I’ve been reading all the different posts on this site and I can’t help but wonder if you perhaps can help me with a problem. I’ve been having a lot of first dates that don’t seem to lead anywhere and I’m starting to think it’s probably because of a mistake or two or three that I’ve been making, especially after reading this site. So I wanted to write you and ask what you think the number one mistake a girl makes on a first date?
Oh my dear, the answer to that one is simple. The number one mistake a girl makes on a first date is talking about an ex-boyfriend, ex-boyfriends or past bad dates. Girls, learn to shut the hell up! Seriously. There is never, ever, ever, ever, ever a situation that you should ever discuss a former boyfriend or past date with someone else. Period. There are quite simply no exceptions to this rule. Ever. So stop doing it already. Even if just for one second – it just flat out is one second to many.
DO NOT EVER TALK ABOUT EX-BOYFRIENDS OR PAST DATES WITH OTHER MEN!!!!