole!

    Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Big timer, Thumper, big daddy and E-roc
    Last Known Location: White Bear Lake, Minnesota

  177. Scott Todd Perlman
    Run! Do not walk as far away from this abusive ex husband& deadbeat dad. A very “small” man in EVERY way. I guess that’s why he feels he must bully and control those unfortunate enough to believe his crap! He’ll alienate you from your friends and family. He’s so beligerent that you rarely can go to the same place twice with him because he makes an ass of himself with his loud aggressive ways. You will have no self esteem left when he’s done with you. His talent is that he’ll have you believing that “you” made him act this way so it’s your fault. He’s a deadbeat dad who continues to enjoy the priviledge of having a chiropractor license even though he’s many thousands behind continuing NOT to support his kid from a prev. marriage. He lies to courts about his income to avoid having to pay and claims he is on poverty level income! He demeans his little children til they don’t even want to talk on the phone to him. Yet rather than try to improve his relationship with them (stop controlling, bullying) he blames me for being a bad mother. This man is a cancer walking among us. If there were any real justice he’d be in jail where he belongs. He claims to be holistic, the only thing holistic about him is the “holes” in the verbal diarrhea that he spews whether you want to hear it or not! Nicknames or Known Alias’s: “Dr.” Scott. Last Known Location: Marietta,Ga

  178. Thomas John from Wooster, OH. Also known as TJ. I have had two beautiful children for him. i have also had my credit destroyed by him. he now has another child by someone else and does not see his son unless i ask him if he wants to see him. I HAVE TO ASK HIM!!!! Hello!? He drinks and may even have people watching me. He knows what i do. Where i am at etc.

  179. Robert “bob” Beasley from columbus, ga. He’s not my ex. he’s the ex of my good friend. he lost his job locally and couldn’t wait to move back home (to his mom’s house) he told my friend he was trying to find work and the whole time he was packing to move. he told her he had tried to get work at a place she referred him to but they weren’t hiring. that was a lie, her manager had already contacted the owner of the business who agreed to hire him. the manager called a few days later to say the guy never showed up. the worst part for me was finding him on the plenty of fish website. ( i didn’t know it was him) i sent her his picture and told her when she went to columbus to visit to see if she could find this guy for me. i finally had to call her on the phone to find out why she wasn’t answering me and that’s when she told me the picture i had sent was him. what a creep. his profile said he had recently transferred to columbus (he was fired from his job) everything he told her was a lie. i wanted to sign up on the website and trick him into meeting me and that’s when i was going to give it to him good. my friend wouldn’t let me do it. she said liars always reap their just rewards and he wasn’t worth the oxygen it would take to even speak his name. ladies in columbus georgia be careful of this creep. and for you creep, i hope your life turns out miserably.

  180. David (last name unknown) from Oklahoma City, OK. I didn’t actually date this dude or anything. He tried to get into my panties, but I told him that I was not physically attracted to him, and that we could only be friends. BIG MISTAKE! Description: Short, chubby black dude with child-bearin’ hips & corn rows. You could show a movie on his wide ass. Goofy face. Works for the city. Drives a red car. Currently lives with his Mama (big surprise… NOT). The Scoop: SCRUB to the max, liar, possible pothead & gambler, human crazy-glue, incredibly stupid, overly dramatic, corny, wanna-be player. DO NOT LET HIM IN YOUR HOUSE! Once you get him started, it is hell getting rid of him for good. Will show up EVERY DAY unless you scold him. Says he’s a “loner”, but you’d never suspect that, judging by his needy behavior. Tell him you’re not sexually attracted to him, and he’ll say “OK”… BUT he’ll keep trying to touch you, and even touch himself! (He tried to masturbate on my sofa, right in front of me!!!). Makes up lame, transparent stories about how many women are chasing after him (Riiiiiiiight), in order to make it seem as if he’s “in demand”. Asked me how much money I had, on several occasions, and implied that he wanted to go to Lucky Star casino. I made the grave mistake of buying him dinner a few times (he bought dinner once), and after the 3rd time, he expected me to foot the bill EVERY TIME. One morning, he showed up at my house (after keeping me up all night, watching a movie till 4 AM, and he FINALLY left) and he was in a funky mood because he had just bought a new tag for his car, and he was complaining about the price and throwing the paperwork in my face like he expected me to do something about it. Almost always showed up near dinner time for his freeloading meal. Was always asking if I had any liquor in the house. Very bossy, at times. Would tell me (not ask me) to get him some water, soda, etc. Stole some money from off of my coffee table (he asked me if he could borrow “a dollar”, but scooped-up about 4 dollars worth of quarters when I wasn’t looking). Can’t keep his damned hands to himself, and the word “NO” is not in his dictionary. STAY AWAY FROM THIS PATHETIC EXCUSE FOR A MAN!!! He’s a Grade-A LOSER.

  181. Paul. I met this guy online, through the Sex Addicts Anonymous Yahoo group. He is, supposedly, a recovering sex addict. Right after I joined the group, he began to send me perverted emails. A few weeks later, he lured me into Yahoo messenger, where he became extremely hostile & abusive when I refused to cyber-sex him. He called me a “C******”, accused me of having AIDS and all sorts of other things, just because I wouldn’t give him what he wanted. He is in his 50’s, I think. Has short, curly gray hair, is considerably overweight, wears glasses, and he’s in the real estate business. WATCH OUT!

  182. Alan Abbott or Buck, from Winder GA.

    Well prince charming turned into a pathalogical liar and a crook. Not to say his sexual games with others ended our marriage before it ever got started good. He owns a welding shop and has all of his family kissing his rear so he can do his dirty little secrets. It is scary how this man thinks and acts. He has many pending domestic violence cases open throughout the state. Well what else to say but BEWARE OF SHORTWELDERS WHO HURT WOMENDOGS

  183. Jeffrey Weeks from Chicopee, MA Takes advantage of women ($, emotions, whatever he can get), user of human beings, has mommy issues / may hate women altogether. Dead inside. Is perpetual bachelor. Has issues about being manly because he is a pretty boy. Vindictive, sneaky and a cheater. Immature. Superiority complex. Terrible in bed, completely selfish.

  184. Andrew Kenease also known as Andy, from Indianapolis, In

    I’ll try to keep this short. First off i only knew this guy for a week. He automatically decided that i was his girlfriend without asking me. By the end of the week he’d told me he loved me, and was asking me to get an apartment with him. He gave me over $200 to ‘buy my firendship’ and by the end of the week he was telling mye i was fat, and how worthless i was. and worst of all. he date raped me. and i became pregnant. i have a beautiful baby boy now who i love dearly. but now i have to have a daily reminder of that one night. and i think the bastard needs to some how pay for it. I know he’s had to do this to other people…he picks girls who are wulnerable and maybe need serious help and/or just had a recent bad break up, and starts trying to control them immediatly.

  185. Duane Hannah (Bluesdady) from West Virginia Only wants someone to take care of him! Is an alcoholic that doesn’t believe that he has to work. Believes in his heart that a woman should do everything, work, pay bills, clean house, cook, etc. while he sits and watches dirty movies all day on the computer. He thought something was wrong with me as I did not share his beliefs! Big ole looser girls, I should have known better.

  186. Aaron Smith from Gainesville, FL. We were together for 3 years and have a womderful daughter together… 3 months ago we both decided to have another baby. I got pregnant right away. 2 months into it he decides he isnt feeling it anymore so we are splitting up… and get this… before we officially ended our relationship he went off all night and slept with someone else, how’d I find this out? Found the condom in a cup in his car…. great right? No I’m pregnant and alone when it was supposed to be us growing our family.

  187. Ernie Gurke
    This is a dangerous psychopath, alchoholic and druggie who gets his kicks out of sadistic acts, violence, lies, manipulations, and making fools of everyone – he will say anything to get what he wants and steal and throw away everything you have to hurt you. Watch out for your kids and friends, no one will stand in his way. sweet talk will soon turn to physical violence. Depraved empty man who will steal you blind. Weak little man who cares about nothing but himself and how he will get his next fix. Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Ernie, Ernst Last Known Location: Whitehouse Station, New Jersey

    Nicknames or Known Alias’s: ERNIE, ERNST, Last Known Location: READINGTON NEW JERSEY

    He says he has friends on the police to deter you from calling the police when he is violent or threatening. CALL THE POLICE. get the protection you need. Don’t be intimidated by this lying degenerate. don’t let him hurt you or destroy your home. call the police and file the charges. your safety comes first. Last Known Location: NEW JERSEY AND NEW YORK

  190. Jose Antonio from Laredo, TX. Dated him for app. 3 months. Slept over at my house numerous times. Very recently I was informed that he has a girlfriend with children in his hometown. This information was confirmed via internet. I’m sure his girlfriend had no idea what her sweet little college boy was up to during the week, 3.5 hours away from home.

  191. Anthony Lorick also known as Tony, from Kerrville Texas… Mentally ill,Compulsive liar,violent,emotionally abusive, financially abusive, sexually abusive. This man was a serial cheater. He had so many phone numbers in his wallet once it took me hours to call all the women. His real trick is the internet. He had dozens of women on the line and thinks a woman is stupid enought to believe all his lies and when you don’t he becomes furious!He draws you in by first becoming a “caring” friend and then convinces you he’ll give you everything you dream of. He was dangerous before but now he’s taking karate lessons. Stay way from this man! He will take everything you have and leave you or worse you might just end up dead!

  192. Duane Butler known as BIg D from stephenville newfoundland canada. Beware, he is a con artist true manipulater. Uses woman for their money or what ever he can get even just a meal. has drug addictions which he will try to support by living off his woman. he will run your bath light the candles and fill your heart but you will only end up being used for his own needs. He is abusive when drinking and has been also with kids. Dead beat father 100 per cent would rather support his habits then his kid at present is using yet another woman who is going through a divorce and is waiting for her to get her money so he can take it and run. his past history with all his woman is the same, he is a liar cheater user and a very loud speaking man with a mental illness. He loves a woman with a sports car and will try to charm you to give it to him. He is a big man 230 pounds 6 foot 2 inch but really he is only a small man with a very small burnt out mind and a very small private part. Useless human being who uses woman and never worked any real time in his life, welfare is his style and the bonus comes from the females he meets who have a bit of money to support him and the habits. He is verbally abusive as well when he does not get what he wants or he will pretend to be depressed so you will feel sorry for him and give him what he wants. He hurt me and my kids many times, my kids hate him and have been scarred. Beware is all I have to say!!!

  193. Chris Patik known as “C” from Connellsville, PA. He is a lying, cheating, jobless, and degreeless loser and waste of space. He is very attractive and a charmer, but once he gets close to you, he starts to take all your money and he’ll move in with you just so the jobless hobo has a place to sleep! All the while, he is seeing other women behind your back! STAY AWAY trust me, girls 🙂

  194. Haris from Spokane, wa. Known as a compulsive liar – Control freak – ask constantly where i was who i was with and what I was doing Liar -would tell me things to me and then something different to my best friend. Then when we confronted him about it he said he never said any of it. .. (psycho) He wanted to marry me after like 1 month of dating He is completely socially awkward and is all about the PDA i mean like you feel completely trapped!i Also would wait down the street until i would come outside to see me. WOuld call me when he was outside so he could come over. Even if i was super busy he still demanded i make time for him. If i didnt he would seriously throw a tantrum like a 2 year old. He Lies about shit and is the biggest drama queen i have ever known. I have never ever ever met somebody so dramatic in my life!!!! STAY AWAY ladies he will become obesessed with you!!! He is a fucking leech! He needs some serious Mental help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  195. Mario Lyles also know as mario quo or m-eazy from Pittsburgh, PA and Buffalo, NY. Mario is a user and abuser! He not only used my credit cards, but when I found out he said he would pay it and never did! He told my uncle that I was his overdraft protection. After I had just helped him find a car, get it on the road and registered it for him! He has a nasty temper and can be very violent. I once had a stapler thrown at my head. He is also a cheater. He goes from one girl to the next, we were together for almost 2 years(and knew each other longer than that). After I broke up with him he was with a new girl in 2 weeks, saying he loved her, and she was the one. He is 23 and everytime it seems like the girls get younger and younger. He also told my little brother that he prefers virgins because he likes being the first, even if it’s not a longterm relationship. He is an excellent liar and can be very charming, so do not fall for it girls!

  196. Justin Carpenter Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Joker from Orlando, FL. Justin is an asshole! We were together for 2 1/2 years and he left me after I found out I was pregnant and I have heard from him once sense then. Needless to say I have not gotten any money from him. Watch out for this worthless piece of swamp slime!

  197. Bobby also known as: Robert K. from hunterdon county, nj. I never actually dated him but “attempted” a relationship. He is a lying, self absorbed, disrespectful, arrogant, cocky, self centered, dumb, uncaring, judgmental, cold bastard. He will say that he will call or take you out, but he is always “too busy.” He tells you what you want to hear, leads you on for months and shatters your heart. He supposedly has “many women” he meets through his job and because he’s SO desirable. He seems to thrive on drama and will listen to any feedback from a third party about you. If the feedback is negative, he will pass judgment on you and CUT YOU OFF, WITH NO EXPLANATION! He is 38, self employed, still lives at home. He is a commit-a-phob and leery of any relationship. You have been warned, steer clear and save yourself NOW!

  198. DAN C Nicknames or Known Alias’s: Big D, Ted from Valparaiso, IN. He’s a charming snake, but don’t be fooled! If you give him a penny, he’ll take the entire bank account. He consistantly stole my bank cards while I slept and bought THOUSANDS of dollars worth of items. I mean, how dare I try to sleep at night! He’s been caught cheating on MySpace with local girls calling himself “Ted”. Same lie: Poor Dan, mean wife divorced him so feel sorry for him. We most certainly were NOT divorced. I felt sorry for the girls he duped into dating him…most were really sweet girls who thought they’d met Mr. Right online. Run from him…don’t walk!


    Nicknames or Known Alias’s: MAN OF MY DREAMS!!! EAT IT DEBBIE!!

  200. Harold Edward Roberts II. Known alias : Robbie. from Tulsa OK. This is my ex husband. Not only did he cheat on me while I was in the hospital but he was also physically abusive throughout the spam of our relationship including choking me several times. Despite what he may tell you about his past he was removed from the Military for theft and an inability to listen to authority. His dishonorable discharge from the Navy was because he stole several laptop computers.

  201. Doug Scroggins. from Tulsa OK. Doug cheated on his wife more than 3 times in their 10 years of marriage including the day after his brother-in-law died while his wife lay in bed traumatized. He had 2 kids both of which he doesn’t bother to spend time with. He lies and cheats and is an admitted relations addict. He’s big into Internet dirty movies as well, once secretly taking pictures of his wife while she slept and posted them on the Internet.

  202. Erik Zepeda. Known alias : Yogi bear. from Mexico. He looks at your eyes and tells you “I love you” tells you that he is afraid to lose you that he needs you that he feels very different and special when he hugs you but days later tells you that he is going back to Mexico only for a month and that it is unfair for you to be his girlfriend if he isn’t with you so he ask you to brake up and promis you that he will call you when he comes back but he “comes back” a week later from mexico (not for a month like he said)and calls you but he never talks about a relationship anymore…

  203. Scott Edward Loiler. from Citrus Heights CA. This guy is the biggest loser of them all. He tells lies like they most people make small talk. He is a drug addict alcoholic theif that will burn anyone including family. He will tell you exactly what you want to hear to get what he wants. He’ll promise you the world and then rip your heart right out of you chest. He’ll back stab and deceive and cheat…no matter how much he tells you he loves you. His word means shit and his apologies are empty. I’ve never hated anyone until this man got a hold of me.

  204. Kim Willis. from Georgetown IL. Kim Willis is a liar user and abuser! He craves attention and affection so much that he will get it from anyone and everyone no matter if he’s in a relationship! The word “faithful” had no meaning to him whatsoever! He has no problem screwing ugly nasty hoes! He will lie to you and manipulate you to get whatever he wants. If you break up with him or deny him in any way he goes completely balistic. He treatened to kill me break in my house and kill my DOG and all sorts of crazy shit! I almost had to get a restraining order on him when he would call my phone at all hours of the day and night and leave the most awful voicemails EVER! He said the meanest most hurtful things that have ever been said to me.

    He also stalked me I had to quit my job and find another and still hope he doesn’t find me! I would catch him driving past my house quite often. LADIES BEWARE! HE IS BAD NEWS! He’s great when you first meet him seems mellow and sweet and is handsome but don’t ever let him drink or get him angry! He hides his pyscho-ness well! He’s admitted to being Bi-Polar and is on meds for it. I would have never ever guessed he was this NUTS he seems so normal when you meet him! He’s also into guys but will only admit it when he drinks…he often asked me to finger his butthole! GROSS! He’s not the type of guy you wanna mess around with!!! If you ever meet this nasty LOSER RUN FAR FAR AWAY FAST! TRUUUUUST ME! DON’T LET HIM FOOL YOU!

  205. Josh Rounsville. Known alias : James Joshua Rounsville. from Citrus Heights CA. He used the whole “I’m not the typical guy” line and turned out to be a total asshole. I caught him talking on the phone to another girl in my kitchen. He was saying the rudest things about me and I heard every word… my revenge? A suckerpunch to his mouth. Yeah bad I know. But the jerk had it coming. Also he says he loves to work out but ladies cover your eyes when he takes his shirt off!

  206. Daniel Talbot. Known alias : Tabs. from Adelaide South Australia. seems like the perfect caring sweet life time kinda guy.
    but will lead you on break your heart and ruin your life.
    soulless back stabbing user.
    Will make you fall hard for him then take advantage till he’s gotten everything he wants.

  207. Bob Littlefield. from Everett WA. He is a sociopath to the T. He was always looking & watching other girls when I was with him & trying to get them to come over when I wasnt home to give him a bj. He started persuing another girl after about 2 years of us being together & then was verbally abusive when I kicked him out. He is a womenizer & can not have just one girl. He lies about everything he has profiles on single web sites & even talks to girls in Russia about hooking up. He uses you until he no longer has a use for you then he will move on the whomever he has sitting in the back ground. He is a silver tongue devil & for a 40 something year old he is still playing the same games & making the same mistakes as he did 20 years ago. He is a loser user & booser he will never change or learn so do yourself a favor & stay away & NEVER NEVER EVER believe or trust anything he may say if you have the misfortune of meeting or talking to him.

  208. Carl Tavoloni. Known alias : Anthony. from Fircrest WA. I had a boyfriend 4 a couple months and basically he got tired of me. So he got action from another gurl without me knowing. Then I found out so he dumped me. Then he went out with a bunch of other gurlz to make me jelious. But I found out that he really liked them. We broke up 4 like at least a month. Then we got back together and he like an hour later sayz its over then hangs up. Then the nxt day at school he tells every1 it waz funny when he broke up wit me. If you ever date this guy all I have to say is watch out! He likes to play games and iz not the rite guy 4 any1!!!! WATCH OUT!!!!!!!!

  209. Alan Cutshall. from Pasadena TX. He was great at first. Really nice. Just divorced. All of a sudden basically was living with me. Can’t hold a job because he would rather smoke weed and get high. He got so jealous of my exboyfriend calling me he broke 4 of my phones. Put several holes in my walls and kicked my door in. I would be sleeping in my room and all of a sudden he would be in my house. He had found a way to sneak in my house. I finally found out he would sneak in my garage and jimmy the lock…OMG psycho. He drove by my house and even sent messages to my new boyfriend telling him not to date me and etc. I paid several of his bills and i got SCREWED over. He bought me a bbq pit worth 50 bucks and he told me he was going to sue me for it….HAHA STAY AWAY

  210. Justin Mooney. Known alias : Toby. from Canton GA. Treated me like Trash for 5 straight years. Would call me a bitch tell me to shut up get mad if I said no to sex never picked me up from my house said disrespectful things about my family cheated on me after 4 years called me all sorts of degrading names (from stupid bitch all the way down to the c word). Forgot my birthday and picked his video games over me. He belongs on the ex boyfriend list because he is disrespectful to women (atleast me) and is still a boy who plays his video games ATLEAST 5 hours a day (Not counting the days he’s off work)

  211. Paul Ferrari. from Melbourne Victoria. This guy and his whole family stole my 3 year old son. They are holding for ransom and this is the second ex-wife this family have done it too. Paul and his whole family are all Narcissists & they take great pleasure in emotionally abusing the people on the “outer circle” meaning if your not blood your not in the family and you never will. They will be extremly overbarringly nice to the point where you wonder if they are all fakes. And i assure you this man and his family are VERY toxic and if you ever see them run run far far away and NEVER look back!

  212. John Spaur. from Los Gatos CA. He is a NARCISSIST and is not capable of deep feelings for another. He knows how to go thru the motions to make it look like he really cares about you but he is not truly capable. He’s messed up but doesn’t know he’s messed up. He’s so wrapped up in himself that he won’t even think of you. So consider yourselves warned.

  213. Stanislaw Kolosa. Known alias : Stan – polish guy. from Campbell CA. This guy is out for one thing and one thing only. He took me out twice and then expected me to go home with him. I told him no I don’t want to go to his place since I still didn’t know him very well. Geeze it takes months to get to know someone well enough to want to sleep with them. Then after that I never heard from him again. What a DORK!

  214. Thomas Rodgers. Known alias : Tommy. from bc49 Tom. He was abusive emotionally verbally and physically. I finally got out of that relationship and pressed charges against him for assault. There was supposed to be a restraining order for a year but he got off after only 6 months.
    The bruises and emotional scars he gave me were not worth the 8.5 years I stayed with him.
    He is immature and has a tendency to be attracted to young girls (as in 14-16 years old)
    Stay away! especially if he isn’t sticking to his anti-depressants and is back into the booze. 🙁

  215. billy paiva. Known alias : pothead. from somerset /fall river ma. hmm.. where do i start? wasted 4 yrs of my life with the piece of crap. who actually had a girlfriend away at school the whole time. He decided to tell me yrs later. just letting you know girl it was great sex and he never thought about you the whole time. lol but dont want him ne more hes nasty. lying dirty cheater

  216. Steven J Bottomley. from Schreiber ON Canada. After 15 1/2 years of my life a house home child and business….just to mention a bit….he decides after all the stress of me working full time him getting fired from his job helping him to start and run his business that was floundering from word go raising our child practically alone keeping a spotless home and putting up with his drunken stuppers and selfish and arrogant attitude and doing what he wanted when he wanted and calling me fat all the time he’ll dump ME and frig off to Alberta. Leaves me with all the bills….and meets up with a “friend” he’s been having an emotional affair with. It’s been 4 months and he has not sent a cent and I am still paying all our bills and have tapped all my savings my son’s and had to borrow money from friends and family. He doesn’t want to pay child support and wants to keep all his things we bought together and keep me paying. His new “girlfriend”…he told me last week it’s not going to work…he’s using her for her money….she bailed him out for his business and is supporting his lying arrogant obnoxious ass. Good riddance…and sorry for you new bitch. STAY AWAY FROM THIS MAN…Hinton and Edson Alberta!!!!! He can be quite the charmer….but give him a few drinks and he’s loud obnoxious and full of himself…doesn’t want to be with a fat/ugly woman he told me….sucker…lost 60 lbs and was never ugly…I know what your new bitch looks dogs ass. In the end though it’s all about HIM!!!!!BEWARE!!!!

  217. kai kaminski. Known alias : tiger (rolls eyes.. oh brother). from boise idaho from germany. this asshole is a pathological liar very sweet and charming at first very intelligent looks like the famous male ballet dancer mickael. he speaks 5 languages and got to the us my marrying some woman and then dumped her married a few more. he’s great until you find out what a liar he is about virtually everything and the he turns into a monster and suddenly you are the problem. he told people i was trying to steal his car and move out of state with it he threw me out of the place we lived in together with no place for me to go just because i confronted him with his lies. he’s a real sicko and hurt many women watch out for his sorry ass girls.

  218. Chris Barket. from Connecticut. We met online and he moved in shortly after. I helped him start and run a bar for over 3 years. I took a home equity line out on my house to help him with his business. We were very happy and very connected until he started drinking heavily. He broke up with me over the phone by telling me he wanted to drink and party without feeling guilty about his behavior hurting me.

  219. steve phillips. Known alias : probably. from albuquerque farmington new mexico. this man took almost 9 years of my life. i met him online in the summer of 2000 and he said all the right things i fell hard for him. he told me he was single no kids and we talked every day had lots of phone sex and he made promises that we would be together. i saw him twice in all those years and i felt a weird vibe. last week a woman called me and told me he was married and living with her. i confronted him with it and he couldn’t deny it. he would freak if he couldn’t get ahold of me was so adamant about me being true to him and not seeing any other men. and stupid me i did it for almost nine years. i know i’m not the only one either. watch out for him he’s slick and charming and an evil person that has no regard for anything but his own satisfaction. i feel sorry for his wife.

  220. joel david wood. Known alias : faggot. from freemont new york . for one he turned out to be a sex offender he molested a boy just something he forgot to tell me when we met.2 he still lives with his mommy and he’s 39 yrs old.3 he doesnt work.4 he smells.5 did i metion he is a sex offender.
    Joel david wood = scumbag child molester.
    but he loves me yeah right.

  221. John Frainee. Known alias : lil john. from redlands CA. I agree with the other person hwo posted. this guy is an a number 1 creep. He still lives with his parents and has tons of women friends. He is not loyal to anyone. I have known him for years and have been smart enough to not fall for him.
    He is a loser and he is fat and disgusting and he is trying deperately to ake up for his small cock!
    He will use you for whatever he can get and if you are a man reading this do not do business with him and do not make friends with this false profit! My male friend was screwed over by him for a large amount of money! Thank God someone else posted here people need to know about this fat waste of life!!!!

  222. Joe Fradl. Known alias : Joe. from Pirate Joe Zukrider. I agree with the female that posted this at an earlier time.. Thanks to her I opened my eyes to Joe’s ways and seen even more things from him that was not listed.. So who ever wrote this THANK YOU.. He is still at his old tricks and is not to be trusted.. When he was with me he was still doing the dating site came to my house drunk I told him to leave and not return then he turned on me in a bad way.. He takes all his females to the same places PARKS etc.. His brother Mark Fradl filled me in on his other bad issues.. I took all that in plus what this other female wrote on here which I copied and reposted and took those words to heart and decided I was tired of his cheap and crazy ways.
    This is further down on the list — > (copy)This dude is smooth but beware. He’s a thief liar won’t hold a job for any length of time verbally abusive mistreats animals while stating he’s an animal lover and the list goes on. His FOURTH wife accussed him of child abuse of her teenage daughter. He’s a cheater. He will flash those big brown eyes and lie to you at every opportunity. He’s listed on multiple singles sites and has multiple email addresses and alias’s. I have listed a couple of alias’s. BEWARE of this guy. He’s nothing but trouble.

  223. everette allen reed. Known alias : allen. from eldersburg MD. he broke up with me after three years through a text message. he has an illegitimate child with another ex girlfriend. he is a compulsive spender and has no motivation for a better job or future.

  224. Jason Edward Troike. from Noblesville IN Well. Well let’s see the worst was when he hit me in front of my son. But during our divorce he took things that were mine ruined things that were mine that he packed kept toys of my four year olds and would not give them back. Yep…his ‘rents have toys that were my son’s as well. He then has went on to tell a bunch of people really horrible and awful things about me and continues to do things to harm my reputation. Screw him but warning to all you sisters out there…he sucks!!

  225. Shawn Shippee. Known alias : shippster. from Haverhill MA. The last girl that posted on here about Mr. Shippee just knocked the girls that he has been with but forgot to add herself. she is the one person that he was with that put him in prison. she posts things on here but is friendly to the “bi ladys face” so who is the one that is truely messed up?

  226. Frank Russell. Known alias : surfdog78. from florida. Has been married and divorced three times
    Claims 2B a surfer but cannot ride a wave Jimmy Buffett Wanna a Be
    Tries to date girls half his age
    Raging Alcoholic
    Major Control Freak
    You Can Find him on Pal Talk Site every morning taking care of business
    If you are on there he might be looking at you Girl!
    AND Most Importantly Will give you something Ajax will not wash off.

  227. Jody Langley. from Lubbock TX. He is on about every dating sight out there. He is a convicted felon that says he only committed the crime because of a misdosed medication. He lures girls in with his sweet charm and decent looks. He plays off the he is this reborn christian when he is the worst image of christianity anyone could imagine. He was divorced about 6mo ago and I can’t even BEGIN to imagine how many good girls lives he has screwed up. He will promise you the world and produce nothing but lies. He has cheated on me and his just recent ex-girlfriend who is now a very good friend of mine. He used both of us at the same time and tried to use us against each other but it kinda formed a bond between us. If you see him on any dating site stay as clear from him as you possibly can. He is nothing but a lier and a cheat.

  228. Arnold McCue. Known alias : ACE. from New Jersey / Irving TX. Where should i start? He’s a heavy drinker.and abuses you by telling you that your guly & then when he wants some me becomes real nice.
    He even calls you family and tells them all your
    deep secrets.He also does not know how to hold a job.The only thing is that i was the dumd ass for staying as long as i did.
    My Exhusband was the same way. and i did not see the signs.but not for nothing no one should have
    to deal with any kind of abuse.
    I hope that the next woman that goes with these but heads sees the real person they are b-4 its to late.Good luck to all of the girls out there.
    dont let the men take you for granted. make them want you make them work for it.
    I know for myself that i am just a freak magnet.
    And rather be by myself.
    Goo luck to all of you my fellow sisters.

  229. Greg. Known alias : Jimi Hatt. from Altoona PA. I dated this mam for 5months. Prior to that we communicated for 2 months. Then one day he tells me that he got a bad hair cut and was shaving his hair. He said he would call me later. Never heard from him again.

  230. geraldomurp. from Minnesota. (BEWARE BEWARE BEWARE )This man started out to be a really nice gentleman but all of a sudden 8 months after we had been going together He seen me on i think it was the singles dating sight In which i did not put myself on their My computer was Hyjacked and i had found my self in other places i didn’t subscribe too I had to ping test everything that came in on email and send it to microsoft And that is how i found out i was hyjacked so had to change my accounts and id Anyway my dearest friend said i was lieing I asked him why he was on the program. and of course i didn’t get an answer from that day on he won’t talk he has lied he is sneekie makes all kinds of excuses What i am thinking is he is exploiting women especially the older ones as they are more vulnerable. So ladies watch out for this guy he has a smooth mouth and will treat you very nice But beware. things change.I still like the old man but now i don’t trust him. beacuse of some of the things he has done since.He made me feel really bad and hurt me mentally. He is a cheap sob also But to get to a new woman he will spend money for roses and etc. Hes the kind of man that makes women not like men.I just wish one day he would talk But he dosen’t know how to comunicate i guess.especially when confronted with something.

  231. Robert Thieman. Known alias : Thiemen. from South Carolina/Iowa. He’s a straight up liar. Will tell you what you want to hear. Tell you he wants to marry you but he’s with another girl. He’s basically a cheater. He’ll get your hopes up and your heart ready and then crush both. He DOESN’T CARE ABOUT ANYONE BUT HIMSELF. He’s selfish.

  232. Christopher Allen. Known alias : Chris. from Birch Run Michigan. He’s a drug user a drinker a liar and a cheater. He’ll tell you he loves you but he NEVER EVER really means it. He just wants in your pants. DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT DATE THIS GUY DON’T EVEN HAVE ANY TIME OF ‘FUN’ WITH HIM.

  233. Rob. from Ewing NJ. Basically an asshole made me think he really loved me and I could possibly have a future with him. MARRIED TWO KIDS NOT EVER LEAVING HIS WIFE BUT I’M SURE HE’S LOOKING FOR ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND IF HE DOESN’T HAVE ONE ALREADY

  234. Paul Dreher. Known alias : Paul D.. from Bumpass VA. Major liar and alcoholic. Talks on cell phone thru date and constantly texting someone. Very all about himself. WOMANIZER!!

  235. James Locklair. Known alias : Jimmy. from Stone Cold West Ashley. Big time cheater. Living with one girl and sleeping with 3 others. History of cheating on his wives. Got a girl pregnant while married to wife #2. Lies all the time. Always needs to borrow money. Tells you everything you want to hear.

  236. Robert. Known alias : Brat. from Jakarta Simply put. Simply put he just let me wait 4 years before he told me that out long-distance relationship is not gonna work coz he’s marrying another girl his family has arranged him to! what a jerk! He could have told me that 4 years ago…

  237. Cliff Spencer. from Vincentown NJ. He told me he was single and completely unattached. Later when I got pregnant he admitted he was actually going out with someone who was away at college. He abandonend me and told me never to tell the baby or anyone he was the father or he would make my life hell because he is a cop. A few months later I had a miscarriage and he took me for the surgery because he said felt bad because he heard I was so upset. A week later he told me to never call him again because while all that was going on he asked his girlfriend to marry him and she said yes. He is a pathological liar and a chronic cheater. Later I found out that a nurse he was also sleeping with was breaking into my medical records for him (I had changed my number and told him to leave me alone and she gave him the new number) He is a complete and total pathological liar.I should have known he was no good because he pulled me over to get my phone number what a jerk off.
    He only stays with the girlfriend because her family is loaded.

  238. bruce burke. Known alias : tiny PRIVATES. from beverly ma. he says he is straight but wears panties and bras and likes to check out men’s THINGS a real sissy and exposes himself in public would rather be with men then have relations with a woman I know I caught him with a man in panties and bra what a F********

  239. Adam Austin Eatherly. Known alias : Adam or Austin. from Houston Texas. no job Lives with his momma no license no ambition doesn’t wear deodorant should i go on?

  240. Eric Freda. Known alias : ebolazaire. from Hopatcong NJ. He is a cheating jerk who will sleep with anyone and lie to your face about it. He’s also a crossdresser and loves to wear women’s underwear and stockings and paint his toenails. Stay away!!

  241. Tim Schell. Known alias : tim. from harrisburgpa. white male.. lazy completly lost without someone guiding him 24/7 and uses whomever he can attach his self to.If by chance you meet him run and dont look back!

  242. Tony Ashlock. from Indianapolis IN. I have to admit I am a little bitter but men are a dime a dozen so next! I started dating this guy and he was wonderful. I was very hesitant at first because I had just gotten out of a two year relationship two weeks prior to meeting him. He persued me. He works on the docks here at my work. Things were great we had our kids involved. He told me he was going to marry me which I never expected that and wasn’t in any hurry. The only issue we ever had was his ex wife. Of course she didn’t like me but never met me. I could understand some of her feelings but she tried to talk bad about me to her kids which I feel was immature and childish. I guess a few weeks before we had ended she had a break down. He didn’t tell me but he went and picked her up and took her to a stress center where she spent a few days. He went and visited her daily and then picked her up and took her home. Three days before he broke things off he told me how happy he was in our relationship and then even had talked to his kids about us all moving in together which I wasn’t pushing either. This was all in his head! Then three days later he comes to me and just says he isn’t ready for something this serious. I never made it that serious. It was him. I am not made that he hurt me. I am maddest about how he hurt my kids. They liked him and grew attached to him and he just left like we didn’t mean anything. I miss his kids! I have found out since then that he is back with the ex wife and I hope they are miserable together!

  243. Josh. Known alias : Josh the Jock. from Sin City. Where do I start. Jerk. Selfish. Thinks he is God’s gift to women. Stares at himself in the mirror even when he is driving!!!! Has multiple GF on the side even though he’s married. Run girls

  244. Jerry / Gerardo. Known alias: A****** hole. from ATL GEORGIA. Major asshole. Snores so loud he rocks the house and then starts cussing because you don’t want to listen to him drowning in his own spit. Has a very so-so penis and skills but thinks he is all that. And I do mean ALL THAT.. More like NOT! Besides having a mediocre THING he is a cheap BEHIND and he’s rude and crude. He has bumps on his PRIVATE too. Major alcoholic. Player.


  246. Randy Cohn. from Florida. Randy lies about being divorced. Since he travels a lot and has a second home he got away with it for a long time. He is a MARRIED cold-harded user who tries to charm his way into your life. He has even posted profiles on internet dating sites. Don’t let this slime anywhere near you he is TOXIC.

  247. Brenden Gay. from Everett washington. Never paid for anything EVER when we went out it couldn’t even be considered a real date because we just went to football games( thats all he cares about). His mother is a total bitch and he was so controlling about what i wore. Then he loved to make fun of asians (i’m asian!) and gay people constantly. He was the biggest doucheface idiot!


  249. Armenian. Known alias : Mamas Boy. . Where do I start? My ex-boyfriend sucks because:

    1)He lives with his parents at age 27!!!

    2)He doesn’t put in any effort (in terms of shaving cutting his hair clipping his nails brushing his teeth etc.)when I do SOOO many sweet things for him (buy special lingerie cook him dinners give him massages when he’s had a rough day)

    3) Calls me a nag as an excuse to continue to be lazy with his effort in the above mentioned

    4)Makes bullshit excuses not to hang out with me.. AND gets angry when I make suggestions and try to work around the things that prevent him from seeing me

    5)Loves playing video games more than being with me

    6)Listens to his MOMMY whenever she tells him not to see me

    7) Tells me I’m an unstable/insecure person just because I cry when he hurts me.

    8) Tells me I’m clingy and psycho for wanting to spend all my free time with him. Aren’t you supposed to want that when you’re in love?

    9) Thinks that taking me out to decent restaurants and paying for my dinner should make up for him treating me badly.

    10)Doesn’t listen to me. Just says “BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH” when I try to tell him how much he hurts me… and how much resentment towards him I’ve built up

    11)Tells me that I have a shitty job. Come ON. I’m in my mid-twenties and I’m studying to get into graduate school.

    12) Makes bullshit excuses not to live with me. Tells me we can live together when I’m done with grad school and I get a better job (in four years time)

    13)Changes the topic when I say anything about weddings

    14) Thinks that I’m so easily influenced by Sex and the City. The show’s good and they talk about things that a lot of women have already thought about or experienced. I’m not a tool you ASSHOLE

    15)Always thinks he’s right. Argues about every little thing. If I start winning the argument he’ll just say something insulting

    16) He wants to live next door to his MOMMY- maybe so she can wash his unde

  250. John Chad Oswald. Known alias : Chad. . I have never done this before. I’m not trying to be bitter. Forget him. But I’ve recently found out that Chad has done this in the past and I felt obligated to warn anyone he may do it to in the future. Wouldn’t it be easier just to sterilize them and stop the cycle?
    Anyway. He is truly a manipulator and a pathological liar. A con artist. When you meet him he’s got a great high paying job and is living in his own place. Then he’s losing his apartment moves in with you (to save money!) and subsequently loses his job. He will live off of you until you rid yourself of him. He’ll drive your car because his is always breaking down. He won’t pay rent or utilities. And guess who pays if you ever want to have a social life? In hindsight I definitely saw it all coming. Especially the possessiveness. He becomes increasingly controlling and jealous. No drinks with the girls for you. There’ll be boys there! And he’ll call your work to make sure you’re really there. All very embarrassing. I happen to be a very independent person and soon found him pathetic so I didn’t let it go on too long. Although his increasing violence made it very difficult to actually remove him physically from my apartment. It ended very badly and very violently. And he harassed me for quite a while. Literally 73 phone calls in one day. Then I found out that he had accessed my cell phone account email account even my voicemail and was tracking everyone I was talking to. He then proceeded to call several of my close friends incessantly. And he called a few of my male friends and threatened them. I have a Psychology degree and can tell you his behavior qualifies as psychotic. And I was scared. So I went to the police and eventually he tapered off. As it turns out he has been in a great deal of trouble before and since (although not during). He owes many people a lot of money. No wonder he doesn’t stay in one place too long!
    Anyway. Just be careful. There are a ton of these creeps out

  251. Mark R. Ferragamo. Known alias : Mark. . Where to start. While together he cheated on me with two other women one which was my roomate for two years! Then he would make me think i was crazy when i would confront him! He took me for every cent i had and then when i needed him most he left me! He’s a 39 year old man who slept with my psycho house mate a 21 year old southie slut( who already has a kid from another man who isn’t around) this is what you get from a man who comes off as a charmer until the funds run out and he has nothing more to take from you!!!!!! oh and i guess Karma is a bitch because he’s now stuck with the 21 year old because he just knocked her up thank god payback in my lifetime! Girls be on the look out for this loser!!!!! He doesn’t want a woman who will love him he wants ass! And to top it off he does truly suck in bed! Not saying that just cause he screwed me he thinks he’s 20 in a nike jumpsuit! What was i thinking wasting three years of my life and the sucky thing is that i gave him not only everything i gave him my heart!


  253. Rob Lapointe. from Montreal quebec. i have read the book How to spot a dangerous man by Sandra Brown (should be read by all women)
    My ex is dangerous I was the red flags a few days after we met but ignored them he is too needy and when I asked to slow things down he became nasty and then contacted me two weeks later to say how he missed me …let us not forget the ex rated pics he sent me while I was at work pics of himself masturbating..ok that should have been the end of that……
    When he realized that I started to see the truth of how he was he needed to get away from me and try to find a new victime. He is controlling manipulative and uses woman ..please please any woman from Montreal who meets him …please run.

  254. Bruce Adams. from Laconia NH. He is into HEAVY drug use is abusive lies cheats and steals. Has done jail time for stealing now a felon. Failed a cavity search in jail. Emotionally abusive. Can’t hold a job or a place to live.

  255. mark. from stillwater minnesota. This man has completely unwarranted delusions of grandeur.Thinks he’s better than everyone else when he isn’t is verbally abusive hateful cheap and selfish in bed. Will come across as charming and caring at first but once you care about him turns into a complete prick. If you have the misfortune of meeting him turn and run the other way as fast as you can.

  256. Jeff Wooten. Known alias : Big Woo. from Tampa FL. Unless you you want to date a 35 almost 36 year old momma’s boy (lives w/mom) and has spent all his life like a leaf in the wind that drinks way too much all the time and smokes way too much all the time has no regard for your feelings and that rambles on for hours yet says he hates to talk on the phone(while you date him Long distance) who never will visit you nor buy you cards but will feed you (at his moms with her help)if you are willing to drive 4 hours and he thinks when youre in a relationship that you should support yourself and not expect encouragement from him such as remembering that you had an interview for a job that would move you back to be with him never tells you he misses you or loves you unless you bring it up first if you move he wont help you bcs he is too sad and would rather you lift all the heavy boxes but if you are willing have nonstop “relations” and not care how he treats you then go for it.

  257. John Spaur. from Los Gatos CA. He is an egocentric commitment-phobe. He will date you for about a year and be really good to you. Feed you all these gourmet meals but then when it’s time to start asking about where it’s all going he will balk! He also smokes pot daily and this guy is 57 years old! He is only interested in what he wants to do and will not make much effort to come in to your life. You will have to do all the work of going into HIS life going to HIS house and doing what HE wants to do. He is extremely immature and pretentious. He also is very shallow and has nothing but women friends who use him… and he lets them. And he won’t help you out when you need help. Pass on this guy! You can do much better!

  258. Simon Binkhurst. Known alias : Babe. from Brisbane QLD. This guy is not a man he played around when we first had children with some young DIRTY GIRL while I was raising his children. He came back I let him stay should have said NO. He ends up tracking down his old affair and tried to tell me he wanted to be her friend he was sending/getting slutty SMS to some bimbo. Should have let her keep the @*&@wit to start with don’t know why I tried so hard when he just is a professional con man. Wanted nothing but to satisfy his own needs now he will not see his children again. I told him not to hurt me. Why? what does she offer that is better?

  259. John Frainee. Known alias : Lil John. from Redlands California. This guy is the worst kind of player! He will start off telling you how he used to be a player and since he had a terrible battle with cancer he has found the lord and changed his ways. He started out talking about the bible and praying with me and before I knew it he was sending me dirty text messages and wanting to have phone sex. Not the real thing because he was afraid of God. What kind of crap is that.
    Things progressed and he would come by my house unannounced and was always trying to get my kids to like him (side note: luckily I keep my girls clear of whomever I am involved with so they had minimal contact). During his visits he would shove his tongue down my throat and then run off because he was afraid if he stayed we may have sex…
    Finally my ex who wanted to get back togehter (another winner) confronted him and this jerk off told him that he was just being nice to me because I had feelings for him and he didn’t want to hurt my feelings…Now he is dating one of my EX best friends…and Heaven knows who else! What a creep!!!!

  260. Richard Walker. Known alias : Rich. . Well what does one say about this asshole? Let’s start at the begining The Sperm Donor as he shall henceforth be known and I got divorced 4 years ago and we got along well considering for the sake of our 3 children. We communicated for their sake and this worked well for us and the kids. That is until he started screwing the ugly bucktoothed dirty girl next door to his house. (he forgot rule no.1…. never fuck the neighbours especially when you own your house and can’t move when things go bad) Anyway the buck toothed dirty girl filled his head with bullshit regarding his kids and me and we now don’t communicate so well. He has stopped paying his Child Support hasn’t paid that innearly 5 months and now he is trying to claim 23% of my pension by lieing and saying he has the kids every second weekend and half the school holidays. What a useless C*nt seriously. Obviously the best thing I ever did was divorcing his sorry ass.On the bright side the buck toothed dirty girl not only spends his hard earned money but is pregnant with a baby girl that he doesn’t want. Steer clear of this one ladies he’ll suck you in with stories about how his ex-wife failed him and then he’ll treat you like a dirty girl. I hope he gets Gonorrhea and his tiny little cock falls off 😀

  261. Carl Teske. Known alias : Camel. from Teske Queensland. Together nearly 4 years. Love of my life planning on marrying. Compulsive Liar for the last year. Told me he needed time to himself and moved interstate. I completely supported his move. Found out via his email account that he was living in a completely different state with his new GF. They had been together 8 months. Broke up Xmas eve. Haven’t seen him since. Told his new GF she didn’t care. She is also 5 years older than him in her 30s. Complete and utter loser. Still so hurt however. ;

  262. Houston Noah. Known alias : No. . One beacause he’s a user abuser and loser. I broke up with him in November then was stupid enough to go back out with him later to find out the whole two months we went back out was just to break up with me and get back at me for breaking up with him the first time.

  263. jeffery ballance. Known alias : jeff. from Warren TX. he plays on your heart and does everything a girl could ask for then hmmm you really thought a guy like that was still left wronge again its all a mask then after he has you it all changes

  264. Elijah (Terrance) Chinn. Known alias : Tito. from Columbus OH. Avoid at all cost. He is a habitual lying sociopath who is suspected of being married. Aside from the emmotional and verbal abuse he will attempt to guilt you in to buying him expensive gifts and when you don’t he will accuse you of not loving him. Oh…and he will get you pregnant and dump you like a piece of garbage without a second thought after he accuses you of being a dirty girl.

  265. Jim Butner Jr. Known alias : James. from 30-30 Lexington. He is a manipulator and a user ! He will cheat on you lie to you and all the while telling you he loves you and wants to make a home together. YOU do all the driving AND all the PAYING with him. Then when he’s done with you; he will turn from Mr. Lovable into Mr. Asshole in about 2 seconds and kick you to the curb with an 8 word phrase– ” You’re disposable–Go away-Just leave me alone.” He runs with a 2 faced BITCH that’s 20 years older then him just because SHE has money….gee what a surprise.
    He has a mother fixation that’s unhealthy for a 50 yr old (man?). And he WILL rip your heart to shreds.

    If you run into him—-RUNNNNNN !

  266. stan downing. Known alias : stan the man. from glasford IL. he was recently found in bed with his best friends g/f YA! and he was trying to play me with this other girl and when cought thought we should have a threesome cause were both so good he cant decide!!!

  267. Rod Stanojevic. Known alias : Radisa. from Sydney Australia. He is a closet homosexual with a very low sex drive. Once scorned will take you to court so you end up in a whole world of debt but hey as his parents are millionaires he doesn’t have to worry you just end up with all the legals and no sex life through out the whole relationship. He needs to stop being scared off his mum and come out of the closet!

  268. dave ames. Known alias : boogy. from Hornell ny. he wasnt really a boyfriend more of a friend of benefits and such but i was beginning to like him i just found out that when he was calling me at 2am to come over he also has had a girlfriend the last couple of weeks. he is scum who doesnt care who he sleeps with and he will sleep with up to 4 different women at once i have found out. stay away from him as he is just a LIAR AND CHEATER who doesnt use protection. if you have slept with him go get tested.

  269. Toby Sisk. from Central Illinois. Hes a charmer. Dont believe a thing he says. All he does is lie cheat steal drink do drugs hit women doesnt work and doesnt take care of his kids. Hes a loser. A short stubby little loser! Hes not very tall either!

  270. nails. Known alias : aa. from Hatfield PA. STAY AWAY!! He will be sweet as pie and a dream come true for about the first few months even cook you dinner and be romantic and get you drinks etc… then his true colors start to show. He is looking for a mother not a wife. He wants a slave that will cater to his every need but expect nothing in return. He is also a cheater an alcoholic and has used cocaine and other drugs in the past and wouldn’t dought it if he started up again. He is very immature. He does not know how to hang out with a woman as a friend. He only ever makes plans with his male friends. It was sooo bad I thought he was gay – maybe he is I don’t know. However what I do know for sure is that to him A woman is only there to cook him dinner clean the house do his laundry and please HIM sexually (you get nothing in return) and that is it. he wants a stepford wife. He is also very emotionally abusive. Unless he grows up and learns how to be with a woman do not go near this man as he is immature and a player and has alot to learn about relationships with a woman (and do not try to be the one to change him – that’s the trap I fell into. I am trying to save you years of heartache – he won’t change and it is not you he is the problem- just leave him be).



  273. A Montgomery. Known alias : monty. from DENVER COLORADO. he is a cheater a liar an opportunist and he is weak and then mean and hurtful. oh and he has a lisp.

  274. Jeff Wooten. Known alias : Zoomer. from Currently Harrisburg/Concord NC. Be careful–he has the “victim” role down to an art. He pulled it on me with stories of his ex wife but then he got me pregnant in a fit of rage one night. He made promises that everything would be okay and he seemed to want to change but 3 days after I moved in with him (he had asked for months that I do so) he told me to go sleep on the couch go find somewhere else to live and ended it all in yanking me around and shoving me out the door(at 4am in 30 degree weather) while I was 5 months pregnant. He feels he is justified in what he did but he has no regard for ANYONE other than himself. Long story short stay away from this asshole…his words and initial acts of kindness are lies.

  275. Chance Pollock. Known alias : Fat Squirral. from Schenectady NY. This guy will make you feel like your the best and for eight or more years you will think he is in it for the long haul. but he has a taste for crack ho’s and he will throw everything away for one or more. and now he is a crackhead. be carful he is into bondage but doesn’t clean his toys so they smell like the last ho.

  276. Devin Hassan. Known alias : Devlin. from Phoenix AZ and San Francisco. He is an abusive lazy man. We had a child together he did nothing to help with my son. He has mental problems…schizophrenia being one of them. I ended up leaving him to go live with my parents and he couldn’t care less if he ever saw his son again. He used me for money and w/e else he could get from me. Please be careful to not get involved with him. Hes currently pretending to be sick in order to have a place to stay because he is homeless.

  277. Jarred Spencers. from Fort Collins CO. We were together for almost 4 years. He abused me nearly the entire time even when I was pregnant. He was emotionally and physically abusive. I urge anyone in a relationship with him to GET OUT! I want to warn everyone so that they don’t experience what I did. I have 2 children that he donated sperm for. He is lazy and owes me $13 400 in back child support. Fortunately for my children and I he hasn’t showed interest in seeing the kids and has not seen them since my youngest was 2 weeks old and he is almost 7 years old. PlEASE ladies! Stay away from this guy. He is a black belt in karate and uses it on YOU! Don’t get hurt just avoid him. He is a loser.

  278. Kevin Cossette. Known alias : Depends on which enemy you ask. from Fargo ND. Loser Loser and Loser!!! Golddigger cheater mooch the list goes on and on. For every potential friend he meets he makes at least 5 enemies. He beats animals and women and is the most selfish person you would ever meet!

  279. Michael Voogd Jr.. Known alias : Mikey. from Altoona IA. He’s more of a door mat than anything. He solves a problem by buying something. If we had an argument he would not discuss it or argue with me he would just buy me something and then think that the problem is resolved. He also lied from the beginning. He didn’t take his hat off in the beginning of our relationship and then after about 6 months he did and he was balding badly. He also used to shave his back and stomach when we first got together and after a year he stopped and pretended as if nothing had changed. He also was very quiet and rarely talked to anyone other than his few friends and his family. He was a HUGE momma’s boy and would do anything his crazy mother asked him to do. His mother would treat me crappy and he wouldn’t stand up for me. His sister would do the same and he wouldn’t stand up for me either. He never wanted to go out or leave the house he always wanted to design things on the computer or play video games. He would only go out if I threw a big fit and whined to go out then he finally would but he would be quiet the whole time and wouldn’t really have a good time. He was way too into collecting video games ones he didn’t even play. And Magic the Gathering (that’s a kiddie game!) and he still played it and tried to make me play it with him and friends. And he also collected alcohol. He thought that buying stuff would solve his and my problems. He wasn’t abusive but he would talk down to me sometimes. But mostly he was a door mat. He let anyone and everyone walk all over him. It was not a relationship it was like dating your brother who is bald coated in back hair buying you whatever you want if you fuss enough. Some may say the perfect man.. I say a furry door mat.

  280. Michael Alter. Known alias : Mike. from Burlington IA. He is a little guy with that standard little man complext try to act tough and pretend you’re bigger and badder than any other man around. Though he’s not. When we dated he smoked pot everyday & then some. He would also drink all the time and drive while drunk. I’m suprised he didn’t get caught. He tried to make me be friends with all his ex-girlfriends and tried to get me to have threesomes with him and some of the ex-girlfriends and would be angry when I refused. He would boss me around and try to make me not hang out with my friends. He tried to turn me against my friends sometimes it worked. He would be rude and mean to my friends so they wouldn’t come over. I took care of him and the bills while we lived together and he barely did anything. The longest job he held while we were together was mowing lawns for a guy who paid him in beer & pot. He was the biggest momma’s boy ever and would do anything his mom asked him to do at the drop of a hat. His mom was a big druggie so she would ask him for help all the time up to 20 times a day! He would try to belittle me and call me names a lot and make me feel like I wasn’t worthy of him. He would try and act like he was smarter than me all of the time. He would lie to me say he got fired from a job when he really quit. He would take 2+ hours to do things that should only take 15 minutes. Or when he would tell me he would be home at a certain time he would be 2+ hours late. He snooped through my computer and cell phone for ‘evidence’ which wasn’t there. He was verbally abusive especially when drinking. He was secretly bi and cheated on me with another man and now admits that he is bisexual but refuses to admit he ever cheated on me. He’s disgusting and a liar and an idiot and a momma’s boy still.

  281. Jonnathan Hoffman. Known alias : Paco. from Modesto CA. Because he has a crazy ex-wife. 3 Children (2 which he claims) he doesn’t pay child support. He can’t hold a job for more than a few months and even then he blows his paychecks on booze and drugs. He is bi-polar and manic depressive. He’s a compulsive liar. He’s a stalker. He’s a cheater. He’s mentally and physically abusive. He plays like he’s romantic and a charmer and once you get to know him he will control your life and remove all your friends from it (by threatening them) and he will even stalk your family. He has left dirty messages on my sister & mother’s answering machines. When I first got rid of him (for almost choking me to death) he would call my cell phone 40+ times a day. He used to stand outside my apartment window and stare at me. He slashed my tires more than a few times. He had crazy druggy ex-girlfriends one pulled a butter knife on me. (Yes a butter knife) He didn’t have a license most of the time due to haveing DUI/OWI’s. He cheated on me with any woman he could get his hands on (he prefered over weight women or ugly women so if they would tell me he cheated on me with them I wouldn’t believe them). He made promises he never kept. He was violent and agressive. He kicked the window out of my car once. He broke a rocking chair once. He couldn’t cook and wouldn’t even attempt to try. He didn’t know how to pay a bill on time. He thought he was god’s gift to women. He thought he knew everything. He was a wannabe gangster. He even treated his only family like crap and lied to them as much as me. He pretended to know Spanish and claimed he was part Hispanic though he wasn’t. He hid a gun in the house and when I found it it was just a BB gun and he tried to make me believe it was a real gun. He pulled the BB gun on one of my friends and scared him really bad and my friend wouldn’t come over anymore. He still stalks me whenever he finds the means possible!

  282. David MacEwan. from Siloam Springs AR. Where should I start?!?! How about 5 ex wives 7 known children 10’s of thousands of dollars in past child support and a pathological liar. Sure he’s prince charming when you meet him but it sure doesn’t last long!


  284. Steven Whitlock. Known alias : Steve. from Steve-o Witty. i guess the main thing is that he’s sexually abusive. son’t ever let a man do taht to you. i stuck it out for almost a year and then i got the guts to leave him. (i’ve been with my current guy for 1 yr 7 months) anyway he messed me up pretty badly–i still can’t go to a doctor without crying because it reminds me so much of the abuse.

  285. Bradley Monebrake. Known alias : Moby. from Camden Ohio. He’s a big liar and cheater…Two face jerk and he will metal abused you and stalking big time. He won’t leave me alone when i tell him I am through and he threatened me with a blackmailed with a stupid dirty pic…He get accented on my cell phone when I change my number five-time and still does…no matter where you at he find you and stalked you…He talks other women without me knowing anything while I work and having sex with them..I had miscarriage last year he never paid the bill and won’t I am the one paid it for all…everytime we go out I am the one pay for everything he usually don’t and he is a mama’s boy big time…He gets me away from my parents and brainwashes me about them…I hate him for all the things he does and I never wanna to marry him at all I am glad I didn’t…He has tortured me long enough with his controlling and temper acts…He has no sense of knowing what love is all he know was lust and sex everytime I am tired of it..I wish he leave me alone and go away…I am through…..I want my own self back the way I was and the way I use to be…..Not like he want me to be….He will physcially mental abused you…..

  286. Jeffrey Scamardo. Known alias : Jeff. from Lakewood Oh. STAY away from this guy! He is a liar a cheater alcoholic drug user and he uses people. He has never has a stable place to live and he uses people for a place to stay. I was with him for almost 3 years and he pretty much cheated on me the whole time. And the worst part I had no idea until AFTER I broke up with him. He will abuse you mentally and make you feel worthless. I was stupid to stay so long but i think I was just used to him. Ugh. BEWARE!


  288. Joe Fradl. Known alias : zukrider; the dread pirate Joe. from Dayton Ohio. This dude is smooth but beware. He’s a thief liar won’t hold a job for any length of time verbally abusive mistreats animals while stating he’s an animal lover and the list goes on. His FOURTH wife accussed him of child abuse of her teenage daughter. He’s a cheater. He will flash those big brown eyes and lie to you at every opportunity. He’s listed on multiple singles sites and has multiple email addresses and alias’s. I have listed a couple of alias’s. BEWARE of this guy. He’s nothing but trouble.

  289. Brandon Medlin. from Last known Ridgecrest Ca. He blongs on this warning list because he comes off real sweet but BEWARE. He will act as if everything bad in his life was someone elses fault. Beware ladies he has abandoned 2 children already. He sent me and his daughter away to visit family. While I was gone he sold all my stuff for drugs didnt send me a dime and moved tweekers in my home. He left us homeless and to fend for ourselves and told me I couldnt come back to my home because there were drugs there. Where the hell was I supposed to go jerk!!! He has been in and out of prison his entire life. He can manipulate with the best but dont buy it. Big beware when I met him I owned a home and was financially secure. Now I have nothing just my daughter my dog and the 3 suitcases I left with. He will stick around until he has taken everything from you and when your sucked dry he will be gone.

  290. Timothy Bomar. Known alias : Tim. from Davenport IA and Lancaster. Tim and I had been dating for about 3 months things were great he told me he loved me (which should have been my first clue right? and he went back to Ohio to help his mom out after she had surgery. So I hadn’t heard from him in about a month which ticked me off anyway and then yesterday he emailed me on myspace and told me he had moved back to Ohio permanently. Without saying a word. He also said that he still loves me and that maybe some day we’ll be together again. I doubt that.

  291. kevin grazier. Known alias : kdogg. from kev holton. he is great in the begining. we have 2 kids together. we split up then he said he wanted to work things out. i leave my family which by the way are not talking to me because of him i move in with him then find out he found a new girlfriend and still lied to me after i found out. and i think all mothers can agree i got mad when he took my kids to her house and spent the nite and he couldnt believe i was mad. he talked down to me made me feel like shit. he is a cheater and a mental abuser so have caution with this one ladies. please no one deserves what he did except mayby his new girlfriend wich by the way knew about me

  292. christopher ryan qualls. Known alias : ryan. from zephyrhills fl. this isnt my ex it’s my friend lizzy’s ex. he’s a drug abuser broke bitch and a total loser! if you run into him throw rocks please! this guy put lizzy through so much bullshit its not even funny. he has hit her raped her got her addicted to drugs and all kinds of other really really bad shit. girls please…. run him over

  293. kurt spencer. from zephyrhills fl. kurt sucks as a person. he has no goals no morals and no good intentions. please do not be fooled by his “charm” (if you could even call it that) there isnt enough time or space to describe everything he put me through. i dont care who you are you deserve better than him. i know i do

  294. Terry Heiden. from Chicago Illinois. Terry is addicted to internet dirty movies. He actually used my dead grandmother’s laptop to look at those movies. I also caught him using my desktop to look at dirty movies. Shortly after that my computer crashed and I had to buy a new hard drive. He also is a huge pothead and spends most of his money on pot. He never would go out anywhere. He’d rather sit at home and smoke pot while watching cartoons.

  295. Patrick A. Ellenberger. from Apollo PA. He can’t keep his hands off other women! After so many years together he decided he needed a girlfriend half his age took the house all the money and even stuff that belonged to the kids! He cares about no one but himself! Stay away…FAR AWAY!

  296. Ken Longworth. Known alias : Ken. from Kenneth or William Calgary. He Cheats!Doesn’t pay support for any of his children. Abusive!!! Into drugs and dirty movies! Stay away far away from this so called man. If you cannot use birth control and don’t allow video cameras in the house. He will film you without your knowledge and post it on-line!!!!

  297. Eric Lee Morlong. from Fresno CA. HE”S A FU**ING CHEATER!!!!!! Don’t get pregnant by him, he’ll cheat on you while you are carringhis child.,

  298. Christopher J alcock. from winnipeg. Just stay away needy needy needy. Dumped me twice before my birthday Nov 4th and then came back after feb 14th tell you what kinda guy. Blames me for everything and called my younger sister to comfort him. Needy jerk. Has no back bone when it comes to support and being a real man he also is a little creepy close with his bro. This guy will take all you got and then leave also a comittment phob and he will cry about how much he has been hurt give it a rest I say. if you want a real man dont look here.

  299. Jovan. from Los Angeles. Really charming sweet guy at first. The PERFECT man… well look out! Total wanker! Manipulator liar cheater ego-centric ass and in a word… ASSHOLE!!!! Unless you like it when your boyfriend calls you a fucking bitch and if you like it when he throws heavy objects at you and if you like it when your boyfriend screams that he HATES YOU then STAY AWAY! He broke up with me when I stopped putting up with his shit then tried to beg me back and THEN the asshole started emailing my family members talking shit about me and how I dumped him for another guy!! Cheater liar manipulator heart breaker emotionally and mentally abusive PRICK!!!

  300. Shawn Shippee. Known alias : Shippee. from MASS. I want who ever is telling Shawn that I have posted here to e-mail me…! I did not post him to get even! I did not post him in a womans world because I wanted to deal with him knowing I was hurt! I thought it would be safe in a WOMANS world. I needed to talk and let things out. He conacted my son’s dad (They are great friends) about this. Who is the snitch that came in to men suck just to tell the man who hurt me things. It is woman like you that cause us to have these problems with UN FAITHFUL men. Are you sleeping with him now? He denies NOTHING that I wrote and if you want to be involved with him than you do that…you DESERVE him honey!!! So like I said..If you or anyone else wants to question my pain..than e-mail me!

  301. matt. from toronto on. put it this way… 3 years of disprespect no appreciation put downs 2 physical attacks alcoholism cheating (2wice that i know of) checks out other girls while we’re together all around treated me like dirt after i gave him everything and did EVERYTHING for him… men are all assholes

  302. Mark. Known alias : Giddy. . He made me fall deeply in love with him and messed with my head big time. Before I knew it he owned me and to me it was normal life…i still miss him but I’m learning to grow after all I’m better off without him:(

  303. Pete (Piet) Van Es. Known alias : jack ass. from Gainesville Texas / Lewisville. He’s a cheater a liar a woman beater and a thief not to mention a known drug addict

  304. Shawn Shippee. Known alias : Shippee or Shipster. from Haverhill Ma. He is an alcholic with a real dark side. He quit working when he moved in with me and cheated on me with a FAT FAT NASTY girl named BETSY (the cow) while I was at work. The worst part is I was her manager at Wendy’s. Has a violent record and has done lots of time…He will sleep with anything anywhere at anytime. He is now in Dover NH and has jus confessed while trying to get me back that he slept with his best friends girlfriend. Which ironicly enough I suspected he had done when we were together. He says no still saying that he just slept with her recently. He has some strong mental issues…stay away if you are smart.

  305. Robert J.Dubois. Known alias : Rob and Bob. from Buffalo MN. Nasty rotten attitude.Cheater and a big fat liar.Stay away from him if you are sane.Insane people will make a perfect match.He loves old wrinkled women.Warning to all the nice woman out there;Run the other way if you ever run itto this cheating pig.

  306. Terry Membrey. Known alias : scamking. from . Huge drug dealer heaps of $ and full of SHIT! Treated me like gold for years but I knew he was cheating with a speed skank as well. Addicted to heroin for a bit then back to speed coke and smoke. Lies cheats very insecure IMO b/c he cried when I moved but DID DIRTY SHIT TO ME ! BAD BAD BAD If u like drugs and cheaters u will like him but he is a loser n wankstick after the shit i went thru due to him.

  307. Muhammed Aldeen. Known alias : Moe. from Milpitas CA. Very charming and perfect man for the first couple of months. He is an extremist muslim abusive cheater and bipolar. A compulsive lier.Very cheap also

  308. Rocky G. Known alias : ROK. from Orange CA. He’s a USER Liar & Cheater. He is selfish & stubburn. He doesnt care about anybody but himself. He thinks he can play with girls minds & it works for him. Watch out– He’s nice looking but he’s the DEVIL!

  309. Mike Jones. from SALEMNH. He likes the DIRTY GIRLS better than real women. Women beware….he might seem sweet but he is a liar cheat and will tell you more excuses on why he did not call or why he could not make it!!

  310. matt coates. Known alias : coates. . fuck me i dno if he deserves 2 even be on this list after hearin about the rest of them what fuckin wankers. matt broke my heart but he’s a saint compared 2 these guys. so what fuckin hope does that give us women if even saints cant make us happy?

  311. Jeremiah Lynn Parker. Known alias : Jer. from Jeremy Tim”. He’s a pathalogical liar. He’s an adulterer. He ABANDONDED his wife daughter home job and all responsibilities. He’s telling everyone he’s divorced when HE’S STILL MARRIED! He’s addicted to adult movies and video games. He KILLED not 1 or 2 but TWELVE of my dogs because he was too busy jacking off to ault fliks and playing video games to feed / water or go home for 5 minutes a day. He’s been caught for PEEPING before but the cult he grew up in just hid it from everyone even though everyone knew about it. His new girlfriend JENNA has been told he’s STILL MARRIED but apparently she thinks he won’t do it to her. Sorry to tell you JENNA but he’s already cheating on you with a blonde! Stay away from this looser! He likes to hang out at rodeo’s and professes he’s a ‘GOOD CHRISTIAN’ but we all know that’s a lie! A real MAN wouldn’t have abandonded his wife / child / home / job etc! You poor women out there BEWARE! Unfortunately he’s good at lying in the beginning but all he is is a P****** addict a murderer an adulterer and an abandoner!

  312. Matthew Coates. Known alias : Coates. from Chelmsford/Loughborough. Weak. Arrogant. Wanker. He said he wanted to marry me and two weeks later told me he decided he didn’t love me anymore. Then proceeded to LAUGH at me along with his friends whenever i got upset that he’d BROKEN MY HEART. He isnt a cheater but he’s a complete fucking coward who clearly loves himself far too much.

  313. Christopher Johnson. Known alias : Mark. from Mount AIry NC. Warning ladies—–this creep has HERPES!!!
    That’s right he is infected!!!!! BE VERY CAREFUL!! ANd warn all your friends!! DOn’t let innocent women get it!!!

  314. Robert Mcgraw. Known alias : rob. from evansville IN. in the two years we were together he cheated on me twice and each time i forgave him. he hit me a few times and was a compulsive liar…warning stay away

  315. Travis Koch. Known alias : Big Worm and TK. from Brandon SD. He is a compulsive liar a CHEATER and couldnt commit to a pet let alone a women. He married me and 5 months later said he didnt love me anymore. The whole time getting his ROCKS OFF everywhere but our marital bed!

  316. Shawn Cobb. Known alias : roadkill. from Algonac MI. This man is a professional liar. If he gets backed into a corner and cant lie his way out he will turn the conversation completely around to make you look like your the one thats wrong. He is a player. He will lie about why he broke up with any ex’s and its all a lie. He CANT just be with one woman! He is on all kinds of perverse sex sites always looking for casual sex. He is a master munipulator. Ladies beware. Be VERY afraid. Its only a matter of time before this guy is spreading STDs all over the earth if hes not already.



  318. Alejandro R. Torres. Known alias : Alex or Alrotova. from Miami/Boca Raton FL. This guy takes the cake. I wasted 7 yrs of my life with a commitment phobe. Very critical has no idea about how to love a woman or be romantic. Massive trust issues with the world. In arguments will go out of his way to make you feel like you’re an idiot. Also he is an ex convict who only got where he is currently because of his Daddy.

  319. William Lawless. from Lafeyette LA. He is a pathological liar. He is constantly looking for the bigger better deal while in a relationship. He will even go so far as to propose but hes never serious. He waits until the girl moves away then dumps them when he finds something better.

  320. andy. Known alias : andrew. from Waxahachie TX. He is a liar he doesnt understand women hes too bossy and he just makes me really mad! I really loved him and that ment nothing at all to him.


  322. Jay Sall. Known alias : Jiz. from Miami FL. Stay away from this one. He will chew you up and spit you out and enjoy hurting you over and over financially emotionally – in any way possible!

  323. Trever. Known alias : Hotshot. from Babe Las Vegas. He’s a cheater!! He slept with my best friend in my bed on my birhtday. He has no moral beware he will cheat on you with someone close to you in any given time. And IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! He’s just a sex-freak (in a bad way).

  324. Nicholas. Known alias : Nicky. from London UK. He had sex with my best friend! when i found out he begged for my forgiveness when i forgave him and got back with him he told his friends that i had begged to get back with him and then he went on to cheat on me with another claiming to me all along that they were just friends and hiding any evidence that proved otherwise…
    He’s a good person and can treat a woman well but when he knows you feel secure that is when he will begin to hurt you slowly
    BE WARNED!!!!!!!!!!!

  325. nathan till. Known alias : nate. mean ol nate. from raleigh nc. we broke up and he moved out…everything good right?? no!! first off he moved out in the middle of the night while i was at work and he took a tv that he had given me for my birthday. he took the washer and dryer (no big suprise there seeing as how he took the tv) then to top it all of he had the power and water cut off before i had it switched to my name and without telling me! he just acted like a small child by getting all pissed off because i broke up with him. argh!!!

  326. manuel antonio figueroa. Known alias : tony. from seattle wa. you are the biggest f*cking loser i know. i want nothing more than to bash your face into a wall so you can experience the pain you have caused me. Your are nothing more than sorry mother f*cking broke ass b*tch that needs to lie to people in order to get thier money. you f*cking told me you loved me so i could “filler’ up” with gas and so i could feed your fucking face that looks like ass. I cant even describe the hate i have for you. it is not only hate but also pure disgust. I cant believe what an evil person you have turned into. i hope your venom never gets within inches of me like when i have let you back into my life the many times before. you dont deserve anything not even your family. i suggest you run back to las vegas before you use them too. youre a f*cking creep and no one even wants to be around you.

  327. Juan Diaz. Known alias : Tito. from Chicago IL. Untruthful selfish inconsiderate insulting and can’t commit…who has since contracted herpes since the split-sweet.He’s a cop shoulda new better.

  328. Urs Bachmann. from Zürich Switzerland. If you ever happen to visit Zürich DON’T hook up with Urs Bachmann. He had me writing about a thousand (no shit at least 200) short messages from my cell from abroad before he figured out that I’m not exciting enough for him…Geez and I was stupid enough to fall for him…He also gave me a bladder infection. So watch out!!!

  329. Danny Koons. from Orange CA. he was so sweet at first and told me everything that i wanted to hear. the problem is that he lied about it all and ended up cheating with someone else in the same class as us

  330. david velez. Known alias : boriquen. from puerto rico and houston. this guy was so sweet and loving that he has me tattooed on him twice!! then he goes to jail for 11 months i wit like the good girl that i am and not even a month later he tells me that he needs to get his life on track without me in the way. when everything is better we will live together again. next thing i know i’m treated like the other woman because he found another woman!!! he calls and says he’s coming over to be w/ me and the kids and doesn’t show. only comes over if he wants something. Bastard!!! watch out for him!!! he think he has game!!! SIKE!!