Stop Over-Researching

When you meet a great guy what’s the first thing you do? If you are like my friends you probably run to Facebook, Twitter and Instagram to check him out. Yes, I’m talking to you, the crazy lady Facebook stalking some guy.

facebook stalking

While it may be fun, the problem is when you do something like this, you can pre-judge a person unfairly before you even have your first date. You can end up with a tainted view of what could have been a great guy.


You know half of the fun of dating is getting to know someone new. So stop social media stalking the guy already and let things happen naturally. Take the time to get to know the guy before you judge him on some weird or random post on social media.

I know that Facebook stalking has really become the norm, but doing it could potentially cost you a great guy.

If you really want to have a great relationship with someone, SLOW DOWN and take your time. Enjoy the moments you spend together getting to know every little thing about him. If you do this, I promise you’ll be happier in the long run.

Dating isn’t easy … I know this. But being a creeper won’t make it any easier.



Stop Over-Researching

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