How to get a guy to notice you

How to get a guy to notice you

Dating is never easy. I think that’s something we all know. But there are things you can do to make it easier to get a guy’s attention. You can even get a guy’s attention without talking directly to him. So exactly what can you do to get a guy to notice you?

Confidence is Key


Men are attracted to girls who appear confident. Time and again you hear men say “confidence is sexy” and it’s true. It’s also the very reason why you see girls who are just average looking landing guys who are super hot. Men are attracted to women with confidence in themselves.

To boost your self-confidence you need to look in the mirror every single day and tell yourself something positive like I am beautiful. I am smart. I am fabulous. Repeat these affirmations once a day every day, and before you know it, you’ll actually start to believe it and you should because you are fabulous!

Smile girl

I know it’s not always easy to put a smile on your face but you’d be surprised just how much this one simple thing can attract a man. And there is science behind this as well. Research has shown that smiling makes people look healthier and more attractive.

Look him in the eye

When talking to a man, or anyone for that matter, you should always try and make direct eye contact. Eye contact not only shows off your confidence but shows that you are interested in what that person has to say.

Be Humble, Be Sweet and Be Positive

The last thing you want to focus on is how you speak and behave. The key to making a man more interested in you according to the experts is to be humble, be sweet and most of all be positive. Nobody wants to hang around a Debbie Downer or someone that is rude. So if you really want to attract a man and keep him interested is to be a good person. Always try and be nice and positive. As my grandmother used to say … if you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all!

Here is a funny little video I found on  YouTube about this very subject … 8 things guy are most attracted to and it’s from the viewpoint of a guy so it might be worth a quick watch.




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Tracy Tegan
Tracy Tegan has spent the last seventeen years as a professional blogger about relationships, dating, and issues pertaining to gender equality at In her spare time, she writes romance novels that are available at Amazon.  You can check out Tracy Tegan's latest romance novel, Crescent Moon at Amazon.

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