Your boyfriend go from wearing a trashy t-shirt and underwear with holes and then suddenly he starts to take care of himself? Then there is a good chance that you have a problem. If a man suddenly wants to look better, there is a reason why. People just don’t wake up one day and decide for no reason whatsoever to make a major change like that in their lives.
When men get comfortable n a relationship and let themselves go then overnight start taking better care of themselves, changes are he is about to replace you or at the very least is thinking about it.
There are two basic reasons why he suddenly cares about his looks … a) he is cheating on you or b) he is about to. He’s met some girl who has captured his attention and he is trying to look good for her. It doesn’t mean he has cheated on you, but it does men he is open to the idea.
So now the question becomes, what are you going to do about it? Obviously if he has cheated on you already then that’s an easy one … you dump him and move on. Once a cheater always a cheater. But if he hasn’t strayed yet then it’s not to late to spice up your love life and repair the damage to your relationship.
A great relationship takes work and that means you are going to have to put forth some effort. There are a lot of things you could do like cook him food you know he likes, send him dirty text messages while at work or take a picture of a pair of your sexy underwear with a note that says … looking forward to seeing you tonight. Get some cool whip and bring it to the bedroom and let him make a sundae out of your body or you can make one out of his! If your husband or boyfriend takes his lunch to work, wrap up a pair of edible undies as a desert with a little love note.
Just remember ladies, the problem in your relationship didn’t happen over night and it won’t be fixed that quickly either. It’s going to take time so remember to have patience and don’t give up. If you really love him and want it to work, keep trying, be creative and remember that your goal is to make him feel love, and special and when things are better, he’ll no doubt return the favor.
If you want to make your man happy then you are going to have to work at it! Show him there is no reason to look elsewhere because you are everything he will ever need.