Desperate For Help. Online relationship gone wrong.

Desperate For Help. Online relationship gone wrong.

Dear Tracy, I’m desperate and I need your help. I’m madly in love with my boyfriend but he is in love with someone else. I am so scared I’m going to lose him and I don’t know what to do. I met on-line. We both play this game and we’ve been together for about two years now. We are married in the game but lately he’s fallen for someone else. He’s with her all the time and he barely has time for me anymore. Every time I log on he’s with her. I go off and craft his wool and come back and he’s still with her. It’s like he doesn’t need me anymore. Please help me!

Let me ask you a question …. did you fall and hit your head? Because that can be the only thing that might explain why you think you need this guy.

He doesn’t need YOU anymore? I think in reality you don’t need him! Why in the world would you want to stay with some jerk who treats you like that? DUH! DUMP HIM! I know it’s not easy but it’s clear this guy is a big fat jerk and you don’t need people like that in your life.


Let’s look at this in another light. You log onto the game, he is off with another girl so you go and do his crafting? Are you insane? Why do you let some man treat you like that? Shame on you! Dump him and get on with your life, it’s that simple.

You don’t have a real relationship. What you have is a fantasy that some guy in a game is great and wonderful and he is going to make all the things you are missing in your real-life better but in reality, he’s just a big fat jerk and only making you more unhappy and depressed.

Get away from this guy. Seriously.


You deserve better. You deserve to be happy. It’s time to start putting yourself first.

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Tracy Tegan
Tracy Tegan has spent the last seventeen years as a professional blogger about relationships, dating, and issues pertaining to gender equality at In her spare time, she writes romance novels that are available at Amazon.  You can check out Tracy Tegan's latest romance novel, Crescent Moon at Amazon.

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Desperate For Help. Online relationship gone wrong.

5 Responses

  2. Dont waste anymore of your time or energy on this LAME. No one deserves the treatment he’s giving you. There are plenty more fish in the sea. Now go catch one.

  4. get out n meet a real guy who you can hold hands with and look into his eyes or blow raspberries in his face! on line relationships are fine buut if you take it too seriously you could lose touch with the real things in life, little things that make a big difference!! and besides he sounds like a total loser and insensitive so and so. you can do better

  6. LOL. World of Warcraft? Jesus Christ, what is with that game? Omfg, my zorzic1895756897 is talking to another elf?!?! How dare he!! Pssh, if you want to craft something, go craft a hammer to beat his ass! Helllllllo? Of all the places you can go online to meet people, WoW? Geez. Do you even talk to him elsewhere? I know im sounding mean but come on, it is a little hard to take it seriously! Go find a REAL PERSON, not on a game. Come on. If you are relying on a video game to find you men, you will never have a healthy relationship. Ever.

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