I was watching TV the other day when I heard a psychologist say, “Men fall in love with virtue not vaginas.” This doctor was giving advice to a single male looking for his wife and well, I won’t bother you with the details of the show I was watching because its really irrelevant to what I want to say. The real point of this article is that the women was right, men do fall in love with virtue, even if they don’t realize it.
When we meet a guy we like our hormones go wild and all to often we find ourselves in compromising positions. That is a huge mistake for so many reasons.
- #1 Men like a challenge and what bigger challenge than to try and get you to give it up?
- #2 Men may say they like a sexually free girl, but in the end, that’s not the kind of girl they want to take home to their mother.
So if you really want to get serious with a guy, stop giving it up on the first, second or third date. Give him a challenge, make him pursue you. I’m not saying you have to wait until you get married but do wait until you are in a serious relationship or as the Millionaire Matchmaker says, “No sex before monogamy”.