Your boyfriend go from wearing a trashy t-shirt and underwear with holes, and then suddenly he starts to take care of himself?
Then there is a good chance that you have a problem. If a man suddenly wants to look better, there is a reason why. People just don’t wake up one day and decide to make a major change like that in their lives for no reason whatsoever.
When men get comfortable n a relationship and let themselves go, then overnight start taking better care of themselves, chances are he is about to replace you or at the very least is thinking about it.
There are two basic reasons why he suddenly cares about his looks … a) he is cheating on you, or b) he is about to. He’s met some girl who has captured his attention, and he is trying to look good for her. It doesn’t mean he has cheated on you, but it does mean he is open to the idea.
So now the question becomes, what are you going to do about it? If he has cheated on you already, that’s an easy one … you dump him and move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater. But if he hasn’t strayed yet, then it’s not to late to spice up your love life and repair the damage to your relationship.
A great relationship takes work, which means you will have to put forth some effort. There are a lot of things you could do like cook him food you know he likes, send him dirty text messages while at work or take a picture of a pair of your sexy underwear with a note that says … looking forward to seeing you tonight. Get some cool whip and bring it to the bedroom and let him make a sundae out of your body or you can make one out of his! If your husband or boyfriend takes his lunch to work, wrap up a pair of edible undies as a dessert with a little love note.
Just remember, ladies, the problem in your relationship didn’t happen overnight, and it won’t be fixed that quickly either. It’s going to take time so remember to have patience and don’t give up. If you really love him and want it to work, keep trying, be creative and remember that your goal is to make him feel loved and special, and when things are better, he’ll no doubt return the favor.
If you want to make your man happy, you will have to work at it! Show him there is no reason to look elsewhere because you are everything he will ever need.