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How do you know? Is he the one?

How do you know? Is he the one?

How do you know if a guy really likes you? I went on a date with a guy I really like but I’m not sure if he’s going to call. It’s been a few days now.

How do you know if the world will come to an end tomorrow or if you will win the lottery? Short answer, unless you are a psychic, you just can’t really be sure what’s going through that little head of his.

But I know that’s not what you wanted to hear so I’ll try and give you some advice, as best I can. How did the date go? Did you spend a lot of time talking about yourself? Did you talk about your ex boyfriend(s)? Did he talk about his ex girlfriends? Did either of your struggle to find something to say to each other? Did he do all the talking? Did you do all the talking? Did you have any sexual relations with him after the first date? Did he check out or flirt with others while on your date? Did you? Did he answer most of your questions with more than one or two words? Did he actually touch you? (like your hand or your hair or anything like that)

If you can answer yes to any of these things, the date probably didn’t go so well and you should move on.

But if the none of the above listed things happened then that’s probably good. Did your conversation flow well? Were the topics in your conversation unique and interesting? When you asked him questions about himself, did he actually answer in detail instead of the shortest answer he could possibly give?

If you can answer yes to all of these things then my guess is, the date went great and he’s probably just nervous to call you in a time frame he thinks may be considered to soon. However that being said, don’t be a fool and wait around by the phone. Get out there and find someone fabulous. You don’t need to wait for any men ….. if they want you bad enough, they will come to you!

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Tracy Tegan
Tracy Tegan has spent the last seventeen years as a professional blogger about relationships, dating, and issues pertaining to gender equality at In her spare time, she writes romance novels that are available at Amazon.  You can check out Tracy Tegan's latest romance novel, Crescent Moon at Amazon.

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2 Responses

  1. I agree, if a man wants to be with you – then he will. Call it fear or just plain stupidity on his part. Men are not programmed like women and we need to figure this out. Some men are more sensitive than others but for the most part, they are still men. Don’t wait for the call, get out and get moving.

  3. TRY not to sweat it some “men” are just plain no good,and maybe he is to scared to call so please don’t sit around waiting for him go out and live!!!!

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