Dating is never easy and we girls tend to obsess over how to get a guy’s attention without seeming like we are too needy or clingy. So what’s an easy way to be subtle and yet still make an effort to get a guy’s attention? Texting!
No matter how far away you are, messages can help you stay connected with your loved ones. Sometimes when you are around someone a lot, there are chances your relationship might get cliche and boring. Well, there is no denying that texting is the best and easiest medium to get your dry life back on track.
Especially for women who find it difficult to express themselves, texting is an excellent way to initiate a conversation with their men. Cut the crap short, save the long formal talks for face-to-face meetups, and focus on the small texts that can melt your man’s heart.
A cute little text can not only lighten your man’s mood but can also cheer up your conversation!
Tip: do not expect your man to always respond cheerfully; remember every man is different, and they too have mood swings.
Without any further ado, let’s get right to business:
Thinking Of Changing Your Friendship Into A Relationship?
Well, if you are on your initial level of converting your friendship into a relationship, a little flirtation can go a long way. But do not be over-giving. Boys tend to get scared if given too much affection. Hence make sure your texts are subtle and precise.
Some Good Ideas For Your Text:
Let’s take a look at some of the texts that can help you;
- Good night. Hope you sleep well.
- Just wanted to text you and let you know that I’m lying here on the bed thinking about you.
- I’ve been in bed for the past 20 minutes and I can’t stop thinking about you. Would love it if you were here with me.
- The way I feel about you is different; you give me butterflies. (insert butterfly emoji)
- Good night and sweet dreams (about me, of course).
- I don’t think anyone makes me laugh as much as you do.
It is always recommended to go for being natural. Natural texts always attract men. Don’t try to be fake with your text, be genuine, and honest with your text.
Morning Text Ideas:
How about in the morning? I mean sure you can text him “good morning,” but how boring is that? if you really want to get a guy’s attention you need to do something unexpected. Here are a few of my suggestions …
- I had the wildest dream last night and you were in it.
- Be honest. How long have you been waiting for a text from me? (grin emoji)
- Did you smile when you saw my name on your phone just now?
- Good morning, sexy.
- Zoom meetings all day – so dull (zzz emoji) I think the next meeting I should have is with your lips. (kiss emoji) ASAP!
Make sure your text makes her day. So try to be a more creative with your ideas.
Want To Be A Bit Flirty? Here Are Some Good Ideas:
Want to be a little flirty?
- I love it when my roommate isn’t home because then I don’t have to wear clothes.
- Netflix and chill? — Or you can get a little more creative with – I have Netflix on, but no one to chill with. Think you can help me out?
- Stop looking so hot in the pics you post. You’re killing me over here!
- It’s impossible to get any work done today because I can’t stop thinking about you.
- I’m so bored and not sure what to do with myself. Any ideas?
- What’s the hottest thing I can do for you when I see you?
- A kiss burns like 7 calories a minute, wanna work out?
Being flirty does not mean being cheap. So be classy with your text. Men like girls who show class while being flirty. So try to be flirty the way he likes you to be. Don’t look to desperate while texting.
When In A Relationship
Due to everyday conversations, there are high chances that sometimes you run out of topics to talk about or the chance that it can get unexciting and dull. The reason could be being around each other or being used to each other.
To make your relationship and conversations exciting, you need to make some effort to keep yourself and your partner involved and excited. You can do this by sending unexpected cute texts to make him feel wanted and important. There is a high chance your man will reciprocate the same kind of energy and actually be thankful to you for your efforts and attention.
Some Good Ideas:
Let’s take a look at some of the texts that can help you;
- “I feel a different kind of warmth when you are around. It is freezing here. I wish you were by my side.”
- “Good night, babe. Thank you for always making me feel so comfortable. Wish you were here so we could cuddle. I love you, always and forever.”
- “I really love you, honey. Every day I thank God for having you in my life. Sleep well.”
- “Good night to the love of my life. I can not wait to see you tomorrow. Sweet dreams, baby.”
- “I do not want to sound clingy, but every time I look at you or your picture, my heart skips a beat. Forever grateful to have you. Sleep well, my love.”
- “Have a good sleep, babe. I miss you so much.”
- “I would give up anything just to be around your arms tonight. I love you, and I miss you so much. Good night honey.”
- “Good night to the most handsome person that I know.”
- “Now that I lay in my bed, I kind of tore down just by the thought of losing you one day. I don’t know what I would do without you. I love you, babe. Sleep well.”
Well, in some lucky cases, boys love romantic gestures. If your man is more into humor or fun-related romance, these texts can help you:
- “I can not be happier about the fact that you are mine. You make me feel the safest. Love you, babe.”
- “Remember that day we drove to *insert the place name*, you put up *song name* on the aux? I think that’s our song. I can not stop listening to it.”
Stuck In A Long Distance? Read Ahead
Long-distance can suck at times. But with the right person, anyone is willing to work it out. Love can be challenging, and days can be tough, but a little cuteness can go a long way. Along with the texts mentioned above, look out for the following ones too.
Let’s take a look at some of the texts that can help you;
- “Only if you were right beside me, I’d hold you tight to me. I miss you so much.”
- “Every night, I think about you. I love you so much. Good night, babe.”
- “I hate the fact that you are so far away. Can’t wait to hug you again.”
- “Come meet me in my dreams, good night, baby.”
Don’t try to be too easy, just make him comfortable with your text. Make him feel that you are always seeking his company and you always wait for him. Men’s loves to be loyal to woman that shows them affection even if they are not by their side.
Bonus Texts? YES YES
Not in a relationship? In a relationship? Well, this part covers it all.
Let’s take a look at some of the texts that can help you;
- “Whenever I miss you, I read our old conversations, and I can’t help but smile.”
- “As I closed my eyes, I kept thinking about you.”
- “Good night! Sending lots of love and virtual hugs your way. Sleep well.”
Tip talk
While most of the texts might only look important to your man, these are equally important to you too. How? Well, when you open up to your man, he becomes comfortable and expressive towards you.
Texting can come a long way if done correctly. These contain emotional values that remain in the heart for a long time.
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>Whenever I miss you, I read our old conversations, and I can’t help but smile.
I used this last night! But with a bunch of extra emojis. Totally got his attention.
I tried a couple of these and it really worked great! I was nervous at first about texting my boyfriend but this helped alot. THX!